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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

I was 19 and old.

by Anonymousreply 55December 5, 2019 5:12 PM

Sixteen

by Anonymousreply 1November 18, 2019 5:13 AM

twenty-one

by Anonymousreply 2November 18, 2019 5:14 AM

Seventeen

by Anonymousreply 3November 18, 2019 5:15 AM

13. So was he.

by Anonymousreply 4November 18, 2019 5:19 AM

Twenty-three, and I'm not ashamed. It was the height of the AIDs epidemic and I was traumatized. (Of course, once I started, I never stopped.)

I give major credit to public figures like Tina Fey for going public with remaining a virgin until 27? 28?

It's stupid to shame people about this, when so many young people make dumb, life-endangering, irresponsible sexual choices.

by Anonymousreply 5November 18, 2019 5:21 AM

13

by Anonymousreply 6November 18, 2019 5:22 AM

Almost 15.

by Anonymousreply 7November 18, 2019 5:31 AM

I was 18. If I'd been straight, it would have been about 13.

by Anonymousreply 8November 18, 2019 5:34 AM

22 - would have been 18 if I'd understood how to meet and hook up with gay men in college.

by Anonymousreply 9November 18, 2019 5:41 AM

I was 9ish

by Anonymousreply 10November 18, 2019 6:36 AM

Sixteen, and he was thirty-something.

by Anonymousreply 11November 18, 2019 6:44 AM

27

Religious - stupid

by Anonymousreply 12November 18, 2019 6:56 AM

Gay male here.

Thirteen. With a girl.

Sixteen with a guy.

by Anonymousreply 13November 18, 2019 7:00 AM

21...I was a late bloomer :)

by Anonymousreply 14November 18, 2019 7:08 AM

Gay male here too

13 with a guy

17 with a girl

by Anonymousreply 15November 18, 2019 7:08 AM

16 on a4a

by Anonymousreply 16November 18, 2019 7:11 AM

Kinda early.

by Anonymousreply 17November 18, 2019 7:16 AM

17 with an older guy

by Anonymousreply 18November 18, 2019 7:32 AM

12 with a 10 yr old. He started dry humping me first. Got fucked at 14 by another 14 yr old.

by Anonymousreply 19November 18, 2019 8:01 AM

13 when another 13 year old I met in catechism class! (of all places)

He had a big dick, full bush and shot huge loads. Me on the other hand...

by Anonymousreply 20November 18, 2019 8:27 AM

20, he was 25

by Anonymousreply 21November 18, 2019 10:18 AM

I was seventeen, he was nineteen, we have the same first name.

by Anonymousreply 22November 18, 2019 11:01 AM

16 and it was not a good experience. I was hitchhiking and met this older man. He took me to his cold house and blew me. Everything about the experience was cold.

by Anonymousreply 23November 18, 2019 11:25 AM

I was 16, he was 14.

by Anonymousreply 24November 18, 2019 11:29 AM

I had already been messing around with other guys, back when I was quite young (and they were, too). But my first times with an adult, I was 17, and the men were in their 30s. I practically had to beg them to have sex with me. No one wanted to, since they were all afraid of the legal ramifications (although it was perfectly legal). The gay men were actually very considerate and careful with me.

by Anonymousreply 25November 18, 2019 11:43 AM

Gay man here.

15 - man

19 - woman

by Anonymousreply 26November 18, 2019 12:32 PM

I was a late bloomer--got first BJ at age 17 and first penetration at 33.

by Anonymousreply 27November 18, 2019 3:33 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 28November 18, 2019 11:09 PM

thirteen

by Anonymousreply 29November 18, 2019 11:11 PM

I was 14, he was hot, hairy and 26.

I feel like the last time I confided this truth to someone else, they kept "checking in on me." 😂

by Anonymousreply 30November 18, 2019 11:16 PM

17. It wasn't any good, but I was in a big hurry to get it done before I was 18. I thought it would be "edgy."

by Anonymousreply 31November 18, 2019 11:18 PM

16 or 17. He was 9 years older.

by Anonymousreply 32November 18, 2019 11:25 PM

Same as R4

by Anonymousreply 33November 18, 2019 11:29 PM

I was five and he was six We rode on horses made of sticks

by Anonymousreply 34December 4, 2019 10:58 AM

18. First weekend in college. Frat house.

by Anonymousreply 35December 4, 2019 11:03 AM

[quote]We rode on horses made of sticks

You mean "made of dicks," right?

by Anonymousreply 36December 4, 2019 11:04 AM

I was with my high school girlfriend at 13 and got my dick sucked by a man at 14.

by Anonymousreply 37December 4, 2019 11:12 AM

19 as well.

by Anonymousreply 38December 4, 2019 11:16 AM

Seven in an all-boy boarding school to a 10-year-old senior. What a bliss!

by Anonymousreply 39December 4, 2019 11:26 AM

Depends on how you define virginity. First sexual contact was at age 17 when I sucked off and swallowed the load of a 16 year old. In terms of anal, I first got fucked at age 18 by a 22 year old; not fun with Jergen’s hand lotion as lube plus he gave me crabs.

by Anonymousreply 40December 4, 2019 11:26 AM

One month shy of 16, he was 19.

by Anonymousreply 41December 4, 2019 2:03 PM

I was 7 but I don’t count it because it was non-consensual. I didn’t resist, I just didn’t know what I was doing. My parent best friend’s son was 17 and took advantage of me three times. I still know him and we have never said a word about it. He turned out a huge alcoholic on public assistance.

by Anonymousreply 42December 4, 2019 2:13 PM

I'm still a virgin at 26. Depressed, anxious shut-in who has no life. I'll probably be a virgin forever and die alone.

by Anonymousreply 43December 4, 2019 2:16 PM

I am a virgin...

by Anonymousreply 44December 4, 2019 2:39 PM

R42 Oh my god... I am so sorry.That must have been very traumatizing and hard to get past. It makes me happy that he turned out to be a miserable loser. I hope you are doing better now and have a healthy physical and emotional life.

by Anonymousreply 45December 4, 2019 2:41 PM

13 with a girl

21 with a guy

by Anonymousreply 46December 4, 2019 2:42 PM

12 with my best friend during a sleepover.

by Anonymousreply 47December 4, 2019 2:43 PM

I consider myself having lost my virginity twice . First time I was 12 with my brothers 14 year old best friend. He wasnt the biggest thing going,so I honestly didnt think much of it. Then when I was 14 our next door neighbor (in his 30s) showed me what getting fucked was ALL about . Dont judge,it was 1974 and things were way different then . After that,I mostly only let older men fuck me because most guys my age were 2 pump chumps !

by Anonymousreply 48December 4, 2019 3:02 PM

I was The youngest of 5 horny brothers. The oldest two were twins. What can I say - my mother was very fertile. We were alone everyday after school, and my brothers would play around and wrestle. That was when I first noticed the twins’ buldges (they were 16 and I was 12) Sometimes they would get hard while wrestling and Joe (the twins were Joe and Jonathan) would joke, I gotta get the juice outta these balls! He would then go into the treehouse and look at the Penthouse magazine they had up there. I didn’t know what he was doing but he always had a smile on his face when he came down. One weekend, mom went with dad to his convention in Las Vegas and left us boys under the watch of the twins. After a long wrestling match, the twins said “let’s all go the treehouse. I think it’s time Jeremy (me) got initiated. I didn’t know what they meant, maybe some kind of dare? Well I got up there and they stripped me down and said I was developing good for my age!!ibwas so proud, and had no idea I was about to lose my sweet young cherry - to my twin brothers! They took turns with my butthole and my mouth until they filled both ends like I was cream-filled eclaire! After they were done, they said I was a full-fledged brother, and no longer a Virgin. I was so proud! (And happily exhausted 😩)

by Anonymousreply 49December 4, 2019 10:21 PM

Tell us more about this hunky neighbor, R48.

by Anonymousreply 50December 4, 2019 10:49 PM

R50 Ive talked about him on here before. He looked like Desi Arnez Jr with a wonderful hairy chest . There was a line of bushes separating our houses and they were very thick ,so I used to spy on him when he would sunbathe . One day I was doing my thing and he said "I know your in there,come over" . I walked around into his back yard,and he was laying there all hairy and sweaty and bulgy . I was overwhelmed with lust . He teased me for a few minutes about being a peeping Tom and since my eyes were glued to his mound I couldnt help but notice he was getting hard. He then said "You like what you see?" and I stammered "yes I do" .5 minutes later we are in his house and hes completely naked (Oh that smell! Oh that hairy body!) and I was lustily downing his cock. He was very surprised that I was doing it so well ( I had lots of practice at that point) and asked me if I did the "other thing" as well as I did that . It was hard to speak with my mouth full,but I again said "yes!" . He was a fantastic lover,very patient,very gentle working it in. When he got comfortable back there,the fucking began in earnest. That was also the first time I ever came hands free !

Long story short,I became obsessed with him (I was in LOVE) and they moved a few months later (he was married) .My heart was broken ! That was the only time he ever fucked me,but I did blow him a few more times.

by Anonymousreply 51December 5, 2019 12:11 AM

A bunch of Nifty stories...

by Anonymousreply 52December 5, 2019 10:37 AM

I was 18, my parents were out of town, and I invited a guy I had been chatting to online for weeks who was twice my age to visit for the weekend. We did everything that first weekend and became boyfriends for the next couple of years. Built, hung and sweet as pie, a great start to gay sex (despite not initially being much a fan of bottoming).

by Anonymousreply 53December 5, 2019 10:54 AM

22 girl. 25 boy. I don't remember the years in between.

by Anonymousreply 54December 5, 2019 5:02 PM

I was 9 he was 14 *non-consensual *

I was 31 she was 25 * straight*

I was 34 he was 40 *gay*

by Anonymousreply 55December 5, 2019 5:12 PM
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