While I agree there was definitely racism, I also agree with R1 calling MM...and Harry out for the "victim" thing. Both are true. IMO the tabloids are filth. But they ought to be treated like the trolls they are and ignored. Instead Meghan and Harry have become the story. I also can't help but see that the true beneficiary of all this mess is Andrew who announced just today that his top aide, just got a "legal settlement " in the y6 figure range, and is leaving the palace employment. She is going to be the CEO of Andrew's scheme to exploit new tech start ups...which he is being allowed to keep. even though it is no longer associated with the Palace. And if you look at it rationally, the whole time this Epstein business has been reaching it's hottest temperature, the DM and other tabloids have been ranting about Meghan and Harry.
The Sussexes want to live lives of purpose and make the world a better place. They want to inspire. But instead all the public is talking about is the mess. They can't accuse the Royal Family of pushing them out, when they were the ones who decided not to go to Balmoral. I get it. She was a new mother, so maybe she gets a pass on that.
But then to totally miss Christmas? Seven weeks abroad, on a break? That website and the other legal stuff they put in place didn't happen overnight. They have been working, and planning, and talking to William and Charles about this for months. So when someone in the Palace leaked it, they moved forward to get ahead of the leak.
But there has to be some give to this. Maybe some of the lesser Royals were rude to them, but they have Charles and Camilla, and William and Catherine for starters, and they need allies inside that family, not be burning bridges. Harry needs to man up. Grow up. Meghan cannot possibly be a stranger to racism, tabloids, the Royal Family or celebrity. And Harry has known from birth that William was the Heir to the Throne and Harry was the spare.
Whatever you may think of him, Harry in the past has always been more popular than his brother. So they were never going to be a "team." The way the Monarchy works is that at some point there would be an "orderly transition." Charles being regent in all but name, and William being his #2. The role they've been trying to carve out for Harry and Meghan was to emphasize their role in the Commonwealth.
Look. "Stepping back"and getting off the Queen's payroll is fine. Living part time in Canada is fine. Shit. Beatrice was living in NYC for a while. Earning income on their own is also fine. But if Harry and Meghan want to do damage control, and stop this trainwreck, they need to be seen with members of the Royal family in friendly casual settings...even if it's staged...and they need to go about TRADITIONAL Royal activities, like memorials, ribbon cuttings,and other stuff. They need to alternate the traditional role with their"more progressive" bullshit to calm this down.
And no more leaks or disastrous interviews. Please. Because right now, IMO their future depends on repairing this because their popularity and the good will they have generated is being pissed away, and their stock has taken a plunge. Meghan needs to understand the game that's being played and stop participating in it.
And her running to Canada right now is not a good look.Right now she should be seen visiting with Catherine and the kids wishing Kate Happy Birthday. Acute candid photo of Archie and Louis would sure do the trick. The worst thing she can do is help HArry burn his bridges with the family. Harry is not stable. He needs his father and his brother. He may not think he does, but he does. And Charles has always been there for him.