Things that make you instantly dismiss someone as not worth dealing with

Says "Phantom of the Opera" is the best musical ever.

Isn't this the pet peeves thread

Breeding

Religion

Voting republican

They spend hours and hours binge-watching TV shows, and can't tell that most of them are crap and a waste of time.

Voted for Trump.

soapbox vegan

Won't watch black-and-white movies.

Says they don't want drama in their life.

Knows the names of every drag queen who ever appeared on Drag Race.

Not appreciating classical music.

Says "sure" all the time.

Using catchphrases from television programs.

lesser Ivy

Is so cheap spends all their time looking for the best deal and don’t realize time is a more valuable asset.

Watches and looves reality tv shows

r13 is Ted Cruz.

Is an obvious social climber

Uses femal,pronouns when referring to gay men

Excessive use of exclamation marks.

Anti-vaxxer

drains their pasta

Goes to public schools and/or universities.

Tee-rash!

Listen to pop music pop radio- like to sing tone deaf to drake songs on instagram

Post themselves working out on Instagram

Pretty much on instagram

Say they don’t like reading (maybe it’s not your favorite hobby, but definitely not something to be proud about

Dirty car, dirty bathroom, dirty in general. - show a little pride

Terrible fashion sense, Wear clothes from hollister, aerostaple , etc In there 20s 30s don’t dress age appropriate

Bad taste in food, what you fill your cart with says a lot- if they fill it with crap. Then they are a piece of crap

Bad tippers

Bad manners

Smell bad

Bad breath plaque teeth

Skinny fat

Fat fat

Obsessed with cnn and politics

Obsessed with politics but have asinine political rhetoric

Colored tattoos

Can’t use chopsticks

Talks too much. Loud and always trying to be loud

Ugly but think they are hot

Into raw sex with strangers

Dirty asshole don’t clean

Methhead

Chainsmoker

Hates animals.

Can not have a conversation that is both give and take. I find stupid people talk over others. They are louder, wordier and do not listen. It seems almost any interaction with this type of person ends in miscommunication and general crappiness.

Has absolutely no original political and cultural opinions. Every opinion, every like and dislike, is taken from what his or her particular in-crowd is tweeting, instagramming, saying on MSNBC, writing in the NYT, etc.

"My DL post has 26 replies!"

Lies.

Tells you what to do. Describes themselves as a predator whether trying to be funny or not. Refers to their mm as a crazy bitch.

^mom not mm

Use of absolutes "always/never" when talking of human behaviour and actions

I am echoing r25 and r24's contributions of things that make me instantly dismiss someone as not worth dealing with

Belief that FOX News is a real news channel, licensed by the FCC to deliver news

Tattoos on face and neck

Mental illness that makes them hostile and aggressive

Oneupmanship

[quote]In there 20s 30s don’t dress age appropriate

Judgmental queens who don't know the correct use of "there," "their" and "they're."

Has an endless list of mostly inane things that makes him instantly dismiss someone as “not worth dealing with.”

Wearing a cross.

Their phone is more interesting to them than the world and so their phone is more interesting than they are.

Refuses to see a movie with subtitles.

Farts when entering someone’s home for the first time....

Always wait for the second visit

Doesn't like Cairo.

Involved in a MLM

Love superhero movies.

Doesn't travel.

Has never heard of Monteverdi's 1610 Vespers or Threni by Stravinsky.

Cracked iPhone screen= unstable

No sense of humor. can't read between the lines.

Can't meaningfully discuss the arcana of Mallarme's sonnets. Has no idea what "arcana" means. Farts when entering someone's house for the first time.

Has a long list of non-starters (I'm looking at you r23).

bald faced liars. unless they are super charming about it, and shamelessly clear that they are fucking bullshitters.

Has to ask questions about all those forks, knives, and spoons arrayed on either side of the plate. Or worse, doesn't ask, and just desperately grabs something and starts shoveling. And farts. "Men" are such beasts...

Anti-Vaxxer.

Adores Katharine Hepburn in any role post WWII.

Obsessed with 'Superfoods' .

Christian

Checks before meeting you that the location is "dog friendly." Friendship over!

Uses the phrase "my truth". Next!

Collusion with Russia and selling the wh. So not worth it.

Religion, horoscopes, don’t read for pleasure, refuse to watch foreign films with subtitles

Says "Ariola Grandé" is my favorite singer EVERRRRRR

Believes in life after love

Can tell one Kardashian from another. And does in public.

Non-stop talking. Never shutting the fuck up.

Considers The Golden Girls television at its finest

Can't answer even a few questions on Jeopardy

Shoes are poorly maintained

Dirty fingernails

Yellow (but not super white) teeth

Uses he word "hate"

Smoker or heavy drinker

And prefers the musical Mame (stage or film) over the movie Auntie Mame

Uses “cause”, or even worse, “cos” when they mean “because”.

Drug Use

Horrible Temper

Immature as hell

If a woman, a mouth like a sailor.

They use the term bi-erasure.

lick your fingers in a public restaurant = don't ever call/text me again

Use their cutlery like three year olds.

Which is why I can’t date Americans.

Voted for Jill Stein on 2016. Supporting Bernie Sanders for 2020.

R23: Here's my take on your list:

Listen to pop music pop radio- like to sing tone deaf to drake songs on instagram

Post themselves working out on Instagram

Pretty much on instagram

Say they don’t like reading (maybe it’s not your favorite hobby, but definitely not something to be proud about

Dirty car, dirty bathroom, dirty in general. - show a little pride

Terrible fashion sense, Wear clothes from hollister, aerostaple , etc In there 20s 30s don’t dress age appropriate - Well I prefer jeans, t-shirts, hoodies etc. Nothing from hollister, aeropostale etc. Love my Reebok sneakers and my Timberland Hikers.

Bad taste in food, what you fill your cart with says a lot- if they fill it with crap. Then they are a piece of crap - In our case it's all high quality fat, protein, vegetable and fruit. And no sugar - instead stevia/erythritol.

Bad tippers - If service is good I'll do 20% - if it suck they're lucky if they get a tip.

Bad manners #define manners

Smell bad Give me a few days of not showering - say 4 days and some might find the sent alluring others not so much.

Bad breath plaque teeth Don't have bad breath, I brush and floss regularly.

Skinny fat Don't care - I might be classed as Skinny Fat, or Fat Fat or whatever it is in your judgement.

Fat fat Some of us do like some meat on the bone.

Obsessed with cnn and politics Now here is where we definitely part company. I consider politics another contact sport. Always good to know your state and federal reps and senators. When I lived in RI I met mayors, state reps, senators, and then Sen. Sheldon Whitehouse, Rep. David Cicciline, etc. Now CNN is nauseating with all the Trump coverage but I guess that's just par for the course.

Obsessed with politics but have asinine political rhetoric I don't have asinine politics. I was a member of the Democratic Socialists and trying to find a DSA chapter here. If you ever get the chance check out the link I've posted. Let's put it this way when I take the test I'm to the left of Ghandi.

Colored tattoos No tattoos at all. My body is my temple.

Can’t use chopsticks Like a pro. I insist upon them in Chinese, Japanese etc. restaurants.

Talks too much. Loud and always trying to be loud I'm more the quiet type myself - until you hit on something I'm passionate about. Or you piss me off.

Ugly but think they are hot Never had a problem running down tail. To the point where I've passed on many offers.

Into raw sex with strangers Yes indeed that's a no brainer.

Dirty asshole don’t clean Ok - I wash down there. I expect that everyone knows how to do that like you apparently do.

Methhead Never - I remember when I did a few years at the State Attorney General's office. Got to go to the SEARCH conference in D.C. That's when Meth was really becoming a problem.

Chainsmoker Never took up the habit and do find it somewhat disgusting.

Hates animals.

Nope, love cats, dogs, mice, hampster, gerbils. Even squirrels though they are nasty little beasts until you feed them then your friend forever.

Wow, beggars really can be choosers.

Extreme food pickiness. Either people who suffer from supposed allergies or someone who has aversions to many ingredients, herbs , spices, etc and prefers food as bland as Possible.

Vaccinates (poisons) their children

Speaks in dull monologues

Doesn’t listen

Major hobbies include gayming/gaming and superhero movies

Too many conspiracy theory fears.

Perfectly healthy women who claim they're "tired" all the time, and don't take my advice to just change their hair color.

[QUOTE]Extreme food pickiness. Either people who suffer from supposed allergies

So you’d rather they eat food that can kill them?

Vegans Anti-vaxxers Trump supporters

R73: I'm not that picky about food. I'll pretty much try anything.

Lets their dog off-leash in non-designated areas.

Trans

Talking about the supposed value of their house. [Yawn]

Nosiness as in, "So, what do YOU do?"

Has a seemingly arbitrary and never-ending list of don’ts to which they don’t measure up themselves.

People who hack on about their food allergies which didn’t exist twenty years ago and we all got by just fine.

I work with someone who fucking LOVES having a nut allergy! She proudly carries her epi pen everywhere. “I can’t even be in the same room as a peanut or I’ll go into anaphylactic shock!”.

My acerbic dyke friend suggests that for the next diversity pot luck lunch (don’t get me started) I should just show up positively smeared in peanut butter.

Small thing, yet it makes me dismiss them immediately: a US flag pendant on their suit jacket.

R84 Would you prefer a Russian flag?

Wants to tell you all about his throuple. Rolls eyes. Taking attention whoring to the nth degree.

High school dropout; stays out until 2, 3, 4 in the morning, including weeknights; not interested in college or trade schools; gets pregnant and married; gets divorced; moves home, with crotchfruit, into Mommy's two-bedroom apartment; gets a back tattoo; turns 40; 40 or more years of loserhood to go.

Incompetent with respect to their job.

People who demand more than they give / people who charge more than they would pay for the same service or goods.

People who think they're worth more than they are / worth more than other people.

Cheap people.

Uneducated, poor, religious, voted for me - lol

Also, people who constantly speak to their family via call/text while in the workplace.

Add to that people who constantly ask for help.

Someone who plays music or videos on their phone with the volume up while in a public space.

People who say 'furbabies' when referring to their cats and/or dogs.

Saying 'anyways'

Nothing, actually. One thing doesn't define a person. You guys sounds like judgmental assholes. How would you feel if someone said, feminine acting men and we know there are a lot of them on this site.

Asshole motorcyclists and bikers. I hope a car runs them over.

Having a list of petty items for which he instantly dismisses people...

...because you know the list is just the tip of the iceberg of crazy things that person finds bothersome, irritating, unworthy, and a waste of time, money, and breath.

When I hear them use the word 'husbear.' I stop them midsentence and walk away forever.

Spoonies.

Astrology.

People who describe other people as having more money than sense. They're just poor and bitter.

When they want to tell you how good God has been to them.

R83 an acquaintance of mine ate a peanut and went into a coma and was out for several minutes, he's brain damaged now. What I don't understand is how this never happened before, he never ate a peanut before? Can these people develop these late in life, and not know about them? Unless it is some nut he had never eaten before?

So anyway, it does happen.

People who are bothered by people who say 'furbabies' when referring to their cats and/or dogs. I would not call anyone a fur baby unless I suddenly developed a really hirsute boyfriend, but WGAF what someone else calls his dog?

They are covered in tatoos. Mental problems do have a billboard

Extreme dog lovers and human-haters.

People who don’t understand the difference between “everyday” and “every day” and between “anymore” and “any more”.

R106 you sound fun. I bet your a blast at parties.

[quote]I bet your a blast at parties.

Oh, dear.

R74, you do realize that your points 1. and 5. are in direct contradiction to one another, right?

Says "I had went" instead of "I had gone".

What R25 said and . . .

Hypocrisy

Lunatic conspiracy propagators

--call strangers Boris, Natasha, or Ivan

Smokes cigarettes

Watches Fox news and thinks the mainstream media is "fake news".

Thinks Trump is the greatest president ever

Likes country music

Calls women "gals"

Drives a muscle car or a gigantic pickup truck

And some of you Queens wonder why you're lonely.

Whereas you don't have to wonder why, Miss 114?

I'm not usually picky, but I recently met someone who only wanted to discuss money, then claimed they weren't interested in money.

Like it was stated by others--I don't care about the value of another person's home or salary. It's boring.

Other boring groups include people newly on a diet/exercise kick or those who have recently had weight loss surgery of some type. Unlike most of DL, fat doesn't bother me, but diet talk makes me cringe. It is TMI.

Eat, poop, masturbare, sleep, repeat

Long daily talks about workout routines

Sleeve tattoos

Belching in public without apology

Overzealous animal rescuers

People with some kind of American flag icon as their avatar

People with a religious icon as their avatar

False patriots and religious zealots

Pickup trucks

Audis

Flip flops at work

Message t shirts

Mentions how much they make a year, within minutes of meeting

Anyone ignorant enough to describe themselves as Queer.

Anyone who puts their preferred pronouns in their social media bio.

Influencers of any kind.

Tattoos.

Conspiracy theorists who believe mass shootings etc are staged.

Anyone into athleisure. It is rarely flattering and makes you look like you couldn’t be bothered.

People who have zero interest in a group, but show up anyway - an acquaintance comes to various social events and I can assure he has no idea what anyone else does, or what their interests are, etc. because the second he shows up, he just rambles about himself the entire time, seemingly just waiting for someone else to stop talking so he can begin again.

Has the name "Tucker"

People who make up threads like this...

People who feel compelled to respond to every item in R23's list.

Red flags on first impression -- Any or all of these would cause me to RUN:

Poor hygiene.

Seems drunk or high.

Offers TMI about themselves when you barely know them.

Talks shit about other people.

Seems overly "passionate" (emotional) about some mundane issue.

Brags, covertly or otherwise.

Overly flirtatious and/or touchy-feely.

Talks about themself and asks nothing about you.

"Opinionated."

Dominates conversations.

Loud.

Sulky.

These would cause me to DISMISS:

Carefully dressed in the latest, most common, mainstream style.

Tattoos.

Displays low intelligence and/or low education.

Complains.

Believes in Astrology, Homeopathy, Psychics, Spirits, or The Law of Attraction.

Religious.

Addicted to BREAKING NEWS.

Always pining for love.

Anyone who doesn't reign in their jiggle and bounce, gets no love from me.

"I don't give a fuck about his dick. I'm a top"

If we could meet each other, I would instantly dismiss the queens who post Yvonne and "Sure, Jan." They have no right to breathe their next breaths.

Extreme dog lover. Human ambivalient. About to work for a non profit dog shelter. Dogs> humans proud of it. Propably would hate you I. Real life r105

Cologne. Period.

Snow-white underwear. Ditto, tennis shoes: run for your life.

Being over 40, especially if you're fat.

I wish everyone would announce their pathology on first meeting like r130. Navigating social pathways would be so much easier.

R25 = Republican. We see you. Blocked.

Calls people "Republican" with absolutely no evidence.

R136 = Republican.

R137, nope. Not even once. Ever.

I’m a Life Coach!

I agree with r25 sentiment and I am not a republican. People are terrified of deviating even slightly from groupthink nowadays and it results in very boring discussions about film, current events , etc. It's like there is not only one acceptable idea about certain subjects but there's also only one way to word things. Debate is healthy.

Men who often raise their voices, or by contrast mutter in undertones.

If a man is either noticeably aggressive or passive-aggressive I always keep myself far away as possible and advise others do the same. These people can't be reasoned with and are convinced of their own superiority.

Breathes

Are a person

When someone is a third-rate duelist with a fourth-rate deck.

I only have one. People who make lists of things that make them instantly dismiss someone as not worth dealing with.

Giving a shit about anime is usually a huge red flag.

Wearing a bow tie to a nightclub. I met a hot Indian guy on Grindr. We met at a local club. I live in Vegas. He was hot and like 20. I was 30. He was wearing a bow tie. I guess trying to be trendy? It was like 2014. I still fucked him. I like muscular and the color of Indian or Dominican skin. So buttery. He was sweet. I think from some place Southern California. But bow ties unironically worn. No bueno. No future lol

^^^Wearing a bow-tie, period, unless that's the only thing he's got on.

People you meet at SA meetings.

Says the word ASK as AXE, BYE BYE

Makes an instagram post story in an airport laughing about how he’s at a regular airport with regular people rather the private jet. So obnoxious. This is a guy I dated 5 years ago. He then became the toy of an older couple. Travels the world. Drives lambos etc. he’s still borderline retarded. Now that he has money or good life or whatever he’s completely lost loser. No college, although he’s really dumb for school. He played sports but he’s not the sharpest crayon. Anyway. Escort desperate money chasers. Not for me. I actually think he will have a mental breakdown soon. He seems like a cracked robot and his eyes are always dead. So poor, rude guys that fuck old men to be taken care of. Not my type anymore. And that play the song “bust down thatiana” in their car, thinking that they are stunting. Fuck outta here you fuck boy!

Messy/loud eater.

Omg. Have you seen the show dating around on Netflix r151. This bitch from jersey teaching her date how to smack her food to enjoy it more. I literally wanted to punch my tv off the wall

^No, but sounds awful lol. clip?

R152: you mean that idiot with the inflated lips?? I would have gotten up and left her there....= o m g.

instantly dismissed: people who hate pit bull dogs. racists. alcoholics. people who Never shut up.

people who must have their TV on all the time. people with no books in their abode. animal abusers.

sociopaths. narcissists. idiots. republicans. (guess the previous 3 cover that) and close to my number 1 :

PEOPLE WHO ARE FLAT OUT, INDISPUTABLY, WITHOUT ANY DOUBT S T U P I D.

Slow walkers. egotists. people who chew with their mouths open. people who are rude. people with spawn.

oops....*guess the previous FOUR* cover that

R149 = racist

R153: go to 3:50 to see this bitch. she was actually way worse than what is shown!!

R157 Oh hell no! She looks and sounds insufferable on top of that lip smacking shit. Guy is cute :)

Should be a thread on Dating Around. That show was a must watch. My favorite was Leonard. Which is strange, because I put his episode off till last because I thought I would like it least. I liked it the most. Least favorite, the fucking weirdo girl that thought she was so cool and interesting. She’s the personality type I can’t stand, I can get along with anyone. Except people like her. Think they are so eccentric and different and special. Everyone in their company has to go out of their way to make them feel that way. Uggghh. So draining. Fuck that puta! Love old man Leonard <3

Chauvinists. People convinced that whatever it is, cooking style, ethnicity, dress sense, nationality, set of beliefs, way of life, etc their way is the only true way, and other people are "wrong".. No concept or consideration that philosophies other than his own could have any value. Puritans of any political/religion who genuinely think other people are bad humans for not seeing things precisely their way.

People who argue dishonestly and use false logic.

[quote] People who argue dishonestly and use false logic.

^^^^^

My Boss pulls this shit on me all the time, questioning the amount of backpay I'm owed and insinuating I have my figures wrong when it's obvious to anyone with a 3rd grade education she's making $100 deductions hoping I don't notice or challenge them. Then when I call it out she calls it a "mistake" arising from "fatigue". Bitch, what? Either she's incredibly stupid/dyslexic, or she thinks and hopes that I am. So grifty & cheap.

r157 the one at 3:50 HAS to smack her Casey Reed lips. What else are you going to do with them?

Prefers rectangular pizza slices to square slices.

Describes himself as Alpha. Votes Republican. Closet case. Religious, particularly if goes to worship. Anti-vaxxer Conspiracy theorist. Only eats “clean”

When they are catty about stupid shit that doesn't matter .- making a snide remark about someone's car, or the kind of work they do, for example.

When they point out that what is posted in reply 452 was already posted in reply 183, as if we reread entire threads every morning before we post, particularly list threads.

When they dismiss and/or ignore acquaintances who say hello in a business or social setting if they think that person can’t do anything for them. And then, if they see you again in a setting where no one will give them the time of day, come back to you acting all chummy. Throws a hissy fit if you beg off graciously and walk away.

see Russian bots everywhere.

People who unironically use the term cisgender.

People who refer to their boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse as “partner” (moreso for straight couples, esp. men).

Pitbull owners, ESPECIALLY the vocal ones (aren’t they all, though?)

Adults who text me GIFS especially the Judge Judy one.

Rudeness. Animal hater.

Someone who could type "I am a queer fibro warrior!"

fanny packs.

R154 most pitbull owners are narcissists and/or sociopaths. So it seems your list is in conflict with itself.

I agree r174. I love all dogs. But all the gay dudes in south beach clearly do it as an acessory like they have diamond chain. Do it to appear like an alpha gay. Pathetic. But whatever as long as the dogs happy. But they usually aren’t all there- seriously

For R154:

Voted for Trump, calls Asians "Orientals", watches Hallmark movies and thinks their great, thinks Josh Groban is another Pavarotti.

Posts on the Datalounge

Is on Instagram.

Shops on Amazon.

Social media whores, particularly the gays who post pics taken by photographers and write “great shoot today with Johnny D! Amazing talent.” Which basically means the photog agreed to use filters and photoshop to take free seminude pics of the narcissist muscle Mary who fancies himself a model worthy of a photo shoot. Cuz these days having 50,000 IG followers is equivalent to booking the cover of Details in the 1990s

Men who only talk sports,sex, and drinking. Women who have never learned to be truly feminine and not like alpha bull chimpanzees.

People who say things like "I'm telling you now so I don't have to tell you later".

Agree with R145. Every guy I know who is into anime is immature and has a bad attitude and behavioral issues. I'll add:

Ends every sentence with either "dude" or "bro".

Motorcycle

Tattoos and/or piercings

Gaming (video, cards, roleplaying)

But the big one for me is LIAR!

Butch women that think they're they're cool for mimicing some of the worst traits of frat bros, such as belching and fart jokes.

Ugh. All I can think of is that butch led that’s bevers sister in the episode of broad city where she shits in the shoe. I don’t frat boy lesbians either r184

Self described foodies who snap photos of each and every meal.

Even worse, people who record concerts and or chat incessantly during the concert.

Hates Beyonce, Loves Janet Jackson.

Hates Janet Jackson, Loves Beyonce.

flirts heavily with anyone and everyone

Anyone who has ever taken an Atlantis cruise.

Anyone who's ever done a Mukbang. I just can't cope with someone using their mealtime as performance art.

R189 Also people obsessed with cruises. All I can think of are the people being trapped at sea because of a norovirus. No thanks.

Vanity plates.

[quote]Also people obsessed with cruises.

I have a friend who lives for his 3 or 4 cruises a year. Where he goes to cruise. Which is what he does on his phone every waking, non-working hour. I've begun to wonder about calling him a friend. The label seems meaningless most of the time, he's so not "there" when he's here.

Likes Amy Schumer.

people who talk about a celebrity's character like they knew them in real life, when they've never met the person.

Tina, bring me the ask!

People who own pit bulls tend to do it because they hang out with other people who own pit bulls. Yeah, they are more likely to be low class criminal types.

anyone on facebook specially the ones who post pictures they've taken at expensive restaurants of every freaking thing they are eating.....

stupid people who believe that pit bulls are murder dogs, and the people that own them are criminals, assholes, and thugs. R197 you are SO wrong we need another word for wrong. case closed.

SAVE A PIT BULL. EUTHANIZE A DOG FIGHTER.

in my observation pitbull owners are usually either "thugged out" types (of any race), or else emotionally unstable white women between the ages of 30 and 50.

People stupid enough to think posting a pitbull picture meme is an argument

People obsessed with getting "liked" on social media.

Anyone that refers to Instagram as "The Gram".

ppl 2 kool 4 spelin g n grmmrz or makin sence 4 anbuddy that hasta read there shitty txts n posts

People who speak in SJW terms.

When I tell people astrology is pseudoscience and gibberish I can see them glazing over. Mostly it's because they don't understand that only idiots find this "scientific" and compelling! They're basically too stupid to understand how stupid they are.

Chronic lateness.

[quote]Anyone that refers to Instagram as "The Gram".

The same douches who call eBay "the bay."

Oh, come on, r204. No one takes astrology seriously. But it's fun.

Uncut

Boards a crowded bus during rush hour, but doesn't have the correct change.

Hipsters

Defenders of barbaric homophobic religions.

Especially so when they are HOMOs themselves.

Wants to have a baby, had a baby by choice.

If they have a soul patch

R202 well, I for one thought 2002 was l33t.

People who tell you how great their life is. Especially those who send holiday cards with family portraits and brag about all the material things they have obtained during the year, and all the family trips they have taken.

Typing something like "l33t" as if it were a word.

Is OP a 80 year old grandpa living in Florida? Get off his lawn, kids!

Someone who doesn't turn off autocorrect, then bitches "Damned autocorrect."

They are paying at the register at 7-11, with a line behind them. They put their stuff on the counter. Then when then clerk has already finished ringing it up they say "oh and gimme a Philly Blunt". So that delays the line more. Then when the clerk has rung up the Blunt they want to buy scratch off tickets too.

If you don't have a sense of humor

If you don't have wit.

If you don't know what an odyssey is.

If you are a Republican or a Trump voter.

If you drive a pickup truck

The caveat to above is if it's a 4x4 with huge tires maybe we can talk.

If you're vegan in any way shape or form. I always ask vegans if they're doing it for health reasons or for moral reasons. Try that sometime you'll be surprised how many are amoral assholes.

However any of those means an unconditional dismissal.

Uses those face filters on Instagram

Writes things like "Me: _____" "Also me: _____" (looking at you, Dr. Jake...of course, he's a walking example of everything that could be wrong with a person)

Gives their children "creatively spelled" names

Does not know how to speak in an "indoor voice"

Inability to have a conversation without being crude and coarse

Lack of intellectual curiosity or interest in the world outside of America

Litters, doesn't flush, poops at work

Hm in many cases it may be more... efficient, say?... to sort of flip the question:

“What positive traits allow you to forgive others for being very flawed human beings you cannot control?”

Asking what gay men hate about others is a bottomless pit. Misanthropism tends to be our native territory.

[quote]poops at work

We should hold it in, just to suit you, r221?

[QUOTE] If you drive a pickup truck

Huh?

If you own a car rather than taking the subway everywhere.

If you don’t have a passport.

If you aren’t willing to travel off the beaten path.

If you lack compassion/empathy.

If you don’t recycle.

r221 = old lady who got lost on the way to a knitting forum.

My boss, who shamelessly namedrops people who she follows on Twitter as her "friends" as if she actually knows them.

[Quote] If you own a car rather than taking the subway everywhere.

But many parts of the country don't have a subway.

Guys who are more interested in my social status, job, finances, etc. When I meet someone and they immediately ask me what I do, I tell them I work in a hospital doing whatever I'm told to do (I'm a doctor) . When they ask me where I live, I tell them I live in an apartment uptown with my sister (I also own a house by the beach in New Jersey). If they are turned off by the fact that I might not be rich enough or socially acceptable, then it's bye bye.

[219] Lol. My best friend in college did that all the time. Argh!

BAD Liars.

Humblebragging, like r229.

Lol, oh, I’m just a wealthy doctor with a beach house concerned about status-mongering jerks. That’s all!

Is R229 Charlie?

Someone who overuses the word "like".

If you say something along the lines of the following, I immediately tune you out and avoid conversation with you.

I went into Starbucks and I was like, "I'll have a vente decaf." with some, like, room for milk." and he was like, "What's your name?"

Someone who is constantly competing and has to "win" every discussion.

Trump Supporter.

Someone who argues endlessly over semantics. Please just stop.

People who hijack every conversation into an anti-Trump rant.

Scat fetishists. Beware poop poster above.

Less humble bragging, like r232.

[quote]People who hijack every conversation into an anti-Trump rant.

People who shoehorn Trump into every conversation, however irrelevant.

I like r232 justification. I don’t think he’s bragging. He’s just established and knows his worth. If I was a successful doctor and meeting new potential mates I would have a bullshit litmus year too. So many people like “the idea” of someone with labels like “doctor” “wealthy” that they will be manipulative and social climbers. If you are well off and established you do need to make a genuine connection to let them into your world - semantics of what you do and how much you make are not about trying to connect.

I swear some dlers I’ve noticed are so miserable with themselves. If someone says they are perceived attractive or they make a lot of money, or had hot sex. The dlers attack like chum in the water. Get a life!

Meant I like r229s justification

Not even bothering to remember your name.

[quote]Overzealous animal rescuers

What does this even mean?

[quote]If you own a car rather than taking the subway everywhere. [quote]If you aren’t willing to travel off the beaten path.

Isn’t this contradictory?

I have dismissed about half the people that replied to this post.

[quote]Butch women that think they're they're cool for mimicing some

Oh, DEAR!

Not at all R245. In regards to traveling, I mean travel internationally outside of Western Europe. People willing to explore Kazakhstan and Malawi over always going to Italy and France.

Someone who keeps mentioning they cannot wait until the newest iPhone is available.

Drugs

Someone who thinks bassets aren't adorable.

Travel snobs

Someone who thinks baskets aren’t adorable.

Travel snobs hate other travel snobs. Their prey are people who don’t travel and just marvel at their worldliness!

When they lock in with another travel snob, it’s who brought the gun to a knife fight?

Depends what you mean by travel snob. Someone who will only fly first class, stay at expensive hotels and eat in overpriced restaurants? Then yes, I totally agree.

To me, a travel snob is someone in this conversation:

“So, what are you doing on your vacation?”

“Oh, we’re going down to Florida for a little R&R and maybe hit Disney World.”

“Really? Oh, Charles and I are off to Bora Bora. We didn’t want to go again, but last year we went to Paris and the Louvre, so back we go.”

Anyone who posts selfies. Please die.

Those people going to Bora Bora/Paris are definitely pretentious, but also boring and basic. I feel a real travel snob would look down on them as going to the same places everyone else goes.

On the backpacking circuit, a true travel snob will only go where there is no tourist travel at all. To many people (especially Americans), maybe going to a place like Tbilisi is “exotic” or “different,” but to a travel snob, there is too much tourist infrastructure built up there. If you want to discover the “real” Georgia, you will take a marshrutka to a village where no one speaks English and explore for a week. A real travel snob would recoil at the word “vacation,” as they only “travel.”

The conversation would be:

Where have you traveled lately?

I spent a week in Tbilisi and then went up to Kazbegi to hike for a few days. You?

Oh, Tbilisi is...nice, but I decided to spend my time in the Svaneti region in homestays without WiFi for a month.

R226 is the best.

Dismiss and run from any and all Republicans and stupid people.

I gotcha, r258.

Dog lovers.

Supreme dog lover here r261 Dogs> Human. You can fuck off wnd die r261. I would give less than a shit. R257. I hate selfie bitches too. Stop photographing yourself shirtless 20 x a week. Fuck off! You are not that special selfie freaks. Go pick up litter on the ground instead of photoing yourself. Fuck outta here!

everyone who attacks anyone else who has a different opinion than they do because they think their (usually nasty & ignorant) opinion is the absolute undeniable truth

and the only one that makes sense and matters so the others are assholes but they are The Pearl of Wisdom who worships Pythia at the Oracle of Delphi.

PS: R262: I'm with YOU. dogs=gods. below is Murdock was a victim of dog fighting. He was used as a bait dog. His owner was arrested and charged with animal cruelty. He was placed with Last Hope Animal Rescue

Dog lovers. They are unstable and violent.

R264 you are a supreme pain in my hole. eat dog shit and go back for seconds.

^^^^^Dog fucker.

YUCK!

No teeth. Missing limbs. Vegatative state.

Unsuspecting(maybe semi suspecting) crack cocaine abuser. Mama June I’m side-eye looking at you bitch

Any form of escorting or being taken care of by rich. You are gonna have an expiration date and spoil like rotten milk. Have a psychotic break and smash ur sugar dad with a frying pan. But really- no shade in being a whore, but what’s ur big term plan. If I don’t see the big picture it will end with ur life in flames or broke in the gutter. Escorts. So disposable. And I just learned about make escort instagram models, very similar to females. But their is secret codes in their instagram they are high class whites just like the fame counterparts

*male

High class whores like their female component. Fuck you iphone

[quote]because they think their (usually nasty & ignorant) opinion is the absolute undeniable truth

Oh, dear!

Being semiliterate like r268-r270 and trying to blame it on their iPhone.

I’m very much literate. Thank you so much for your concern. I should proof before I submit tho.

I also instantly dismiss faggots that throw shade just to be a faggy cunt and hear themselves r272. Yes I know. Soon the requisite response of i dismiss people that use “faggot”. Oops beat you to it.

[quote] I should proof before I submit tho.

Yeah, you really should though.

No, r273, you are not very literate ("much"?). And please, leave tho alone.

Blaccent.

273 - so you are some sort of self-rising dough? Is that why you can't proofread?

Dull conversationalist.

i dismiss anyone who doesn't love this.

we should be so happy.

but,we are not DOGS.

R268 does appear to be a functional illiterate. iphone notwithstanding.

R1 has it.

Everyone knows it's really ELISABETH.

No.

Just no.

eats white bread

use of budget overly fragranced laundry detergent

use of airwick solid air fresheners

use of Vaseline lotion as sexual lubricant

use of dollar store cleaning products

canned vegtables

Bad tippers earn my immediate scorn, and suspicion.

[quote]Anti-vaxxer

Ditto R20

I’d rather go to a nice city than an underdeveloped shithole.

Scarface poster.

Constant swearing, not mater where they are or who they're with.

And can't spell.

Should be, no matter where

Anyone who is rude to waitstaff, cashiers, etc.

Anyone who looks down on anyone because of their job or standing in life.

The whole Pit Bull thing amuses me because it exposes how stupid the posters mentioning the dog are. For example I know a cancer researcher and her husband that own pit bulls. So you sort of lose on the premise you present guys.

Anyone who uses the term "woke"

Anyone who has preferred pronouns

Decorative words hanging around the house : "Blessed," "Live Love Laugh," "Family," etc.

People making needless lists and forcing others to read it

Cancer researchers can be insane, just like anyone.

[quote]Gives their children "creatively spelled" names

R221 Or one day decides to respell their own name, like "Schellea" or "Jshon"

^ Or Shan'ann.

[quote]People making needless lists and forcing others to read it

Who put the gun to your head and forced you to read it?

Americans who sign their emails "Cheers" followed by their first and last name in lowercase.

You're not British. Please stop.

That person who needs everyone to know how long they've lived or worked somewhere.

People who have to bring their dog to various restaurants or bars = desperate for attention.

Anyone who watches The View.

People who routinely say "I'll shoot you an email."

Sending an email is just fine.

"Here's the thing..."

"So, that was a thing that happened."

"All the things"

Good heavens!

"OMGOSH"

LOL r302. I watch the view. Not seriously but I’ll watch it over a lot of daytime tv. I like the whoopster. It’s an ok way to follow news. And I love Lisa Ling. I know she hasent been on the view in 20 years. But I fucking love everything Lisa Ling ever does. Love that bitch

Anyone who talks about or strives to be “classy”

Folks who are hike on vacation insist on eating at familiar chain restaurants

^^ while not hike

FOLKs that are high? High and eat at chain restaurants? Sometimes I just wanna be an American trash idiot and eat an Outback Steakhouse lol. Fuck what bougie people think. I bought 2 dozen cheddar biscuits at red lobster at Christmas. lol

they want to axe you a question

r309 Depends on what's available on the road. I won't scoff at people who eat at Denny's or Waffle House while roadtripping through unfamiliar territory, but people who visit places like Chicago, San Francisco, NYC, Tokyo or Paris and want to eat at Burger King or McDonald's? They may be worth dealing with in other aspects but I won't dine with them.

People showing pictures of their kids or talking about their kids.

Your right r313. If you are in a good city or place with a unique I’m definitely not eating fucking chain American garbage. Always check the ranks of restaurants on TripAdvisor. Road food.com. I love food too much to waste calories and fucking tastesfiller garbage chains. 100%agree worth u r313

Are we slipping into pet peeves? I thought this was a thread about dealbreakers when it comes to another person.

Whatever it’s turned into. I like it r316. Keep it going. Bump

[quote]r299 mericans who sign their emails "Cheers"...You're not British.

And thank GOD for that!

--people who move to this country and refuse to learn any English

--people who never use turn signals

--anyone who uses the following "words" : bae, grok, adorbs, ginormous, vajayjay

R318 How about flying the currebt flag with 50 stars, not 48.

**current

Has a Bernie bumper sticker.

Has a Trump bumper sticker.

Has a bumper sticker.

When they can't talk intelligently about art.

The moment they say, in a bragging superior tone, "I don't even OWN a TV!"

People who imagine slights and, rather than address the object of their anxiety, post cryptic and vague statuses on social network platforms. Also the same type of People who can't imagine anyone might be going through loss of job, home, relationship or family in a more private sphere than a social network platform, their imagined and unspecific agitations and navel-gazing ado must come first.

^ Todd of Vaguebook

Frying pan voice.

1. I wonder how many of you posters actually [bold]do[/bold] have people in your lives who are “guilty” of the very things you indicated would have you dismiss them.

2. I wonder how many of you posters are “guilty” of the very things on this thread that would cause others to dismiss [bold]you[/bold].

If only R318's link had Trump hugging the flag it would be perfect!

They talk about astrology, horoscopes, and planets being in retrograde, and they attribute someone's or their own personality characteristics to being a pisces, virgo, etc. What bullshit and a fucking waste of time.

Women who talk in a high pitched princess voice.

Anyone who uses the word "like" at least once in every sentence. Or starts every sentence with "And like..."

I thought the "like" bullshit should have ended in the 1980s. Why are some people copying this former habit of their parents and grandparents?

Grandparents did not start the "and I was, like, isn't this the most idiotic accusation?" linguistic trend. That didn't start until the '80s. It offended us then as it offends you now, r333. Probably more so, as you've had decades now to get used to it.

People that breath. Seriously. What the fuck. Thinking they can breath my air.

Drinks instant coffee.

[quote]People that breath.

People that spel (or nott).

R335 Is that our Kelly?

[quote]Your right R313

Oh, dear!

Dirty asshole face. I hate that.

Why, of course R329. We will instantly dismiss anyone who's as intolerant and unforgiving as we are.

R334, what I meant was that today's millennials and younger people use the word "like" as a staple. The people who used it in the 1980s are now old enough to be the parents and grandparents of the people who are overusing the word "like" now. I would have thought the younger people would rebel by ignoring the "like" trend and creating some new trend. You would catch anyone using the word "groovy" after 1982. So why are people still using "like". I actually prefer hearing "um" and "uh" over "like".

Above: You wouldN'T catch anyone...

People who think rented limousines are classy.

People who say “limo” instead of “limousine”.

You know what else truly refined people can do? The format a damn post. Ugh.

[bold]They can format ...[/bold]

I give up.

People who are Beto stans.

R347 is Lyin Ted Cruz.... a fuckhead definitely not worth anyone's time.

Only listens to rap. Has no desire whatsoever to listen to classical, jazz, blues, old school R & B, and haven’t even one Beatles album in their possession, and/or online music catalog. Also, dislikes David Bowie’s music, or only knows one Bowie song that had/has heavy radio rotation. This is where we part ways.

Those who fetishize dating or having sex with people of particular ethnic backgrounds, only. For example, straight men who will only date Asian women.

Doesn’t like to read, and hasn’t even one book, even a trashy novel, in their possession. Thinks reading crap on the internet is actual reading, & that it replaces reading books.

Thinks spending a week in a Spring Break destination, such as Cancūn, after the age of 20, is considered “traveling”.

Doesn’t appreciate art, and thinks a huge poster hanging over their bed of Marilyn Monroe, depicting her dress being blown up, exposing her bloomers, is art, because it’s black & white “photography”.

Thinks playing football in high school and/or college makes them special.

Will only drive luxury cars, will only wear luxury clothing, jewelry, etc.

Cakes on the makeup to the point of total, unrecognizable perception of what they actually look like.

People who get Brazilian butt lifts, only to go on Instagram & tell everyone that they “worked hard for dat ass” while doing squats at the gym, post recovery. Even worse, write / record long & tedious posts, containing videos of their Brazilian Butt Lift Journey.

Long fingernails.

Sex addicts.

Shitty parents.

Irresponsible pet owners.

Anyone with children who isn’t married with multiple children from different fathers. This is for gay or straight people.

Women with children who date criminals.

I really like your list r349. If I met you in real life we would definitely hit off as friends.

Votes Republican.

Defends Republicans.

Attacks, smears, and slanders Democrats.

Raves about hot PR and DR "pinga"

Omg pr pings abd dr pinga is nice. But pr ass and dr ass is best. It can’t be white pr or white dr. It has to be the ones with the dark espresso color skin that’s like melted butter. Tastiest ass I ever ate. When the dude went to blow me after I ate his ass I cane in like 20 seconds. The hype is real r354

R355 proves the point.

R355 ass stank face

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

I’m talking more about people who travel to NYC or Chicago or Paris or Rome and eat at McDonalds or Cheesecake Factory because they are afraid of trying something different. The same does hold true in smaller towns. Not on highway rest areas

It's fun (or was) to try the US chain restaurants abroad to see how they are different.

Usually, the quality was higher, and there were additional odd little offerings, and the ketchup tasted different, or they used different sauces.

I would totally go to McDonalds in India or Japan to try the weird menu items. I read about a "McShrimp Burger" in Japan, and a really interesting-sounding bean-based "burger" in India (with lots of Indian spices).

But yeah, when I saw a "Planet Hollywood" in New Orleans in The Quarter, I had to wonder what kind of lame freak would eat there with all the amazing Cajun food New Orleans has to offer. So many fantastic restaurants... and they'd waste money on over-priced crap at Planet Hollywood?!?

Hey, thanks, R352.

R349, I loved your list too...until you wrote sex addicts! Ha. What do you have against sex addicts?

Everything else was spot on!

Nail biters and dandruff on their shoulders.

Contrarians or those always wanting a debate

People who bring politics into every conversation

One-uppers

People who hate an entire gender or group of people

Rage-a-holics

People who smell

Someone like R22

R363, I have found that sex addicts are shitty friends. They are usually unreliable and flaky, & some will really fuck you over in ways that have nothing to do with actual fucking.

Almost every sex addict that I’ve befriended & attempted to have a decent friendship with, has either proven to be unreliable, or has hurt mutual friends in some really meaningful ways.

That’s just what I’ve experienced.

Aside from these complaints, sex addicts will definitely keep you entertained for hours, regaling about their constant pursuit of ass. And by the way, even that becomes truly repetitious, and boring.

I dunno. Am I the only one who as I get older and mature, actually feels sorry for men and women cannot connect and commit to a lover? I mean, fuck. They’re really missing out on some deep growth and authentic loss of power, and control, due to the inability to deny your beloved the world.

Maybe I’m a silly romantic, but I cannot imagine fucking everything that moves, STILL, after hitting 40, or even wanting to.

[QUOTE] They’re really missing out on some deep growth and authentic loss of power, and control, due to the inability to deny your beloved the world.

I need someone to unpack this statement for me.

It’s called “love”, r368. Once you fall in “it”, you might end up in a forever situation, or not.

Either way, the vulnerability experienced as a result, makes it all worthwhile.

Resin furniture visible from the street.

When answering a question, always starts with "So...."

Loud music still playing into the early hours and their kids playing football(or soccer for US bloggers)in the street!

People who are obese because they are gluttons.

People who reflexively dismiss high school or middle school dropouts.

Yes, r371! Yes!

I don’t know where or how this trend started but it grates on my nerves!

Earrings, caftans.

Anyone who'd type this:

[quote]When answering a question, always starts with "So...."

R359, what if they’re not afraid of something different but simply want something familiar that night? What if they’re tired from traveling, don’t want or don’t have time to search the internet for the best local restaurant and just want to go to a restaurant where they know the menu and know they’ll get something they like? For example - since you mentioned it - Cheesecake Factory has good chicken salad sandwiches, reasonably good sweet potato fries and OK (not great) cheesecake. Sometimes, that’s just what you want if you don’t have your nose in the air about chains.

Adding to the list of those to dismiss: People who think no chain restaurant ever, anywhere, has good food or could be preferred for any reason to a local single-branch restaurant.

Urbanites who sneer at the suburbs.

suburbanites

LOL, R380.

Bernie supporters.

Trump supporters.

But I repeat myself.

They listen to Pitbull.

Loud mouth + tiny hands.

Woman who doesn't say your thank you after you open the door for her even though there's no obligation and it's like she expects it even though she's a dime a dozen.

I love Pitbull. And Akon. So mindless. Lol I love it r83

People who have to have a television on during every waking moment, usually turned to FOX News...

Compulsive talkers.

--anyone who calls someone else "boss" when that person isn't their boss

--people who talk about showing a piece of food or a drink who's boss

Anyone who accuses others of being Russian trolls.

Overly sensitive people that get mean