I’m thinking of buying my first prostate massager

You mean a rent boy?

Lol. No. Like Aneros, but they are expensive and I want a good one

Aneros is a major rip off.

The Aneros classic is what I usually give to men who are starting out with buttplay. It’s comfortable enough that many will keep it for hours at a time.

When they’re ready for something more intense - I go with the Lelo Hugo. It’s not for everybody, but it’s good for couples and solo play. The wireless remote makes it a lot less awkward, although it takes some getting used to. USB charged, so no looking for batteries.

Are you some sort of professional R4 that you are frequently in the position to make recommendations on prostate massagers for men at various levels of comfort with butt play?

Do you own a sex shop?

R5. I’m an experienced Daddy/Dom who’s introduced butt play to a number of gay, bi and straight men.

No, I don’t own a sex shop but I have an impressive collection of sex toys.

Thanks r4. Exactly the information I was looking for. I’m not new to butt play. I bottom quite often. I’ve never owned a prostate massager. The Lelo Hugo sounds good. A bit pricey, but if it’s worth it I’ll splurge.

Also r4, you sound like my type. I love a good dom with an array of toys 😍

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For lots of fun, R8 - look at the Hitachi Wand Massager and the butterfly attachments. Oh, and good lube. Not cheap overmarketed, hyped lube. J-Lube is way less expensive. It comes in a powder so you mix what you need.

But what do they [italic]DO[/italic] ?

I’ll “massage” your prostate for free.

They don’t do much for me. Is that the gay male version of “frigid?”

You should be able to ejaculate without touching your dick with a prostate massager inserted (if you’re under 40)

R13 not in the slightest. It’s rare a prostate toy gets me off. I know I’m pretty tightly wound and am terrible at relaxing. Ironic as I’ve taught this play to quite a few men. Sometimes there’s more joy in giving than receiving.

[quote]Any suggestions?

Absolutely spring the few extra dollars and buy a new one, rather than a "gently" used one.

In my country we call this "the architect's finger."