Do you still use condoms?

If a bottom asked me to fuck them without a condom I'd take that as a sign to walk away.

Hell no.

Exchanging loads is much more caring and intimate than a sheath of sensation killing latex that prevents true intimacy.

Get on Prep if you’re negative, and get on anti virals if you’re positive. There’s no reason to live in fear.

Are you in every thread here R2 you nasty bug bag?!

I’m in the same threads as you are r3....funny that we share the same interests.

Same subject Vastly different interests.

Tops (both poz and neg) in NYC have basically stopped using condoms. The only guys I see with condoms are older men and married men. The rest rely on PrEP and U=U to dictate what they do.

Tops set the rules, because there are many selfish Total bottoms that will do anything to have their hole filled

Better get on Prep, bottoms, because no one will fuck you with a rubber

Denial of that fact is to accept celibacy

I'm a top R7 and I won't fuck Anyone without a condom and if they try to convince me to I walk away.

How old are you r8

I'm in my 40s so a geezer by DL standards.

Top here. Condom. Always. Non negotiable. Too many diseases out there, evolving constantly.

I started a thread with a link attached a few days ago... how PrEP is now deemed as protected sex even if only one partner is on it and no conforms are involved. This sounds like an extreme position. HIV is not the be all and end all and PrEP isn’t 100%

Millennials like me are done with condoms, such an antiquated concept! I feel so bad for those sad guys not yet on PrEP--get with the program, boys!!

r13 you're very smug and needlessly age-ist. You say "millennials like me" as if it's a compliment. I'm not one of those who thinks it's an insult-but it's not automatically a compliment either. And there are so many other bugs out there.

R14 Calm down Grandpa, I said " millennials like me" to add my age (30) to provide context to my comment, not as a value judgement. I certainly don't view being a millennial as a compliment nor am insult, just like I don't vote not wearing condoms as a moral failing on my part, given that I'm on PrEP!

R13 Pops up on every sex related thread on DL R14 screeching about PrEP and the freedom it's given him to be a loaded up sperm smuggler and how anyone who wants to use condoms must be old and sexless, I hope he enjoys the latest and greatest nature has to throw at him.

I’d only need condoms if I was convinced I needed them—to avoid catching something from the photos, videos and head images I use for my non-contact whacking.

Top here. I only fuck with condoms. I was once fucking a slim 30ish straight looking/sounding guy with dirty blond hair-good looking too. I was fucking him with a condom and all of a sudden he announces - I LIKE IT RAW!- Basically I said BUBYE. I will say he was in a position to give me an attitude. He was goodlooking/masculine slime blond guy-so plenty of tops would be willing to fuck him RAW.

My husband and I do not.

51 Here, and condoms ALWAYS for anal. (not in a relationship) I've had some bottoms offer no thanks after telling them no bareback, no "breeding". I'm fine with that, as there are many others who are willing to respect my needs. Many tell me they're not on PrEP, yet still want to get creampied. I've certainly disappointed some, yet many choose to engage in other fun.

Condoms are so last century.

I answered no because I usually top and almost always with one person on an ongoing basis. If I were procuring a new trick each time, I'd just get sucked off.

R20 I don't fucking get bottoms who won't take no for an answer. Went to a sex party once and was having a great time with a few different guys. One guy came up to me and we started making out, then he tried to get me to fuck him without a condom. I said no. He insisted and basically grabbed my cock and turned around, trying to force me to fuck him without a condom. I said no and walked away, but he kept chasing me until I got frustrated and left.

R23 I know the type. I suppose many of them are aggressive bottoms, always trying to call the shots. (BTW, love piwer bottoms, and straddlers, just with a condom). I'm honestly not humblebragging, but I've even had a few beg for it their way. Total turn off. Some even used childish voices and words, and I don't even play "Daddy", despite my age.

Gramps is telling stories about the “old days”

Total bottoms are best avoided in any situation sexual or otherwise.

R26 Funny that; I've come to that same conclusion with age. They can be boring and selfish partners, and those same traits pop up in other aspects when I've been in a relationship with them. Vers or GGG is a whole lot more satisfying.

R25 No, just last week with a GRINDR hook up, as a matter of fact. You still cannot believe we 50s men get laid, I know.

I'm 34 and was single up until about a year and a half ago.

Top and always insisted on condoms.

Because how fucking stupid do you have to be to believe some rando on Grindr whose real name you don't even know that he's on Prep and taking it religiously and as a result gets tested for various other STDs on a regular basis.

Rarely had anyone turn me down and more often the bottoms were glad for the condom and happy to oblige.

Boyfriends and regular fuck buddies are different stories but a one time hookup off an app-- NFW am I going in raw.

Also, what is GGG R27?

Pushy bottoms are the worst.

[quote]Also, what is GGG

Germanische Glaubens-Gemeinschaft. It's a German neopagan organization. How do you not know that?

R29 A term sex-columnist Dan Savage coined ages ago: Good, Giving, and Game.

Yes condom keep poosey free of disease and prevent leakage.

R27 The same fellow who brought us the term "Santorum". Are you too young for that one too? Not being a cunt, just curious about the divide that seems to be real, the more I continue to read your threads and posts.

R31 Ha! I wish my German was up to snuff... Bad Yiddish, and only three years trying German.

Thanks for the explanation R34/R32/R27 and I am aware of who Dan Savage is and the term "Santorum" (though I may actually have learned about it on DL, now that I think about it. My boyfriend, who is the same age, says he's heard of it too, but may have learned it from me. So we're of zero help, lol.)

Any political savvy gay will know what a pig definition of Santorum, if not there exact definition. Especially since Santorum himself refuses to leave the stage!

r25's looks are fading fast.

What's a condom?

HISSSSSS!!!!

HISSSSS, I say!!!

HISSSSSSS!!!!!

Exit Stage RIght!!!

I’m 96, and I like it raw and natural, except for my oxygen tank and my denture glass/butt plug soak bowl.

R41 I'll bet you do, and I pray for your Filipino home health care aid.