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Do Straight Men Regularly Seek Out Gays For Blow Jobs?

Inspired by the other thread. Share your experiences!

by Anonymousreply 31March 28, 2019 3:08 AM

NO, they look for women.

by Anonymousreply 1March 27, 2019 3:16 PM

Only in gay men's fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 2March 27, 2019 5:29 PM

The guys who seek out men for sex are not straight. Straight men have the same nonexistent desire to hook up with men as gay men have to hook with women.

Of course, sexuality is a spectrum, and not everyone is actually falls on that straight or gay end.

The end.

by Anonymousreply 3March 27, 2019 5:33 PM

I have a married neighbor that visits me regularly because his wife won’t blow him

by Anonymousreply 4March 27, 2019 5:37 PM

It's really this simple:

Aside from adolescent experimentation, naval vessels, and prison, no.

Men who seek out sex with men are gay or bi. Period. Just because they're closeted or married doesn't make them actually straight.

Put away the online erotica and porn for 5 seconds and be real.

by Anonymousreply 5March 27, 2019 5:37 PM

I always ask gay men with this ridiculous porno idea of how straight men behave the following:

"So...what you're saying is that if you were horny or drunk enough, you'd let a woman suck you off. Right?"

When they recoil in horror, I conclude with "that's exactly what legit straight guys think about a dude giving them head."

by Anonymousreply 6March 27, 2019 5:42 PM

Oh, he’s married R4?

Then he HAS to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 7March 27, 2019 5:42 PM

It probably happens, certainly in prison it does, but I don't think it's commonplace in general. There would be more of it in a world devoid of homophobia, but that world's never existed. Straight guys could always flip through Hustler or watch porn while getting blown, just use a little imagination.

by Anonymousreply 8March 27, 2019 5:43 PM

This thread doesn't really need to go past r3's post, but of course it will go on, and on, and on, and on ....

by Anonymousreply 9March 27, 2019 5:48 PM

I remember the scene in the movie "Shame" where the main character, a straight man who has a sex addiction, goes into a gay bar and gets a blow job from a male. I wondered how desperately you would want sex to go to the "other side". I'm not sure how many gay men with sex addiction would go to a female if nothing else was available. I do believe that men in general are more aggressive sexually and that if you removed social stigma, many straight men would have side sexual relationships with other men.

by Anonymousreply 10March 27, 2019 6:34 PM

R10 women are to blame for the stigma as well, because most women even "liberal cool with gay men" types simply won't touch or go near a dude that's had sexual relations with men, so no pussy loving straight guy is gonna give up bagging more potential pussy because he was supposed horny one night and expeminted with a guy

Oddly enough the OPPOSITE is true for women if they engage in lesbian antics it ADDS to their allure with strait guys, they love that shit

Women are culpable but never called out by gay men in their BS

by Anonymousreply 11March 27, 2019 6:49 PM

Give up OP

by Anonymousreply 12March 27, 2019 7:05 PM

No. Closeted self loathing gay men who can’t get laid without lying are the “straight” men who seek out gay sex.

Obviously there are exceptions (jails, a drunk college night) but those are exceptions.

I escorted around a decade ago and all my clients were “straight”. Then I got to know then and it always came out they were ridcidulesd by straight guys in their youth. By seeking out a straight escort( I was gay for pay before it was cool) it worked like therapy for them. They’d eventually tell me how I reminded them of the straight jock in HS that tortured them except I was kind and as a result they let go of those bad memories.

by Anonymousreply 13March 27, 2019 7:14 PM

No, but gay men claim to be straight when they want their dicks sucked.

by Anonymousreply 14March 27, 2019 7:41 PM

Listen people, ALL MEN ARE EITHER GAY OR BI. If you ever notice their behavior and shit they talk about, you'll see all men are at least a Kinsey 3 or 4.

by Anonymousreply 15March 27, 2019 7:46 PM

[quote]he was supposed horny one night and expeminted with a guy

I’ve done a lot of things with a lot of guys in my life, but never this. Does it involve Altoids?

by Anonymousreply 16March 27, 2019 8:05 PM

R11 I see your shitty and low key misogynistic comments all over the show mate. ‘Women’ are vile creatures that hen peck bi men from being open about their sexuality! If it wasn’t for them all the str8 bro I fantasise about would let me suck their cock!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 17March 27, 2019 8:42 PM

Like, I literally see the same regurgitated shit about evil straight women ( and sometimes gay guy) by you on different sites. You are obsessed and delusional and probably not nearly as ‘bi’ as you think you are, you annoying little fag.

by Anonymousreply 18March 27, 2019 8:44 PM

Go back to your porn r15.

by Anonymousreply 19March 27, 2019 8:49 PM

Oh and would you look at that here is ‘Pete Le meat’ spouting the same talking points on a recent queerty article. I bet he is probably the ‘bi’ lady who is into bi guys in the comment below him also.

What a tiresome faggot.

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by Anonymousreply 20March 27, 2019 8:52 PM

R17 I never said that, MOST men are overwhelmingly straight but some that are curious won't proceed with it because it somehow will make them.less desirable to women,many whom will not hook up with a guy who even experimented even just once with another guy, which h is homophobic in itself but how dare I talk about homophobia from women on a GAY MAN'S site, how dare I??????

R18 this is the ONLY gay site I've ever posted on mate

by Anonymousreply 21March 27, 2019 8:53 PM

r19 if I went by porn I would've said all women are bi. But in reality few women are bi or gay whereas I see all men are fruity.

by Anonymousreply 22March 27, 2019 8:54 PM

R21 you are a liar. You have a similar posting pattern that gives you away.

And anyway, as you said, this is a gay site. So why the fuck should we care about the the bitchings of some ‘bi’ man about how women are meanies?

Go eat out a pussy and leave gay men alone you fucking twat. You are literally so annoying with the same dumb posts you make

by Anonymousreply 23March 27, 2019 8:59 PM

R3 and R6 /endthread

by Anonymousreply 24March 27, 2019 9:04 PM

I once met a guy on CL who had straight porn on when I got to his house.

That scenario doesn't turn me on in the least so I left.

by Anonymousreply 25March 27, 2019 9:07 PM

R23 again this is the only gay site I've posted on. Please tell me what the others are oh wise one

And yes I will probably be eating pussy this week, my girlfriend, whose a great, smart woman, loves it and I like doing it

But how are women who treat men who've even maybe only experimented once with another man like they are defected and useless now and not a real man, NOT homophobic? It's the DEFINITION of homophobia and why don't more gay/bi men call them out, even my girl agrees with me

by Anonymousreply 26March 27, 2019 9:21 PM

Who cares what straight men do?

Another self-loathing thread brought to you by a Datalounge idiot.

by Anonymousreply 27March 27, 2019 9:32 PM

I love these Indignant Frau-bait troll threads.

Yes, you dumb cunts. Your straight husband gets blow jobs from other men: adult book stores, men’s room bathroom stalls, hookups at the gym steamroom. You name it, guys get their dicks sucked. It’s non reciprocal.

Why? It’s nice to get a blow job without whining, non stop talking, complaining and demands for some prize in return. It’s sexual blackmail so even straight men know to get a blow job from another guy who won’t treat them like an ATM.

And yes, if you think otherwise - you’re the world’s stupidest cunt.

by Anonymousreply 28March 28, 2019 2:21 AM

r6 Exactly this. No matter how horny I was if there wasn't another guy to mess around with. I'd rather jerk off and get myself off than ever seek a girl to get me off. A straight guy would have the same sentiments towards a guy. Otherwise he's definitely not straight.

by Anonymousreply 29March 28, 2019 2:47 AM

0/10 Mary Elizabeth, you are delusional.

by Anonymousreply 30March 28, 2019 2:52 AM

Yup.....a frau told me its the males jawborn thats way stronger then a female and thats what attracts them

(Not my theory)

by Anonymousreply 31March 28, 2019 3:08 AM
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