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Public Bathroom Stories

Ever tapped your foot? Tried some understall action? Or maybe put on a show at the urinals?

Ever been caught by security? Registered as a Sex Offender? Or did you live to tap another day?


by Anonymousreply 60006/27/2019

Sleazy motherfucker!

by Anonymousreply 103/29/2019

Larry Craig has discovered the Datalounge

by Anonymousreply 203/29/2019

Yes, too many times to detail here.

by Anonymousreply 303/29/2019

You do realize bathroom floors are covered in shit and piss?

by Anonymousreply 403/29/2019

You do realize people aren't licking the floors, R4?

by Anonymousreply 503/29/2019

In the early to mid 90s, the UCLA bathrooms, particularly the ones in Royce and Haines Halls, were daily orgies. I sucked a ton of frat dick there. I wonder if that still goes on.

by Anonymousreply 603/29/2019

Snore- what are you, 12?

by Anonymousreply 703/29/2019

R5 That reminds me of a joke.

In the restroom at the Harvard/Yale football game, one guy sees another guy leaving without washing up first. He comments

"You know, we Yale men wash our hands after using the washroom"

the other guy replies

"We Harvard men know not to piss on our hands!"

by Anonymousreply 803/29/2019

I sucked a lot of cock in mens' rooms. One of the colleges had two floors of stalls with no doors and it was a feast in there every day.

Then I discovered the secret men's room in the big office building downtown and that one was a feast of hot men in suits and ties.

I dined at some awfully good spots, I must say.

by Anonymousreply 903/29/2019

In my experimental stage, I tried bathroom sex but the thrill left quickly. All that waiting around to see who’s gay and then stopping all action every time someone comes into the bathroom was just exhausting

by Anonymousreply 1003/29/2019

Yeah, that sounds pretty lame.

I just don't understand how guys contort themselves for oral or anal with the dividers leaving so little room to maneuver.

...and now do guys film each other with their phones too? That would be problematic.

by Anonymousreply 1103/29/2019

I've received head in a restroom (bathrooms are in one's home) by people I've known but never a stranger. The most interesting experience happened recently when I was in Amalfi, Italy. I had to take a leak and saw a public restroom near the bus station. I went into the men's room and saw a guy at a urinal. He was still standing there when I finished and it occurred to me that he was waiting around to have some fun. While I was washing my hands he kept looking at me. He was okay looking, but I wasn't interested. Though I did hang around outside the restroom for 15 minutes (out of curiosity) and saw a couple of guys go in after me and they didn't come out for 10 minutes. Perhaps I left the restroom too soon and could have watched.

by Anonymousreply 1203/30/2019

I've never done it and never will but there were a couple of guys busted a few years ago for apparently actually fucking in the bathroom of either a Wal-mart or a Kmart because while they were going at it a little boy had walked in and when he saw them he walked back out to ask his dad what those two men were doing and dad alerted an employee.

by Anonymousreply 1303/30/2019

Back in the 80's, there were many empty floors in Oakland's signature Kaiser Center, across the street from Lake Merritt. The men's room on one of those empty floors became known by those of us so inclined. There were several different really hot guys that I hooked up with there on several occasions. And one blessed day, they both arrived at about the same time. I sucked a lot of superb cock in that restroom. That restroom and the roof garden were the nicest things about the Kaiser Center.

Highly recommended. Just don't let him cum on your tie.

by Anonymousreply 1403/30/2019

Bathrooms don't feel sexy or give me urges.

by Anonymousreply 1503/30/2019

I heard a guy moaning as he pushed one out in the McDs bathroom this week. It took me a while to be sure that's what he was doing....but fuuuck. He got me hard as a rock.

Mileage varies.

by Anonymousreply 1603/30/2019

I've never engaged, and I don't plant to. There have been times, however, when I've walked in on others, but they had broken apart when I entered the bathroom. It's way, way too obvious - so you're entering a public bathroom with four, five, seven stalls and the only two guys there have elected to take a shit right next to each other in neighboring stalls? Dumb. A few times after peeing/washing, I only acted as if I was leaving by opening the door but just standing there still inside quietly, and they went right back to it. Busted!

by Anonymousreply 1703/30/2019

R6, my college campus had a similarly designated spot in the early ‘00s. There was even a sign on the door that said the bathroom would be closed on evenings and weekends.

I always thought it was an urban legend. Then, one day, I went in just to pee (I swear!) and a guy who was leaving at the same time I was entering did a U-turn back through the door. I thought, “This is interesting...”

I was too nervous to do it in that bathroom though. We went upstairs and locked ourselves in the single-user restroom.

It was hot, but I was too scared about STDs/STIs to want to do much. Told him I had a class in that building every Tuesday and Thursday.

Next time we hooked up, the single-user restroom was occupied, so I ended up having to take him to my dorm room. Well, that was it - he stopped meeting me after that. I’d blown the cover of anonymity.

I did see him one more time, outside the bookstore, later that year. He kind of leered at me at said, “Hey, good time...” But I was so mad at time for cancelling our Tuesday/Thursday standing date that I just ignored him.

Wow. I did not expect to write that much, but it was kind of cathartic. Even in my whorish day I always wanted the guy to be a boyfriend, which I think that story shows.

by Anonymousreply 1803/30/2019

The busiest tea room I ever encountered was in the lowest level of the dear departed World Trade Center, adjacent to the PATH Station. The tea room was very large, with 30 urinals or so. Any time you went in to pee, there would be at least 8 guys at the urinals, stroking, stroking, stroking. And there were usually guys in the stalls working that angle, too.

Bless them all. When the towers collapsed, I thought of them down there. If the cruising was good that morning, I know they wouldn't leave. But I hope that they did.

by Anonymousreply 1903/30/2019

[quote]I've never done it and never will but there were a couple of guys busted a few years ago for apparently actually fucking in the bathroom of either a Wal-mart or a Kmart because while they were going at it a little boy had walked in and when he saw them he walked back out to ask his dad what those two men were doing and dad alerted an employee.

Holy run-on sentence, Batman!!

by Anonymousreply 2003/30/2019

R19, there’s great video of that on XTube, which buttresses r11’s point.

by Anonymousreply 2103/30/2019

When I worked at Rainbow Records in SF in the 1980s, my manager would leave three or four times a day and walk to the ferry building. He'd come back and tell me about all the black and latino cock he'd sucked in the rest rooms there.

by Anonymousreply 2203/30/2019

Someone took a video camera into the men's rest room of the WTC? In 2001, or before.

It's possible. The first 'camera phone' went on sale in 2000. In Japan. But it's only just barely possible.

by Anonymousreply 2303/30/2019

NYU science building in the 90s (3rd floor on Waverly Place) had so much activity sometimes you would enter and some of the guys would be completely nude without any shame when someone new arrived.

It was almost too decadent. At the time security would only be posted in the lobby and they never did a floor to floor patrol so the guys there were mostly students and yes, some faculty. Horny janitors and maintenance men came by too. I saw many wedding rings in that place. Masturbation and cock sucking were the main activities, but sometimes there would be a hungry bottom getting fucked right smack in the middle of the bathroom on the tile floor, quite shocking, but true.

by Anonymousreply 2403/30/2019

Oh Mary! This is absolutely gross. A friend of mine is huge j to bathroom cruising and has a lot of stories. I just don't understand how that's hot or interesting.

I try to avoid using the bathroom in public because they're so goddamn gross.

by Anonymousreply 2503/30/2019

I usually get irritated with "prisspots" but honestly, I understand the difference in perceptions for this topic.

It was a very different time in the 80s and early 90s.

by Anonymousreply 2603/30/2019

relaying this story for a friend (right)

in 1994 he took a small camcorder into a men's room that had a Gloryhole. He filmed over a dozen guys while he blew them.

this was in a convenience store restroom just off of the interstate

by Anonymousreply 2703/30/2019

Plenty of times from high school to college graduation. Now in my early 30's not at all unless it just happens randomly. Seeing the straight guys jacking was the best though.

by Anonymousreply 2803/30/2019

R27 There's a filmmaker from Europe out on the Interwebz that did that, Antonio da Silva is his name, I think?

One of these days I am going to buy one of his movies. I saw a bit of one and it was really hot.

by Anonymousreply 2903/30/2019

Back in the day. The men's room in the Lincoln Center Library of the Performing Arts. Right by the little known 10th Avenue Entrance to the Library.

That had to have been designed by a gay architect. It was as secreted away as it could be. Only a gay man on the prowl could find it. And we did.

by Anonymousreply 3003/30/2019

I’ve always found restrooms unsexy, period. Even if I saw a hot guy enticing me, I’d have to argue for, perhaps going to my car or back to his place. The smell of pee and poo and the fact that other men and possibly children could come into the restroom is a complete weenie shrinker for me. Plus, I’m a big fan of being 100% naked with a sock, no pants pulled halfway down...I want the full naked experience. Difficult to do, I imagine, in a restroom.

by Anonymousreply 3103/30/2019

I've been trolling the T-rooms for 35 years. A lot less now...In my youth, I'd stop at the local mall on my way to and from school. I'd troll 30th Station and suburban station in Phila. When I moved to NYC, I'd stop by some hotels, and public bathrooms wherever I'd go.

I've gotten caught 4 times. Twice I had to go to court. I just said "I was at the wrong place at the wrong time." It's stupid, especially when there are actual criminals in the court room.

Yesterday, I stopped in a hotel, and there was a hot uncut bearded guy...he blew me. He wouldn't let me blow him. I would have sucked his dick dry. I used to meet this one guy in a T-room, and he'd be naked. That was a turn on. In warmer weather, now, I'll shuck my gear for the thrill...

In my youth, I was brazen. Now, I'm a little more nervous, and don't spend hours in a t-room, or even change plans to stop in one. So many have closed in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 3203/30/2019

r31 The vast majority of restrooms that I've been in didn't smell like pee or poop. They smelled like disinfectant.

by Anonymousreply 3303/30/2019

Public bathrooms are the least erotic places on earth.

by Anonymousreply 3403/30/2019

Funny, r34, but maybe because of all that I have done in them in the past, they are one of the most erotic places to me.

by Anonymousreply 3503/30/2019

Cosign R33 and R35.

I don't cruise them much now but even today, if I'm in a public restroom and a hot man unzips to piss, I get half hard. The Pavlovian responses are hard wired!

by Anonymousreply 3603/30/2019

Sorry R20, I wasn't aware the grammar whore was monitoring this thread. R29 Da Silvas videos are fake he uses models to make sure all the subjects in his "documentary films" have big dicks and nice bodies.

by Anonymousreply 3703/30/2019

[quote]Sorry R20, I wasn't aware the grammar whore was monitoring this thread.

I only make myself look uneducated when I know people aren’t monitoring.

by Anonymousreply 3803/30/2019

A friendly reminder to our bathroom enthusiast

by Anonymousreply 3903/30/2019

Goddamn motherfucking urinal dividers have ruined everything. I hate them. I hate them, I tell you!

by Anonymousreply 4003/30/2019

[quote]You do realize bathroom floors are covered in shit and piss?

Oh shit, I'm horny now!

by Anonymousreply 4103/30/2019

My first sexual experience was in a restroom at. A public library when I was in high school in the early 80s. Was furtively (so I thought) looking at books on homosexuality when a young guy rushes by and throws a note on the book. It says to meet him in the restroom if I want my dick sucked. I freak out but go in. Meet a young guy around my age (I was 17, he said he was 16). We are both nervous as hell. We go into a stall and close door. He says he doesn’t think he can do it. I climb on top of the toilet seat and tell him I’ll blow him, which I greedily do until he pops in my mouth. I assume this is the root of my fixation on giving head and swallowing cum. Also given that he was uncut, it may explain my interest in foreskin.

Explored restroom cruising a bit in college but had maybe one experience. I was always too anxious about getting caught. Last time was about 18 years ago when a hot guy cruised me on a beach in Hawaii and I blew him in the beach restroom.

by Anonymousreply 4203/30/2019

R37 I figured as much, but it's still fuckin' hot.

by Anonymousreply 4303/30/2019

[quote] Goddamn motherfucking urinal dividers have ruined everything. I hate them. I hate them, I tell you!

I hate them too!

Gah, I can't tell you how many hot married DILFs I blew at the mall in the late 80s because they stood next to me at a divider free urinal and started to stroke.

by Anonymousreply 4403/30/2019

Same at NYU and Columbia-it was heaven.

by Anonymousreply 4503/30/2019

There were a few floors on the tall building at Pitt that were just a constant sausage fest.

It was literally as if a vat in the basement kept making hot, horny college students and sending them to that floor. I generally like older men, but man, I was all about watching those dudes jack and sucking them off.

More than once, I stood in a line to be one of a long line of guys to cum on some dude's face, too, and it was hot.

by Anonymousreply 4603/30/2019

Not a bathroom, but watching the guys at the sauna at the CCRB at the University of Michigan was better than porn for me.

by Anonymousreply 4703/30/2019

I used to hit the Main Library and/or Hughes Hall at OSU all the time. It was a great way to kill time between classes.

by Anonymousreply 4803/30/2019

It's called Cottaging in the UK, because to old fashioned toilet blocks looked like little houses or cottages.

I've not been for years, maybe early 80s. Had some fun in my late teens, but the smell of piss or disinfectant made them horrible places to have sex in. A lot are closed now or have CCTV cameras outside.

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by Anonymousreply 4903/30/2019

The huge University I attended in Boston , certain bathrooms esp in libraries after 6pm were hot beds for horny college boys , always went on , and still does I am sure.

by Anonymousreply 5003/30/2019

U of alabama. Library was always a go at night in the nineties. Sadly, everybody knew it and sometimes you would see sorority girls gathered outside to observe the coming and going.

One time I saw a guy who was always there go up to the girls and say "your boyfriend will be out in a minute" it was probably true!

by Anonymousreply 5103/30/2019

R5, aw, they don't know what they're missing!

by Anonymousreply 5203/30/2019

Bathrooms/Restrooms - nope.

Now adult bookstores - yup. Had some fun in those.

But I have guys make passes at me everywhere. One was a cute cabbie - if I wasn't with my guy for 20+ years I would have done it. But alas, I was going home to meet my guy.

by Anonymousreply 5303/30/2019

I just had an older Lyft driver haul out a huge cock the other day. I passed on any action but enjoyed the view for a bit.

by Anonymousreply 5403/30/2019

Yes. The ladies' room on the 3rd floor of Bergdorf's is a real smorgasbord. Always some tasty clam available for sampling, both domestic and international! Italian tends to a piquant smokiness, while French has undertones of cabernet. The world at the tips of one's fingers and tongue!

by Anonymousreply 5503/30/2019

I find it to be sleazy and offputting. During a family trip, some dude kept sliding his hand underneath my stall at a truck stop. I asked if he wanted toilet paper, and he growled "no!". It took me until college to realize that this guy was probably looking for some action. I was 16 at the time, so please at least look at the person who gets into the adjacent stall before you make a move.

by Anonymousreply 5603/30/2019

As a 16 year old kid in high school on a date with my girl friend, I left my girl friend to take a piss.

Urinals were full so I went to a stall. This guy had drilled a hole in the wall between my stall and his.

He tapped the hole with his finger. I figured out what that meant, but was nervous about putting my pene thru the wall. Finally did and it was great. My first blow job.

by Anonymousreply 5703/30/2019

Seems like tea rooms are mostly gone in Seattle. A few dirty bookstores and theatres still kicking around though.

by Anonymousreply 5803/30/2019

They will all be exposed if not already and as result become more seedy and unpleasant locales because of security cameras , trump paranoia, homophobia and limited public places to do so. Bummer. I could never go into an adult bookstore. Seems too obvious!

by Anonymousreply 5903/30/2019

Nowadays it's Planet of the Apps

by Anonymousreply 6003/30/2019

No appeal for me but enjoy it boys!

by Anonymousreply 6103/30/2019

R6, I also went to UCLA in the early to mid 90s. I was soooo naive back then (even though I knew all about how to put my hands on myself). I would read the campus newspaper's little articles about guys getting arrested in the men's locker room, and I would just think "Huh? What did they do?"

by Anonymousreply 6203/30/2019

Never really got into bathroom sex, but I think that at least when we are young, we tend to be hyper aware that every place has possibilities. I was in the lower flood Student Center men's room once during law school and got the tap-tap-tapping stuff from the stall next to mine. I tapped back to see what would happen and the guy bent down to look under the partition and ...lo and behold -- it was the boyfriend of a good law school friend of mine. Nothing happened (he disappeared immediately) and I never squealed but 6 months later when they told they had broken up, I'm sure I had a big "uh-huh - I'm sure they did" look on my face. LOL

by Anonymousreply 6303/30/2019

When I was in uni I occasionally used a men's toilet that apparently was an active tearoom, though I never realized it until one day I was there taking a dump, and the foot-tapping thing happened, and I decided on a lark to tap back. Next thing I knew the guy in the next stall had shoved his GIANT WANG under the partition! Which I totally was NOT expecting?!!

by Anonymousreply 6403/30/2019

A guy did the "tap tap" thing in a bathroom to me once. Unfortunately for everyone involved/not involved I had explosive diarrhea from some very bad sushi.

by Anonymousreply 6503/30/2019

It was heaven in the 60s/70s/early 80s. Loved the midtown hotels. The Hilton and Dorset (no longer there) were t-room paradise. This married guy, David Braver, a stock broker, was a legend. Apparently there were lots of midtown office buildings where t-room sex took place, but I found out about them too late. Damn! There were changing rooms at Grand Central where passengers arriving on the 20th Century could tidy up (back in the 30s obviously). Reasonably high partitions. Guys would have group sex in them or stretch out on the floor so that the guy opposite could see you naked and masturbating keeping on your over-the-calf socks and tasseled loafers. Once at the New School, I stripped and the guy in the next booth pressed his big toe against my asshole while I jerked (I was on the floor propped up against the end partition). Only worry back then was crabs and the occasional pesky episode of the clap and the occasional visit by security. Subway toilets could be hot too. Blew a detective at 51st and Lex one Sunday at 5AM. Always stoned and the real poppers back then.

by Anonymousreply 6603/30/2019

The life of a straight homeless female is a glamorous one!

Homeless woman arrested for having sex with boys in public bathroom

OCALA — An Ocala Police Department detective arrested a 28-year-old woman on suspicion of having sex with underage boys in a public bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 6703/30/2019

Stay safe people!

Firefighters make 650 toilet rescues

London Fire Brigade has also rescued 17 children with their heads stuck in toilet seats.

by Anonymousreply 6803/31/2019

Years ago, I was on a large ferry crossing the English Channel in a mutherfucker of a storm. The boat was bouncing all around and the outdoor decks were closed. So it was crowded inside. As I was walking around inside, a British man caught my eye. He gestured to a small, individual, men's room. He went in and I slipped in after him. He sucked me off and then I sucked him off. He slipped out and a few moments later, I did too.

Fifteen minutes later, I ran across him again. Sitting at a table with a fat wife, three screaming kids, and what looked to be wifey's nearly feeble parents. I'm glad I sucked him off. He clearly needed it more than I did.

by Anonymousreply 6903/31/2019

[quote]This married guy, David Braver, a stock broker, was a legend.

More info, please.

And, r61, you’re a breath of fresh air! I like you.

by Anonymousreply 7003/31/2019

[70 ]: The family is still around and very rich. Mums the words. Did you know him?

by Anonymousreply 7103/31/2019

I didn’t realize that’s what that tapping was about!!! Oh well.

by Anonymousreply 7203/31/2019

Betsy DeVose used to suck cock at a rest stop on I-90 in Michigan

by Anonymousreply 7303/31/2019

There was a guy who hung out at a bar where I hung out at in Philly. He was a snotty prisspot who always ended up in arguments with people in the bar. He was a friend of the owner so he never got kicked out. He was arrested in a police sting at a department store restroom. THEN he got banned from the bar, especially when others came forward with his activities in the restroom of the bar. The owner didn't want that kind of attention. The fellow disappeared.

by Anonymousreply 7403/31/2019

R74. This same guy is now currently the VP of the USA

by Anonymousreply 7503/31/2019

[quote] Betsy DeVose used to suck cock at a rest stop on I-90 in Michigan

Not's DeVos, not DeVose...and I-90 is never in Michigan.

by Anonymousreply 7603/31/2019

Betsy DeVos loves sucking black trucker cock at I-96 rest areas.

by Anonymousreply 7703/31/2019

No, R71, I just never knew someone could be well known by cruising. Your post intrigued me (and still does).

by Anonymousreply 7803/31/2019

My City League baseball team used to play at a public ball park where there was a notoriously cruisy restroom. Invariably, there was a rotund elderly gentleman who would park his electric golf cart/scooter thing outside the restroom and just wait. For hours. Any halfway decent-looking guy who walked past him to get to the restroom was ogled with the laser stare of death and he'd move his hand to his crotch. There was nothing subtle or covert about it. You could practically see the spittle drooling down this pervert's slack jaw. I'm all for "live and let live," but this creep's behavior was so off the chart that I really wanted to go over to him one day and tell him to fuck off, that HE was a prime example of why "they hate us."

by Anonymousreply 7903/31/2019

Stall to stall action.

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by Anonymousreply 8003/31/2019

Who DOESN'T, r77?

by Anonymousreply 8103/31/2019

Please, Betsy DeVos is so dumb that if you stuck a cock in her mouth she'd die of asphyxiation because she wouldn't know to breathe through her nose.

by Anonymousreply 8203/31/2019

NYU in the 90s was hopping on the 3rd floor. There were 3 cublicles with holes between them. I remember they put in new partitions, and a couple of days later the gloryholes had been recut with precision tools. Definitely an inside job.

There two unfortunate dogs in the manger. One was a late 50s Conservative Jew with a long yellowish beard. He'd sit for hours and there would be no action. The other was a weird South American who hauled around out of date Bar-Bri books, and he certainly was not a law student. Again nothing happened if he hogged the booth. Otherwise it was constant blowing and sucking, cum on the floors, lots of well known personalities there, including one hot ACTUP fucker. He's still alive.

Things began to change when an evangelical Puerto Rican took over security and the johns were checked frequently.

Many's the hot stream of jizz from an eager and pulsating cock that shot down my throat.

I came across at 125 th subway stop in Harlem an open toilet door, and I stepped in to see a young black kid blowing a transit cop. Kid could not have been more than 14.

by Anonymousreply 8303/31/2019

[quote]Betsy DeVos loves sucking black trucker cock at I-96 rest areas.

Like that’s a bad thing. Asshole.

by Anonymousreply 8403/31/2019

R84, where does it say that is a bad thing, you pimple ass

by Anonymousreply 8503/31/2019

Betsy DeVos has a gay in her family. She will not be happy when this tea spills.

by Anonymousreply 8603/31/2019

[quote] This married guy, David Braver, a stock broker, was a legend.

Was he the sucker or the suckee?

by Anonymousreply 8704/01/2019

I remember one legendary dude, he must have been maybe in his late 20s. He looked like Matt Lattanzi or a young Tony Goldwyn, and he worked at one of the men's fashion stores in the mall.

I saw him and thought he was beautiful, and then heard from a few of my fellow cruisers that he was a "legend" at the mall because he loved to be serviced and he was packing, but nothing prepared me for the day I played with him. I am under no delusions that most of the guys I played with were anything bigger than a normal 5 to 6 inches, but this guy easily had 9 or 10, and it was as thick at the base as a flashlight.

He was dressed impeccably and smelled fantastic. I still think at times of the last time we hooked up, on a Sunday as the mall was closing, and went into his store as he closed down, blowing him in the dressing room, that big cock gushing into my mouth. The smell of him, the taste of him, the feel of his hands on the back of my head. That happened close to 30 years ago and it still makes me cum if I think of it today.

by Anonymousreply 8804/01/2019


Having shared the good stories above, R79 and R83 make a good point.....don't want to paint too rosy of a picture.

There were often "unfortunate dogs" around. Either trolls from hell who were unwanted, or people who just could not understand the word "no" or boundaries.

I usually didn't mind having a few extra people around...the idea of being watched was always hot to me....but there would always be some ancient old troll or someone that was just a big old NO for one reason or another around, and they'd chase people away due to their inability to understand the word no.

When I had a downtown corporate job, I would cruise maybe once every three to four weeks, either at lunch, after work or, every once in a while, if we left early on a Friday. And there was a Mr. Furley looking old queen that I swear, he must have LIVED at my cruising spot. I didn't go for a long time when I was dating someone, almost a year, and the next time I checked in that bitch was STILL sitting there.

It's not all misty watercolor memories, I suppose. But I tried to make it an every once in a while curiosity. As with Internet cruising now, I suppose it can become a bit of a compulsion.

by Anonymousreply 8904/01/2019

Went to USC in the late 90's, holy fuck it was heaven. I remember three buildings that you could spend hours in just sucking cock and having fun with guys. While I was writing my thesis I would go to UCLA for research and discovered the t rooms there, it was good, but not like USC. Both places had trolls, saw one getting arrested at UCLA, it was so obvious he didn't belong there. Live in New England now and it still amazes me how the rest areas are crawling with guys just hanging in their cars waiting to hook up.

by Anonymousreply 9004/01/2019

Why are they called T rooms? Those are the same as restrooms, right?

by Anonymousreply 9104/01/2019

R89 makes a valid point about creepers.

The first time (only time) I had anything happen was in a mall washroom. I was sitting in the last stall just texting a guy about maybe meeting up later (he was saying he might need to cancel) and this guy takes the next stall, sits and starts beating it loud and proud. The fapping was obvious and kinda hot. So, with my plans cancelled and my hormones racing, I took a chance and tapped my foot. He tapped back. I ran my finger under the partition, wanting to see what he had. Instead, he stuck his hand under. So I let him stroke mine for a minute. I heard noises of guys entering and stopped....

...and then this guy starts getting out of the stall and standing at the urinal in front of our stalls, coughing at me to come out to join him. There were people coming and going. Kids could come in. The stalls we were in were the safest place to fool around undetected and out of sight. But what does he do? Starts knocking on my damn door, then going back to the urinals, then going back into his stall, then popping out to the urinal and knocking on my door again. He was like a fucking kangaroo, in and out, back and forth, hyped up and drawing attention to things. When he finally stood up on his toilet seat to look down at me and go "Woooow!!" I knew I had to get the fuck out of there...and I did, with him calling after me as I booked it back into the mall.

Dude was horny, I get it, but calm down and respect boundaries. He was going to get us arrested. It really spooked me.'s hard to communicate "all I want is a mutual grope anonymously, thank you" when you aren't speaking. If I could know the other guy wasn't going to try and push it, or video us, I'd be more willing to try again.

How DO you communicate boundaries in these situations?

by Anonymousreply 9204/01/2019

I've read stories of old-school T-room queens bringing a big department-store shopping bag to stand in for discretion. I even read about one who would bring cleaning supplies to tidy the stall before he camped out for the day.

by Anonymousreply 9304/01/2019

r93 I have done both of those things

by Anonymousreply 9404/01/2019

I have been in a few of those bathroom encounters and it amazes me the ones who get completely stark naked (with shoes on) and venture out of their stall to get fucked in the middle or walk over to the sink to wash their hands or mouth. Just seeing a nude man so crazy confident of not caring about being caught is bizarre, when some random guy can walk in at any time.

by Anonymousreply 9504/01/2019

I much rather see this type of T room activity in the woods, off a hiking trail.

by Anonymousreply 9604/01/2019

I'd never do it because of those urban legends I heard as a kid of guys who stuck their cocks through a bathroom glory hole only to have it slashed or broken.

by Anonymousreply 9704/01/2019

The funny thing is that sometimes, like in the NYU science building for example, there were few trolls and many hunks. Some of the hunks were really out there as far as the risks taken. Sometimes they would get dressed and go to another part of the building in a closed classroom or supply closet and ratchet up the action.

by Anonymousreply 9804/01/2019

Department store bag? I need to hear more about this.

by Anonymousreply 9904/01/2019

It’s simple, r99.

You put the bag down on the floor and stand in it. Now you can lean down and blow someone who is sitting (in the same stall) on a toilet. If someone walks in, all they would see would be the guy’s feet who is sitting on the toilet and not yours. It appears as though there’s only one person in the stall.

by Anonymousreply 10004/01/2019

Hey R90 - I was st USC in the early 90s but too stupid / closeted to ever try anything. Which buildings had the action?

by Anonymousreply 10104/01/2019

Something like these, R99.

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by Anonymousreply 10204/01/2019

I did the bag trick at a particular regional department store. They had a men's room that, while a little worn, was very nice - marble walls, etc.

I'd bring the bag, sometimes two, and then sit in the last stall. It was a truly endless stream of married men and one of the few places where cocks outnumbered cocksuckers. More than once, some married dude would finish in my mouth, zip up and go, and someone would be waiting outside to be next.

So many wedding rings, so many cocks. Two places in that city were the best. Everywhere else I ever cruised took a hell of a lot more work.

by Anonymousreply 10304/01/2019

[R101] the two main halls I would play in were Waite Phillips Hall and Bovard, had to look up their names because I can never remember much about the campus building names. I did a lot of watching, and let a lot of guys suck me off, didn't do much sucking because I was scared shitless and in the closet. I also would see guys fooling around in the Union and then a far off science building. Waite Phillips, 3rd floor, it was a crazy place. I am sure the campus had better t rooms, but I was there for a year for grad school and had some fun.

by Anonymousreply 10404/01/2019

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by Anonymousreply 10504/01/2019

Thanks R104 - who knew paradise was hiding right down the hall.

by Anonymousreply 10604/02/2019

Paradise by the bathroom lights.....

by Anonymousreply 10704/03/2019

R93/ R94 Explain please the need to stand in a department store bag?

I don't get it?

by Anonymousreply 10804/06/2019

R108, so if anyone looks at the bottom of the stall, or walks into the restroom unexpectedly, they won't see two sets of feet in the same stall.

by Anonymousreply 10904/06/2019

Ah yes, sorry I didn't realise that it was explained in detail later in the thread. Thank you.

We are enterprising souls us gay men. We see a bathroom problem and hey presto we find a solution in retail packaging.

by Anonymousreply 11004/06/2019

R13, it’s a sad reflection of our society today. People don’t give a shit about other people. They’re pleasure seekers and only care about getting off.

by Anonymousreply 11104/06/2019

Honestly if I were sitting on the toilet and saw the guy next to me tap his foot, I would have no idea that it meant something

by Anonymousreply 11204/06/2019

R112, if you were there for the same reason, yes you would. It’s difficult to describe, but you know.

by Anonymousreply 11304/06/2019

This is what worries me. The falling into disuse of signs, signals and language that gay men have developed over the years.

The foot tapping. The use of the Polari language will fast disappear from the consciousness of the gay man.

Our gay heritage is being destroyed bit by bit in the name of social advance.

Foot tapping, porn cinemas and Polari all consigned to the dustbin in the name of equality.

by Anonymousreply 11404/07/2019

[quote] Our gay heritage is being destroyed bit by bit in the name of social advance.

Sucking cocks in public bathrooms is a piece of our “gay heritage” we should fight to keep?

by Anonymousreply 11504/07/2019

Every public toilet at a main railway station in the UK is still used for cottaging. There are signs up talking about the authorities being aware of "unacceptable behaviour" in the facilities but it still goes on. Lots of closet case Dads in suits having a wank at the urinals before getting their train home.

by Anonymousreply 11604/07/2019

R113 is 107 years old.

“Polari language”? Go back to your coma grandma.

by Anonymousreply 11704/07/2019

First time I heard about the polari language, it might explain one of the reasons sometime I don't understand the datalounge language

by Anonymousreply 11804/07/2019

No, but I did pickup my friend from the police station once.

He had heard about the action in a college bathroom, and was curious.

by Anonymousreply 11904/07/2019

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by Anonymousreply 12104/07/2019

R47, a friend of mine used to call the sauna at the CCRB the "love shack."

by Anonymousreply 12204/07/2019

When did restrooms become motel's.Gross.These nasty stories are exactly why I avoid public restrooms.Sorry,the odors alone in those places kill the mood.But you trollops carry on....

by Anonymousreply 12304/07/2019


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by Anonymousreply 12404/07/2019

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by Anonymousreply 12604/07/2019

R14. I remember the Kaiser Center. Not for the sex but for the birds that dive-bombed the employees and visitors in the parking lot. It was truly out of "The Birds". I lived across the lake.

by Anonymousreply 12704/07/2019

R127, you should have stopped by!

by Anonymousreply 12804/07/2019


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by Anonymousreply 12904/07/2019

Sorry, but stranger cock isn't worth a criminal record.

by Anonymousreply 13004/07/2019

R130, it is if you get to suck off the cop...

by Anonymousreply 13104/07/2019

Nah R131 Not even then.

by Anonymousreply 13204/07/2019

R108 I never stood IN the bag

But if you had a wide bag you could block the opening so that a person standing behind it (closer to you) would not have their legs/feet seen.

It worked well if you were in the last stall and had two bags, so the nosy bitches on the other side couldn't see in, either.

by Anonymousreply 13304/07/2019

Well, it wouldn’t be the first time, R114.

Ancient Roman writers described the protocol for signaling interest in homosex whilst cruising the bathhouses and gyms.

Instead of foot tapping, they would pull on their ears.

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by Anonymousreply 13404/07/2019

But never before has gay cruising culture been almost completely wiped out overnight the way the internet stopped it.

by Anonymousreply 13504/07/2019

True, R135.

The Internet took away the secret nature and anonymity of these cruising places, and as soon as they hit daylight they disappeared.

Most of the mens' rooms are gone, as are a big chunk of adult video stores and of course, a shit ton of gay bars.

by Anonymousreply 13604/07/2019

Well, it’s more like social networking sites and apps eliminated the need for secret, gay meeting places.

But pigs with camera phones also continue to scare away public sex, yes.

by Anonymousreply 13704/07/2019

I will never understand people like r123 who come into a thread just to denigrate people who do certain things.

I am into some kinks and, as a result am on a lot of different sites for different kinks. There are a lot I’m not into, but I couldn’t see going into a thread and saying, “you guys are into bondage? Why, that’s disgusting! You’re all a bunch of...” I mean, what’s the point? Live and let live and if you’re not into it, move along to the next thread that you are into.

by Anonymousreply 13804/08/2019

Do you think that the rise of smartphones and apps has increased the number of sexual assignations now?

Or does the demise of cruising grounds, public toilets, gay bars etc mean that gay guys are actually having less hookup sex?

by Anonymousreply 13904/08/2019

[quote]Or does the demise of cruising grounds, public toilets, gay bars etc mean that gay guys are actually having less hookup sex?

This. Add in the demise of Craigslist and there you have it.

by Anonymousreply 14004/08/2019

The Hilton in NYC on 53rd and 6th still maintains a healthy reputation as a cruising spot, especially the lower level men’s room. It’s an optimal setup, with a very loud door (to alert the playing patrons) a small hallway and then another door to enter the room. I’ve cruised there a bunch of times, but was surprised at how brazen some guys are, getting completely naked and roaming around the room like it’s a bathhouse. I stopped going, however, when I had a run in with a security guard. Turns out, they know exactly what goes on in there and they’re not crazy about it. One day as I was leaving a security guard came in and yelled out “all you cocksuckers better clear out of here if you know what’s good for you”.

by Anonymousreply 14104/08/2019

R140 That's my worry.

Are we raising a generation of sexless gaylings who don't know how to socially interact to get sex?

by Anonymousreply 14204/08/2019

Out of curiosity I've been checking out men's rooms at hardware stores and malls to see what their set-ups are and pretty much all of them have the door to the men's washrooms forced open or removed. I saw one boarded-up glory hole too. These places are clearly under scrutiny.

...I also saw a guy leave a stall to wash his hands while staring me down....the place was empty and he was looking for a playmate. Another guy was nervously checking his phone while standing near the entrance to the men's room 30mins before mall closing time. When I went in he followed, again staring, but I just did my business and left. He went back out to the food court looking around like a bird for someone else headed in. the culture still exists. I think the risks are higher now because security know the score. But guys still do it.

by Anonymousreply 14304/08/2019

How have I lived so long and not heard of Polari...?

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by Anonymousreply 14404/08/2019

[quote] How have I lived so long and not heard of Polari...?

I didn't know about it until I read Boy George's first memoir.

by Anonymousreply 14504/08/2019

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by Anonymousreply 14604/08/2019

My first experience was my first semester at University of Michigan in 1988, though it was in the dorm hall bathroom rather than a major tea room on campus. I was not out to anyone in the dorm, and my all men’s hall was rather conservative with some hockey players and a lot of young Republicans. As I pooped one afternoon, someone sat in the stall next door and soon shoved a rolled up piece of toilet paper through a small screw hole in the partition, moving it in and out suggestively. I was terrified that someone was trying to test my response and out me, so I got out of there as quickly as possible and went to my room. I stupidly didn’t watch the door to see who it was not realizing until later that it could have been a hunky closeted hockey player. Paranoia of the closet.

by Anonymousreply 14704/08/2019

[quote]but there would always be some ancient old troll or someone that was just a big old NO for one reason or another around, and they'd chase people away due to their inability to understand the word no.

I call them scarecrows

by Anonymousreply 14804/08/2019

I attended an orgy in a port-a-potty.

by Anonymousreply 14904/08/2019

Invitation only, r149?

by Anonymousreply 15004/08/2019

Are there still highway rest stops anywhere? All of the ones in my area, both interstate and state highway facilities, have been shut down.

by Anonymousreply 15104/08/2019

"Are we raising a generation of sexless gaylings who don't know how to socially interact to get sex?"

Yeah, it's a real tragedy when people don't have anonymous sex in bathrooms

by Anonymousreply 15204/08/2019

Yes there are, r151. A much more sanitized version, but they still exist.

by Anonymousreply 15304/08/2019

[quote]Yeah, it's a real tragedy when people don't have anonymous sex in bathrooms

Absolutely! Glad we’re in agreement on this.

by Anonymousreply 15404/08/2019

I was at a truck stop once and this big burly trucker slapped my face, called me a whore, and fucked me over a toilet full of feces.

by Anonymousreply 15504/08/2019

Oooh, how romantic. I hope you exchanged numbers.

by Anonymousreply 15604/08/2019

r155, that sounds like something out of a Harlequin romance

by Anonymousreply 15704/08/2019

R149, this was at Burning Man, right?

by Anonymousreply 15804/08/2019

R155 has obviously never played in a mens room

by Anonymousreply 15904/08/2019

Yes. Yes. Yes. No. No. Yes.

by Anonymousreply 16004/08/2019

[quote]this was at Burning Man, right?

He was burning man right after. Shot from the clinic cleared it up though.

by Anonymousreply 16104/08/2019

It's just such a shame that these facilities are disappearing or are being clamped down on.

by Anonymousreply 16204/08/2019

I had an experience at a college campus that was not my own.

Senior year, I needed to take a course that my school wasn't offering that semester so I took it at another campus. I never spent too much time on the campus, would just get there right before class started and would take off right after.

One day though, I get there and class was cancelled so I decide to take a leak before leaving. The restroom nearest my class was closed so I had to go use the one in the next building. Urinals were broken so I went into a stall and noticed immediately there was a hole drilled into the divider, at cock level. I glance and see an eye staring back at me and watching my dick. I gave it a few tugs and then the person on the other side dropped to their knees, put their hand under the stall and motioned, and at the same time, out came their cock, which they were stroking under the divider with his other hand.

Something about it felt risky, so I just zipped up and left. I hung around down the hall to see if I could see who it was. Someone else went in and maybe 5 minutes after they did, the other person went out. It was someone older and looked like a Professor.

I later found out that it was the College's President who was also known to be a Religious zealot.

by Anonymousreply 16304/08/2019

I’m pretty sure Grindr has DECREASED the amount of actual sex going on.

You see, back in the cruising days, nobody wanted to go home until they got off, because they went to all the trouble to get there in the first place. You might have to wait a while for someone to your liking, but eventually, you’d get off. Also, you could see what people really look like, and a lot of men are better-looking than their pics or serviceable if they’re RIGHT THERE opening holes for you.

Also, everybody used these places, from the super gorgeous to the ugly trolls. This meant that you would occasionally have to throw a pity fuck to someone who isn’t your ideal. But it also meant you would occassionally score a SUPER hot dude who was WAY out of your league! Nobody wanted to go home empty-handed. So to speak.

Social networking online is all about EXCLUSION — filtering out people who aren’t exactly like you or what you want. So you miss out on all the serviceable average guys who maybe bring things to the table you can’t see in profile pics or resumes.

Plus, Grindr is too easy. Most guys just browse lazily when they won’t — or CAN’T even leave work to hook up. They stay online for hours waiting for Channing Tatum to come along and he never does, so they just go to bed / give up.

I definitely think there’s less sex now and less exposure to everything that’s out there.

by Anonymousreply 16404/08/2019

Very very well put r164. I’m in 100% agreement with you and your post.

by Anonymousreply 16504/08/2019

Plenty of action at the now defunct Strawbridge and Clothier 2nd floor men's room on 8th and Market. I worked there as a teenager, and was always getting my cock sucked. The spot became so notorious that the local press did an expose. And then the cops raided the joint. That was long after I was gone, thank god. Now the old store is just a bunch of office buildings. I wonder if the place is haunted by ghostly horny cock suckers.

by Anonymousreply 16604/08/2019

R164 nails it.

When you went cruising, u made an effort to get there in the first place. Sometimes you'd score immediately, other times you could wait hours.

Nowadays, people sit at home on Grindr disposing of profiles one after the other.

Some of the best times I've had was cruising.

by Anonymousreply 16704/08/2019

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by Anonymousreply 16804/08/2019

God I miss bathroom sex.

by Anonymousreply 16904/08/2019

R164 I also agree, you covered it in a way most younger gaylings don't understand.

by Anonymousreply 17004/08/2019

I liked it back in the day when public toilets were all about gay cruising and not trans bathroom bills.

by Anonymousreply 17104/08/2019

R164 is wise

by Anonymousreply 17204/08/2019

r164 is absolutely right.

I'd add that cruising also had the serendipity of a good personality sometimes making up for average or below-average looks. Sometimes a guy would approach who wouldn't rate on today's swipe apps, but he became a lot more appealing with a little conversation and flirting.

by Anonymousreply 17304/08/2019

Exactly R173.

I was with plenty of guys who would be instantly rejected based on some photos on an app.

But you get to see how confident/masculine/cocky/sexy/well hung a guy is when he's cruising in person, and it makes a big difference. You can het closer to the porn fantasy than with an app, for the reasons mentioned above.

by Anonymousreply 17404/08/2019

R148 the old trolls and gaysians ruin it for everyone. They scare away the curious hot guys.

by Anonymousreply 17504/08/2019

Please tell me you guys clean up after yourselves because the janitorial staff shouldn't be forced to clean up your anonymous leavings.

by Anonymousreply 17604/08/2019

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by Anonymousreply 17704/08/2019

Not all of them R177 have you seen the guys on Twitter that post videos of themselves "marking" public bathrooms? Also, I'm a gay man you shriveled old pervert.

by Anonymousreply 17804/08/2019

Rest areas at night are the best. Tons of straight dick.

by Anonymousreply 17904/08/2019

That just won't do for me. I don't even like bringing my coffee into the bathroom at home. But getting nasty in a public restroom............ No way!

Do you wash and sanitize afterward?

by Anonymousreply 18004/08/2019

I wash and sanitize before hand.

by Anonymousreply 18104/08/2019

R181 is right, we made an effort.

There were 2 toilets near each other where I lived in the 80s & 90s and cruisers used to drive between them. After a while you would recognise the same cars, and notice the same guys on different days. A few of us would meet up and chat. Talk about new guys showing up. Was quite social.

by Anonymousreply 18204/08/2019

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by Anonymousreply 18304/09/2019

Hiss off bitch.

by Anonymousreply 18404/09/2019

I think the stories in here are superb.

It really is so sad that many of our toilets are closing down.

by Anonymousreply 18504/09/2019

It is a tragedy without comparison!

by Anonymousreply 18604/09/2019

In the early '90s, I was going into a single user "unisex" bathroom in a bar/club called the Covered Wagon Saloon and a trans/cross dresser (we didn't get to know each other well) person tried to push in behind me. I turned, trying to close the door and said, "It's just one toilet in here." The person asked to come in with me, when I refused, requested to "just watch" me pee. I said no and left the bathroom and came back later. No harm done, true story.

by Anonymousreply 18704/09/2019

Well, that was a tangent.

by Anonymousreply 18804/09/2019

It's definitely the influx of being tracked via cctv (going from your drive way to a place) or security cameras in a certain place. Not fun anymore. Missed doing this stuff about 5yrs ago

by Anonymousreply 18904/09/2019

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by Anonymousreply 19004/09/2019

Was Larry Craig really after toilet sex? Could there be any chance it was, indeed a misunderstanding?

by Anonymousreply 19104/10/2019

Tops are used to a little fudge on the dick from time to time, but having anal sex in room that stinks of stale piss and nasty feces is not my cup of tea (and yes, most public bathrooms pretty much always stink). To each their own. I prefer wooded areas if you are really looking to fuck anonymous guys in a public setting. Just my preference.

by Anonymousreply 19204/10/2019

I have clean sheets to fuck on. If you prefer getting fucked over a toilet bowl full of shit, more power to you.

by Anonymousreply 19304/10/2019

To add more to r164, I think the proliferation of pron being literally at your fingertips, and virtually any type you could want has an impact.

Yesterday I went to a cruising area after work. While the odds were good, the goods were odd so I went home and rubbed one out at the computer. In the past, just to get pron to do that would’ve been a chore in itself, so you’d hang around the cruising area a while longer and, most likely, hook up eventually. Nowadays, everyone can run into a bathroom or their own area and have all the pron they could want to see to get off to. We didn’t have that.

by Anonymousreply 19404/10/2019

I always remember the Hot Picante Bar in Cancun. It was the kinda place that they searched you at the door for a knife and if you hadn't got one they'd give you one!

The toilets in there were heaving. There was this guy trimming his pubes with a pair of nail scissors when I went in for a leak. "You are very beautiful man", he said to me. I left as quickly as I could.

by Anonymousreply 19504/10/2019

The thrill of being walked in on by the cops...

Damn I miss that rush.

by Anonymousreply 19604/10/2019

I cruised a lot of toilets in my day, but I have to say, I remember maybe once or twice where someone was fucking/getting fucked. That was not on the menu for me, not in that place/space.

Also, most of the places I cruised were pretty clean, as clean as those places could be. Guys would use the urinals for sure, before they started to jack off and show off, but no one would take a dump in those rooms. We kept it fresh as a spring day in those rooms. LOL

by Anonymousreply 19704/10/2019

I just can't be turned on while I am smelling other people's urine and poop.

by Anonymousreply 19804/10/2019

If you're in a clean bathroom, there's honestly no smell, R198. Hottest place to play near where I work is a Macy's bathroom. Super clean, and filled with a ton of hot guys who want oral, or at least a handjob.

by Anonymousreply 19904/10/2019

Airport bathroom stalls.

by Anonymousreply 20004/10/2019

Since I had read so much about hardware store bathrooms, I checked one out. Was in a stall about 20 minutes before I left (nothing happened), only to discover that the door to the bathroom had been wedged open by an employee. I don't think I had drawn attention to myself, but there were a lot of guys going in just before I showed up. So maybe the place had a reputation the employees were aware of.

The weather was bad, so I hung around the front of the store sitting on patio furniture, probably reading DL on my phone, when this guy walks in from the parking lot and just as he's passing me says in a quiet voice "peepee", without making eye contact. He almost stuttered as he said it, and at first I assumed he was just muttering to himself...until I realized no grown man would walk past another man and say something like that unless it was meant to be a hint.

But what grown man says "peepee" if he isn't talking to a 5 year old?

Maybe he was European or something and didn't know English that well, or maybe he was just nervous and couldn't think of anything else to say and that's what happened to pop out.

Regardless, I did not follow. That poor guy was not walking into an ideal situation.

From my limited experience, men who go to bathrooms for sex tend to be very nervous and have crazy eyes.

by Anonymousreply 20104/10/2019

I have never found one that’s not designed to make it obsolete, r200. I’ve never seen an airport restroom that doesn’t have a door anymore, just that winding hallway.

by Anonymousreply 20204/10/2019

[quote]From my limited experience, men who go to bathrooms for sex tend to be very nervous and have crazy eyes.

At least you admit your experience is limited, because trust most of us on this thread, that’s not the case.

by Anonymousreply 20304/10/2019

The aroma of piss is one of the exquisite pleasures of bathroom sex.

by Anonymousreply 20404/10/2019

I don’t get why everyone assumes all these bathrooms smell like piss and shit. Does your bathroom at home smell like that? If anything certain public bathrooms are cleaner because they have cleaning crews coming in all the time.

by Anonymousreply 20504/10/2019

question? are any of these stories even remotely true? I don't think I've ever seen this shit going on ever.

by Anonymousreply 20604/10/2019

That’s the point, r206.

Unless you were looking for it and actually knew the signals, you wouldn’t. That’s protection from hitting on the wrong person and/or being caught.

by Anonymousreply 20704/10/2019

I am on Noo Yawk's smart East side at the moment and this thread prompted me to check out the men's room on the 7th floor at Bloomies. For old time's sake.

It has been entirely redesigned. Oh, so much more chic now. But I still got cruised by a man lingering by the sink. It felt just like the 70's again!

by Anonymousreply 20804/10/2019

Your use of double negatives was confusing r202, but if you meant that new washrooms are designed to thwart gay men looking for hookups....yes. Absolutely. There's no more door into the toilet, just a wide entrance so every echo can be heard clearly from outside. And mirrors are placed so you can see everything inside the washroom just by taking two steps.

by Anonymousreply 20904/10/2019

Yes, R209, that’s what I meant.

And I have no legitimate excuse for the sentence structure. Re-reading it, I hang my head.

by Anonymousreply 21004/10/2019

Getting a blow job in a urine-soaked bathroom is pretty hot, actually.

by Anonymousreply 21104/10/2019

L.A. County Hospital, General Hospital, used to have a unique toilet situation in a restroom on the first floor, I believe. This must have been very late '80s or early '90s. It was a cubicle with a toilet AND a urinal.

So you could sit on the toilet and leave the stall unlocked and they came in one after the other to use the urinal. I was in hog heaven. Sucked many, many cocks there.

by Anonymousreply 21204/10/2019

[quote]General Hospital, used to have a unique toilet situation in a restroom on the first floor

I haven't the faintest idea what you're going on about.

by Anonymousreply 21304/10/2019

Washington Park rest room in NYC went a step further with NO partitions between the toilets and urinals on a separate section that were facing away from each other so you saw two rows of people playing with themselves plus an entire row of people sitting playing with themselves as well. Too many crackheads and homeless, though, but the ocassional hot dude or NYU kid. This wentbon until the late 2000’s and may still be going on.

Similar set-up in the seventies at the San Juan, Puerto Rico JC Penney rest room - three toilets with no partition between them but separated from the other rest room patrons by a big partition. Also two noisy doors before people could come in. The only way people noticed what was going on in the toilet area was if they were interested and watching as well. Sometimes lines would form (maybe because I was a teen twink at the time). Great uninhibited seventies pinga culo action then.

The one drawback - the ocassional idiot who actually was fine with pooping next to someone without any partitions or inhibitions. Usually some army or prison guy.

by Anonymousreply 21404/10/2019

Love catching the Home Depot/lowes employees jerking it.

by Anonymousreply 21504/10/2019

The Hardware Store thing is real.

A friend of mine used to work at Home Depot. During his breaks he'd go into the bathroom, whip out his big dick, and get blown. Every single time. He said there were always married men in there looking for fun.

by Anonymousreply 21604/10/2019

Home Depot was kind of notorious for a while.

Before that it was JC Penney. Literally every single one. The one nearest to my hometown - I never went in there where I didn't have a hot DILF in my mouth within 10, 15 minutes. It was like shooting fish in a barrel.

by Anonymousreply 21704/10/2019

Or shooting in a mouth

by Anonymousreply 21804/10/2019

I clearly need to spend more time at Home Depot. In the South, wherever there's not a real outlet for sex like an ABS, Squirt shows Home Depot as the cruisiest spot for sex.

by Anonymousreply 21904/10/2019

Unfortunately, Home Depot’s are not cruisy in New York. Believe me, I’ve tried.

by Anonymousreply 22004/10/2019

I wonder how Home Depots became a spot to go to. After my friend told me about his exploits there as an employee, I started to take notice. I go to Home Depot about twice a week (I build things as a hobby), and each time I make sure to head to the bathroom just to see. There are always at least 2 guys in the bathroom loitering and looking for fun. They're almost always married too. I've never fooled around at a HD though. My friend told me that employees are aware and do monitor the bathrooms.

by Anonymousreply 22104/10/2019

A guy I used to chat with online told me for some reason the Home Depot in every state was listed as a hot cruising spot on Squirt.

by Anonymousreply 22204/10/2019

Once in a while when I was in college, but we arranged it in advance on AOL, at the bathrooms at the campus library. One encounter in particular, we tried to go into a stall to hook up, only to see that some scatalogial freakass smeared shit all over the walls. Talk about a mood killer. We ended up hooking up in my car in the parking deck.

by Anonymousreply 22304/10/2019

R216, I wouldn't be surprised. A "straight" guy I used to trick with re-connected with me online. Coincidentally he happened to work at a Home Depot right near where I lived, and right by the office I worked at. We started having afternoon delights at my place on a regular basis, until word got back to my boss (who is gay as well) and he decided to be a catty bitch about it and shortened our lunch breaks down to 30 min.

by Anonymousreply 22404/10/2019

R221, where is your Home Depot located (generally if not specifically)

by Anonymousreply 22504/10/2019

Groped and make out with a guy at a street urinal in Europe while his wife waiting outside

by Anonymousreply 22604/10/2019

I arranged with a fuck buddy to go to the store he worked in at 3 one aftrrnoon, find him on the sales floor and then he followed me into a small single toilet restroom. The blow job he gave me was hotter than usual because of the overall situation.

by Anonymousreply 22704/10/2019

R225 CA. There are about 5 HDs in a 10 mile radius of me. They all always have something going on.

by Anonymousreply 22804/10/2019

Yes r222 That's why it is nicknamed "Homo Depot" where horny straight blue collar guys go to get sucked off , because wifey or girlfriend isn't giving them what they want at home.

by Anonymousreply 22904/10/2019

R227 There's a cruisy Macy's near where I work in Orange County. And if you don't find anyone to hook up with in the bathrooms, there's a guy on the 3rd floor that will swap blowjobs with you in the changing rooms.

by Anonymousreply 23004/11/2019

The Macy's in one of the DC suburbs is very cruisy.

by Anonymousreply 23104/11/2019

"Macy restroom" is practically a category of its own on the pron sites.

by Anonymousreply 23204/11/2019

[quote] Groped and make out with a guy at a street urinal in Europe while his wife waiting outside

Some places in Europe are more open/flexible about it.

My friend was born and raised here in the US but has gone to Italy a few times for long visits (parents were born there) and he told me about the grottos there - that it was stunning, so many men there. And they were SO happy to see him, as he was happy to give them head and jack them off. Almost all of them were married men looking for a release.

For a long time after he told me that, I wanted to move there.

by Anonymousreply 23304/11/2019

I would also add there that many of y'all are overlooking the category of hotel lobby men's rooms.

by Anonymousreply 23404/11/2019

I was in an airport recently (can't remember which one as they're all the same) and two rent-a-cops came walking down on patrol.

They were comical in their attempt to be cops. One turned to the other -- in all seriousness -- and said "I'm going to take a spin through the john." The other nodded knowingly.

Apparently he didn't uncover any felonious activity and they continued on their way.

by Anonymousreply 23504/11/2019

^ They didn't find Larry Craig in there?

by Anonymousreply 23604/11/2019

I hear one of the hotels near me has a hotspot off the lobby. I'll check it out as soon as it gets warm enough for a walk.

by Anonymousreply 23704/11/2019

[quote]Sometimes a guy would approach who wouldn't rate on today's swipe apps, but he became a lot more appealing with a little conversation and flirting.

One of the hottest fucks of my life occurred because of such a situation. I was at a gay bar and a dorky-looking guy sat down next to me. He wasn't ugly, just completely not my type—glasses, in his 20s (I usually like 'em older), tall and skinny. I never would have considered him on a swipe app. But we got to talking, he was funny as hell, he wasn't THAT bad-looking, and after a couple of Cuba Librés I invited him over.

Never have I had such sex. It was electric—seriously, I know people say that, but there was almost a static spark when we touched each other. We were in complete synch with one another, instinctively knowing which buttons to push and what limits to challenge. Turns out he felt exactly the same way I did about the experience.

Again, I never would have met him on Grindr, because I wouldn't have even looked twice at his picture. But thanks to being able to interact with him in person, we each got to enjoy a very, very memorable bang-arama-thon.

by Anonymousreply 23804/11/2019

R238 Yes. THAT is what's missing with some of the electronic based app sorts of things (and their online predecessors).

Not that the other way was perfect, but sometimes the spur of the moment kinda stuff could be really amazing.

by Anonymousreply 23904/11/2019

Yes, hotels, especially airport hotels.

There is one near me, that offers airport parking and a shuttle that takes you to the airport.

The bathroom must have been designed by someone who was into public sex.

To get into the men's room you have to first go through a heavy door that opens into a short hallway that then leads you to another heavy door. Because of the setup, when the outer door opens it causes a draft that then causes the second inner door, to move, and the sound of that echoes loudly throughout the bathroom, giving anyone plenty of warning and time to break things up.

Further, when you finally make your way into the actual restroom, you pass a row of sinks and to get to the Urinals you have to take turn left and then walk behind the sinks. Again, giving plenty of time for anyone to stop doing what they're doing.

In order to get to a stall, you turn in the opposite direction, and then have to turn again, behind another wall. There are, I think 7 stalls total, three along either side of the wall, FACING each other, making it super convenient to open your door and have fun with the person across from you. The last bathroom is all the way down the hall and in an entire room. The door is another, heavy, wooden door, that is floor to ceiling (as are the walls to that enclosed bathroom) and has slats, so that you can look out and see if anyone is around (giving you a good opportunity to sneak someone out of the room when no one is around or looking).

by Anonymousreply 24004/11/2019

Sounds like heaven, R240!

by Anonymousreply 24104/11/2019

WOW r240! That’s like something out of those dreams we tearoomers get! (You all know the dreams I’m talking about- just like when addicts get crack dreams).

May I ask what airport’s hotel features that? Are people taking advantage of it?

by Anonymousreply 24204/11/2019

I’ve heard that the rest stops on the highway between Dallas and Oklahoma City are ALL trucker heaven, with stalls whose partitions are just waist high!

by Anonymousreply 24304/11/2019

Once in downtown Chicago I had the sudden and urgent need to drop the kids at the pool. The Palmer House Hilton was the closest public building so I ducked in there.

It's a vast 1920s pile, and the main floor is set off with various levels and sub-levels and little staircases and ramps and such. No bathroom to be seen, so I went up to a floor where there were ballrooms, figuring there would be a toilet right off the elevator. No luck.

I ended up walking past huge empty ballrooms and finally found another staircase, which led to a ramp, which led to a men's room. Huge, totally empty, with toilets behind stall doors that reached the ceiling, like individual cabanas.

As soon as the job at hand was completed, it occurred to me this could be the busiest tearoom in all of Chicago if anyone could actually find it. I'm not sure I could again.

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by Anonymousreply 24404/11/2019

Such a nonstory r244. Thanks for sharing with us one of the many moments in time when you needed to take a shit.

by Anonymousreply 24504/11/2019

Fuck off, R245; I for one relish hearing of the Windy City's gracious and exquisitely designed accommodations.

by Anonymousreply 24604/11/2019

The Palmer House is an exquisite hotel and I am sure many anonymous sexual encounters have taken place within its gilded ballrooms. The fact that r244's story led nowhere should not be the stimulus for hitting out with verbal abuse.

by Anonymousreply 24704/11/2019

I thought that the expression, drop the kids off at the pool, referred to masturbating into a toilet

by Anonymousreply 24804/11/2019

So with hotels, you can just waltz in and use the restroom without being a gueat?

by Anonymousreply 24904/11/2019

R249 How would the hotel know that you wasn't a guest?

That mecca of opulent tearoom opportunities looks huge. I would doubt that Sandra on Reception would challenge you to take a gratis dump, even if she did have her suspicions that you weren't a guest.

by Anonymousreply 25004/12/2019

Please, enough. This thread has been befouled by the stench of R244's dump.

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by Anonymousreply 25204/12/2019

R251 I enjoyed R244's pointless dump.

by Anonymousreply 25304/12/2019

"Or maybe put on a show at the urinals?"

Darling I once staged a magnificent adaptation of Orpheus et Eurydice at the Highway Rest Stop over at exit 41. I was just in the middle of a rousing performance of The Dance of The Furies when some local hooligan insulted me by saying, "Just suck it already!"

Well, my dears, I have never recieved such criticism in my life! And from someone whom I was fisting, no less!

It was exactly like that Twilight episode when the ventriloquist's dummy comes to life! Horrific!

Anyway, I was halfway to the car when I realized we were still attached.

I remember thinking, whey is my left hand so cold and my right hand so warm?

This last winter was a tough one.

by Anonymousreply 25404/12/2019

R254 = Mindy Grayson

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by Anonymousreply 25504/12/2019

Do architects consider measures to minimise cruising when designing toilets in new buildings do you think?

by Anonymousreply 25604/12/2019

Don't waltz, R249. That will most certainly give you away.

If you are present on the hotel premises for nefarious purposes, better that you just try to do so unnoticed.

by Anonymousreply 25704/12/2019

I think so, r256. Just my opinion though.

We had an architect in one of these threads once and I asked. He said he didn’t think that was a consideration in design. But, to me, the layout of newer bathrooms, with steel stalls and no “recovery time” available says otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 25804/12/2019

Architects do what the client tells them to do. If straightening out the men's room is a client's priority, so shall it be.

by Anonymousreply 25904/12/2019

Same with the general foreclosure of public park, metro, beach and street bathrooms/lockers, and the individualización of gym showers. Thanks to gay progress, openness, shamelessness, equality ... and the Internet, the general population is better informed on male gay codes/shenanigans/needs/games. The good, the bad, and the hot.

by Anonymousreply 26004/12/2019

A lot of new stalls have been coated with material that makes it hard to write on them, or drill holes, etc.

I noticed a lot of new department store and hotel bathrooms have stalls down to the floor, so no visibility of one's neighbor.

Yes, they know, they noticed and they are changing the way they build things.

by Anonymousreply 26104/12/2019

Stalls to the floor causes a new set of problems. Too much privacy can invite all kinds of wrongdoing. People staying for ever texting, smoking whatever, changing outfits, removing security tags, etc etc

by Anonymousreply 26204/12/2019

[quote]So with hotels, you can just waltz in and use the restroom without being a gueat?

If it is a large hotel in a busy urban center, with ballrooms and conference centers, yes, absolutely.

by Anonymousreply 26304/12/2019

I meet a guy through grindr who would set up camp in a ritzy hotel mens room that had “stalls” that were more like tiny separate rooms. This hotel always had heavy traffic in and out, with two restarants and a popular lounge/bar, and ballrooms on the second floor where the mens room was located.

He advertised himself on grindr and described the discrete hotel bathroom set up; if he liked you, after exchanging pics he’s invite you and describe how to find him; always the 2nd floor mens room, last stall on the left. You’d tell him when you’d arrive and he’d leave the door unlock; just slip in, drop your pants, and let him go to work.

He was amazing. Truly the best head ever; he could just inhale cock and do the most amazing moves with his lips, tongue abd throat. He was also exceptionally cute and had a nice long cock of his own. I never played with it (he was always on his knees the entire time), but he’d strock it while blowing you.

More than once I slipped into his stall and he already had company; always a very hot man. I am not badlooking myself, thus he clearly had standards, so this never bothered me but actually added to the thrill and eroticism. Sometimes the other guy would play with me, too. Many of them liked to make out while he took turns blowing us. More than once he’d put us both inside his mouth and suck us at the same time; this, plus his incredible oral skills, plus making out with a hot stranger whose diick was rubbing against mine in the warm, wet confines of this skilled cocksucker’s mouth, was extremely hot and intense. I always blew enormous loads down his throat.

Haven’t seen him online in years though. Really miss this guy. I wish I could connect with him now, even outside of a tea room. He seemed really sweet. I never even learned his name.

by Anonymousreply 26404/12/2019

[quote]but he’d strock it while blowing you.

He’d do what now?

by Anonymousreply 26504/12/2019

I typed that on my phone. Blow me.

by Anonymousreply 26604/12/2019

R256, why else would they design Men's Rooms like an open corridor to the outside world? They actually want people to take deep breaths of the foul stenches and aromas wafting out?

It's crazy to me not to have a door to contain the toilet-related noises and smells. Yuck.

But it's probably done as much to prevent rapes and child molestations as it is to deter consensual gay adult action.

by Anonymousreply 26704/12/2019

[quote] Stalls to the floor causes a new set of problems.

Mostly homeless people sleeping inside, or having a mental meltdown.

by Anonymousreply 26804/12/2019

Have any of you ever been caught? If so how did it go down and what were the consequences?

by Anonymousreply 26904/12/2019

[quote]I typed that on my phone. Blow me.

Mmmm hmmmm.

So your phone auto-corrected what you were typing to a word that doesn’t exist?

by Anonymousreply 27004/12/2019

You are a pedant, R270. A pedant with a suspicious nature. The worst kind!

by Anonymousreply 27104/12/2019

Nah, not really, r271. It started as a joke, but I hate when people don’t simply own up to their mistakes and blame something else.

Even a simple “that’s not how you spell it?” or “sorry, I misspelled stroke” would’ve been better than blaming technology for creating a word.

by Anonymousreply 27204/12/2019

Jesus R270 - I also type on my phone with just my right thumb - I try to be accurate but there’s inevitably a typo or two - and often I don’t notice until after I post. If we could edit posts I would - but an additional post just to correct a typo seems rather anal. And not the good kind of anal at that.

by Anonymousreply 27304/12/2019

I'm sure in Germany that there has to be two doors between the outside of a toilet an the inside.

by Anonymousreply 27404/12/2019

I'm sure in Germany that there has to be two doors between the outside of a toilet an the inside.

by Anonymousreply 27504/12/2019

new jersey

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by Anonymousreply 27704/12/2019

Restroom sex isn't sexy to me, though I have done it.

My main problem with it is that depending on where you are doing it, you run the risk of endangering children. When I was about ten years old, I was with my family shopping at the local Kmart, and I went to use the restroom. There was all kinds of dirty graffiti on the walls, and being a curious child, I would read it and try to make sense of it. I guess I lingered too long in there, because from behind one of the locked stalls, I heard a voice whispering to me, "Do you want to suck some dick?" I can assure you that at ten years old, I did not want to suck some dick, and I booked it out of there fast.

When I was in college, the basement of the undergraduate library was the place to go for restroom sex. It was the 1980s, and it's kind of remarkable to think of now, but the men's restroom had a set of multiple glory holes that were pretty active, and the university did pretty much nothing to fix them or stop the sexual activity. These glory holes were active for a couple of years. Sometimes it was a thrill to find a partner who wanted to beat off and watch through the holes. We would also pass notes to each other, and occasionally feel each other up either through the hole or under the stall. But the shameful hiding nature of it ultimately made it less interesting, and I gave it up after a couple of months. Having a real boyfriend was way better.

by Anonymousreply 27804/12/2019

Truce r273?

Busting balls is a DL tradition as is correcting grammar and spelling mistakes. It’s nothing personal, just fun. Aside from that, though, your post was hot actually.

I want to know why Germany requires two doors, though.

by Anonymousreply 27904/12/2019

R278, I wish I was of age in those days. I truly lament the lack of gloryholes anywhere except for pron theatres now. There was only one I ever knew of that was “public” meaning not in a theatre. Excuse me, two.

One was in a railroad station bathroom where I had a lot of fun in the early ‘90s. One still exists, but it’s about a two hour, very desolate drive from my house where, if you get there and there’s nothing going on (which is virtually always) you’ve wasted hours of your day. So it’s not worth going to.

by Anonymousreply 28004/12/2019

R280 Would you tell the guys where it is incase any of us are close by?

by Anonymousreply 28104/12/2019

[quote] My main problem with it is that depending on where you are doing it, you run the risk of endangering children.

You have a point.

Most of the places I've cruised have all been pretty isolated, including an office building, and as a result they were almost always filled with grown men out for dick. Most malls/stores have more than one restroom and the key is to always go to the most isolated one (or tell your buddy you're heading there for more privacy).

BUT this is a reason why I do understand the crackdowns at public parks and places like restrooms in parks, beaches, etc. Because an accidental interaction with fraus/children IS likely to happen there.

by Anonymousreply 28204/12/2019

Only once, a long time ago. I had a very hot fuck buddy, but had moved and lost touch. I ran into him at the library, and fortunately, he had a large shopping bag. We went into the men's room and into a stall. I sat down, while he stepped into the shopping bag. I sucked his dick, then ate his ass out until he skeeted.

by Anonymousreply 28304/12/2019

What the hell kind of parent would take his or her kids to a tea room?

by Anonymousreply 28404/12/2019

A queen?

by Anonymousreply 28504/12/2019

I was caught when I was a 16-year-Old teen and the store detective was significantly more interested in what the older stranger - who got away - was doing to me than in processing my “crime.”

by Anonymousreply 28604/12/2019

^reply to r269^

by Anonymousreply 28704/12/2019

More stories of getting caught please.

by Anonymousreply 28804/12/2019

[quote] until he skeeted

He did what now?

by Anonymousreply 28904/12/2019

This thread has made me HORNY all week, so I’ve been visiting my local Sears rest room every day, to very fulfilling results.

by Anonymousreply 29004/12/2019

When I first moved to Chicago, an old Sears was in my neighborhood.

I sucked so many married Latino men in that loo. Yes, Papi!

by Anonymousreply 29104/12/2019

So u suck under stall?

by Anonymousreply 29204/12/2019

I fondly remember 4th Floor Waverly Bldg (NYU) in the 90s. Glory holes, hot undergrads, heaven.

There was also a website that gave info on all the best spots:

by Anonymousreply 29304/12/2019

R229, when a straight guy isn’t getting head at home (in and of itself an overBLOWN misconception), he doesn’t get it from a man - he cheats or wacks off to porn. The men that do are closet cases.

by Anonymousreply 29404/12/2019

Yeah, inclined to agree. Sexuality is a spectrum, so I'm hesitant to call them all "closet cases" but...

R286, the adult mall cop was asking you for details so he could get off..?

Retell with more details please. Sounds pervy.

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by Anonymousreply 29604/12/2019

Skeeted sounds like shitting to me.

Is this some sort of swamp ho terminology?

by Anonymousreply 29704/12/2019

Skeeted sounds like something a dog does on a rug.

by Anonymousreply 29804/12/2019

I'd wager it's another spell check creation. Skeet in place of poorly typed shoot.

by Anonymousreply 29904/12/2019

But then his sentence would’ve been “until he shoot.”

Spill it, r286. We want to hear more.

by Anonymousreply 30004/12/2019

So is the consensus that remote department and home store tearooms present the best opportunities than roadside conveniences?

by Anonymousreply 30104/12/2019

[quote]Skeeted sounds like shitting to me.

When I was a kid, there was a white trash family from Arkansas who moved to my suburban neighborhood. Their word for diarrhea was "the skeeters," which I thought was rather charming, in a Tennessee Williams sort of way. I, being a young teenager, quickly adopted the word and it became common vernacular in my family. "Anyone seen Ricky?" "He's in the bathroom. He ate a bunch of Taco Bell at lunch and he's got the skeeters pretty bad."

And "the skeeters" certainly sounds more genteel than "the shits" or "the runs."

by Anonymousreply 30204/12/2019

Sounds more like a 1960s folk group.

"Next up, with their latest recording of Kumbaya, My Lord, please welcome, The Skeeters"

by Anonymousreply 30304/12/2019

none of you bitches recognize “skeet” as vernacular for cum?

by Anonymousreply 30404/12/2019

Sorry, I don't speak flyover.

by Anonymousreply 30504/12/2019

[quote]none of you bitches recognize “skeet” as vernacular for cum?

I sure don't. And I'm a cunning linguist.

by Anonymousreply 30604/12/2019

R295, this was back in the late seventies (I’m 58 now) so the details are scarce. But this store detective walked in when I was facing the toilet with the stall door open and an older guy was behind me looking at/stroking my dick from behind.

Somehow, my “gentleman caller” was able to run out and I guess the store detective thought it better to instill the fear of God on 16-year Old me... by taking me to his private office and asking for details.

I had to show him ID , then he asked what he was doing to me and I explained we were just looking at each other. He kept insisting, “ no, to me it looked like he was doing something to you from behind...” He just wanted his narrative to prevail.

I only remember he had dark hair and a 70s pornstache. God, if he’s alive he must be 78-years-old now!

by Anonymousreply 30704/12/2019

Oh, and this all happened in Spanish ^

by Anonymousreply 30804/12/2019

Wasn’t what we had in mind. He was trying to get you to confess. When you said his cum was under his desk, we (or at least I) were thinking of something completely different.

by Anonymousreply 30904/12/2019

Don't see anymore gloryholes but do still see a peephole every now and then.

by Anonymousreply 31004/12/2019

R283 before he skeeted did he yell Pull!?

by Anonymousreply 31104/12/2019

Yeah, r307. Sounds like he was a straight guy trying to scare you straight.

The way you worded it, we thought he was getting off on discussing it...

Well no matter. Impressed/surprised the older guy got away if Mr Law was watching so intently....

by Anonymousreply 31204/12/2019

Your arms must be super long to be able to reach out from under from your stall and grab a dick in the next. And how can you kneel low enough to have your dick sucked by the person in the next stall? Wouldn't that be super visible and obvious? There should be more visuals on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 31304/13/2019

Under stall action is a no no this side of the Pond. There's usually only about a 4 to 6 inch gap between stalls here. Very difficult to get your dick through to any accomplice next door.

Glory hole is definitely the only option over here.

by Anonymousreply 31404/13/2019

R313, search “understall” on xtube.

by Anonymousreply 31504/13/2019

Ah, yes! The old 'understall' moves. Most impressive when witnessed for the first time.

I remember it well!

by Anonymousreply 31604/13/2019

R313, I think it takes practice.

The only time I tried it, I realized my pants had to be at my ankles because not only was I kneeling, I also needed to be doing the splits in a kneeling position. If the divider goes down close to the floor, you have to crouch low to get your dick under opening your legs. Awkward as hell.

Practice probably helps. And having a divider that's high off the floor.

Visibility is all about scoping out the rest room when you go in. Can you see under the furthest stall from the door when you're in a standing position? Is the floor super reflective? Do the overhead lights cast shadows of the movements happening within the stalls on the floor? Are there mirrors that make it easy to see how many feet there are in each stall?

Some guys are fine with risking getting caught....I'm not one of them. That's why most of the Johns I've been to would never be tempting hook-up locations. If you can find one with a long row of stalls that will conceal activities going on at the far end...that's your best bet. But there aren't many places like that.

by Anonymousreply 31704/13/2019

As discussed, the design of the restrooms helps as well. Some of them are ideal for cruising, such as the ones with double doors, or doors that when you hear open still require the person to walk around a partition or around a corner. Those are the most active.

The ones where it’s very easy to get caught by kids, or anyone else for that matter, are usually not active for this purpose.

by Anonymousreply 31804/13/2019

I'm R283. My fuck buddy was black, and I'm white. I've only known black men to use the term "skeet", but the ones I've known have used it regularly. Back when we fucked together back at my apartment, he'd side on my face, and grind his perfect ass into my face, and finally announce, "I'm gonna skeet. So I learned the term from the context. I just gave him the same treatment I'd give him in my apartment. Blowing, and then rimming. And yes, some sweet kisses, too.

by Anonymousreply 31904/13/2019

Ooooohhhhh! How romantic!

by Anonymousreply 32004/13/2019

How the hell do glory holes even happen? Someone brings power tools into a restroom and starts drilling, cutting and sanding??

by Anonymousreply 32104/13/2019

This story is absolutely true, but I'm sure no one will believe me. About 40 years ago (yes, I know, I'm so old I invented homosexuality), I was in a gay bar on a Tuesday night. Quiet, I was the only one there. In comes a leftover from Saturday Night Fever - Italian in appearance, skinny, shirt with open buttons exposing a hairy chest, three gold chains around his neck. He immediately hones in on me, sitting right next to me even though the place was empty. After a few minutes chatting I headed for the men's room. Three urinals, no dividers. All of a sudden the door opens and in comes my new friend. He stands at the middle urinal, unbuttons his fly and flops out a large semi hard cock. I figured fuck it, go for it. I pushed him over to the sink, my hands pulling down his pants. I rubbed my cock against his ass and he pushed back. I turned on the faucet, lathered up with some soap, and began fucking him right there. I reached around and began jerking his rock hard cock. After a minute or two of hard fucking we both shot our loads - him in the sink, me in his hairy ass. He sank to his knees, I zippered up and left him there. As I got outside the bathroom I ran into the bartender who was coming to see what the hell was going on. I quick finished my drink, left the bar and never went back. I know it sounds like something out of a Gordon Merrick novel, but it happened to me.

by Anonymousreply 32204/13/2019

R322 Have you been back to the bar recently?

I think you should!

by Anonymousreply 32304/13/2019

Sanding? My stars! R321 needs to toughen up. Plying the tea room trade is not wood shop!

by Anonymousreply 32404/13/2019

Those videos are so gross R315 desperate sluts crawling around on a dirty restroom floor for stranger cock.

by Anonymousreply 32504/13/2019

Prisspot, SHOO!

by Anonymousreply 32604/13/2019

"A Night at the Adonis" actually has a silly sketch about the "department store shopping bag" trick.


VINTAGE 469 - All kinds of people visit the Adonis theater. Young to old. Rough to clean cut. They engage in all sorts of sexual fantasies. Considered...

by Anonymousreply 32704/13/2019

I strongly believe the glory holes at my university were carved by dudes with pocket knives, r321. This one building had marble dividers between the stalls and the holes were roughly hewn. I saw the beginnings of new holes here and there — spots where craters had been chipped out and tiny slivers were being born.

I think certain trolls, — probably the ones who could never get laid because they're ugly — would camp there all day and just chip away between victims.

But there was a time I saw a very precise and perfect hole made in two of those stalls. There was some kind of war going on between the maintenance staff and the cocksuckers at this building.

One day, I went cruising to find the glory holes all plastered over with cement or something. Management must have had ENUFF! of us, so they Built A Wall.

The cruising didn't stop, but we couldn't use the glory holes anymore.

But the next week, I went back to the stall and saw perfectly cut, wide holes in two dividers, comprising a bigger area than what was plastered over!

I'm guessing they were cut with a power drill, with one of those circular saw attachments, by a cocksucker who went in on the weekends when it was practically abandoned of straights.

Unfortunately, Maintenance got really zealous and mounted STEEL PLATES over all the glory holes, which remain to this day, I believe. All of that kind of fun stopped :(

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Thanks for your concern, r282, etc.

But almost everyone cruising in a restroom takes extreme caution not to be visible to anyone first entering the bathroom and not to make a move on children or guys who seem straight.

If someone walks in, they disengage, cover up and refrain.

Are you sure you're not with One Million Moms?

by Anonymousreply 32904/13/2019

Skeet is a long-standing hip-hop term for "ejaculate."

DAMN we got some corny crackas up in here!

Urban Dictionary: Skeets

to ejaculate, cum, get there.

by Anonymousreply 33004/13/2019

i wasn’t going to tell them, r330

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by Anonymousreply 33104/13/2019

Public bathrooms were never my thing. However ABS's oh they were fun. Nothing like seeing a huge black cock come through the hole.

by Anonymousreply 33204/13/2019

A hot young Irish guy was going down on me in a restroom at a small English pub somewhere in Kent one evening. I hadn't realized when we started that there was a window WITH A CLEAR PANE OF GLASS overlooking the back alley. When I looked up and discovered it, there were half a dozen or so guys outside looking in at us. I, a proper US tourist, was mortified. Of course I let the Irish dude finish what he was doing, but I was mortified nonetheless.

by Anonymousreply 33304/13/2019

[quote]Of course I let the Irish dude finish what he was doing,

We wouldn’t have expected anything less. Would’ve been rude if you didn’t let this fella finish his work.

by Anonymousreply 33404/13/2019

My point exactly. I certainly didn't want to be responsible for an international incident triggered by rudeness.

by Anonymousreply 33504/13/2019

Quelle délicatesse

by Anonymousreply 33604/13/2019

I hope he left fully satisfied?

by Anonymousreply 33704/13/2019

Fuck needing power tools. My dick had enough thrust to punch clean through the sturdiest stall. Instant glory holes wherever and whenever I pleased.

by Anonymousreply 33804/14/2019

R338 Show us your tool?

by Anonymousreply 33904/14/2019

R338, call me!

by Anonymousreply 34004/14/2019

R340 Back off bitch.

I was here first!

by Anonymousreply 34104/14/2019

I got sucked off in a men's room on a ferry during an English Channel crossing during a mutherfucker of a storm.

Even without the blowjob, I could hardly stand up. But with? It was heaven!

by Anonymousreply 34204/14/2019

Mid 1970's I was in college in Westchester County NY and the closest train station to NYC was in White Plains. The restroom there was a hotbed of sex, with the bedroom commuters all using it to get off- wooden stalls with giant glory holes in each one. Also, the college library men's room. Ah, youth...

by Anonymousreply 34304/14/2019

I do think that anything location to do with commuter land was busy. Porn Theatres site near to rail stations or toilets based in commuter stations must have been prime real estate.

by Anonymousreply 34404/14/2019

I remember driving I-5 from SF to Seattle a loooog time ago. Stopped at a rest area to pee and get a coke. In the last stall was a very good looking bear-- longish hair,, beard, very furry. Naked and beating his meat in a stall without a door. I'd've done something, but the rest room was very busy with men in and out and kinds coming in as well.

by Anonymousreply 34504/14/2019

Can vouch for UCLA in 90s. Proud Bruin here. Can remember having my ass eaten out for the first time in Kerckhoff Hall while folks were studying away just a few steps out. Also remember one of the janitors pick up on me in the bathroom on the main floor of my dorm. Took me back to his maintenance closet. Horny blue collar Latino fanatasy come true. To be young again!

Live in SF now so most public restrooms have been overtaken by tweakers and homeless so zero appeal.

Most recent experiences were on foreign travel. One time a kid started jerking off in one of the bathrooms at Manuel Antonio National Park in Costa Rica. Nice thick uncut piece on a good-looking guy. Too bad the bathroom was literally on the main trail from the beach and the park was closing soon. Way too busy to do more than just jerk off for a few seconds.

Another time was at the train station in Seville. The restroom was in the corner of the main concourse before you entered the platforms. Walked out and saw this older, farmer guy stroking his very visible erection. He was outside the bathroom. Then I realized what was going on and it dawned on me the kid in the urinal next to me was also trying to cruise. It'd been a long day though, just came back from Cordoba where it was 100+ degrees and all I wanted to do was take a nap.

by Anonymousreply 34604/14/2019

kids not kinds

by Anonymousreply 34704/14/2019

USC here, too. The 1990's were robust, second floor of Waite Phillips was rocking between 4-8PM, even on weekends. There was a computer lab in the basement, so the building was open 24/7. Four stalls and two urinals -- literally six guys at a porcelain device, plus 2-3 standing at the sinks. Sometimes, there were four simultaneous groups sucking and stroking. For privacy, you could take your prey upstairs. All the men's rooms were in the lobbies on each floor, next to the elevators.

The basement of the student union was hopping as well, just not during lunch, when it was too busy. Mid-afternoons were a cruiser's heaven, if you're into under-stall action. The partitions were about 18" off the ground, so plenty of access.

Then there was the granddaddy of them all -- Taper Hal basement. The men's room was enormous with metal doors that squeaked very loudly. There was no women's room in the basement, and only a couple of classrooms, so it was practically deserted. If somebody was down there, they were there for the same reason as you. There were 20 full length urinals situated across from 12 stalls. By the mid-90's, all but two of them had their doors removed. But there were glory holes on both sides of them. Guys would stand facing the toilet in a doorless stall and present meat to the sucker in the doored stall through the glory hole. It was not anonymous by any means (you could see them either through the holes, or by standing and peeking over, but it FELT anonymous because of the partition. I sucked off hundreds of guys there. Sadly, they remodeled the basement and the old men's room is now a women's room. There is a tiny (2-stall; 4-urinal) men's room elsewhere down there. It is still cruisy, but its heyday has passed.

My experiences with men's rooms is vast. I like universities best, because the guys are, generally, young, horny and looking only for blowjobs. Much more than that in a bathroom is logistically complex, which is fine, since I prefer giving head to anything else. I like the spontaneity of the interaction, the speed (max five minutes), and its lack of any emotional transaction, though some guys violate all of these expectations at times.

by Anonymousreply 34804/14/2019

[quote]Live in SF now so most public restrooms have been overtaken by tweakers and homeless so zero appeal.

No one has disabused the Dolores Park Pissoir?

by Anonymousreply 34904/14/2019

Toilet design has changed over the years.

Up until the 80s spacious toilets were built, with those double doors, antiroom, large urinal area, spacious cubicles. But as land prices rose, the size of toilets has reduced, anti graffiti measures have come in, giving them a functional and utilitarian feel.

Very difficult to get your rocks off in that environment.

by Anonymousreply 35004/14/2019

Other than the Blooming Dale's 7th floor as mentioned earlier and the Hilton on 53rd st. Where else in NYC is still a good place to go?

by Anonymousreply 35104/15/2019

What the fuck is so outrageous or unbelievable about your story, r322? And it happened in a gay bar, no less! Now if you had said that you were in an elementary school hallway and Anthony Recker had walked by and presented hole ...

by Anonymousreply 35204/15/2019

The open urinal at Delores park...lots of action there.

by Anonymousreply 35304/15/2019

Royce Hall stories?!

by Anonymousreply 35404/15/2019

It's important that we capture these stories for posterity.

by Anonymousreply 35504/15/2019

For posterity and the CDC. LOL

by Anonymousreply 35604/15/2019

South of San Francisco, the Junipero Serra rest stop on Highway 280 had a long dark history related to law enforcement and tea room sex. In the 90's,the California Highway Patrol would routinely assign its newest, youngest, and hottest officers to the men's room there to bust queers. They would spend their shifts walking in circles around the place and loitering in the john. While you were trying to take a pee, they did everything in their power to attract your attention. If you looked one of them in the eye, you got busted.

The cops really must be as stupid as they seem to be. They kept patrolling that place long after every homosexual for 500 miles had heard to avoid it. Several straight male friends asked me what was going on there because they had unwittingly stopped to pee and the cops trying to entrap them had completely freaked them out. If the straight guys notice it, it's got to be bad. There were other cruising spots not far from Junipero Serra, but the cops never seemed to adapt. Dumb asses.

by Anonymousreply 35704/15/2019

Were they undercover motorcycle cops?

by Anonymousreply 35804/15/2019

Undercover tea room cops.

by Anonymousreply 35904/15/2019

Has anyone ever run into a celeb in a t-room? There was a blind item years ago about a famous guy who was caught by the cops cruising a t-room on the UCLA campus

by Anonymousreply 36004/15/2019

While I love hearing stories like those, r360, the problem here is twofold:

A) People never mention the name. It’s always “a big celebrity you all know. And he was hung like a mule!” or;

B) If the name is mentioned you get, “no way. That didn’t happen. I call bullshit.”

So what’s the point?

by Anonymousreply 36104/15/2019

Yes, R360.

There is a former teen hearthrob who is a religious zealot... and yet he can't stay away from Griffith Park.

by Anonymousreply 36204/15/2019

R361 is exactly right with regard to B!

by Anonymousreply 36304/15/2019

No, R361 is not exactly right.

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Toilet sex in the 1950’s, filmed right before they were carted to jail.

Vintage Police Surveillance of Tearoom Cruising.

Watch Vintage Police Surveillance of Tearoom Cruising gay video on xHamster - the ultimate archive of free Gay Cruising & Handjob porn movies!

by Anonymousreply 36504/15/2019

SFO terminal one 30 years ago. Black marble ceiling in the restroom lower level. You could sit back and watch the business travelers jerking it. Four or five guys in a row putting on a show. Always a fun time.

by Anonymousreply 36604/15/2019

That was the ‘60s r365.

by Anonymousreply 36704/15/2019

R364 l don’t get what you’re trying to say. Nobody said celebrities weren’t hooking up in tearooms, so an article from the ‘60s doesn’t help.

What I said was, if anyone here were to relate a story about booking up with one, they either wouldn’t name them or, alternatively, they wouldn’t be believed anyway.

by Anonymousreply 36804/15/2019

George Michael was famously busted in a "tea room," r360.

George Michael Busted In Bathroom

Pop singer George Michael was arrested in a Beverly Hills, Calif., park Tuesday evening for engaging in a lewd act and was charged with a misdemeanor. Area residents complained to police about seei…

by Anonymousreply 36904/15/2019

Obi Wan Kenobi was also busted busting his lightsaber in a public lavatory, along with Sir John Gielgud:

Alec Guinness's gay side revealed

Sir Alec Guinness had a homosexual side which remained publicly unknown in his lifetime because of the flair for evasion and secrecy which was also his trademark as an actor.

by Anonymousreply 37004/15/2019

Paparazzi have also recently documented the hot, British swimmer Mark Foster cruising the woods frequently:

Olympian Mark Foster caught visiting notorious sex car park four times in a week

BBC sports pundit Mark ­Foster has been spotted making several trips to a popular dogging site where strangers have sex in bushes and cars. The 46-year-old Olympian – Britain’s most decorated…

by Anonymousreply 37104/15/2019

I always found understall stupid! Just go into the same stall and fuck, that’s what I do . I Love the handicapped stalls that are covered to the floor ,so convienient. If not just have him stand on the toilet and bend over as u fuck the shit out of him and no one suspects a thing.

by Anonymousreply 37204/15/2019

R371 damn one lucky cumdump got to suck or get fucked by that silver fox?

by Anonymousreply 37304/15/2019

And then there was the incident where Kevin Spacey got "mugged" when he was in a cruisy park at 4:30 a.m. "walking the dog."

The “Truth” About Kevin Spacey’s “Attack”

by Anonymousreply 37404/15/2019

At least four, different cum dumps on 4 different days, r373.

by Anonymousreply 37504/15/2019

[quote]If not just have him stand on the toilet and bend over as u fuck the shit out of him

How tall are you, exactly?

by Anonymousreply 37604/15/2019

Liberace's lover Scott Thorson also claims that Liberace used to cruise the adult book stores and glory holes of Vegas.

BEHIND THE CANDELABRA shows one scene where he is doing that.

Behind the Candelabra trailer

See the trailer for Behind the Candelabra released on the 7 June 2013 at selected Cineworld Cinemas. Visit for more info and booking...

by Anonymousreply 37704/15/2019

OMG the George Maharis arrest report is 2Funny2BBelieved!

[quote]Famous Hollywood actor George Maharis was arrested Nov. 21 and charged with committing a sex act with a hairdresser ...


There's some law against lying down with hairdressers!! We want them OUT of the gene pool!

by Anonymousreply 37804/15/2019

R375 that’s why certain cumdump trolls are always there, never know who will Show up and when it will be your lucky day to suck them off.

by Anonymousreply 37904/15/2019

[quote]Has anyone ever run into a celeb in a t-room? There was a blind item years ago about a famous guy who was caught by the cops cruising a t-room on the UCLA campus

Well, not in a t-room.

by Anonymousreply 38004/15/2019

One of my friends got busted at a public park in Indianapolis several years ago. He was arrested and beaten by three cops. He was given probation and had to register as a sex offender.

by Anonymousreply 38104/15/2019

R381 That's awful.

The poor guy.

by Anonymousreply 38204/15/2019

I was arrested for sticking my dick through the gloryhole of my favorite bathroom. I was still in high school. The bathroom was located in a small park that was used for picnics, fishing and had a small boat launch. It was an active sex bathroom, day or night. There were 3 stalls. I was in the middle stall, and the police officer pulled his pants down (I remember seeing dark pubes through the peephole). He put his finger to the gloryhole and motioned for me to give him my dick. I did. He immediately got up, and left and I heard a police walkie just outside. I pulled my pants up, walked out the door and was handcuffed and arrested for lewd and lascivious behavior. It was the most humiliating experience. Poof goes my dreams of being a teacher. My high school teachers son was a police officer in the city where I was arrested! I had to endure seeing the arresting police 'cadet' at my community college in the Criminal Justice wing (actually a corroder, lol). I made a feeble attempt to cut my wrists months later. I have had to answer about this arrest several times in life during jury duty selection process, and job background checks. I internalized the inner feelings of self worthlessness all my life, and over compensate by being over reliable, overly trustworthy, and self-sacrificing at my own emotional peril.

by Anonymousreply 38304/15/2019

My hometown paper published the mug shots on the front page if several men who were arrested for cruising our local park when I was young. It’s not worth the risk of getting arrested or gay bashed.

by Anonymousreply 38404/15/2019

When I was in college and still living at home with my folks (this was back in the 90's), I would just use the top floor of one of the campus parking decks for hookups. Nobody was up there in the evenings and they didn't have cameras at the time. I had a Ford explorer at the time, so it was an easy hotel on wheels. I'd typically meet them at our campus library, then we'd go up there.

by Anonymousreply 38504/15/2019

R385 I did that once at Ohio State. A bit of his cum landed on the cloth seat and I didn't see it for a day. It stained the upholstery. I sold that car years later with the cum stain intact.

by Anonymousreply 38604/15/2019

That Tearoom film at r365 never ceases to amaze me. All those guys on there looked like characters on The Andy Griffith Show. I was surprised to see many of them with hats, collared shirts, and ties. They looked nothing like the degenerates gays were portrayed to be at that time. If anything, they looked like repressed men who only wanted a moment a pleasurable release.

Thank God we live in more open times.

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R383, thank you for sharing that. Sounds like you've really been put through the ringer. I'm so sorry you tried to take your life. You aren't worthless - you were just being made an example of.

So you were an aspiring teacher before, and that all went to hell? Did you manage to build another career? I hope so. I also hope you got/are getting some therapy.

It's sobering to hear tales like yours.

by Anonymousreply 38804/15/2019

Don't you have a record expungement process in your state after several years well-behaved?

by Anonymousreply 38904/15/2019

Those guys in the film linked above were there because that was all that our society had for them. Secretly cruising public toilets. If they had been seen at or even near any establishment rumored to be gay friendly, they would have been ruined.

They were certainly taking awful chances in the tea rooms, but the risk to them was less than if they had sought intimacy with another male at any other venue. One risk was legal. One was social. The film is testament to how powerful social opprobrium was at that time and how much we owe those early activists who refused to accept that fate.

by Anonymousreply 39004/16/2019

Visited a men's room I had heard had a glory hole. It was all boarded up and the door to one of the stalls was removed, but the peep holes twenty bullet holes in the divider next to where the GH used to be.

I left and was spotted by a guy headed towards the bathroom who gave me The Look. I let him go in there and sat down in the communal area outside. He left the bathroom after two minutes and sat down a few feet from me. I guess he wanted to signal interest but a security guy had passed the area before I went in....and also, I'd just gone in there. Folks would notice if he and I immediately went back in. And also, without the GH, what would we do? Obviously this place had a rep and it was being watched. It wasn't a big washroom so jerking it at the urinals wouldn't be wise.

He left after five minutes. Tried to catch my eye again while leaving.

I just wasn't feeling it. You have to be crazy horny, I think, or know you're 85% safe in the washroom to go for it. I was neither.

by Anonymousreply 39104/16/2019

Ah, the thrill of the chase!

by Anonymousreply 39204/16/2019

I was busted at Griffith Park years ago. They were actually very nice about it. I didn't touch anyone, they just took me in to the station and released me. My record was cleaned up after I took a BS course on the constitution.

In the police car, they asked me how I knew that Griffith Park is where men went to find each other and I told them all about John Rechy and City of Night. They were fascinated.

by Anonymousreply 39304/16/2019

After this, Long Beach no longer does stings, nor do the police patrol tea rooms -- unless somebody calls them with details. The caller has to give their name, phone number, and wait for the officers to arrive. (Park rangers are responsible for public parks, not the police department, so an immediate threat is now required for a police department response in a park.)

Judge slams gay sex stings by Long Beach police, calling them discriminatory

A Los Angeles County judge on Friday severely criticized the Long Beach Police Department's practice of conducting sting operations against gay men cruising for

by Anonymousreply 39404/16/2019

Nice. Common sense prevailing is good to see.

Cruising does not make you a rapist/child molestator.

by Anonymousreply 39504/17/2019

Anyone know where the sites in Los Angeles?

by Anonymousreply 39604/17/2019

There are plenty of places in the LA basin. Check

by Anonymousreply 39704/17/2019

R394 aren't Park Rangers allowed to arrest people and give citations?

by Anonymousreply 39804/17/2019

R396 NOT Griffith Park!

by Anonymousreply 39904/17/2019

How are sting operations not considered entrapment?

by Anonymousreply 40004/17/2019

I'll check it out R397. I prefer straight men but at that point, you really don't know. Any others?

by Anonymousreply 40104/17/2019

R398 Park rangers have full sworn officer authority; yes, they can. But they don't set up stings, which are nothing more than entrapment. There is a big difference between walking into a park restroom and seeing two guys fucking and setting up a command center in a park then sending an undercover officer into a restroom to initiate a connection then arrest a guy who responds to the incitement.

In Long Beach's stings, guys did not even have to show genitalia. They had only to intend explicitly to engage in a sex act, e.g., "Hey, you looking to suck dick?"

by Anonymousreply 40204/17/2019

You don't know the legal definition of entrapment, R400.

The cops have to lean on your to do something that you would not otherwise do, but for the influence of the officers involved. A gay man sucking dick is clearly not going to fit in that narrow legal definition.

by Anonymousreply 40304/17/2019


[quote]Courts also have raised questions about the stings, invalidating a number of prosecutions in various parts of the state. In some cases, judges found no crime had occurred because the undercover officer conveyed sexual interest to the target and no one else was present to be offended by the lewd conduct. Last month, a Los Angeles County judge threw out the charges in one case stemming from Long Beach's 2014 operation, saying police were discriminating against gay men.

The handsome undercover cop smiles. Is he entrapping gay men or cleaning up a park?

Sitting in cars along the edge of the park, four Long Beach police officers waited for the right time to pounce.

by Anonymousreply 40404/17/2019

Exactly! ^^

The ruling had to do with the fact that female cops weren’t actively seducing straight men and expressing interest in making out with them somewhere public but hidden from witnesses (o which believe me a lot of straight men would have agreed to do), whereas they were doing exactly that with gay men.

Hence, pure discrimination.

by Anonymousreply 40504/18/2019

In order to crack down on this sort of activity, they should replace the traditional stall doors, with doors like you'd find at the entrance to a western saloon.

by Anonymousreply 40604/18/2019

That would increase activity, r406, as it would make it really easy to cruise, peek, show hard-on, etc. The less partitions there are, the less stalk foors there are, the better for cruising!

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In 1998 I stood at a urinal while jerking off next to a uniformed policeman who was also jerking off.

Neither of us looked directly at the other and we just saw each other through the corner of our eye. We both came then he zipped up and left. Neither of us spoke.

This was in Chattanooga, TN at a Starvin' Marvin's.

by Anonymousreply 40804/18/2019

I was in a men's room in an office building and saw a FedEx delivery guy whacking off into a urinal. The weird part was that he wasn't really looking at anyone. I guess he just had to rub one out and didn't care who saw him.

by Anonymousreply 40904/18/2019

R407 What in hell's name is that?

If I went into a toilet and saw that, then I would come straight out.

by Anonymousreply 41004/18/2019

Really? I’d set up camp, tent and all.

by Anonymousreply 41104/18/2019

What if someone has to take an ACTUAL SHIT?

Do you want no stall doors or saloon doors?

Is gas and ass-wiping hot to you? Are you a fecal exhibitionist?

by Anonymousreply 41204/18/2019

R412 if someone is taking a shit u leave u til the smell goes away duh

by Anonymousreply 41304/18/2019

That all depends on how you feel about blumpkins, R413.

by Anonymousreply 41404/18/2019

Back in the 1970's Boston (so many colleges, so many horny college boys) offered dozens. BU, Northeastern, BC, Harvard, MIT. The old Boston State College (now the Mass College of Art) on Huntington Avenue near where I lived then was one of the best or, for some of you here, perhaps the worst. The school was pretty empty on the weekends but the bathrooms were not and at least one of the janitorial employees joined in the fun.

I walked into a restroom there once and saw a guy bent over getting an enema in an open stall with three or four people, oh, let's say, helping. And of course helping themselves. It was pretty blatant - nobody stopped because I'd walked in. No matter what the action was you could wank and watch or join in the fun.

And yes, R5, when coke was a thing I did see that on the floor of the (unisex by that point of the evening) restroom of the Cambridge Boat Club at a Harvard Medical School graduation party. Future doctor's wives kneeling down trying to, um, "retrieve" what they'd spilled on the cold, hard, but hardly dry, bathroom floor.

by Anonymousreply 41504/18/2019

Are there any mens rooms today with no doors on the stalls?

Yes, I'm willing to travel...

by Anonymousreply 41604/18/2019

See, I wouldn't be caught dead having open door washroom sex in a public men's room. Understall HJs, maybe... because no one would see my face. But other than that, nope.

Can't these people hold it over your head forever that you did this? It's one thing to hookup with someone....but to be That Guy who got pounded or pounded someone in a shitter?

Can't imagine anyone respecting you after that.

by Anonymousreply 41704/19/2019

I have a gross story about university library bathrooms but if I tell it I'll be accused of being the scat troll. Should I risk it?

by Anonymousreply 41804/19/2019

Oh go ahead - this is the thread for honesty.

R332 - what is an ABS?

by Anonymousreply 41904/19/2019

R419, an ABS stands for Adult Book Store. Though today they don’t usually sell books, the name stuck.

by Anonymousreply 42004/19/2019

Yes 418, please do. It's not as if things could get any worse.

by Anonymousreply 42104/19/2019

This week, I was waiting for friends for dinner and met them in their hotel lobby, so I dodged into the men's room for a few as I waited. Watched about 3 minutes of a very tall, handsome guy - athletic, touch of gray, nice suit and overcoat, in his forties - stroking a nice cock.

He splashed out a big load, too.

Will have to try that hotel again next time. I wanna take his load next time.

by Anonymousreply 42204/19/2019

r412, a "fecal exhibitionist" would be more usually identified in the DSM-V as a person suffering from coproscopophilia. There are whole subreddits devoted to this, now that it has become a recognized fetish community.

by Anonymousreply 42304/19/2019




by Anonymousreply 42404/21/2019





by Anonymousreply 42504/21/2019

The ghost of Ann Miller has invaded this thread.

by Anonymousreply 42604/22/2019

R425 Foot nudge

by Anonymousreply 42704/22/2019


Cock thrust understall.

by Anonymousreply 42804/22/2019

Old TW building @ JFK.

As a twink had 2 pilots and a flight attnedant take turns with me in a group......still get hard when I see an airline uniform

by Anonymousreply 42904/22/2019

Let's face the Chicken Gumbo and dance!

by Anonymousreply 43004/22/2019

Which building, r429? Did you mean the TWA building?

by Anonymousreply 43104/22/2019

Kneeling down to take R428 in my mouth.

by Anonymousreply 43204/22/2019

In 70s and 80s in the old library at Northwestern. Active men's room designed for cruising i.e. Marble partition upon entering.

Also in Music Admin building and journalism school basement.

A friend told me.

by Anonymousreply 43304/22/2019

[quote]Yes 418, please do. It's not as if things could get any worse.

Bobst Library, mid 80s, was a major cruise zone. Not for me, but I saw it happening all the time. One time I went into a stall to take a dump and there was a long ode posted on the wall. It said, in essence, something a little bit like this:

I was watching you in the library and you were so hot, and then you went into this stall. I came in and sat in the next stall as you had your BM. I could smell it as it degassed, floating there, and then you left. I went right into the stall and there it was, not flushed, a huge turd. I imagined it sliding forcefully out of your anus - I could hear you grunting as it came out, and this excited me. I stared at your massive turd for the longest time, and then I jerked off. I hope you sit here again and read this before they clean the walls.

I read that ... and shuddered.

by Anonymousreply 43404/22/2019

By the way, that ode ^^^ was not written to me. I was just a third party interloper, lol.

by Anonymousreply 43504/22/2019

[quote]Cock thrust understall.

Isn't that a cousin of Park Overall?

by Anonymousreply 43604/22/2019

In the mid ‘80s they referred to taking a shit as a “BM,” or are you misremembering?

by Anonymousreply 43704/22/2019

All this college tea room action is revolting.

I did my undergraduate major in the music school. We had lovely little practice rooms at our disposal, 24/7, and did not have to fuck in a goddamn dirty bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 43804/22/2019

Any yet, R438, you came to this thread, read 400 posts, and then because you felt guilty for some fucked up reason, made sure you expressed your judgmental disdain. Feel better, Precious?

by Anonymousreply 43904/22/2019

R434 Ew! (I know it wasn't you. But still....EW!)

by Anonymousreply 44004/22/2019

Miss R438, is your name Buck by chance?

by Anonymousreply 44104/22/2019

No, R439. Not because of some fucked-up reason, but because my heart was saddened by the thought of college students without access to cozy practice rooms in which they could fuck whenever the opportunity arose. The music school grads posting here all know the advantages of music practice rooms. It just seems so terribly wrong that the other majors paid their tuition, too, and all they got the fuck in was the bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 44204/22/2019

[quote]In the mid ‘80s they referred to taking a shit as a “BM,” or are you misremembering?

I didn't memorize it verbatim, for fuck's sake. I said it was something like this.

by Anonymousreply 44304/22/2019

Yes, "BM" is certainly not a new term. Don't you know any nurses?

by Anonymousreply 44404/22/2019

What is your point, dear?

by Anonymousreply 44504/22/2019

I was stationed in Norfolk VA about 16 years ago and we were duly warned about the oceanfront park restrooms off route 60 and at the Cape Henry Lighthouse, and the gross old trolls with military fetishes looking to do unspeakable things to young sailors and officers. I went running a few times in the State Park when the weather was decent and the guys I saw scuttling in and out of those bathrooms/driving slooooowwly alongside solo male hikers made Larry Craig look like Rick Perry. Come to think of it, the briefing officer seemed to know well whereof he spoke.

by Anonymousreply 44604/22/2019

I remember visiting some second cousin or something in California during a spring break where I had no money - a boring trip, some sad inland town, but we were at some suburban mall about twenty (or maybe more? thirty?) minutes away from Camp Pendleton.

It looked lame and dire but I went into the department store men's room there and in quick succession, three different guys, all clearly Marines, came in. I sucked one after the other.

Damn right I found a way to go back the next day! Landed some Latino dick that day.

by Anonymousreply 44704/22/2019

Another reason for me to avoid public restrooms besides good old germaphobia.

by Anonymousreply 44804/22/2019

[quote]I remember visiting some second cousin or something in California during a spring break where I had no money - a boring trip, some sad inland town, but we were at some suburban mall about twenty (or maybe more? thirty?) minutes away from Camp Pendleton.

It looked lame and dire but I went into the department store men's room there and in quick succession, three different guys, all clearly Marines, came in. I sucked one after the other....

Somewhere at the intersection of Gay and Military in the tangled maze of subreddits, a retired Marine is waxing nostalgic about the time a thirsty college boy blew him and 2 of his buddies in the third floor men's restroom at the Escondido Plaza Robinson's back in '83.

by Anonymousreply 44904/22/2019

R449, have him over and make him your famous macaroni salad. Just for old timey sakes....

by Anonymousreply 45004/23/2019

Just don't be so pitiful as to confuse it with real human intimacy:

Garth Greenwell on his debut novel: 'I've been cruising since I was 14'

What Belongs to You is a view of gay life far from the marriage-equality focused ‘PR vision’ – but even in public restrooms, he says, there’s warmth to be found

by Anonymousreply 45104/23/2019

R449 you made a mess of that post

by Anonymousreply 45204/23/2019

[quote] a retired Marine is waxing nostalgic about the time a thirsty college boy blew him and 2 of his buddies in the third floor men's restroom at the Escondido Plaza Robinson's back in '83.


by Anonymousreply 45304/23/2019


Firestone Library.

C Floor bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 45404/25/2019

You can't go anywhere outside your house now without being surveilled to your destination(s). Kinda takes away from the anonymity and even more cautious. It's good for a reason (catching criminals/accidents) but takes the fun out of it knowing you're constantly being watched. I enjoyed it while it lasted. I stopped a couple years ago because I got into my young 30s and can't dare to be made an example of on local tv or god forbid national news. Cause the media will BLOW IT UP.

by Anonymousreply 45504/25/2019

A video or photo of you walking into a bathroom proves nothing. And it’s illegal to have cameras in bathrooms, showers, saunas, and locker rooms.

Public parks, parking lots, and beach dunes... that’s something else. There may always be someone filming.

by Anonymousreply 45604/25/2019

[quote] I stopped a couple years ago because I got into my young 30s and can't dare to be made an example of on local tv or god forbid national news.

Well, smell HER!

by Anonymousreply 45704/25/2019

^Hmmph lol. Choosing places more carefully as R456 said (especially these days) was something I didn't care about when younger.

by Anonymousreply 45804/25/2019

The Big Brother police surveillance cameras EVERYWHERE these days make the Tea Room trade much too risky.

by Anonymousreply 45904/25/2019

It's not the police cameras that are the worry, really.

It's more the fact that everyone has a cell phone or Google Glass or something.

This dude was hot to see, but I think they had to install a secret cam to capture this and that's kinda scary to think about.

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by Anonymousreply 46004/25/2019

It's more like bored security, not actual police enforcement, and people making complaints about the restrooms in regular stores. Not clubs or what have you where thats to be expected gay or straight. For sure the dumbs ones get caught but that ruins it for the horny person who occasionally wants a random hookup in a public place with a complete stranger.

by Anonymousreply 46104/25/2019

That was staged, R460. The guy was standing a foot back from the urinal. Unless it's a gay man cruising, that does not happen.

And where did they hide the camera? No. No way.

by Anonymousreply 46204/25/2019

When you have a huge cock like that, I doubt you stand that CLOSE to a urinal unless you want backsplash.

by Anonymousreply 46304/25/2019

R460, fuck yea! I'd suck that ALL. DAY. LONG.

by Anonymousreply 46404/25/2019

Me too!

by Anonymousreply 46504/25/2019

The real me too movement

by Anonymousreply 46604/25/2019

More stories...

by Anonymousreply 46704/25/2019

I miss the guy I blew several times at my suburban JCP.

He was handsome although a bit nerdy. Sort of a live action Ned Flanders. Glasses and all. Nice body.

And a beautiful long dick.

We must have hooked up a dozen times there. I loved sucking him and loved feeling him cum in my mouth. Just the perfect fit - never gagged and never had any issues taking him.

by Anonymousreply 46804/26/2019

These stories are great. I hope this site is achieved, because social history like this just disappears and becomes forgotten.

We didn't have modern technology when we were young. For sexual encounters we had to become creative. This was against a political and legal backdrop that was not on our side.

Keep the stories coming in. This is a valuable social thread.

by Anonymousreply 46904/26/2019

The hours and hours I spent at Marshall Field's tearoom on State Street when I was supposed to be ditzing the giftware...

by Anonymousreply 47004/26/2019

Jussie will be blowing men for Dollarz at a local men's room in NYC/LA real soon!

by Anonymousreply 47104/26/2019

Jussie's hot, I'd gladly take a bj from him

by Anonymousreply 47204/26/2019

OP, what is this, 1987?

Seriously, no one does this anymore. At least not here in Seattle...

by Anonymousreply 47304/26/2019

R473 speaks for all of Seattle.


by Anonymousreply 47404/26/2019

There was a huge crackdown about 15 years ago in Seattle, approved by our then mayor, who is gay. But even before that, as tolerance increased, trips to the parks and public restrooms had already gone down. It's a fact. R474.

by Anonymousreply 47504/26/2019

Sure, Jan.

by Anonymousreply 47604/26/2019

There was an isolated restroom at the Atlantic Avenue subway station in Brooklyn, that had some insanely hot scenes is going on. The spot was so far off the beaten track that anyone there was there for the same thing. I can still picture one guys hard on that had a long string of pre-cum from the tip of his cock to another guy's mouth, that I still jerk off thinking about it decades later.

by Anonymousreply 47704/26/2019

There was sure a lot of action in the mens room at Grand Central Station back in the day. You were out of luck if you really had to pee

by Anonymousreply 47804/26/2019

It's our ORAL history

by Anonymousreply 47904/26/2019

Home Depot was the hottest. in my teens it was barnes and nobles, which I think are all gone?

by Anonymousreply 48004/26/2019

R480, Barnes and Noble is still around -- Borders is the bookstore chain that folded.

by Anonymousreply 48104/27/2019

It's interesting to hear US tales of in-store tea room action, over this side of The Pond cottaging takes place in public toilets and cruising in outdoor areas.

Why was in-store action more popular in the US?

by Anonymousreply 48204/27/2019

I fucked a hot muscle bottom at Barney’s Madison Ave store bathroom last week.

by Anonymousreply 48304/27/2019

R482 - very few places in the US have stand alone public toilets - aside from highway rest stops and public beach areas they are pretty hard to find - so stores, college buildings & some (usually porn) theaters predominate in these stories.

by Anonymousreply 48404/27/2019


What R484 said. I wish there were more random public toilets. Years ago I was in one in Toronto and it was mind-blowing how many hot men came in just to jack off.

But yeah, especially with the whole shift in America to the suburbs, it became a convenience provided in a store, and not a shared public thing.

by Anonymousreply 48504/27/2019

Ok, so where's the last place you messed around in public?

by Anonymousreply 48604/30/2019

Golden Gate Park last weekend.

by Anonymousreply 48704/30/2019

Where in the park, and what happened

by Anonymousreply 48804/30/2019

R488 needs to find her own jack off fodder

by Anonymousreply 48905/01/2019

r383, so sorry that happened to you. no high school aged boy should be arrested in that situation.

by Anonymousreply 49005/02/2019

R489, the thread is about stories, not merely places and dates

by Anonymousreply 49105/02/2019

are these activities common? I never see this shit in real life. Are most men bi or gay? it seems like every man is.

by Anonymousreply 49205/02/2019

Frau at r492, every man has done it, even your husband, sons, and your dad.

by Anonymousreply 49305/03/2019

R492, for 35 years in NYC, I was surrounded by out gay men, focused on careers and success. Only a few times in all those years was I ever hit on by married men. As I recall, those men were usually domiciled in the suburbs and on the downlow. When I found out they were married, I sent them on their way.

Then I retired to a mid-sized city, several hours from NYC. Online, at the baths, in the bars... married men trolling for cock are everywhere. The busiest time at the baths is Sunday afternoon. Note to Housefraus: If you're husband tells you on Sunday afternoon that he's going to Home Depot, GO WITH HIM. He's headed for the baths. Depend on it Your husband sucks cock.

by Anonymousreply 49405/03/2019

R492. I am thinking of retiring soon (also in NYC), where are you now living? Is it worth the trade off of NYC? Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 49505/03/2019

r492 here! r493 if these are common, why is there so much homophobia amongst men? I know VERY FEW women who have engaged in the Sapphic love lol. But it seems like a lot(most) of men do, and yet they hate gay guys.

by Anonymousreply 49605/03/2019

I think they believe that openly gay guys can't be trusted to keep the closet door closed on their down low partners...

by Anonymousreply 49705/03/2019

R496 because they think if you act like you hate gays no one will suspect you of being one!

by Anonymousreply 49805/03/2019

Jesus, r496, what r498 said is Closet 101.


by Anonymousreply 49905/03/2019

r496 here again. r498 r499 Yeah but its just about all men. Ill be honest as a 100% straight woman, I and most other women I know find lesbians kind of creepy and gross(no offense, but being with a woman...yikes!). But I don't hear women sitting around hating them and bragging about all the guys they've been with. But that's all I hear from guys. The guys in school were ALL homophobes and yet ALL were super gay to me. There was a forest near my house and the things I saw from "straight" guys was surprising to say the least.

by Anonymousreply 50005/03/2019

R499 — What R498 said is completely true. Ask any psychiatrist or psychologist.

by Anonymousreply 50105/03/2019

I know r501. That’s why I agreed with it.

Did you maybe reference the wrong post?

by Anonymousreply 50205/03/2019

Sorry, R499. I'd read your post as implying that R498 was closeted. Mea culpa.

by Anonymousreply 50305/03/2019

Mea culpa not necessary. It happens, especially with no tone to be heard in writing.

Thanks for clarifying, though.

by Anonymousreply 50405/03/2019

R500, what straight women find lesbians creepy and gross? Women are more likely to report having same sex fantasies than men and are more likely to have experimented with the same sex

by Anonymousreply 50505/04/2019

Was in a restroom the other day that I heard was cruisy, just out of curiosity. I was sitting in the stall, taking a crap and not looking for any action when I suddenly heard a walkie talkie go off for about a minute of loud chatter. The guy holding it - security guard - obviously must have come in to observe and had his cover blown. He didn't say a word into the device. When I left a good 15mins later, the door to the restroom had been wedged open.

Creepy. How guys come back to these places they know have a reputation as hookup spots, I'll never know. Security folks are woke to this shit and keeping a lookout. Not worth the risk.

by Anonymousreply 50605/04/2019

Maybe kissing and caressing, r505, but I doubt most women get hot over the idea of carpet munching.

Dicks are fun cause they hang out there waiting to be grabbed. I think most women want a dick to play with, except serious lesbians. They want the hole filled.

by Anonymousreply 50705/04/2019

r505 report is the key word. As we said most men SAY they hate gays and "fag shit", But do gay things all the time. Women say they have gay experiences because its "hawt" and "chic", plus all the "girl power" and Instagram influencer crap. Girls kiss for attention, Men do it behind closed doors.

by Anonymousreply 50805/04/2019

r508, these are anonymous surveys, taken in private. What does that have to do with wanting to appear chic or hawt? Other studies show women get more aroused looking at pictures of naked women than pictures of naked men.

by Anonymousreply 50905/04/2019

Oi! Stay on topic straight girl. Or start another thread.

by Anonymousreply 51005/04/2019

Straight women still want a big cock up in them, not to eat pussy

by Anonymousreply 51105/04/2019

Once again, clueless armchair psychologists ruin a perfectly filthy thread.

I'm going down to the gym again to try my luck.

by Anonymousreply 51205/07/2019

R494 is correct. Even though my online dating profile says "no married or partnered," about 3/4 of all the men who message me are in relationships. Most of those men are with women. They don't care what I say. If I have something they want (I'm a top), they are relentless.

by Anonymousreply 51305/07/2019

A young Mike Pence down on the farm in Indiana

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by Anonymousreply 51405/07/2019

Block the homophobic straight troll.

by Anonymousreply 51505/08/2019

I remember the old B Altman's Dept Store hiring an off duty cop to patrol the store, the restrooms, turns out he was the biggest cocksucker in the place. I had plenty of good times with him., both in the store and at my home, and yes, he was married.

by Anonymousreply 51605/08/2019

A security guard at the Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam sucked me off.

by Anonymousreply 51705/08/2019

Security guard at the mall for me.

by Anonymousreply 51805/08/2019

Did anyone ever suck off Paul Blart?

by Anonymousreply 51905/08/2019


by Anonymousreply 52005/08/2019

I got sucked off by security guard in a JCPenney's men's room in Gadsden Alabama. He had keys to the bathroom and locked it after we went in so we wouldn't be interrupted.

I remember thinking he has the best job in the whole world.

by Anonymousreply 52105/08/2019

This thread has taken an interesting turn, I was never lucky enough to fool around with staff but i know friends who have

by Anonymousreply 52205/08/2019

I swim laps at the community pool and one of the lifeguards sucks me off in a hidden bathroom after I’m done, 2-3 times a week. He’s 21, I’m 33.

by Anonymousreply 52305/08/2019

Mas, por favor!

by Anonymousreply 52405/10/2019

I wish sites like CFS hadn't come along. I think more than anything that ruined the whole cruising thing.

BJs were lower risk than fucking, which is what shut bathhouses down, but once everyone and their father could find that info online, those spots all went away.

by Anonymousreply 52505/10/2019

A few weeks ago I got fucked in the bathroom stall at the gym. Started out as a shower show, moved to the sauna where there were too many guys, so we went to the large stall on the end. We could hear guys using the urinals and they could for sure hear us, so it was quick, neither of us came. He had the Mormon look, late 30’s. Haven’t seen him since.

by Anonymousreply 52605/10/2019

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome?

by Anonymousreply 52705/10/2019

I completely disagree, r525. Plus, they didn’t go away with the introduction of those sites, they kind of faded with the proliferation of smartphones and apps.

Even in another state, you knew where the cruising areas were that you wouldn’t have known about at all were it not posted somewhere. I recently went to another state and used both of those sites to find the local spots and wound up hooking up a lot. Hell, I even found some in my home area that I had no idea even existed, and most are still going strong.

by Anonymousreply 52805/10/2019

Agree R528 - If it wasn't for, I wouldn't have gotten so much cock right in my office building.

by Anonymousreply 52905/10/2019

R528, when you say both of those sites do you mean cruising for sex and squirt?

by Anonymousreply 53005/10/2019

Yes, r530.

by Anonymousreply 53105/10/2019

Does Squirt even exist anymore?

by Anonymousreply 53205/11/2019

It keeps 'em cummng

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by Anonymousreply 53305/11/2019

Try again.

by Anonymousreply 53405/11/2019

R532 Yes, squirt still exists. I think that's where most of the married guys from Craigslist migrated to in my area.

by Anonymousreply 53505/12/2019

My then boyfriend and I went to adult swim classes years ago and they were held at like 9pm at night here in the UK on the south coast. It was a cold February evening and we were the only people there.

Because it was a cold night we didn't swim for too long, only 20 minutes, so we got out of the pool and showered. Well we got really horny and my boyfriend wanted me to fuck him.

The men's changing room was set out like a huge tea room with massive stalls to change in, so that we couldn't be watched, and if any of the doors opened, we could hear but not be seen. Well I must have fucked him in there for a good 15 mins, because we heard the door to the changing room open and one of the lifeguards shout in that they were closing in 10 mins and we were to 'finish up'. As we left, the lifeguard gave us a knowing look as he said goodnight, so I guess he knew what we had been doing. Was one of the hottest sex scenes I've ever done.

by Anonymousreply 53605/12/2019

Trying again

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by Anonymousreply 53705/12/2019

Give it up R537

by Anonymousreply 53805/12/2019

.org! It's a non-profit! Lovely. Finally a tax-exempt organization that helps me.

by Anonymousreply 53905/12/2019

R536 But was the lifeguard hot?

by Anonymousreply 54005/12/2019

[quote]at like 9pm at night here in the UK

Well I guess it beats those 9pm in the morning classes. They’re brutal.

by Anonymousreply 54105/12/2019

It's not always fun and games.

Sometimes the dick is just....wrong.

Yeah, sometimes it really is. 

We've all been there.

by Anonymousreply 54205/12/2019

It's just wong, shockingly wong...

by Anonymousreply 54305/12/2019


by Anonymousreply 54405/15/2019

"Ever tapped your foot? Tried some understall action? Or maybe put on a show at the urinals?"

What is this, 1989?

by Anonymousreply 54505/15/2019

R545 It still happens.

by Anonymousreply 54605/16/2019

I can barely even stand the smell of a public bathroom that horrible urinal cake smell makes me nauseous.

by Anonymousreply 54705/17/2019

R540 I can't remember. I was so into my boyfriend at the pool. It was great sex. It was electric.

by Anonymousreply 54805/17/2019

R529 How does it work in your office building? What's the set up like?

by Anonymousreply 54905/20/2019

Was in the John at the mall and took a stall almost at the end of the row. There was a large pair of white Nikes in the next stall and sure enough, after a few minutes, I could clearly hear the fap fap fapping. The shoes twitched, there was a loud sigh, tons of toilet paper being used and then the guy left. I finished my business and left shortly after...while washing my hands, I noticed this tall teen in sweats over at the dryer. He glanced up at me nervously a few times, almost to see if I knew what he'd done. It was pretty obvious. His face was all flushed.

Wonder what would have happened if I'd tapped my foot earlier.

by Anonymousreply 55005/26/2019

Did anyone did any action at the magic kingdom?

by Anonymousreply 55105/26/2019

I've heard that during the 90s the employee restrooms -- not open to the public -- at the Magic Kingdom and the ones at Epcot both had insane amounts of man-on-man action going on

by Anonymousreply 55205/26/2019

Not a good idea at Disney--Nothing happens in the theme park bathrooms. The best spots at Disney are men's rooms in the conference centers or fitness centers. Hot married dads on vacation that need a release....or guys traveling alone and attending conventions.

by Anonymousreply 55305/27/2019

R549. Not sure how his office building is set up, but I work in an office tower with a public food court on the lower levels. There area couple sets of men's rooms with three urinals each. Always a great place for cock watching or some quick j/o play. Busiest in the morning before work and lunch time, but sometimes it's quiet enough to play was the lunch hour wanes or after 5. If a guy is there after 5, he's pretty much looking. They key is not to make it so obvious that it draws attention to the rest room--I only go in once during lunch and stop on the way home. You can't have guys loitering around.

by Anonymousreply 55405/27/2019

I worked at WDW in the 1990s and I do not believe there was any action at any employee restrooms at Epcot. If there had been, it would have been shut down right away. However, there were rumors about the men's locker rooms at Magic Kingdom. I never saw any first hand evidence.

by Anonymousreply 55505/27/2019

r555 I heard more than rumors about the MK Locker Rooms (and the overnight rooms in the Haunted Mansion, but those are for another thread)

by Anonymousreply 55605/27/2019

There are overnight rooms in the Haunted Mansion?

by Anonymousreply 55705/27/2019

I was wondering that, too, r557, and thinking “haunted mansion? Fuck that!” LOL

by Anonymousreply 55805/28/2019

R556 Link us to your other thread on the overnight rooms. I'm a big fan of all things Disney and would love to stay overnight there.

R549 Have there been any busts?

by Anonymousreply 55905/28/2019

Speaking of busts, is it weird that I've gone from being really grossed out by public bathrooms to turned on by the sound of listening to some random guy push a log out of his ass? The straining, the sighing and the grunting always sounds sexual to me now...and so, I bust.

Not saying I like the smells though....

by Anonymousreply 56005/28/2019

And what's with the guys mourning when they take a piss? They sound like they are getting a blow job.

by Anonymousreply 56105/28/2019

[quote]And what's with the guys mourning when they take a piss?

Maybe they’re sad there’s no one at the other urinal?

by Anonymousreply 56205/28/2019

A funeral for a urinal?

by Anonymousreply 56305/28/2019

Well I’m not giving the urology, that’s for sure.

by Anonymousreply 56405/28/2019

You guys are hilarious LOL

by Anonymousreply 56505/29/2019


by Anonymousreply 56605/30/2019

Looks like Russell Tovey's been reading this thread

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by Anonymousreply 56705/30/2019

Congressbottom Schock loves to suck cock at the Peoria bus station.

by Anonymousreply 56805/31/2019

Was at the mall and the guy in the next stall gave me the tap... but his feet were so tiny I wasn't sure he was of age or what. I don't think it was a child but I didn't know if he was legal. His taps were exaggerated and slow so I know he was signalling me. He hung around for a looooong while and tapped a couple of times. I passed. think underage/barely legal guys would know about the tapping thing?

by Anonymousreply 56906/01/2019

I got four loads at the ala moana hotel second floor public mens room today.

by Anonymousreply 57006/01/2019

[quote]you think underage/barely legal guys would know about the tapping thing?

Back when I was that age, no, but with today’s internet, it wouldn’t surprise me if they knew, too.

by Anonymousreply 57106/01/2019

R571 if a guy comes in and goes to the stall right next to you even though there are 3-4 open ones you should know what he wants.

by Anonymousreply 57206/01/2019

I know, r572. Trust me, I know. Been cruising since the late ‘80s.

by Anonymousreply 57306/01/2019

But what about diseases? And how do you know if the other person is “ready” or clean?

And what about decorum? How can you willingly leave body fluids around for someone else to clean up? Why not just go somewhere more private?

by Anonymousreply 57406/02/2019

R574, let me see if I can answer some of these:

Diseases: What makes the location of the hookup any more risky for diseases? The same guy in the bathroom could be the same guy you’re about to meet on Grindr, or the local bar.

If the person is “ready”: For the most part, and from my experience, it’s mostly just oral and j/o in places like this. Quick, easy, reasonable recovery if someone walks in. I have never engaged in anal in a bathroom, nor seen anyone else.

I’ve also never seen bodily fluids “left” anywhere. They either go in the urinal/toilet, down someone’s throat or, yes, we clean it up. Cleaning it up is not only done for decorum, but why would you leave anything around that would indicate to, say, security or store management that there’s activity?

by Anonymousreply 57506/03/2019

Aren't you worried about ending up on a list for public lewdness or something?

by Anonymousreply 57606/03/2019

Blowing a guy right after he shat and only used toilet paper to clean and hasn’t washed his hands (sink is outside stall, if it even has soap). Hasn’t showered.


by Anonymousreply 57706/03/2019

R575, but blowing cock after anonymous cock? You never see who it is through the hole or have a conversation about disease? What about herpes? And now there’s drug resistant stds...sounds very risky.

by Anonymousreply 57806/03/2019

Public bathrooms aren't very sexy places.

by Anonymousreply 57906/03/2019

r579, says who?

by Anonymousreply 58006/03/2019

[quote]but blowing cock after anonymous cock?

Exactly how long do you think people stay in there?!

[quote]You never see who it is through the hole or have a conversation about disease? What about herpes? And now there’s drug resistant stds...sounds very risky.

What hole? A conversation about disease? Sounds sexy!

You can have all the conversations about disease you want with your hookups. Do you believe them? Have you ever had sex? Yes, sex can be risky.

by Anonymousreply 58106/03/2019

R578, guys looking to get blown don't often take a shit first

by Anonymousreply 58206/03/2019

They pee only then stick around a bit and see whats up.

by Anonymousreply 58306/03/2019

Sometimes while taking a shit, they get hard and start to jerk it....and then what?

Been in that situation. The guy in the next stall is jerking loudly...but we both just took a dump. Awkward.

by Anonymousreply 58406/03/2019

I'm starting to pick up on the cruising spots in my area. This one bathroom gets some action..

When using this one stall, I've twice now had a random guy literally open the door and try to come in. The latch on the door isnt good clearly....but come on - if a door is closed, you know someone is in there right? I'd never even try a door that's closed.

The first time, it was this husky Middle Eastern guy who smiled and apologized once he saw me sitting there....the second it was this younger dude, probably 30, who didn't say anything.... probably just wanted a peek.

I kind of like the "oops - I didn't mean to walk in on you" tactic.

by Anonymousreply 58506/06/2019

r74, what is the name of the Philadelphia bar?

by Anonymousreply 58606/06/2019

Who even goes to malls anymore???

by Anonymousreply 58706/17/2019

SEX IS DIRTY BUT BATHROOM SEX IS [bold]FILTHY!!!!!!!!![/bold] Mother would be FURIOUS with us!

by Anonymousreply 58806/17/2019

Calm down Norman.

by Anonymousreply 58906/20/2019

[quote]Public bathrooms aren't very sexy places.

I would think this would appeal to prisspot Dataloungers.

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by Anonymousreply 59006/20/2019

O'Hare is supposed to have some cruisy bathrooms, but I just passed through there and nada.

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by Anonymousreply 59206/27/2019

R591, I noticed that the urinals don’t have dividers, so there is that.

by Anonymousreply 59306/27/2019

The smell of urinal cakes and stale piss is not a turn on for me.

by Anonymousreply 59406/27/2019

mind your manners

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by Anonymousreply 59506/27/2019

I think it is simply divooon, r590!

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by Anonymousreply 59606/27/2019

Someone with photoshop skills needs to create a photo of Miss Lindsey's face on Melania's body.

by Anonymousreply 59706/27/2019

Yeah, but not here R597 - Let's keep him and the fun that is cruising for sex separate.

by Anonymousreply 59806/27/2019

Link to part 2 when this one fills

Public Bathroom Stories, continued

Continued from part 1. Keep 'em cumming!

by Anonymousreply 59906/27/2019

Any time now…

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