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Colton Haynes went through a downward spiral into drug use after divorce

Colton Haynes Gets Candid About His Drug Addiction, Divorce, & Ending Up Hospitalized

Colton Haynes is on one of the covers of Attitude‘s 25th anniversary issue.

Here’s what the 30-year-old actor had to share with the mag…

On his downward spiral amid his divorce from Jeff Leatham and his mother’s tragic passing: “I came out and, in a way, my downward spiral started. I felt extremely free but at the same time the amount of attention I was getting was making me spin out of control. I got married and that didn’t work out. That was extremely public and heart-breaking, and right when that was going on, my mom died. That was only a year ago. At that point, I fell apart. My brain broke. I was doing this massive comedy for a studio, showed up to work and got fired on the first day. They said I looked as if I had ‘dead in my eyes’ — and I did. I think it was the best decision in the world to fire me. I got so heavily involved with drugs and alcohol to mask the pain I was feeling that I couldn’t even make some decisions for myself. I was drowning in my own sh*t.”

On how his drug taking and drinking ended in hospitalization: “I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body. It looked as if somebody had beaten the sh*t out of me. I couldn’t walk, so I was falling everywhere. I almost ruptured my kidney, ended up in the hospital, ended up on 5150 [a temporary and involuntary] psyche hold. I was on such a destructive path that I could not function.”

Ongoing to rehab and being sober: “I was in treatment for four months. I came out six months ago. It’s just a different life now. It’s the best gift I’ve ever been given. I was ready to try to live an authentic life because most of my life was so f*cking fake. I loved to blame other people, and other situations, until I started dealing with the fact that I was the root of all these problems… It’s like this rebirth. I now feel things, which is something I’d not done for a decade. I was numb.”

by Anonymousreply 492Yesterday at 6:17 AM

What was the gig from which he got fired?

by Anonymousreply 103/28/2019

what kind of drugs was he known to use? coke? meth? heroin?

and if he was doing a "big comedy movie" he's dumb for fucking up that check. He's not young actor anymore. In hollywood years he's middle aged plus he's gay so there aren't as many roles as for the privileged straight white male actors

by Anonymousreply 203/28/2019

Why did this need a separate thread?

by Anonymousreply 303/28/2019

I don't know but how did he shot the arrow? He was released in September from Psych Ward. And why Berlanti signed him in such condition?

by Anonymousreply 403/28/2019

I admittedly haven't been following him as closely as some do on here. But hasn't he been on Instagram nonstop? You can do that in rehab?

by Anonymousreply 503/28/2019

He's really quite pathetic, isn't he.

by Anonymousreply 603/28/2019

What a sad story. I wish the best for him.

by Anonymousreply 703/28/2019

That twat will do ANYTHING for attention.

by Anonymousreply 803/28/2019

Drugs are supposed to make you thin.

by Anonymousreply 903/28/2019

Exactly, R9.

by Anonymousreply 1003/28/2019

Not surprised. He looked very fat and bloated for a while.

by Anonymousreply 1103/28/2019

And the part about the EXTREMELY PUBLIC break up?

Whose fault is that, dear? Some people don't feel the need to "share" their every bowel movement.

by Anonymousreply 1203/28/2019

He got fat during the marriage.

He literally posted video of himself lying in bed eating multiple Egg McMuffins while his husband was in the background, futilely hinting that he should ambulate.

by Anonymousreply 1303/28/2019

you would think stunning looks and a fairly succesful run in hollywood would be enuf to boost up his self esteem. So what if his relationship didnt work out? You learn and move on. I hope he has learned to maybe go slower in the next relationship and not rush it. He is something of a mess, hopefully less so now, but I have my doubts.

by Anonymousreply 1403/28/2019

[quote] I admittedly haven't been following him as closely as some do on here. But hasn't he been on Instagram nonstop? You can do that in rehab?

Yeah. Something is fishy. He's never been off social media more than 4 or 5 days consecutively. Is Colton making sh*t up for attention and sympathy?

by Anonymousreply 1503/28/2019

[Quote]And why Berlanti signed him in such condition?

Because what someone in that position needs is a job, they need structure. If they sit at home all day they aren't going to stay sober.

by Anonymousreply 1603/28/2019

R14 fame does not nullify insecurities and lack of self-esteem. In fact, the majority of celebrities are wildly insecure and always chase after public approval, even if they claim they don't care.

by Anonymousreply 1703/28/2019

Well, it's Hollywood. There's always someone else with stunning looks, who's younger and "hotter" in a flavor of the month way.

Colton was with Jerreth for at least three years, and with Podwall for six. The mess with Jeff is actually the exception. The Podwall relationship broke him, I think.

by Anonymousreply 1803/28/2019

I only follow Colton via DL. But someone regularly linked to him posting throwback pics. It was thought that he was filling up his feed with old pics to deflect from current fatdom, but perhaps it was also to cover for absence brought about by his rehab stay.

by Anonymousreply 1903/28/2019

And why exactly did we need to hear this? Because “if it helps just one person...” Gag me.

by Anonymousreply 2003/28/2019

[quote]I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body. It looked as if somebody had beaten the sh*t out of me. I couldn’t walk, so I was falling everywhere. I almost ruptured my kidney, ended up in the hospital, ended up on 5150 [a temporary and involuntary] psyche hold. I was on such a destructive path that I could not function.

Well it should be easy to pinpoint when this was. When did he actually go an entire week without posting on social media?

by Anonymousreply 2103/28/2019

I feel badly for him. Having an addiction is NOT fun.

by Anonymousreply 2203/28/2019

You can pre-set social media posts. Didn't Joan River tweet after she died? Colton could have set up his posts for the week and then gone on a bender.

by Anonymousreply 2303/28/2019

So no rumors, gossips or blind items at all while all that is happening?

by Anonymousreply 2403/28/2019

I guess he was dancing on his own.

by Anonymousreply 2503/28/2019

Best of luck to him.

by Anonymousreply 2603/28/2019

There are “people” to post on social media. Especially when the principal is on an involuntary psych hold.

I hope he correct that he’s reformed. Those nipples deserve some happiness.

by Anonymousreply 2703/28/2019

😞😞😒😒

Get well soon, Colton.

by Anonymousreply 2803/28/2019

[Quote]So no rumors, gossips or blind items at all while all that is happening?

Nope, there was never anything about him secretly being in rehab. DL did not gave this gossip nor did anyone else.

by Anonymousreply 2903/28/2019

Oh Colton Haynes we love you get up.

by Anonymousreply 3003/28/2019

He did blackface several years ago

FUCK HIM

stupid white trash

but I hope he stays clean

by Anonymousreply 3103/28/2019

[Quote] He did blackface several years ago FUCK HIM stupid white trash

As you said that was [italic]several[/italic] years ago. Let it go.

by Anonymousreply 3203/28/2019

Was it meth?

by Anonymousreply 3303/28/2019

He has stupidity to blame! Who marries a florist?

by Anonymousreply 3403/28/2019

[quote] I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days and was found in my room with these bruises all over my body.

I love the innocent name-dropping while telling of his most abject moment!

LOL

by Anonymousreply 3503/28/2019

R34 what's wrong with marrying a florist??

by Anonymousreply 3603/28/2019

The mouth breathing and below average IQ doesn’t help.

by Anonymousreply 3703/28/2019

No one cares he’s over.

by Anonymousreply 3803/28/2019

He needs a circumcision. That smegma build up is spreading toxins to his brain.

by Anonymousreply 3903/28/2019

[quote]what's wrong with marrying a florist??

Nothing. Esp. when he looks like the one he lost.

by Anonymousreply 4003/29/2019

A florist making money by the buckets. Colto is done.

by Anonymousreply 4103/29/2019

Stephen Amell fucked him back into shape.

by Anonymousreply 4203/29/2019

R42 lol yes in your dreams.

by Anonymousreply 4303/29/2019

Get well soon Colton.

by Anonymousreply 4403/29/2019

Ultra-privileged white gentile male uses drugs and expects us to feel sorry for him because he’s gay. In other news, it’s a day that ends in Y.

by Anonymousreply 4503/29/2019

What Matt Anser is doing n Colton thread?

by Anonymousreply 4603/29/2019

r35 Doesn't say great things about the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills (™) housekeeping either. You'd think a Do Not Disturb sign would have expired before that. My guess it was a Motel Six on some desert road, and Suzzy found him when she finally went to re-grout the shower.

by Anonymousreply 4703/29/2019

So is he with his husband or not? They were planning a baby at the time of marriage. Thank God that didn't happen,

by Anonymousreply 4803/29/2019

R48 I think they're still divorcing. But want to remain friends.

by Anonymousreply 4903/29/2019

It is amazing that no gossip got out about his addiction. And he was continually posting to Instagram. Weird and suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 5003/29/2019

He seems like that impulsive nut job we all know that changes their entire personality and belief system every 6 months. Hopefully he’s in therapy too.

by Anonymousreply 5103/29/2019

Is the Colton the white Jussie Smollett? Is that 5150 hold a matter of publoc record?

by Anonymousreply 5203/29/2019

Agreed post 50. Something is fishy. This screams of attention seeking now that Arrow is over. He never left Instagram and nobody heard or witnessed bizarre behavior. Shouldn’t someone in weho have a story of a drunk drug addicted Colton?

by Anonymousreply 5303/29/2019

Is this the new Colton thread? The new search function is shit. I put his name in quotes and it STILL didn't find this thread.

by Anonymousreply 5403/29/2019

It should be the new thread. This is the juiciest tidbit since the divorce. Ideally it will put a nice little bow around the “messy” chapter of his life and he can now move on like an adult who makes responsible decisions and is professional and work-focused. Or not.

by Anonymousreply 5503/29/2019

R54 might as well be.

by Anonymousreply 5603/29/2019

Extremely humbled to be on the 25th Anniversary cover of @attitudemag . Have to admit I was really nervous to open up about my struggles in the past. I hope those who are also struggling know that they aren’t alone & there’s nothing wrong with seeking help.❤️

by Anonymousreply 5703/30/2019

Colto seemed his happiest when at Camp Podwall with pals Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.

by Anonymousreply 5803/30/2019

[quote] 25th Anniversary cover of @attitudemag

Well that explains why he suddenly decided to tell the world about his week long bender at the Beverley Hills Waldorf Astoria.

by Anonymousreply 5903/30/2019

[Quote] Colto seemed his happiest when at Camp Podwall with pals Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.

I'm sure a lot of it was smoke and mirrors.

by Anonymousreply 6003/30/2019

Is Haynes also pals with Michael Spound? I always found him cute. Maybe they fooled around?

by Anonymousreply 6103/30/2019

[quote]there’s nothing wrong with seeking help.❤️

Problem is that Colton, you have been seeking for past 15 years or so

by Anonymousreply 6203/30/2019

[Quote] you have been seeking for past 15 years or so

For drugs and alcohol?

by Anonymousreply 6303/30/2019

No help. Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party

by Anonymousreply 6403/30/2019

[Quote] Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party

A 5150 is a bit more than a cry for help.

by Anonymousreply 6503/30/2019

Loco Colto

by Anonymousreply 6603/31/2019

It looks like Colton could be getting back into modeling again because he did a cover shoot for Advocate Magazine with two girls I didn’t recognize. I don’t think there’s an article or Interview included in this one. I definitely think he was in rehab, not sure it was for 4 months but he was spotted at the rehab facility in Arizona a few times back then. It’s been interesting though because every time somebody tweets that they’ve seen Colton or posts a picture with him, the picture is either deleted or the person goes private on Twitter. Somebody has definitely been monitoring Colton’s social media for awhile now. The pictures over New Years, etc I’m guessing must have been from rehab and those people we didn’t recognize must have been there with him. Some things about that article are a little off to me and I’m still not convinced he’s actually getting a divorce either. There seems to be a lot of underlying reasons for that article although I’m not really sure what but the timelines don’t really match up with what he’s claiming. I am proud of Colton though for facing his demons because addiction is horrible and very scary and it sounds like he’s been keeping lots of secrets for a really long time!

by Anonymousreply 6703/31/2019

What R45 said. Oh, boo hoo. 🙄

by Anonymousreply 6803/31/2019

His profile shows he didn't post from middle of April to beginning of june. Hard to say though bc he likes to delete photos. Definitely not 4 months...possibly part was inpatient and the rest was outpatient therapy. Depending on the drug losing weight may not be a side effect. My guess is pills and alot of booze...he was really swollen..hands , feet in alot of pictures friends posted that he didn't have access to Photoshop. I don't believe he's lying, that post about picking his mom's ashes up screamed he needed help, shortly after that he was off IG for awhile.

by Anonymousreply 6904/01/2019

Not sure if it’s legitimate or an April fools joke but Colton posted on his IG story that he’s going on tour with “his bud” J Balvin this summer. Not sure in what capacity he’s doing that because he’s not a performer???

by Anonymousreply 7004/01/2019

His addiction to eyebrow tweezing is the most disturbing.

by Anonymousreply 7104/01/2019

R70 Ah, just what every recovering addict needs, to go on tour!

by Anonymousreply 7204/01/2019

Remember him as he was.

by Anonymousreply 7304/01/2019

R73 as a Kanima??

by Anonymousreply 7404/02/2019

IF you do a lot of coke you can actually get fat - it kill your appetite and speeds up your metabolism but also fucks it up. If you binge for days you end up eventually going into a deep sleep and waking up hungry as hell and only simple carbs can fill that void. That and if you try to even out it is usually with Booze so you are consuming empty calories. Lovingly known as coke bloat.

by Anonymousreply 7504/02/2019

[quote]No help. Anyone who follows CH on SM knows that after every few weeks he cries for help and then go a vacation or some lavish party

Right and how lonely he is when he's constantly on Instagram surrounded by friends.

by Anonymousreply 7604/02/2019

[QUOTE]Remember him as he was.

Colton was the hottest twink. I would’ve risked jail time for a piece of his ass in high school.

by Anonymousreply 7704/02/2019

Gee, you know a lot about coke, R75.

by Anonymousreply 7804/02/2019

r78 Yes, I used to use it heavily so I can tell you everything you want to know.

by Anonymousreply 7904/02/2019

[quote][R78] Yes, I used to use it heavily so I can tell you everything you want to know.

OK.

Do you think it appeals to the more introverted, somnolent kind of person?

I ask because I'm a more extravert and speedy type personality and it never really worked for me.

by Anonymousreply 8004/02/2019

It amps you up, kills your appetite, you are talkative, more outgoing etc but it does not mood altering. I know people who c ould do a bump or two and be fine, me? It's a mental focus thing.

by Anonymousreply 8104/02/2019

[Quote] Right and how lonely he is when he's constantly on Instagram surrounded by friends.

You know you can still feel lonely even if you're always surrounded by friends/family?

by Anonymousreply 8204/02/2019

Cotton! Cotton! The Egg McMuffin Man!

by Anonymousreply 8304/02/2019

There’s no problem with marrying a florist if you’re a basic gay.

But if you’re one of the most famous, gorgeous gay men in the worl with a successful career in Hollywood, you marry a mogul!!

Colton should be with Jann Werner, Calvin Klein or Steve Cook WTF

And Leatham isn’t good-looking. He may have a big dick and a body that’s not fat, but he’s hardly in Colton’s league.

by Anonymousreply 8404/02/2019

Colto needs a man who will be there for him when he really needs it.

A man who will talk him through a deep depression when Colto misses catching that wild Bulbasaur.

A man who will hold his hand as Colto sits on the loo desperately trying to pass a hardened turd from McDonald's induced constipation.

A man who will look past Colto's dirty hole and see his prostrate for the prize it truly is.

Is that man Jeff?

by Anonymousreply 8504/02/2019

Jeff is a handsome older guy who seems to have his shit together. He seems like a catch and he has a good body and even better if he has a big dick and knows how to use it. If he has the patience to put up with cuckoo Colton that says a lot about his maturity or...his stupidity?

by Anonymousreply 8604/02/2019

Does Jeff even have a new boyfriend yet?

by Anonymousreply 8704/02/2019

I honestly think the divorce is off again. Every pic I see of jeff he's positioning his ring hand so u can't see it. He commented on a pic that Lisa rinna posted saying "loves" with hearts and googly eyes. We both follow an author who posts quotes and every single one that he likes talks about never leaving or giving up and his life begins and ends with u. The valentines flowers that were huge...nothing about how he acts says divorce.

by Anonymousreply 8804/02/2019

Then Jeff can’t be the “wise older guy with money and a big dick and everything together” if he’s failing to move on from Colton. That guy would’ve swept this relationship aside and gotten a new boo by now.

by Anonymousreply 8904/02/2019

It'd be hilarious if Jeff started dating Colto's main rival... Gary Oak!

by Anonymousreply 9004/02/2019
by Anonymousreply 9104/02/2019

Colto

by Anonymousreply 9204/02/2019

I don't doubt they love eachother. He admitted they rushed things and being so present with the relationship online was a big issue for them. If Jeff only knows fun loving drinking all the time Colton he may not like the sober version of him. So many couples divorce after one becomes sober. It's smart they are putting no pressure on eachother to reconcile or make it known they are together.

by Anonymousreply 9304/02/2019

[quote]I felt extremely free but at the same time the amount of attention I was getting was making me spin out of control.

Oh my sides!!!

by Anonymousreply 9404/02/2019

[Quote] A man who will talk him through a deep depression when Colto misses catching that wild Bulbasaur.

by Anonymousreply 9504/02/2019

I think they’re wanting everybody to believe that they’re getting a divorce which is very smart because Colton said they were trying to be that Instagram couple and he wished they weren’t so public about everything. It sounds like it was a huge problem in their marriage and I have seen Jeff with his wedding rings at least 3 times now. I hope with them keeping everything private now they will be able to save their marriage because I think Jeff is an amazing man and a great husband and friend to Colton.

by Anonymousreply 9604/02/2019

[96] in person or in pictures? He is definitely hiding his hands in photos so i wouldnt be suprised if he had them on.

by Anonymousreply 9704/03/2019

[R70] it's an April Fools joke.......

by Anonymousreply 9804/03/2019

Colto is re-staging Madonna's "Girlie Show" Tour with himself in the lead!

by Anonymousreply 9904/03/2019

I have the best job in the world 🤗 #Arrow

by Anonymousreply 10004/03/2019

In the vid with Oprah you can see the ring and also in his IG story (intersectnyc)

by Anonymousreply 10104/03/2019

R91 looks like father and son. 👴🏻🧑🏼 Gross! 🥴🤢🤮

by Anonymousreply 10204/03/2019

I’m sure they roleplay it all the time.

by Anonymousreply 10304/03/2019

I beg yu all to stop posting pix of his fug wug mug face....

it triggers me into a spasm fit of how one person can look so poorly.

please stop the fug.

by Anonymousreply 10404/03/2019

"look so poorly"

Grammar is not your friend. What an awkward archaic phrasing.

by Anonymousreply 10504/03/2019

Just for you, R104

by Anonymousreply 10604/03/2019

Wow!! Jeff is definitely hiding his left hand in pretty much everything I’ve seen!!! That’s interesting!!! 🤔🤔🤔

by Anonymousreply 10704/03/2019

Always! It's so obvious...

by Anonymousreply 10804/03/2019

Yeah or he has his hands in his pockets. Weird. So I wonder what’s up with that!?!

by Anonymousreply 10904/03/2019

R106 Colto looks good with some facial hair.

by Anonymousreply 11004/03/2019

For the official interviews he took his ring off 😉

by Anonymousreply 11104/03/2019

I BEG THEE TO STOP

PIX OF HIS VISAGE DRIVE ME INTO FITS BEYOND EPILEPSY.

STOP

by Anonymousreply 11204/03/2019

The second Jeff goes on a work trip...another meltdown

by Anonymousreply 11304/04/2019

Jeff isn't all that important to Colton (he seems more important to some posting in this thread... who should use their contacts to date Jeff and live happily ever after). The interview lays out that Colton's substance abuse is of long standing. Jeff's basically a bystander.

by Anonymousreply 11404/04/2019

Actually that couldn’t be further from the truth because if you read the Interview you’ll see the really wonderful things that Colton said about Jeff and their relationship. But one of the main things is that he wishes they weren’t so public and tried to become that Instagram couple because it was a huge problem and now they’re not putting any pressure on anything. That was just a small part of the Interview but there was a lot more. Very enlightening!

by Anonymousreply 11504/04/2019

I hope he and Jeff find happiness.

by Anonymousreply 11604/04/2019

[quote] I hope he and Jeff find happiness.

Why?

by Anonymousreply 11704/04/2019

Because I do.

by Anonymousreply 11804/04/2019

I hope he finds a Primeape!

by Anonymousreply 11904/04/2019

R117 is that a bad thing?

by Anonymousreply 12004/04/2019

Who can take a bigger fist? Colton or Steve Grand??

by Anonymousreply 12104/04/2019

Colton's words about Jeff don't amount to a hill of beans. Both were in love with the idea of love & marriage. How much time did they spend together in total since Jeff cornered Colton in that airport? A piddling amount.

If Colton can't love himself etc.

by Anonymousreply 12204/04/2019

[Quote] If Colton can't love himself etc.

Which is something that can change. Hopefully that's something he's working on.

by Anonymousreply 12304/05/2019

FOR THE LOVE OF MADONNA, DONT POST PIX OF HIM, THE IMAGE OF HIS FACE MAKES ME HAVE DRY HEEVES ON THE FLOOR LIKE A FULL BLOWN SHITHEAD..

I BEG YE

by Anonymousreply 12404/05/2019

I just want Colton to be healthy and happy and it sounds like Jeff is an important part of that happening so I hope they are working on their marriage privately now. That Interview was very revealing and Colton has apparently gone through so much in his life and been keeping lots of secrets but not from Jeff because he knew about everything and still loved him and supported him and made Colton feel really special. He said that they share a very special love and you don’t find that often and that Jeff helped him find himself. Clearly Jeff is very good for Colton.

by Anonymousreply 12504/05/2019

[quote]“I locked myself in a hotel room at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for seven days

How Countess De Lave of her. She belongs on DL. Oh L’amour! L’amour!

by Anonymousreply 12604/05/2019

Wouldn’t be able to play old man Roy Harper without my amazing stunt double @adam_j_chase ! I’m a proud dialogue double 👏🏼 #Arrow

by Anonymousreply 12704/05/2019

What murder of crows have their feet on his face?

by Anonymousreply 12804/05/2019

R128 is this a serious question or.......?

by Anonymousreply 12904/05/2019

[quote]you would think stunning looks and a fairly succesful run in hollywood would be enuf to boost up his self esteem. So what if his relationship didnt work out? You learn and move on. I hope he has learned to maybe go slower in the next relationship and not rush it. He is something of a mess, hopefully less so now, but I have my doubts.

Because, and we've seen this multiple times with multiple celebrities and even non-celebrities, if you don't have a good foundation it doesn't matter how attractive or successful you are -- it will mess you up every time until you deal with those issues from your past.

[quote]His profile shows he didn't post from middle of April to beginning of june. Hard to say though bc he likes to delete photos. Definitely not 4 months...possibly part was inpatient and the rest was outpatient therapy.

It's also possible someone else was posting for him to keep that stay a secret.

by Anonymousreply 13004/05/2019

Maybe Connor Jessup could be a stabilizing influence in Colton's life.

by Anonymousreply 13104/05/2019

Aww!! I see you Colton and I’m very happy for you!! You look really healthy and happy!! Keep staying strong and fighting!!

by Anonymousreply 13204/05/2019

Word on the street is that Colto is having a very difficult week trying to get his Pikachu to learn Iron Tail!

by Anonymousreply 13304/05/2019

god dammit . another pic of the fug. do u realize I have to go to hospital whenever I see his vile face????

FOR LOVE OF CHER, STOP THE PIX OR MY HEALTH SHALL SUFFER EGREGIOUSLY SIRS.

by Anonymousreply 13404/05/2019

R133 what does that mean exactly?

by Anonymousreply 13504/05/2019

He seems tiresome

by Anonymousreply 13604/05/2019

I’m really happy to see that Jeff and Colton are working on their marriage and not going through with the divorce. I think they’re perfect for each other and Colton looks really good and healthy. I hope he continues to stay clean and sober and communicate instead of shutting down or running away.

by Anonymousreply 13704/06/2019

god bless ye for no pix of satan colton today, my nerves are good.

by Anonymousreply 13804/06/2019

It could be that Jeff is only not divorcing Colton because of guilt. He knows that Colton isn't stable and a divorce would only make him more unstable again. There are many cases where one partner doesn't dare to leave the other just because they're afraid of what the other, unstable partner would do (starting to drink again, take drugs again, be suicidal etc). How Colton acted already from the beginning onwards in their partnership wasn't healthy and I don't think he will completely change now. I don't think that this will ever be a truly happy relationship for Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 13904/06/2019

No divorce because of guilt? Jeff is wearing his wedding ring. You can see it on his IG story. Wouldn't make sense to put his ring on again if it was only guilt.

by Anonymousreply 14004/06/2019

R140 Why wouldn't he wear his wedding ring if he's determined to stay married? He seems ready to try to make it work somehow. That doesn't mean that the main factor behind that motivation could be his fear of Colton's reaction if he abandonned him. He knows that Colton would react really badly if he left him so it could be that Jeff tells himself that he should give the marriage with Colton another try. I don't doubt that Jeff still has feelings for him and that he feels protective of Colton. But I don't know if it will ever be a healthy relationship

by Anonymousreply 14104/06/2019

Right. We can only wait and see. Wish the best for both.

by Anonymousreply 14204/06/2019

When a relationship has a crap foundation, how can it ever be healthy?

by Anonymousreply 14304/06/2019

[quote] Maybe Connor Jessup could be a stabilizing influence in Colton's life.

More like the opposite. Colton would turn poor Connor into a screwed up diseased riddled whore.

by Anonymousreply 14404/06/2019

Both Sinqua and Hoechlin are in Australia again. All that's missing is Colton.

by Anonymousreply 14504/06/2019

I agree with r139. Jeff is a decent man and doesn't want to leave Colton out to dry during one of hardest parts of his life. But Colton has to realize he is going through major changes in his life, and he will not be same person as when he met Jeff. Colton needs to start fresh now that he is exiting the rough patch. Holding on to Jeff is further complicating his healing process.

by Anonymousreply 14604/06/2019

colton alwys need be the victim, and have the sympathy cards and flowers and robes sent to her.

by Anonymousreply 14704/06/2019

Whatever works for them.

by Anonymousreply 14804/06/2019

Jeff is doing Savannah Chrisleys wedding. Todd said he’s so expensive.

So those mocking him being a florist, that florist has more money than you’ll ever know.

by Anonymousreply 14904/06/2019

I don't understand the "florist" put-downs. Especially since they're probably coming from queeny male cubefraus or shopbottoms.

by Anonymousreply 15004/06/2019

They seem to be doing great and I’m really happy for them. I think Jeff is the perfect man for Colton and he is most definitely not staying with him out of guilt or anything even close to that. Jeff has never wanted the divorce and only ever done what he thought was best for Colton or what Colton said he wanted. Now that Colton has finally started dealing with the truth and no longer hiding or trying to push Jeff away, they might actually have a chance at an amazing life together.

by Anonymousreply 15104/06/2019

What do you expect! We know every good looking guy is googled over by males and females until we figure out whether they are gay or straight! Then we make him out to be something he is not. We love him then destroy him... How in the hell do these guys make it in this environment? We grind through body after body.... Looking forward to the next one???

by Anonymousreply 15204/06/2019

[quote]Now that Colton has finally started dealing with the truth

Well part of that truth should be that they married too fast. That Colton had to run away from his man instead of confiding his deepest struggles in him means they weren't ready to be husbands. Its easy to have an amazing life with someone when everything is going great. Its the other times that will determine whether your relationship can endure.

They both need to be for real. We only see the packaged for media or Instagram Colton. IRL Im sure he's a huge bitch at times, like most gay men can be. He already said he would tell anyone who suggested that he needs help to go fuck themselves. Im sure he told Jeff that too. Jeff is a man about his business who probably doesnt have time for that bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 15304/06/2019

R149 I applaud him for making bank. I just think its crazy that he has made that kind of bank as a florist.

by Anonymousreply 15404/06/2019

Let us revisit the super cringe-y and generic Cher video. Did she even know who or what she was doing it for?

Starts at 0:35

by Anonymousreply 15504/06/2019

[QUOTE]So those mocking him being a florist, that florist has more money than you’ll ever know.

Yeah but he’s still just a florist.

by Anonymousreply 15604/06/2019

What is “Just” a florist? It’s a career and he’s done well. At least he works.

You sound like a classist jerk.

by Anonymousreply 15704/06/2019

[quote]I just think its crazy that he has made that kind of bank as a florist.

Its really not that crazy. Im sure his income is close to most of the celebrity event planners, chefs, etc. He does good work.

by Anonymousreply 15804/06/2019

If you’ve followed Jeff for awhile like I have and seen all the Interviews, etc including the one with Cher where she talked about Jeff and how long they’ve been friends and how they planned the surprise engagement for Colton then you would understand about that video and how happy she was to make it for them. They’ve actually known each other for many years.

by Anonymousreply 15904/06/2019

According to Colton Jeff knew about everything he was going through from the beginning and he didn’t keep anything from him. Jeff was completely supportive and loving and never cheated on him or anything but Colton apparently took Jeff for granted and did a lot of damage to their marriage and hurt his friends too. He said he ruined a lot of things in his life because he didn’t understand his disease. I think Jeff and Colton can now work through this together since Colton is clean and sober and wanting to change things in his life and make it better. He doesn’t seem to be running away from the people who love him the most anymore and want to help him, mainly his husband!!!

by Anonymousreply 16004/06/2019

Well then why is it so shitty R159? She never says anyone's name, she mentions nothing remotely personal, no anecdotes, nothing about the occasion. You could play the exact same video at a baby shower, a graduation, pretty much any special occasion.

by Anonymousreply 16104/06/2019

Because that was only a little bit of the video and that message was directly for Jeff from Cher and the proposal was a big secret. Jeff obviously knew exactly what she was doing but Colton wasn’t supposed to. Colton was completely in the dark even after the video until Jeff got down on one knee and proposed and then the fireworks. According to Cher Jeff planned the whole thing and she was really happy for him.

by Anonymousreply 16204/06/2019

I don't believe anyone was seriously mocking Jeff being a florist.

We all realize that it is hard work posing petunias and displaying daffodils.

by Anonymousreply 16304/07/2019

Which makes me wonder if Colto has ever tried to catch a Bellsprout or Bellossum or some other grass type for Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 16404/07/2019

R164 I had a feeling you were making a Pokemon reference but I had to check on Google lol. Bellosums are cute.

by Anonymousreply 16504/07/2019

Some of you are more attached to this marriage than either of the people involved. It seems clear to me — and did at the time — that Colton wanted to prove to himself and others, maybe his family that “coming out” wouldn’t mean he was living a degenerate lifestyle and that he could have a stable relationship. I believe he married the first man who asked, way too quickly. They always seemed like an odd couple honestly, I wasn’t surprised when they broke up. And they already did the “trying to work it out” thing; it didn’t work. It’s over — let it go. Colton needs to work on his personal issues before he can be in any relationship and Jeff should probably try dating someone closer to his age.

by Anonymousreply 16604/07/2019

The only thing degenerate about Colto's lifestyle is all the fast food, farts and skid marks in his drawers.

by Anonymousreply 16704/07/2019

[Quote] that he could have a stable relationship. I believe he married the first man who asked, way too quickly.

What you believe is incorrect. Colton and Jerrerth were engaged back in the day. And Colton had a six year relationshop prior to Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 16804/07/2019

Colton and Jerreth are the OTP. It’s sad that Colton will wander the earth, forever seperated from his only chance for happiness.

by Anonymousreply 16904/07/2019

Jerreth's body is insane.

by Anonymousreply 17004/07/2019

I just watched the Swiss movie Mario. It reminds me of Colton and Jerreth. Colton achieved fame but is sad and alone. Jerreth has everything.

by Anonymousreply 17104/07/2019

Didn't someone say that Jerrerth and the Swede split?

Anyway, isn't it recommended that those in recovery don't even date anyone for at least a year?

Jerreth should just train Colton in the gym.

by Anonymousreply 17204/07/2019

What makes everybody think that Jerreth isn’t with his husband anymore!?! They still follow each other on IG although they’ve been really quiet lately but that’s not unusual.

by Anonymousreply 17304/07/2019

for the love of GOD AND MARY STOP WITH THE PIX, HIS FACE DRIVES ME TO THE BRIDGE TO JUMP ASAP YES

by Anonymousreply 17404/07/2019

You mean stop posting pictures like this?

by Anonymousreply 17504/07/2019

I never liked him as a blond:

by Anonymousreply 17604/07/2019

[quote]What's wrong with marrying a florist?

Sorry, may I suggest Mr. Ray's Wig World?

by Anonymousreply 17704/07/2019

OMG!!! Jeff and Colton are the cutest thing on the planet!!! They love each other so much and I’m really happy for them!!!

by Anonymousreply 17804/07/2019

R39 - I must have missed the declaration that Colton is uncut. Is it true?

by Anonymousreply 17904/07/2019

That interview described him as A List.

by Anonymousreply 18004/08/2019

[178] is this in response to them posting animal pics for each other? I'm happy for them, I will always support couples who don't give up easily.

by Anonymousreply 18104/08/2019

📸 x @leighkeily x Attitude Magazine 📸

by Anonymousreply 18204/08/2019

I hated him with the blonde hair. Idk why everyone does that blond shit suddenly. Doesn’t look good on everyone.

by Anonymousreply 18304/08/2019

(181) Yes it is! I just love how much Jeff adores Colton and isn’t going to give up on him especially with everything Colton’s been through and everything he’s yet to go through. Jeff is truly just an incredible man and I’m happy for Colton and that they seem to be in such a good place!!!

by Anonymousreply 18404/08/2019

Didn't Jeff call one of his businesses "The Big Sexy"? That makes him an irredeemable dork in my book.

by Anonymousreply 18504/08/2019

R181, R184, Where do you see animal pics ? Am I blind ?

by Anonymousreply 18604/08/2019

R183 yes. That trend needs to dye. 95% of bottle blond gays look like shit. OMG GUYS ITS SUMMER, BLOND TIME!

by Anonymousreply 18704/08/2019

"That trend needs to dye"

I see what you did there!

by Anonymousreply 18804/08/2019

[186] in their stories, Colton posted a giraffe saying "a giraffe for u" and Jeff an hour later posted an elephant saying "an elephant for u". If i remember correctly from past posts those are their favorite animals

by Anonymousreply 18904/08/2019

[184] I agree, I love them together and hope they make it

by Anonymousreply 19004/08/2019

(189) Yeah they are their favorite animals and they have little stuffed animals of each one that they sleep with. Also remember the beautiful flower elephant Jeff made for Colton on his birthday and Colton took Jeff to meet Stanley the giraffe on Jeff’s birthday. They’re just so adorable together and all the other little clues are just so sweet. I’m just so happy for them and I pray Colton continues to get healthy and stays clean and sober. He looks so good and really happy and so does Jeff!!!

by Anonymousreply 19104/08/2019

191 types twelve.

If they are giving their relationship a 7th try, keep it off social media, dumbasses.

by Anonymousreply 19204/08/2019

There’s such a contrast between Colton and Garrett Clayton. Gary seems so happy doing what he’s doing. He’s celebrating life. Colton’s ego, ambition and love of fame was his undoing.

by Anonymousreply 19304/08/2019

Gary and Blake > Colton and Jeff

by Anonymousreply 19404/08/2019

Did Gary's dad commit suicide when he was 14? Was Gary's mom an alcoholic who went to an early grave because of it?

But no, Colton's where he is because of chasing fame.

Colton could easily be Brent Corrigan. He's not.

Colton has achieved more in his life than many posting here. I guess he gets little joy from having "made it". And that's called sad.

by Anonymousreply 19504/08/2019

[195] thank you! It amazes me how judgemental people are. Yes many people go through similar times but we don't all make it out the same or intact. He's done well for where he started at in life. Why can't others just wish health and happiness to others is beyond me.

by Anonymousreply 19604/08/2019

r195, everyone has their crosses to bear. Some may be more evident than others.

by Anonymousreply 19704/08/2019

I'm not saying Gary has had an easy life. He's from a broken home as well. But it's facile to suggest famewhoring has brought Colton to his emotional nadir. If he had stayed with Jerreth, rather than gone to Podwall, he'd still probably have abused substances. Jerreth is in recovery as well.

by Anonymousreply 19804/08/2019

Has it been confirmed is past boyfriend was Podwell? I thought it was and then when be released that song he wrote about that relationship and he said we were 21....clearly Podwell is older...my personal guess is chase Crawford.

by Anonymousreply 19904/08/2019

That lyric refers to the 21 Club ("New York streets blazing" etc.). Colton wasn't whisked away to the Hamptons by a peer. It was by an older man.

by Anonymousreply 20004/08/2019

[200] ah..ok..thank u for the clarification. Podwell just seems slimey...im suprised Colton would stay with him that long.

by Anonymousreply 20104/08/2019

Incidentally, Podwall is still surrounding himself with twinks, such as this British TV starlet, who probably has Hollywood aspirarions...

by Anonymousreply 20204/08/2019

Podwall makes sense. Not only could Podwall help build Colton's career, he also had a financial incentive to give Colton all the ministrations that proved beyond the capacity of a full time florist.

by Anonymousreply 20304/08/2019

It also makes sense that Colton only started eating his feelings (or at least not purging) since he split from Podwall and left his regular gig. A manager/lover wouldn't allow his charge to get fat.

by Anonymousreply 20404/08/2019

I don't get what Jeff's job has to do with being a good person. I don't think Colton is used to people he loves sticking around, I think Jeff is good for him. He is stable, his family seems stable, he has a job, is faithful, I don't get the hate Jeff receives from alot of u.

by Anonymousreply 20504/08/2019

I like Jeff but u miss Trey. They finally unfollowed eachother, I know they were friends with benefits but they just seemed like they clicked when they were together.

by Anonymousreply 20604/08/2019

Jeff lives on the road. He's basically Willy Loman. And Colton's Linda.

by Anonymousreply 20704/08/2019

Why is this being discussed still? Who cares??

by Anonymousreply 20804/08/2019

According to Colton’s family they don’t think anybody will ever love Colton or support him the way Jeff does. Jeff knew about everything that Colton was going through with the drugs, alcohol, etc., from the very beginning and he still married him. He has fought for Colton all along and never wanted a divorce. I really admire Jeff for loving Colton so much to continue fighting for him rather than walking away which is what most guys would probably do in this kind of situation because it’s really hard and super painful.

by Anonymousreply 20904/08/2019

Is that the same family that told him his father commited suicide because Colton had come out as gay?

Jeff and Colton should pursue nothing more than a friendship at this stage.

And you should stop repeating that nobody will ever love or support like Jeff. That's actually not a sweet sentiment.

by Anonymousreply 21004/08/2019

[Quote] Podwall makes sense. Not only could Podwall help build Colton's career

Which didn't always go so smoothly e.g Teen Wolf.

[Quote] my personal guess is chase Crawford.

Is he still close with Chace or any of the others from Camp Podwall?

by Anonymousreply 21104/08/2019

[quote]Is he still close with Chace or any of the others from Camp Podwall?

From my best guess, just Shawn Styrofoam and Heidi Bohay.

by Anonymousreply 21204/08/2019

R212 lol I love that you call him Styrofoam.

by Anonymousreply 21304/09/2019

hey fug face u might as well get used to havin ur ass dragged thru the mud.

gunna happen a lot. I mean look at ya....

by Anonymousreply 21404/09/2019

I'm happy they are back together but had to laugh that Jeff blurred his rings in a few pics from an event last night. It doesn't have to be that secretive...no one cares that much...

by Anonymousreply 21504/12/2019

R215 except us lol

by Anonymousreply 21604/12/2019

Why is the self analysis always so dramatic, black and white, and self-centered. I WAS NUMB FOR TEN YEARS. I HADN'T HAD A FEELING IN A DECADES. etc etc. What young, half successful person actually lives like this? The "luxury hotel drug spiral" was particularly treacly

by Anonymousreply 21704/12/2019

[216] ok true lol I wasn't proud of myself when I zoomed in to get a better look, did see a pic from someone else where he couldn't Photoshop and it was the rings. I think they should just say were together and keeping things private. They are keeping the "are they or aren't they" speculating going...

by Anonymousreply 21804/12/2019

R218 lol that is dedication. I thought Colton pretty much said that's what they were going to do.

by Anonymousreply 21904/12/2019

Does Colton wear his ring too?

by Anonymousreply 22004/12/2019

[219] to me he made it sound like they were going to divorce but stay friends and see what happens. Which just seems stupid to me...work on your marriage if u feel like it's worth it. I haven't seen Coltons ring yet but he has been filming ..he did do a story holding up his cross which is from Jeff. Whenever they are broken up Jeff wears both of them lol why do i know all of this?!?! U would think I had nothing else to do except I have 2 kids a husband and am in RN school...i need an intervention.

by Anonymousreply 22104/12/2019

R221 believe it or not, I've seen worse. But I'm sure DLers wouldn't turn down the opportunity to do an intervention if you really wanted one lol

by Anonymousreply 22204/12/2019

It’s like the same 2 or 3 people commenting over and over

by Anonymousreply 22304/12/2019

R223 and???

by Anonymousreply 22404/12/2019

[quote]Does Colton wear his ring too?

No. It gets snagged in his pocket when he has to reach in and grab a Pokeball.

by Anonymousreply 22504/12/2019

R225 LOL

by Anonymousreply 22604/12/2019

Wow!!! Jeff created Leathchella for Colton because obviously with Colton being in recovery he couldn’t go to Coachella so it looks like he rented a Porsche and took him to Big Sur for their own celebration. That man is incredible and truly loves Colton. I’m so happy to see that Colton is back with his husband and staying clean and sober and looks really happy!!! Now that he’s done filming Arrow and back home it’s going to be a challenge and I’m praying for him but I think he’s staying close to his sponsor which is awesome!!!

by Anonymousreply 22704/14/2019

The poster constantly plugging Jeff on Datalounge is too much. It’s like Jeff himself is posting.

Who else would have such a dogged interest in promoting Jeff’s “greatness” for two years and announcing Colton’s flaws with no proof or sources ( before the rehab interview)?

We never hear Colton’s side of Jeff’s story. But there’s always somebody here plugging Jeff and declaring Colton’s flaws. Why?

You would think beautiful, famous Colton would have a lot more fans who want Jeff to fail.

by Anonymousreply 22804/14/2019

I'm not Jeff 😁 but I think he is great! He does everything for Colton although Colton seemed to push him away many times. And his latest IG story is cute

by Anonymousreply 22904/14/2019

r49 Isnt that what all couples say. That they get along just fine but mutually don't want to be together, but still remain great friends. Then once the divorce is finalized that's when the real stories come out.

r64 Cry wolf. When he gets himself in serious distress no one is going to take him seriously.

by Anonymousreply 23004/14/2019

God I hope they don't try to have kids anytime soon

by Anonymousreply 23104/14/2019

R231 why would they? I think that would be the last thing on Colton's mind.

by Anonymousreply 23204/14/2019

Logic has never been his strong suit

by Anonymousreply 23304/14/2019

R233 you could say that about the majority of Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 23404/14/2019

I could see Colto wanting a cute lil pooch.

Maybe a Growlithe or Snubbull. A Rockruff would be too precious!

by Anonymousreply 23504/14/2019

Hopefully it doesn't snore as loud as Beau does.

by Anonymousreply 23604/15/2019

Haven forbid a couple tries to work on their marriage. Atleast they are trying.

by Anonymousreply 23704/15/2019

R237 they barely knew each other when they got married. And this is what, their 4th attempt?

by Anonymousreply 23804/15/2019

We need to get over the whole they barely knew eachother. We know, they know, Colton admitted they moved fast and it wasn't what they should have done. I think they separated twice but really who cares...couples are so quick to call it quits. They also had substance abuse issues thrown in on top of rushing their relationship. If anything now that he's sober maybe they can turn this around and make something out of it. Stop wishing failure on peoplea.

by Anonymousreply 23904/15/2019

R239 This is their 4th attempt that we know of.

by Anonymousreply 24004/15/2019

Marriage is work. They haven't divorced, alot of couples go through separations but work it out . They are just doing it in the public eye. I've been married 8 years and we have been through some shit but we have held on until it gets better and it only makes your love stronger. There is nothing insane about saying we made a vow for better or worse in sickness and health and we will do everything we can do make it work.

by Anonymousreply 24104/15/2019

I agree R241, people shouldn't get married and say vows if they aren't going to stick it out and work through it when times get tough. Marriage is a commitment, that's the point of it. If you don't want a commitment, dont get married. I applaud them for trying to work it out.

by Anonymousreply 24204/15/2019

If you're married less than 2 years and split up at least twice, that's not normal marriage issues. They've been off more than they've been on.

by Anonymousreply 24304/15/2019

Marriage is a lot like being a Pokemon trainer.

It takes hard work, patience and a fighting spirit to be the best, the very best...like no one ever was.

Colto knows this. They will be fine.

by Anonymousreply 24404/15/2019

It sounds like the biggest problem in their marriage has been Colton’s addiction issues according to that Interview and he pushed Jeff away and took him for granted. Also trying to be an Instagram couple and share their relationship publicly which he regrets. That now kind of makes sense because Colton would post pictures of Jeff or of him and Jeff and then later freak out and delete them all whereas everything is still on Jeff’s IG; he hasn’t deleted anything. I think with them now staying private and Colton being in recovery they could actually have a happy marriage. They’ve also been through a lot of really heartbreaking and painful stuff in a pretty short amount of time which can only serve to make their relationship stronger.

by Anonymousreply 24504/15/2019

You don’t know shit about what Jeff does for Colton, or vice versa.

Either you’re some Jealous Bitch, failed actor / wannabe lover of Colton hating, or you’re Jeff himself podting your agenda.

ENOUGH.

by Anonymousreply 24604/15/2019

This thread has been overrun by Pollyanna.

If, as he claims, Colton has been deep in addiction for many years, the last thing he needs is the responsibility of a relationship. He needs to work on, and learn, who he is. He needs to become OK with himself. The to and fro of a relationship could fuck up that process big time. He and Jeff should be nothing more than friends at this time.

by Anonymousreply 24704/16/2019

R246 take it down a notch.

by Anonymousreply 24804/16/2019

R247 Look at Cheyenne and Jason. They met during their recovery, stayed sober and have a family now. It can work.

by Anonymousreply 24904/16/2019

[quote]But if you’re one of the most famous, gorgeous gay men in the worl with a successful career in Hollywood, you marry a mogul!!

Uh, Colton was very cute and got a few t.v. gigs, but he's a D-list actor -- not one of the "most famous, gorgeous gay men in the world".

by Anonymousreply 25004/16/2019

And he’s a bloated has been now.

by Anonymousreply 25104/16/2019

I'd put him at c-list.

by Anonymousreply 25204/16/2019

I feel sorry for the bad things that happened to Colton with his father, his mother, etc.

But as was discussed on a previous Colton thread, it was a bit disturbing that he let his lawyers harass gay websites for years that posted the photos of him kissing his first boyfriend. He's the one that posed for the shoot, and yet gay websites were given a difficult time over them.

by Anonymousreply 25304/16/2019

Jeff likes to go on a lot of vacations alone lately so Colton may not even be with him in Big Sur.

by Anonymousreply 25404/16/2019

Jeff wanted to go to Big Sur, Colto wanted to travel to the Alola Islands.

by Anonymousreply 25504/16/2019

[Quote] But as was discussed on a previous Colton thread, it was a bit disturbing that he let his lawyers harass gay websites for years that posted the photos of him kissing his first boyfriend.

I wonder if that was his idea or Podwall's?? Wasn't he dating that lawyer too?

by Anonymousreply 25604/16/2019

[quote] Colton has achieved more in his life than many posting here ... Colton could easily [have been] Brent Corrigan.

Missed opportunity.

by Anonymousreply 25704/16/2019

Why are we still discussing their marriage?

by Anonymousreply 25804/16/2019

I’m pretty sure Colton is in Big Sur with Jeff but Jeff is being really careful now about showing anything after he was seen wearing his wedding rings at an event in Beverly Hills. He won’t even show his hands now which is ridiculous. There were a couple of IG stories he did while driving up to Big Sur where you could kind of see Colton but he deleted them almost immediately. Honestly I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal for people to know they’re not giving up on their marriage and trying to work things out. But Colton did say they were definitely going through with the divorce in that Interview and that’s clearly not the case so maybe that’s why they’re being extra careful so as not to make Colton look like he was outright lying considering the magnitude of that article for Colton and what it meant.

by Anonymousreply 25904/16/2019

R259 Thank you! Haven't seen these stories. I only realized there are a lot of pics lately where Jeff hide his hand or you can see the ring

by Anonymousreply 26004/16/2019

Omfg YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH THIS COUPLE THAT YOU DONT KNOW.

by Anonymousreply 26104/16/2019

I don't think he was lying. At the time of the interview the divorce was probably a go, they could have reconciled after . It is amusing to watch him hide his hands or blur the ring. He hides him from his stories yet posts pics of baby elephants and giraffes snuggling, which is clearly directed at Colton. You are either private off social media or you arent. I think they like the attention to much to stay off completely.

by Anonymousreply 26204/16/2019

He/she isn't obsessed, it's literally a thread about Colton...are we not supposed to talk about him?? Let me guess you just want to bash him and tear him down right? Those posts would be acceptable. Try being a little less miserable, u may enjoy life more.

by Anonymousreply 26304/16/2019

I don't think it is a crime to wish them the best and hope that they can fix their problems. And by the way the elephant and the giraffe were cute.

by Anonymousreply 26404/16/2019

[264] I agree, I want them happy, together or apart and the animal pictures are cute.

by Anonymousreply 26504/16/2019

[quote]I wonder if that was his idea or Podwall's?? Wasn't he dating that lawyer too?

I think when Colton was asked by a gay magazine last year about the kissing pics with his ex-boyfriend that lawyers asked gay sites to take down, he claimed he didn't really know what his lawyers were up to.

by Anonymousreply 26604/16/2019

Colto and his lawyers dispatched Team Rocket to scrub any online indicators of Colto's homosexual proclivities.

by Anonymousreply 26704/16/2019

[Quote] Omfg YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH THIS COUPLE THAT YOU DONT KNOW.

Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong threads but this is fairly tame compared to the shit I see on tumblr. Although Colton fans aren't as obsessive compared to his other friends/co workers.

[Quote] Colto and his lawyers dispatched Team Rocket to scrub any online indicators of Colto's homosexual proclivities.

Well they did a terrible job.

by Anonymousreply 26804/16/2019

[quote]Well they did a terrible job.

You were expecting anything less from a shrew, a dizzy queen and talking cat?

by Anonymousreply 26904/16/2019

R269 I guess so.

by Anonymousreply 27004/16/2019

Colton has pretty much completely vanished from social media since like Saturday which is weird but he’s scheduled to be at an event for HVFF in Chicago this upcoming weekend so I hope he shows up and that he’s doing okay and doesn’t cancel. Praying he’s staying strong and clean and sober especially now that he’s done with filming Arrow.

by Anonymousreply 27104/17/2019

Social media is part of the problem so I expected him to not post as much. He's talked about how he cares what people say and he is insecure, someone in early recovery is going to steer clear of triggers.

by Anonymousreply 27204/17/2019

Colto is fine.

He is just in social media black out mode til Detective Pikachu opens.

by Anonymousreply 27304/17/2019

[Quote] He's talked about how he cares what people say and he is insecure

People who have met him said the same thing. Didn't matter who it was, he wants to be liked by them.

by Anonymousreply 27404/17/2019

[274] he definitely does, I could write a book on him with my psych background. Staying off social media is the best thing for him. He needs to be liked, he searches his name on Twitter, I'm sure he comes on here, when u need to constantly be validated it's always going to end badly.

by Anonymousreply 27504/17/2019

His threads are at least a bit tamer than they used to be. But that's probably because interest dropped once he came out (as per usual).

by Anonymousreply 27604/17/2019

[276] I agree, those threads were horrible.

by Anonymousreply 27704/17/2019

Jeff is just as much to blame for this mess and sham Of a marriage. He was just as present on social media. He married a guy so much younger and so unstable. He made sure Colton called him the love of his life like some crazy control freak. He married a man he barely knew. And he should have been old enough to know better. Colton not the only pathetic crazy one.

by Anonymousreply 27804/17/2019

True R278

by Anonymousreply 27904/18/2019

Jeff was colto pussy whipped! He wasn’t thinking right.

by Anonymousreply 28004/18/2019

[Quote] Jeff was colto pussy whipped! He wasn’t thinking right.

by Anonymousreply 28104/18/2019

He use to be so hot during Teen Wolf days. Enough with the fillers and makeup.

by Anonymousreply 28204/19/2019

Teen Wolf was a long.......well season 2 was a while ago R282

by Anonymousreply 28304/19/2019

Yeah. He’s not in his early 20s anymore.

Move on.

by Anonymousreply 28404/19/2019

It looks like Colton either cancelled or they messed up with him being able to be there but either way he won’t be attending HVFF in Chicago this weekend.

by Anonymousreply 28504/19/2019

He probably canceled

by Anonymousreply 28604/19/2019

Not enough rare Pokemons in Chicago. It just wasn't worth it.

by Anonymousreply 28704/19/2019

R285 does he have any other cons?

by Anonymousreply 28804/19/2019

Had a picture of naked Colton ever gotten out? Considering how visible he is on social Media you’d think at least we’d get a dick pic.

by Anonymousreply 28904/19/2019

R289 surprisingly no. I thought something might have happened when his laptop got stolen. Maybe he's not into taking those kinds of photos. Unlike some of his former costars.

by Anonymousreply 29004/19/2019

He’s got photos and I’m sure he’s got his signature duck lips to go with it. Someone is helping him keep things out of the public.

by Anonymousreply 29104/21/2019

R276 ridiculous.. Interest waned because he revealed himself to be a non-laid back queeny guy, in stark contrast to his cool, unaffected glass closet days.. not because he came out as gay.

by Anonymousreply 29204/21/2019

R292 nailed it

by Anonymousreply 29304/21/2019

[Quote] Interest waned because he revealed himself to be a non-laid back queeny guy, in stark contrast to his cool, unaffected glass closet days.. not because he came out as gay.

Somehow that doesn't make it any better.

by Anonymousreply 29404/21/2019

DL acting brand new, as usual.

by Anonymousreply 29504/21/2019

To Colton (since I hear you read this),

I was a freshman in High Schol when I stumbled upon your XY photos in the magazine section of Books-A-Million (shout out to the midwest). I stole the pictures from the magazine and kept them hidden in my closet (fitting). I was so alone and angry about my sexuality. Those pictures allowed me to dream of spending a Valentines Day with a man I adore or just being loved in that way. I would look at your two and see happiness. it was my own, it gets better. While I watched one classmate after another go on dates and enjoy life, I knew that I could have that as well. Your pictures helped me. It's been nearly 14 years and I still smile when I look at them.

All this is to say, that you made a positive impact on someone. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. I hope you have a lifeline to a better future around you.

Everyone else, I know it's a bit sappy but high school was hell and I needed some way to make it through those years.

by Anonymousreply 29604/21/2019

That was sweet, R296. And the other guy in the pic is still hot.

by Anonymousreply 29704/21/2019

I hope he gets through this. And marriage is an option, not an inherent goal. Too many sad, married zombie folks to count that thought is would change everything in their partner

by Anonymousreply 29804/21/2019

R294 it does. The emphasis being on "non-laid back", not queeny. But the combo makes it less appealing, if you're dealing with celebrities, i.e. people you do not know personally.

by Anonymousreply 29904/21/2019

Why are we obsessing over a has been?

by Anonymousreply 30004/21/2019

R295 lol never seen that photo before.

by Anonymousreply 30104/21/2019

Is he still fat? Is he still unemployed?

by Anonymousreply 30204/21/2019

R296 Didn't Colton claim those pics were CP?! He's despicable.

by Anonymousreply 30304/21/2019

How do we know Colton reads this thread?

by Anonymousreply 30404/21/2019

[quote]  Didn't Colton claim those pics were CP?! He's despicable

The lawyer did. I don't believe that Colton didn't know that the lawyer was sending out cease and desists , but I can believe he didn't know specifically what would be written in the c&ds. The letter was all over the place: they're stolen private pics, they're cp, it's a copyright infringement. They were throwing anything to warrant pulling the pics.

by Anonymousreply 30504/21/2019

R304 hopefully he's stopped.

by Anonymousreply 30604/21/2019

Colton unfollows Jeff again?!

by Anonymousreply 30704/22/2019

WHO CARES

by Anonymousreply 30804/22/2019

I can tell you for a fact they are together. He unfollowed him because people keep talking about it. They want their relationship to be private because they want it to work.

by Anonymousreply 30904/22/2019

Spoiler alert : it won't.

by Anonymousreply 31004/22/2019

[Quote] I can tell you for a fact they are together.

So is this Jeff or Colton?

by Anonymousreply 31104/22/2019

R309 sounds logical

by Anonymousreply 31204/22/2019

[311] neither, friend of a friend that's close with Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 31304/22/2019

R313 I was only joking. But thanks for answering anyway.

by Anonymousreply 31404/22/2019

Because love is a sickness?

by Anonymousreply 31504/22/2019

(313) I was so glad to see Colton finally unfollow Jeff because Jeff was obviously uncomfortable with the situation enough to the point where he felt it necessary to actually hide his wedding rings in pictures at a charity event which is ridiculous and really sad but kind of understandable because Jeff was pretty much under a microscope with Colton’s fans and aren’t even interested in Jeff so I’m relieved. I’m also happy to see them working on their marriage and they both seem really happy!!!

by Anonymousreply 31604/22/2019

Leave your rings at home if you're trying to be downlow. DUH

by Anonymousreply 31704/22/2019

It'll never work.

Jeff is Team Magma while Colto is Team Aqua.

by Anonymousreply 31804/22/2019

R318 I bet it would really make your day if Colton went to the premiere of Detective Pikachu 😄

by Anonymousreply 31904/22/2019

I'm not 318 but i'd be shocked if he's not there

by Anonymousreply 32004/22/2019

Thank you R313 It makes sense that they keep low profile. I was the unfollow and what Jeff liked... And yes, I was upset for them. After being on vacations together.

by Anonymousreply 32104/22/2019

Only if Colto attends the premier in cosplay as a Snorlax.

by Anonymousreply 32204/22/2019

I agree (321) and I saw what Colton did while they were on vacation in Big Sur and then after he had to unfollow Jeff which was really incredible and powerful. I think if they keep their relationship private they might be able to make their marriage work because social media is the worst and Colton said in that Interview that it was a huge problem in their marriage.

by Anonymousreply 32304/22/2019

[Quote] and then after he had to unfollow Jeff which was really incredible and powerful.

by Anonymousreply 32404/23/2019

R323 You talk about Colton staying away from IG during their vacation?

by Anonymousreply 32504/23/2019

[323]What did Colton do in Big Sur that would result in him unfollowing jeff?

by Anonymousreply 32604/23/2019

Unfortunately Colto sent out his Charmander to light a camp fire and it burned down some trees.

Jeff was mortified!

by Anonymousreply 32704/23/2019

[quote]because social media is the worst and Colton said in that Interview that it was a huge problem in their marriage.

Yes because Colton Haynes is such a babe in the woods where social media is concerned.

by Anonymousreply 32804/23/2019

You two or three people that literally stalk him and Jeff are pathetic

by Anonymousreply 32904/23/2019

[quote]You two or three people that literally stalk him and Jeff are pathetic

I wouldn't put too much into it. It is just an obsessed shrew, her gay male cohort and their talking cat. You can usually spot them in the distance in their balloon ride.

by Anonymousreply 33004/23/2019

The poster who makes everything about pokemon is my fav

by Anonymousreply 33104/23/2019

Colton should date Jussie next. When the checks stop coming in and they are both fat as houses, they can start their own gay porn studio and recruit hot desperate twinks like they once were!

by Anonymousreply 33204/23/2019

Colton is still married although I’m wondering how Jeff deals with his Pokemongo obsession because it’s kinda crazy! But I guess we all have our vices! LOL!

by Anonymousreply 33304/23/2019

R330 would that talking cat be Salem?

R331 lol same.

R333 he's had worse vices.

by Anonymousreply 33404/23/2019

Prepare for Colgo

And make it double-o!

To protect the world from homosexualization

To unite all Arrow fans within our nation.

To denounce the evils of florists and publicists

To extend our reach to the fashion shows above.

Colto!

Leatham!

Team Colto blasts off at the speed of light!

Surrender now or prepare to fight!

Meowth! That's right!

Wobbuffet!

by Anonymousreply 33504/23/2019

[329] says the person who is also on a gossip forum talking about Colton Haynes.

by Anonymousreply 33604/24/2019

Nobody is talking about him anymore he really is done

by Anonymousreply 33704/29/2019

There's nothing to talk about, he's laying low while he gets his shit together. I hardly doubt not being talked about on here means a person is done either. Little dramatic.

by Anonymousreply 33804/29/2019

R337 it's either keep quiet or post old shit.

by Anonymousreply 33904/29/2019

Colto...the lean years.

by Anonymousreply 34004/30/2019

Is Colton with Jeff at Four Seasons? What do you think?

by Anonymousreply 34105/01/2019

R341 why is Jeff at the Four Seasons?

by Anonymousreply 34205/01/2019

What is/was Colton's drug of choice?

by Anonymousreply 34305/01/2019

Don't know why he is there. Vacation or business. Alcohol he said in the interview. And other drugs...

by Anonymousreply 34405/01/2019

The Grumpy Cat references never get old. Of course Colton sees himself as Pikachu 😄

by Anonymousreply 34505/01/2019

I saw a pic of Colton posted yesterday at home (his house with Jeff) that a friend put up. So it could be older or he's with jeff.

by Anonymousreply 34605/01/2019

R346 can you give me the link please? Thank you

by Anonymousreply 34705/01/2019

[347] nycvitulli

by Anonymousreply 34805/01/2019

He's hanging around with a barkeep?

by Anonymousreply 34905/01/2019

That’s not his house with Jeff. It looks like the rehab center Colton was at in Arizona. I think that guy Nick is somehow involved with the rehab center maybe a counselor or something because he’s in that picture from New Years where Colton seems to be in the rehab center. He’s also the guy that dressed up as Pikachu for Valentine’s Day.

by Anonymousreply 35005/01/2019

It's 100 % their house.

by Anonymousreply 35105/01/2019

Whew. I was afraid it was only 37% their house.

by Anonymousreply 35205/01/2019

[352] I haven't inventoried their house like the one person posting lol but all those books everywhere give it away. It's like a library/museum..doesnt even look like a comfortable home.

by Anonymousreply 35305/01/2019

So he isn't with Jeff on vacation... Swimming with the delphins 😁

by Anonymousreply 35405/01/2019

[quote]Colton Haynes went through a downward spiral

A "downward spiral of perpetual melancholy"?

by Anonymousreply 35505/01/2019

Jeff posted a picture yesterday swimming with whales and #teamleatham. It looks like he’s with his team working in Hawaii but I don’t know if Colton is with him or not because they’ve been keeping their marriage totally private. Holland posted that she received some gorgeous rainbow roses yesterday from Jeff so maybe Colton is staying with her or they could just be for Holland because she and Jeff are close.

by Anonymousreply 35605/01/2019

Here's some roses for babysitting my husband while I work.

by Anonymousreply 35705/01/2019

R355 thanks for posting Greg 😄

R356 I didn't know Holland was such good friends with Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 35805/01/2019

R356 Thanks

by Anonymousreply 35905/02/2019

I didn't think Jerreth and the Swede actually broke up because they still have photos of each other on their Instagram accounts, but the Swede posted pictures from Coachella with a group of guys, no Jerreth in sight and Jerreth commented that he looked good. Four years of marriage and I think 2 years of dating is a decent run,.

by Anonymousreply 36005/05/2019

They're also not wearing wedding bands anymore, R360. Glad to see they're still friends.

by Anonymousreply 36105/05/2019

R360 what does that have to do with Colton??

by Anonymousreply 36205/05/2019

Don't act brand new. We've brought up Jerreth in every Colton thread and his marriage status has been discussed upthread.

by Anonymousreply 36305/05/2019
by Anonymousreply 36405/16/2019

Colton must be THRILLED!

by Anonymousreply 36505/23/2019

Colton must be FILLED*

by Anonymousreply 36605/23/2019

He should have presented hole more. That's what I do when I'm depressed, having problems with the significant other, or using drugs. It has yet to fail me in any situation

by Anonymousreply 36705/23/2019

Do we think Jerreth has fallen off the wagon and the Swede left him? Does Jerreth still DJ? That party life can be hard to avoid.

by Anonymousreply 36805/23/2019

He's very pretty, but he's short, and stupid, and not very interesting. I'm surprised DL has given him so much attention over the months.

by Anonymousreply 36905/23/2019

Miss Teen Wolf. The cast had a real sense of comradery.

by Anonymousreply 37005/23/2019

That looks incredibly pohtoshopped, r370. Their heads might as well be floating above the bodies.

by Anonymousreply 37105/23/2019

Jerreth is looking hot and rollerskating with some guy (mutual friend of his and the Swede). I'm not so sure that he and Swede actually split.

by Anonymousreply 37205/23/2019

That guy has referred to the Swede as his best friend on his own IG page.

by Anonymousreply 37305/23/2019

Colty displays his real talent.

by Anonymousreply 37405/23/2019

R370 lol at Posey's face.

by Anonymousreply 37505/24/2019

The Advocate

by Anonymousreply 37605/25/2019
by Anonymousreply 37705/25/2019

Good on Jeff Davis

by Anonymousreply 37805/25/2019

[quote]MTV'S most promising talents, launching to superstarom on .. Teen Wolf .... Haynes's star quality has endured..

Colton one of the most promising talents of MTV? Superstardom because he starred in Teen Wolf? Colton a star? On DL perhaps.

[quote]the sar is beoming one of the most trailblazing queer actors of his generation

Who wrote that article a fangirl?

And Colton talks about JD fighting for him against the network and saying that if he couldn't have Colton for the role he would get rid of the role of Jackson completely. That's pretty nice of JD and he seemed to have put real effort into supporting Colton. But Colton thanked him for that by leaving the show without prior notice so that they couldn't even prepare for his exit? JD fought for him in that role and Colton left that role after just two seasons and screwed over the show and the whole storyline of the next season lmao.

by Anonymousreply 37905/25/2019

[Quote] And Colton talks about JD fighting for him against the network and saying that if he couldn't have Colton for the role he would get rid of the role of Jackson completely.

And yet TW fandom thinks JD is a self hating homophobe lol

[Quote] But Colton thanked him for that by leaving the show without prior notice so that they couldn't even prepare for his exit? JD fought for him in that role and Colton left that role after just two seasons and screwed over the show and the whole storyline of the next season lmao.

I thought that was more to do with his manager?? Obviously they got over it because he came back for the final season. I honestly don't think season 3 would've been much better if he'd stayed.

by Anonymousreply 38005/25/2019

Didn't Colton file for divorce first?

It's interesting, and sad, that all he gets to audition for since coming out is gay roles.

by Anonymousreply 38105/25/2019

R380 It had nothing to do with his manager. He was in talks with the Arrow people and as soon as they offered him the contract he signed it and didn't renew his contract for TW. The problem was that TW was already waiting for him to renew the contract and he made it seem to them that he would sign his new TW contract any minute (they didn't have an idea about Arrow). TW was shortly before filming the next season and the storyline was already planned out for Jackson in s3a. But suddenly Colton said bye and left them immediately without prior notice. That's not a very nice thing to do if you know that JD fought for Colton to get the TW role.

by Anonymousreply 38205/25/2019

No. The stuff with re-signing for TW was due to a movie role that didn't pan out (some claimed "Divergent"). Arrow came later.

by Anonymousreply 38305/25/2019

R383 I think it was because of Arrow. But at least we agree that Colton dragged out the resigning (telling TW that he would sign any minute) just to abandon them and leave them behind with a mess.

by Anonymousreply 38405/25/2019

[quote]It's interesting, and sad, that all he gets to audition for since coming out is gay roles.

It's sadly an all too common occurrence. I believe everyone should live their lives openly, but I can get why actors stay closeted because when they come out they are relegated to the gay ghetto of roles. Since coming out Matt Bomer has played many a gay roles and I don't think it's because he's seeking them, but because that's all he's being offered. This is why there are some gay actors like Ben Whishaw who thinks it doesn't matter if straight people play gay roles because if that's the line then gay actors are only playing gay characters who are largely one-dimensional and just side characters and not leads.

[quote]But at least we agree that Colton dragged out the resigning (telling TW that he would sign any minute) just to abandon them and leave them behind with a mess.

It was beyond messy the way he and his manager did it. I still laugh over an interview Dylan O'Brien did after Colton's departure and he said Colton wants to win Golden Globes but said it smirkingly like he knew that bitch would never be in anything that worthy.

by Anonymousreply 38505/25/2019

[quote]It's interesting, and sad, that all he gets to audition for since coming out is gay roles.

Was his character in AHS gay? I only know that he played a police officer. And wasn't he cast in that one comedy as a straight stripper? I don't remember the movie name. And in another interview he said somewhere that he was cast in a big studio comedy movie but when he showed up on set they told him he was fired because it was during the time of his substance abuse and his eyes looked completely empty. That was most likely also not a gay role. That was all after his coming out. But tbh Colton is simply not a very good actor. I'm surprised that he has gotten so many roles so far.

by Anonymousreply 38605/25/2019

[Quote] I still laugh over an interview Dylan O'Brien did after Colton's departure and he said Colton wants to win Golden Globes but said it smirkingly like he knew that bitch would never be in anything that worthy.

Hmm i can't really see any of the TW cast winning a GG.

by Anonymousreply 38705/25/2019

[quote]Was his character in AHS gay? I only know that he played a police officer.

Bi. He fucked Billie Lourd and Evan Peters.

by Anonymousreply 38805/25/2019

I'd stopped watch AHS by that time but I did see gifs of Colton getting fucked by Evan Thingy, so I assume his character was gay. I thought that was a poor choice of Colton's.

by Anonymousreply 38905/25/2019

[quote]It was beyond messy the way he and his manager did it. I still laugh over an interview Dylan O'Brien did after Colton's departure and he said Colton wants to win Golden Globes but said it smirkingly like he knew that bitch would never be in anything that worthy.

When did he say that? This is hilarious and very, very shady of Dylan. But he already said Golden Globes and not even Emmys or Oscar.

[quote]hmm i can't really see any of the TW cast winning a GG.

Lady Gaga won a GG for her awful performance and acting in AHS. The GGs are more about show or actor popularity than for real acting. You just have to be on the right buzzy show and then your acting doesn't matter anymore when it comes to a GG win.

by Anonymousreply 39005/25/2019

[Quote] I thought that was a poor choice of Colton's.

I assumed it was more of a favour from RM after working on Scream Queens.

by Anonymousreply 39105/25/2019

R391 I already forgot that. Another role where he wasn't gay. So I don't know why he claims that he only had the possibility to audition for gay roles.

by Anonymousreply 39205/25/2019

He also had Bigger with Hoechlin. But that wasn't a big role or movie.....

by Anonymousreply 39305/25/2019

I presume Colton is discounting gigs he got from "family".

by Anonymousreply 39405/25/2019

I AM big!

It's the homoerotic superhero fantasy TV shows that got small...

by Anonymousreply 39505/25/2019

[quote]He also had Bigger with Hoechlin. But that wasn't a big role or movie

True! But what does Colton expect? Does he want to get offered big movie roles or main roles in TV shows although his acting is very subpar? I think in his case the lack of big roles is not because of his coming out but simply because of his lack of acting skills. It's not like he was offered big movie gigs before his coming out. And he only got the job on Arrow because Berlanti already knew that he was gay and Berlanti is very supportive of gay actors.

by Anonymousreply 39605/25/2019

He didn't say big roles.

Whatever his acting ability, he had more acting opportunies pre coming out. That's the crux of the issue.

by Anonymousreply 39705/25/2019

R397 I think he could have actually had more acting opportunities after his coming out or because of him being gay. JD fought for him, and we know that JD hired lots of LGBT people on TW. I don't know if JD would have fought for him if Colton hadn't been gay but just a straight actor. He got the Berlanti role because he was gay. Same with the two RM roles. He had a role in Love Simon from Berlanti (it was cut but strangely EW made a big splash about it and released his scene and wrote an article about it with praise for Colton. Btw his acting in that scene was awful). Doesn't look like he had less opportunities than before because he didn't have more or bigger roles before his coming out either.

by Anonymousreply 39805/25/2019

Again, the comment wasn't about getting more or bigger roles.

It was about auditions.

He got to audition for straight characters. That has stopped.

by Anonymousreply 39905/25/2019

[Quote] JD fought for him, and we know that JD hired lots of LGBT people on TW.

Well some of us do.

by Anonymousreply 40005/25/2019

[quote] It was about auditions. He got to audition for straight characters. That has stopped.

Well, he apparently didn't manage to get many of those straight roles before his coming out because he isn't the best actor. And he got straight roles after his coming out as well. That means he was allowed to audition for them. The comedy where he played a stripper, the movie that he apparently was fired from, Scream Queens..

by Anonymousreply 40105/25/2019

What gay roles did Colton play before he came out? XY mag doesn't count. He played hetero parts. There are more hetero parts, which means more auditions.

He's had pissy tweets before about this. He's not making it up. What's to be gained?

by Anonymousreply 40205/25/2019

Noone said that he has played gay roles before coming out. I'm talking about the part where he said that he only got offered gay auditions after his coming out. But he has played straight roles after his coming out so his claim isn't entirely true. I could believe that he now gets offered more gay roles than before. But the claim that he ONLY gets offered gay auditions is simply wrong. You just have to look at the roles he has played after his coming out. There are also straight roles among them.

by Anonymousreply 40305/25/2019

Those roles may have been offered to him. Take away Murphy, Berlanti, Davis (all gay producers), what else is there? Stripper cameo?

by Anonymousreply 40405/25/2019

R404 He played the stripper. But he also was supposed to play another character in a different movie but got fired from it because of his substance abuse. He also had the role in Bigger. Hoechlin could have pulled some strings but I don't know how much power he'd have in hiring actor friends for this movie.

Didn't he only have one role before TW or something like that? It's not like he was hired left and right before his coming out. He didn't have more roles. He probably got most roles because he was gay tbh (see Davis, Berlanti and Murphy)

by Anonymousreply 40505/25/2019

Before TW he was in the short-lived network series “The Gates” and in “Looking” which pretended to be all “found footage” from surveillance and selfie cameras. He had a sex scene that was pretty hot.

by Anonymousreply 40605/25/2019

He was a regular on The Gates prior to TW. I think it was a similar pretty boy asshole character. He had a role in Look, complete with explicit (for TV) sex scenes. He'd had one shot guest roles on CSI.

I don't think anyone's claiming he was like a young DiCaprio.

by Anonymousreply 40705/25/2019

*on shows such as CSI.

by Anonymousreply 40805/25/2019

^ “Look” Not “Looking”

by Anonymousreply 40905/25/2019

Running out on jobs screwed him over more than being out.

by Anonymousreply 41005/25/2019

[quote]Running out on jobs screwed him over more than being out.

I don't dispute that he's getting more scripts for gay roles than before, but he has admitted that his anxiety affected his career. If he has a rep as someone who flakes on auditions or constantly bombs during one, I can see why people would be hesitant to see him for a role.

[quote]I've quite (sic) jobs because of anxiety, flaked on social events, family gatherings, birthdays, important movie/work tests. Its a serious problem

by Anonymousreply 41105/25/2019

Most auditions aren't in person anymore. For most auditions you tape yourself and then send in the tape to the casting director. So there's no possibility that he bombs many auditions because of anxiety. Colton simply isn't a good actor, that's why he didn't get many roles. And the gay network in Hollywood has imo benefitted him a lot. If Colton simply was a straight actor competing against other straight actors in HW I'm sure he would have booked far less jobs. There are far more talented actors than Colton who don't get many jobs just because they don't have connections and because the competition is so hard.

by Anonymousreply 41205/25/2019

I ONLY know the name Colton Haynes from DataLounge, and until recently thought he was a porn actor.

by Anonymousreply 41305/25/2019

[Quote] Hoechlin could have pulled some strings but I don't know how much power he'd have in hiring actor friends for this movie.

Lol I don't think he has that much power. Otherwise he could've gone to Colton's wedding.

[Quote] He was a regular on The Gates prior to TW. I think it was a similar pretty boy asshole character.

It was actually nice to see him play a character that wasn't a complete tool all of the time.

by Anonymousreply 41405/25/2019

R414Lol I don't think he has that much power. Otherwise he could've gone to Colton's wedding.

It was so strange that Hoechlin didn't attend Colton's wedding although it would have just been a short flight away from the movie location. And the wedding party spent the next days together in a hotel as well so Hoechlin could have at least attended that. Hoechlin didn't have to work on the weekends. Hoechlin also didn't attend Colton's bachelor party although he was definitely in town and had nothing to do. He's supposedly a very good friend of Colton so there's no excuse for missing everything. My theory is that Hoechlin just didn't want to be seen at a gay wedding (and bachelor party) that would be reported publicly in the news. They had an article in People magazine about the wedding and the guests that were attending.

by Anonymousreply 41505/27/2019

Maybe Hoechlin begged off, with the promise to attend Colton's next one.

by Anonymousreply 41605/27/2019

r415 They got engaged after knowing each other for like 48 hours and Kris Jenner was the minister. Would you have bothered putting on a tux for that mess?

by Anonymousreply 41705/27/2019

R417 Lol. If someone is one of my best friends? Yes. And not showing up for the bachelor party as well even when he was in town and had nothing to do?

by Anonymousreply 41805/27/2019

Has it occured to you that Hoechlin and Colton are friendly but mostly "showbiz friends"?

by Anonymousreply 41905/27/2019

R419 They certainly try to play it up like they are real-life best friends. With Colton even posting a screencap of Hoechlin face timing him to show that he isn't mad at Hoechlin for missing his wedding. Because many people speculated that after he didn't show up at the wedding. But of course the friendship could be all played up by them because they know that the TW fandom loves cast friendships and gives them a lot of attention. It's a way to stay in the fandom's minds.

by Anonymousreply 42005/27/2019

[Quote] My theory is that Hoechlin just didn't want to be seen at a gay wedding (and bachelor party) that would be reported publicly in the news.

Lol at this bullshit again. Hoechlin has been to a gay wedding before. And who would be reporting about him? He's not part of the a-list.

I don't think they're showbiz friends. But I did find it hilarious that when the speculation began on his blogs, Colton posted that FaceTime photo.

by Anonymousreply 42105/27/2019

[quote]Hoechlin has been to a gay wedding before.

Ewwww! Well don't expect to see much of Superman next season.

by Anonymousreply 42205/27/2019

[quote]Lol at this bullshit again. Hoechlin has been to a gay wedding before. And who would be reporting about him? He's not part of the a-list.

Did you forget the part where I said that Colton's and Jeff's wedding was more widely reported?? It was not a private gay wedding of a couple noone has interest in. And photos of the wedding guests at Colton's wedding were also more widely spread. Be it in magazines (where Hoechlin probably wouldn't have been shown) or on social media. It was a big event. And the magazines listed plenty of people, not only A listers, who attended the wedding. People for example mentioned Dylan as a guest. And there were other articles (from EW I think?) that listed Holland as well. So they would have certainly listed Hoechlin as well.

by Anonymousreply 42305/28/2019

[Quote] People for example mentioned Dylan as a guest. And there were other articles (from EW I think?) that listed Holland as well. So they would have certainly listed Hoechlin as well.

Dylan is more well known than Hoechlin is. Maybe he'd probably get a mention in Just Jared lol.

by Anonymousreply 42405/28/2019

R424 Holland is not more well known than Hoechlin.

by Anonymousreply 42505/28/2019

R425 Hmm maybe not more well known, but I can also see her wanting to be mentioned in all of those articles whereas Hoechlin probably wouldn't give a shit.

by Anonymousreply 42605/28/2019

R426 She has no say if she's mentioned in those articles or not. The magazine decides who they mention or not based on name recognition. And Hoechlin as Superman would have had way more name recognition than Holland

by Anonymousreply 42705/28/2019

[Quote] She has no say if she's mentioned in those articles or not. The magazine decides who they mention or not based on name recognition.

I think publicity agents will disagree with that.

[Quote] And Hoechlin as Superman would have had way more name recognition than Holland

Yes he'd have more name recognition but he's still the [bold] CWs Superman[/bold].

by Anonymousreply 42805/28/2019

[quote] I think publicity agents will disagree with that.

I doubt those agents can influence if one of their clients gets named on a list of guests of a wedding that has otherwise nothing to do with the client. Publicity agents can plant articles about their clients but a guest mention in a wedding article? I doubt that.

[quote]Yes he'd have more name recognition but he's still the CWs Superman.

He's known among the social media crowd and names like his get the magazine articles clicks. There were some A-listers at the wedding, but not so many that it would have been enough to just name them in the article. The magazines wanted to include a few more names and among the non A-list names that attended the wedding Hoechlin's name would be one of the most prominent. Most of the wedding guests were perhaps rich guys but they didn't have name recognition as they weren't celebrities. Among the celebrities Hoechlin would have been one of the better known at the wedding.

by Anonymousreply 42905/28/2019

But it's useless to argue if he would have been named in the article or not. Fact is that he didn't attend the bachelor party although he would have been in LA at that time. And he also didn't make an effort to attend the wedding at least in the evening or the weekend with guests that followed. And this is very strange for someone who calls himself a good friend of Colton.

by Anonymousreply 43005/28/2019

[Quote] But it's useless to argue if he would have been named in the article or not

True

[Quote] Fact is that he didn't attend the bachelor party although he would have been in LA at that time. And he also didn't make an effort to attend the wedding at least in the evening or the weekend with guests that followed. And this is very strange for someone who calls himself a good friend of Colton.

Just because he was in LA doesn't automatically mean he could attend. We don't know what he was doing. But we do know that their still friends. I don't really find it that strange.

by Anonymousreply 43105/28/2019

R431 You don't find it strange that he didn't make time to visit his friend's bachelor party in the evening although he was in LA? Her certainly didn't have to work in the evening. And you don't find it strange that on top of that he didn't even try to attend the wedding or the wedding weekend afterwards although Bigger didn't film that weekend? Missing one event wouldn't be so strange but missing all the events...

by Anonymousreply 43205/28/2019

R432 not really. Didn't he attend their engagement party? Like I said, we don't actually know what he was doing. And if Colton didn't have a problem with it, why should we? They are friends but I never thought they were bff like he is with Ally or even Holland.

I do find it strange that there's a continual fixation on anything to do with homosexuality and trying to put a negative spin on it where Hoechlin is concerned.

by Anonymousreply 43305/28/2019

[quote]Didn't he attend their engagement party?

The engagement party was the bachelor party. And no, he didn't attend any event that had to do with the wedding.

by Anonymousreply 43405/28/2019

Yeah Hoechlin was MIA when it came to any events with Colton's wedding. Of course it is something people are going to notice.

by Anonymousreply 43505/28/2019

Ahh it was Jeff's b'day I was thinking of.

by Anonymousreply 43605/28/2019

LGBTQ Superheroes

by Anonymousreply 43705/28/2019

The black woman is slaying. Colton? Not so much. The cover looks cheap overall.

by Anonymousreply 43805/28/2019

Colton is really milking his LGBT status, isn't he? He wouldn't get a tenth of the attention that he gets in HW right now if he was just a simple straight guy.

by Anonymousreply 43905/28/2019

[Quote] The black woman is slaying.

That's Nafessa Williams from Black Lightning.

by Anonymousreply 44005/28/2019

Colton looks like shit on that Advocate cover. Girl is fat !

by Anonymousreply 44105/28/2019

R440 Those suits look really cheap

by Anonymousreply 44205/28/2019

R442 it's the CW. What did you expect?

by Anonymousreply 44305/28/2019
by Anonymousreply 44405/28/2019

just saw Jerreth on Tinder, so it looks like they really did split. maybe now he and Colton will get back together, not like either one has anything else going on...

by Anonymousreply 44505/29/2019

So, did you check out his profile, R445? What is he looking for?

by Anonymousreply 44605/29/2019

R446 his profile is a bunch of shirtless pics, of course. his bio starts with his height (*rolls eyes*) and says he speaks Swedish. had to laugh at that one. also says he's sober... except for weed(?) and links his instagram and soundcloud(?!). fascinating stuff, I know.

by Anonymousreply 44705/29/2019

Well, he's hot. If he was fascinating AND hot, it would almost be unfair. I assume he's looking for twinks.

by Anonymousreply 44805/29/2019

Why would he want Colton back?

by Anonymousreply 44905/29/2019

They were hot together back in the day. Jerreth stayed hot. Colton..didn't.

by Anonymousreply 45005/29/2019

Colto keeps his hole too dirty for a guy like Jerreth.

by Anonymousreply 45105/29/2019

Jerreth's been sobe for 5 years. And more importantly for DL, he's fit as fuck. He could whip Colton into shape on both counts. Jeff Davis is mutual friend. Make it happen, Jeff!

by Anonymousreply 45205/30/2019

Seems that he is back to being happily married with Jeff, both have their rings on. He has been pretty quiet on social media, I wonder if it's bc he is working on himself or it's a deal breaker for Jeff and their relationship.

by Anonymousreply 45305/30/2019

R453 I think it's both.

by Anonymousreply 45405/30/2019

Wait until there are new pokemons in town.

by Anonymousreply 45505/31/2019

R455 new?? How many more do we need?

by Anonymousreply 45605/31/2019
by Anonymousreply 45706/03/2019

r457 gurl who dis???

by Anonymousreply 45806/03/2019

R458 it's Ruby Rose making a joke.

by Anonymousreply 45906/03/2019

Colto went overboard with the foundation again....

by Anonymousreply 46006/07/2019

R460 😕😕😕

by Anonymousreply 46106/07/2019

Why does he even need foundation for attending a simple fan convention? He has good skin so he doesn't need foundation to hide or cover anything. That colour is a mess. It doesn't match his skin tone at all.

by Anonymousreply 46206/07/2019

Marge Simpson !

by Anonymousreply 46306/07/2019

R463 Homer's got it set to whore??

by Anonymousreply 46406/07/2019

[quote]That colour is a mess. It doesn't match his skin tone at all.

It looks like his head was Photoshopped onto someone else's body.

by Anonymousreply 46506/07/2019

[Quote] It looks like his head was Photoshopped onto someone else's body.

Lol wouldn't be the first time that's happened to him.

by Anonymousreply 46606/07/2019

Perhaps he got a Ditto to take his place.

by Anonymousreply 46706/07/2019

He looks like Elon Musk at r460.

by Anonymousreply 46806/07/2019

I love Colto but he don't need makeup, men don't need that.

by Anonymousreply 46906/07/2019

Going by R460 he'll be having a facelift soon.

by Anonymousreply 47006/07/2019

R470 i hope not.

by Anonymousreply 47106/07/2019

r460 Nice of him to go as the Kanima for his Teen Wolf fans.

by Anonymousreply 47206/07/2019
by Anonymousreply 47306/08/2019

He used to he so hot and handsome but he has fucked with his face too much.

by Anonymousreply 47406/08/2019

30 years old, a Britney fan and pokemon addicted.

He'll never make it past 40.

by Anonymousreply 47506/08/2019

R472 I'm not seeing the resemblance.

by Anonymousreply 47606/08/2019

Colton and Jussie need a life coach

by Anonymousreply 47706/08/2019

R477 are you offering?

by Anonymousreply 47806/08/2019

He already has one :

by Anonymousreply 47906/08/2019

R479 link isn't working.

by Anonymousreply 48006/09/2019

r479 url to copy and paste

https://www.instagram.com/p/BychcDQl9ET/

It was bound to happen.

by Anonymousreply 481Last Monday at 12:41 AM

R479 aww well it could be worse.

by Anonymousreply 482Last Monday at 3:50 AM

........

by Anonymousreply 483Last Thursday at 4:03 PM

The Only Pictures That his face looks like it has had work are the ones he posts. He facetunes the fuck out of them. I hope his break from social media is helpful to him

by Anonymousreply 484Last Thursday at 5:44 PM

r483 Why does his head seem so wide in that? his cap looks twice the size of the other guys.

by Anonymousreply 485Last Thursday at 5:49 PM

R485 yeah it does. But at least there wasn't any duckface.

by Anonymousreply 486Last Friday at 3:48 AM

Does he have a job?

by Anonymousreply 487Last Friday at 4:00 AM

Pokemon hunter is a real job bitch !

by Anonymousreply 488Last Friday at 4:05 AM

R487 there's always conventions.

by Anonymousreply 489Last Friday at 5:00 AM

Obviously the one where he drinks is the only one real. All the others are of a wax sculpture of Colton.

by Anonymousreply 490Last Friday at 12:32 PM

[Quote] All the others are of a wax sculpture of Colton.

Pretty good sculpture 😄

by Anonymousreply 491Yesterday at 2:09 AM

Had such an amazing time in Melbourne! Thx for having me @ozcomiccon

by Anonymousreply 492Yesterday at 6:17 AM
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