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Did Jesse Jackman and Dirk Caber split up?

Dirk's Twitter account seems to be suspended.

Meanwhile, Jesse has the following cryptic post: "Just wanted to let you guys know that I'm taking a short break from social media to deal with a family matter -- hence why I've been quiet lately. I'll be back… in the meantime, keep fighting the good fight!!"

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by Anonymousreply 98Last Friday at 6:08 AM

He put that same thing on his FB page. I'd bet the farm they split.

by Anonymousreply 109/02/2019

Caber has a creepy laugh that he manages to inject into every porn scene he's in and Jesse is hot but boy is terminally bad at looking like he's actually enjoying the sex. Worst porn couple ever. Maybe the split will help.

by Anonymousreply 209/02/2019

I live in the Boston area and a reliable source confirmed that they did indeed split.

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by Anonymousreply 410/08/2019

I've found them both attractive over the years, but Dirk's show-off personality is often hard to stomach.

by Anonymousreply 510/08/2019

He’s mid 40s but looks mid 50s if not early 60s. The gray beard is one feature that ages him.

Dirk Caber is a very unsexy porn star.

by Anonymousreply 610/08/2019

Two aging desperate attention whores. Oh no.

by Anonymousreply 710/08/2019

They have in fact broken off their engagement. It's just that Jesse or Dirk isn't saying anything about it right now. As to why they broke up, I have no idea. But apparently Jesse's "rebound boyfriend", is lashing out at anyone on his and Jesse's Instagram page who even ask about where Dirk is. The whole situation is a hot mess.

by Anonymousreply 811/04/2019

Both whores.

by Anonymousreply 911/04/2019

[quote]It's just that Jesse or Dirk isn't saying anything about it right now. As to why they broke up, I have no idea.

One caught the other having sex with another man...

by Anonymousreply 1011/04/2019

Jealousy is such an ugly trait R7, R9

by Anonymousreply 1111/04/2019

Wasn't there some cruise ship drama with these two a while back? That I even know this much makes me want to vomit.

by Anonymousreply 1211/04/2019

Yes, their demons run deep. It's a wonder they've lasted this long. Atleast the relationship ended without violence.

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by Anonymousreply 1311/04/2019

Well, Dirk Caber was bragging about fucking FTMs, so maybe he's turned straight and is moving into hetero porn.

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by Anonymousreply 1511/04/2019

Left: is Jesse Jackman. Right: Dirk Caber


Dirk Caber (Jack in real life) Composer, Pianist, Tubist; Acteur X, Writer, Rigger, & Philosopher. Nom de hardeur: Dirk Caber. Hubby is @jesse_jackman

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by Anonymousreply 1611/04/2019

Jesse has a new boyfriend and posted a video of them at the supermarket this weekend, with the boyfriend riding in the grocery cart.

by Anonymousreply 1711/04/2019

Did anyone find out why they split up?

by Anonymousreply 1801/18/2020

Well, has Jesse done any recent porn? It doesn't seem so to me but it appears as if Dirk Caber has. Could it be that Jesse wants out of the porn business but Dirk doesn't?

by Anonymousreply 1901/18/2020

[quote]Well, has Jesse done any recent porn?

On his twitter he now lists himself as a part-time porn star and I guess he does have a new boyfriend because there are A LOT of pictures of them together.

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by Anonymousreply 2001/21/2020

super creepy

by Anonymousreply 2101/21/2020

R18, Caber has a bad drug problem and it fucked up the relationship

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by Anonymousreply 2502/05/2020

They're too old to be instawhores. Ewwww!

by Anonymousreply 2602/05/2020

I'll never forget exactly where I was when I first heard the news ....

by Anonymousreply 2702/05/2020

OMG, this is just like when Brad Pitt broke up with Jennifer Aniston... only no one's heard of them or cares!

by Anonymousreply 2802/05/2020

[quote]Caber has a bad drug problem and it fucked up the relationship

Spending too much time with the mirror.

by Anonymousreply 2902/05/2020

Remember when they both begged for AND GOT money for a piano so dirk could “share his gift”? Both are EPIC tools and I guess now they spilt up I find it LUDICROUS that anyone found them hot Old, cold, and covered in mold.

by Anonymousreply 3002/07/2020

I’m friends in real life with “dirk” and yes, the relationship went south, much to dirk’s chagrin, last year. I don’t think they are on speaking terms

by Anonymousreply 3102/07/2020

[quote] Did anyone find out why they split up?

Dirk and Jesse had an open relationship, but as things sometimes go, it became a bit TOO open for dirk. This is dirk’s side

Jesse claims that dirk was erratic and abusive and wanted out

by Anonymousreply 3202/07/2020

R31. Was it drugs? That whole gay cruise scene sounds TRAGICALLY juicy!! I found Jesse to be a bit more odious, but that’s not saying much.

by Anonymousreply 3302/07/2020

it was tragic

by Anonymousreply 3402/07/2020

Two sad, drugged out porn actors......who was expecting role model behavior and/or monogamy from them?

by Anonymousreply 3502/07/2020

no one. but dirk is a funny creative guy, and I knew him in college. what ever, mary

by Anonymousreply 3602/07/2020

I used to like Dirk(or at least not mind him being in scenes)but then he started appearing in pretty much anyone's Only Fans videos getting loaded up by every HIV+ performer in the business along with him only doing professional porn fucking really young guys who look like jailbait and are usually playing his sons I started avoiding anything he appears in.

by Anonymousreply 3702/07/2020

Don't you just hate posters like R35? I mean... what is it that she feels that she is accomplishing by joining and posting on a thread like this? Is it just to further reveal her jealousy that she isn't getting fucked while everyone else is? What a waste...

by Anonymousreply 3802/07/2020

[quote]I found Jesse to be a bit more odious

I sure as hell don't!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 3902/07/2020

They're porn stars so they're both highly fucked up so the fact Dirk it seems is even more fucked up than Jesse is bad. Also does the new love of Jesse Jackman's life have a weird looking face, it looks...hard.

by Anonymousreply 4002/07/2020

Fuck right off, r38. I directly answered questioned posed in this thread. Go eat shit and die

by Anonymousreply 4102/07/2020

Jesse TOTALLY lost me when he did that whole “Mom, I’m a Porn Star” blog post or huff post thing. It was SO CRINGY...But then they begged for money online, AND THAT EVEN CRINGIER! The cruise ship meltdown is the stuff that dreams are made of, for us gossiphounds....please don’t judge. At least we aren’t telling mommy how we take it up the cacajzhort for money! 😂😂

by Anonymousreply 4202/07/2020

Jesse’s girl had a hangover

by Anonymousreply 4302/08/2020

Dirk and Jesse gave an interview somewhere where Dirk revealed that he told Jesse when they started dating that he had a group of regulars some openly HIV+ that he got plowed by on a regular bases and that if Jesse had a problem with it he could go so apparently Dirk was always a selfish bitch.

by Anonymousreply 4402/08/2020

dirk really is not hot. He’s a former fatty who really thinks his shit don’t stink. It does. He has a face not unlike a dying goat. Plus the whole “send us money so dirk can play his pie-anny!” made me sick. even the queens in Boston hate them....AND THATS SAYIN SOMETHING!

by Anonymousreply 4502/08/2020

Does Dirk miss sushi night with Jesse’s friends?

by Anonymousreply 4602/09/2020

That Jesse guy has aged drastically - how old does he claim to be?

by Anonymousreply 4702/09/2020

Will someone please give a me a synopsis of Dirk and Jesse's cruise ship fiasco?

by Anonymousreply 4802/09/2020

Oh wasn't Dirk that claimed be gold star gay and keeps fucking pussy? Trash...

by Anonymousreply 4902/09/2020

NSFW VIDEO INTERVIEW - Muscle Daddy Jesse Jackman

Talks about fitness, filming and being in the porn industry for over six years

Celebrity Interview by Steve Polyak (From GayCalgary® Magazine, April 2018, page 58)

Jesse Jackman is huge. He literally takes up the screen, which is a good thing when you are a porn star like he is. According to him, he’s been in the game for ages. "It’ll be six years next month, which is an eternity in porn years. The average porn career is two years. So, to be able to continue doing this and having people actually engaged in watching the films after six years is pretty remarkable."

Jesse is seen as a daddy, but that’s not really his thing. "If you’ve looked through my films – and I haven’t done that many films, like three dozen over the course of my career, I sort of paced it out – but you’ll notice that I haven’t really done any daddy/son, or stepfather type films. And that’s because in my personal life, and also when I’m filming, I believe in egalitarianism in myself and my scene partner. I want to be with an equal, I don’t necessarily want the age difference there. A lot of people think of it as the creepy step dad, or the father figure having dominance for the younger actor. So anytime I filmed a scene it’s always been like, this is a co-star, we’re equals, we’re just having a good time.

"I have no personal issues with the daddy/son dynamic, I respect people understand that – as long as it’s not seen as exploitative. An older man taking advantage of a younger man? That just rubs me the wrong way."

Jesse has also been branching off filming a web series which, while his character is a porn director, will be a non-pornographic role. It’s mainstream, which he’s quite excited by. It’s a production called Last Call, and has other TitanMen talents behind it.

"There’s a little bit of mild nudity in it," he adds, with a playful little grin. "It’s nothing hardcore, it’s definitely mainstream."

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by Anonymousreply 5102/10/2020

So basically Jesse is saying Dirk's need to fuck his own fake sons on video is gross.

by Anonymousreply 5202/10/2020

"NSFW VIDEO INTERVIEW - Muscle Daddy Jesse Jackman"

So Jesse is transitioning to mainstream! Glorious. I wonder what that's gonna look like given that he can't even act like he's actually enjoying sex in porn.

by Anonymousreply 5302/24/2020

maybe jesse and dirk will reunite bc of the corona in boston

by Anonymousreply 5404/28/2020

Jesse has a new (massive) bodybuilder/grad student/boyfriend now. anybody know where Dirk is sequestered?

by Anonymousreply 5504/28/2020

Dirk has been busy tweeting about the Fanmade All Stars Awards 2020.

by Anonymousreply 5605/02/2020

Can't Ryan Murphy find a role for Jesse in one of this Netflix shows?

by Anonymousreply 5705/02/2020

Caber's porn career is like watching a long, drawn out suicide. That can be said about many porn stars, but his is one of the creepiest.

by Anonymousreply 5805/02/2020

Does anyone know what actually precipitated their breakup--other than the fact Jesse is ass-over-elbow for his new rescue project?

And, as R58 says, Jack/Dirk seems to be battling some serious demons in spite of the fact that he is better educated than 99% of his peers and has legitimate talents.

by Anonymousreply 5905/02/2020

The only time those two seemed to be into the sex they were having on camera was in a small homemade video they made together a couple of years ago. Otherwise, Jackman (who is very hot looking) always seems like a robot to me, barely getting though each scene like a jackhammer or a receptacle, and Caber looks dissociated, like he thinks he's acting in a comedy instead of letting himself get aroused by the sex he's having. Two of the most boring porn models ever.

by Anonymousreply 6005/02/2020

[quote]Oh wasn't Dirk that claimed be gold star gay and keeps fucking pussy? Trash...

r49, that does sound like something that might come from him. There is definitely a big push by gay-identified gay porn actors to have sex with with transmen at the moment. The transmen get to feel 'validated' in their identity and the 'gay' porn guys get woke points and to feel superior to 'close-minded' gay men who are only into biological men. Almost every 'gay' porn guy now does it, it would probably be easier to list the ones that don't do transmen porn at this point.

It is hilarious to see all these 'gay' porn models filling their twitter accounts with how much they love pussy. If you actually believed these transmen were men, why would you focus almost exclusively on their female genitalia? And any poster that mentions to them that loving pussy isn't gay is immediately labeled as a close-minded bigot. They insist that having sex with a 'male vagina' is still gay. The delusion is real.

by Anonymousreply 6105/03/2020

Gross. It's one thing to be bisexual, but to partake in these delusions... And he's encouraging other gay men to have heterosexual intercourse...why?

by Anonymousreply 6205/03/2020

I know that all the drugs these transmen take usually makes them infertile but apparently that isn't always the case, hence the 'man' giving birth stories we see popping up. Are these transmen who perform in gay porn on birth control?

by Anonymousreply 6305/04/2020

^^^ This is so disgusting. What kind of world do we live in that gay men have to start worrying about birth control? Vaginas go away!

by Anonymousreply 6405/04/2020

If Dirk Caber makes those demented barking, growling sounds during sex when he isn't laughing maniacally that is during private sex it makes me wonder why Jesse didn't dump him even sooner.

by Anonymousreply 6505/05/2020

" What kind of world do we live in that gay men have to start worrying about birth control? Vaginas go away!"

Gurl, I am almost 100% sure you don't have to worry about vaginas getting anywhere near you.

by Anonymousreply 6605/05/2020

Threads like these are so bizarre to me. These are two sex workers in their 40s and 50s. The idea of them being in a couple or especially engaged seems preposterous to begin with. An ‘open relationship’ in which people are forgiving of their partner occasionally having sex with someone else is enough of a strain for most people. For both people in the relationship to be perpetually attention-starved prostitutes who have to continually compromise themselves to be videotaped fucking so that it can be sold to the public...come on. Engaged? What’s the point of an engagement between two people in this position? The only point is attention: two narcissists together, both of whom publicized a relationship and impending nuptials.

This is all pretty ridiculous. People who make life choices like this this late in their lives are not going to suddenly start making wise and healthful decisions.

by Anonymousreply 6705/05/2020

R66=triggered frau cunt

by Anonymousreply 6805/06/2020

I always figured Jesse Jackson was gay.

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by Anonymousreply 6905/06/2020

[R68]=triggered prolapsed anus cunt

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by Anonymousreply 7105/08/2020

So misunderstood

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by Anonymousreply 7205/08/2020

R70=Retard frau cunt who can’t even get an insult right.

by Anonymousreply 7305/08/2020

r63 HRT doesn't change anything. Trans "Men" still can get pregnant even if they fully transitioned over. Yet all these trans men here taking creampies left and right and I know that birth control isn't as effective because they are taking huge amounts of testosterone.

by Anonymousreply 7405/08/2020

r73 = Too stupid to realize he's being made fun of

by Anonymousreply 7505/08/2020

R75=frau cunt who never gets fucked, except by life.

by Anonymousreply 7605/08/2020

r76= still stupid after all these hours.

by Anonymousreply 7705/09/2020

The way we were....

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by Anonymousreply 7805/09/2020

R77=late for getting her mustache waxed

by Anonymousreply 7905/09/2020

Ladies, pleeeze, can we get back to the two stoopids?

by Anonymousreply 8005/09/2020

R78 Dirk had such a sweet face on an old man body when he started this life-stunting career.

by Anonymousreply 8105/09/2020

Agree, R81.

Some of the photos he did for Inseam Clothing about 12 years ago were charming.

Alas, not even the products he was modeling have withstood the ravages of time.

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by Anonymousreply 8205/09/2020

Maybe Jackman just wanted a more monogamous relationship

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by Anonymousreply 8305/10/2020

At what point does someone that age stop feeling so desperate for attention?

by Anonymousreply 8405/10/2020

^Maybe you want to ask Madonna (and others) that question.

by Anonymousreply 8505/10/2020

Dirk, confirmed iconic

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by Anonymousreply 8605/24/2020

Oh puhleeze, if he's iconic then Armond Rizzo is a legendary superstar.

by Anonymousreply 8705/24/2020
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by Anonymousreply 8908/04/2020

[quote]OMG, this is just like when Brad Pitt broke up with Jennifer Aniston

Except instead of Brannifer we got... Jerk?

by Anonymousreply 9008/04/2020

I hope no one lets those two back on a boat.

by Anonymousreply 9108/05/2020

r87 He is...for the public health officials.

by Anonymousreply 9208/06/2020

Dirk has been very quiet lately. No tweets since December.

by Anonymousreply 9302/09/2021

How the fuck do porn whores jump to the head of the line for COVID vaccines while my 80-something parents in Utah can't even get an appointment?

by Anonymousreply 9402/09/2021

I have the impression that Jesse Jackman in real life is a medical health professional - a nurse or orderly or something. So that is why he got the COVID-19 vaccine earlier.

BTW: another potential source of friction between Dirk and Jesse - Dirk for a long time advertised as an escort (his ad is currently expired). Jesse was never escorting from what I can see. That might have been another stress in the relationship.

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by Anonymousreply 9502/23/2021

Dirk is always posing and posturing because his self esteem is so low. It's why he had the drug-fueled freakout on the cruise ship.

by Anonymousreply 9602/23/2021

Seems that Jesse's new partner came into the picture as a third wheel in a Dirk-Jesse ménage a trois circa July-August 2019. He is traveling with the duo to Florida and New York at that time as pictured below: Soon after that, Dirk is out of the picture.

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by Anonymousreply 97Last Friday at 5:59 AM

So Jesse wasn't that into Dirk?

by Anonymousreply 98Last Friday at 6:08 AM
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