Colton Haynes went through a downward spiral into drug use after divorce
Colton Haynes Gets Candid About His Drug Addiction, Divorce, & Ending Up Hospitalized
Colton Haynes is on one of the covers of Attitude‘s 25th anniversary issue.
Here’s what the 30-year-old actor had to share with the mag…
On his downward spiral amid his divorce from Jeff Leatham and his mother’s tragic passing: “I came out and, in a way, my downward spiral started. I felt extremely free but at the same time the amount of attention I was getting was making me spin out of control. I got married and that didn’t work out. That was extremely public and heart-breaking, and right when that was going on, my mom died. That was only a year ago. At that point, I fell apart. My brain broke. I was doing this massive comedy for a studio, showed up to work and got fired on the first day. They said I looked as if I had ‘dead in my eyes’ — and I did. I think it was the best decision in the world to fire me. I got so heavily involved with drugs and alcohol to mask the pain I was feeling that I couldn’t even make some decisions for myself. I was drowning in my own sh*t.”
On how his drug taking and drinking ended in hospitalization: “I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body. It looked as if somebody had beaten the sh*t out of me. I couldn’t walk, so I was falling everywhere. I almost ruptured my kidney, ended up in the hospital, ended up on 5150 [a temporary and involuntary] psyche hold. I was on such a destructive path that I could not function.”
Ongoing to rehab and being sober: “I was in treatment for four months. I came out six months ago. It’s just a different life now. It’s the best gift I’ve ever been given. I was ready to try to live an authentic life because most of my life was so f*cking fake. I loved to blame other people, and other situations, until I started dealing with the fact that I was the root of all these problems… It’s like this rebirth. I now feel things, which is something I’d not done for a decade. I was numb.”
|by Anonymous||reply 290||Last Friday at 10:01 PM|
What was the gig from which he got fired?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||03/28/2019|
what kind of drugs was he known to use? coke? meth? heroin?
and if he was doing a "big comedy movie" he's dumb for fucking up that check. He's not young actor anymore. In hollywood years he's middle aged plus he's gay so there aren't as many roles as for the privileged straight white male actors
|by Anonymous||reply 2||03/28/2019|
Why did this need a separate thread?
|by Anonymous||reply 3||03/28/2019|
I don't know but how did he shot the arrow? He was released in September from Psych Ward. And why Berlanti signed him in such condition?
|by Anonymous||reply 4||03/28/2019|
I admittedly haven't been following him as closely as some do on here. But hasn't he been on Instagram nonstop? You can do that in rehab?
|by Anonymous||reply 5||03/28/2019|
He's really quite pathetic, isn't he.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||03/28/2019|
What a sad story. I wish the best for him.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||03/28/2019|
That twat will do ANYTHING for attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||03/28/2019|
Drugs are supposed to make you thin.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||03/28/2019|
Not surprised. He looked very fat and bloated for a while.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||03/28/2019|
And the part about the EXTREMELY PUBLIC break up?
Whose fault is that, dear? Some people don't feel the need to "share" their every bowel movement.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||03/28/2019|
He got fat during the marriage.
He literally posted video of himself lying in bed eating multiple Egg McMuffins while his husband was in the background, futilely hinting that he should ambulate.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||03/28/2019|
you would think stunning looks and a fairly succesful run in hollywood would be enuf to boost up his self esteem. So what if his relationship didnt work out? You learn and move on. I hope he has learned to maybe go slower in the next relationship and not rush it. He is something of a mess, hopefully less so now, but I have my doubts.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||03/28/2019|
[quote] I admittedly haven't been following him as closely as some do on here. But hasn't he been on Instagram nonstop? You can do that in rehab?
Yeah. Something is fishy. He's never been off social media more than 4 or 5 days consecutively. Is Colton making sh*t up for attention and sympathy?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||03/28/2019|
[Quote]And why Berlanti signed him in such condition?
Because what someone in that position needs is a job, they need structure. If they sit at home all day they aren't going to stay sober.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||03/28/2019|
R14 fame does not nullify insecurities and lack of self-esteem. In fact, the majority of celebrities are wildly insecure and always chase after public approval, even if they claim they don't care.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||03/28/2019|
Well, it's Hollywood. There's always someone else with stunning looks, who's younger and "hotter" in a flavor of the month way.
Colton was with Jerreth for at least three years, and with Podwall for six. The mess with Jeff is actually the exception. The Podwall relationship broke him, I think.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||03/28/2019|
I only follow Colton via DL. But someone regularly linked to him posting throwback pics. It was thought that he was filling up his feed with old pics to deflect from current fatdom, but perhaps it was also to cover for absence brought about by his rehab stay.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||03/28/2019|
And why exactly did we need to hear this? Because “if it helps just one person...” Gag me.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||03/28/2019|
[quote]I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body. It looked as if somebody had beaten the sh*t out of me. I couldn’t walk, so I was falling everywhere. I almost ruptured my kidney, ended up in the hospital, ended up on 5150 [a temporary and involuntary] psyche hold. I was on such a destructive path that I could not function.
Well it should be easy to pinpoint when this was. When did he actually go an entire week without posting on social media?
|by Anonymous||reply 21||03/28/2019|
I feel badly for him. Having an addiction is NOT fun.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||03/28/2019|
You can pre-set social media posts. Didn't Joan River tweet after she died? Colton could have set up his posts for the week and then gone on a bender.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||03/28/2019|
So no rumors, gossips or blind items at all while all that is happening?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||03/28/2019|
I guess he was dancing on his own.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||03/28/2019|
There are “people” to post on social media. Especially when the principal is on an involuntary psych hold.
I hope he correct that he’s reformed. Those nipples deserve some happiness.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||03/28/2019|
[Quote]So no rumors, gossips or blind items at all while all that is happening?
Nope, there was never anything about him secretly being in rehab. DL did not gave this gossip nor did anyone else.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||03/28/2019|
Oh Colton Haynes we love you get up.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||03/28/2019|
He did blackface several years ago
stupid white trash
but I hope he stays clean
|by Anonymous||reply 31||03/28/2019|
[Quote] He did blackface several years ago FUCK HIM stupid white trash
As you said that was [italic]several[/italic] years ago. Let it go.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||03/28/2019|
He has stupidity to blame! Who marries a florist?
|by Anonymous||reply 34||03/28/2019|
[quote] I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body.
I love the innocent name-dropping while telling of his most abject moment!
|by Anonymous||reply 35||03/28/2019|
R34 what's wrong with marrying a florist??
|by Anonymous||reply 36||03/28/2019|
The mouth breathing and below average IQ doesn’t help.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||03/28/2019|
He needs a circumcision. That smegma build up is spreading toxins to his brain.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||03/28/2019|
[quote]what's wrong with marrying a florist??
Nothing. Esp. when he looks like the one he lost.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||03/29/2019|
A florist making money by the buckets. Colto is done.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||03/29/2019|
Stephen Amell fucked him back into shape.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||03/29/2019|
R42 lol yes in your dreams.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||03/29/2019|
Ultra-privileged white gentile male uses drugs and expects us to feel sorry for him because he’s gay. In other news, it’s a day that ends in Y.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||03/29/2019|
What Matt Anser is doing n Colton thread?
|by Anonymous||reply 46||03/29/2019|
r35 Doesn't say great things about the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills (™) housekeeping either. You'd think a Do Not Disturb sign would have expired before that. My guess it was a Motel Six on some desert road, and Suzzy found him when she finally went to re-grout the shower.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||03/29/2019|
So is he with his husband or not? They were planning a baby at the time of marriage. Thank God that didn't happen,
|by Anonymous||reply 48||03/29/2019|
R48 I think they're still divorcing. But want to remain friends.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||03/29/2019|
It is amazing that no gossip got out about his addiction. And he was continually posting to Instagram. Weird and suspicious.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||03/29/2019|
He seems like that impulsive nut job we all know that changes their entire personality and belief system every 6 months. Hopefully he’s in therapy too.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||03/29/2019|
Is the Colton the white Jussie Smollett? Is that 5150 hold a matter of publoc record?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||03/29/2019|
Agreed post 50. Something is fishy. This screams of attention seeking now that Arrow is over. He never left Instagram and nobody heard or witnessed bizarre behavior. Shouldn’t someone in weho have a story of a drunk drug addicted Colton?
|by Anonymous||reply 53||03/29/2019|
Is this the new Colton thread? The new search function is shit. I put his name in quotes and it STILL didn't find this thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||03/29/2019|
It should be the new thread. This is the juiciest tidbit since the divorce. Ideally it will put a nice little bow around the “messy” chapter of his life and he can now move on like an adult who makes responsible decisions and is professional and work-focused. Or not.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||03/29/2019|
Extremely humbled to be on the 25th Anniversary cover of @attitudemag . Have to admit I was really nervous to open up about my struggles in the past. I hope those who are also struggling know that they aren’t alone & there’s nothing wrong with seeking help.❤️
|by Anonymous||reply 57||03/30/2019|
Colto seemed his happiest when at Camp Podwall with pals Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||03/30/2019|
[quote] 25th Anniversary cover of @attitudemag
Well that explains why he suddenly decided to tell the world about his week long bender at the Beverley Hills Waldorf Astoria.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||03/30/2019|
[Quote] Colto seemed his happiest when at Camp Podwall with pals Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.
I'm sure a lot of it was smoke and mirrors.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||03/30/2019|
Is Haynes also pals with Michael Spound? I always found him cute. Maybe they fooled around?
|by Anonymous||reply 61||03/30/2019|
[quote]there’s nothing wrong with seeking help.❤️
Problem is that Colton, you have been seeking for past 15 years or so
|by Anonymous||reply 62||03/30/2019|
[Quote] you have been seeking for past 15 years or so
For drugs and alcohol?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||03/30/2019|
No help. Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party
|by Anonymous||reply 64||03/30/2019|
[Quote] Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party
A 5150 is a bit more than a cry for help.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||03/30/2019|
It looks like Colton could be getting back into modeling again because he did a cover shoot for Advocate Magazine with two girls I didn’t recognize. I don’t think there’s an article or Interview included in this one. I definitely think he was in rehab, not sure it was for 4 months but he was spotted at the rehab facility in Arizona a few times back then. It’s been interesting though because every time somebody tweets that they’ve seen Colton or posts a picture with him, the picture is either deleted or the person goes private on Twitter. Somebody has definitely been monitoring Colton’s social media for awhile now. The pictures over New Years, etc I’m guessing must have been from rehab and those people we didn’t recognize must have been there with him. Some things about that article are a little off to me and I’m still not convinced he’s actually getting a divorce either. There seems to be a lot of underlying reasons for that article although I’m not really sure what but the timelines don’t really match up with what he’s claiming. I am proud of Colton though for facing his demons because addiction is horrible and very scary and it sounds like he’s been keeping lots of secrets for a really long time!
|by Anonymous||reply 67||03/31/2019|
What R45 said. Oh, boo hoo. 🙄
|by Anonymous||reply 68||03/31/2019|
His profile shows he didn't post from middle of April to beginning of june. Hard to say though bc he likes to delete photos. Definitely not 4 months...possibly part was inpatient and the rest was outpatient therapy. Depending on the drug losing weight may not be a side effect. My guess is pills and alot of booze...he was really swollen..hands , feet in alot of pictures friends posted that he didn't have access to Photoshop. I don't believe he's lying, that post about picking his mom's ashes up screamed he needed help, shortly after that he was off IG for awhile.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||04/01/2019|
Not sure if it’s legitimate or an April fools joke but Colton posted on his IG story that he’s going on tour with “his bud” J Balvin this summer. Not sure in what capacity he’s doing that because he’s not a performer???
|by Anonymous||reply 70||04/01/2019|
His addiction to eyebrow tweezing is the most disturbing.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||04/01/2019|
R70 Ah, just what every recovering addict needs, to go on tour!
|by Anonymous||reply 72||04/01/2019|
IF you do a lot of coke you can actually get fat - it kill your appetite and speeds up your metabolism but also fucks it up. If you binge for days you end up eventually going into a deep sleep and waking up hungry as hell and only simple carbs can fill that void. That and if you try to even out it is usually with Booze so you are consuming empty calories. Lovingly known as coke bloat.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||04/02/2019|
[quote]No help. Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party
Right and how lonely he is when he's constantly on Instagram surrounded by friends.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||04/02/2019|
[QUOTE]Remember him as he was.
Colton was the hottest twink. I would’ve risked jail time for a piece of his ass in high school.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||04/02/2019|
Gee, you know a lot about coke, R75.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||04/02/2019|
r78 Yes, I used to use it heavily so I can tell you everything you want to know.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||04/02/2019|
[quote][R78] Yes, I used to use it heavily so I can tell you everything you want to know.
Do you think it appeals to the more introverted, somnolent kind of person?
I ask because I'm a more extravert and speedy type personality and it never really worked for me.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||04/02/2019|
It amps you up, kills your appetite, you are talkative, more outgoing etc but it does not mood altering. I know people who c ould do a bump or two and be fine, me? It's a mental focus thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||04/02/2019|
[Quote] Right and how lonely he is when he's constantly on Instagram surrounded by friends.
You know you can still feel lonely even if you're always surrounded by friends/family?
|by Anonymous||reply 82||04/02/2019|
Cotton! Cotton! The Egg McMuffin Man!
|by Anonymous||reply 83||04/02/2019|
There’s no problem with marrying a florist if you’re a basic gay.
But if you’re one of the most famous, gorgeous gay men in the worl with a successful career in Hollywood, you marry a mogul!!
Colton should be with Jann Werner, Calvin Klein or Steve Cook WTF
And Leatham isn’t good-looking. He may have a big dick and a body that’s not fat, but he’s hardly in Colton’s league.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||04/02/2019|
Colto needs a man who will be there for him when he really needs it.
A man who will talk him through a deep depression when Colto misses catching that wild Bulbasaur.
A man who will hold his hand as Colto sits on the loo desperately trying to pass a hardened turd from McDonald's induced constipation.
A man who will look past Colto's dirty hole and see his prostrate for the prize it truly is.
Is that man Jeff?
|by Anonymous||reply 85||04/02/2019|
Jeff is a handsome older guy who seems to have his shit together. He seems like a catch and he has a good body and even better if he has a big dick and knows how to use it. If he has the patience to put up with cuckoo Colton that says a lot about his maturity or...his stupidity?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||04/02/2019|
Does Jeff even have a new boyfriend yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 87||04/02/2019|
I honestly think the divorce is off again. Every pic I see of jeff he's positioning his ring hand so u can't see it. He commented on a pic that Lisa rinna posted saying "loves" with hearts and googly eyes. We both follow an author who posts quotes and every single one that he likes talks about never leaving or giving up and his life begins and ends with u. The valentines flowers that were huge...nothing about how he acts says divorce.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||04/02/2019|
Then Jeff can’t be the “wise older guy with money and a big dick and everything together” if he’s failing to move on from Colton. That guy would’ve swept this relationship aside and gotten a new boo by now.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||04/02/2019|
It'd be hilarious if Jeff started dating Colto's main rival... Gary Oak!
|by Anonymous||reply 90||04/02/2019|
I don't doubt they love eachother. He admitted they rushed things and being so present with the relationship online was a big issue for them. If Jeff only knows fun loving drinking all the time Colton he may not like the sober version of him. So many couples divorce after one becomes sober. It's smart they are putting no pressure on eachother to reconcile or make it known they are together.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||04/02/2019|
[quote]I felt extremely free but at the same time the amount of attention I was getting was making me spin out of control.
Oh my sides!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 94||04/02/2019|
[Quote] A man who will talk him through a deep depression when Colto misses catching that wild Bulbasaur.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||04/02/2019|
I think they’re wanting everybody to believe that they’re getting a divorce which is very smart because Colton said they were trying to be that Instagram couple and he wished they weren’t so public about everything. It sounds like it was a huge problem in their marriage and I have seen Jeff with his wedding rings at least 3 times now. I hope with them keeping everything private now they will be able to save their marriage because I think Jeff is an amazing man and a great husband and friend to Colton.
|by Anonymous||reply 96||04/02/2019|
 in person or in pictures? He is definitely hiding his hands in photos so i wouldnt be suprised if he had them on.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||04/03/2019|
[R70] it's an April Fools joke.......
|by Anonymous||reply 98||04/03/2019|
Colto is re-staging Madonna's "Girlie Show" Tour with himself in the lead!
|by Anonymous||reply 99||04/03/2019|
I have the best job in the world 🤗 #Arrow
|by Anonymous||reply 100||04/03/2019|
In the vid with Oprah you can see the ring and also in his IG story (intersectnyc)
|by Anonymous||reply 101||04/03/2019|
R91 looks like father and son. 👴🏻🧑🏼 Gross! 🥴🤢🤮
|by Anonymous||reply 102||04/03/2019|
I’m sure they roleplay it all the time.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||04/03/2019|
I beg yu all to stop posting pix of his fug wug mug face....
it triggers me into a spasm fit of how one person can look so poorly.
please stop the fug.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||04/03/2019|
"look so poorly"
Grammar is not your friend. What an awkward archaic phrasing.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||04/03/2019|
Wow!! Jeff is definitely hiding his left hand in pretty much everything I’ve seen!!! That’s interesting!!! 🤔🤔🤔
|by Anonymous||reply 107||04/03/2019|
Always! It's so obvious...
|by Anonymous||reply 108||04/03/2019|
Yeah or he has his hands in his pockets. Weird. So I wonder what’s up with that!?!
|by Anonymous||reply 109||04/03/2019|
R106 Colto looks good with some facial hair.
|by Anonymous||reply 110||04/03/2019|
For the official interviews he took his ring off 😉
|by Anonymous||reply 111||04/03/2019|
I BEG THEE TO STOP
PIX OF HIS VISAGE DRIVE ME INTO FITS BEYOND EPILEPSY.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||04/03/2019|
The second Jeff goes on a work trip...another meltdown
|by Anonymous||reply 113||04/04/2019|
Jeff isn't all that important to Colton (he seems more important to some posting in this thread... who should use their contacts to date Jeff and live happily ever after). The interview lays out that Colton's substance abuse is of long standing. Jeff's basically a bystander.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||04/04/2019|
Actually that couldn’t be further from the truth because if you read the Interview you’ll see the really wonderful things that Colton said about Jeff and their relationship. But one of the main things is that he wishes they weren’t so public and tried to become that Instagram couple because it was a huge problem and now they’re not putting any pressure on anything. That was just a small part of the Interview but there was a lot more. Very enlightening!
|by Anonymous||reply 115||04/04/2019|
I hope he and Jeff find happiness.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||04/04/2019|
[quote] I hope he and Jeff find happiness.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||04/04/2019|
I hope he finds a Primeape!
|by Anonymous||reply 119||04/04/2019|
R117 is that a bad thing?
|by Anonymous||reply 120||04/04/2019|
Who can take a bigger fist? Colton or Steve Grand??
|by Anonymous||reply 121||04/04/2019|
Colton's words about Jeff don't amount to a hill of beans. Both were in love with the idea of love & marriage. How much time did they spend together in total since Jeff cornered Colton in that airport? A piddling amount.
If Colton can't love himself etc.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||04/04/2019|
[Quote] If Colton can't love himself etc.
Which is something that can change. Hopefully that's something he's working on.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||04/05/2019|
FOR THE LOVE OF MADONNA, DONT POST PIX OF HIM, THE IMAGE OF HIS FACE MAKES ME HAVE DRY HEEVES ON THE FLOOR LIKE A FULL BLOWN SHITHEAD..
I BEG YE
|by Anonymous||reply 124||04/05/2019|
I just want Colton to be healthy and happy and it sounds like Jeff is an important part of that happening so I hope they are working on their marriage privately now. That Interview was very revealing and Colton has apparently gone through so much in his life and been keeping lots of secrets but not from Jeff because he knew about everything and still loved him and supported him and made Colton feel really special. He said that they share a very special love and you don’t find that often and that Jeff helped him find himself. Clearly Jeff is very good for Colton.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||04/05/2019|
[quote]“I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days
How Countess De Lave of her. She belongs on DL. Oh L’amour! L’amour!
|by Anonymous||reply 126||04/05/2019|
Wouldn’t be able to play old man Roy Harper without my amazing stunt double @adam_j_chase ! I’m a proud dialogue double 👏🏼 #Arrow
|by Anonymous||reply 127||04/05/2019|
What murder of crows have their feet on his face?
|by Anonymous||reply 128||04/05/2019|
R128 is this a serious question or.......?
|by Anonymous||reply 129||04/05/2019|
[quote]you would think stunning looks and a fairly succesful run in hollywood would be enuf to boost up his self esteem. So what if his relationship didnt work out? You learn and move on. I hope he has learned to maybe go slower in the next relationship and not rush it. He is something of a mess, hopefully less so now, but I have my doubts.
Because, and we've seen this multiple times with multiple celebrities and even non-celebrities, if you don't have a good foundation it doesn't matter how attractive or successful you are -- it will mess you up every time until you deal with those issues from your past.
[quote]His profile shows he didn't post from middle of April to beginning of june. Hard to say though bc he likes to delete photos. Definitely not 4 months...possibly part was inpatient and the rest was outpatient therapy.
It's also possible someone else was posting for him to keep that stay a secret.
|by Anonymous||reply 130||04/05/2019|
Maybe Connor Jessup could be a stabilizing influence in Colton's life.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||04/05/2019|
Aww!! I see you Colton and I’m very happy for you!! You look really healthy and happy!! Keep staying strong and fighting!!
|by Anonymous||reply 132||04/05/2019|
Word on the street is that Colto is having a very difficult week trying to get his Pikachu to learn Iron Tail!
|by Anonymous||reply 133||04/05/2019|
god dammit . another pic of the fug. do u realize I have to go to hospital whenever I see his vile face????
FOR LOVE OF CHER, STOP THE PIX OR MY HEALTH SHALL SUFFER EGREGIOUSLY SIRS.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||04/05/2019|
R133 what does that mean exactly?
|by Anonymous||reply 135||04/05/2019|
I’m really happy to see that Jeff and Colton are working on their marriage and not going through with the divorce. I think they’re perfect for each other and Colton looks really good and healthy. I hope he continues to stay clean and sober and communicate instead of shutting down or running away.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||04/06/2019|
god bless ye for no pix of satan colton today, my nerves are good.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||04/06/2019|
It could be that Jeff is only not divorcing Colton because of guilt. He knows that Colton isn't stable and a divorce would only make him more unstable again. There are many cases where one partner doesn't dare to leave the other just because they're afraid of what the other, unstable partner would do (starting to drink again, take drugs again, be suicidal etc). How Colton acted already from the beginning onwards in their partnership wasn't healthy and I don't think he will completely change now. I don't think that this will ever be a truly happy relationship for Jeff.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||04/06/2019|
No divorce because of guilt? Jeff is wearing his wedding ring. You can see it on his IG story. Wouldn't make sense to put his ring on again if it was only guilt.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||04/06/2019|
R140 Why wouldn't he wear his wedding ring if he's determined to stay married? He seems ready to try to make it work somehow. That doesn't mean that the main factor behind that motivation could be his fear of Colton's reaction if he abandonned him. He knows that Colton would react really badly if he left him so it could be that Jeff tells himself that he should give the marriage with Colton another try. I don't doubt that Jeff still has feelings for him and that he feels protective of Colton. But I don't know if it will ever be a healthy relationship
|by Anonymous||reply 141||04/06/2019|
Right. We can only wait and see. Wish the best for both.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||04/06/2019|
When a relationship has a crap foundation, how can it ever be healthy?
|by Anonymous||reply 143||04/06/2019|
[quote] Maybe Connor Jessup could be a stabilizing influence in Colton's life.
More like the opposite. Colton would turn poor Connor into a screwed up diseased riddled whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 144||04/06/2019|
Both Sinqua and Hoechlin are in Australia again. All that's missing is Colton.
|by Anonymous||reply 145||04/06/2019|
I agree with r139. Jeff is a decent man and doesn't want to leave Colton out to dry during one of hardest parts of his life. But Colton has to realize he is going through major changes in his life, and he will not be same person as when he met Jeff. Colton needs to start fresh now that he is exiting the rough patch. Holding on to Jeff is further complicating his healing process.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||04/06/2019|
colton alwys need be the victim, and have the sympathy cards and flowers and robes sent to her.
|by Anonymous||reply 147||04/06/2019|
Jeff is doing Savannah Chrisleys wedding. Todd said he’s so expensive.
So those mocking him being a florist, that florist has more money than you’ll ever know.
|by Anonymous||reply 149||04/06/2019|
I don't understand the "florist" put-downs. Especially since they're probably coming from queeny male cubefraus or shopbottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||04/06/2019|
They seem to be doing great and I’m really happy for them. I think Jeff is the perfect man for Colton and he is most definitely not staying with him out of guilt or anything even close to that. Jeff has never wanted the divorce and only ever done what he thought was best for Colton or what Colton said he wanted. Now that Colton has finally started dealing with the truth and no longer hiding or trying to push Jeff away, they might actually have a chance at an amazing life together.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||04/06/2019|
What do you expect! We know every good looking guy is googled over by males and females until we figure out whether they are gay or straight! Then we make him out to be something he is not. We love him then destroy him... How in the hell do these guys make it in this environment? We grind through body after body.... Looking forward to the next one???
|by Anonymous||reply 152||04/06/2019|
[quote]Now that Colton has finally started dealing with the truth
Well part of that truth should be that they married too fast. That Colton had to run away from his man instead of confiding his deepest struggles in him means they weren't ready to be husbands. Its easy to have an amazing life with someone when everything is going great. Its the other times that will determine whether your relationship can endure.
They both need to be for real. We only see the packaged for media or Instagram Colton. IRL Im sure he's a huge bitch at times, like most gay men can be. He already said he would tell anyone who suggested that he needs help to go fuck themselves. Im sure he told Jeff that too. Jeff is a man about his business who probably doesnt have time for that bullshit.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||04/06/2019|
R149 I applaud him for making bank. I just think its crazy that he has made that kind of bank as a florist.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||04/06/2019|
Let us revisit the super cringe-y and generic Cher video. Did she even know who or what she was doing it for?
Starts at 0:35
|by Anonymous||reply 155||04/06/2019|
[QUOTE]So those mocking him being a florist, that florist has more money than you’ll ever know.
Yeah but he’s still just a florist.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||04/06/2019|
What is “Just” a florist? It’s a career and he’s done well. At least he works.
You sound like a classist jerk.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||04/06/2019|
[quote]I just think its crazy that he has made that kind of bank as a florist.
Its really not that crazy. Im sure his income is close to most of the celebrity event planners, chefs, etc. He does good work.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||04/06/2019|
If you’ve followed Jeff for awhile like I have and seen all the Interviews, etc including the one with Cher where she talked about Jeff and how long they’ve been friends and how they planned the surprise engagement for Colton then you would understand about that video and how happy she was to make it for them. They’ve actually known each other for many years.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||04/06/2019|
According to Colton Jeff knew about everything he was going through from the beginning and he didn’t keep anything from him. Jeff was completely supportive and loving and never cheated on him or anything but Colton apparently took Jeff for granted and did a lot of damage to their marriage and hurt his friends too. He said he ruined a lot of things in his life because he didn’t understand his disease. I think Jeff and Colton can now work through this together since Colton is clean and sober and wanting to change things in his life and make it better. He doesn’t seem to be running away from the people who love him the most anymore and want to help him, mainly his husband!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 160||04/06/2019|
Well then why is it so shitty R159? She never says anyone's name, she mentions nothing remotely personal, no anecdotes, nothing about the occasion. You could play the exact same video at a baby shower, a graduation, pretty much any special occasion.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||04/06/2019|
Because that was only a little bit of the video and that message was directly for Jeff from Cher and the proposal was a big secret. Jeff obviously knew exactly what she was doing but Colton wasn’t supposed to. Colton was completely in the dark even after the video until Jeff got down on one knee and proposed and then the fireworks. According to Cher Jeff planned the whole thing and she was really happy for him.
|by Anonymous||reply 162||04/06/2019|
I don't believe anyone was seriously mocking Jeff being a florist.
We all realize that it is hard work posing petunias and displaying daffodils.
|by Anonymous||reply 163||04/07/2019|
Which makes me wonder if Colto has ever tried to catch a Bellsprout or Bellossum or some other grass type for Jeff.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||04/07/2019|
R164 I had a feeling you were making a Pokemon reference but I had to check on Google lol. Bellosums are cute.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||04/07/2019|
Some of you are more attached to this marriage than either of the people involved. It seems clear to me — and did at the time — that Colton wanted to prove to himself and others, maybe his family that “coming out” wouldn’t mean he was living a degenerate lifestyle and that he could have a stable relationship. I believe he married the first man who asked, way too quickly. They always seemed like an odd couple honestly, I wasn’t surprised when they broke up. And they already did the “trying to work it out” thing; it didn’t work. It’s over — let it go. Colton needs to work on his personal issues before he can be in any relationship and Jeff should probably try dating someone closer to his age.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||04/07/2019|
The only thing degenerate about Colto's lifestyle is all the fast food, farts and skid marks in his drawers.
|by Anonymous||reply 167||04/07/2019|
[Quote] that he could have a stable relationship. I believe he married the first man who asked, way too quickly.
What you believe is incorrect. Colton and Jerrerth were engaged back in the day. And Colton had a six year relationshop prior to Jeff.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||04/07/2019|
Colton and Jerreth are the OTP. It’s sad that Colton will wander the earth, forever seperated from his only chance for happiness.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||04/07/2019|
Jerreth's body is insane.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||04/07/2019|
I just watched the Swiss movie Mario. It reminds me of Colton and Jerreth. Colton achieved fame but is sad and alone. Jerreth has everything.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||04/07/2019|
Didn't someone say that Jerrerth and the Swede split?
Anyway, isn't it recommended that those in recovery don't even date anyone for at least a year?
Jerreth should just train Colton in the gym.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||04/07/2019|
What makes everybody think that Jerreth isn’t with his husband anymore!?! They still follow each other on IG although they’ve been really quiet lately but that’s not unusual.
|by Anonymous||reply 173||04/07/2019|
for the love of GOD AND MARY STOP WITH THE PIX, HIS FACE DRIVES ME TO THE BRIDGE TO JUMP ASAP YES
|by Anonymous||reply 174||04/07/2019|
You mean stop posting pictures like this?
|by Anonymous||reply 175||04/07/2019|
I never liked him as a blond:
|by Anonymous||reply 176||04/07/2019|
[quote]What's wrong with marrying a florist?
Sorry, may I suggest Mr. Ray's Wig World?
|by Anonymous||reply 177||04/07/2019|
OMG!!! Jeff and Colton are the cutest thing on the planet!!! They love each other so much and I’m really happy for them!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 178||04/07/2019|
R39 - I must have missed the declaration that Colton is uncut. Is it true?
|by Anonymous||reply 179||04/07/2019|
That interview described him as A List.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||04/08/2019|
 is this in response to them posting animal pics for each other? I'm happy for them, I will always support couples who don't give up easily.
|by Anonymous||reply 181||04/08/2019|
📸 x @leighkeily x Attitude Magazine 📸
|by Anonymous||reply 182||04/08/2019|
I hated him with the blonde hair. Idk why everyone does that blond shit suddenly. Doesn’t look good on everyone.
|by Anonymous||reply 183||04/08/2019|
(181) Yes it is! I just love how much Jeff adores Colton and isn’t going to give up on him especially with everything Colton’s been through and everything he’s yet to go through. Jeff is truly just an incredible man and I’m happy for Colton and that they seem to be in such a good place!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 184||04/08/2019|
Didn't Jeff call one of his businesses "The Big Sexy"? That makes him an irredeemable dork in my book.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||04/08/2019|
R181, R184, Where do you see animal pics ? Am I blind ?
|by Anonymous||reply 186||04/08/2019|
R183 yes. That trend needs to dye. 95% of bottle blond gays look like shit. OMG GUYS ITS SUMMER, BLOND TIME!
|by Anonymous||reply 187||04/08/2019|
"That trend needs to dye"
I see what you did there!
|by Anonymous||reply 188||04/08/2019|
 in their stories, Colton posted a giraffe saying "a giraffe for u" and Jeff an hour later posted an elephant saying "an elephant for u". If i remember correctly from past posts those are their favorite animals
|by Anonymous||reply 189||04/08/2019|
 I agree, I love them together and hope they make it
|by Anonymous||reply 190||04/08/2019|
(189) Yeah they are their favorite animals and they have little stuffed animals of each one that they sleep with. Also remember the beautiful flower elephant Jeff made for Colton on his birthday and Colton took Jeff to meet Stanley the giraffe on Jeff’s birthday. They’re just so adorable together and all the other little clues are just so sweet. I’m just so happy for them and I pray Colton continues to get healthy and stays clean and sober. He looks so good and really happy and so does Jeff!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 191||04/08/2019|
191 types twelve.
If they are giving their relationship a 7th try, keep it off social media, dumbasses.
|by Anonymous||reply 192||04/08/2019|
There’s such a contrast between Colton and Garrett Clayton. Gary seems so happy doing what he’s doing. He’s celebrating life. Colton’s ego, ambition and love of fame was his undoing.
|by Anonymous||reply 193||04/08/2019|
Gary and Blake > Colton and Jeff
|by Anonymous||reply 194||04/08/2019|
Did Gary's dad commit suicide when he was 14? Was Gary's mom an alcoholic who went to an early grave because of it?
But no, Colton's where he is because of chasing fame.
Colton could easily be Brent Corrigan. He's not.
Colton has achieved more in his life than many posting here. I guess he gets little joy from having "made it". And that's called sad.
|by Anonymous||reply 195||04/08/2019|
 thank you! It amazes me how judgemental people are. Yes many people go through similar times but we don't all make it out the same or intact. He's done well for where he started at in life. Why can't others just wish health and happiness to others is beyond me.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||04/08/2019|
r195, everyone has their crosses to bear. Some may be more evident than others.
|by Anonymous||reply 197||04/08/2019|
I'm not saying Gary has had an easy life. He's from a broken home as well. But it's facile to suggest famewhoring has brought Colton to his emotional nadir. If he had stayed with Jerreth, rather than gone to Podwall, he'd still probably have abused substances. Jerreth is in recovery as well.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||04/08/2019|
Has it been confirmed is past boyfriend was Podwell? I thought it was and then when be released that song he wrote about that relationship and he said we were 21....clearly Podwell is older...my personal guess is chase Crawford.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||04/08/2019|
That lyric refers to the 21 Club ("New York streets blazing" etc.). Colton wasn't whisked away to the Hamptons by a peer. It was by an older man.
|by Anonymous||reply 200||04/08/2019|
 ah..ok..thank u for the clarification. Podwell just seems slimey...im suprised Colton would stay with him that long.
|by Anonymous||reply 201||04/08/2019|
Incidentally, Podwall is still surrounding himself with twinks, such as this British TV starlet, who probably has Hollywood aspirarions...
|by Anonymous||reply 202||04/08/2019|
Podwall makes sense. Not only could Podwall help build Colton's career, he also had a financial incentive to give Colton all the ministrations that proved beyond the capacity of a full time florist.
|by Anonymous||reply 203||04/08/2019|
It also makes sense that Colton only started eating his feelings (or at least not purging) since he split from Podwall and left his regular gig. A manager/lover wouldn't allow his charge to get fat.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||04/08/2019|
I don't get what Jeff's job has to do with being a good person. I don't think Colton is used to people he loves sticking around, I think Jeff is good for him. He is stable, his family seems stable, he has a job, is faithful, I don't get the hate Jeff receives from alot of u.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||04/08/2019|
I like Jeff but u miss Trey. They finally unfollowed eachother, I know they were friends with benefits but they just seemed like they clicked when they were together.
|by Anonymous||reply 206||04/08/2019|
Jeff lives on the road. He's basically Willy Loman. And Colton's Linda.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||04/08/2019|
Why is this being discussed still? Who cares??
|by Anonymous||reply 208||04/08/2019|
According to Colton’s family they don’t think anybody will ever love Colton or support him the way Jeff does. Jeff knew about everything that Colton was going through with the drugs, alcohol, etc., from the very beginning and he still married him. He has fought for Colton all along and never wanted a divorce. I really admire Jeff for loving Colton so much to continue fighting for him rather than walking away which is what most guys would probably do in this kind of situation because it’s really hard and super painful.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||04/08/2019|
Is that the same family that told him his father commited suicide because Colton had come out as gay?
Jeff and Colton should pursue nothing more than a friendship at this stage.
And you should stop repeating that nobody will ever love or support like Jeff. That's actually not a sweet sentiment.
|by Anonymous||reply 210||04/08/2019|
[Quote] Podwall makes sense. Not only could Podwall help build Colton's career
Which didn't always go so smoothly e.g Teen Wolf.
[Quote] my personal guess is chase Crawford.
Is he still close with Chace or any of the others from Camp Podwall?
|by Anonymous||reply 211||04/08/2019|
[quote]Is he still close with Chace or any of the others from Camp Podwall?
From my best guess, just Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.
|by Anonymous||reply 212||04/08/2019|
R212 lol I love that you call him Styrofoam.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||04/09/2019|
hey fug face u might as well get used to havin ur ass dragged thru the mud.
gunna happen a lot. I mean look at ya....
|by Anonymous||reply 214||04/09/2019|
I'm happy they are back together but had to laugh that Jeff blurred his rings in a few pics from an event last night. It doesn't have to be that secretive...no one cares that much...
|by Anonymous||reply 215||04/12/2019|
Why is the self analysis always so dramatic, black and white, and self-centered. I WAS NUMB FOR TEN YEARS. I HADN'T HAD A FEELING IN A DECADES. etc etc. What young, half successful person actually lives like this? The "luxury hotel drug spiral" was particularly treacly
|by Anonymous||reply 217||04/12/2019|
 ok true lol I wasn't proud of myself when I zoomed in to get a better look, did see a pic from someone else where he couldn't Photoshop and it was the rings. I think they should just say were together and keeping things private. They are keeping the "are they or aren't they" speculating going...
|by Anonymous||reply 218||04/12/2019|
R218 lol that is dedication. I thought Colton pretty much said that's what they were going to do.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||04/12/2019|
Does Colton wear his ring too?
|by Anonymous||reply 220||04/12/2019|
 to me he made it sound like they were going to divorce but stay friends and see what happens. Which just seems stupid to me...work on your marriage if u feel like it's worth it. I haven't seen Coltons ring yet but he has been filming ..he did do a story holding up his cross which is from Jeff. Whenever they are broken up Jeff wears both of them lol why do i know all of this?!?! U would think I had nothing else to do except I have 2 kids a husband and am in RN school...i need an intervention.
|by Anonymous||reply 221||04/12/2019|
R221 believe it or not, I've seen worse. But I'm sure DLers wouldn't turn down the opportunity to do an intervention if you really wanted one lol
|by Anonymous||reply 222||04/12/2019|
It’s like the same 2 or 3 people commenting over and over
|by Anonymous||reply 223||04/12/2019|
[quote]Does Colton wear his ring too?
No. It gets snagged in his pocket when he has to reach in and grab a Pokeball.
|by Anonymous||reply 225||04/12/2019|
Wow!!! Jeff created Leathchella for Colton because obviously with Colton being in recovery he couldn’t go to Coachella so it looks like he rented a Porsche and took him to Big Sur for their own celebration. That man is incredible and truly loves Colton. I’m so happy to see that Colton is back with his husband and staying clean and sober and looks really happy!!! Now that he’s done filming Arrow and back home it’s going to be a challenge and I’m praying for him but I think he’s staying close to his sponsor which is awesome!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 227||04/14/2019|
The poster constantly plugging Jeff on Datalounge is too much. It’s like Jeff himself is posting.
Who else would have such a dogged interest in promoting Jeff’s “greatness” for two years and announcing Colton’s flaws with no proof or sources ( before the rehab interview)?
We never hear Colton’s side of Jeff’s story. But there’s always somebody here plugging Jeff and declaring Colton’s flaws. Why?
You would think beautiful, famous Colton would have a lot more fans who want Jeff to fail.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||04/14/2019|
I'm not Jeff 😁 but I think he is great! He does everything for Colton although Colton seemed to push him away many times. And his latest IG story is cute
|by Anonymous||reply 229||04/14/2019|
r49 Isnt that what all couples say. That they get along just fine but mutually don't want to be together, but still remain great friends. Then once the divorce is finalized that's when the real stories come out.
r64 Cry wolf. When he gets himself in serious distress no one is going to take him seriously.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||04/14/2019|
God I hope they don't try to have kids anytime soon
|by Anonymous||reply 231||04/14/2019|
R231 why would they? I think that would be the last thing on Colton's mind.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||04/14/2019|
Logic has never been his strong suit
|by Anonymous||reply 233||04/14/2019|
R233 you could say that about the majority of Hollywood.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||04/14/2019|
I could see Colto wanting a cute lil pooch.
Maybe a Growlithe or Snubbull. A Rockruff would be too precious!
|by Anonymous||reply 235||04/14/2019|
Hopefully it doesn't snore as loud as Beau does.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||Last Monday at 12:09 AM|
Haven forbid a couple tries to work on their marriage. Atleast they are trying.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||Last Monday at 2:10 AM|
R237 they barely knew each other when they got married. And this is what, their 4th attempt?
|by Anonymous||reply 238||Last Monday at 9:45 AM|
We need to get over the whole they barely knew eachother. We know, they know, Colton admitted they moved fast and it wasn't what they should have done. I think they separated twice but really who cares...couples are so quick to call it quits. They also had substance abuse issues thrown in on top of rushing their relationship. If anything now that he's sober maybe they can turn this around and make something out of it. Stop wishing failure on peoplea.
|by Anonymous||reply 239||Last Monday at 12:04 PM|
R239 This is their 4th attempt that we know of.
|by Anonymous||reply 240||Last Monday at 12:13 PM|
Marriage is work. They haven't divorced, alot of couples go through separations but work it out . They are just doing it in the public eye. I've been married 8 years and we have been through some shit but we have held on until it gets better and it only makes your love stronger. There is nothing insane about saying we made a vow for better or worse in sickness and health and we will do everything we can do make it work.
|by Anonymous||reply 241||Last Monday at 12:24 PM|
I agree R241, people shouldn't get married and say vows if they aren't going to stick it out and work through it when times get tough. Marriage is a commitment, that's the point of it. If you don't want a commitment, dont get married. I applaud them for trying to work it out.
|by Anonymous||reply 242||Last Monday at 2:17 PM|
If you're married less than 2 years and split up at least twice, that's not normal marriage issues. They've been off more than they've been on.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||Last Monday at 2:22 PM|
Marriage is a lot like being a Pokemon trainer.
It takes hard work, patience and a fighting spirit to be the best, the very best...like no one ever was.
Colto knows this. They will be fine.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||Last Monday at 5:15 PM|
It sounds like the biggest problem in their marriage has been Colton’s addiction issues according to that Interview and he pushed Jeff away and took him for granted. Also trying to be an Instagram couple and share their relationship publicly which he regrets. That now kind of makes sense because Colton would post pictures of Jeff or of him and Jeff and then later freak out and delete them all whereas everything is still on Jeff’s IG; he hasn’t deleted anything. I think with them now staying private and Colton being in recovery they could actually have a happy marriage. They’ve also been through a lot of really heartbreaking and painful stuff in a pretty short amount of time which can only serve to make their relationship stronger.
|by Anonymous||reply 245||Last Monday at 6:32 PM|
You don’t know shit about what Jeff does for Colton, or vice versa.
Either you’re some Jealous Bitch, failed actor / wannabe lover of Colton hating, or you’re Jeff himself podting your agenda.
|by Anonymous||reply 246||Last Monday at 6:37 PM|
This thread has been overrun by Pollyanna.
If, as he claims, Colton has been deep in addiction for many years, the last thing he needs is the responsibility of a relationship. He needs to work on, and learn, who he is. He needs to become OK with himself. The to and fro of a relationship could fuck up that process big time. He and Jeff should be nothing more than friends at this time.
|by Anonymous||reply 247||Last Tuesday at 12:00 AM|
R246 take it down a notch.
|by Anonymous||reply 248||Last Tuesday at 12:43 AM|
R247 Look at Cheyenne and Jason. They met during their recovery, stayed sober and have a family now. It can work.
|by Anonymous||reply 249||Last Tuesday at 1:25 AM|
[quote]But if you’re one of the most famous, gorgeous gay men in the worl with a successful career in Hollywood, you marry a mogul!!
Uh, Colton was very cute and got a few t.v. gigs, but he's a D-list actor -- not one of the "most famous, gorgeous gay men in the world".
|by Anonymous||reply 250||Last Tuesday at 2:27 AM|
And he’s a bloated has been now.
|by Anonymous||reply 251||Last Tuesday at 2:29 AM|
I feel sorry for the bad things that happened to Colton with his father, his mother, etc.
But as was discussed on a previous Colton thread, it was a bit disturbing that he let his lawyers harass gay websites for years that posted the photos of him kissing his first boyfriend. He's the one that posed for the shoot, and yet gay websites were given a difficult time over them.
|by Anonymous||reply 253||Last Tuesday at 3:18 AM|
Jeff likes to go on a lot of vacations alone lately so Colton may not even be with him in Big Sur.
|by Anonymous||reply 254||Last Tuesday at 3:35 AM|
Jeff wanted to go to Big Sur, Colto wanted to travel to the Alola Islands.
|by Anonymous||reply 255||Last Tuesday at 3:37 AM|
[Quote] But as was discussed on a previous Colton thread, it was a bit disturbing that he let his lawyers harass gay websites for years that posted the photos of him kissing his first boyfriend.
I wonder if that was his idea or Podwall's?? Wasn't he dating that lawyer too?
|by Anonymous||reply 256||Last Tuesday at 3:44 AM|
[quote] Colton has achieved more in his life than many posting here ... Colton could easily [have been] Brent Corrigan.
|by Anonymous||reply 257||Last Tuesday at 4:48 AM|
Why are we still discussing their marriage?
|by Anonymous||reply 258||Last Tuesday at 10:34 AM|
I’m pretty sure Colton is in Big Sur with Jeff but Jeff is being really careful now about showing anything after he was seen wearing his wedding rings at an event in Beverly Hills. He won’t even show his hands now which is ridiculous. There were a couple of IG stories he did while driving up to Big Sur where you could kind of see Colton but he deleted them almost immediately. Honestly I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal for people to know they’re not giving up on their marriage and trying to work things out. But Colton did say they were definitely going through with the divorce in that Interview and that’s clearly not the case so maybe that’s why they’re being extra careful so as not to make Colton look like he was outright lying considering the magnitude of that article for Colton and what it meant.
|by Anonymous||reply 259||Last Tuesday at 10:47 AM|
R259 Thank you! Haven't seen these stories. I only realized there are a lot of pics lately where Jeff hide his hand or you can see the ring
|by Anonymous||reply 260||Last Tuesday at 11:18 AM|
Omfg YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH THIS COUPLE THAT YOU DONT KNOW.
|by Anonymous||reply 261||Last Tuesday at 11:25 AM|
I don't think he was lying. At the time of the interview the divorce was probably a go, they could have reconciled after . It is amusing to watch him hide his hands or blur the ring. He hides him from his stories yet posts pics of baby elephants and giraffes snuggling, which is clearly directed at Colton. You are either private off social media or you arent. I think they like the attention to much to stay off completely.
|by Anonymous||reply 262||Last Tuesday at 11:27 AM|
He/she isn't obsessed, it's literally a thread about Colton...are we not supposed to talk about him?? Let me guess you just want to bash him and tear him down right? Those posts would be acceptable. Try being a little less miserable, u may enjoy life more.
|by Anonymous||reply 263||Last Tuesday at 11:35 AM|
I don't think it is a crime to wish them the best and hope that they can fix their problems. And by the way the elephant and the giraffe were cute.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||Last Tuesday at 11:40 AM|
 I agree, I want them happy, together or apart and the animal pictures are cute.
|by Anonymous||reply 265||Last Tuesday at 11:42 AM|
[quote]I wonder if that was his idea or Podwall's?? Wasn't he dating that lawyer too?
I think when Colton was asked by a gay magazine last year about the kissing pics with his ex-boyfriend that lawyers asked gay sites to take down, he claimed he didn't really know what his lawyers were up to.
|by Anonymous||reply 266||Last Tuesday at 12:05 PM|
Colto and his lawyers dispatched Team Rocket to scrub any online indicators of Colto's homosexual proclivities.
|by Anonymous||reply 267||Last Tuesday at 5:16 PM|
[Quote] Omfg YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH THIS COUPLE THAT YOU DONT KNOW.
Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong threads but this is fairly tame compared to the shit I see on tumblr. Although Colton fans aren't as obsessive compared to his other friends/co workers.
[Quote] Colto and his lawyers dispatched Team Rocket to scrub any online indicators of Colto's homosexual proclivities.
Well they did a terrible job.
|by Anonymous||reply 268||Last Tuesday at 11:09 PM|
[quote]Well they did a terrible job.
You were expecting anything less from a shrew, a dizzy queen and talking cat?
|by Anonymous||reply 269||Last Tuesday at 11:11 PM|
Colton has pretty much completely vanished from social media since like Saturday which is weird but he’s scheduled to be at an event for HVFF in Chicago this upcoming weekend so I hope he shows up and that he’s doing okay and doesn’t cancel. Praying he’s staying strong and clean and sober especially now that he’s done with filming Arrow.
|by Anonymous||reply 271||Last Wednesday at 1:31 AM|
Social media is part of the problem so I expected him to not post as much. He's talked about how he cares what people say and he is insecure, someone in early recovery is going to steer clear of triggers.
|by Anonymous||reply 272||Last Wednesday at 6:29 AM|
Colto is fine.
He is just in social media black out mode til Detective Pikachu opens.
|by Anonymous||reply 273||Last Wednesday at 11:53 AM|
[Quote] He's talked about how he cares what people say and he is insecure
People who have met him said the same thing. Didn't matter who it was, he wants to be liked by them.
|by Anonymous||reply 274||Last Wednesday at 4:06 PM|
 he definitely does, I could write a book on him with my psych background. Staying off social media is the best thing for him. He needs to be liked, he searches his name on Twitter, I'm sure he comes on here, when u need to constantly be validated it's always going to end badly.
|by Anonymous||reply 275||Last Wednesday at 4:20 PM|
His threads are at least a bit tamer than they used to be. But that's probably because interest dropped once he came out (as per usual).
|by Anonymous||reply 276||Last Wednesday at 5:18 PM|
 I agree, those threads were horrible.
|by Anonymous||reply 277||Last Wednesday at 5:27 PM|
Jeff is just as much to blame for this mess and sham Of a marriage. He was just as present on social media. He married a guy so much younger and so unstable. He made sure Colton called him the love of his life like some crazy control freak. He married a man he barely knew. And he should have been old enough to know better. Colton not the only pathetic crazy one.
|by Anonymous||reply 278||Last Wednesday at 7:17 PM|
Jeff was colto pussy whipped! He wasn’t thinking right.
|by Anonymous||reply 280||Last Thursday at 8:16 AM|
[Quote] Jeff was colto pussy whipped! He wasn’t thinking right.
|by Anonymous||reply 281||Last Thursday at 12:50 PM|
He use to be so hot during Teen Wolf days. Enough with the fillers and makeup.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||Last Friday at 11:31 AM|
Teen Wolf was a long.......well season 2 was a while ago R282
|by Anonymous||reply 283||Last Friday at 11:44 AM|
Yeah. He’s not in his early 20s anymore.
|by Anonymous||reply 284||Last Friday at 11:46 AM|
It looks like Colton either cancelled or they messed up with him being able to be there but either way he won’t be attending HVFF in Chicago this weekend.
|by Anonymous||reply 285||Last Friday at 1:53 PM|
Not enough rare Pokemons in Chicago. It just wasn't worth it.
|by Anonymous||reply 287||Last Friday at 2:03 PM|
R285 does he have any other cons?
|by Anonymous||reply 288||Last Friday at 6:04 PM|
Had a picture of naked Colton ever gotten out? Considering how visible he is on social Media you’d think at least we’d get a dick pic.
|by Anonymous||reply 289||Last Friday at 6:34 PM|
R289 surprisingly no. I thought something might have happened when his laptop got stolen. Maybe he's not into taking those kinds of photos. Unlike some of his former costars.
|by Anonymous||reply 290||Last Friday at 10:01 PM|