Gays who've always claimed to be : Ever go through a bicurious stage?

Yes, and got over it by kissing a girl.

OP, never. I'm 36, gay, and just always knew I liked males. Girls/women just never presented any type of turn-on or curiosity for me.

R1 I think the thing is is that I was really into it. It was very intense and very weird. She's a new friend so there's no history, I've never hung out with her outside of seeing her at the party over the weekend.

I have been too OP. I am 30. Ive been watching more and more hentai and straight porn. Ive had sex with women twice (prostitutes) as well as an FtM with a vagina. I would like to have more, but am worried about how it will influence my relationship with my soon to be husband.

Plus, I don’t know where to start finding women for sex (other than whores). I guess tindr?

I tried but the dick wouldn’t work. Emotionally I get it - but the dick wants what the dick wants.

Kissing women is gross. Fucking them is OK

I dated a girl in college and slept with her a couple of times. I loved making out with her. I got psychologically freaked out by it because I'd always thought of myself as gay. Had it not bothered me mentally, I definitely could have gone on dating both guys and girls.

If you are genuinely attracted to women then it’s not a phase and you’re probably bisexual. You just misidentified as gay and now think you have to fit into a label that doesn’t fit you.

Don't get tripped up on labels OP. Sometimes there are no answers. Just be kind to others and do what makes you happy.

I slept with your Mother OP. But only because I loved her.

How to Spot a Troll: Lesson #1:

Someone posts a provocative statement or question you know is basically false and you find they've posted a litany of contradicting opinions and identities.

How to Spot a Troll: Lesson #2

Someone posts a provocative statement or question you know is basically false and you find they've posted only NINE times, harmlessly. Because they're brand new here and they don't know any better.

NICE TRY, PEPE!

Nope.

Oh, really?

How did you decide that Datalounge was the perfect place to post a question-statement like this, OP, after just 6 or 7 posts dipping your toenail in the water?

You really want us to believe you're a gay-friendly gay making a casual attack on gay identity?

NICE TRY, PEPE. We've been heterosexistly harassed for years now and DL is still not conforming to your expectations.

Picture of OP:

^^Nice glasses.

It’s not unusual, OP. Ignore the maiden aunt brigade, clutching their V card like it’s food stamps.

Look, many men develop crushes. That it’s on a woman isn’t unusual, either. It may pass just as quickly. Don’t worry about it. We’re not all Kinsey Sixes. You may well be a Kinsey 5 but you can also have experiences and emotions that temporarily. Are you a Kinsey 1 or 2.

R13 what

Dummy says what?

Alcohol lowers your inhibitions, being drunk probably made you realize your attraction to women if you didn’t know already. It’s natural to think about something sexual if you rarely engage in it and want to more or was just exposed to it. You could be bi, pan or whatever but it isn’t a phase and something to explore more if you want to.

-10/10

[quote]If you are genuinely attracted to women then it’s not a phase and you’re probably bisexual. You just misidentified as gay and now think you have to fit into a label that doesn’t fit you.

r8, agree with this.