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Tank: Sucking another man's d*** doesn't make you gay...

Well, it defo doesn't a man make straight, EITHER.

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by Anonymousreply 14605/04/2021

There is this weird double standard that says that women can experiment with other women and still not be considered lesbians, but if a guy sucks ONE dick...

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by Anonymousreply 510/22/2019

I'm guessing his mouth has tasted cock before.

Many times.

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by Anonymousreply 610/22/2019

hey I'll volunteer to let Tank experiment with me any day

he's HOT

by Anonymousreply 710/22/2019

There's a funny gif of him performing at a Gay Pride. Has anyone got it?

by Anonymousreply 810/22/2019

Is he a top or bottom?

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by Anonymousreply 910/22/2019

I bet he eats ass and sucks dick well

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by Anonymousreply 1010/22/2019

He must have gotten lucky that night at DC Pride!

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by Anonymousreply 1110/22/2019

"Tank Reacts To Anti Gay Followers After His Epic DC Gay Pride Appearance"

Despite the fact that he has long been an advocate for the gay community, Tank took his level of support up a notch when he performed over the weekend at DC Gay Pride.

As to be expected, narrow minded, ignorant tyrants, took to his social media to flood his timeline and comments with idiotic remarks and gay slurs, despite allegedly being fans themselves.

Well although he has spoken out before, the DC native took to IG on Tuesday (May 30) following the joyous festivities to respond to his hateful critics.

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by Anonymousreply 1210/22/2019

Girl calm down with the links. We can’t even view pics at the moment.

by Anonymousreply 1310/22/2019

R8 here

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At first, I couldn't figure out what was funny about that gif, R14.

And then I saw the shoe go up in the air, and I realized that some SKANK HO was spreading her legs open, and presenting her hole to Tank!

by Anonymousreply 1510/22/2019

There must have been a lot of wet BUSSIES up in that venue at R11!

by Anonymousreply 1610/22/2019

All the straight boys want to be gay...I mean, not gay. No, actually I mean gay.

by Anonymousreply 1710/22/2019

Nah, he's probably "MOSTLY STRAIGHT", bruh!

by Anonymousreply 1810/22/2019

[quote]Tank: Sucking another man's d*** doesn't make you gay...

No, but enjoying it and preferring it to sex with women does.

by Anonymousreply 1910/22/2019

I volunteer to suck his dick a few times to figure out if i am gay.

by Anonymousreply 2010/22/2019

Whatever makes you sleep at night!

by Anonymousreply 2110/22/2019

Somebody said I was full of shit on the Atlanta barber thread for saying a lot of black men are bisexual...Tank is a perfect example of a black man who would be open to having a sexual experience with another man if the circumstances were ideal (ie no messy queens telling his business!)

Tank is a huge sexual freak anyway. I see him having no problem sucking a dick get his records played, he's probably done it a few times. Hearing how he turned Moniece Slaughter out was pretty funny. That dick had her doing some crazy shit.

by Anonymousreply 2210/22/2019

I'm not sure if singing while fucking would be hot, but I would be willing to let Tank experiment on me.

by Anonymousreply 2310/22/2019

No homo!

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by Anonymousreply 2410/22/2019

Whatever Gets You Through The Night.

- John Lennon.

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by Anonymousreply 2510/22/2019

Datalounge, where the hot straight guys crave cock and the openly gay guys are hideously unattractive

by Anonymousreply 2610/22/2019

Sorry I didn’t see this thread for making a dupe

by Anonymousreply 2710/22/2019

R27 no harm in a second thread so more can view it and the sexiness of Tank

by Anonymousreply 2810/22/2019

A lot of primitive closed mindedness here. DL has some of the most regressive views about sexual identity I have encountered. I know of elderly Southern religious conservatives that are more progressive about sexual identity and labels than DLers.

by Anonymousreply 2910/22/2019

DL is cynical about celebrities, dear. And the cynicism is well earned.

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by Anonymousreply 3110/22/2019

I agree with him.

by Anonymousreply 3210/22/2019

Being straight is in the mind of the beholder.

by Anonymousreply 3310/22/2019

Well, I DEclare! Thick, juicy paynusses everywhere!

by Anonymousreply 3410/22/2019

We just love making fun of bullshit people like you spew, R29. So please keep it up.

by Anonymousreply 3510/22/2019

It reminds me of when Richard Pryor would admit to similar.

by Anonymousreply 3610/22/2019

“Tank defended the notion that just because a man "experiments" doesn't make him one thing or the other.”

From now on call him Think Tank.

by Anonymousreply 3710/22/2019

So you know what this means...

by Anonymousreply 3810/22/2019

I love how progressive he is.

He has previously said he likes to have his ass eaten and that it was first done to him in a car when he seeing a woman back when he was young

I wonder if his wife eats him out now

by Anonymousreply 3910/22/2019

I tried sex with several women. Didn’t make me straight.

by Anonymousreply 4010/22/2019

[quote]hey I'll volunteer to let Tank experiment with me any day

Oh please. If he's saying that in public, that's because he "experimented" it dozens of times already.

by Anonymousreply 4110/22/2019

You’re ridiculous r41

by Anonymousreply 4210/23/2019

He is so hot

by Anonymousreply 4310/23/2019

So I guess that Tank is admitting that he's a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 4410/23/2019

"Bottom" is such an emasculating label, R44. He would NEVER go for that, how dare you!

by Anonymousreply 4510/23/2019

Sorry R45, but tops don't suck dick.

And Tank is basically saying that he likes to suck dick.

So..... Tank = BOTTOM.

by Anonymousreply 4610/23/2019

No, it makes them a baby

by Anonymousreply 4710/23/2019

I don't know who Tank is but I would be happy to let him suck my dick, no homo.

by Anonymousreply 4810/23/2019

R46, labels are fluid these days. Don't have such an outdated mindset, it makes you look out of touch and uncool with chill dudes (like Tank)!

by Anonymousreply 4910/23/2019

Exactly. Oldheads are so lame.

by Anonymousreply 5010/23/2019

That's not an oldhead thing. HIV wouldn't have spread quite like it did if lots and lots of men weren't vers.

by Anonymousreply 5110/23/2019

You know who isn't lame? TANK!

And Sam Smith. And Queer Eye's Antoni. And Nico Tortellini.

All these brave revolutionaries eschewed and rejected the gay label. And why wouldn't they? Oldehead gay guys cause so much misogyny, and transphobia, and the locker room towel dance.

by Anonymousreply 5210/23/2019

.... and yet, some DLers get into a hissy fit about a guy identifying as gay if he's been able to sexually perform with a woman...

by Anonymousreply 5310/23/2019

'Gold star gay' is such an antiquated concept anyway. It makes one think of a becaftaned overweight Datalounger, eww!

by Anonymousreply 5410/23/2019

Tank gives me gay for pay tease...He will be able to book gay pride events from now until eternity if he keeps tantalizing the kids. All his has to do is remove his shirt at these events and the queens pass out lol. Get money Tank!

by Anonymousreply 5510/23/2019

[quote] Get money Tank!

You fucked it up.

It's "Get that BANK, Tank!"

by Anonymousreply 5610/23/2019

He needs money. Sitting on lawn furniture inside.

by Anonymousreply 5710/23/2019

That's really what it's all about r55. He's a business man. Big money in gay fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 5810/24/2019

Exactly r58. Tank is an urban R&B artist and the genre has withered way down. The gays are a big part of the fanbase that still support singers like him. It is smart for him to cater to who he knows will support his career.

Its nice that black men like Tank and Odell Beckham are finally challenging homophobia and helping to relax the stringent views of sexuality in the black community. Cause many black men have been out here getting their freak on with each other for the longest lol

by Anonymousreply 5910/24/2019

Odell really walks the walk.

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by Anonymousreply 6010/24/2019

Imagine Tank and Odell together HOT

by Anonymousreply 6110/24/2019

Odell could take him shopping.

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by Anonymousreply 6210/24/2019

R46 Your complete confidence amuses me... Top here, never took one in the arse, never liked small things either, and I love to suck cock. You don't get out much, or have only had selfish lousy lovers, or are one yourself.

by Anonymousreply 6310/24/2019

A total Alpha top has no interest in penis

by Anonymousreply 6410/24/2019

R64 I don't use silly terms such as "Alpha", and nether did R46. Alpha (amongst degenerates who believe in such crap) sounds like just another word for lousy, selfish, loutish, lover.

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R66 Are you one of these self-declared "Alphas"?

by Anonymousreply 6710/24/2019

Wannabe try-hard Alpha, more like.

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(But swallowing does.)

by Anonymousreply 6910/24/2019

Are you kidding? The troll is clearly a "strict bottom." No one else gives a shit.

by Anonymousreply 7010/24/2019

Funny this digression makes me think of some fitting lyrics by The Smith, from "I know It's Over: Loud, loutish lover, treat her kindly, though she needs you more than she loves you... Ironically recorded on Rough Trade Records!

Alpha translates not only as a synonym for sad rough trade, but a thuggish type, exhibiting fake and toxic masculinity. Usually mentally deficient, or some how or other deranged. Someone may be quite young, bisexual and troubled, and watch far too much porn here if he thinks normal gay men on this forum entertain notions of "Alpha Tops" being good lovers!

by Anonymousreply 7110/24/2019

Hey, the lawn furniture is an upgrade, R57. He used to have nothing to sit on but a traffic cone he grabbed from a road construction site!

by Anonymousreply 7210/24/2019

[quote]A total Alpha top has no interest in penis

Gurl please. There are plenty of "alpha tops" in the entertainment industry who don't like sucking penis, but give head and give up their holes to get work! Bills still have get paid

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They aren’t true Alphas

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Fuck Alphas... Sounds like you need a friggin dog trainer.

by Anonymousreply 7510/25/2019

All labels are fluid, including the 'Alpha' one.

by Anonymousreply 7610/25/2019

Alphas rock

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by Anonymousreply 7710/25/2019

I'm cool enough, and I'm liberal enough R76. Fuck being bloody "woke"... I'm not asleep douchebro. I find the "Alpha and Beta" BS juvenile and creepy. From what I see on Tumblr, and in some porn, you freaks like to humiliate bottoms, call them wretched names such as faggots, piss on them, and make them smell your feet. No thanks mate.

I'm not digging the costume-y get-ups, the tats, or the gold chains either. I'm not a bottom, so whyever would I need or want to like you anyhow? You're a sleazy parody of masculinity and into too much role playing for my sensibilities.

by Anonymousreply 7810/25/2019

[Quote] you freaks like to humiliate bottoms

Are you kidding? Just like bottom shaming, the only ones promoting this "alphas don't touch dick" crap are... bottoms. It's really nothing for you to get worked up about.

by Anonymousreply 7910/25/2019

R79 I'm not worked up in the least... just have my opinions, (quite opinionated actually, and this is why I dig the message board forums such as DL). Anyone ridiculous enough to proudly declare himself a woke "Alpha" has no place in my life at fifty-one years-old. I'm not interested in hearing anyone extoll their fucking virtues either, as in: if you're into that, I'm not interested in you. Get it? Seeing the who.e Alpha and Dom shit play out in porn and online is theatre of the absurd for me. If I were a bottom, I should think wanting this sort of lover would be akin to wanting to be raped and abused, and should require some therapy.

by Anonymousreply 8010/25/2019

R78, stop Watching so much porn

by Anonymousreply 8110/25/2019

Yeah, the total strict Alpha too crazed is propelled by total bottoms

by Anonymousreply 8210/25/2019

[Quote] Seeing the who.e Alpha and Dom shit play out in porn and online is theatre of the absurd for me.

If the participants enjoy it, who cares.

by Anonymousreply 8310/25/2019

R81 I can watch whatever I like mum. I certainly don't waste time watching Alpha BS... but I have seen enough. R83 Bully for them then. I still find them ridiculous... I recall all the Noodles & Beef shit, and have met enough of these fucks at the gym. I'm very inclusive, but sorry, I can't get behind these freaks. No pun intended!

by Anonymousreply 8410/25/2019

Bully? Where you from dude?

by Anonymousreply 8510/25/2019

R85 I'm from London originally.. Fulham born, moved to Bayswater, and later Putney Bridge. I've lived in NYC, Yokohama, Japan, and now I live between Chicago and Cayman.

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Most R&B singers of his ilk RELY financially on the illusion that they are straight, because of their audience. Being a fantasy for the 40-60 year old black women who go to their concerts and get their songs played on Urban AC radio (his primary market).

I'm not sure about bandmate Ginuwine, I think he's straight. But his other bandmate Tyrese is definitely closeted (look at all those Dubai trips with Will Smith and co), and closeted bisexual Maxwell is another one in this 'grown n sexy' R&B lane who keeps his business private. They don't want to rock the boat, because their cash flow depends on their "straightness".

Kudos to Tank (and yess, OBJ) for rocking that boat and broadening the definition of masculinity in the black community. He is probably smart enough to see the writing on the wall anyway (not that many people are buying records any more, and that same audience of women have already seen him in concert many times and won't keep buying tickets forever), and is smartly chasing that pink dollar too. He will get paid well to perform at Pride events all over the US.

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by Anonymousreply 8810/25/2019

The alpha/bro troll is always derailing these threads. Ignore her ass!

by Anonymousreply 8910/25/2019

Nice shirt bro

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by Anonymousreply 9010/25/2019

yassss hunty

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by Anonymousreply 9110/28/2019

I mean that's true. Ask all the desperate actors in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 9210/28/2019

[quote]Ginuwine and Tyrese done sucked some dick too!

I’ve always thought that Ginuwine was suspect.

by Anonymousreply 9310/28/2019

I dont think Ginuwine is gay, but he's probably used his big ole meat to "get ahead" in the industry

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by Anonymousreply 9410/28/2019

Nowadays, Same ol G is high on T.

by Anonymousreply 9510/28/2019

Wearing that shirt R25 makes you gay

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Oh lord somebody has vandalized daddy's wikipedia page

[quote]He is best known for the singles "Maybe I Deserve (2001)", "Please Don't Go" (2006), "When We" (2017), and "More Than 2 Makes Ya Queer" (2019).

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[quote]More Than 2 Makes Ya Queer" (2019).


by Anonymousreply 9910/28/2019

It does it you like it.

by Anonymousreply 10010/29/2019

He no longer has a career so negro can go suck dick. We black women aren't with that bullshit. Once he said that whatever is left of his career is done.

by Anonymousreply 10110/29/2019

Sucking dick doesn't make you gay. You were already gay before you sucked the dick.

by Anonymousreply 10210/29/2019

Breakfast Club interview today

I LOVE Tank's speaking voice. It's so sexy

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by Anonymousreply 10310/29/2019

Yeah his speaking and singing voice are both so sexy.

r101 pay attention. We already discussed how he has been courting the gay dollar. Its a done deal now, he can book gay events for the rest of his life!

by Anonymousreply 10410/29/2019

A thread about a sexy straight guy who likes to suck dick

Datalounge orgasms

This thread will get to 600 replies and will spin off endless sequels, lol

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by Anonymousreply 10610/30/2019

When did he say he likes to suck dicks?

by Anonymousreply 10710/30/2019

I think I will buy his new album

by Anonymousreply 10810/30/2019

R107 he didn't say he did. He said a guy who has done it isn't necessarily gay. So people have run with it and say well then surely he's sucked dicks himself

whatever his situation is I'm just glad he's accepting of others

by Anonymousreply 10910/30/2019

If a man got two dictionaries that doesn’t mean he has a library -Tank😂😂😂😂 #SoulTrainAwards

by Anonymousreply 11011/17/2019

R110 how did people react?

by Anonymousreply 11111/17/2019

Pretty quiet, scattered laughter

by Anonymousreply 11211/17/2019

I'll give him credit for facing the audience

by Anonymousreply 11311/18/2019

R110 what does that mean?

by Anonymousreply 11411/18/2019

Honey, if you eat a ribeye steak I don't know quite what the point is of calling yourself a vegetarian!

by Anonymousreply 11511/18/2019

Many vegetarians do it. Frequency and preference matter.

by Anonymousreply 11611/18/2019

You cook one meal and nobody calls you a chef, but you suck just one cock, and all of a sudden you're a faggot.

by Anonymousreply 11711/18/2019

[quote] A thread about a sexy closeted guy who likes to suck dick


by Anonymousreply 11811/18/2019

Super hot. I’ve never heard of him, but I’m an old white guy

by Anonymousreply 11911/18/2019

Well, Tank himself is 44. He's no spring chicken.

by Anonymousreply 12011/18/2019

TBH I think if Tank was fooling around with other men, a Mantasia type figure would have emerged by now. Especially when Moniece spilled much of his tea a couple of years ago. Disgruntled lovers of downlow men cannot hold back! Just like with Dwight Howard.

Tank has been around for a long time too, he is 20 years in the game. Moniece spared no details about him. Im sure if she had any info on him being with men, she would have put that out there as well, as she is well connected to the inside of the black music business.

by Anonymousreply 12111/18/2019

I just love that he likes to have his ass eaten. He's said it and confirmed it more than once. So there are women willing to do it out there. It's not "just a gay thing"

by Anonymousreply 12211/18/2019

r117 I heard it this was, "A guy can pound 10 nails into a board and nobody calls him a carpenter, do they? But let a guy suck just one cock. . ."

by Anonymousreply 12311/18/2019

Unsurprisingly this mindset is what keeps most rappers in the closet. No one believes me when I say there are more closeted rappers than actors in the industry, but that is the case.

by Anonymousreply 12411/18/2019

R121, most DL dudes are smart enough not to mess with effeminate or gay-identifying men. Most DL dudes carefully select other DL dudes who have as much to lose and are committed to ensuring the continuation of their straight identity.

by Anonymousreply 12511/19/2019

That's exactly it r125. And r124, I don't think people understand a lot of these rappers and athletes we say are in the closet just don't want to be gay in a cultural context. They don't want to have a boyfriend, they don't want to walk hand in hand on the beach, some of them don't even kiss when they're having sex with men. It's just the sex.

by Anonymousreply 12611/19/2019

Maybe not, but ordering flaming rum punch and talkin' about gettin' your wings will get you thrown outta my joint.

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by Anonymousreply 12711/19/2019

Homosexuality would be more attractive to more men if it weren’t associated with effeminancy and corniness/camp.

by Anonymousreply 12811/19/2019

But my caftan!

by Anonymousreply 12911/19/2019

And my kimonos!!

by Anonymousreply 13011/19/2019

[quote]Homosexuality would be more attractive to more men if it weren’t associated with effeminancy and corniness/camp.

But some of these DL men are attracted to effeminate guys, they all dont like the company of other masculine dudes. Like Kerry Rhodes, he could easily find other masc guys to fool around with, but that's not his tea. A lot of DL black men are the same. Soft/pretty types with big butts is what they like. Thats why so many fool around with trans

by Anonymousreply 13111/19/2019

r131 - Trans what?? FTM or MTF?

by Anonymousreply 13211/19/2019

BOTH r132. Some like guys with the masculine appearance but female parts, others like chicks with dicks.

I think we talked about this in the Malik Yoba thread, DL black men might be cautious about who they are seen with in public, but they are less concerned about having a "type" when they are behind closed doors. Black men usually don't have all those rigid terms for sex partners as long as the sex is good

by Anonymousreply 13311/19/2019

What does Tank's wife think about having a husband who sucks dick?

by Anonymousreply 13411/19/2019

He didn’t say nor insinuate he sucked D. People love to twist people’s’ words

by Anonymousreply 13511/19/2019

R135 then who is he talking about?

by Anonymousreply 13611/19/2019

He answered a Specific question about sexual behavior and identity. Gay men should be the last people acting immature and narrow-minded about his open-minded, progressive outlook.

by Anonymousreply 13711/19/2019

R133 Very true, I'm gay but carry myself in a very none feminine way, and most people don't even realize that I'm gay. Most men approach me very discreetly and ask me if I'm gay. When I say yes, they get a glent in their eyes and say come talk to me. I'm also not hyper masculine either. I'm probably the perfect example of what most discreet black men go for, I'm 31, 6'1 well dressed, but not in a feminine way. My look is a cross between business casual and somewhat hipsteresque and artsy. I'm clean cut, I also have clear beautiful brown skin and I'm in shape.

I've always been into more mature black men. The type of men who are old enough to be my father. Don't ask me why it's just what I like. All of these men have been very discreet and private. And it's always the ones you'd never suspect. Men like that tend to be more comfortable with other black men, usually younger then themselves. But they really do prefer to keep it within the community and keep it quiet. A lot of these men also have children my age or not much younger than me. I'm not really into penetration, so luckily for me most of these men just want their dick sucked. Something I'm completely fine with. But as long as it's on the down low or discreet, and you keep your mouth shut. They'll keep messing with you. Not being messy is the most important part for most of these guys. There not even necessarily gay, they just want to get their dick sucked and keep it moving.

I also get a lot of attention from guys my age too, it's just that I prefer a little older. Not fat and sloppy, most of these guys are still physically intact from there younger years of playing sports, so that's an added bonus.

by Anonymousreply 13811/19/2019

Black boy (several decades ago) joy.

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by Anonymousreply 13905/04/2021

He should get into hosting. He has a very inviting presence.

by Anonymousreply 14005/04/2021

[quote]Sucking another man's d*** doesn't make you gay.

It doesn't make you straight. And it makes you kind of gay, whether or not you want to admit it.

by Anonymousreply 14105/04/2021

No, sucking a cock doesn't make a man gay.

The man sucks a cock because he's already gay, Tank.

by Anonymousreply 14205/04/2021

If Ellen sucked a cock, would that make her straight?

by Anonymousreply 14305/04/2021

Does the cock in my mouth make me look gay?

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by Anonymousreply 14505/04/2021

[quote]Sucking another man's d*** doesn't make you gay.

Yeah, it pretty much does.

by Anonymousreply 14605/04/2021
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