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I was in the psych ward for weeks while my bf was fucking other men.

by Anonymousreply 37Last Sunday at 3:28 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. That's brutal.

by Anonymousreply 1Last Saturday at 3:53 PM

I was only 18 and in love!

by Anonymousreply 2Last Saturday at 3:54 PM

He was practicing for you, Op

by Anonymousreply 3Last Saturday at 3:56 PM

OP = Britney Spears

by Anonymousreply 4Last Saturday at 3:57 PM

Did you send a message to the FUCKHEAD and the CUNT?

by Anonymousreply 5Last Saturday at 3:57 PM

Did you know he was gay?

by Anonymousreply 6Last Saturday at 3:57 PM

But OP, was he fucking other men before you went nuts, as well? Was your breakdown about him? Important information has been left out.

by Anonymousreply 7Last Saturday at 4:01 PM

And then what happened?

by Anonymousreply 8Last Saturday at 4:03 PM

He was my first bf and I had to go into a psych ward because of depression. While I was there my friend Sara told me that she saw his car stay nights at a man’s house I suspected he was screwing but didn’t know for sure.

by Anonymousreply 9Last Saturday at 4:03 PM

This is simply a right of passage in most couple's lives; you sound particularly precious.

by Anonymousreply 10Last Saturday at 4:05 PM

Well he wasn't for you then, was he. I hope this is decades behind you.

by Anonymousreply 11Last Saturday at 4:09 PM

Maybe for reprobates! I’m not programmed that way!

by Anonymousreply 12Last Saturday at 4:09 PM

rite of passage

by Anonymousreply 13Last Saturday at 4:10 PM

If you’re with me you better not be fuckin’ around! Otherwise I’m kicking your shit to the curb!

by Anonymousreply 14Last Saturday at 4:12 PM

Why didn't you have sex with any of the Latino orderlies? They have some great uncut cocks in the psych at Bellevue here in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 15Last Saturday at 4:28 PM

[quote]I was only 18 and in love!

Guess he wasn't.

by Anonymousreply 16Last Saturday at 4:30 PM

Get over it, OP. You’re nearly insufferable.

by Anonymousreply 17Last Saturday at 4:46 PM

You get over it, loser!

by Anonymousreply 18Last Saturday at 4:49 PM

If this is true I’m really sorry. Gay men really are awful.

by Anonymousreply 19Last Saturday at 4:52 PM

Maybe he was really sleeping with Sara and they conspired to drive you mad.

by Anonymousreply 20Last Saturday at 4:56 PM

Thank you, r19. Thank you for being kind to me.

by Anonymousreply 21Last Saturday at 5:06 PM

[quote] my friend Sara told me that she saw his car stay nights at a man’s house

They were wrapping presents and doing more shopping on QVC for you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 22Last Saturday at 5:12 PM

'Your friend' Sara was probably stirring shit up for her own amusement; even if it was true, what kind of friend springs this on such emotional fragility. Sara is the real villain in all of this, I am quite sure.

by Anonymousreply 23Last Saturday at 5:19 PM

How long did he put up with your shit before you took it to the psyche ward? He probably deserved a break.

by Anonymousreply 24Last Saturday at 6:55 PM


by Anonymousreply 25Last Saturday at 7:03 PM

I’m sorry OP.

Did you find love again? I hope so.

by Anonymousreply 26Last Saturday at 7:05 PM

If he was your age he was a stupid kid too. What did you expect? How many years have passed that you feel a need to post and obsess about it? And how many subsequent hospitalizations have you had?

by Anonymousreply 27Last Saturday at 7:13 PM

OP needs to watch Daniel Sloss' Jigsaw on Netflix, pull up his big-boy trousers and move on.

by Anonymousreply 28Last Saturday at 7:16 PM

No man is worth a stay in the psych ward.

by Anonymousreply 29Last Saturday at 7:18 PM

When did this happen?

by Anonymousreply 30Last Saturday at 8:03 PM


by Anonymousreply 31Last Saturday at 8:03 PM

Lordy I wasn't even born until 1990! GET HELP R31

by Anonymousreply 32Last Saturday at 8:09 PM

If you go over the edge and kill them both there is no better time than now - a halfway decent public defender can get you off on an insanity plea. Look into it, dear.

by Anonymousreply 33Last Saturday at 8:54 PM

This happened in 1991. I was young and in love!

by Anonymousreply 34Last Sunday at 6:23 AM

Hon, if you were mentally ill enough to be put into a psych ward, that guy had probably been feeling like a parent to you (at BEST), for a really long time not a lover. Or, if he hadn't already broken up with you before you were institutionalized, he had wanted to break it off for a long time. You can't go backwards from either of those positions, to being in love and sexually attracted to a person. The flipped switch is a permanent one.

Hopefully, you're still going to some form of therapy and taking medication for your issues. Talk to your psychiatrist and get help to move on. Work on being mentally healthy, living in the 'now' and finding someone new.

by Anonymousreply 35Last Sunday at 9:57 AM

I used to be sad, I used to be shy.

by Anonymousreply 36Last Sunday at 11:33 AM

Now I’m smiling at my tv.

by Anonymousreply 37Last Sunday at 3:28 PM
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