My partner and I are considering opening up the relationship or at least doing it with someone else while also being there (none of that 'don't ask, don't tell' nonsense). I wanted to know if anybody on DL has engaged in swinging with other couples or actually cuckolding where your partner has sex with someone else, while you look on. I'd appreciate any input.
Any proponents of swinging and/or cuckolding?
| by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 21, 2019 5:48 AM |
I'm a cuck. I remain monogamous but my husband does not. Sometimes I get to watch.
| by Anonymous | reply 1 | August 18, 2019 10:27 PM |
Swinging is such a straight term to me. It is just called an open relationship. You can have a rule where you only play together, but I've never seen a gay person calling it swinging.
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | August 18, 2019 10:30 PM |
Everyone is different. I have no desire to watch my partner have sex with someone else - or for him to watch me. I prefer “don’t ask, don’t tell” - whatever he wants to do is fine, I just don’t have any interest in discussing or watching it.
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | August 18, 2019 11:18 PM |
usually cuckolding has elements of humiliation and erotic jealousy built in. it does for me
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | August 18, 2019 11:24 PM |
I have an open relationship - sometimes have 3some, sometimes watch.
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | August 18, 2019 11:37 PM |
r4 I think it's hot too. I would probably be down for it with the right partner.
A complete open relationship is just too complicated for my tastes. Lets just get off together and leave everything else as it is
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | August 19, 2019 12:29 AM |
Everybodys open relationship works differently. There is no one size fit all.
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | August 19, 2019 1:34 AM |
open relationships are great, they make it easier to meet your next hubby
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | August 19, 2019 2:22 AM |
Sorry, but it always occurs when we’re about to fuck and the husband wants to watch or get involved.
That is not cool for me at all; I chose the one I wanted and nothing was said about a husband -much less an older,oily,fat guy. That’s way too much to process mid-fuck. It’s rude.
There should be written protocol for threesomes as well as this cuckold bullshit.
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | August 19, 2019 2:38 AM |
bumps
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | August 20, 2019 7:02 PM |
My husband and I tried swinging and it nearly broke us up. Now we go to sex clubs together and flirt with people and just watch other people having sex. Then we have sex with each other- i.e., exhibitionists. It works for us.
Communication is key.
| by Anonymous | reply 11 | August 20, 2019 7:27 PM |
[quote]My husband and I tried swinging and it nearly broke us up
why?
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | August 20, 2019 8:14 PM |
I always wondered about this. If you and your partner occasionally have threesomes, does that make your relationship open?
| by Anonymous | reply 13 | August 20, 2019 8:20 PM |
Of course r13.
If you don't have a monogamous relationship where you only have sex with each other, then you have some type of open relationship.
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | August 20, 2019 8:28 PM |
“Swinging?” People still say this in 2019? No gay man ever said it, either. It’s a hetero term from 1967. Gays don’t swing we just fuck.
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | August 20, 2019 8:30 PM |
R15, perhaps it was a partner swap. All you need is one infatuation junkie to fuck everything up.
BTW, if you’re ever the third ? It’s supposed to be fun.
You’re not a therapist or a poor waif needing Hermès level emergency assistance.
| by Anonymous | reply 16 | August 21, 2019 5:26 AM |
[quote]Communication is key. [/quote]
THIS
| by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 21, 2019 5:48 AM |