RIP Jay Dymel

Who?

Earlier post from his partner, Ryan Stone:

Ryan Stone @RyanStoneXxX 2h2 hours ago

I haven’t tweeted anything yet but I guess it’s time. My lovely @jay_dymel is on life support at cedar Sinai in LA.

Oops. Correcting link.

Then Falcon broke the news of Jay's death:

OMG he was in Rentmen just the other day. Awful. Sad ugh

Whoa.

He was beautiful. People are saying it was drugs. Fuck man.

Stopped on a Dymel.

Some of his work.

All these porn stars are on drugs.

I’m sick of porn life being glamorized by gays.

Wish I'd hired him. Really sad.

He didn't look this worn out and feeble last year. RIP.

I had a session with him couple weeks ago in Vancouver

R13 how was it? He was beautiful.

no one else to blame but himself

R13 was his cock rotting and smelly?

I feel bad about this. He had such a beautiful body and ass, but it was clear he was incredibly uncomfortable with himself, with the obvious injections into his dick. Falcon/Naked Sword seemed to see it as a turn-off and so would hide his dick as much as possible in his scenes and his stills. That cannot have been good for his self-esteem.

The bitches who told him to have these abominable injections and fillers should be put in jail too. It's criminal!!! His butt looked like it had filler too, crazy!!!!!!!

I couldn't recognize him from this Naked Sword photo. They butchered him!!!!!!!

There was some confusion because his partner, Ryan Stone, had tweeted that Jay was on life support after Falcon tweeted that Jay Dymel (Julian Pereza) had died. Here's some clarification from Queer Me Now:

[quote]Queer Me Now @QueerMeNow · 2 hours ago: According to Leo Forte's Facebook: "Sadly he slipped in to a coma and has been on life support since. People are coming to pay respect before he is released and allowed to pass tomorrow morning."

I think I saw him at a pride party on Sunday. Crazy

It was the roids. I noticed how thin he was in his first vids and he only recently and quickly buffed up.

He's been dead for like five seconds and his greedy partner has already decided to celebrate his death by putting up a Go Fund Me. Dude ever hear of LIFE INSURANCE?

Drugs go with porn.

Age?

He had a hot ass, but couldn’t live for ever.

Dazzlingly unfunny

Depressing. Porn stars are glamorized by gay men because they’re lusted after by gay men. Gay men are expected by gay men to look like gay porn stars. Now straight men want to look like gay porn stars.

Meanwhile, a good 20 percent of the posts on this site exist to post photos of guys who look like this and idolize them, 10 percent exist to tear them apart and say things like “I hope he ODs on meth” and ask “who is the most hated porn star?” and we learn that a HUGE, disproportionate share of gay porn stars are drug addicts and often violent criminals.

And then...”RIP! We will miss you!”

It’s really annoying to me. I feel bad for these people, especially the young ones, who get into this pron life, destroy their future career prospects, develop grandiose narcissistic personalities because people throw themselves at them, lose touch with reality, and then crash and burn and harm themselves or others while being laughed at. It’s very sad. Sad for the porn stars and sad for the gay men who lust after them and then point and laugh when they die tragically.

His widowed boyfriend has this pinned on his Twitter profile right now. Seems rather poor taste.

[quote]Fuck man.

Yeah, that was his job.

I don’t know who any of these people are. Not really that into porn and sure wouldn’t idolize them or be interested enough to get their names.

R26, why is a memorial of his best work in poor taste?

R29 I suspect he was a human being and not just 180 pounds of meat to be fucked. So it just seems like poor taste to me to show his body being abused while his body is in a freezer somewhere. But to each his own.

His vulture boyfriend probably let him die gradually without ever considering to intervene.

Dead porn actors probably make more money than living ones.

He let him die by pulling the plug.

R32 - No, I mean before he lied on his deathbed in the hospital: Injection, filler, injection, filler, implants and what not.

He can’t control what his boyfriend does with his body.

I guess God just needed another anus.

[quote]His widowed boyfriend has this pinned on his Twitter profile right now. Seems rather poor taste.

Or exactly what you'd expect.

Hi, Ryan Stone, R34.

How much money have you raised now, bitch?

Some of you misuse the words "idolize" and "glamorize." Most guys I know don't truly glamorize gay porn stars. It's just fun to watch them fuck, and maybe picture oneself in the scene with them. I would say the majority of people don't think it's "glamorous." It's just fun to watch porn. Maybe I'm wrong.

Either way - sad that people do spiral out of control so much - those injections, cosmetic work, etc. mask such a troubling problem that can't be fixed cosmetically.

His cock looks like a swollen bloated cadaver in R18 ‘s pic. Did it explode?

R38 I think you’re wrong. What used to be a prototypical gay porn look became a standard gay look and the standard “metrosexual” look. It’s more than just a standard “attractive” and “muscular” appearance; it’s a pretty + hypermasculine body combination that has been glamorized indeed. Male “Instagram personalities” are idolized, yes, but they’re all also glamorized, and they’re glamorized regularly on this site. They’re romanticized. They’re made out to be larger than life, better than most, perfect human specimens, reducing “human” down to the body with no consideration to anything else. That of course is the essence of pornography, but among gay men, gay men collectively have reduced the human worth of gay men to nothing if said gay men do not look like porn stars. It’s sick.

R30 That reminds me, a few years back there was a female porn performer (no such thing as porn "stars" nowadays) whose baby was shaken to death by her tweaker boyfriend.

For the next few days while her kid was in the hospital, the porn actress was posting Twitter updates on his condition—in the ICU, being declared brain dead, having the plug pulled...

...and in between the status updates on her kid, she was posting porn clips and pics of herself and promoting her latest vids. I mean, maybe she was just doing it out of contractual obligation or to cover the hospital/funeral expenses, but still.

Porn stars are pretty damn far from normal.

[quote]Porn stars are pretty damn far from normal.

I was asked to be a "porn star" twice. I was too normal, and said "no, thanks."

r18 Oh my god, that's him? There was a thread on DL about his weird cock just a couple of months ago, where I posted a thorough analysis of it.

Link please?

Here it is, aptly titled "Frankenweiner".

What are you talking r10 People don't glamorize the porn lifestyle. People typically look down on the porn lifestyle, especially gays. But people are pornography Fans. People like watching porn, no more no less.

Another dead pornie. Pass the jelly.

WOW, These guys seem to be dropping like flys these days.

[quote]No, I mean before he lied on his deathbed in the hospital

Oh, dear!

One should always tell the truth on their deathbed. That’s why it’s called a “deathbed confession.”

Why do porn stars constantly kill themselves? Is it just the drugs? I don't get it. With this guy, I guess it was the hair?

[quote]Why do porn stars constantly kill themselves? Is it just the drugs? I don't get it. With this guy, I guess it was the hair?

Society-at-large has a very particular view regarding sex, sex work, and pron.

Irrespective of how sex-positive you may be, almost everyone is constrained by the prevailing view of sex. In turn, this shapes the mindset of people who enter pron and sex work, whether as self-affirmation or negation. Sure, there are folks who do it for the money and not some personal statement. However, even with these people the choice to perform reflects a certain attitude.

For a subset of people who enter pron, I'd bet that it's part of a broader self-destructive and self-hatred. Society continues to look down on pron. Many people who engage in anti-social behavior do so to affirm or confirm society's view of them and their worth. Is it really any wonder that it would draw a higher proportion of people who commit suicide?

They aren’t killing themselves cause of society looking down on them. 🙄🙄🙄

Sometimes gay porn careers lead to great outcomes. Fame and fortune.

Or this before the inevitable breakup.

Was he part Asian?

Tanner is NOT famous.

[R26] It has been his pinned Tweet for months. I am sure you understand that considering how quickly things unfolded and what is on his mind right now, thinking about the fact this was his pinned Tweet was low on his list of priorities.

[QUOTE]R26 His widowed boyfriend has this pinned on his Twitter profile right now. Seems rather poor taste.

😂😂😂 Goddamn that’s hilarious.

Tanner is totally rich and famous.

I started a thread 6 months ago to discuss him and his frankenstein dick. He seemed really messed up. I guess it got worse.

here was the thread

Wait was it suicide or overdose?

Where's the widower's rentmen ad?

We don't know the cause of death. Could be drugs, could be suicide, could be linked to unsafe practices related to his body dysmorphia. Heck, it could have been an accident at home or with a car. We don't know.

OP killed him!

[quote]Tanner is totally rich and famous.

He has a famous anus.

Can the bleach blonde for summer trend die with him?

Has anything more been revealed about his death? I find it strange that people in the porn industry are always so protective when one of their own dies and they clam up about how they died, when they let everything else hang out about themselves (literally).

In a weird bit of timing, yesterday the first scene starring him and Steven Lee was dropped for a big new porn movie from Naked Sword: "Five Brothers: The Takedown. It must be very weird for the releasing company--they will slowly release other scenes with him in it in the coming months.

How old was he? He looks so young. Porn is just killing gay guys left and right.

This porny guy committed suicide a month ago.

Something was really weird about Dymel's looks, even beyond the altered penis that looked like a giant tardigrade. He was absolutely beautiful, but there was something really "Uncanny Valley"-esque about his face and body: he looked like a CGI imagination of what a gay male porn star would look like.

I would be really curious to know what kind of plastic surgery on his face and body aside from the obvious work done on the penis.

[quote]r9 Some of his work.

He still had so much to give.

In the comments on Queerty, they're saying it was almost certainly drugs since it happened during LA Pride where he was partying up a storm. People there are also saying he was known for heavy drug use.

So shouldn’t we blame Pride? Nothing good ever cums out of it.

Any news?

Meanwhile...

“God Needed Another Porn Star in Heaven”

It is with the greatest sadness that I learned of the death of Baptiste Garcia, star actor of French Twinks for several years. An adorable boy, endearing and always smiling... Full of beautiful memories, you’re forever in my thoughts. Sincere condolences #RIP

This has nothing to do with God and a lot to do with how corrupt the porn industry is that gets glamorized on here daily.

my friend, a biggie at falcon, died about 8 yrs ago....he was just a kid when he began in porn/escorting and new to roids, drugs...but it seems when the john pays top dollar they want the boys to party with them. that's how my friend got strung out, course he could have said no thx....hard to do tho, and u think u can stop whenever u want, ,,, but u cant.

very stressful job, lots of temptations. rough life.

r75

I've known quite a few porn stars and all of them were druggies.

He's spent the last few months hanging around Sean Ford, I hope he didn't corrupt the young man.

What was you friends stage name r81

Some of his work was seminal.

Has Chris Burrous's wife been advising on how to set up a successful GoFundMai campaign? She has a proven track record of promoting successful financial campaigns when death has occurred in tawdry circumstances.

He was so different from when he first appeared in porn.

Looking at his body in recent months it's clear he was using steroids, and they don't mix well with party drugs.

R87 - So unrecognizable. Face filler and botox were too much too...

It is so weird that such a handsome guy felt he needed to use Botox and fillers in his twenties!

Well he won’t need it in his 50s now!

I love how porn performers go on about how people envy them for being so glamorous and sexually liberated when everyone actually knows they're just fucked up hookers.

...... who end up killing themselves.

How blue was the sky that morning?

I’d say blue to quite blue.

So is Zak wailing over him on STR8UpGayPorn?

Which gays, exactly, are glamorizing this lifestyle? On Datalounge, what is happening is that a common deplorable non-gay troll is posting these threads, then tsk-tsk-ing her way through with multiple anti-gay and anti-sex posts, alternated with fake stories about people she claims to have known, literally chatting with herself in the thread.

R96 sounds like recently-booted Sarah Huckabee Sanders talking about fake news...

Who's Sean Ford again?

Glamorizing their lifestyles? Who? The only gays who say this seem to be ugly jealous people who think all they’re problems are because they’re not “porn beautiful”.

It seems to me that the people who glamorize gay porn stars are the same ones that constantly complain about hot guys being glamorized.

Sean Ford

[quote]ugly jealous people who think all they’re problems are because

Oh, dear!

Over at Str8upGayPorn someone in the comments saysmay have died after a botched silicone injection in his dick.

^ *says he may*

I don't think that's true, r102--he had the botched silicone injection months ago. You can die from the4m,, but usually not.

The suggestion was that he may have gone back for more silicone.

[quote] The suggestion was that he may have gone back for more silicone.

Very unlikely. Falcon and Naked Sword have been hiding his dick as much as they can in his videos and stills. He had to have thus been unaware of how incredibly unsightly his dick had become.

Why didn't they use a stunt double's dick for the close ups?

[quote]I love how porn performers go on about how people envy them for being so glamorous and sexually liberated when everyone actually knows they're just fucked up hookers.

Porn performers are, of course, sex workers, and I often enjoy their work. It would be more than a little fucked up for me to gin up degrading things to say about them, wouldn't it?

jus going by the way sean ford acted at an award show I was at, he is a not very nice person, and seemed way out of it.

roids are horrid, like speed, and hard to get off......weird they are legal in such large portions. shocking.

One rule of life is that when one whore dies, there is always another whore to take his place.

roids suuck bad, but o gosh he hot in that above pic, its mixin it with drugs that kills em

Yay! One less whore on this planet

This is the first time I've ever seen an injected swollen American cock. Mostly I saw them in Asia. Did he have it injected in some back alley shitty clinic? Horrible.

[quote] Did he have it injected in some back alley shitty clinic?

I don't know what you are insinuating but I have never met this person and I haven't been to Los Angeles in months.

Is he American? He looks foreign and part Asian. Never heard of him. Are there any pics of his original dick?

He was beautiful as he was, there was no need for roids and the drugs.

Like why do that to your dick, especially if he enjoyed bottoming. Just stick with that.

Did he die with that hair?

I wonder if cum was still leaking from his gaping hole when they found his body?

If he accidentally killed himself with drugs, they should let the details of it be known as a warning to other guys.

Actually the same if he was killed by another hit to that scary look-away dick

im grateful I got to suk his big juicy tits while he alive.

they were damn good.

He was a beautiful young man who was undone by his narcissism and insecurity. Sad but common. Julian's at peace now.

[quote]r123 Julian's at peace now.

Says who?

He was Hispanic-American, r116.

He was fairly new to the business, but was recently doing scenes for what are in porn considered prestige sites that still release DVD films (Falcon and Naked Sword). I think he had been in fewer than 10 studio scenes when he died. He had done a numbers of scenes with his boyfriend on their JFF sites, though.

You guys are brutal.

R81 are you talking about Erik Rhodes?

Was his death another GHB drug overdose? Or was it drugs, steroids and silicone penis injections? Is his boyfriend being held in police custody?

Wasn't he from Eastern Europe?

Lol he is a Porn Star, No one gives a shit if he is alive or dead. He is just an object--not even a cute one. Good riddance!

[quote]Like why do that to your dick

Like, yeah. Omigod!

[quote]Is his boyfriend being held in police custody?

His tard boyfriend is in this thread. Watch out!

R110, testosterone is among the safest drugs out there. There are no clinical studies showing the existence of roid rage, or prostate or liver cancer, or addiction. The marginalizing of an important medicine happened because of a minor baseball scandal (minor because sports are inconsequential), and because Congress wanted to score tough-on-drugs points with the public.

As the ban was being contemplated, a number of physicians and pharmacists petitioned Congress to not schedule these drugs, because they were already proven clinically important and safe; and they knew restrictions would only increase their allure to those who didn't need them, while making them more difficult and more expensive to obtain, while exacerbating the stigmatization of those who do require them.

[quote]The marginalizing of an important medicine happened because of a minor baseball scandal (minor because sports are inconsequential), and because Congress wanted to score tough-on-drugs points with the public.

Nobody, including Congress, cared about the safety of the drugs taken. The scandal was because it is considered cheating, and these guys broke records that had been in the books for years. But did they do it legitimately?

Hope he didn't die in the middle of a meth-fuelled gangbang. You know those animals don't stop fucking even if you kick it halfway through.

He was clearly taking steroids (just look at the photos in this thread), and taking party drugs and steroids together can really do a dangerous number on your heart. When gay men have dangerous collapses at big gay events like circuit parties that's usually what it's about, and in some instances those collapses can be literally fatal (I think that's how Erik Rhodes died, and it is also how any number of porn stars have died). So since this was just at the tail edges of LA Pride, my guess is this is likely what caused his death. It is much more likely that than some sort of fatal consequence from the penis injection(s), which would be incredibly bizarre (and rare).

Sad. Poor lost soul.

a human being ^^

did he fist in vids? loved his ass and tittys…. good eating.

What was wrong with his dick?

Do we have the post mortem report yet?

Meth and roids.

There ya go, R141.

I will miss his delicious tittys and pink thick asshole lips to no end....

He looks very lezzie at r123.

ya live by the drugs, ya die by the drugs

No update on cause of death?

Young adults partying and taking drugs and booze is disgraceful, that's what you get from society today.

I’ve read testosterone DOES have a link to more aggressive prostate cancer R133. I’ve avoided taking it because of that.

Chemical Testosterone does have side effects. Listen, being a party boy is a dangerous lifestyle. Pair that with drugs (steroids are drugs) and a lot of insecurity and longing and the poor kid shoulda called me. That wasn't a real boyfriend. But most of the guys aren't. They don't know. All I can say is Rest In Peace.

Here you go, wrong R148

Do we have any reports on who and what killed this beautiful young star?

R151 a large black penis went to deep and ruptured his insides, the black guy did have enough time to shoot his load so some good came of the situation.

Don't just gossip, girlssssssss. Her GoFundMe needs you you you and you......

[quote] a large black penis went to deep

Oh, dear!

Was it suicide? He was a kind, beautiful man who did not deserve to die so young.

Has the boyfriend been arrested?

Why no news updates? It’s almost as if he didn’t matter or something

Did they ever release the official cause of death?

[quote]r32 He let him die by pulling the plug.

The butt plug?

You know how Sondheim did Assassins? There needs to be a musical about dead gay porn stars and all those instagay broadway chorus boys can star in it. They each have one good number in them, and they not need to carry the whole show.

Goodbye Falcon’s rose

[quote]...this beautiful young star?

A Star Is Deformed.