Emotional Sluts
We all know them. Every time they date someone, "they just know" and "this is the one". They've never felt like this before about anybody (ignore the relationship they were in 2 months ago). I'm a physical slut, but I don't say I'm in love every time I touch a dick.
What causes these men and women who have the emotional maturity of tweens? You'd think after their 7th true love, they'd have a little reflection, but every time is the same. "I'm in love, this is IT" 3-4 times a year. And if you roll their eyes at them, they just accuse you of not being happy for them.
| by Anonymous | reply 18 | May 18, 2021 7:07 AM
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I'm like that. Fucked up childhood has messed me up horribly when it comes to relationships, but you're right it is is immature.
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 13, 2019 12:00 AM
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[quote] What causes these men and women who have the emotional maturity of tweens?
One word as an answer, OP: Pisces.
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | November 13, 2019 12:03 AM
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I haven't fallen in love in THREE WHOLE DAYS!
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 13, 2019 12:05 AM
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Sadly, their desire to pair-bond (let's use zoology terms) is undermined by their easy, almost immediate offer of love. Even men/women with little artifice know that being loved means creating some uncertainty otherwise the beloved simply won't value it.
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 13, 2019 12:08 AM
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I can't help it if I keep finding soulmates among the boys who get off the bus at Palm Springs!!!
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 13, 2019 12:09 AM
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I knew two people like this. One a straight woman and the other a gay man. Needless to say I’m not friends with either of them anymore.
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 13, 2019 12:37 AM
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I have an acquaintance from high school. The only reason I haven’t unfollowed her on social is the rants about good men, really being loved and her relationship status changing as often as her uterine lining. I’m honestly surprised she hasn’t run out of men in her small town.
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 13, 2019 1:28 AM
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R1 nailed it. They usually have really poor boundaries too.
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 13, 2019 1:37 AM
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R4 said it before I could...
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | November 13, 2019 1:55 AM
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"When you know, you know"
"How many people have you Known this year?"
| by Anonymous | reply 13 | November 13, 2019 3:50 PM
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Bumping for Justin Hartley remarrying before his divorce papers are dry
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | May 18, 2021 5:11 AM
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OP, they're called lesbians, and that's why they're so loyal to U-Haul.
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | May 18, 2021 5:14 AM
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Plenty of people of all orientations do it.
| by Anonymous | reply 16 | May 18, 2021 5:15 AM
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It meshes well with hypomanic personality and it’s a familiar untrustworthy emotion that comes right before the flip side - hypercriticism and shame.
| by Anonymous | reply 17 | May 18, 2021 6:46 AM
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At least you're not emotionally slut shaming the...
oh, wait...
| by Anonymous | reply 18 | May 18, 2021 7:07 AM
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