Question for the DL subset who use rentboys: Will they actually fuck you for money?

You seem naive.

Subset?

Rent Boys are young. If the wind blows, their dicks get hard.

April Fool!

No Rose they hire rent boys to sew the holes in their caftans.

Money is a great aphrodisiac.

Who cares where his hole or dick has been? Wear condom. No one could resist a blond 18-year old thing with abs. It’s impossible.

What do astrophysicists have to do with it?

[quote]You seem naive.

Stupid response to someone asking a question.

He just learned the word "naive" and wanted to give it a test run.

Rentboys aren’t typically 18. More like “26” actually 31.

New to the homosex, are we?

New to the rentboy world. I want to try it but need a confidence boost to actually follow through.

Ask the rent boy before you rent. Don't be frightened. YOU're hiring HIM. YOU're the boss.

If he's hissy and says "You seem naive" or anything that makes you feel patronised or uncomfortable, don't use him.

They take Cialis.

From a crystal chalice

They are known to down Cialis

But, to prevent any sag, are

Much more prone to pop Viagrar.

Their ads usually tell you what they’re into... which means what they’ll do for money. I’ve never had one NOT expect to fuck.

So you want a firmer phallus?

Pop a pill of some Cialis,

Then spring up and be a best sport,

Take a turn at being an escort.

You may pork yourself a palace!

Tell them you are new and to go gently on you.

Make sure they like to kiss (if you want kissing) before you hire them.

[if many of the rentboys are straight]

Since most of their clients are way older, and self loathing, this is just a marketing gimmick.

When I hustled, my clients weren't way older or self-loathing. They were (approx. age):

New to town, bored and horny (late 30s). A guy with some kinks that he couldn't get satisfied from his regular sex partners (45). Another guy whose male partner was out of town for the weekend (early 50s). One guy lived in the sticks and had few opportunities for gay sex (early 40s). Another guy had a recent breakup with a partner and wanted to have sex again after a long dry spell (late 30s). Another was shy and needed somebody to take the lead (early 40s). I don't think anybody was as old as 60.

It's hard to go out or use the apps, meet people, and get laid. If you can have a sure thing, why not?

R18

You might try:

“Take a turn, and be an escort”

I think it scans better.

R22 - All whores tell us the lie that their 'clients' are hot guys. Hot guys don't pay for sex, desperate, ugly men pay for sex. Survey says, the guys at this site that pay to have someone touch their saggy old bodies know better, because they're all in their 60's, 70's and 80's.

There are plenty of desperate guys in their 20s and 30s, who are fat, ugly or both. The difference is that they typically don’t have the disposable income of some older guys.

[quote] The fucking part seems to me to be so personal that a rentboy should not really get fucked that often by strangers, and johns should not really be fucking a guy who has his dick in so many other holes.

Fucking strangers for money is exactly how prostitution works. Looking forward to OP's next question about why water is wet.

Ugh these days they're just too many uncut ones... No thank you. Too many ameteurs as well.

R27 - as you're so clued in, maybe you could come up with some more helpful advice for OP.

R14 is correct. OP, stop worrying about the rent boy. He’s selling a product and performing a service. You’re the customer. You should treat him with respect but you don’t need to worry about him.

[quote]Question for the DL subset who use rentboys: Will they actually fuck you for money?

Well, they certainly aren't gonna fuck you without it.

These days most of them don't even incall/host? How déclassé.

OP, why worry?

You need a better screening process. Book a hot one, send him to my house. I'll put him thorugh his paces on your behalf and submit a full written evaluation. You can then choose whether or not to proceed.

If you decide to try again, just let me know. I'll be there for you, OP.

[quote]Too many ameteurs as well.

Here at Datalounge, we settle for our disapproval of amateur spellers.

Per "My Own Private idaho", they'll tell you what services they provide and how much they charge for those.

r24 not true all the time. I know guys who use em I would consider them at least decent enough to get laid on an app. They just have the money an not the time to sit there and email back and fro. 200-300 bucks for what you want versus a hour on an app for maybe a guy who looks like his pic? I can understand it.

They usually want to fuck you to prove their masculinity.

Yes they do let you penetrate them ,for a price thats usually discussed beforehand.My encounter was disappointing...he obviously had entertained a few clients beforehand and had giant anal warts. I declined intercourse an choose oral...he seemed relieved. We used condoms,always use condoms....these lads do carry STDs

[quote]I declined intercourse an choose oral.

Oh, dear!

I'm hesitant to use rent boys. I'm fat and afraid of rejection. I fear he won't fall in love with me.

You can also opt for a "stay the whole night" tariff, OP.

[quote]he obviously had entertained a few clients beforehand and had giant anal warts.

That's awful.

[quote]I declined intercourse an choose oral

Thank goodness you have standards.

r41 just not spellcheck, or grammar.

."Hot guys don't pay for sex, desperate, ugly men pay for sex. Survey says, the guys at this site that pay to have someone touch their saggy old bodies know better, because they're all in their 60's, 70's and 80's."

There are goodlooking male celebrities who have used prostitutes.

^*And married closeted guys too.

My friend use to escort and he said that he would have all sorts of clients--hot, ugly, young, old, professionals, working class, married, single, etc

The allure was they knew exactly what they were getting and didn't have to spend a long time on apps hoping to find that perfect person.

My friend was mainly a top. He's fit but not overly muscular. He's very handsome. Now he's in his 30's but he escorted in his mid-late 20's. For many, he would be the ideal sex partner. That's who hired him.

He said he knew many of the guys would be nervous at first so he took it slowly, talking to them rather than immediately jumping to sex. He often started with a shoulder massage, which quickly relaxed people.

Check with their union, OP.

[quote] We used condoms,always use condoms....these lads do carry STDs

That makes sense for anal, but do people really use condoms for oral? I know there are no reported cases of HIV transmission through oral, but I keep hearing about drug-resistant STDs that are showing up.

I'm too old to die young, but I really don't want to get an untreatable STD at this point.

You "friend" sounds like a lovely person, R45

[quote]Check with their union, OP.

There’s not a day that goes by that doesn’t result in me guffawing when I read Datalounge. As shitty as a day as it may be, you’ll find that little gem somewhere.

Over 1,000 views but only 49 responses.

Interesting.

I have a feeling the professional types are safer that your average Grindr trick.

Al least with a pro, they a usually with clean cut married types and professionals. Those tend to be cleaner than Grindr cretins.

[quote] You "friend" sounds like a lovely person, [R45]

He's actually a very nice guy. He's a lawyer now.

R47 well then, you know what needs to be done. Are a few minutes of phallic bliss worth possible months or more of an intractable infection? Remember that it's only in our lifetime that antibiotics have even been available, and those pathogens are wily, evolving critters.

R24 it’s true what R22 says. I actually never had an ugly guy and I always said if I didn’t find them attractive I wouldn’t do them. Seriously.

I can totally see OP being the next "murdered by rough trade in payed hook up gone wrong" headline we discuss here.

R55 Will your headline really say "payed" instead of "paid"?

R54, does he have anal leakage, Love?

That’s the risk when you find rough trade who needs the cash. He has a fat, masculine sausage...but he might shank yo ass.

[quote]is correct. OP, stop worrying about the rent boy. He’s selling a product and performing a service. You’re the customer. You should treat him with respect but you don’t need to worry about him.

Unless, of course, he's an undercover cop.

How much did you charge, R22?

How come gay men are so judgemental? If the str8 folks are judgemental about gay men, imagine the indignation. Looks like just because one is young and gay there seems to be an expectation that they are beyond reproach.

OP here. I finally met my man (and paid him). He was a great first time experience. He was a tall Latin man with a very long and thick cock. If you have ever seen TimTales porn performer Cairo, that is the closest comparison. He told me his age, 32 and that he has been escorting off and on since 2015. He was a great lay and I will probably call him again. He told me he is on Truvada but we used condoms. Thanks for the courage everyone!!!!!

Good job, OP!! Proud of ya!

Hiring a rentboy = the epitome of bravery.

R63 = OP's mother

32 = practically elderly.

R66 - Still, 32 years younger than OP.

No condoms for oral...you tramps like living dangerously....

R55 payed? Really? Mary!!!

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I just want someone to play canasta with.

They'll do that.

I don't want a rentboy who is proficient, though. I like to win.

[quote]I just want someone to play canasta with.

That involves an upcharge.