This film isn’t as much about an Incel, as it is more about things that we tend to disparage and reject, the very qualities that we need more of in today’s society, and our refusal to allow young boys and men to express those qualities. It isn’t about lack of material things, or physical beauty, which “incels” claim to be missing or lacking in. It is about what we are as a society lacking in: compassion, and acceptance of those who are different than ourselves.
This incarnation of the Joker, and the world in which he lives, goes far beyond material possessions, or rare opportunities available to a select few. It is about how rare it is to see something within someone, that is still unspoiled, or hardened by cynicism and often replaced with competition with our fellow man. It’s about how we’ve been taught to believe that our uniqueness or our special thing, that makes me, me, and makes you, you, cannot live in a world which values conformity over all. It shows how we have lost the ability to express ourselves in meaningful and profound ways, & our desire to share ourselves with others is now seen as a huge risk, rather than normal bonds of friendship. We view sensitive men, as men who are to be rejected, ultimately proving to them that we believe that they are unworthy of love, and therefore life. It speaks to a world that demands a certain type of performance, those who fail to measure up, turn to express themselves through violence, because violence has now replaced artistic abilities that are seen as vulnerabilities within white men. Violence has become the only acceptable language, because everyone we meet, is violent to us, if we aren’t violent first. This is what men learn.
We are no longer recognizing & cultivating a sensitive, withdrawn man. Now he’s on the spectrum. Nurturing men who write poetry, who play violin, folk music on a guitar, who cry when they sing about losing the one they love, is a lost form of expression. We stripped our schools of any creative outlets for children, especially boys, yet have managed to hold onto the sports programs, programs which reaffirm violence and “winning”, where many boys will not excel. So where do these boys go?
Incel culture is a construct presented for the purpose of selling young men misogyny & self loathing, while simultaneously cranking out inspirational speakers and self help gurus who make money off their hocus pocus, or whatever it is that one is lacking in, which they claim to have, in order to just BE. We no longer evolve in ways that allow us to solve our problems amongst ourselves, face to face. We depend on others to guide us, & oftentimes, the guidance, good or bad, comes from a stranger online. In a way, this film affirms ideas correspondent to what authoritarians have always known, take away a society’s ability to express itself through the arts, and you end up with a society that is prime for subjugation and domination. Give them nonexistent reasons to be angry at something other than their leadership, and eventually, they will become more & more passive, and some, of course, will not want to surrender. The men are always the ones you must have onboard, in order to take over a democracy. So target them while young. And it works, because the autocrats taught them to hate the Jews in Germany and Europe before WW2. Now, they must be taught to blame it all on Mexicans, The Stacies, and the Chads. They have become convinced at an age when sex is EVERYTHING to them, that they’re not desirable, and have nothing to fight for or live for, e.g. sex with their female peers, and offspring produced thereof.
By denying human beings the ability to express themselves in ways that don’t entail violence, we are responsible for the idea and cultivation of incel culture, its myths and for promoting its pathos. Everything in front of us, Gods and monsters, we created. Denying this film to oneself is fine, but lots of people want to see this, and the majority, if any, will not leave the theater, inspired to kill.