We know there is such a thing as gaydar but is there an equivalent for quickly sensing a man is bisexual?Bi-dar?

One thing I've noticed - Bi's are often extremely handsome.

& this makes sense, in fact - if you're needing to be attractive to BOTH sexes.

They have a special look.

Good point r1

Beautiful r2 ❤🥰

Bump!

Who is the guy in r2?🔥

I think so, I also think their is trans-dar. I’m really good friends with 2 transsexuals. And believe me their is a certain aura or ping of a guy into trans. We could be at a straight club and they can claim to be straight but they love sucking and being fucked by trans

Do people sit around with their lives and actually ponder dumb fucking questions like this? Honestly / what an existence

Nose rings. It's always the guy with the nose ring.

I was once at a party and after it one guy said, "There were a lot of bi guys at that party." I asked how he could tell and he said, "Tactile with both men and women, checking out the guys and also the women's boobs." I was like, yep.

The straight guy that works at the gay bars as a bartender. Has had girlfriends in the past but all friends are gay guys, and adds hot girls to his Instagram. Also he has said nose ring

Biguysfuck dot com. They exist. That site is so hot sometimes. Not all the 3ways. But some because it’s like the guys are fucking girls they can let their gay inhibition go wild because they still feel like manly studs. It’s not gay if a girl is there! Hot!

r8 I've never met a bisexual guy with nose rings but I have met several who haven't!

Is there an instant recognition or sense?What I mean is I read of research, not saying it was robust that concluded we subconsciously make up our mind if someone is gay within seconds and have a decent percentage chance of guessing if someone is gay from a facial picture?Anyone remember this research?I'm wondering if the same or similar could be said for bisexual males?

"One thing I've noticed - Bi's are often extremely handsome."

Based on what? I've known plenty of ugly bisexuals. Just because you are attracted to both sexes doesn't mean tons of people lust after you.

There have been a lot of studies about "gaydar" but few about "bi-dar"......if I had to guess, I'd wager that Kinsey 4s and 5s probably ping as gay to most people and Kinsey 1s and 2s probably just blend in with straight people

How to ID a bisexual man:

He's a gay man married to a woman because he wants all of the privileges of being a straight man, with a wife with two tits and a cunt and a couple of spawn. But doesn't want to fuck her and trolls for cock.

It's not that complicated.

I read in a book about sex somewhere that bi face does exist. It’s a mix of feminine and masc traits, like Cupid bows lips with thick eyebrows. Or strong jaw, long eyelashes. Some bi faces are - chase crawford, channning, the kid on nip/tuck, Simon Rex

Lust is lust.

Yes, there is, OP.

Whereas gay-dar "pings," bi-dar 'ping-pongs."

Very witty r18 !!

Can you recall the name of the book please r16?

r14 I think I need to read up on the Kinsey scale.

[quote]Based on what? I've known plenty of ugly bisexuals. Just because you are attracted to both sexes doesn't mean tons of people lust after you.

I said "often", not all - and based on? my experience.

R7 Those bi blokes into the trans probably have it even harder insofar as some sort of radar detection. When discussing trans, especially MTF, everyone forgets the genuine intersex. They're virtually indistinguishable from trans. In the UK 1 in 500 men have Klinefelter's Syndrome, and those stats are a bit higher here in the states. That's only one type of intersex, where the karyotype is XXY. There are also simply many unfortunate types with hormone deficiencies who appear mysterious.

I now wonder how they sort them out, or hedge their bets. My Gaydar never worked well, and things have just become more confusing since the 1990s. I'm only reliably able to tell when preppy athletic ladies are lesbians with [italic] some [/italic] degree of accuracy...and even in those instances I've been mistaken.

Well, in MY experience, bisexuals are not any better looking than gay or straight men.

[quote]Well, in MY experience, bisexuals are not any better looking than gay or straight men.

Probably cos the HAWT ones aren't coming onto you.

r25, because the only way you can know if a guy is bi is if he comes onto you personally?! You don't sound bright. Not sure why you are invested in pretending bisexuals are better looking than anyone else, despite no evidence.

Most of those people who currently label themselves as "bisexual" won't be around in 30 years.

Most of them are as self-deluding as those crazy, currently-fashionable "discretionary transvestites'.

[quote] You don't sound bright.

You're projecting.

I'm sorry you don't "get it"....

r28, look who's talking. You're the one who can't differentiate between anecdotes and statistics.

No one ever said anything about statistics. You're making it up as you go along.

But as you are bringing it up - bisexuality is generally so underground, so hidden, so misunderstood for obvious reasons (that you probably would not be able to understand), statistics never come into it.

I also want to know who is the man in R2's photo

r30 What do you feel are the misc/misunderstandings around bisexuality?

All I know is when I look into a guy's eyes and get that unspoken recognition, it's on. It doesn't matter if he calls himself gay, straight or bi.

Any piercing is a dead giveaway.

r34 But does anything in their face or eyes signify or hint at male bisexuality like ir allegedly does with gay men? Not add on accessories like piercings but basic stuff inherent in them?

Finger guns

God Jake is sooo sexy r36 but I thought he was gay not bisexual?

[quote]God Jake is sooo sexy [R36] but I thought he was gay not bisexual?

There's no proof to suggest he's gay or bi. He played gay in a movie and the gays have run with it ever since.

[quote]There's no proof to suggest he's gay or bi.

There was the Toothy Tile episode, for what that's worth, on top of various other unsubstantiated gossip. But he also was in a blatantly, cringe-makingly fake and stage-managed relationship with Taylor Swift (a year after she bearded for Taylor Lautner and a year before she did so for Zac Efron).

Oh wait, I forgot, there's no proof to suggest Taylor Lautner or Zac Efron is gay, either.

R30, stats can measure things that are misunderstood and hidden. You are dumb.

R15 So what are you saying?That male bisexuality does not exist at all?Your post seems awfully cynical and unfair towards bisexual men.

Are you new here, R41?

R30 what?? Say that you know that there are people in a closet, but you don't know how many there are, because they won't come out and be counted. Then, 2 people come out the closet and tell a statician that they're bisexual. Just because those 2 people came out of the closet doesn't mean that there aren't still more to be accounted for!!

Statistics only work if people allow themselves to be a part of that statistic.

That's what I said, R43. It's the resident moron who is trying to lean on statistics for bi people.

No r42 I just feel its important to challenge biphobia regardless. To suggest it doesn't even exist seems bizarre and dangerous to me.

Sorry to suggest male bisexuality doesn't even exist seems bizarre and dangerous to me I meant to type in post r45 ^^^;

gap in their front teeth...will fuck anything

You know, I hate to disappoint. But 10 years ago I was sitting in traffic in LA on the 134 freeway and Jake G and Reese were in the SUV next to me. If they were a fake couple, they sure didn't look like it. They just looked like they were real couple, based on body language and they way he was touching her.

Yeah, r44, it's moronic for relying on facts and statistics!!!! You must be a Trumpster.

R46 I agree with you Angel... Have had three bi blokes as friends (messed around with one of them quite regularly), and have been in a relationship with one for almost four years. I've been on DL for about three years, and the reigning opinion here on DL ranges from "they don't exist... all closeted weaklings too afraid to come out, or they're scarce as hens' teeth, and are sociopaths who always end up in a straight relationship. It's quite tedious and narrow minded. I support bisexuals of all sorts, and happen to be an outlier here.

R50 Great post. There also needs to be appreciation that there is variety amongst male bisexuals. I know some male bisexuals whose overwhelming romantic attraction is for men yet going by some comments on here and elsewhere youd think ALL bisexual men only pair up with other men for sex and nothing else substantial .

Hm. I have too much time on my hands, so let's do a deep dive, shall we?

Tbh I don't know if you can even say that gay people have gay face. IMO the gay face shit is just that--BS. There are a lot of straight acting gay men who marry women and don't have gay face. They're passing, because they fool everyone else around them. No gay face.

Zip. Nil. Nada.

I also have questions about that. Does gay face only apply to men? Or does it also apply to lesbians? Doesn't gay face seem scarily similar to the way Nazis used to measure people's heads to determine if they're Jews or not? Isn't Eugenics sooo 1939? "Studies" on "gay face" seems to be just another excuse for researchers to ask for more grant$ for their "research".

Getting back to the subject at hand, a bi face would seem counterproductive. Because bis like both men and women, they've got to act straight enough to attract the women that they want, so they (bisexual men, in this example) can't act too stereotypically femmy/gay or it would run the risk of turning off their potential female partners. Gay men LOVE straight acting gays, so they don't really have to be too gay acting or femmy to attract guys. Gay guys prefer straight/acting men. So bisexual men would have to act really straight to pull both men and women, generally speaking. Not all women are fag hags, after all. I'm not using bisexual women in my example because the only people who hate bi women are lesbians. Straight men love it and gay men don't care. Bisexual men have it the worst because straight women think that bi men are gross gays who can't be tamed by the all powerful P.

Now, if gayface is real, and that's a big IF, then wouldn't stand to reason that bis would have somewhat of a gay face, if they are in fact attracted to their own sex? So, in my own hypothesis, I would say that bis would have somewhat of a gay face, but it would be subdued enough to attract the opposite sex without raising suspicion (that's for all you bi-hating straight women out there).

But really, I don't think your personal appearance has anything to do with your sexuality, for reasons I have mentioned above. And when I say personal appearance, I don't mean the way you accessorize, like dying your hair or wearing white after Labor Day. I'm talking about the immutable, unchangeable aspects of your appearance and personality, such as your bone structure, facially and physically, pre-op plastic surgery, the way talk, and the way you act.

I'm not a Bi, so I don't have any insider info, but from the outside, I can't tell anyone apart. Now that metrosexuals have gone mainstream, it's hard to tell one from the other. At least we have Grindr.

There was this poll on the DL a week ago with a link to a story about a bisexual guy who presented super femme. I'll look for it, but I don't think it has anything to do with gay facing.

It was this thread

Green socks on Thursdays not Tuesdays.

R13 yes I remember that research a few years ago. Fascinating. Did they even say what the markers were? Like, big nose/wide set eyes/etc? Or was it just subconscious?

I've never been able to tell, but my gaydar is not very accurate anyway.

R56 I don't believe in a "gayface" per se, and yet again agree with Angel. There have been creepy studies showing that gay men, femme or not have more symmetrical faces, and oddly, those most generally are perceived as more attractive, even by infants in some studies. There is another study which claims AI and facial recognition software can identify gay men by face with a frighteningly high degree of accuracy.

Some of us are simply more obvious, but then again many straights seem gay too. I think mannerisms and personalities are more telling IMHO. I'm not aware of any studies regarding bisexual or lesbian faces... I agree everyone is unique, why would bisexual people be any different?

R57 Thank you for your thoughtful post. 👍

It's called gaydar OP.

Not that simple r59 !

In my experience for both bi men and bi women when you can't figure them out and they consistently sometimes ping and sometimes and sometimes don't... they're bi.

Intriguing descriptive r61

r62 Should say description

I think its less about how they look, and more about the way they look at you. Most traight guys won't make prolonged eye contact with another guy.