Should I Tell My Co-Workers I Saw Their Son on a Porn Site?
Dear Prudence,
I am a 38-year-old single gay man. I often watch guys masturbate on a popular cam site. I don’t perform on camera myself, but I like interacting with the guys who do, and I have a number of favorites. A few months ago, I found the stream of an 18-year-old guy whose routine I liked a lot. “Cam” quickly became one of my favorites, and I always tipped generously whenever I saw his show. He didn’t show his face, but his bio mentioned that he’s a high school senior who lives in the same metropolitan area as me and likes daddies. (He doesn’t know where I live.) I never suggested meeting up because the fantasy is enough for me.
This is where it gets weird. Cam’s voice sounded familiar, but I couldn’t place it. He talked about wanting to show his face on camera, and one night he did. I was shocked when I realized he was the son of my co-workers. I’ve known him since he was about 14 via various “family night” activities sponsored by my employer.
Cam has always been out and proud, and now that he’s of legal age, he’s clearly decided he wants to be very out. He’s an adult, at least according to the law, and has every right to do what he wants on camera to anyone who wants to watch. However, I worry that Cam could be setting himself up for trouble down the road, as I know that people record webcammers and post the videos all over the internet. I’m also fairly sure that Cam’s parents don’t know what he’s doing late at night in his bedroom. What’s more, he uses his real name on his stream, so it would be easy to track him down.
Should I tell Cam’s mom and dad? Should I somehow tell Cam that I know who he is and that he should be more careful online? I want to make it clear that I’m not looking for permission to ask him out, have sex with him, be his sugar daddy, etc. I have not watched Cam’s stream since the night he went fully exposed. I probably won’t watch his show again, as it squicked me out a little watching a young man I know putting it all out there. What would you do?
—Webcam Recognition
| by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 27, 2020 9:02 AM
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MYOB -- especially with co-workers and their personal business.
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | May 31, 2019 1:50 AM
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[quote] I never suggested meeting up because I maxed out my credit card tipping him.
FIXED
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | May 31, 2019 1:50 AM
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Yes! Then report back here immediately OP
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | May 31, 2019 1:55 AM
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If I were this guy, in real life, I would send the young cam whore an anonymous message - saying "Hello, dude. I am a friend of your parents. You're a gorgeous guy! My unsolicited advice to you is you ought to think twice about being a cam whore because it might not mix well with your career ambitions. You're still very young and life is long - much longer than your beautiful cock! I'm not going to look at your cam anymore. Peace."
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | May 31, 2019 1:56 AM
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This story seems vaguely familiar.
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | May 31, 2019 1:59 AM
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Damn search option, R8. I searched, didn't see it, posted article.
Oh well, maybe not everybody wants to click on Slate.
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | May 31, 2019 2:03 AM
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How was the hole situation?
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | May 31, 2019 2:05 AM
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stay the fuck out of his life. If you talk to his parents you are a REAL asshole.
| by Anonymous | reply 11 | May 31, 2019 2:11 AM
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[quote]Should I tell Cam’s mom and dad? Should I somehow tell Cam that I know who he is and that he should be more careful online?
Make sure you tell them in the process that you tipped generously when whacking off over their son's naked body.
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | May 31, 2019 2:15 AM
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You should fuck him and show them the video
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | May 31, 2019 2:21 AM
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I saw a co-worker on Chaturbate once....I was so turned on every day I went into work knowing that I had seen him cum the night before and he had no idea....so hot
| by Anonymous | reply 17 | May 31, 2019 2:28 AM
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I feel for those poor co-workers .....
What is his name and the name of the site.
Otherwise you are a liar.
| by Anonymous | reply 20 | May 31, 2019 2:46 AM
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No! Mind your own business!
| by Anonymous | reply 21 | May 31, 2019 2:55 AM
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The OP did not write that letter to Dear Prudence, and the letter writer is not likely here on DL, so why are you all offering advice about what he should do?
| by Anonymous | reply 23 | May 31, 2019 3:47 AM
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I have seen my best friend's son on Chaturbate. He's 23 or 24. He showed face, hole, ate his own cum. I wanted to look away but couldn't. I don't know if he's still doing it. I haven't seen him pop up and I haven't checked to see when he's last broadcast. I didn't see the point of telling my friend...he also visits Chaturbate, but it's to look at women so I doubt he'd ever see the son.
| by Anonymous | reply 24 | May 31, 2019 4:21 AM
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r23 50% of DLers have no internet literacy. ZERO.
Others just play along for the fun of it.
| by Anonymous | reply 25 | May 31, 2019 4:32 AM
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This guy sounds like a major dweeb and is probably chronically unfucked and friendless.
| by Anonymous | reply 26 | May 31, 2019 4:40 AM
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Yeah, you're probably right on both counts, r25. I get the people who just want to give their two cents on an amusing topic, but the ones who are raging directly at the OP as if he'd written the letter in question kind of astound me with their stupidity.
| by Anonymous | reply 27 | May 31, 2019 4:42 AM
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Well, obviously the writer should tell the kid’s parents. And his siblings, friends and teachers. They all might want to watch, too.
| by Anonymous | reply 29 | May 31, 2019 5:55 AM
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OP posted this as if he is asking the question. He could have made it clear that he was reprinting something he read, but we have to figure that out by clicking on his link.
| by Anonymous | reply 30 | May 31, 2019 5:58 AM
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r22, holy shit!!! that guy is gorgeous and the dick is humongous!!!! tell me more about him please!
| by Anonymous | reply 31 | May 31, 2019 6:01 AM
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Is this Nick back in innocent times?
| by Anonymous | reply 32 | May 31, 2019 7:58 AM
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Just fuck the kid and keep the secret forever, OP.
| by Anonymous | reply 33 | May 31, 2019 10:57 AM
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r22, tell them he's monetizing his cock, as DeepDick10x7 on OnlyFans.
| by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 27, 2020 7:51 AM
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This is what I’d advise: Don’t tell him you know who he is or who you are. Never try to meet him. Stay anonymous and give him advice.
| by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 27, 2020 9:02 AM
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