We need to talk about Top Privilege

The guy in the photo could always have the privilege to wreck my ass.

Does top privilege extend to posting the same thread three times so we're compelled to notice it?

I started topping because I was nervous about my butt being dirty.

Surely most bottoms WANT to be feel oppressed?

I notice that the guy who wrote the article managed to quietly establish that he’s a Top. Needs to check himself. We didn't need to know.

His name is Rembrandt Duran, which is the most bottom name I've ever heard.

Tops are nothing without bottoms

R1-How can you say that. The photo of that guy only show a 1/3 of him.

He's pear shaped below that 1/3

[quote] The guy in the photo could always have the privilege to wreck my ass.

Um, the guy in the photo is wearing a T-shirt that says "pray for more tops"... that means he's a bottom, R1.

Yes, it is a privilege to serve a top!

Impactful? He lost me with business jargon that is barely a word.

The OP's photo selection has been misunderstood.

The man is not a top. He's a bottom wearing a pink shirt imploring the deity for more tops.

No top makes such a prayer. A top knows he is enough to serve a herd of mancowbottoms, and is not interested in having competition. He doesn't need it.

Unless a DP is involved, of course.

OP's photo is an OF whore of course.

Bottoms are disrespected throughout our society. Whether at home, play, or in the office, a bottom is frequently looked at as invisible and unappreciated. Bottom's take home pay is less than that of their top counterpart's. Bottoms get no paid time off for recovery after a serious bottom banging. In fact, most major insurance plans don't even cover bottom booty beautification. Don't even ask about buttock implants for bottoms experiencing the heartbreaking tragedy of flat butt. Nor do health plans cover a personal trainers and masseurs for butt building maintenance which is a required necessity to the aging bottom population. There is currently no authorized IRS tax deduction for booty enhancing jeans, swimwear, or padded underwear so bottoms cannot deduct the cost of their uniform unlike police officers or nurses. THIS MUST STOP! Also, like breastfeeding, most bottoms can't bottom in public without being judged or stared at. When at the mall or a sports event, they're expected to bottom in a filthy spot like a men's room or a wooded thicket. Bottoming is not shameful so it should be seen as natural and acceptable to see a bottom bottoming whether in a museum, or a restaurant, or a family picnic. It's time we as a society bring the bottoms and their bottoming out of the closet. Join me as we hold hands and bottom together!

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[quote] Lastly, I’d like to speak on a topic that I believe isn’t given enough attention within our community, and that’s paint shaming.

[quote] For those of you who don’t know what ‘painting’ in this context is, it’s a slang term to describe when a bottom isn’t fully cleaned out and a little something is left on the top’s penis.

[quote] Now, I personally think bottoms are made to upheld completely ridiculous standards, not only dietary wise but also supplementary! I’ve seen threads upon threads of tweets and Facebook statuses about what bottoms can do to make sure they have pristine anuses for their tops.

i am speechless.

Don't paint!

No. 1 rule as a bottom. And shame is deserved. If one does not have enough self awareness in that area, then get out of the business

I should never dream of using such a vulgar metaphor as "to paint" to refer to allowing excrement from my rectum to smear the penis of my sexual partner (much less of allowing it to happen).

Umm, shitting during anal isn't pleasant for the bottom, either.

Everyone loses when you don't clean.

There should be a registry for tops to report dirty bottoms so other tops can know to avoid their disgusting anuses.

Don't forget to take out poll on the subject.

Gasp!

can someone explain this?

"Not only that, but tops have the distinct luxury of being able to identify symptoms of certain STIs more quickly than bottoms, allowing them to seek out treatment right away. It might take a bottom a formal diagnosis to know something’s wrong."

Why don't these ridiculous Millennials ever see the wisdom of just minding their own damned business, and not being a fucking buttinsky? How about you just focus on your own shitty lives you odious virtue signallers!??

[quote]Bottom's take home pay is less than that of their top counterpart's.

Oh, dear.

Rembrandt = Remy from MTVs Are You The One

R25 Mea Culpa. Point taken. I was high. Can I blame autocorrect?

Rembrandt should know about paint shaming.

“We teach bottoms to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller...."

r27 I'm afraid not.

LOL

I love being a top. So much easier.

What we need to talk about is Stupid Privilege.

Stupid people are allowed to get away with stupid things. They say and do stupid things and NO ONE even tries to stop them.

Does he say "Do better!" in his post?

R3 ROFL. It's called Fleet or ShowerShot! I was honored when my sweet top friend wanted to bottom once with a top dude and asked my advice. He confided it's not for him.

We feel gratified to be a Total Top.

How many guys here don't have anal sex at all and who (like me) doesn't get that more guys aren't versatile? If I really like you and want it, I want you to fuck me and I want to fuck you.

r36 spoken like a true bottom.

Some of the article stretches belief. CDC numbers can be wrong because men are dishonest. Every HIV+ man I've known except one is top. I never bottom unless I'm fully clean - - that's common courtesy. Often, tops have lousy technique for a very tight ass. I tried a 3-way with 2 hung dudes and it wasn't working. The BF told him just force it in. NO. Several guys have tried to slip off a condom or not replace it after a break/restroom. I could feel the difference immediately. Guys can't scam me.

R37, you must have a loose ass, don't get hard when you get fucked, and don't even cum when you get fucked

r39 weakly insults like a triggered, true bottom.

Never bottom on an empty stomach.

[quote] The BF told him just force it in.

Hot!!

R42, thank gawd the BF with 8.5" behind my hole was smart enough not to try

Huff Po covered this 3 years ago.

My 19 year old niece is taking a course on Top/Bottom power dynamics at Brown. I'll refer her to this thread.

R45, thanks for the laugh, but you're a dirty bird!

[quote]My 19 year old niece is taking a course on Top/Bottom power dynamics at Brown. I'll refer her to this thread.

Would you ask your niece what the intersectionality of top privilege is, then report back to us?

Ugh. That read like a student paper. Couldn’t get through it.

[quote]Ugh. That read like a student paper. Couldn’t get through it.

A C- or D+ student paper that lacked a thesis and any logically constructed support to back it up.

paint shaming...What can Brown do for you?

R50, LOL, thanks for the laugh. What guys can come up with! Well paint shaming means barebacking, so...

A bottom being fully clean before getting fucked is common courtesy, but now we're talking about surprise anal. I've heard psyllium husks/seeds are good for that? I won't forget the comedy program where the guy is in the pharmacy confused about being called a douche? so a guy offers to give him advice and confides "Personally, I like dirty pussy." hahahahaha

Eat only light salads, dry toast, bland things like oatmeal. Two cups of Activia, on in the morning one at night.

It ain't rocket science.

Total top privilege here. I know what i look like. I'm not a 10. A 7 at best. But get a lot of amazingly hot guys because I'm a top with a big thick dick.

And for some reasons being a ginger and a daddy is having a moment too.

Are you the one in OP's photo, R53?

It is a most fundamental supply and demand conversation. Bottoms out number tops by a significant margin. Tops are a precious resource, and knowing there are few that walk among us contribute to low grade anxiety among single bottoms who fear they will be the proverbial last one standing at the dance. It is more fraught proposition knowing bottoms are a dime a dozen. Finding a true top with a big dick is bittersweet because, “yay I found him!” but now “I have to pull out all the stops to keep him.” You hope you have sexual chemistry, compatibility and connection. If that happens great, but eventually we all get sick of fucking the same person. Rinse. Repeat.

It is the dynamic tension that makes the sex hot. The contempt the top has for the bottom. With equality the sex will so not hot.

R53, did you fuck me in August 2010?

R56, maybe for you, but not me. My ass has been injured too many times your way. I prefer a man who respects me. Too many people assume I'm a bottom, but I'm not. Please refer to R36.

R54, no. R56, probably

R57. Where?

Just say I was riding a nice guy and he said if I didn't stop doing my magic with my ass he'd cum, so I stopped. His dick wasn't big and thick, but it's very nice and tasted and felt great.

-57

I wonder if OP's photo stud is a top or a bottom. . . .

[quote] Tops are a precious resource, and knowing there are few that walk among us contribute to low grade anxiety among single bottom

maybe in your community, most guys around where I am seem to be tops

It was fucking beautiful and I didn't even notice it, R27.

R25 can take all her little likes and go to grammar nazi hell

Top privilege is awesome. Like r53, I'm like a 7, 8 on my very best day. I stay in shape but otherwise don't make much effort and often dress like a slob. I'm 40 and pretty much look it. But I get laid all the time because I'm a top with a nice dick and have that reputation in my mid-sized city. Having a positive attitude helps a lot too, and being able to absorb the occasional rejection. The main downside is the occasional batshit crazy bottom.

R65, you do know that's a bigger-than-average dick? Only a small fraction of the population has more than 7.5". Please check Kinsey's research. You are in great demand. R63 doesn't know how great he has it. Tops will always be in demand. I bottom due to prostate/anal orgasms. Bottoms will always be available - - tops know that. More men need to be versatile, at least IMHO.

Lol, R66. R65 didn't say he had a "7.8" inch dick, he said he was a 7 to 8 on a scale of looks.

Thank you r67, yes, and 8 is probably stretching it, even at my best. My dick is a solid 7x5, which keeps all but the lowest degenerate size-queens happy.

LOL, R67, ok, maybe I got excited because I think it's the guy I met. If it is, he has a very nice big dick indeed! :-P

Told ya that's bigger than average... more than I need. I don't ask a guy to bottom unless he asks for it or we're dating. R68, I hope you're well and getting plenty of butt. :-)

Other topics that article doesn't address are that bottoms should not be required to shave/wax and bleach their holes. "Caught" a former friend of mine joking about 2 bottom roommates who'd actually make a date night of shaving each other's ass cracks and holes! A top friend of mine outside USA loves a hairy ass.