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Did Jesse Jackman and Dirk Caber split up?

Dirk's Twitter account seems to be suspended.

Meanwhile, Jesse has the following cryptic post: "Just wanted to let you guys know that I'm taking a short break from social media to deal with a family matter -- hence why I've been quiet lately. I'll be back… in the meantime, keep fighting the good fight!!"

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by Anonymousreply 101March 9, 2021 1:37 PM

He put that same thing on his FB page. I'd bet the farm they split.

by Anonymousreply 1September 2, 2019 6:45 PM

Caber has a creepy laugh that he manages to inject into every porn scene he's in and Jesse is hot but boy is terminally bad at looking like he's actually enjoying the sex. Worst porn couple ever. Maybe the split will help.

by Anonymousreply 2September 2, 2019 8:55 PM

I live in the Boston area and a reliable source confirmed that they did indeed split.

by Anonymousreply 3October 8, 2019 10:10 PM

Eww

by Anonymousreply 4October 8, 2019 10:24 PM

I've found them both attractive over the years, but Dirk's show-off personality is often hard to stomach.

by Anonymousreply 5October 9, 2019 12:12 AM

He’s mid 40s but looks mid 50s if not early 60s. The gray beard is one feature that ages him.

Dirk Caber is a very unsexy porn star.

by Anonymousreply 6October 9, 2019 1:40 AM

Two aging desperate attention whores. Oh no.

by Anonymousreply 7October 9, 2019 2:30 AM

They have in fact broken off their engagement. It's just that Jesse or Dirk isn't saying anything about it right now. As to why they broke up, I have no idea. But apparently Jesse's "rebound boyfriend", is lashing out at anyone on his and Jesse's Instagram page who even ask about where Dirk is. The whole situation is a hot mess.

by Anonymousreply 8November 4, 2019 4:42 PM

Both whores.

by Anonymousreply 9November 4, 2019 4:52 PM

[quote]It's just that Jesse or Dirk isn't saying anything about it right now. As to why they broke up, I have no idea.

One caught the other having sex with another man...

by Anonymousreply 10November 4, 2019 4:56 PM

Jealousy is such an ugly trait R7, R9

by Anonymousreply 11November 4, 2019 4:57 PM

Wasn't there some cruise ship drama with these two a while back? That I even know this much makes me want to vomit.

by Anonymousreply 12November 4, 2019 5:58 PM

Yes, their demons run deep. It's a wonder they've lasted this long. Atleast the relationship ended without violence.

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by Anonymousreply 13November 4, 2019 6:33 PM

Well, Dirk Caber was bragging about fucking FTMs, so maybe he's turned straight and is moving into hetero porn.

by Anonymousreply 14November 4, 2019 9:52 PM
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by Anonymousreply 15November 4, 2019 10:16 PM

Left: is Jesse Jackman. Right: Dirk Caber

tubajack

Dirk Caber (Jack in real life) Composer, Pianist, Tubist; Acteur X, Writer, Rigger, & Philosopher. Nom de hardeur: Dirk Caber. Hubby is @jesse_jackman

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by Anonymousreply 16November 4, 2019 10:40 PM

Jesse has a new boyfriend and posted a video of them at the supermarket this weekend, with the boyfriend riding in the grocery cart.

by Anonymousreply 17November 4, 2019 10:55 PM

Did anyone find out why they split up?

by Anonymousreply 18January 18, 2020 7:49 PM

Well, has Jesse done any recent porn? It doesn't seem so to me but it appears as if Dirk Caber has. Could it be that Jesse wants out of the porn business but Dirk doesn't?

by Anonymousreply 19January 18, 2020 10:18 PM

[quote]Well, has Jesse done any recent porn?

On his twitter he now lists himself as a part-time porn star and I guess he does have a new boyfriend because there are A LOT of pictures of them together.

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by Anonymousreply 20January 21, 2020 11:57 AM

super creepy

by Anonymousreply 21January 21, 2020 12:09 PM

R18, Caber has a bad drug problem and it fucked up the relationship

by Anonymousreply 22January 21, 2020 12:56 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 23January 21, 2020 1:03 PM

r23=moron

by Anonymousreply 24January 21, 2020 1:35 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 25February 6, 2020 2:28 AM

They're too old to be instawhores. Ewwww!

by Anonymousreply 26February 6, 2020 2:31 AM

I'll never forget exactly where I was when I first heard the news ....

by Anonymousreply 27February 6, 2020 2:37 AM

OMG, this is just like when Brad Pitt broke up with Jennifer Aniston... only no one's heard of them or cares!

by Anonymousreply 28February 6, 2020 3:45 AM

[quote]Caber has a bad drug problem and it fucked up the relationship

Spending too much time with the mirror.

by Anonymousreply 29February 6, 2020 3:55 AM

Remember when they both begged for AND GOT money for a piano so dirk could “share his gift”? Both are EPIC tools and I guess now they spilt up I find it LUDICROUS that anyone found them hot Old, cold, and covered in mold.

by Anonymousreply 30February 7, 2020 8:34 PM

I’m friends in real life with “dirk” and yes, the relationship went south, much to dirk’s chagrin, last year. I don’t think they are on speaking terms

by Anonymousreply 31February 7, 2020 8:36 PM

[quote] Did anyone find out why they split up?

Dirk and Jesse had an open relationship, but as things sometimes go, it became a bit TOO open for dirk. This is dirk’s side

Jesse claims that dirk was erratic and abusive and wanted out

by Anonymousreply 32February 7, 2020 8:38 PM

R31. Was it drugs? That whole gay cruise scene sounds TRAGICALLY juicy!! I found Jesse to be a bit more odious, but that’s not saying much.

by Anonymousreply 33February 7, 2020 8:39 PM

it was tragic

by Anonymousreply 34February 7, 2020 8:44 PM

Two sad, drugged out porn actors......who was expecting role model behavior and/or monogamy from them?

by Anonymousreply 35February 7, 2020 8:46 PM

no one. but dirk is a funny creative guy, and I knew him in college. what ever, mary

by Anonymousreply 36February 7, 2020 8:47 PM

I used to like Dirk(or at least not mind him being in scenes)but then he started appearing in pretty much anyone's Only Fans videos getting loaded up by every HIV+ performer in the business along with him only doing professional porn fucking really young guys who look like jailbait and are usually playing his sons I started avoiding anything he appears in.

by Anonymousreply 37February 7, 2020 8:54 PM

Don't you just hate posters like R35? I mean... what is it that she feels that she is accomplishing by joining and posting on a thread like this? Is it just to further reveal her jealousy that she isn't getting fucked while everyone else is? What a waste...

by Anonymousreply 38February 7, 2020 8:55 PM

[quote]I found Jesse to be a bit more odious

I sure as hell don't!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 39February 7, 2020 9:38 PM

They're porn stars so they're both highly fucked up so the fact Dirk it seems is even more fucked up than Jesse is bad. Also does the new love of Jesse Jackman's life have a weird looking face, it looks...hard.

by Anonymousreply 40February 7, 2020 9:52 PM

Fuck right off, r38. I directly answered questioned posed in this thread. Go eat shit and die

by Anonymousreply 41February 7, 2020 10:20 PM

Jesse TOTALLY lost me when he did that whole “Mom, I’m a Porn Star” blog post or huff post thing. It was SO CRINGY...But then they begged for money online, AND THAT EVEN CRINGIER! The cruise ship meltdown is the stuff that dreams are made of, for us gossiphounds....please don’t judge. At least we aren’t telling mommy how we take it up the cacajzhort for money! 😂😂

by Anonymousreply 42February 7, 2020 11:23 PM

Jesse’s girl had a hangover

by Anonymousreply 43February 8, 2020 7:50 PM

Dirk and Jesse gave an interview somewhere where Dirk revealed that he told Jesse when they started dating that he had a group of regulars some openly HIV+ that he got plowed by on a regular bases and that if Jesse had a problem with it he could go so apparently Dirk was always a selfish bitch.

by Anonymousreply 44February 8, 2020 8:02 PM

dirk really is not hot. He’s a former fatty who really thinks his shit don’t stink. It does. He has a face not unlike a dying goat. Plus the whole “send us money so dirk can play his pie-anny!” made me sick. even the queens in Boston hate them....AND THATS SAYIN SOMETHING!

by Anonymousreply 45February 8, 2020 8:46 PM

Does Dirk miss sushi night with Jesse’s friends?

by Anonymousreply 46February 9, 2020 9:16 PM

That Jesse guy has aged drastically - how old does he claim to be?

by Anonymousreply 47February 9, 2020 9:24 PM

Will someone please give a me a synopsis of Dirk and Jesse's cruise ship fiasco?

by Anonymousreply 48February 9, 2020 9:24 PM

Oh wasn't Dirk that claimed be gold star gay and keeps fucking pussy? Trash...

by Anonymousreply 49February 9, 2020 9:36 PM

NSFW VIDEO INTERVIEW - Muscle Daddy Jesse Jackman

Talks about fitness, filming and being in the porn industry for over six years

Celebrity Interview by Steve Polyak (From GayCalgary® Magazine, April 2018, page 58)

Jesse Jackman is huge. He literally takes up the screen, which is a good thing when you are a porn star like he is. According to him, he’s been in the game for ages. "It’ll be six years next month, which is an eternity in porn years. The average porn career is two years. So, to be able to continue doing this and having people actually engaged in watching the films after six years is pretty remarkable."

Jesse is seen as a daddy, but that’s not really his thing. "If you’ve looked through my films – and I haven’t done that many films, like three dozen over the course of my career, I sort of paced it out – but you’ll notice that I haven’t really done any daddy/son, or stepfather type films. And that’s because in my personal life, and also when I’m filming, I believe in egalitarianism in myself and my scene partner. I want to be with an equal, I don’t necessarily want the age difference there. A lot of people think of it as the creepy step dad, or the father figure having dominance for the younger actor. So anytime I filmed a scene it’s always been like, this is a co-star, we’re equals, we’re just having a good time.

"I have no personal issues with the daddy/son dynamic, I respect people understand that – as long as it’s not seen as exploitative. An older man taking advantage of a younger man? That just rubs me the wrong way."

Jesse has also been branching off filming a web series which, while his character is a porn director, will be a non-pornographic role. It’s mainstream, which he’s quite excited by. It’s a production called Last Call, and has other TitanMen talents behind it.

"There’s a little bit of mild nudity in it," he adds, with a playful little grin. "It’s nothing hardcore, it’s definitely mainstream."

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by Anonymousreply 50February 10, 2020 8:26 PM

Meanwhile....

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by Anonymousreply 51February 10, 2020 8:27 PM

So basically Jesse is saying Dirk's need to fuck his own fake sons on video is gross.

by Anonymousreply 52February 11, 2020 8:05 AM

"NSFW VIDEO INTERVIEW - Muscle Daddy Jesse Jackman"

So Jesse is transitioning to mainstream! Glorious. I wonder what that's gonna look like given that he can't even act like he's actually enjoying sex in porn.

by Anonymousreply 53February 25, 2020 5:02 AM

maybe jesse and dirk will reunite bc of the corona in boston

by Anonymousreply 54April 29, 2020 2:09 AM

Jesse has a new (massive) bodybuilder/grad student/boyfriend now. anybody know where Dirk is sequestered?

by Anonymousreply 55April 29, 2020 2:13 AM

Dirk has been busy tweeting about the Fanmade All Stars Awards 2020.

by Anonymousreply 56May 2, 2020 1:19 PM

Can't Ryan Murphy find a role for Jesse in one of this Netflix shows?

by Anonymousreply 57May 2, 2020 1:22 PM

Caber's porn career is like watching a long, drawn out suicide. That can be said about many porn stars, but his is one of the creepiest.

by Anonymousreply 58May 2, 2020 2:21 PM

Does anyone know what actually precipitated their breakup--other than the fact Jesse is ass-over-elbow for his new rescue project?

And, as R58 says, Jack/Dirk seems to be battling some serious demons in spite of the fact that he is better educated than 99% of his peers and has legitimate talents.

by Anonymousreply 59May 2, 2020 3:03 PM

The only time those two seemed to be into the sex they were having on camera was in a small homemade video they made together a couple of years ago. Otherwise, Jackman (who is very hot looking) always seems like a robot to me, barely getting though each scene like a jackhammer or a receptacle, and Caber looks dissociated, like he thinks he's acting in a comedy instead of letting himself get aroused by the sex he's having. Two of the most boring porn models ever.

by Anonymousreply 60May 2, 2020 4:08 PM

[quote]Oh wasn't Dirk that claimed be gold star gay and keeps fucking pussy? Trash...

r49, that does sound like something that might come from him. There is definitely a big push by gay-identified gay porn actors to have sex with with transmen at the moment. The transmen get to feel 'validated' in their identity and the 'gay' porn guys get woke points and to feel superior to 'close-minded' gay men who are only into biological men. Almost every 'gay' porn guy now does it, it would probably be easier to list the ones that don't do transmen porn at this point.

It is hilarious to see all these 'gay' porn models filling their twitter accounts with how much they love pussy. If you actually believed these transmen were men, why would you focus almost exclusively on their female genitalia? And any poster that mentions to them that loving pussy isn't gay is immediately labeled as a close-minded bigot. They insist that having sex with a 'male vagina' is still gay. The delusion is real.

by Anonymousreply 61May 3, 2020 3:18 PM

Gross. It's one thing to be bisexual, but to partake in these delusions... And he's encouraging other gay men to have heterosexual intercourse...why?

by Anonymousreply 62May 4, 2020 12:38 AM

I know that all the drugs these transmen take usually makes them infertile but apparently that isn't always the case, hence the 'man' giving birth stories we see popping up. Are these transmen who perform in gay porn on birth control?

by Anonymousreply 63May 4, 2020 10:51 PM

^^^ This is so disgusting. What kind of world do we live in that gay men have to start worrying about birth control? Vaginas go away!

by Anonymousreply 64May 5, 2020 12:55 AM

If Dirk Caber makes those demented barking, growling sounds during sex when he isn't laughing maniacally that is during private sex it makes me wonder why Jesse didn't dump him even sooner.

by Anonymousreply 65May 6, 2020 7:15 AM

" What kind of world do we live in that gay men have to start worrying about birth control? Vaginas go away!"

Gurl, I am almost 100% sure you don't have to worry about vaginas getting anywhere near you.

by Anonymousreply 66May 6, 2020 7:51 AM

Threads like these are so bizarre to me. These are two sex workers in their 40s and 50s. The idea of them being in a couple or especially engaged seems preposterous to begin with. An ‘open relationship’ in which people are forgiving of their partner occasionally having sex with someone else is enough of a strain for most people. For both people in the relationship to be perpetually attention-starved prostitutes who have to continually compromise themselves to be videotaped fucking so that it can be sold to the public...come on. Engaged? What’s the point of an engagement between two people in this position? The only point is attention: two narcissists together, both of whom publicized a relationship and impending nuptials.

This is all pretty ridiculous. People who make life choices like this this late in their lives are not going to suddenly start making wise and healthful decisions.

by Anonymousreply 67May 6, 2020 8:32 AM

R66=triggered frau cunt

by Anonymousreply 68May 6, 2020 12:12 PM

I always figured Jesse Jackson was gay.

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by Anonymousreply 69May 6, 2020 12:17 PM

[R68]=triggered prolapsed anus cunt

by Anonymousreply 70May 8, 2020 4:51 AM
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by Anonymousreply 71May 8, 2020 9:48 AM

So misunderstood

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by Anonymousreply 72May 8, 2020 10:45 AM

R70=Retard frau cunt who can’t even get an insult right.

by Anonymousreply 73May 8, 2020 11:21 AM

r63 HRT doesn't change anything. Trans "Men" still can get pregnant even if they fully transitioned over. Yet all these trans men here taking creampies left and right and I know that birth control isn't as effective because they are taking huge amounts of testosterone.

by Anonymousreply 74May 8, 2020 8:23 PM

r73 = Too stupid to realize he's being made fun of

by Anonymousreply 75May 9, 2020 4:10 AM

R75=frau cunt who never gets fucked, except by life.

by Anonymousreply 76May 9, 2020 4:26 AM

r76= still stupid after all these hours.

by Anonymousreply 77May 9, 2020 11:51 AM

The way we were....

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by Anonymousreply 78May 9, 2020 12:16 PM

R77=late for getting her mustache waxed

by Anonymousreply 79May 9, 2020 4:21 PM

Ladies, pleeeze, can we get back to the two stoopids?

by Anonymousreply 80May 9, 2020 4:56 PM

R78 Dirk had such a sweet face on an old man body when he started this life-stunting career.

by Anonymousreply 81May 9, 2020 5:00 PM

Agree, R81.

Some of the photos he did for Inseam Clothing about 12 years ago were charming.

Alas, not even the products he was modeling have withstood the ravages of time.

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by Anonymousreply 82May 10, 2020 12:20 AM

Maybe Jackman just wanted a more monogamous relationship

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by Anonymousreply 83May 10, 2020 11:24 AM

At what point does someone that age stop feeling so desperate for attention?

by Anonymousreply 84May 10, 2020 12:53 PM

^Maybe you want to ask Madonna (and others) that question.

by Anonymousreply 85May 10, 2020 2:28 PM

Dirk, confirmed iconic

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by Anonymousreply 86May 24, 2020 4:59 PM

Oh puhleeze, if he's iconic then Armond Rizzo is a legendary superstar.

by Anonymousreply 87May 24, 2020 6:04 PM
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by Anonymousreply 88May 26, 2020 7:37 AM

bump

by Anonymousreply 89August 4, 2020 5:50 PM

[quote]OMG, this is just like when Brad Pitt broke up with Jennifer Aniston

Except instead of Brannifer we got... Jerk?

by Anonymousreply 90August 4, 2020 6:15 PM

I hope no one lets those two back on a boat.

by Anonymousreply 91August 6, 2020 7:33 AM

r87 He is...for the public health officials.

by Anonymousreply 92August 6, 2020 6:10 PM

Dirk has been very quiet lately. No tweets since December.

by Anonymousreply 93February 9, 2021 11:34 AM

How the fuck do porn whores jump to the head of the line for COVID vaccines while my 80-something parents in Utah can't even get an appointment?

by Anonymousreply 94February 9, 2021 11:46 AM

I have the impression that Jesse Jackman in real life is a medical health professional - a nurse or orderly or something. So that is why he got the COVID-19 vaccine earlier.

BTW: another potential source of friction between Dirk and Jesse - Dirk for a long time advertised as an escort (his ad is currently expired). Jesse was never escorting from what I can see. That might have been another stress in the relationship.

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by Anonymousreply 95February 23, 2021 1:26 PM

Dirk is always posing and posturing because his self esteem is so low. It's why he had the drug-fueled freakout on the cruise ship.

by Anonymousreply 96February 23, 2021 3:40 PM

Seems that Jesse's new partner came into the picture as a third wheel in a Dirk-Jesse ménage a trois circa July-August 2019. He is traveling with the duo to Florida and New York at that time as pictured below: Soon after that, Dirk is out of the picture.

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by Anonymousreply 97February 26, 2021 2:59 PM

So Jesse wasn't that into Dirk?

by Anonymousreply 98February 26, 2021 3:08 PM

Literally, he wasn't that into Dirk.

Good news, though. Dirk is back into some very light tweeting.

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by Anonymousreply 99March 9, 2021 11:44 AM

[quote] I have the impression that Jesse Jackman in real life is a medical health professional - a nurse or orderly or something. So that is why he got the COVID-19 vaccine earlier.

I think he's a bit further removed than that. Say, a database administrator or something. I have a friend who is also in a similar position and he was high up on the list being that they are still considered essential because they must be on the hospital campus and interact with healthcare workers.

Did we ever get the hole whorer story? All three of them seem to be basically good but deeply flawed people.

by Anonymousreply 100March 9, 2021 1:05 PM

When I saw this thread had been bumped I thought Dirk must have gone off the rails... further off them than usual again.

by Anonymousreply 101March 9, 2021 1:37 PM
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