This dude won't blow me anymore

I like a guy who begs.....

We're so sorry, Cassie.

But you asked so nicely. What gives? I think he may have feelings for you.

He hates whining queens, OP

You didn't wash your cock after fucking him bareback, and then made him suck you? Disgusting.

Op, stats?

So blow him.

You can’t find somebody else to do it?

I think OP is one of those stinky twinky Gen Z kids who doesn't wash his feets.

OP he has found a new guy that is more sexually compatible to him than you are

I think he dumped you OP. He found a bigger dick...

He's really going to miss your conversational abilities, OP.

Dat's da suck job, OP!

[quote]Dat's da suck job, OP!

Yes it was, R13. But not anymore.

OP, stats? Location?

Present Hole OP....or this...................... DID NOT HAPPEN.

I'm 41. 5'10" 170 lbs fit blond blue over 6 cut thick. I have pics of my dick and the huge loads too. But no I'm not saying where I'm at.

My ass is a no-man's land, R16.

He found someone who better met his needs OP. If he's sucking you ofd the least you could do is fuck him and clearly you think its a favor.

How are you going to get your dick sucked if you don't tell people where you are?

This thread is useful without photos.

"This dude won't blow me anymore"

I would say it sucks to be you, but clearly no sucking is involved.

Perhaps you should come to terms with the fact that you've become unattractive.

Antibiotic-resistant oral gonorrhea.

Consider yourself lucky.

miss, with all due respect i have my own problems.

[quote] [bold]I'm 41[/bold]. 5'10" [bold]170 lbs[/bold] fit blond blue over 6 cut thick.

Say no more!

You're old and fat. No reason to wonder why your cumdump moved on...

Sorry, may I suggest Mr. Ray's Wig World?

Yeah, old.

And 170 lbs at 5'10" is too fat. You should be 155.

Where did you go wrong?

I knew I'd like OP's stats.

Too needy and desperate. Next.

I hope you are not living anywhere near Los Angeles OP. I mean 170 ??? tsk tsk...

Your mean girl comments have no effect on me. Because I'm a top.

They're just being bitches. 170 at 5'10 is ok that's not fat.

R30 sounds VERY straight acting and masc4masc

He's sick of your dick - the same dick gets boring after a while. Move on, quit sounding desperate.

He's just not that into you being in him.

This top entitlement is disgusting! You didn't even know you were in a relationship until you stopped getting what you wanted.

On any hookup app there is a mass of bottoms clawing their way to be chosen. Pick another decent one and move on.

My mouth is a fuck hole. Use it!

Sometimes men will pass their business cards to me through the gloryhole if they want to meet again away from the bookstore.

[quote]Then he cut me off, saying he can't handle it. Handle what?

Handle the fact that this will never be a proper relationship from your side, which is what he probably wants at this point.

it's a brave new world out there. Every now and then a gay guy wants more than to be used as a fleshlight. maybe he even did something crazy like go out and find a boyfriend

The only thing I can't understand is why it took him three years to realize this was always going to be a virtually non-reciprocal relationship benefiting only you. Good for him for realizing he deserves more.

Face it Granda — he’s tired of lifting up the caftan to see those craters you call knees.

You’re gonna have to start paying for it now. Time to scrape the cobwebs from yer fat wallet!

3 years? That's a pretty long life span for a fwb - I usually tire of a cock after a year or so....but yeah, he has the warm and fuzzies for you , and interaction with you has become too painful - the mistake both of you made was him asking and you fucking him...

He was great in the sack R43. I'm not naive, I'm sure he was/is doing others. We had the relationship we both wanted. If anybody'd wanted more, they could have said something. The real deal is that yeah he was having feelings for me, but didn't want to act on them, because he prefers no strings cock. That anal to him meant special relationship is weird, because we all know there are tons of bottoms out there slanging ass without a second thought to who's up inside them. And his skill level (absolute pro) means he has been sucking a lot of cock.

I'm masc enough for you R32, but I like fem guys plenty. One time I asked my ex-cocksucker about a football game on the weekend, and he laughed and said, "I don't know when the game is on, but I know when Dillard's is having its next white sale!"

We are all in awe of your masculinity, OP.

As you should be, R45.

LOL!!!

Three fucking years? Dude, move on. Your trick did after he got what he wanted (getting your dick up his ass).

It's like some of you rubes (ESTs or not) never got used and played before.

OP = lesbian drama

I've been played lots of times R48, no stranger to that. I was okay fucking him. He called the shots on that. He came both times I fucked him. And he started to like me more, and it freaked him out. We kept this up for so long because we were enjoying it.

[quote]ex-cocksucker

This is how you refer to him?

He liked that, R51.

For a lot of my life I was the guy begging to blow others and asking for nothing in return and secretly hoping (even though I knew it wasn't going to happen) that there would be more of a relationship at some point. Now I'm in my first real relationship and all these clowns are popping out of the wood work asking me to blow them and service them and holy shit is it fun watching their heads explode when I say no or don't answer. It feels so liberating and my bf loves my oral skills.

[quote]He liked that, [R51].

He obviously has issues.

R53 Once a slut, always a slut sweet pea.

OP here. The guy is still begging for dick online. The matching service for suckers and suckees has broken down.

So OP, you said you know he started to have feelings for you. You didn't start to have any feelings for him? Not even after three years?

Sure, I liked him. I was friendly, always open to whatever. We never talked about ourselves as a couple, but we did say we were friends. The reserve was on his side, and I did what he wanted. We socialized some. We worked in the same field and knew each other professionally.

Most of you tops with experience know that bottoms are usually the ones in control.

In his new posts he's mentioning sub tendencies. I could probably show up unannounced when he has his shingle up, and get my way. But I am not usually that bold, because it's borderline cray.

How old is he? Perhaps being over 40, you're a little more ready to settle down than he is. I don't think you sound like a bad guy. I think this arrangement probably just ran its course.

Hard time believing R58 is the OP

He's older, 55 to 60, R59.

Who cares what you think troll R60?

OP, surprise him with a ring. He wants to marry you, just too shy to come out and say it. Good luck.

I looked him up. He's 60. His profile online says he's 56. Maybe he's a Datalounger.

Did you ever take him out for a nice dinner at some point before Covid? Did you go to the movies together - you paying - and put your arm around him over the seat, unafraid of what others might think? Your dick was nice, OP, but he wanted more after a while and you didn't pick up on the signs. He's moved on. And so should you.

Behind every NSA sex buddy/friends with benefits relationships are lots and lots of messy strings and emotional entanglements. Never fails.

Block this lame troll.

We warned you not to turn the lights on, OP.

People get bored and move on

Troll R66 was a single-post Datalounge ID, who then deleted her cookies so as to not be caught by the blocking mechanism. She is probably someone I call out regularly when I'm performing as the Bump Bitch Troll Explainer.

Negative infinity / 10

I actually had this for real, back in AOL days. I would go over and we would suck each other and the. He would fuck me. One day he asked me to top him. It was great, but he ghosted me after that

OP there are plenty of oral bottoms out there. go on double list.

It happens. As they say,theres no hot bitch out there who somebody isnt tired of fucking. But if you are as hot as you sound Op , you wont be alone long. Theres 10 zillion hungry bottoms out there . Go on any dating site if you dont believe me .

[quote] One day he asked me to top him. It was great, but he ghosted me after that

I guess it wasn't that great

OP Show pictures of your dick