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I’m sexually attracted to men only but can’t ever imagine dating a guy...

Am I gay?

I have zero interest in women sexually or emotionally, so I’m definitely not bisexual. I have tried dating guys but it never feels right. I do however love having sex with other guys.

by Anonymousreply 3704/15/2019

Either you’re a prickly, spoiled, self-flagulating Millenial or your just not getting dates with the right guys.

If you’re jerking off to guys you are gay. Sounds like you’re very picky.

4/10 if this is a troll thread.

by Anonymousreply 104/11/2019

so just have sex with guys. Don't "date" them

by Anonymousreply 204/11/2019

I find you fascinating, please continue with your thoughts.

by Anonymousreply 304/11/2019

You might be a heteroromantic or an aromantic homosexual. Your emotional intelligence might also be close to zero. In other words, you're a sex-crazed troglodyte who is unable to fall in love. Sad!

by Anonymousreply 404/11/2019

You're already here, you know the answer. Sounds like you aren't emotionally ready for a relationship. Meet more gay men, make friends, and that might change.

by Anonymousreply 504/11/2019

And let us know how that self-flagulating is working for you.

by Anonymousreply 604/11/2019

Sounds like you don't like dating anyone.

by Anonymousreply 704/11/2019

Damn you, Lindsey Graham!! Why are you here when you should be doing what is right in D.C.?

by Anonymousreply 804/11/2019

It may also be that whatever social conditioning you had growing up made "dating" men seem very odd or unacceptable, but your libido doesn't have the same constraints. Or, as others have said, you may be aromantic or some other of the seemingly endless varieties of affectional/attractional categories we now have.

by Anonymousreply 904/11/2019

r6 "self-flagulating"

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by Anonymousreply 1004/11/2019

I don’t date. Sex is just fine. I don’t do repeats either. I don’t like being friends with other gays. I don’t see any problem here.

by Anonymousreply 1104/11/2019

^How can that be? You sound like such a charmer.

by Anonymousreply 1204/11/2019

You are tedious

by Anonymousreply 1304/11/2019

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but the way you have made interacting with you on a sexual (or any other level) sound is the very definition of tedious.

by Anonymousreply 1404/11/2019

You do you OP. Have fun.

by Anonymousreply 1504/11/2019

Go away and return when you're approaching the age of 60. And bring a bottle of gin and your regrets.

by Anonymousreply 1604/11/2019

You both (OP and R11) sound perfectly awful. You should not date each other. Frequently.

by Anonymousreply 1704/11/2019

Sorry. I just know what I like.

by Anonymousreply 1804/11/2019

Describe your typical sexual encounter, r18.

by Anonymousreply 1904/11/2019

R18 Cold.

by Anonymousreply 2004/11/2019

You are a whore OP

by Anonymousreply 2104/11/2019

I like you

by Anonymousreply 2204/11/2019

You are gay.

[MEME] Why are you gay ?

uai ar iu ge ?

by Anonymousreply 2304/11/2019

R10. Everyone is so special these days. You really wanna add to this guys need for our attention because he “can’t date”?

by Anonymousreply 2404/15/2019

R11 = Roy Cohn

by Anonymousreply 2504/15/2019

No repeats, R11? No criticism here, but how do find a new man every time you want sex? Isn’t it challenging because you’re bound to run into the same men all the time?

by Anonymousreply 2604/15/2019

Gays!!??? Nasty, hairy brutes! I wouldn't be caught dead with one!

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by Anonymousreply 2704/15/2019

R26 there are sooo many desperate bottoms, A lot!

by Anonymousreply 2804/15/2019

OP, why not just have an attractive lady friend and have fun with men on the side? That was the norm in my day.

by Anonymousreply 2904/15/2019

You're gay with a personality on the colder /schizoid spectrum. Some people are wired for extreme introversion. As you grow older , this may change and you could start desiring long term relationships with men rather than just sex. For now it is what it is, if it bothers you therapy might help.

by Anonymousreply 3004/15/2019

I can understand. Although I like dating I always find something wrong with them and end it quickly. I

by Anonymousreply 3104/15/2019

Are you Brandon?

by Anonymousreply 3204/15/2019

Abraham, is that you?

by Anonymousreply 3304/15/2019

Maybe a KPop hairdo could change your outlook!

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by Anonymousreply 3404/15/2019

Dating is a drag. If you enjoy spending time with someone, gay or straight, great. But forcing yourself to date will only end in tears.

Maybe you're fate is to hook up with guys, keep it moving, and stay single.

by Anonymousreply 3504/15/2019

[quote]Maybe you're fate

Yes, dear. You are fate.

by Anonymousreply 3604/15/2019

R31 OK in that case you're probably just picky , as well as very introverted. Your standards will likely lower as you age.

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