I am a hotel concierge at a luxury hotel. I've been working in hotels for my whole adult life.
Most hotels are run by investors who only care about $$$. Not in upkeep of the property. For instance, all of our rooms were recently upgraded but there are still rips in the wallpaper and the carpet in the hallways is frumpy and a mess. The worst attributes are not usually taken care of. I have worked in some shitty hotels in my day with shitty GMs and investors who only care about dollar signs, not fixing the problems or ensuring employee satisfaction. And sorry to say it, but yes, Indian investors and owners are the worst of the worst. They have no idea how to run hotels. Most people DON'T know how to run a hotel. Not just anyone can do it.
Second, our pay sucks and the stress is out the roof. Dealing with guests can be a nightmare, especially when they KNOW that any little thing that goes wrong will entitle them to a discount. I have been berated beyond belief in my years, even called a faggot because I refused to cave in to a guest's psychotic needs. But 90% of guests are not jerks and really love the experience. I truly love being a concierge, welcoming people to this city, and surprising and delighting them. Most hotel employees do. I love pleasing my guests and I love reading my name in a good Tripadvisor review. I get $10 for each name mention in a good review. I don't do it for the money, I do it because making people happy makes my job a better place.
But I still make less than $16 an hour and am expected to give $100 an hour service. If it weren't for tips, commissions and a part time job I'd be out on the street.
And many times it's a thankless job. Sometimes you do nice things for people, upgrade them, send them an amenity, and you'll never hear a peep from them again. No thank you, no tip, nothing. Be a good guest. Smile and say "thank you," just like we do to you.
Things are bound to go wrong with a hotel stay every once in a while, it's a hazard of the trade, but just remember the people on the front lines who are being paid lousy and have the sword of Damocles hanging over their head from management to exceed all guest expectations. We're only human, and we make mistakes. It's how we handle the mistakes that makes our service legendary.
Unless you've ever worked in a hotel, you have no idea how hard and thankless of a job it is. Some times it's soul crushing. Sometimes it's invigorating. But all in all, it's better than working in retail. I really should write a book about all my experiences. You have no idea what an adventure hotel work can be.
Here's a tip - if you find a good rate from one of those online sites (and yes, Every. Single. Hotel Employee hates Expedia, HotelsTonight etc.), call the hotel and quote the rate. Any good hotel will let you book through their own reservation system with that rate so we don't have to pay the middleman. And you can still get points, perks, upgrades etc. Don't come in to a hotel looking and acting cheap with a chip on your shoulder, you won't get shit.
Want an upgrade? Tip the concierge or front desk agent. We need the money and we'll give a nicer room (upon availability) and that way you have the satisfaction that the upgrade fee is going directly the person serving you, not management.
If anyone wants anymore hotel inside tips, just ask.