I’m sexually attracted to men only but can’t ever imagine dating a guy...

Either you’re a prickly, spoiled, self-flagulating Millenial or your just not getting dates with the right guys.

If you’re jerking off to guys you are gay. Sounds like you’re very picky.

4/10 if this is a troll thread.

so just have sex with guys. Don't "date" them

I find you fascinating, please continue with your thoughts.

You might be a heteroromantic or an aromantic homosexual. Your emotional intelligence might also be close to zero. In other words, you're a sex-crazed troglodyte who is unable to fall in love. Sad!

You're already here, you know the answer. Sounds like you aren't emotionally ready for a relationship. Meet more gay men, make friends, and that might change.

And let us know how that self-flagulating is working for you.

Sounds like you don't like dating anyone.

Damn you, Lindsey Graham!! Why are you here when you should be doing what is right in D.C.?

It may also be that whatever social conditioning you had growing up made "dating" men seem very odd or unacceptable, but your libido doesn't have the same constraints. Or, as others have said, you may be aromantic or some other of the seemingly endless varieties of affectional/attractional categories we now have.

r6 "self-flagulating"

I don’t date. Sex is just fine. I don’t do repeats either. I don’t like being friends with other gays. I don’t see any problem here.

^How can that be? You sound like such a charmer.

You are tedious

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but the way you have made interacting with you on a sexual (or any other level) sound is the very definition of tedious.

You do you OP. Have fun.

Go away and return when you're approaching the age of 60. And bring a bottle of gin and your regrets.

You both (OP and R11) sound perfectly awful. You should not date each other. Frequently.

Sorry. I just know what I like.

Describe your typical sexual encounter, r18.

R18 Cold.

You are a whore OP

I like you

You are gay.

R10. Everyone is so special these days. You really wanna add to this guys need for our attention because he “can’t date”?

R11 = Roy Cohn

No repeats, R11? No criticism here, but how do find a new man every time you want sex? Isn’t it challenging because you’re bound to run into the same men all the time?

Gays!!??? Nasty, hairy brutes! I wouldn't be caught dead with one!

R26 there are sooo many desperate bottoms, A lot!

OP, why not just have an attractive lady friend and have fun with men on the side? That was the norm in my day.

You're gay with a personality on the colder /schizoid spectrum. Some people are wired for extreme introversion. As you grow older , this may change and you could start desiring long term relationships with men rather than just sex. For now it is what it is, if it bothers you therapy might help.

I can understand. Although I like dating I always find something wrong with them and end it quickly. I

Are you Brandon?

Abraham, is that you?

Maybe a KPop hairdo could change your outlook!

Dating is a drag. If you enjoy spending time with someone, gay or straight, great. But forcing yourself to date will only end in tears.

Maybe you're fate is to hook up with guys, keep it moving, and stay single.

[quote]Maybe you're fate

Yes, dear. You are fate.

R31 OK in that case you're probably just picky , as well as very introverted. Your standards will likely lower as you age.