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The southern California gay scene is driving me nuts!!

I've had my grindr ad up for a few months now. I'm a 36 year old asian Male. 95% of the messages I've received were from Hispanics. I knew they are the majority of Souther California, but 95% of my messages though? I went to the city of Ontario to get my car serviced and within 2 hours I got 11 messages from Hispanics. I dont want to be a dick like some people and put "not into Hispanics ", but this is ridiculous. I need a man! Fuck, I need to take a trip somewhere for a week. Maybe seattle. I need to get out of so cal.

by Anonymousreply 54July 24, 2019 1:33 AM

Vote for me.

I´ll get you no Hispanics.

And no Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 1July 22, 2019 10:52 PM

[quote]I need a man!

And Latinos are...? 🙄

by Anonymousreply 2July 22, 2019 10:54 PM

Now you know how white guys feel about YOU.

by Anonymousreply 3July 22, 2019 10:55 PM

Have you not connected the dots? White guys aren't messaging you because THEY AREN'T INTO YOU in the same way you aren't into Hispanics....

by Anonymousreply 4July 22, 2019 10:57 PM

He only wants a white man.

by Anonymousreply 5July 22, 2019 11:03 PM

I'd be happy to take all the hot Hispanics off your hands.

by Anonymousreply 6July 22, 2019 11:04 PM

I actually want another Asian man, a bit older. Theres hardly any whites left in so cal.

by Anonymousreply 7July 22, 2019 11:05 PM

There are Mexican rice queens? Well, I have seen it all !

by Anonymousreply 8July 22, 2019 11:06 PM

Thoughts and Prayers

by Anonymousreply 9July 22, 2019 11:07 PM

op deserves no one.

by Anonymousreply 10July 22, 2019 11:08 PM

[quote]I actually want another Asian man, a bit older. Theres hardly any whites left in so cal.

This is when you know we are dealing with a troll.

So Cal. has one of the largest White populations in the country and California has the largest white population in the county by a country mile.

by Anonymousreply 11July 22, 2019 11:08 PM

Asian people problems. How about some Hispanic food? A quarter of a taco would be more than enough.

by Anonymousreply 12July 22, 2019 11:10 PM

R8 Unfortunately, I thought the asian racist was only to be found in cheap Happy Madison movies.

by Anonymousreply 13July 22, 2019 11:10 PM

Born and raised in so cal, the white population was 30 years ago. I live in Fontana. There are only small pockets of whites left in so cal in expensive cities. Im seriously. Dont call me racist please. I'm only gripping about the gay scene in San Bernardino county.

by Anonymousreply 14July 22, 2019 11:13 PM

Plenty of Asian racists out there. Wasn't there an Asian man screaming white power in NYC a few months ago?

by Anonymousreply 15July 22, 2019 11:13 PM

[quote] Wasn't there an Asian man screaming white power in NYC a few months ago?

Oh, the irony.

This is why we hate them.

by Anonymousreply 16July 22, 2019 11:16 PM

Put in your ad you like cut only.

by Anonymousreply 17July 22, 2019 11:18 PM

Asians are the MOST racist community out there....they all are closeted trumpanzees

by Anonymousreply 18July 22, 2019 11:19 PM

[quote] Asians are the MOST racist community out there.

See John/PMBT with his Asian hierarchy.

by Anonymousreply 19July 22, 2019 11:26 PM

Interesting that you mention it, R18...

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 20July 22, 2019 11:30 PM

[quote]gripping about the gay scene in San Bernardino county

already taking matters in your own hands! what’re you complaining about?

by Anonymousreply 21July 22, 2019 11:51 PM

You must be a troll. You said you want an older API male? No Asians in SoCal?!? No one is that obtuse. Ever hear of the San Gabriel Valley? The Cambodians in Long Beach alone…smh & lol

by Anonymousreply 22July 22, 2019 11:54 PM

I've never met an Asian guy named "Burt".

by Anonymousreply 23July 22, 2019 11:54 PM

I just say I’m looking only for “educated degreed professionals” in my profile.....that knocks out all of the blacks and Hispanics without having to be overtly racist.

by Anonymousreply 24July 23, 2019 12:00 AM

I think I can speak for everybody(?) if I say everywhere you go in the USA there are Latinos, OP.

And they've been there for decades! /gaygasp

by Anonymousreply 25July 23, 2019 12:13 AM

OP is an ungraceful troll. An ugly day white male in Asian disguise 😏

Latino men’s are beautiful

by Anonymousreply 26July 23, 2019 12:20 AM

est, or a lame attempt at one

by Anonymousreply 27July 23, 2019 12:21 AM

But if you were into Hispanics you could have had more than your car serviced in Ontario

by Anonymousreply 28July 23, 2019 12:50 AM

DLers never seem to realize when they are getting played r27.

by Anonymousreply 29July 23, 2019 12:57 AM

And a slut on Grindr is allowed to be this picky??? Wow... what the world has now become.

by Anonymousreply 30July 23, 2019 1:00 AM

I just moved to LA and I also want to put "no Latinos" on my profile. `I thought LA had attractive people. Not fat midgets with stink cheese.

by Anonymousreply 31July 23, 2019 1:03 AM

I don't quite get the racial assessment to dates.

I know it's controversial to state that we should be colour blind when dating because everybody has their personal tastes, but just plain brush off huge chunks of people that surely contain perfectly attractive, perfectly fine people because "race" seems a bit...

I know there is a word for it, but I think it's quite exhausted at this point. Sad!

by Anonymousreply 32July 23, 2019 1:11 AM

R32 Latinos are often shameless.

by Anonymousreply 33July 23, 2019 1:13 AM

[quote] ugly day white male in Asian disguise 😏

?

by Anonymousreply 34July 23, 2019 1:42 AM

[quote] Latino men’s are beautiful

?

by Anonymousreply 35July 23, 2019 1:42 AM

Please send me all your Latinos. Thank you in advance.

by Anonymousreply 36July 23, 2019 2:34 AM

I’ll take them too, R36!

So much better than whites men in bed who are so jerky, Asians who squirm and moan in really weird ways (including South Indians), and black guys who talk too much.

Latinos are passionate and love to use their lips and mouths in so many ways!

Yeah, I’m a whore.

by Anonymousreply 37July 23, 2019 2:38 AM

I’ll take them too, R36!

So much better than whites men in bed who are so jerky, Asians who squirm and moan in really weird ways (including South Indians), and black guys who talk too much.

Latinos are passionate and love to use their lips and mouths in so many ways!

Yeah, I’m a whore.

by Anonymousreply 38July 23, 2019 2:38 AM

R38 Yes, please take them all because latinos don't even want each other.

by Anonymousreply 39July 23, 2019 3:03 AM

you're not into asians, hispanics and blacks... just write it down

by Anonymousreply 40July 23, 2019 3:04 AM

Op, how did you not realize you are racist while composing this thread? The lack of self awareness is stunning!

by Anonymousreply 41July 23, 2019 3:10 AM

R38 actually the super hot ones all want each other. They are tough to crack!

But man so worth it.

by Anonymousreply 42July 23, 2019 3:12 AM

OP is just pissed because purses fall out of her mouth - and Latino boys are too smart to throw nickels in them. Ain’t nobody being your sugar daddy, sweet cakes. Asi es la vida.

by Anonymousreply 43July 23, 2019 3:19 AM

R43 - Latino boys don’t have any nickels to throw - or dimes, quarters, and dollars for that matter.

by Anonymousreply 44July 23, 2019 3:22 AM

There are a lot of attractive Hispanic men.

by Anonymousreply 45July 23, 2019 3:58 AM

Go out and find the white dick you think you deserve and stop relying on apps

by Anonymousreply 46July 23, 2019 4:46 AM

I live in a busy urban neighborhood and we have deer that freely wander the neighborhood. I worry about their safety, but I still get a thrill every time I see them.

by Anonymousreply 47July 23, 2019 5:06 AM

And that is pertinent to thus thread how, R47?

by Anonymousreply 48July 23, 2019 5:16 AM

I'm Asian and the nicest guy I've met is a hot married Mexican daddy. So gentle and polite plus having an 8 inch uncut brown cock doesn't hurt ( pun intended ).

I missed you Papi Jaime.

by Anonymousreply 49July 23, 2019 6:57 AM

I find the sweeping generalisations over a vague term that includes more than 480 million human beings, about 20 countries and several racial backgrounds disturbing.

by Anonymousreply 50July 23, 2019 9:52 AM

He's trolling, of course he's saying disturbing shit. That's how it fucking works.

by Anonymousreply 51July 23, 2019 10:07 AM

Mexifornia gay scene sucks ass!!! I need to move or die alone here.

by Anonymousreply 52July 23, 2019 10:07 PM

R52 You seem educated, cultured, and witty 🙄

by Anonymousreply 53July 24, 2019 12:15 AM

If it's one thing I hate it's bigots and spics.

by Anonymousreply 54July 24, 2019 1:33 AM
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