It is SO F-ing frustrating to be Asian sometimes!

Not all of us treat Asian guy's like this. I now a dozen gay guy's in my own life that have Asian boyfriends, and are only are attracted to Asian guys.

Awww. Sometimes confidence is the key to happiness. I think its a subconscious thing for humans to be repelled by desperateness. You have been rejected for so long that it has fucked with your confidence. I'm sure your quite good looking, but self-esteem is overshadowing it. Let go of the loathing, resentment. Fuck em, your a rockstar.

know* - spelling correction for R1 comment.

R2 Easier said than done. Some of us are permanently fucked from all the rejections and insults through the years.

I would anonymously suck your dick in a steam room, OP

R4, I'm not minimising the rejections you've had as an Asian guy who is gay. I'm sorry you've encountered racism from other guys. But you have to understand that everyone gets rejected for something. Rejection isn't a bad thing, because it's impossible to be accepted by everyone, and you shouldn't expect rejection to not exist. I'm a shorter guy, I can't ever get muscular or get abs either. There are guys that I want to notice me that are the hot jock type, but it's not going to happen because they have their own type etc. It's not their obligation to want me or lust over me, just because I want them and lust over them. You'll find guys that want you for being a gay Asian guy. Don't get too down and keep searching.

1/10 try to make up a better story next time

Maybe the men in the spa today weren't into you.

You know, just like you weren't into the 'old, chubby, gross guy'

fucking cunt

It's because you have a tiny dick and smell like sour shrimp.

Your fan fiction is based on outdated stereotypes, Gramps

Whereas your shitty personality reeks so badly we have to shield ourselves from the stench R9

Tons of gay men love asian, maybe you're just fug OP.

"...the schlubby, old white guys can get it anytime, without fail", is absolutly false.

Its always the ugly people who think they're unpopular because of racism.

Did you mean Gaysian, OP?

I know my friend from Cyprus is always complaining about that.

Why do I sense that this Asian person wouldn't want to hook up with other Asian guys? But he nonetheless complains that white guys aren't into him. There is no racism involved. You are simply not their type. Period.

If you are only into white guys, then it is your problem

Stick with other Asians, problem solved.

I am Asian and have no trouble getting sex. OP must not be sexy like me.

[quote]It is ridiculous that I worked out my ass off, do my skincare routine real nice at home, and they all walk out of the room

You sound entitled. Just because you do everything right to look physically attractive that's within your control doesn't mean hot (white) guys should suddenly be exchanging numbers with you.

I like gross chubby old men. Why are you judging me?

First of alll, Asians are so smart even if they come from Asia originally they soon speak and write English better than most Americans. So the fact that your “that I worked out my ass off” is so grammatically poor I doubt you are really Asian.

Most Asian guys are dull, have no sense of humor and mostly love to brag about brand name stuff. And above all, they are the poster child of being mommy boys.

Byeeeeeeeee.....

God is punishing you, OP. But don't worry, once you die, it gets easier.

Why do you think you are entitled to sex? Why are you entitled to sex more than a chubby, old, white guy?

Also, whenever gay men are into Asian men, you cry that you are a “fetish”. Well you don’t think a lot of guys have old, chubby, white guy fetish?

Oh, btw, my fav type of guy are older (40 plus) chubby Asian daddies? Mayhe ill fuck you in 20 years.

Sum ting wong?

[quote]Asians are so smart even if they come from Asia originally they soon speak and write English better than most Americans. So the fact that your “that I worked out my ass off” is so grammatically poor I doubt you are really Asian.

Do you really think all Asians are exactly the same and have the same abilities and aptitude for language? Have you thought that true?

"I am going to have sex with that man because of how he does his skincare routine!" No one ever thinks that, OP.

I'd work out even more, if you're medium or tall. If you're medium or tall and you have a great body, you'll get tons of sex from at least average guys. But you really do have to have a genuinely great body.

If you're short, I'd work out more anyway. Then at least maybe you'd attract the old chubby white men.

Op is not crazy rich asian

Grow facial hair, and do your best to look like a Japanese muscle bear worthy of Bara porn. Go for the badass Samurai look. Problem solved.

Hair ? You are joking. Asians are prized for their smoothness

Some people are racist, most just have unadventurous palates when it comes to hooking up/dating. Get over it. Hang around and date Asians more, it's easy to forget the racial dynamics of dating in America when you stick to your own.

I wonder why I've never heard this complaint from Asian lesbians then again I don't personally know any Asian lesbians.

Asian trannies are very popular with straight white men

Call it a hunch, but I suspect these guys have no problem hooking up for sex:

It's frustrating when you only get hit on by elderly rotund white and black gays, when all this gaysian really wants is a good dicking down from hot Arabic/Lebanese/Persian/Turkish hunk tops.

Unfortunately, I've never seen such Middle Eastern men express interest in East Asian gays.

real-life Bara vs Yaoi

Op would be popular in Japan/China

[quote] when all this gaysian really wants is a good dicking down from hot Arabic/Lebanese/Persian/Turkis - h hunk tops.

You make it sound like you're asking for the bare minimum life should give you, when everyone who is gay wants Middle Eastern hunks. Why should they be YOUR due necessarily?

R38 Awkward

Yum!

She's all roid muscles, and neither charms nor money. Only old, obese, sweaty, almost-blind senile rice queens for OP then. HAHAHAHA

R42 proves Asian men are not made for body building.

They can have nice lean bodies, but steroid muscles are not for them.

There are winners and losers in a multicultural society.

Korean boy band looks are in demand

It’s like saying red heads smell

Korean boy band plastic fake looks are very much ridiculed and despised almost everywhere.

K-Pop boy bands are made to appeal to teen girls, not gay men.

They appeal to discerning gay men. Those with more class.

R51 Lol, are you attracted to the barely legal look? Or the plastic surgery look? Just asking.

OP types slanty-eyed...

Why is it this complaint always comes from Asians looking for white guys? They're almost never looking for other Asian guys or black guys. They are so desperate to get with a white guy they will scream racism until a white guy dicks them.

Another thing is I've seen attractive Asian guys do very well for themselves and never complain about guys ignoring them, only seems to come form the ugly ones. That isn't a rave issue though, I've seen overweight guys complain about pics of groups of fit guys that there isn't a bear in the group, as if some diversity quota is needed for groups of friends now.

[quote]mostly love to brag about brand name stuff.

True. Men who are so into fashion is a turn off.

Maybe it's just that spa and the type of crowd who goes there, OP. Are there many other bath house/steam rooms in your area?

She's attracted to the "prepubescent" look, R52 (or as R32 puts it, those whom are "prized for their smoothness"), ugh...

Most likely, the problem is that they prefer men -- as opposed to skinny, hairless, swish-poofters.

Thanks for paraphrasing, R58... ;)

r4 that's in no way exclusive to Asians.

"I wonder why I've never heard this complaint from Asian lesbians then again I don't personally know any Asian lesbians."

Because everyone who likes to fuck girls (girly-girls, not chunky diesel dykes) wants to fuck E. Asian girls.

Korean boy band plasticky looks appeal to no one, not even to those who have those looks themselves. Otherwise, they wouldn't commit suicide in droves every year. Their parents can't recognize them. Depressing.

Oh yeah oh yeah!

The scat troll is making me want to eat shit again but I'm staying strong.

You're a drama queen OP, get a life!

Lol @ all the white men triggered

Their display of white male privilege was purely occidental.

Lol at the ugly woke people not getting any.

Have you tried not being Asian?

DL is notoriously racist towards Asians.

From the “I spent a week interrogating my dislike for Mayor Pete” thread:

Who cares what a straight bitch with chinky- eyes thinks?! Mayor Pete is one of us and therefore must be defended at all costs.

Let me edit R70 : "DL is notoriously racist".

I am sorry OP. But TBH, I am not attracted to asians. Middle eastern guys are still OK ( even though they have weird flat feet, and I am a foot person). But from the Turkish border to the Australian shore, it's a dead no for me. I am not a racist, I don't think that I am superior in anyway, but even if they are very good looking I am not into them. I love a rugged skin, no bear is too hairy for me, so there. Lots of people reject me. I score 1 out of 7/8. I am a bath house person. I don't care. To each his own OP. (I would still let Darren do whatever he would though, and even his bro Charles, but that's the Blaine effect)

And then?

Love Asian guys, especially Korean.

Listen, OP, I’ll assume you’re on the level. You have to understand that rejection is the norm. Asians have no monopoly on being rejected. Even conventionally stunning men of all ethnicities get rejected. If you dwell on rejection, nothing will ever change. Don’t you reject some men? Those men you reject feel the same way you do. The solution? Open yourself up to men you would normally ignore. Seriously.

I’m an average looking (a 4 or 5?) older white guy - slim, no muscles, no money, but always horny. Nine and a half out of ten men reject me. Oh, well. I still enjoy chatting and looking and flirting. The only thing that saves me from being totally celibate is a big dick. So if I’m naked somewhere - a beach, the sauna - I can get it. But all they want from me is my dick. Not ideal. But that’s life.

At least some people fetishize you. Being a minority is tough, whether you're east Asian or other.

At least half of the white guys are fun to talk to after sex, but but but it appears to me only 1 in 100 Asian guys (gay and straight) knows how to have a fun conversation. Talking to them is like being interrogated by a sexually repressed headmistress of a catholic school. You're dull and only good for a fuck or two, OP. Just move on.

It's ok, OP -- more for me!

I mean...

OP, could the problem also be that you made joke and then made peepee in their Coke?

"They like to secretly record people with hidden cameras.”

DL's PostImg troll, with the weird lumpy ass fetish, screams Creepy Gaysian to me.

OP, white people may not be able to read your emotions or discern what it is you are thinking. That can be off-putting.

Someone upthread said middle easterners don’t like East Asian gays ? what I know is Filipino guys are much sought after there. Specially smooth and fair skinned ones. But I guess they are considered south East Asians?

[quote]Someone upthread said middle easterners don’t like East Asian gays ? what I know is Filipino guys are much sought after there.

You mean as house servants?

I'd have let you bareback me.

R84 yes ! And more😜

You have no idea what a tremendous douche bag you were in your last life, OP.

Should I (Mr. Go Asian) chime in?

I'm white, fit and I want to fuck an Asian muscle boy.

But one rejected me just as hard as the OP was rejected. I've actually gotten my hands on three, Asian muscle boys, only to find out they were total tops who refused to bottom.

So LIFT HARDER and open up that HOLE!

OP sounds like your typical status seeking Asian in NYC/SF/LA who probably makes $250,000 after trolling away in some boring academic regime for the best years of his life and now thinks "I'm better than everyone so god dammit they better like me."

They are a dime a dozen in those cities. They aren't interested in anyone beneath them, just hot white guys who they know are out of their league, but surely will elevate their status so they're willing to strike out.

I know a guy like this - a partner in a law firm who is a major Tiger Momma's Boy (per his social media in his 40s). Always attending diversity events with other minorities of color. However, all his friends are white and his BFs are always blond twinks. Invariably, they disappear after 2 months. Pretty sad.

And yes, no shortage of conversations about Prada/Diesel/Vuitton, etc.

[quote] Awww. Sometimes confidence is the key to happiness. I think its a subconscious thing for humans to be repelled by desperateness.

White guys give this stock answer whenever minorities complain about white guys not being attracted to them.

Why can't white guys just be honest and say they aren't attracted to minorities. Why blame it on the minority guys?

[quote] Why is it this complaint always comes from Asians looking for white guys?

Society has promoted white men as the sexual ideals--movies, ads, TV, everything is about glorifying white men sexually.

Do you really blame Asians (and others) for being attracted to white guys?

I was never attracted to tan-skinned guys until I met a specific Indian-American. He was cute, smart, and funny, so I figured why not?

The sex was absolutely amazing and we became FBs for a year. I was totally falling for him but he moved out of the city.

Now, I find Indian guys amazingly attractive. Interesting to me how that experience completely changed my mind.

Asian men run after white people not because they look better but because they think dating a white guy makes them look good.

Asian women are the same they reject asian men and run after white men.

OP while I get your frustration, you can't force or complain your way to people being attracted to you. People want what they want and you just can't change that.

“Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

We're supposed to feel sorry for a dirty whore?

Asian men are hotter than ever in the world's eyes. You must just be ugly.

Maybe Crazy Rich Asians will change all this

Excuse me, R96! I AM NOT DIRTY OK? In fact, my anal virginity is still INTACT. I expect an apology from you soon.

Love how 90+ replies get ignored, but the accusation of being a dirty whore finally got OP to respond.

I think that Asian guys are hot!

Asians are cleaner

If it’s the dick size everyone is after, wouldn’t you go for blacks ?

I used to be like OP because yes the media tells you that white men are preferred and they still do.

Maybe they are better, maybe they are not.

However, in my 43 years of whoring myself and reaching the peak now (and still climbing) I have learned the following:

1) Latin lovers are the best

2) Many white and Asian guys are horribly dull in bed

3) You have to have an open mind and not be fixated on any one guy or type

4) People do sense desperation and lack of confidence

5) Just keep putting yourself out there and relax

I get so much action now that I am older and partnered (we’re open) because I am not trying too hard or trying to impress too much.

Oh and Latin guys are horny and so much more fun in bed. So glad my partner and I are both into them.

It's not easy being green, either.

r44, the guy in the r42 pic has a body that's fucking *flawless*. Perfect sculpted definition, zero superfluous body fat, and attractive facial hair to boot. He's adorable *and* could probably kick nearly everyone's ass if necessary.

But... if you prefer guys who are more mesomorphic & less cut, how about this pair:

"mesomorphic"??

Honey, those are endomorphs if ever I saw them. They're pretty fit for endomorphs, but they're endomorphs.

R105 All the guys you mentioned are fucking ugly

I prefer beautiful asians

R105 Sorry, not my type.

I prefer lean bodies, muscles don't do it for me and even less on Asian men. Often they just don't have the frame for it.

Think about Bruce Lee or Jackie Chan, they're just not Schwarzie or Stallone.

Maybe they're just not into Hu.

Maybe they're just not into Wu.

OP, is your drag name Gae Ping Ho...?

Stop swinging for 10s when you are a 2. Stop being aggressive and unrelenting when you have your sights set on a person who has indicated they aren't interested in you. Douche - nobody wants to pull their cock out of your ass covered in soy sauce, cabbage and noodles. Chew with your mouth closed. These 4 simple rules will change your life.

OP I hear ya. It's okay to vent. I know, MARY!

Do you look anything like this guy OP?

OP all you gotta be is tall, fit, hung, and handsome

And the boys will come flocking to you

You got rejected in the steam room. They got rejected by UCLA. I think you're ahead of the game.

My problem is that Asians chase me because of I guess the hairy legs and stomach. It is relentless and they tend to be effeminate bottoms, with come-hither eyes intent on sucking but lacking any technique. I do enjoy sex with Asians who are ruggedly handsome or Chinese/Filipino/Japanese. Something happens to the first generation American Asians...an accentuation of faggotry. Men should be men.

Masculine Asians I find very attractive but the girly girls of any race wilt my dick.

You're using other men's bodies for sex. Expect to feel dehumanized.

When you're among men looking to satisfy their basest desires with strangers, don't be surprised when they give in to base impulses like racism and a distaste for the unknown. The hookup world is hardly known for its inclusiveness and cultural sensitivity, after all.

I love Asian men, and they need not be the ripped muscular type. The only turn- off is they are really into luxury brands.

It’s insane the way asian boys on meet-up apps upload photos of their PECS instead of face pics in an effort to circumvent dismissal — not by fellow asians — but by the WHITE MEAT they crave. It’s like prodding fraus in a butcher shop who all want the veal, and their aint enough to go round. Oh the humanity!

Oh please R124, like white men, black men on the DL, Mexican men do not have pec only pics on the app? why would married men broadcast their face on the public like that and invite trouble? Or even some bitter bitch at work just want to file it away and weaponize it to the "Christian-value" manager.

Credit where it is due, dear.

This is a troll post, people. "Do my skincare routine real nice"???? Come on.

Skincare routine is quite important for Asian men.

Even relatively minor acne causes severe pockmarking on NE Asian faces.

Asian pilots get a lot of action from what I hear.

In other words, it’s so frustrating being an Asian guy with amazing skin lusting after hot white guys with amazing cocks. Again.

MARY, pass me the La Mer!!!

Just go fuck another frustrated asian....oh wait

Asian without face pics are the main reason I deleted Grindr. I got 20 messages/ taps a day. Ugh.

Well, this thread has gotten incendiary, has it not? Anyway, thank you R1, R4, R6 for ditching cunty DL first replies tradition and actually be supportive. You are true friends!

Now for R130 and the many of you, the issue is not about me not having a white man by my side. The issue is schlubby white guys are always welcome at a spa room get-together. I am just sick of having everyone walk out of the room, then that schlubby would tell me: "you kicked everyone one", then proceed flounces out and join the rest of the hot guy

If that’s the case OP / R133, then you have an inflated opinion of what you really look like. An Asian hottie with always trump an out of shape white guy.

Once China takes over the world (and it will), white men will chase after Asians

[quote] It’s insane the way asian boys on meet-up apps upload photos of their PECS instead of face pics in an effort to circumvent dismissal — not by fellow asians — but by the WHITE MEAT they crave.

I wonder why they do that?

Could it be the constant rejection by white guys if they put their face pics first?

I love watching amateur porn made in Asian countries.

No they won’t r135

OP, if your problem is the schlubby white guy chastising you for chasing everyone off then your problem is you need to tell that fat bastard to Fuck Off.

I’m Asian and I get a kick out of seeing people’s reactions when I’m not the doormat they expect me to be.

Also I’ve found schlubby white men in the steam room are happy to observe. You sound pushy and want more. If you can’t pick up that hot guys aren’t into you and won’t keep a comfortable distance, they’ll get up. Also those schlubby white guys have stamina—-they’ll plant themselves in that steam room for the whole day and eventually the hot guys figure they can tolerate them lurking in a corner so they can get off and go home.

r135 they already do. It's just not gay white men. Asian women are prizes but Asian men are discarded. Very interesting

OTOH, there are many DLers who are racist against Asians.

Pretty much every thread about Asians features some variation on "Sum Ting Wong" which, along with "Dr. Anne L. Lingus" never ceases to bring the house down.

We can only hope those posters are young teens, R141.

But we know they are 55 year old men whose sense of humor is that of a young teen.

One of the odder things about Datalounge.

I love Asian guys.

R136 they should date each other but they don’t, bunch of hypocrits.

It all basically boils down to the dick wants what the dick wants. It’s not you, your race, nor your looks.

R105-Those guys would be considered MUSCLE BEARS. Correct?

Unless you're terrified of being outed, what's the point of hiding your face to avoid rejection, if it means you then go waste your time getting rejected in person, by guys who otherwise would've just swiped past you on the app, without you even having to know "X number of men do not like my face"?

OP, you need to learn Jhoon Rhee karate. Pretty soon you’ll say “nobody bothers me!”

Not to sound racist or bigoted but Asi an men truly are ugky. They have a "Special " needs looks. Also I have found in my interaction with Asians that they themselves are truly racist.it does not take them a lot to bad mouth blacks and many of them support Trumps racist behavior

R150 Yeah, you sound racist.

Someone hit it on the head when they said gaysians look either childlike or like old women.

There are some real racist assholes on this thread. Go crawl back under your rocks.

R153 if not being sexually attracted to gaysians makes you racists wouldn’t most gaysians be racists themselves?

Not being attracted to Asian men is not racist, calling them names and using ugly stereotypes is racist.

[quote]Also I have found in my interaction with Asians that they themselves are truly racist.it does not take them a lot to bad mouth blacks and many of them support Trumps racist behavior

Statistically, Asians overwhelmingly vote as Democrats; previously the problem was as a group they did not vote. That has changed.

Majority of Asians have Foreskin...GROSS!!! That's one issue with them... plus its so small and the hair is all weird down there.

r147, by Japanese standards, they're bears. By American & European standards, it's more complicated due to the perception that "bear" == "hairy".

I wish more Asian guys had beards. Doing a quick search on Scruff for ethnicity=Asian, I'd say 7 or 8 out of 10 guys with facial hair in the results are cute... but maybe 1 in 40 without are. But apparently, in Japan it's still common for employers to prohibit facial hair among white-collar professionals.

Supposedly, in Japan, facial hair simultaneously implies wealth/power AND "fuck-you" towards it. If you're wealthy & powerful, you require your minions to be clean-shaven to remind them of their subservience. And if nobody has the power to make you shave, you grow a beard to show everyone your contempt for those in power (but usually, at the cost of having a lucrative career). Though apparently, dotcom-culture has eaten away at that... slightly. Now, there are companies where it's ok to have a beard, as long as you (and everyone else... including the CEO) shave in unison to get the next round of VC-funding.

Asians being able to shoot ping pong balls out of their cooter or pooper usually draws the men.

Dear R118, it is not the same thing. I worked hard for my med school acceptance and got in. Yet, I worked hard for my physique and look, and they still tolerate a schlubby white guy over me! NO matter what I do it is still the same dance.

Maybe you should have higher aspirations than semi-public group masturbation.

OP..dont come here crying for sympathy...you got into med school for yourself, you worked hard on your physique for yourself..you didnt do any one a favor...btw if you really crave company and want a fuck why dont you date your kind as many many posters have posted above...do you think your fellow asians are less than you, that you cant date them? Stop being racist towards your own kind...people like you are disgusting...that is the truth that you must hear to change your life, behaviour and your thought process.

I think the problem is OP probably has a busted face.

Degrees, weights, and a weekly facial regimen can’t fix butterfaces.

Plenty of desirable and not so desirable gaysians are hooking up these days.

Is OP one of the deluded DLers who thinks he’s a 10 and should drop that zero at the end?

OP it is SO frustrating to be a middle aged, fit, beefy prematurely white haired, comfortably off gay man some times. I am regularly hit on by young slim “boyish” males of predominantly Chinese origin who see in me a daddy figure for cuddles and so much more. Which would be great for me if they were my physical and emotional type, but they aren’t, and when I point that out, politely, I’m often called a racist before said slim boyish male flounces off in a snit.

It’s a funny old world, OP.

R162, once again, the problem is not about me not having a white guy as my date! It is the fact that they will not tolerate me at their spa room get together, but a chubby, old white guy will always be. Plus, this thread is not for fishing sympathy, it meant to be a rant to vent frustration and as a safe space for other gaysians to share the experience of being absurdly rejected ( which of course rendered a moot point, as racist posters like R150 insisting that Asians look special, or like a child, or like old women)

Then move to China OP

No one is interested in hearing you bitch

F YOU, R166! If you bitches tolerated that bitch Soggy Biscuit inane ramblings, then why can't I be tolerated too?

All Asians smell like duck sauce.

R47 wins. Asians are weird racist smelly fucks. The worst breath. ALWAYS.

This is a good opportunity to block the racists, who are not only backward in thought but so tragically unwitty that they should drop off the face of the earth.

OP, I do find you a bit wearying, and you should know better than to seek a safe space on DL, but you don’t deserve the hatred getting aimed at you - and all Asian people.

And to all the racist shitbags posting here, maybe you should move over to Stormfront and establish a gay presence there? It’s Pride Month, after all. Show your true self to your true peers.

Are you in LA by any chance, OP? Which gym?

When I was young and very fit, I only played with people I found to be REALLY hot. Many people I was not interested in used to cop and attitude. Flash forward, I am old now, unattractive, and OLD! I have become invisible. That's ok with me. You want what you want when you want it, and so does everyone else. be CONFIDENT sky dive or do something that scares the shit out of you and thus builds your inner confidence People find fearlessness attractive.

R170 Also a good opportunity to block the gay men you know you’d avoid/ignore in real life because they think/act like 16 year old girls.

Have you tried losing the bow, OP? It's cute and all but some might think it's a bit too much.

It is a steam room R174! I cannot control my hair in there!

[quote]Stop being aggressive and unrelenting when you have your sights set on a person who has indicated they aren't interested in you. Douche - nobody wants to pull their cock out of your ass covered in soy sauce, cabbage and noodles.

[quote]All Asians smell like duck sauce.

[quote][R47] wins. Asians are weird racist smelly fucks. The worst breath. ALWAYS.

Why is it okay to be racist against Asians on this site. I never see this on other sites. And people here just let it go on as if it’s nothing. Imagine if the same thing was said about black people. Then people would be outraged at how racist they’re being. Imagine if they said:

[quote]Stop being aggressive and unrelenting when you have your sights set on a person who has indicated they aren't interested in you. Douche - nobody wants to pull their cock out of your ass covered in fried chicken, watermelon and collard greens.

[quote]All blacks smell like fried chicken.

[quote][R47] wins. Blacks are weird racist smelly fucks. The worst breath. ALWAYS.

But because it’s said about Asians, there’s no outrage.

R176 You must be new here because is an equal opportunity offender.

R174, R175, R176, R177, these are the most hilarious posts I've read and seen this week on Datalounge. 😂😂😂 No, I'm not racist one iota!!!! The posts are just too fucking funny, I'm sorry! 😂

[quote][R176] You must be new here because is an equal opportunity offender.

Show me a post where Dataloungers talk about black people in this same manner.

R179 Oh dear, there's so many.... There's click bait anti-black threads every fucking day, also some antisemitic threads.

Also try the trans or bi threads.

Asian threads are quite rare tbh.

R180: Trans, Bi's, Pans, and Queer Theorists deserve to be called out. They are the worst people imaginable walking on the earth, and are the biggest liars. They are truly fucked up beyond words.

Racism though, is never good or justified.

The only time Asians complain about racism is when they can’t suck white dick.

Meanwhile, blacks are getting killed daily by cops, Latinos are being put in concentration camps, Muslims are being banned, trans are being killed.

Yet Asians wonder why the rest of us don’t take them seriously when it comes to talking about racism in America.

"Asians" are not a homogenous group. If OP is Chinese, a steam room filled with Japanese guys wouldn't have touched him, either. These things cut oh so many different ways.

But anyway, OP, after your nasty comments about guys who are older or heavier, you don't deserve to get laid. Do without, you hatelful thing.

R182: Trans are not being killed at any high rate like Homosexual men are being killed. Homophobia is still severe across the world. Even in Western countries. I cannot stand trans people or trans ideology, but I absolutely don't want them bashed up or killed. I want them to get massive help and stop their insanity. To get to the root of why they are so fucked up and willing to do henious things to their minds and bodies. Yes, you are correct about black people being killed. And as for Asians, maybe they do complain only when they can't get white dick. But that doesn't justify racism. Nothing justifies racism.

R184, those Asians complaining about not getting white dick are big time racists themselves! They treat gays of color worse than they claim to be treated by white gays. So again, no sympathy from me.

Update! I took some DL advice and went back to that same steam room. I release some of my top energy and yes, they accepted me into their group play. Still would not let me touch them though but w/e. This one fat, chubby guy still flounces out when I come in. All and all, I guess it is true, they can smell fear and insecurity.

Oh, God yes.

'Weakness? Kill it!!!'

OP starring in With Sex You Get Eggroll

r24, not mama's boy by choice. Tiger Mom holds on too tight. Can't get away.

Has OP tried not being Asian? I'm not Asian all the time and it's pretty great.

My husband’s Asian and I’m white (and no, I’m not a senior nor a fuggo).

Your confidence is probably just low and so you see rejection through the prism of your race rather than something else. Rejection happens to everyone. Unless it was explicitly said to you “NO I DONT LIKE ASIANS” you really don’t know why no one wanted to fuck you in a bathhouse OP.

You must be Connor Jessup, R190, you chameleon.

Don't focus too closely on "rejection." Someone certainly could reject another person at a bath house. It is possible. But for the most part, people are there just lookiing for what they want. They make selections. Not rejections. If you're not what they want, you're not. And you're not going to be selected by that person. You're looking for what you want, too.

You would have to be thoroughly obnoxious to pay your $20 to go to a bath house just to look for people to reject. And I'm not up for doing myself a lot of psychic damage by feeling, again and again, that I have been rejected. Too hurtful. I don't want it. I didn't get chosen. Someone else did. That's a reasonable occurrence and it's a reasonable way for me to view it. And healthier. Much, much, healthier.

R176: Give it a rest. DL is not more racist towards Asians than it is towards other groups. Bigoted posts about Blacks, Latinos, Jews, and Muslims are posted here regularly. A recent thread about the horrific photo of the drowned father and and daughter migrants was filled with 'wetback' jokes. Anti-Black racebaiting threads and comments reducing Blacks to nothing more than stereotypes are regularly posted. Anti-semites regularly post comments blaming jews for corruption in entertainment, finance, and politics, and even stated that jews need to be gassed again. Muslims are the first people blamed in threads whenever there's an attack in the West and even when it's been proven that they weren't involved, commentors still blather on justifying their prejudice and belief that Muslims should be exterminated. if you don't see the bigoted and vile shit that's posted on here about other groups, it's likely because you agree with it and don't see it as racist.