Okay, it's a hetero story, but it involves key events that affect gays as well, namely in-laws.
It has to do with a husband (and, after all, some of us have them, too--and we have partners) telling too much to his sisters, who have now pushed in where they don't belong to try to control the wife.
They are destructive in the extreme, and for those who do read this tidbit, there's a great moment when the wife rips into one of the culprits, who must have been left with her jaw hanging open.
I love this columnist, but I can't tell if it's a man or a woman. Maybe that's deliberate, though. Anyway, see what you think about the advice--and also about the behavior of the husband, who gave away confidential information. Why don't people know enough to say nothing to nosy questions?