When Did Offering ‘No Recip’ Blow Jobs Become The Most Popular Sex Act?

I know a “straight” construction worker and I love sucking his dick with no reciprocation. It’s more sexy that way they’re using you as their whore

Why does this require explanation? Either you get it or you don't.

Mercifully it is not true that no-reciprocation blowjobs are now the preferred sex act among gay men.

I have given exactly one "no recip blowjob" in a career of thousands. Obviously, I had no idea it was "no recip" until I was done and the scoundrel refused to "recip." He was out the door before he could get his clothes on. Ain't pullin' shit like that on me. Take your cock and your socks and GTFO.

Lots horny str8 men out there are not getting their needs met. I love it and don’t see the problem. I hardly doubt that it’s the most popular just an easy way for men to connect. Bookstore stores are great for this type of setup

Whatever. Being a cumdump bottom on PreP is where it's at.

Ha ha, R6!

Guys that just wanna ‘suck’ it are usually poz

Yeah I hate getting head but love giving it. I prefer no recip

Nevah.

BUMP

"It’s more sexy that way they’re using you as their whore"

For all the hatred towards trans people here, statements like these make me think most DLers want to be women

Wait, r12... just ONE post prompts you to make a generalizations about "most DLers"?

Explain to me how that logic works.

r13, people like you will use one incident to make generalizations about ALL trans people.

"People like me"? You know NOTHING about me.

R8, Or impotent.

Gay guys love nongay Macho Alpha males , and giving blowjobs is not viewed as consistent with that fantasy male identity

Some asshole came onto this thread with an axe to grind

I used to do this often - not so much lately. I prefer to just give head. I'm not into getting fucked and I think it is easier to do a match if you are just offering head. My cock is about 5 inches and not that glamorous so I just find it easier to find a guy and I get off that way (not cuming but I also get my needs met).

I have a couple regulars and all is good.

I’m one of those no-recip cocksuckers you see posting online, claiming to be 6 years younger than I really am. And it’s exhausting. So many cocksuckers fighting over a handful of married closet cases. And if you can’t host, you can forget it.

The quest is for real hot Alphas who are active only

What makes a man a “hot alpha”?

[quote]What makes a man a “hot alpha”?

A penis larger than 5” and an attitude

Alpha= masculine, always dominant, never passive

r5, straight men aren't seeking out men for sex on the internet

For all the shrieking about "trannies" cutting their dicks off.....you guys don't see to like using yours.

There is high demand for Macho dudes who don’t identify as gay

It's bad when trans women seek out straight men.....but okay when self-loathing gay men do the same.

R27 I do this. Why am I self-loathing? That quite an extreme statement and offensive.

I enjoy it and there is no harm. I have a health self esteem but enjoy sucking cock.

Oh, just shut up already. You complain about gays generalizing about trans, they you do post after post generalizing about gays.

You are a stupid, whiny hypocrite.

r28, If you aren't self-loathing......why do you seek out "straight" men?

r29 is probably getting ready to find one article about a trans person who did something bad, and will use that to attack all trans people.

YOU are the trans person who is doing something bad, r30.

You are being a fucking hypocrite. You are generalizing about gays, with one of your stupid generalizations being that we all generalize about trans.

Trans people have the fight to live their lives without being harassed. So do gays. So shut the fuck up already.

Why do trans always have to attack gays?

r31, I'm not trans. Just a liberal who is sick of the Republicans taking over this board. So shut the fuck up already.

Bullshit. You are a liar as well.

Since when is attacking gays “liberal”?

I blocked the nutcase hypocritical tranny.

r34, I'm not attacking all gays, just the freeper ones who post here and attack trans people. You sound really stupid. Go back to the Trump rally from whence you came. r35 is blocked now. The fact that you use "tranny" as an insult proves my point.

Only my first bf knew how to give a decent blowjob. Now I just fuck my husband, no blowjobs.

R27, neither is my business. Get what you like dude

R27, neither is my business. Get what you like dude

The ones attacking gays are the guys seeking out straight men (or men they falsely believe are straight) for sex and ignoring gay identified guys

If gay men are hitting on and pressing up against straight men in the real world, that’s a problem. But on social media and dating apps, men who identity as men who are seeking men are not victims or being harassed. They are willing entering into intimate interactions with other men.

[quote]r34, I'm not attacking all gays, just the freeper ones who post here and attack trans people.

And yet you wrote:

[quote] statements like these make me think most DLers want to be women

So, not “all gays”, just “most DLers”

[quote]The fact that you use "tranny" as an insult proves my point.

I have never used “tranny” on here, you fuck head. Only “trans”.

These replies are why we can't have nice things.

This wasn’t even a little bit about trans people until shrieking frau entered the thread

r42, other posters here have used "tranny" as an insult so fuck off. And attacking the freeper brigade at the DL is not the same as attacking all gays. Try again.

r41, so why are you seeking out the ones who insist they aren't gay instead of the ones who identify as gay?

You are a hypocrite. Therefore, nothing you say has merit

[quote] Guys that just wanna ‘suck’ it are usually poz

What a truly idiotic thing to say.

There was a time I was very into this, and lived in a small college town where straight guys way outnumbered any gay dudes. I sought out this kind of thing and met a few hot guys that way.

Not everyone lives in the bubble of a gay stereotype, toots.

There's no use arguing with a crazy person. Block the nutcase and move on.

We’re not arguing with it.

We’re pointing and laughing.

r46 is a hypocrite who claims others are attacking gays but seeks out men who claim to be straight because gays aren't good enough for him. Nothing you say has merit.

It’s only argument is a variation on “I know you are but what am I?”

Thanks for identifying yourself.

r51, thanks for identifying yourself as a hypocrite and a Republican. And also a self-loathing gay. Will you be looking for "straight" (chuckle) men to blow tonight?

Just fugly tinymeats trying to increase their chances of getting some dick, OP. And if they're on Doublelist/Craigslist-type free sites, you can add 'poor' to the description.

Again, all you have to offer in the way of argument or wit is a variation on “I know you are but what am I?”

r54, all you have is to call me a hypocrite. Or a "frau" or a "tranny" - how can someone be both those things?

Again, you lie. I have never called you a tranny

You are a frau and a hypocrite, so there is that

A frau? That's hysterical. They tend to be right-wing, you are more of a "frau" than I am.

Take it elsewhere dudes

Okay, I’m done. You’ve proven me right with that last “IKYABWAI?” Anything I say will just be met with “IKYABWAI?”

Both fucking trolls are now blocked.

Let’s get this thread back on track...

I love no recip head. I’m not straight, 💯 % gay, actually like totally versatile play (oral and anal) best. But my sexual repertoire is hardly set in stone (how boring!), so I like different things at different times.

The no-recip blow-and-go is perfect sometimes when you just want to get off but don’t want to put any effort into it at all. It’s nice sometimes to sit back, relax, and be worshipped by someone who’s as into their role as I am into mine.

[quote]Both fucking trolls are now blocked.

Did it make you feel manly to announce that?

This started when men was still in caves. Not with Grindr or Craig's List

[quote]Since when is attacking gays “liberal”?

Since T.

When life got busy and I no longer had the time

I am sharing this knowing full well that I am going to get roasted on here and called crazy and damaged. But I prefer no recip. In fact, I am no longer attracted to a guy who wants to suck dick or get fucked. You can lie to me and tell me that you are a total top and I'm fine. But the minute I get even an inkling that you may want to get something in your butt or suck cock, I'm out of there. I've watched hot pornstars who were tops, and then find out they bottom and I lose all interest. I even throw out their old scenes.

It's my own personal thing and my own unique baggage, but that's just the way it is for me. Always has been.

At least you own it, r65. You be you.

I only suck str8 dick

R65, a lot of gay men are the same. Hence, the proliferation of “no reciprocation” and “seeking 💯 % total Alpha tops” personals.

I find it hard to imagine sucking off a Datalounger.

True

r67, I hate to break it to you, but those guys looking for men to suck their cocks aren't straight

Doublelist poster-to-post ratio seems to average about 1 to 10. The obsessives looking for no-recip sex just change their age and/or reword their post over and over.

R71 doesn't have much experience with drugs. Cocksucking happens ...

r73 doesn't have much experience with gay guys who pretend to be "straight but curious" on the internet

Wasn't that basically how old time glory holes worked?

There's a lot of men into sub play who really enjoy doing this. When it's their fetish, it's seriously what they enjoy. And, yes cuntzilla fraus who won't fuck off back to LSA - your husbands do in fact suck dick on the side. I guess a big piece of cock is way more fun than your stinky pussy.

So, you married a gay man.

[quote]I’m one of those no-recip cocksuckers you see posting online, claiming to be 6 years younger than I really am. And it’s exhausting. So many cocksuckers fighting over a handful of married closet cases. And if you can’t host, you can forget it.

This is why I don't get it. It sounds like so much work and so little reward. Well NO reward cause its no recip, besides knowing you have dick in your mouth.

I'd much rather dig in a real gay's bootyhole!

I want them to be manly and ultramacho

No recip blowjobs are a response to many modern social-sexual demands. First off, if you haven't noticed, masculinity is under attack, despite people valuing and finding it appealing in many ways. Thus the focus on masculine and manly types. Subversiveness is common among sex fetishes and this quest for the masc is another manifestation.

The people who are looking for these encounters seem nearly autistic frequently: They are obsessed with their goal and pursue it obsessively. They only want sex. They are probably obsessed with certain aspects of the act, like how many guys they get or what size their dick is. They don't like conversation or other social interaction; they want to get to the sexual act. Some of this asociability might pertain to millennials as well.

Don't discount the effects of SSRIs, meth and beating off to porn. These lead to diminished sexual performance although there might still be sexual interest. What do you do if you want to engage in sexual activity but don't have a hard-on? No-recip blowjobs. If you do get aroused, maybe you'll beat yourself off.

A lot of guys don't want anal for a variety of reasons, not limited to false belief it is more prone to disease transmission, feces, lengthy preparation, and an attitude that butt sex is more gay than blowjobs.

R20, those of us who like good blowjobs and aren't narcissists look for older cocksuckers. If you're lowering your age trying to attract younger dick, that's your loss.

[quote] First off, if you haven't noticed, masculinity is under attack,

Mary!

Thank you R74, I thought I had entered an alternate reality.

What planet do you all live on?

You travel to a new city, the fastest and easiest way to pull hot guys is "Bi jock, girlfriend back home, looking for other masc jock for discreet head"

Same way claiming you only want "no recip" means you've covered your Worst Case Scenario where some guy you're not that into gives you a blowjob while you watch porn, and can still hit on quality guys who you'd actually do more with.

I've been in a relationship for about a year now, but I can't imagine things have changed that much.

"First off, if you haven't noticed, masculinity is under attack, despite people valuing and finding it appealing in many ways."

Masculinity is only "under attack" according to MRA trolls like you

Swallowing a straight man's load is the ultimate feeling.

The straight guy fetishists are so tiresome. Those guys aren't straight, anyway.

R85 is jealous he can't secure straight cock to gulp.

I have a big cock and am in real demand by the no-recip crowd. They tell each other about my cock and keep contacting me.

I realized however that just offering my cock to be sucked isn’t a great way to potentially meet a partner, which has always been my hope. I no longer look for guys to just suck me. I even took the size of my cock off my profile. I’m dating instead of having hookups.

But, the guys who suck are relentless! They keep trying to contact me and begging me to go over

"Guys that just wanna ‘suck’ it are usually poz"

The idiots (R8) have arrived.

Why are so many guys on Grindr asking for Adderall lately? I received three requests in the past 24 hours.

[Quote] "Guys that just wanna ‘suck’ it are usually poz"

I met a guy who only enjoyed BJs. He said so many of his friend died of AIDS but he completely avoided it by just sucking and even swallowing

r86, hate to break it to you, but none of those cocks you are sucking are straight. And why do you fetishize straight men, most of whom are overweight? Is it self-loathing?

R91 Hate to break it to, but your “Archie and Veronica” level of knowledge of male sexuality is a joke. Go away you stupid frau.

R89's comment is interesting. I'm also getting hit up for drugs all the time lately, even though my profile says I'm not into drugs. It has something to do with me being a top and them being bag-whore bottoms. What puzzles me is that this is a new thing. It never happened even 6 months ago.

And R89, they're asking for Adderall because they will get their accounts banned if they ask for meth, which is what they really want.

Good point R90. That’s a great insight. We were forced for 15+ years to only have oral sex to minimize HIV risk - which for me was from coming out late teens to post-30. So my whole sexual experience was based on oral sex - and receptive oral sex was as gay as the sex got. I do think this is a major cause. Having spent my formative sexual years focused on oral sex, it continues to be my preference.

On Doublelist now, no matter what city, 90% of posts are total bottoms or cocksuckers looking for “straight guys”.

Perhaps submissive bottoms are over represented on Doublelist, but I doubt it, because on Craigslist it was the same thing.

Yet many gay men get mad when people ask them to consider if their gender identity may be that of the opposite sex. I believe many, if not most of these men (and by proxy many gay men, since most are bottoms), would be happier as trans. But won’t go through with a sex change because of cost, stigma, family, their livelihoods, etc.

Hot R1. I’ve wanted this arrangement for so long, but I’ve just never found the right guy.

I don't use the net or apps and get my cock sucked all the time.

Many men are into sucking dick, and I said it before, most of the men who suck me off I meet at hotel bars while traveling. They are also married.

I stretch, complain about the flight and the preface is often a massage that ends in my dick getting sucked. The hottest was this uber hairy dude who shot off then he tasted my cum and he never touched himself.

Most of us don't find ourselves in hotel bars while traveling very often, R97.

So hot, r97!!!

My thoughts on this subject as a very experienced no-recip top who has of necessity given the topic a lot of thought:

1. Many of the guys offering blowjobs really want to get fucked, but won't say so online, because it's less popular, considered more risky, more sluttish, gay, HIV, etc. But be sure that if you actually do hook up with these randos, most of the time they will want butt sex. You will see the occasional top post that he is only looking for oral, no anal. He says this because he must, to keep the secret bottoms away. Even so, when I post I'm looking for head, I still get guys wanting me to fuck them. I sometimes remind guys that I'm looking for head and not ass, and they disappear. I disagree some with the OP - most of the guys I encounter want to get fucked.

2. There's an element of addiction to this. Guys want more and more cock. The hunt itself is somewhat self-reinforcing, as people send you messages, pics, etc. Don't discount the number of antisocial crays that are online now as well, entertaining themselves by pretending to look for cock to suck.

3. You can't offer many blowjobs if you want reciprocation. You won't be horny after you cum and won't want to blow anybody. No recip keeps your stamina up - potentially you can blow more guys.

4. The guys who want no recip blowjobs are a type sought after by bottoms - they are typically more masculine, more horny (testosterone, basically), sometimes married or closeted which appeals to some. These so-called trade tops (now called 'total tops') are also pretty rare in the hookup biz. Bottoms tell me all the time they rarely meet a total top.

5. Guys have sex performance issues because they're obese and on SSRIs. They can't get it up so it's easier to offer no-recip head and avoid embarrassment.

What really annoys me are all the gloryholes. In people's homes or in hotel rooms. Often poorly made with rough edges, odd heights and angles. No thanks.

I loved giving non-reciprocal BJs until I encountered one too many loads of foul tasting spunk and/or musty balls.

A lot of those looking to suck cock without reprocication might be closet cases or 'bi-curious'. A former 'straight' friend of mine used to bang on about how he'd love to try sucking cock, but just couldn't deal with the fact there's a man attached to it. He admitted to being fascinated by penises, but insisted he didn't find the male body as a whole and male faces attractive.

Funny R101 I actually relish the smell of sweaty balls and Iove when I go down on a guy who has them. It adds one more sensory experience to the act of sucking.