Could you date someone with a very small penis

I couldn't date one, my husband Chou Lee is very large, nearly three inches

As long as he likes sucking and being fucked, sure.

practice squats, lunges and gag reflex control

Not ever.

I don’t care about penis or the size of it. So yeah

Micro peen...no, but 4 or 5 inches...sure, why not?

Any less than 5 inches is unacceptable, even on a bottom.

Tried it but the guy wouldnt let anything near his ass.

Pointless.

[quote]Micro peen...no, but 4 or 5 inches...sure, why not?

^^^This.

OP, your question really doesn't deserve an answer.

Been there - one guy i dated was about 3.5” lasted a year due to his enthusiasm.

Yeah.

Only if they know they have a small dick and aren't overcompensating for it. Had an ex with a pinky-sized one who'd try to fuck me and go on and on "yeah, take it, boy!"

R13, were you filing your fingernails as he was pounding you with his huge cock and talking all top?

If he was a very good bottom, handsome, and mentally and financially stable.

My last husband was a 4 on a good day. It was very thick,I'll give him that,but that wasnt enough to compensate for the fact when he fucked me I was left frustrated. That being said,thanks to his issue we became very inventive in bed and it worked out very well for us both.But did I still crave my hole being well and truly filled ? Constantly.

My husband has a small penis, which is actually fine most of the time.

Once a year or so, I call a fuck buddy and have him plow me with his monster cock. That's enough to hold me for a while.

he should become a bottom--problem solved

I do feel for this guy. But he doesn't say how small his penis is, he also describes himself as ugly and with no friends, doesn't mention his body. So he hardly seems a catch regardless of the size of his penis. Perhaps he should work on developing himself as a person, get in phenomenal shape, and find someone who places less emphasis on penis size than most gay men? Of course, that he wants to top and doesn't like bottoming is also an issue because I would imagine the majority of bottoms are not going to be too satisfied with being fucked with a small dick (although as long as it can slam against the prostate it would still provide pleasure).

Must admit that although I'm mainly a top, a small dick would possibly put me off dating someone. I visited a gay sauna on holiday once and hooked up with a very hot local guy who was well-built, handsome and hairy with a decent sized dick, although all we did was kiss and jerk off together. I met another guy at the same place afterwards who was handsome and in good shape and I got chatting to, ran out of time but arranged to meet him at a bar later that evening. We had a great night hanging out at the bar getting drunk and went back to his hotel, he sucked my dick for a bit and eventually took his underwear off and I was about to reciprocate when I realised he had the smallest dick I'd ever seen in real life. I'm not sure if it officially qualified as a micropenis but it was maybe 3" hard and it was also skinny - I legitimately couldn't properly wrap my hand around it to jerk it off even. It completely killed my desire I'm ashamed to say and I blamed it on tiredness and the alcohol and suggested just falling asleep cuddling. I met up with him again in London for dinner weeks later and he suggested going back to his place but I had to turn him down without giving the real reason. Never saw him again. Though he at least had a lot more to offer than it sounds like this guy does.

R16 - have you tried one of those cock 'sheaths' you can get from brands like Oxballs? You put your dick in it and secure it around your balls so it stays put, and you fuck with it on - it adds inches of length and girth so even the small guys can have a 'huge' dick.

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Been there, done that. Not a big deal.

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I briefly dated a micropeen. He was a sweet guy and built in a way I was *sure* he'd be hung. Nope, it was not only maybe 3", but deformed, too. Pretty surprising. Weirdly he didn't seem to have issues about it, but even as a top I want a proper cock to grab.

A former fuck bd of mine had a micro penis. He was married, two kids. Handsome as hell, and had a great body. His dick was about an inch, hard. He was strictly a bottom, but I'm ashamed to say that, even though he was clearly an adult, it sometimes felt that I was fucking a child and just couldnt do it any more. We're still friends, and he still wants me to fuck him, but I just can't bring myself to doing it.

For me, and I do realize this far from the consensus, actual sex if overrated. For me it is about the attraction, the connection you make beyond what happens in the bedroom, or whatever room. I am all about the relationship, that is the main course, sex is just the dessert and having dessert with every meal just makes you fat. I couldn't careless about the size of his penis.

I think he should transition

Where are we at as far as penis enlargement surgery?

You would think that would be a common thing at this point in technology.

I haven't paid attention to my partner's dick in like 10 years. He knows whose dick matters. It could be any size.

That’s why guys like this have to work extra hard to make a lot of money so that they can offer compensation for absence of sex. It must be horrible as a gay man. But maybe as he gets older and relationships matter more, sex will matter less. Most LT relationships end up being about something other than sex anyway.

Yeah they can make FTMs but not donoriper kenos enlargement?? Wtf?

^^^ but not do proper penis enlargement

Funny enough, Donoriper Kenos had the smallest dick I've ever had the "pleasure" to encounter.

Breast implants have been around for like 40 or 50 years now but no penis implants?

I might be the only gay in the world but I really don’t care if someone is hung or not. Once you’ve had a few big ones the thrill wears off.

size is at the bottom of by priorities but according to grindr I am in the minority. I’ve never been with a super small one but plenty that were smaller than average.

The younger guys who are exclusively taking huge ones will regret it in middle age when they have to wear diapers and lose control of going to the bathroom.

Besides, you need to keep it tight back there so you don’t become lose and sloppy.

Loose

I am not big by any means... but man, I feel sorry for this guy here

If I sense there is a size queen in my messages I will press them about how lose they are and if the keep pressing me about how many inches then I’ll press them about the diameter of their gaping abyss.

It’s kind of fun. Like HOW HUGE IS YOUR GAPE IF YOU NEED A BEER CAN TO FEEL IT?

Lol at r39, I’d feel bad for you having a micro dick but sounds like you’re an incel destined to be alone.

"Gape" is not a real worry unless you're taking gigantic toys up your hole on the regular.

I'm pretty hung and it amazes me how size-queeny gays can be.

So just how teeny weeny is this guy’s peenie? Is it just a length issue, or tiny in circumference as well?

I’ve heard that there are micropenis smaller/shorter than my pinky.

R42, me, too; I have a huge, beautiful penis. It's not so gi-normous that it would scare people away; it's just big enough for people to go to town on.

I don't advertise on dating apps and I am not into big dicks either; I like a guy who's funny, kind, treats me well, and has huge arms and a chest; someone taller is nice, too; and I'm 5'6 3/4" so that's not too hard.

I suppose I should just put it in my grindr profile and screen for what I really want and see if I can find someone decent; it's a numbers game.

But personally, I don't care about a guy's dick size; not if he treats me well.

I think having a loose hole that is going to eventually need surgery is much worse like r40. Probably wearing a diaper as he types.

I dated a guy with a smallish one for almost a year and we had lots of hot fun.

Im friends with a gay dog and he says lots of guys in their 30’s and even younger will begin to leak “back there” due to damaging their anus.

The only cure is a painful and expensive surgery and even sometimes that doesn’t fix it completely. Then he says they just go do it again and have to get the surgery again.

Dog = doc

I wish there was more truth about the risks of aggressive repeated anal sex. Yes - it does cause anal incontinence. Yet I’ve had so many gay men adamantly deny it. Not always and there are ways to minimize risks - including kegels- but there is a price to pay for being a regular bottom with a penchant for big dicks.

One of my regulars who has a huge dick say sometimes he feels used by bottoms most of the times. Like they use them for their own personal dildo with no real actual care about the top and his feelings. When I’m with another it’s all about him.

Yup. Bottoms can be greedy - and VERY competitive. They also tend to despise other bottoms.

Micropeen = no, small = fine.

I had 2 asian lovers in my late teens and they were kind of small and I didn't care, it all fit the package. They were very handsome and smarter than me. In my 20's I dumped 2 TALL handsome successful potential boyfriends, lovers, whatever, because they had micro peen. And I was top. It doesn't make sense to me now. Luckily I snapped out of all that again by my 30s I was with a younger guy with a avg cock for 10 years and he dumped ME when he met a twink (so younger than my boyfriend) who is handsome and has a horse cock. .

#firstworldproblems R49

No, I couldn’t date you, OP.

R48 This is why I am perfectly happy with a guy who is not micropeen, but small to average. I don’t want my hole fucked up permanently!🙅🏻‍♂️

I would like to know the "credentials" of three ANAL LEAKAGE CONCERN TROLLS because I've asked a number of swiss doctors over the years and they said no particular risk - though fisting and big hard dildos is a different story. Maybe it could be an issue if on is a 4'9 pocket gay getting rammed and gaped by 10 inch black cocks daily for years.

I'm a top who loves sqeauky clean assholes. My cleanest bottoms are Spanish,Greeks and Italians. Most of them are beyond huge so that is a cherry on top. Muslims are ultraclean but more of them belong to the teeny weenie peeny committee.

[quote]t’s kind of fun. Like HOW HUGE IS YOUR GAPE IF YOU NEED A BEER CAN TO FEEL IT?

"Gape" <---?

If you're the shit brickhouse troll, can you please tell us another one of your tiny cocklet stories?

I'm currently seeing a 6'1 asian/white mixed guy with less tha 4 in dick, it works in my case since we're both vers and he lets me do whatever I want to his amazing ass. But if he was a strict top only then yeah it would never work.

No big deal. Sorry.

He gives great head, and that's make or break. I'm pretty much exclusive top but you know every five years or so, I get an urge to flip. A smaller guy is a lot easier to navigate. He'd be stunned to find how many guys have a fetish for small cocks. I mean micro sized.

[quote]I'm a top who loves sqeauky clean assholes. My cleanest bottoms are Spanish,Greeks and Italians.

Anyone who told me that olive oil keeping you cleaned out was bullshit can go suck a micropenis.

Date no but marry yes.

The best sex I ever had in my life was with a guy with a small dick. It wasn't a micro peen - but maybe 4" and not thick. This was in Scotland. He had black hair and a short black beard. He was extremely sexy for one thing... with the rolled Rs and saying "aye" instead of yes... which already got off to a good start. He had this naturally muscular body - and he said he never goes to the gym, but he was just built like a solid brick. He was hairy but not overboard. Sexually, it was the most enthusiastic & energetic I've ever seen another guy get -- I can't even describe it. It was like the whole universe disappeared except the 2 of us fucking & sucking in every position imaginable. If he had a bigger dick it wouldn't have mattered much given how good that was.

I have a fb with a huge dick & he can't fuck me the same way or it ends up hurting at a certain point.

To me the real problem isn't the small (average sized) penis. It's the guy being self-conscious and constantly asking "is my penis big enough for you?" and constantly demanding attention and affirming praise or else he suspects I'm on my way out and gets all clingy or weirdly possessive trying to overcompensate.

I'm married to a man with a 4/5 incher and he's clumsy as can be in bed. He'll only let me fuck him on birthdays and special events, so I get more action from porn these days. I don't mind it honesty. I was a virgin for a long time, so abstaining from actual sex doesn't get me down. The real tough part is that he drinks and rarely gets totally hard. That's a buzz kill. I usually just jerk off when he fucks me and leap out of bed quickly to wash the non-existent cum off my hands in the bathroom before he realizes I didn't actually cum.

That is really grim. Do you self a favour and find a better lover before you die, dried out, seldomly and badly fucked.

r65 Holy shit, I'm depressed after reading this.

I had a fuck buddy for 6 years and his dick hard was no more than 4 inches and thin and when it was soft it was the size of a thimble. He had a hot face and I loved him as a fuck buddy. And he was a great top.

Hate to say it, but probably not--unless he was totally perfect in every other way. I'm into mutual oral, so it would be difficult.

Good to hear the diversity of opinions. A lid for every pot. Personally sex is ancillary after the first year - so it shouldn’t matter. It would be fine as long as he wasn’t an insecure possessive monogamy obsessive. If I could do it over, I would try to ignore the sexual aspects of a future husband and focus on the happiness “set point”, absence of neurosis, affluence and family.

I don't know if I could do *very* small, but small is fine. A hot, confident guy with a smallish dick is actually a bit of a turn on; not sure why.

Unless the cock is long enough so the head hits your joy buzzer, you're wasting your time.

[quote] I had a fuck buddy for 6 years and his dick hard was no more than 4 inches and thin and when it was soft it was the size of a thimble. He had a hot face and I loved him as a fuck buddy. And he was a great top.

This is so sad it made me cry. You deliberately chose a guy with a 4-inch dick to fuck you as fuck buddy? I would have thrown him back in the sea and wait for a bigger one to bite.

Most true total tops could care less what size the bottom's penis is as long as they have one.. I'm a top and I could care less about dick size; my focus is on his ass and other features.

I dated a guy who was probably 6’4” or 6’5”, broad-shouldered, sweet, decently good-looking, maybe 2” or 3” hard. I found that discordant combination extremely hot.

Things didn’t work out in part because he was extremely shy and would never tell me what he was thinking or feeling, which may be related.

I know a couple of guys who don't mind "small-ish" dicks. At least one is quite the looker, tall & smart but he made it pretty clear to me several times over our friendship he prefers around 4 or 5 inches to anything else. However, he's also NOT a very sexual person. The other one was hot when he was younger but he is mostly into oral anyway so having a guy with a big dick isn't necessarily his main drive when he dates.

No.

Sure. Plenty of sex without a big dong.

[quote]I'm a top and I could care less about dick size

So you do care!

Homosexual Richard Gere had to have surgery to tighten up her stinkter, it has been rumored.

Are you factoring in the damage that the gerbil retrieval caused him, tho, R80?

The gerbil WAS the surgeon!

Sex eventually dies, you should hope you grow old with a great guy.

Bottom here and I've had all different sizes. My first serious boyfriend when I was really young was very small. I wasn't into anal then, or I should say I didn't know I was into it. He wasn't into anal either. I really liked him, so his penis size wasn't that big a deal. I'm just average hung, so it did feel weird to be bigger than him.

My next was my first partner. He was pretty big, about 7 1/2 and very thick. He really wanted to fuck me so I tried it. No going back after that. I was hooked. It was hot getting fucked by him, but it was more about how I felt about him. I broke up with him after more than a decade because he was frankly an emotional mess. I hadn't really done much other than the two guys.

When I became single, I had all kinds of different sizes. There is a "Goldicocks" size that seems about right for me. I'm very, very tight, so nothing too big. The right size for me seems to be about 7 to 8 1/2 inches max. The really big ones just take forever to get in and kind of hurt. I had a fuck buddy construction worker who was 9 inches. That was the max I could take. It still would take a bit of work to get him in. If I got to choose, 7-8 inches would probably be ideal. But overall, it's more about the guy I'm with. My current partner is under 7 and we have great sex. I'd never limit myself by size, but I'm not sure I could go under say 5 inches.

[quote] I'm very, very tight, so nothing too big.

This made me laugh

Right R85 - lol. And then he goes on to describe 7-8 inches as ideal - which is bigger than 85% of the population. Unless he lives in Venezuela, average he is about 5.7”.

r84=fish?

I've had all sizes. I'm very tight and my prostate is close to my prefect, young, pink rosebud, so I don't like or need the big ones. I'd say ideal size for me is 8-10 inches. I can deal with the average 7. It must be difficult to have micropenis like 5 or 6.

R87 7 of ♥️?

I kno rite R88? Like, anything under 8" is total micro.

[quote]I'm very tight and my prostate is close to my prefect, young, pink rosebud

I once pursued a hot, muscly black guy. He was a walking wet dream and of course, he had a teeny weenie. Sweet guy, though.

I love big chubby guys with a small penis. It's so cute. I once saw one at the nude beach at Sandy Hook and I was head over heels in love.

I don't like to bottom at all, so size really doesn't make any difference to me in terms of satisfaction. I might be taken aback by someone freakishly small or deformed—haven't run into one of those yet. Other factors are far more important than the dick.

under 6 = micromeat

under 7 = tinymeat

7 to 8 = averagemeat

8+ = sizemeat

I’m a top and will admit that I like a bottom with a decent sized cock. It can be pretty small but below a certain size can be distracting. Still not a dealbreaker if the guy has a great body.

[quote]I love big chubby guys with a small penis. It's so cute. I once saw one at the nude beach at Sandy Hook and I was head over heels in love.

I love you too.

Sure. I prefer average size. As long as it isn't a micropenis. I am looking to be fucked, not impaled like the woman in Cannibal Holocaust.

I care more about the person it is attached to than the size.

R99 Same.