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Awful lot of guys on Grindr and Scruff

Somebody’s lying. Either men were always having gay sex and keeping it a secret, or people are more in touch with that side of themselves/open minded (now that it’s not such a taboo) or there’s way more gay/bi/fluid/whatever people than we were led to believe. Or it’s just for ego stroking? I’VE BEEN LIED TO, AND I FEEL DUPED!

by Anonymousreply 20August 26, 2019 11:20 AM

The first time I logged on Grindr, my first thought was that all men within half a mile from me must be gay.

by Anonymousreply 1August 26, 2019 3:30 AM

If your incoherent post is a reference to all the "straight" guys who post there, OP, well. Calling yourself "straight" is a good way to get laid, even if you're ugly.

by Anonymousreply 2August 26, 2019 3:55 AM

What exactly is your question, OP?

Try to think, then type.

by Anonymousreply 3August 26, 2019 4:42 AM

The numbers don’t add up, is what I’m saying. It seems like a good chunk of the population. But then everybody’s like: Gay? Who? What? Never heard of it! Not me.

Weren’t we told 1 out of ten or something? And there’s more who aren’t even on the apps!

Lies, lies, lies.

by Anonymousreply 4August 26, 2019 5:29 AM

Lots of people want gay/same sex. Lots. Blowjobs, a good f*ck, deep tongue kisses, hell, anything from someone of the same sex or gender or some combo that isn't strictly hetero. You don't even need to sign onto Grindr, Scruff, just walk down the street or go to mall bathroom, etc. No matter what identity many people call themselves, they will sleep with anything human with a pulse. So long as they're 18+ and can consent, what's the biggie?

by Anonymousreply 5August 26, 2019 5:35 AM

OP is so naive and gullible, and she has no clue about app embedded BOTS?

The phrase "there's a sucker born every minute" is so true.

by Anonymousreply 6August 26, 2019 5:41 AM

Never seen a bot on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 7August 26, 2019 5:45 AM

You should check how close they are to you OP. The nearest guy could possibly be miles away.

by Anonymousreply 8August 26, 2019 5:49 AM

They don't post a pic of their code, r7.

by Anonymousreply 9August 26, 2019 5:50 AM

R9 So they're just there and do nothing? Bots are supposed to spread automated messages. What do Grindr bots post?

by Anonymousreply 10August 26, 2019 6:00 AM

Don't you need to be a premium costumer to see guys who are miles away?

by Anonymousreply 11August 26, 2019 6:01 AM

^. Not on Grindr. Some choose not to show their distance but it’s easy to figure out by looking at the nearest profile with distance.

by Anonymousreply 12August 26, 2019 6:07 AM

R11. I read you question wrongly. You get a limit of say 100 profiles closest to you. If there’s no gay guys in your town, it will post profiles from the next town.

I was in Asia early one morning before Grindr was popular and I picked up profiles from the neighboring country.

by Anonymousreply 13August 26, 2019 6:11 AM

I'm pretty sure I'm only allowed to see guys who are 600m from me (I'm non-American). So is that different for Americans?

by Anonymousreply 14August 26, 2019 6:12 AM

R13 Oh, OK.

by Anonymousreply 15August 26, 2019 6:13 AM

All dating and sex apps have planted profiles. Profiles to keep you swiping and convince you that there are hot guys in your dunk little trailer park just waiting for you.

by Anonymousreply 16August 26, 2019 6:52 AM

I tried Grindr and Scruff and there were literally no guys within 60 miles of me, I live in a town that's in a very rural area but still, needless to say, I deleted them both.

by Anonymousreply 17August 26, 2019 7:51 AM

Gay is more mainstream and so it's easier for closeted men. That said, my personal belief is that 90% of men have always been ok with same sex fun.

by Anonymousreply 18August 26, 2019 9:12 AM

[quote]All dating and sex apps have planted profiles. Profiles to keep you swiping and convince you that there are hot guys in your dunk little trailer park just waiting for you.

Yep. Remember when Ashley Madison got hacked and it was revealed that something like one percent or less of the supposed 'millions' of female users there were actually real and active? Most were bots or fake accounts of one sort or another. Very few actual women were on the site interacting with the men. There's are scam-like elements involved in all of these types apps and sites. Gotta keep people hoping, or they won't stick around.

by Anonymousreply 19August 26, 2019 10:47 AM

R5 = Eldergay. What is a mall?

by Anonymousreply 20August 26, 2019 11:20 AM
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