My 26 year old bitchy gay boss from Chicago pulled me in the office to talk last week

[quote] I’ve been dumbfounded by his absence without me knowing.

Honey, you were dumb long before his absence.

He's not discriminating against you. He's not harassing you. He's not saying terrible things about you to other employees.

Instead of firing you, writing you up, reporting you to HR or anything else negative he instead came and talked to you to see if you had any issues in or out of work.

He was receptive to listening to you despite the fact that the first time he approached you, you told him you "don't wanna talk" and got up and walked away.

You didn't say that he's not doing his job, you said you're upset because he didn't tell you that he's going on vacation.

If the point of your post was to say you don't have a short fuse then you're proving his point here, aren't you?

He's your boss. You deal with it or the alternative is unemployment and nothing you've said so far indicates that he's a bad one.

What earthly reason does he have to tell you that he's going on vacation for 2 weeks? How old are you? You sound like a teenager. You've clearly got a lot to learn.

He’s awful. I’m not even gonna get into it.

What r2 said.

[Quote]He is “concerned” about me cause he feels lately my fuse has been short with him and I can talk to him and come to him about anything yada yada. I told him I don’t wanna talk and got up and walked away.

Lol he wouldn't have been wrong to fire you on the spot. Are you his moody teenage nephew or something? Or maybe you're on the ASD spectrum. Take an online asperger's test, OP.

OP, there is something so very wrong with you. If this is the future, we are totally doomed!

How should I be fired for not wanting to talk about my personal business? That’s MY business.

you are insufferable

No one cares about your business. They care that you act like an asshole in the office. Get your emotions together and save the drama for when you are off the clock.

He was implying that your social behaviour toward himself, your boss, is rude and unacceptable, you fuckwit. But he was giving you the benefit of the doubt by asking if you have something troubling you that you'd like to talk about. Because you've clearly been expressing anger, either verbally or nonverbally, and he was offering you the chance to talk. Sometimes people have non-work-related stressors that cause them to lash out inappropriately at work. Sometimes they don't realize they're doing it until it's gently brought to their attention, at which point it would be good to apologize and say you'll try to do better. That's how reasonable humans work through conflict. But you didn't take the hint, and stomped off like a prick.

HE'S BAAAACK!!!

Chicago, Papi Chulos from the Dominican, the 26yo boss: disjointed diva-jr drama at work. We've heard this song before. About a month ago.

Welcome to this week's edition of Creative Writing class.

R11 my boss is white. From a Chicago suburb.

His boyfriend is Dominican.

Jesus you guys are being bitchy to me!

How old are you OP?

22.

OP, when your personal business affects the professional environment then you're in the wrong. Leave your personal business, problems, attitudes, AT HOME.

OP suddenly doesn't want to get into it because the tide has turned against him. He was basically looking for nothing but "damn right you should be mad" comments. And it didn't work out that way.

OP, don't worry about having a short fuse. Being hung is way overrated.

That’s dreadful, OP - the corporate culture at McDonalds sounds brutal!

McDonalds?! Lmaooo

I don’t even eat there yet alone work.

Actually I did have a salad there recently.

[quote]What earthly reason does he have to tell you that he's going on vacation for 2 weeks? How old are you? You sound like a teenager. You've clearly got a lot to learn.

If your boss is going to be out of the office for two weeks, the boss should let his staff know that he's gone. He doesn't have to give details or a complete itinerary, but you let your staff know when you're out.

You guys are making fun of OP, but I'm not sure that OP is the problem here.

THANK YOU R21

OP and, presumably R21, weren't you posting someone else's pictures the last time? Pictures of the boss or the boyfriend?

I am not R21

What is your position in the company sweetie? ... the boss doesn't usually have to tell you anything about his travel plans if you're low on the totem pole. Shine his shoes when he gets back.

R19 here OP - sincere apologies, it’s just that you have the communications skills of an entry level burger flipper.

Dear OP, I'd fire your ass - are you union? If not, you're at-will.

BYE GIRL.

R27 he appreciates me. I’m his best worker.

Then between the two of you, the company's doomed, OP.

R25, my position is Reverse Cowboy.

[quote]If your boss is going to be out of the office for two weeks, the boss should let his staff know that he's gone.

The only person the boss needs to inform is the person taking his place/fulfilling his duties while he's out.

[quote]OP, when your personal business affects the professional environment then you're in the wrong. Leave your personal business, problems, attitudes, AT HOME.

When I worked in the corporate world, I had an employee who started having issues at work. She was perfect before then. Tough, funny, smart -- I loved her. She changed almost over night. She seemed tired. She seemed cranky. I sat down and spoke to her because based on her history none of this made sense.

It turned out that her son (an only child) died in a brutal car accident about two weeks before. (I vaguely recalled overhearing that was the case when she left work early one day.) Her daughter-in-law, their newborn and their 3 year old all moved in with her because his wife couldn't hold it together. She was taking care of the baby. She couldn't take time off because she needed the money to pay people back for the funeral until they got his insurance money and she preferred to work rather than take leave to take her mind off of things.

We found a way for her to work from home for three weeks and then whenever she wanted after that. Eventually, her work output went back to normal. She started coming in again daily right before I left. She still works there.

I think a good boss understands that sometimes terrible things happen in our outside lives that seep into the work environment and that we're all human. If the company values you, they'll try and help you. It just upsets me when someone is kind enough to talk to a person about their issues and that and that person decides to stomp off and/or doesn't have a good reason for their attitude other than, "I don't like you."

Dear god your life is dull OP.

If he fucked you would everything be OK?

Who's minding the fryer, OP? The orders are backing up.

Oh shit! Thanks, R34. See ya, guys.

I think R33 has the solution, even though I've been enjoying the Bitchy Gay Boss (i.e. the Frightfully Jealous Employee) saga.

I’m not even jealous. Just annoyed

Our employers pay us for our time and expertise; they do not pay us for bringing 'personal issues' into the workplace on top of this.

This includes your bringing your effing dogs into the workplace, an excuse for taking multiple 45-minute breaks during the workday each time the dog 'needs to go outside,' in addition to taking a full lunch hour.

You want a career, get your shit together and make arrangements to leave your personal shit at home, where it belongs.

[quote]I’m not even jealous.

You need to grow the fuck up

R39 no but I should have.

He’s had everything handed to him. Literally. He’s never worked a real day in his life.

And you're not jealous of that? Not even a little bit?

How did he get to be a manager at 26 despite never having a "real job" beforehand? Is this a family business?

We fucked in my boss' office in the end. I am the top

He’s been getting manager positions since he was IN college. His first job was a manager position. Idk how he does it.

Good to know that amazon hasn’t snuffed out all the messy shop bottom drama

In the real world, OP - any nonsense ideas you may have about being “the best worker” go right out the window when you’re a dispectful asshole. Keep it up and you’ll get fired for cause. Do you know what the consequences of that are? No unemployment benefits.

Put a damn civil tongue back in your mouth you petulant child. You act like a 12 year old with these tantrums. You’re not the boss. You’re just insufferable and easily replaced.

The boss is just as easily replaced. You all are just too dumb to see it.

You’re speaking to someone whose gotten “the boss” fired. It’s easy.

R31 If you only "vaguely recall" that an employee's child had died then you are a terrible supervisor and person. Know your people better.

Is your boss bitchy or is he an asshole?

Does he bitch a lot? Or is he just a "bitch" because he isn't a straight guy. And why is the gay thing important enough to mention in the title?

If you're some typical straight bitch I would expect this lame ass shit, but if you're also gay... you're prob-ably the prob-lem. And you're also envious of your boss.

FYI, in most situations your boss wouldn't even speak to you about trips or anything like that because you usually only learn about this shit after the fact and if you were to bring your emotional shit up with him he would either roll his eyes or glare at you for a minute before walking away shaking his head.

OP, the sooner you admit your feelings for him, the better.

I think R50 hit the nail on the head. Don't be sassy because he hasn't presented hole in the break room bitch. Focus on after work dick.

OP, are you the same sad sack drama queen who kept leaving work early/calling in sick because he was so upset over Luke Perry's death? I seem to recall that freak bitching that his boss went on vacation w/o telling him. If that's the case, you are a complete nightmare of an employee and very lucky you still have a job.

R52 I was upset over Luke Perry. I don’t understand why you’re attacking me over that.

And he like straight guys in his porn, R52. He's one of those guys who only wants a gay guy if he isn't gay as well--have fun with that. No wonder he hates his boss.

Your overreaction to the death of someone you don't even know was pathetic, OP, but I'm "attacking" you because the various facts you've revealed about yourself—takes unscheduled time off work over the death of a celebrity, lashes out at boss over personal problems but refuses to apologize or discuss it, takes it upon himself to tell the boss how he "comes across," seems affronted by the fact that the boss took a fun vacation at all and overreacts to not being informed in advance (is his absence actually an impediment to you doing your job or are you just feeling pissy that you're not important enough to be apprised of his plans), apparently has weird issues with the fact the the boss is gay and his bf is Dominican—make it clear that you are a fucking pain in the ass in the workplace.

OP also posted pictures of the boss here (but that thread was deleted).

Was the boss hot? Does OP have cystic acne? We need photos of both to make a determination.

lol OP took time off to mourn the death of Luke Perry? What's your job OP?

OP, Is this an excerpt from the gay-themed office romance you've been trying to publish since 2003?

Whine Bottling Technician

OP, it's always challenging when a younger, more attractive bottom steals your spotlight but you just have to accept your time is over.

My boss is a hot ass mess. Someone said his Dominican boyfriend posted a video of them drinking and driving in DR and my boss is clearly drunk.

He’s such a piece of crap human. White entitlement.

I should tell HR about what he’s doing.

[quoe] OP: He then has the fucking nerve to go to Dominican Republic for almost 2 weeks without even informing me.

Thank your stars. My boss used to load me up with work before she left, and she knew I would do it, and I did. Stupid younger me. Take long lunches and Friday afternoons off, you dope! Enjoy!

R43 OP, the only thing you've ever topped is a baked potato.

The OP had better change his attitude and fast or he can look forward to a lifetime of looking for a new job.

It's frustrating when obnoxious people are so clueless about their own obnoxiousness, isn't it? OP is clearly the toxic coworker that makes everyone else in the workplace hate going in to work every day.

[quote]My boss is a hot ass mess. Someone said his Dominican boyfriend posted a video of them drinking and driving in DR and my boss is clearly drunk.

[quote]He’s such a piece of crap human. White entitlement.

Oh, fuck. "White entitlement".

LOL, whatever that means in 2019. Are you filipino, OP?

You sound like a white-chaser.

What’s a white chaser? I don’t go based off of color.

You need to have the term "white-chaser" broken down for you?

I. Do. Not. Chase. White. Men.

I don’t care about color.

Got it?!

PS almost my entire life white men have been into me. Supposedly being a “passive looking” brown man is attractive

You sound like a piece of work, OP. He went to the DR to get away from you, sin duda.

Hrm, so why does OP say he’s 22 in this thread, but in another recent thread he created, he claims to be 31?

OP: "I don’t care about color."

Also OP: "He’s such a piece of crap human. White entitlement."

Tedious fiction.

I think the OP possibly has multiple personality disorder.

Henceforth let's refer to him as "Eve".

I am 31. I said 22 to be a smartass to you bitches.

But on the real I’m so annoyed.

Drinking and driving?! Not ok.

[quote] Someone said his Dominican boyfriend posted a video of them drinking and driving in DR and my boss is clearly drunk.

"Someone said"= you don't know if this even happened. And it's funny how you're certain that your personal life is none of your boss's business but what he does on vacation is your business.

So OP basically if the MJ threads are to to believed your boss must have hired social media bots to discredit and attack you.

He’s DRINKING WHILE DRIVING. I found his Dominican Boyfriends Insta and watched for myself.

Everyone in that car was drinking huge beer bottles. He looked wasted.

I think I have feelings for my boss.

She sure has typed the words Dominican boyfriend for someone who doesn’t care about race or color

Wow he really has your panties in a bunch OP. Yeah,you sound like a teenager...mad daddy might have found a new playmate.Clue...fuking the boss dosen't always mean promotion sweetie.

Your problem with him is he’s gay, OP. Are you Omar by chance?

My issue isn’t he’s gay. I just mention he’s gay to get a better picture of his annoying ass.

Quit and seek out a heterosexual boss, OP. And, during your interview ask if there any gay people that work here because you don’t get along with them.

Yes because to you gay = annoying.

Look for another job. Seek out a heterosexual boss.

Team Bitchy Gay Boss!

R89

You are so hot for him....jeez,take a cold shower

And because this is a homophobic thread, FF’d.

I admitted I think I have a crush on him. But at the same time find him repulsive. It’s very conflicting.

Nothing homophobic was said. 🙄🙄🙄

I’m gay.

You might be 31 but you've got the maturity of a 13 year old.

Exactly, r96. OP, you are an obnoxious mess.

You all are so dumb. It’s 2019. This is NYC, not Kansas.

It would be way too easy to get a white gay boss man fired. It’s not even challenging.

So what's stopping you?

That I’m not evil.

Debatable.

Team boss. You're a high-maintenance drama queen, OP, and you'd be a nightmare to work with or to manage.

This is such mediocre trolling

OP you need to rage fuck this little bitch. And if you’re positive give him your strain. And if you’re not positive cum in his ass and tell him you’re positive anyway.

R80 So, you’re a lying racist. Got it. All the integrity we could want - and daily demonstrations of maturity to match.

[quote]Supposedly being a “passive looking” brown man is attractive

Brown. Specific.

[quote]I found his Dominican Boyfriends Insta

Creepy.

You “found” his insta. Let’s translate that”. You’re stalking them both online.

Freak.

R104 all young gays are on PrEP and either undetectable or not poz at all, so nobody gets HIV anymore, get with the time gramps.

Omfg he’s such an Insta Hoe. He’s posting pics pretty much naked. Wtf is wrong with him?! Hes a poor representation of this business.

Guys I think I may have to show HR how he’s acting so they can see the REAL him like I do.

Zzzzzz

[quote] How did he get to be a manager at 26 despite never having a "real job" beforehand? Is this a family business?

MTE. I'm around the same age as this boss and I can't imagine a situation where I would have been running an entire office by this time, even if I did have connections & inherited wealth. These days most people in their mid-late '20s are forced to work internships and as entry-level/minimum wage employees on the bottom rung, no matter their skill or experience level, because the fucks at the top guard their positions and won't retire.

As a boss, if I've called somebody into my office to have a talk about attitude or productivity issues, I would have already spoken to my boss as well as HR before calling you in to let them know that there is a potential issue. Both would have told me to begin documenting and to keep them informed. If I was you, I would expect another meeting in the future, probably more formalized if the situation, in your bosses mind, hasn't changed for the better. If you're in the union, I would check your contract as to whether your union rep is able to be present. If you start wailing about getting a lawyer, the discussion will end and now you will be dealing solely with HR... who will be checking everything with the companies legal counsel.

My obligation to telling my team that I won't be in is solely who should they contact regarding attendance issues (e.g. please call X if you will be out sick in my absence, etc.), when I will return and if I will have access to my e-mail or voice mail while out. If they ask me where I'm going or who I'm going with, I'm not hiding anything. I'll tell them. Otherwise, they don't need to know.. My folks tell me they're going on vacation and I just tell them to rest up and have a good time. If they offer more info, we can chat. If they don't, I really doesn't matter to me.

As a boss, whether my staff like me or not is totally irrelevant. Whether I personally like them or not is irrelevant. We're here to do a job for which we get financially compensated. I respect my folks and expect the same in return. My credo is "Don't make me look bad, don't make more work for me and do your job" That's it. Putting out fires and babysitting should be a very small part of my job. If someone is making me do that more than necessary because they're causing unwarranted drama, I don't need them.

In terms of someone being 'the best worker'... meh. I'll take someone who is a team player over the hardest worker any day. Peoples concepts of what makes them 'the best worker' is often times delusional.

Going to HR about the boss... you can try that. Have you been documenting yourself whatever issues real or imagined have been going on? Your boss probably has if he's any good. Unless you were humiliated in front your colleagues, physically threatened or sexually harassed, HR is going to look at this as a personality conflict. Worst case scenario, you'll be told as professionally has humanly possible to deal with it or find another job. Best case scenario (you think) would be you are moved to another department with a different boss. From what I've heard from people who have had this happen, you may find yourself out of the frying pan and into the fire. The new boss is going to resent having a new person foisted on them and odds are, your reputation has followed you. It may work out well, or this new persons managing style may be insufferable. Personally, I'm not a clock-watcher. I don't freak out if people come in a little late or duck out a few minutes early. Some of my other colleagues in supervision are really tough on that.

Still not sure what your boss being gay or bitchy has to do with anything. Sounds like you're jealous or have a crush. The '26 years old' and 'Dominican boyfriend' facts seem to point that direction. Is he treating you just like the other folks and you feel you deserve special treatment because you and he are both gay? Because if he did do that, he could be fired or at the minimum reprimanded for showing preferential treatment. I could scroll up and read all the posts for more info but I'm feeling lazy and my DayQuil is kicking in. Also I can't tell from subsequent posts which are from OP and which are from others pretending to be him.

R114 All good advice, but your DayQuil is blinding you to the fact that this thread is an EST, one of a series of them seen here in recent weeks. None of this shit is happening in any sense other than in someone's imagination.

R114 welcome to 2019 47 year old gay boss TRANSPLANT to NYC.

You haven’t dealt with a mind like myself. I would have you fired. Easily. I assume you’re white. You sound it. Easily.

I’ve done it before. 3 times at my old job. And guess what? I have been keeping everything documented. I’m family to many levels in the law field. I don’t fuck around.

R115 it’s happening. And you all have old mentality. It’s a new day and age. White men don’t get away with shit the way they used too in places like NYC or Cali.

Ha ha

The race baiting is so thirsty

I worked at a Broker Dealer years ago with a fairly good gay boss, a younger Asian man who could be a bit prissy on occasion, but I could easily make him laugh. One time he got upset with me and stamped his foot like a teen having a tantrum. I took quarters out of my pocket and told them to put them on his shoes so he could sound like he was tap dancing. When things went wrong, we were able to talk about them most of the time without the priss/priss attitude. But he had enough of the division and moved into a supporting but advanced position in another department. He knew I was very unhappy with the woman who replaced them, a hard as nails micro manager who was shit ass fucked up at communication.

After about two years, he asked me out for lunch and told me he had just given notice. I told him that the very same day would be my last because I had a disagreement with his replacement and H.R. had agreed to process my termination, having protected me from her wrath in the past. Best decision I ever made. Nothing worse than working for a negative cunt whose only goal in life seems to take down anybody who does not meet her personal approval. Another employee told me later on that she got fired, too. So there.

OP, didn't you claim back at R100 that you're "not evil" which is why you won't get your current boss fired, and now you're claiming that you've done it 3 times at your old job? You sound like trouble and full of drama.

R120 I do what I have to do. I wouldn’t get anyone fired if you all didn’t think you were GOD and can treat employees Aka PEOPLE however you choose.

Sometimes you need to be humbled and reminded ANYONE is replaceable in ANY POSITION or job. There’s always someone that can do your job and even better.

Well that includes you, don't forget.

Oh, the irony

R119 I’ve seen bosses get fired for their attitudes and stuff. One woman, named Nicole, got into a bitch match with her employee cause she wasn’t doing the job at the speed she wanted, and HR and the uppers sided with the employee and the manager got fired.

HR also got fired eventually cause a gay man claimed she was a homophobe and treated him differently etc.

R122 of course. But bosses aren’t exempt. They believe they are.

Many higher ups get fired. Happens all the time.

Again, what's stopping you from doing it to this guy? He obviously bothers you quite a bit. Did you go to HR yet about the drunk driving?

Maybe you would be more tolerable if you actually did your job instead of being all over your phone all day long simon.

Ask for a threesome and smoke two poles. The Only way to get a promotion.

I didn’t go to HR. I’m trying to be good. I will see how I feel after he comes back.

Let me just say that many many many employees think he’s a racist. He’s from a mostly white suburb in Chicago. All his friends are white minus his Dominican boyfriend. He seems to be attracted to Hispanic men, but other than that, ALL HIS FRIENDS are white.

Fine. But he also is condescending and rude and walks around with his nose stuck up at us. I’m the one he is most friendly with, while still being bitchy and nasty half the time. I’m also Hispanic.

My point is ITS NOT JUST ME and I’m not the only person to get into it with him. So he wouldn’t be hard to get rid of AT ALL.

OP, you are the type of entitled prick every employer dreads.

R130 no. Im Not entitled.

The only thing I expect is RESPECT. Something many of you fail to give, even to the people that work hard for you.

I ask again, what's stopping you from escalating this? You obviously get a big thrill out of putting people in their place, and you've declared it to be an easy thing to do. Plus if the sentiment of him being a big racist (because he grew up in a white suburb and has only white friends) is shared among "many many many" of your coworkers, then it appears that the only reason you're not pursuing this is because you like the drama and you like to complain about him.

So you begged for anal and he turned you down because he actually loves his BF and now you resort to these antics!?

OP what are you wearing right now?

Don’t come crying to the DL when ICE knocks on your door

R135 Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. Parents also. Grandparents came from Puerto Rico in the late 50s.

R132 a few others have complained about him to HR and even to the person above HR. They’ve spoken to him.

I’m actually liked by most of the management and HR. I always do my job and am Respected and treated well. Then comes white MIDWESTERN boy who moved here months ago.

He tries to make us miserable. Once I speak up they will take it more serious cause I don’t ever complain to them.

Well just don't come back in here in a month complaining about him still, if you're not going to take any action.

The 'white MIDWESTERN boy' comment stands out, however. Does it bother you that he's from the Midwest and isn't a native New Yorker like yourself? DL certainly opened my eyes on how some NYers look down on "Flyoveria".

[quote] You haven’t dealt with a mind like myself.

If he's ever met a mentally retarded person, he has. And if you were such a great worker and genius of workplace strategy, you wouldn't be 31 years old and doing an entry-level job for a 26-year-old boss.

R138 it’s not entry level. It’s just not up to him. He’s one level above me.

OP how long have you worked at Burger King?

It’s not Burger King. I wish you all would GROW UP

And I kinda miss my boss lowkey.

Have you ever fucked or been fucked in your place of business?

R143 how do you mean? Fucked over or sex? lol

r143 your place of business==ass?

[quote] I wish you all would GROW UP

Add projection to the list of OP's issues.

He should have pushed you out the window, you obnoxious, whiny twat.

Bold of OP to assume all of us are employed in cushy jobs with HR and managers to whom we may report grievances.

Due to unpleasant turns of events I currently work part-time (thank Gods) for a small independent store under a nightmarish harridan, and I do this for a pittance (less than minimum wage, cash in hand comprised of whatever comes out of the till that day be it $80 or nothing) and as the sole employee so I can't blame-shift any fuck-ups. My Boss is taken to railing at me verbally both aggressively and passive-aggressively over the phone multiple times a day, as well blaming me for overall poor sales in the industry as a whole. She also calls me at home unsolicited despite repeated requests not to, and shorts my pay (she owes me a lot of money). Short of either quitting and leaving my money on the table or quitting then reporting her to my local authority (thus incurring legal fees and a whole stressful expensive litigation procedure) I can't do anything about this and the crazy repulsive old bitch can just treat me like shit until the day I get an excellent paying gig. So.

OP sounds like a fucking piece of shit and would do well to flush himself straight down the toilet.

R113. What a childish attitude. The reason young people don’t get promotions and responsibility today is they act like children at work. They focus on their social lives, they have little self discipline and care about self gratification. In the 1980s, you got fired for the slightest infraction. If you ran your mouth at your boss like The Pompous Negress did, you’d be fired on the spot and perp walked out of the building.

In my mid 20s, I was managing large scale networks of over 50,000 users and writing the software used by entired government agencies. We looked for responsibility and we didn’t sit around whining about “why won’t these old people retire?”. That just makes you look pathetic and stupid. Nobody owes you a job. Nobody owes you a reach around for all your magnificent accomplishments, which to date amount to jack shit.

You want opportunity? Try *not* being an attention whore at work and just actually doing your job and just a bit more with having to be giving constant attention, direction and ego stroking. Jesus, I hate your petty, pathetic, insecure generation.

1,000,000 WWs for R150!!!!!!!!!!

Y’all are being so nasty

OP you are a big diva/drama queen you're lucky your boss is so forgiving.

Respect isn’t an entitlement, R131, it’s earned.

OP has issues and needs to go work at a Shake Shack for a while.

I’ve earned it from all management, minus white privileged asshole

You sure haven’t earned it here, R156.

I have done nothing to you all.

[quote]My 26 year old bitchy gay boss from Chicago pulled me in the office

Pics please.

What sort of trash bag gives a million WWs to someone who uses the term ‘negress’?

UPDATE

Me and him bumped heads big time Tuesday. Shocked I haven’t been pulled in the office yet.

Yesterday he was super nice for some reason. Creeped me out.

Me and him?

He and I. Fixed it for you anal aholes

Jesus, some of you are so ridiculous.

Good... now fuck off with your banal shit

[quote] You want opportunity? Try *not* being an attention whore at work and just actually doing your job and just a bit more with having to be giving constant attention, direction and ego stroking.

R150 all fine and well, but bold of you to assume that a typical Boss of Millennials is content to put trust enougn in employees to do their job *and more* without styming employee/company progress via such micromanagement, passive-aggressive correction, censorship of dialogue, harassment...

As a Millennial I am ready & happy to do all that my Boss asks and perform my role to the utmost of my abilities (taking criticism on board where it is due) as that is the work for which I am paid. I do object when, in and out of working hours, I'm tasked to act as my Boss's counsellor & punching-bag as well as her grunt.

R165 EXACTLY!!! And my boss is sneaky. He’s the type to find any reason to try and write you up etc. and he will do it without telling you!!! Just act like you refused signature

Gaylings are finding adulthood difficult.Poor dears. An please,sleeping with ones superior is a quick way to get terminated.Stop letting him/her know they can push your buttons an dump the extras sunshine.

I’m really hurt guys

R168 Good.

But tell us why first.

R169 I wanna fuck him

I went to HR about him. We had a chat. She actually understood where I was coming from with him and even said many others have come forward complaining about the same thing as me and she’s gonna have a sit down with him about his attitude.

I guess she did cause his bitchy ass came and confronted me about it and then was all bitchy the rest of the day until I left. I guess he got in trouble.

Ugh. Now I’m gonna have to deal with more headaches.

OP, show us on the dolly where the bitchy gay boss touched you.

So OP needed time off work to deal with the death of Luke Perry, when OP was, what, 3 years old when 90210 was broadcast? Your EST game is the weakest OP.

What a load of crap. Anybody, even in a large city, would easily recognize an actual person with as many clues laid out in this nonsense - and give the entire original thread to a data analyst. They trace back all of OP’s bullshit to the his original IP address.

What it demonstrates, were any of this real and not an EST, is someone doing this planned this, and had previously done all this. It’s all grounds for termination and a lawsuit.

R174 lmaoooooooo sweetheart none of this is even typed from my phone or personal computer. Lmao

r175 you really think that makes it difficult to trace you? Fool.

My bitchy gay boss from an all white Chicago suburb is transferring to a new store in Tribeca after we got into it and he felt “threatened” despite me not making threats or raising my voice.

I haven’t been fired. Yet at least. Been two weeks and still there. He starts the new store Monday.

Still trying to sell this turd, are we?

R178 sadly it’s true. And I cried twice for him.

[quote] What a load of crap. Anybody, even in a large city, would easily recognize an actual person with as many clues laid out in this nonsense - and give the entire original thread to a data analyst. They trace back all of OP’s bullshit to the his original IP address.

LOL as if McDonalds cares that much about drama in one of its shops.

McDonalds? Lmaooooo you’re so off.

Do you still want him to fuck you?

I want him to myself but that won’t ever happen. Fuck him

But you have so much to offer!

He’s with his model Dominican boyfriend that he cheats on all the time.

So then why do you want him for yourself? You do realize he'd be cheating on you all the time as well.

R186 I know. I just am so attracted to him. It’s bad.

I told him he’s a racist and that karma is gonna catch up to him and he will get what he deserves.

He claimed that was a “threat”. So he transferred.

It wasn’t a threat so I didn’t get fired or even written up by HR.

Will the tears never cease?

I miss him now.

You’ll always have the weeping anal warts to remember him by...

[quote]I think the only reason I like him so much is cause he doesn't give me what I want. I hate him for it, but it makes me feel more determined. I am used to getting what I want. He refuses to do whatever I want [R34]. Its a challenge, or was, cause hes no longer my boss.

[quote]I dont even know if hes still with his Dominican BF. I know he was speaking to some 19 year old on Grindr and they were texting for a while before the 19 year old got mad at him and told him off so he blocked him. The 19 year old asked him about his Dominican BF and if he is happy with him and he said "well that's opening a can of worms" and changed topics quick. I found out through a mutual friend.

[quote]So who knows what's going on there...

r192 ??? the point of this?

How is the bitchy gay boss with the Dominican boyfriend doing?

How is the bitchy gay boss? Is he still with the Dominican Boyfriend? Are you still stalking him on social media?

R51 that is my dream job - to work for a boss who will present hole in the break room. And let me fuck’n give it to him. It’s called team building.