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Are there any other Xennials on here?

I believe this mini group ranges from 1977 to 1984?

I was born in 1979, so I'm a cusper. I'm wondering if there are others here?

by Anonymousreply 196December 30, 2020 12:39 PM

1983 here.

by Anonymousreply 1November 27, 2019 8:49 PM

I'm another '83 baby.

by Anonymousreply 2November 27, 2019 8:50 PM

We are lurking. ‘82

by Anonymousreply 3November 27, 2019 8:59 PM

77 Here

by Anonymousreply 4November 27, 2019 9:00 PM

And what's associate with this group, aside from d.o.b?

by Anonymousreply 5November 27, 2019 9:08 PM

78 here.

by Anonymousreply 6November 27, 2019 9:10 PM

ME, BITCHES!!

by Anonymousreply 7November 27, 2019 9:11 PM

[quote]And what's associate with this group, aside from d.o.b?

We share some similarities and preferences with both Gen X and Millennials.

by Anonymousreply 8November 27, 2019 9:11 PM

R5, a '90s teenhood.

by Anonymousreply 9November 27, 2019 9:13 PM

1980 here. Are we superior to Millennials AND Gen X? Yay we get to hate everyone!

by Anonymousreply 10November 27, 2019 9:14 PM

Analog childhood, digital adulthood. Here.

by Anonymousreply 11November 27, 2019 9:16 PM

OP, if the range is "1977 to 1984" how does your being born in 1979 make you a "cusper"? You're practically in the middle of that.

by Anonymousreply 12November 27, 2019 9:19 PM

[quote]how does your being born in 1979 make you a "cusper"? You're practically in the middle of that.

“Cusper” in the sense of on the cusp of Gen X and Millennials .

by Anonymousreply 13November 27, 2019 9:26 PM

I’m ‘78 and always felt I had more in common with Gen Xers, although I believe I’m more computer and tech savvy than a lot of Millennials.

Which generation do the rest of you feel you mostly connect with more?

by Anonymousreply 14November 27, 2019 9:28 PM

83, here. I sometimes can't stand young millennia. Self entitled anxiety ridden generation. We 90s teens are not as insufferable as the ones that came of age during the Obama years. We remember a time when society wasn't so pc. Not everyone had a cellphone and there were no social media sites like Twitter and Instagram. We learned how to interact with people the old fashion way.I sometimes find myself relating to older people the boomers.

by Anonymousreply 15November 27, 2019 9:35 PM

dat moi! I’m a Xennial? can I still be surly and jaded?

by Anonymousreply 16November 27, 2019 9:37 PM

'79. I relate quite strongly to the general description of Xennials.

by Anonymousreply 17November 27, 2019 9:43 PM

I’m an sr. X. My good friend is an Xenial. We are very common in many ways, the biggest divide is TV, really. A lot of the shows he watched came out when I had zero interest in Tv.

by Anonymousreply 18November 27, 2019 9:54 PM

I’m an sr. X. My good friend is an Xenial. We are very common in many ways, the biggest divide is TV, really. A lot of the shows he watched came out when I had zero interest in Tv.

by Anonymousreply 19November 27, 2019 9:54 PM

Agreed, R15. We got screwed over on both ends.

by Anonymousreply 20November 27, 2019 10:02 PM

Did all your parents use blow? That might be the culprit behind all the autism: cocaine.

by Anonymousreply 21November 27, 2019 10:14 PM

1980 for me. It seems like a weird year when I see the media/music from it. There was a strong 70s funk all over everything still and nothing associated with the 80s had really started yet.

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by Anonymousreply 22November 27, 2019 10:17 PM

From what I've been told, '70s culture prevailed until at least '86.

by Anonymousreply 23November 27, 2019 10:19 PM

Reagan seemed so Presidential, compared to today, when I think back to seeing him on TV in the mid-80s as a kid.

I think the Challenger disaster was probably the first major news “event” I can remember from childhood.

by Anonymousreply 24November 27, 2019 10:22 PM

Yeah, Challenger for me, too. Grade 3 or 4. I still have a strong memory of our teacher bursting out crying when she told us.

by Anonymousreply 25November 27, 2019 10:24 PM

'79 and a gen Xer. (Or we used to say, gen y.)

by Anonymousreply 26November 27, 2019 10:25 PM

R15, I don't dislike younger millennials or the younger generation, although there is definitely a disconnect with them on pop cultural matters and approach to things. At least I feel that way when I lurk on Reddit, lol. Also, I hate Twitter -- life was better before Twitter.

by Anonymousreply 27November 27, 2019 10:42 PM

Before Google, you had to figure out a way to find the answers to your questions.

by Anonymousreply 28November 27, 2019 10:49 PM

88 here. 1888, though

by Anonymousreply 29November 27, 2019 10:54 PM

1981 here. We had Atari as kids and Super Nintendo. What a time to be alive!

by Anonymousreply 30November 27, 2019 11:00 PM

I think you all are named “the Oregon trail”

by Anonymousreply 31November 27, 2019 11:22 PM

Hello Mayor Pete R7, you're our posterboy!

by Anonymousreply 32November 27, 2019 11:22 PM

Xennials...another "Generation Jones" like thing that people desperately keep trying to make happen.

by Anonymousreply 33November 27, 2019 11:24 PM

1982. You are not alone, OP. Though I always preferred the term Vanguard Millennial. Our cynical liberal 90s ways will not be seen again.

by Anonymousreply 34November 27, 2019 11:25 PM

R33 It's happening, AyMami.

by Anonymousreply 35November 27, 2019 11:26 PM

[quote] Before Google, you had to figure out a way to find the answers to your questions.

I actually don't miss that -- or encyclopedias. I do somewhat miss the quaintness of using the library card catalogs, although that must have been such a pain in the ass for librarians to maintain.

by Anonymousreply 36November 27, 2019 11:34 PM

R27. They are very self absorbed. Always me altitude. Selfish and self centered. I have a young millennial sister and sometimes I just want to lunch her. They think they know it all. At least we were raised to ask questions and to learn from others.

by Anonymousreply 37November 27, 2019 11:34 PM

1980 here. I almost share a birthday with Christina Ricci who is peak Xennial.

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by Anonymousreply 38November 28, 2019 12:03 AM

R38, love her.

by Anonymousreply 39November 28, 2019 1:14 AM

Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been so hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? What's your problem? I mean really, what's your damn problem?

by Anonymousreply 40November 28, 2019 1:43 AM

I think we were the last group of adolescents to have normal and well-adjusted sexual development, because we didn’t have easy access to porn, if at all.

I know at least for me, my fantasies all developed around real people that I knew and interacted with, or things I read, or just came from my imagination.

I think the later Millennials who had ready access to internet porn seem to have more problems with their development and adjustment to real-life experiences.

by Anonymousreply 41November 28, 2019 2:05 AM

Are you not gay, though? AIDS had no effect on your sexual development?

by Anonymousreply 42November 28, 2019 2:10 AM

December 82 here.

by Anonymousreply 43November 28, 2019 2:11 AM

[quote]Are you not gay, though? AIDS had no effect on your sexual development?

No, not really. I knew to always use condoms.

by Anonymousreply 44November 28, 2019 2:19 AM

So your mom was home to cook lunch for you two days a week, and you only look at your iPhone 6 hours a day?

by Anonymousreply 45November 28, 2019 2:21 AM

Im a Gen X born in 74 but my young brother is from 1984 and I agree you guys have a distinctive feature of being something between generations with traces both.

by Anonymousreply 46November 28, 2019 2:31 AM

1982 here. I looked up to gen x but also used to have optimism too, which I've read as a general descriptor of xennials. no longer have the optimism really...

by Anonymousreply 47November 28, 2019 2:37 AM

[quote] From what I've been told, '70s culture prevailed until at least '86.

When I was a small child, there was still the last of those humongous, '70s-style clunker cars still mulling around on the road. You don't see much of that anymore.

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by Anonymousreply 48November 28, 2019 2:40 AM

[quote]I’m ‘78 and always felt I had more in common with Gen Xers, although I believe I’m more computer and tech savvy than a lot of Millennials.

Me too, R14. And ONE space after a period.

by Anonymousreply 49November 28, 2019 2:43 AM

December 82 here. My brother was born in 85 and I don’t think we’re different. Same childhood experiences - both 90s kids. I don’t remember much of the 80s and what I do remember is cartoons. My boomer mom was much more protective of us than my gen x older sister. We were spoiled and overprotected. I never played Oregon Trail or knew anyone who did. Played Sega, POGS and begged my mom for a beeper and she said only drug dealers had beepers. Didn’t get a cell until I was 18. I think that social media is the cause of our differences. I do think it has changed the way young people interact with their peers and the world. I can’t imagine how different my childhood would have been with a smartphone in my hand.

by Anonymousreply 50November 28, 2019 2:50 AM

Born in 1982. I didn't get a cell phone until I was 18, either

by Anonymousreply 51November 28, 2019 2:55 AM

The Gen Xers were badly affected by the terrible early-90’s economy under George Bush, especially those in college or starting out looking for jobs at that time.

We Xennials were fortunate to come of age in the more optimistic Clinton years.

by Anonymousreply 52November 28, 2019 2:56 AM

Wow, I had no idea there were even this many of us here!

by Anonymousreply 53November 28, 2019 3:05 AM

There are probably some Depression era babies masquerading as Xennials. Don't show 'em your dick.

by Anonymousreply 54November 28, 2019 3:11 AM

Does Catherine Zeta-Jones count as an Xennial?

by Anonymousreply 55November 28, 2019 5:16 AM

R55 I'm not sure she's old enough

by Anonymousreply 56November 28, 2019 5:37 AM

How rude, R55.

I'm Gen Z!

by Anonymousreply 57November 28, 2019 5:47 AM

I was babysat by a Xennial.

by Anonymousreply 58November 28, 2019 5:48 AM

What will they call the millennial/Gen Z cuspers?

by Anonymousreply 59November 28, 2019 9:04 AM

It depends on when they settle on the dividing lines. Most online rags are dying to start talking about what Gen Zs cultural impact will be and who they are as a generalized whole. But that means pushing back the line to as early as 95 or 97, so the eldest of the group can be analyzed as adults. That compacts Millennials into 13 or 15 year generational span which is stupid though.

by Anonymousreply 60November 28, 2019 10:02 AM

[quote] AIDS had no effect on your sexual development?

Speaking for myself, not as much as people even just a decade older. By the time I came of sexual age, the narrative existed that HIV was no longer a death sentence and there was education about how it was contracted. Everything was condoms, condoms, condoms -- even oral (I remember flavored condoms). So although it still loomed like a spooky shadow, there wasn't the frightening uncertainty of a decade prior.

by Anonymousreply 61November 28, 2019 4:07 PM

[quote] AIDS had no effect on your sexual development?

Speaking for myself, not as much as people even just a decade older. By the time I came of sexual age, the narrative existed that HIV was no longer a death sentence and there was education about how it was contracted. Everything was condoms, condoms, condoms -- even oral (I remember flavored condoms). So although it still loomed like a spooky shadow, there wasn't the frightening uncertainty of a decade prior.

by Anonymousreply 62November 28, 2019 4:07 PM

R30 You sound cute, and I admire your enthusiasm. Atari was super cool!

by Anonymousreply 63November 28, 2019 4:32 PM

The Xennial dream team <3 As a millennial, these 4 were my idols! RIP Ashleigh Aston Moore

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by Anonymousreply 64November 29, 2019 1:33 AM

R64, no Devon Sawa?

by Anonymousreply 65November 29, 2019 8:12 AM

r65 He was more a crush than an idol, especially the pond scene. Kind of sad to think WHET all of them? Britney, Xtina, Beyonce, and Kim K are the Xennial royalty these days.

by Anonymousreply 66November 29, 2019 6:53 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 67September 13, 2020 3:59 AM

Is this a real term people use? I was born in 1980 and the millennials all tell me I’m Gen X. I did love Singles as a kid and I remember when Cobain died

by Anonymousreply 68September 13, 2020 4:02 AM

Didn't think much about this label until I saw one humongous thread on here about Rick Astley, and then another huge thread about Katy Perry, and then realized oh man, I can't relate to either one of those.

by Anonymousreply 69September 13, 2020 4:07 AM

R68, we always have held, in my country at least, that up to and including 1981 is Generation X. Then we referred to the following generations, say 1982-1996 or so as Generation Y. The millenials were those born a few years either side of the Millenium.

I notice a lot of Americans refer to my generation (I was born 1981, so always been an X as far as I knew) as being Millenials, which I find really weird.

by Anonymousreply 70September 13, 2020 4:09 AM

January 1981 here. Always felt more like I was a Gen X than Millenial.

by Anonymousreply 71September 13, 2020 4:10 AM

R70 I generally feel more like a Gen Xer. A little apathetic, always expecting the worst. When I see the demands millennials make at work- that they just have these expectations that their office will be open to listening to their ideas and their demands, I’m in awe. I think it’s great but it feels like a very different generation to me.

by Anonymousreply 72September 13, 2020 4:12 AM

I feel it should be:

1945-1962 - Baby Boomers 1963-1980 - Gen X 1981-1999 - Millennials 2000-present - Gen Z

by Anonymousreply 73September 13, 2020 4:21 AM

I'm late 76 & identify as Xennial.

by Anonymousreply 74September 13, 2020 4:30 AM

1980 here.

I can believe I’m 40.

by Anonymousreply 75September 13, 2020 4:31 AM

R73 millennial was never supposed to refer to those born at the end of the century but I can understand why that would make more sense

by Anonymousreply 76September 13, 2020 4:32 AM

There was a buzefeed listicle that started Xennial at 75. I'm 76 & identified with each point.

by Anonymousreply 77September 13, 2020 4:33 AM

r76 Millennial was originally supposed to be those coming of age at the turn of the millennium, this would have included the Xennials.

by Anonymousreply 78September 13, 2020 4:34 AM

R78 I can see why it would include those turning 18-21 (so born in 77-80) but most people these days seem to set the cut off at 84. I like this idea of an Xennial gen though

by Anonymousreply 79September 13, 2020 4:37 AM

Yeah 1982

by Anonymousreply 80September 13, 2020 4:41 AM

[quote] I like this idea of an Xennial gen though

So do I as it seems like a very rational group compared to extremes on both ends.

by Anonymousreply 81September 13, 2020 4:55 AM

I definitely think the Xennial category is appropriate and fits for those of us born at the intersection of the two macro generations.

by Anonymousreply 82September 13, 2020 4:57 AM

I definitely feel like those of us born at the beginning of the 80s are very different from other millennials. Computers and cell phones weren’t a huge part of my life until I was around 23 or 24. Life was different for us much more inncocent

by Anonymousreply 83September 13, 2020 4:59 AM

So how old are you bitches?

by Anonymousreply 84September 13, 2020 5:04 AM

Like 35 to 45 R84

by Anonymousreply 85September 13, 2020 5:11 AM

I'm inclined to think the Xennials can be summed up as those whose high school years were spent entirely in the 1990s. So that would start the range at those born about 1976 (1990-1994) to about 1982 (1996-2000), give or take a year. I think those born in the mid-80s are more or less solidly Millennials.

by Anonymousreply 86September 13, 2020 5:18 AM

1982 and I have to ask my millennial friends what half the shit they say means.

by Anonymousreply 87September 13, 2020 5:23 AM

So is this better?

1945 - 1963 (Baby Boomers),

1964 - 1982 (Gen X),

1983 - 1996 (Millennial),

1997 - today (Gen Z),

by Anonymousreply 88September 13, 2020 5:26 AM

If you grew up with some of that rusting, tetanal playground equipment just right before it got replaced with rubber and mulch, you're probably an Xennial.

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by Anonymousreply 89September 13, 2020 5:27 AM

Beyonce, Britney, Kim, Paris Hilton too. These are the figures who define the Xennial generation.

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by Anonymousreply 90September 13, 2020 5:32 AM

R90

Most icons of generations tend to be older than the generations that admire them. Brando, Presley, James Dean and Marilyn Monroe were Silent Gen but became associated with Baby Boomers.

Madonna, Prince and Michael Jackson and most of the New Wave acts are Baby Boomers but define Gen X.

As you named, Britney, Beyonce and Kim are Xennials. So is Usher, Kanye and Christina Aguilera. But they are considered definitive of the Millennial generation.

by Anonymousreply 91September 13, 2020 5:35 AM

The ascendant political generation.

by Anonymousreply 92September 13, 2020 5:51 AM

Were any of you gurls info soaps as a kid? I was. I used to read soap opera digests in the grocery store checkout line like a fiend. My mother would buy them for me on special occasions.

I remember AOL chat rooms in middle school.

I remember the newspaper having tv listings (like the big grid thing) and looking at them to see what the synopses were of the shows I watched.

Remember the challenger exploding with the teacher on board.

Remember watching the OJ Simpson verdict during high school (they wheeled a tv into the classroom).

Remember thinking the musical RENT was the best thing I had ever seen.

Remember Kurt Cobain dying but not being that sad because I didn’t love Nirvana like the edgier grunge kids who wore flannels.

Remember when the Real World started and thinking it was so fascinating and Eric Nies was so hot.

Remember calling my friends on the landline.

Remember answering machines and recording the outgoing message and thinking it was really cool.

Remember renting movies (VHS obviously) and trying to sneak any movie that had anything gay in it by my parents.

Remember recording things on the VCR and how it seemed like the end of the f’ing world if something got accidentally taped over.

Remember going to the first Starbucks that opened in DC and thinking it was so unbelievably cool. And I didn’t even drink coffee yet.

Remember watching The Wonder Years with my mom.

Those are some 2am memories fellow xennials.

Anyone else?

by Anonymousreply 93September 13, 2020 6:01 AM

You rang?

by Anonymousreply 94September 13, 2020 6:12 AM

Great post R93

I loved soaps as a kid - was 8 or 9 watching Santa Barbara and Days with my mom. The first season of the Real World is a fun memory too. The photoshoot where Nies and the model practically has sex because they were getting so worked up was hot.

by Anonymousreply 95September 13, 2020 6:15 AM

Weren't we considered "Gen Y" at some point before Millenials were a thing?

by Anonymousreply 96September 13, 2020 6:18 AM

I loved your post, r93 and relate to nearly everything. I even watched soaps too. When I was in junior high (early 90s), I would feign sickness a lot so I could stay home and watch All My Children and One Life to Live (and Loving). I also loved looking at the Calendar section of the paper (L.A. Times in my case) and seeing the amazing movie poster artwork for all the movies that were being released that week, along with studying the TV listings and looking forward to whatever ripped from the headlines TV movie that was premiering that week (what happened to those?!). Same memory of the O.J. verdict being shown on a TV in my high school class room. The first few seasons of The Real World were a revelation and I think Eric Nies was definitely a first crush for many Xennials in particular (on TRW and on The Grind). There's so much that I could go on and on.

by Anonymousreply 97September 13, 2020 6:28 AM

[quote] I like this idea of an Xennial gen though

It serves as a nice bridge between one group who purports to have grown up semi-orphaned, swimming in rivers of lava and another group who had helicopters swirling above their every burp.

by Anonymousreply 98September 13, 2020 6:37 AM

Xennials even had our own soap: Swans Crossing! Does anyone remember that? Sarah Michelle Gellar was on it.

by Anonymousreply 99September 13, 2020 6:37 AM

R99, I loved Swan's Crossing.

by Anonymousreply 100September 13, 2020 6:38 AM

r96 Yes, then they extended Gen X & started Millennial in the 80's.

by Anonymousreply 101September 13, 2020 6:46 AM

[quote]Remember when the Real World started and thinking it was so fascinating and Eric Nies was so hot.

I thought he was hot then too. Now I think he's a cheeseball.

by Anonymousreply 102September 13, 2020 6:49 AM

Didn't Eric Nies have workout videos at tome point?

by Anonymousreply 103September 13, 2020 6:49 AM

1977 - I find the millenials at work annoying and entitled. They take credit for inventing EVERYTHING...bitch, it was probably invented by a Boomer and you just happen to know how to use it. A few months back, one girl here in Romania said "you should thank us millennials for bringing avocados to the supermarkets". Like ok dingbat, the revolution which allowed foreign corporations to open supermarkets here in the first place was fought by Boomers. Another said that it is not smart to hire non-Millenials or Gen Z because they don't know how to use "important" social media like TikTok and Twitter.

by Anonymousreply 104September 13, 2020 6:51 AM

Troop Beverly Hills was a hardcore Xennial kid film

by Anonymousreply 105September 13, 2020 6:51 AM

r88 Gen Z is not until today. Gen Z ends at 2012. I'm not sure if the generation starting 2013 has been officially named yet.

by Anonymousreply 106September 13, 2020 6:51 AM

So millennials are only a 13 year generation R88?

by Anonymousreply 107September 13, 2020 6:58 AM

R99 also we had the teen soap Fifteen, on Nickelodeon...where Ryan Reynolds got his start

by Anonymousreply 108September 13, 2020 7:02 AM

Is Andy Cohen an Xennial?

by Anonymousreply 109September 13, 2020 7:22 AM

Andy Cohen is in his 50's - he is a hard core Gen Xer

by Anonymousreply 110September 13, 2020 7:29 AM

Andy Cohen is a member of the Silent Generation.

by Anonymousreply 111September 13, 2020 7:35 AM

1982

And Today it seems our society is starting to look like 1984

by Anonymousreply 112September 13, 2020 7:39 AM

R108, Fifteen! My grungy friends and I used to watch that religiously. Maybe because it was filmed in BC and lived in Seattle? It was so bad-good. I never would have figured the little brother would become a successful anti-superhero.

by Anonymousreply 113September 13, 2020 7:53 AM

Did anyone else enjoy watching “Are you afraid of the dark?”?

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by Anonymousreply 114September 13, 2020 8:03 AM

Does anyone remember watching Today's Special with the gay mannequin when Nickelodeon came out.

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by Anonymousreply 115September 13, 2020 8:07 AM

The generational lines are vague. There is never clear consensus.

by Anonymousreply 116September 13, 2020 8:10 AM

I masturbated to Jordan Catalano once or twice as an angsty 90's teen alone in my suburban bedroom.

My So Called Life was the ultimate Xennial show. Even the gay characters were ok considering it was decades ago.

by Anonymousreply 117September 13, 2020 8:14 AM

What is the pube shaving situation in this group?

by Anonymousreply 118September 13, 2020 8:19 AM

r118 Well maintained.

by Anonymousreply 119September 13, 2020 8:22 AM

R118 I trim

by Anonymousreply 120September 13, 2020 8:27 AM

Body hair was all bad for the Xennial generation. Clean shaven and no chest hair was at least the WeHo look here. I trim my bush to like a crew cut, smooth balls.

by Anonymousreply 121September 13, 2020 8:34 AM

Frosted bleached blond tips was another look.

by Anonymousreply 122September 13, 2020 8:35 AM

Puka shell necklaces

by Anonymousreply 123September 13, 2020 8:38 AM

I'm from 84 and share nothing with Gen-X. My idols growing up and as a teen were grown up Gen-Xers making music etc. I have all in common with Millennials. When I speak with a GenX they were the ones I looked up to not what I was.

by Anonymousreply 124September 13, 2020 8:46 AM

124 You're a millennial.

by Anonymousreply 125September 13, 2020 8:51 AM

I used to rock the hell out of pouch shell necklaces with a spray tan and blinding white teeth. It was the easy 2000's

by Anonymousreply 126September 13, 2020 9:01 AM

[quote] What is the pube shaving situation in this group?

Shaving etc wasn't really a thing unless you were on a swim team.

by Anonymousreply 127September 13, 2020 12:39 PM

Oh my god FIFTEEN! I hadn’t thought about that in so long!

I used to get creeped out by Are you Afraid of the Dark.

I remember when Basic Instinct released and it was a big deal because it was so sexual. Gasp. I think my mom eventually rented it and I tried to listen from upstairs while she watched it.

Didn’t see actual porn until college.

by Anonymousreply 128September 13, 2020 2:34 PM

I loved Swan’s Crossing and was really bummed as a kid there was no resolution

by Anonymousreply 129September 13, 2020 3:21 PM

Aah, so that's what Xennial means. 1980 here.

by Anonymousreply 130September 13, 2020 4:44 PM

Loved Nickelodeon. I remember shows like The Adventures of Pete and Pete, Parker Lewis Can't Lose, Married with Children all seemed so edgy at the time. I also remember watching Hey Dude and Saved by the Bell.

by Anonymousreply 131September 13, 2020 4:46 PM

1977 here.

by Anonymousreply 132September 13, 2020 4:47 PM

Never watched Friends or Seinfeld, and don't remember anyone my age watching them either.

by Anonymousreply 133September 13, 2020 4:47 PM

1980. R127 - I was a competitive swimmer in HS and we would have shave parties where you shaved everything before a swim meet. Pubes, arms, legs - everything - you get the point, except for hair on head and then wore caps.

by Anonymousreply 134September 13, 2020 4:54 PM

Amd Terminator II. Don't forget Terminator II. sSaw it 7 times in a cinema that wasn't in a multiplex.

by Anonymousreply 135September 13, 2020 5:04 PM

I saw Terminator 2 in the theaters in early middle school (summer before 6th grade) with my grandma and I thought she was so cool for taking me. The soundtrack was everything. G & R's "You Could Be Mine"..."With your bitch slap rappin, And your cocaine tongue, You get nuthin' done". Thanks for that throwback and happy memory.

by Anonymousreply 136September 13, 2020 5:08 PM

I remember getting this shit everywhere around the house.

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by Anonymousreply 137September 13, 2020 5:09 PM

R131 yes my sister and I loved watching it. Thanks for mentioning it.

When we were a bit older BH902010

Just wondering what’s the earliest cartoons you fellow xennial can remember?

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by Anonymousreply 138September 13, 2020 5:16 PM

My parents wouldn't let me watch 90210 in the beginning. You are probably a true Xennial if you were in the age range to watch both the OG 90210 and the CW reboot in the mid to late 2000's. I feel like The OC was really the 90210 for the Xennial generation - the cast was all our age or around there..

by Anonymousreply 139September 13, 2020 5:20 PM

R139 The Simpsons of course but the first cartoon I fell in love with was The Real Ghostbusters.

by Anonymousreply 140September 13, 2020 5:28 PM

This thread is so nostalgic I love it.

Thought Hey Dude was hilarious - especially that hot guy who was the lead. I remember thinking he was so handsome and lol funny.

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by Anonymousreply 141September 13, 2020 5:28 PM

There's a poster whose handle is "Xennial" so I'm guessing he is one

by Anonymousreply 142September 13, 2020 5:29 PM

R141 Yes David Lascher was one of my first crushes. He was also on Blossom and later Sabrina and Clueless which were part of the TGIF block.

by Anonymousreply 143September 13, 2020 5:33 PM

That need for being special scream "Millennial", trying to separate yourself from such a "uncool" generation. You are a millennial, get over it.

by Anonymousreply 144September 13, 2020 5:44 PM

Xennials - do you remember the OG Lazer Tag? This shit looked so amazing in the commercials and it sucked it real life! It was impossible to get when it was released for Xmas and my parents put word out with friends all over the country to try to get it for me, which they did. I was the only kid in the neighborhood who had it, so it was no fun at all and it didn't work well. I just rematched the 1986 commercial and still looks badass.

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by Anonymousreply 145September 13, 2020 5:52 PM

This thread is amazing b/c you are either gen x or millennial that it's so fun revisit all of this. R141 - David Lascher was awesome and I loved "Hey Dude". Even as a little gay boy, I still remember staring at his bulge. Same with Jason Priestly when he was on that show before 90210 where they lived with a nun who was like a latina woman? I can't remember what it was. Anyway, I loved staring at bulges.

by Anonymousreply 146September 13, 2020 5:56 PM

Xennials are nick kids, millennials are Disney Xennials are aol, millennials MySpace

by Anonymousreply 147September 13, 2020 6:12 PM

1979 here. I think we were probably the only teen group that had pagers before cell phones became a thing. Every one of my friends in junior and senior year of hs had them, and then a few years later they were obsolete.

And yes, while The Simpsons are the definitive cartoon for us (seeing as we are also the Fox generation) the first big one for me as a little gayling was Beverly Hills Teens. Jem could never reach these glamorous heights.

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by Anonymousreply 148September 13, 2020 6:14 PM

[quote]Britney, Xtina, Beyonce, and Kim K are the Xennial royalty these days.

How embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 149September 13, 2020 6:31 PM

‘83 here, as well.

Definitely remember when Nickelodeon was mostly strange Canadian kids’ shows before it transitioned to Rugrats, Doug, Clarissa, etc.

I liked SNICK (Saturday night Nickelodeon). ‘Roundhouse’ was a favorite solely because of the cute guys who could dance and do backflips.

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by Anonymousreply 150September 13, 2020 7:03 PM

[quote]As you named, Britney, Beyonce and Kim are Xennials. So is Usher, Kanye and Christina Aguilera. But they are considered definitive of the Millennial generation.

The prominent artists when Xennials were coming of age were people like Alanis Morissette, TLC, Pearl Jam, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Counting Crows, Mariah Carey, Dave Matthews, Boys II Men, among others.

by Anonymousreply 151September 13, 2020 7:05 PM

Oh, and AXL:

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by Anonymousreply 152September 13, 2020 8:00 PM

Xennials? Thanks. I never felt part of my older brothers group, Generation X - nor my younger sisters' Millennials co-hort. Xennials fits us perfectly to me.

by Anonymousreply 153September 13, 2020 8:05 PM

R153, I'm '83, and my partner is '80, and this category makes more sense to us than being of two different gens.

by Anonymousreply 154September 13, 2020 8:08 PM

R133 the first season of Friends aired opposite My So Called Life which all of my friends were watching.

R151 yes all of those plus Barenaked Ladies for those of us near the Canadian border. Great nostalgia here

by Anonymousreply 155September 13, 2020 8:23 PM

Was anyone a fan of Party of Five? A lot of stars came out of that show but I feel like the show itself isn't talked about as much.

by Anonymousreply 156September 13, 2020 8:33 PM

[quote]Same memory of the O.J. verdict being shown on a TV in my high school class room.

I felt like the OJ saga spanned several of my years of high school. I remember being at a party at a friend's house at the end of 10th grade, and we were watching the Bronco chase live on TV. And then I was a senior when we finally got the verdict. One kid cut class and was sitting in his car listening to the radio so he could be the first to hear the verdict live. Some of my teachers were obsessed with the trial and talked about it almost every day in class.

by Anonymousreply 157September 13, 2020 8:42 PM

R157 I remember we were in recess and a bunch of black students were all peeking inside a classroom that had a TV. When the verdict was read, they all cheered.

by Anonymousreply 158September 13, 2020 8:45 PM

R151 I'd only come to the realization that my generation's music sucked when I became addicted to 80s stations years later. You still had a few legacy artists that were still popular like Depeche Mode and U2, but popular music started sucking around this time. However, it was still infinitely better than it is today.

by Anonymousreply 159September 13, 2020 8:51 PM

Michael Jackson was still popular at the time (Dangerous remains my favorite MJ album). Madonna's Bedtime Stories was good too.

by Anonymousreply 160September 13, 2020 8:54 PM

Boys II Men - they have not aged well for me with nostalgia but I loved their stuff in their prime

by Anonymousreply 161September 13, 2020 9:14 PM

R161, wow, I haven't listened to Boyz II Men in about 20 years.

by Anonymousreply 162September 14, 2020 12:01 AM

Oh my god I LOVED roundhouse on SNICK. I used to think those boys were so talented. I’m going to see if I can find it on YouTube.

Remember cassette tapes? And the excitement of going to Tower Records? And walkmans? I remember going on long car trips every summer and bringing my Walkman and a big thing of cassettes. I never thought I would get used to CDs but of course did and then started carrying my discman and had a dusty binder of CDs.

I remember the excitement of the American music awards and the VMAs. When Madonna and her dancers did vogue dressed in those Victorian costumes I thought it was so f’ing cool.

And new kids on the block.

by Anonymousreply 163September 14, 2020 3:43 AM

r162 Motownphilly's back again Doin' a little east coast fling

by Anonymousreply 164September 14, 2020 4:16 AM

Did anyone else here watch Supermarket Sweep after school? The '90s hair and fashion of this silly show fills me with a warm nostalgia.

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by Anonymousreply 165September 14, 2020 4:23 AM

Not really R165. Grew up on Ducktales and Garfield.

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by Anonymousreply 166September 14, 2020 4:30 AM

You can't say "90's fashion" without mentioning the ultimate Xennial classic CLUELESS!

(The actor who played the cute gay Christian aged terribly)

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by Anonymousreply 167September 14, 2020 4:37 AM

Camp Anawana we hold you in our hearts, and when we think about you....

by Anonymousreply 168September 14, 2020 4:47 AM

Matt Bomer is an Xennial.

by Anonymousreply 169September 14, 2020 5:14 AM

^ She sure is!

by Anonymousreply 170September 14, 2020 5:31 AM

Lol R98

by Anonymousreply 171September 14, 2020 7:31 AM

Almost all Xennials have Boomer parents.

by Anonymousreply 172September 14, 2020 8:13 AM

r172 as do most millennials

by Anonymousreply 173September 15, 2020 4:04 AM

Gen X is the coolest full generation and Xennial is the coolest sub-generation.

The coolest clubs are always the smallest.

by Anonymousreply 174September 15, 2020 4:05 AM

1982 here!

by Anonymousreply 175September 15, 2020 4:05 AM

There are some nice memories here.

by Anonymousreply 176September 17, 2020 2:33 AM

No, but I'am a Xanadusial. Take it Roger.

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by Anonymousreply 177September 17, 2020 2:42 AM

[quote] I remember the excitement of the American music awards and the VMAs. When Madonna and her dancers did vogue dressed in those Victorian costumes I thought it was so f’ing cool.

It's hilarious to think of now, but we treated the VMAs like they were the Oscars. None of the acts were as overexposed or talentless as they are now. No one became famous because of social media, and engagement and word of mouth actually meant something.

Streaming has also made music so much more disposable. I remember how proud I was of my music collection and how much better certain albums sounded the more time you spent with them. I also liked to read the lyrics and liner notes.

Movies were more of an event. Summer blockbusters would play for months in theaters.

by Anonymousreply 178September 20, 2020 3:42 AM

I was in middle school for the iconic Madonna/Courtney Love moment during the VMAs pre-show.

As a cool, “straight,” skater kid at the time, I was way more into Courtney.

But I was also a closet Madonna fan, having been introduced to her during the Truth or Dare/Erotica era.

Still love them both.

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by Anonymousreply 179September 20, 2020 5:12 AM

I have noticed the straight men of this generation tend to have NPR voice.

by Anonymousreply 180September 26, 2020 4:16 AM

r179 I think this was a common phenomenon - publicly into Courtney, but closet-like Madonna.

by Anonymousreply 181September 26, 2020 7:11 AM

Whoa I had forgotten the Courtney love Madonna thing. Amazing

Anyone watching PEN15? They are bit younger than xenials but it still makes me nostalgic. Pre-internet/iphones.

by Anonymousreply 182September 26, 2020 6:38 PM

R179 - This was everything. I think this might be my favorite look for Madonna and it think it was when Tom Ford took over for Gucci. I loved Courtney Love's live through this.

Did anyone watch the Challenger documentary on Netflix? That's was avery Kindergarten/1st grade xennial moment in time. The doc was amazing b/c it filled in the gaps of that period that we might have been to young to remember (the incident, the president, the fashion, the very different vibe of the US).

What is PEN15, R182. I'll google it.

by Anonymousreply 183September 26, 2020 6:50 PM

Born in ‘79. I’d say in most ways, I identify far more with Gen X, but I have a few Millennial traits.

by Anonymousreply 184September 26, 2020 7:01 PM

I was born in 1978 and I still refer to myself as a Gen Xer because saying "Xennial" sounds so fucking stupid.

by Anonymousreply 185September 26, 2020 7:03 PM

R185: I was born in 1982 and call myself a Vanguard Millennial. Because I'm a Millennial, I am in the vanguard, Xennial is convoluted, Oregon Trail Generation takes too long to say, and I find GenX to be....weird, and not something I and people in my sub-cohort have a lot in common with.

by Anonymousreply 186September 26, 2020 7:08 PM

Courtney is a Gen X'r. Madonna is a Boomer.

by Anonymousreply 187September 27, 2020 6:36 AM

Generations are stupid. Can we do away?

by Anonymousreply 188September 27, 2020 6:37 AM

This is a funny name never heard of it. I’m 82 so I would be an elder millineal lol

by Anonymousreply 189September 27, 2020 12:10 PM

It’s a load of horseshit.

by Anonymousreply 190September 27, 2020 12:11 PM

What is R190?

by Anonymousreply 191September 30, 2020 8:09 AM

What are the characteristics of this mini-generation?

by Anonymousreply 192December 30, 2020 11:29 AM

R192, being a teen in the '90s and not taking shit from anyone.

by Anonymousreply 193December 30, 2020 11:39 AM

‘79 so I am joining!

by Anonymousreply 194December 30, 2020 11:52 AM

Not I, but my eldest cousins born ‘82 & ‘83.

No offence, but I find them to be sort of cunty and nothing like me or my younger cousins (almost all Millennials, except the one youngest who is an old Z) at all. The Xennial pair are far more status-obsessed, tech-obsessed, money-obsessed and career-obsessed than the younger members of the family. They are also Corporate monsters (working for giant evil mega corps), and prolific Breeders desperate to please their parents, and the types to force their agenda on the rest of the family, which counts against them. They are the relatives who insisted on big flashy weddings, spamming everyone with baby pics, trying to steal from elderly relatives, etc.

There is a noticeable difference in ideology, lifestyle, and values between me and my peer group vs. these two cousins and theirs. I get on far better with my familial peer group or my Gen X relatives than with them or the Boomers (our parents).

To be fair, it could just be that my elder cousins are pieces of shit in their own right, though, and it’s nothing to do with their generation. For parity, I will admit that I also fucking loathe one of my Zennial cousins (he was born in ‘96, and he is an evil psychotic scumbag in disguise), and I don’t actually know my very eldest cousin who is either Gen X or Xennial (idk for sure but I think he was born in or around early-mid ‘78?) well enough to say whether I like him or not.

And I’m sure half my cousins would say I was weird and unpleasant or that they don’t like me, either, and I’d respect that.

by Anonymousreply 195December 30, 2020 12:35 PM

[quote] No offence, but I find them to be sort of cunty

R195, it's not just you. We probably come across as quite cunty!

by Anonymousreply 196December 30, 2020 12:39 PM
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