What are your experiences with masseurfinder?

I had an excellent massage in a hotel room from a guy visiting my city. I found him on masseurfinder. I was really stressed out, not looking for a happy ending. He was strong and knew how to work on my knots. It was only after I sat up at the end that I even realized he had been nude the whole time. I was so blissed out when I left, I hope he comes back sometime. Coincindentally, I had booked with him on masseurfinder on the day massagem4m was taken offline.

I've used masseurfinder many times over the years, and it's been a mixed bag of experiences. There are some guys on there that give good massages and will let you suck them off or even make out if they find you attractive, and others who give lousy massages and won't even take off their shorts. Make sure you read their profile first, to see if they emphasize certain massage techniques; some masseurs are control freaks, and if you ask them to change the massage style because all they keep doing is pushing their fingers hard into the wrong areas and all you want is an erotic oil massage, they get weirdly annoyed and may just leave.

Also, be aware that there a lot of fakes on the site (at least in the NYC area); I've had to turn a few guys away at the door because they either weren't the guy in the pics, or they were considerably older in person. What's worse is that it's basically impossible to contact the site owners to report them. I'd gladly call them out here, but nobody ever seems to mention specific massage guys on this site, so I'm not going to get myself in trouble by being the first person to do so.

This guy mentions deep tissue, reflexology, sports, and Swedish massage. He also does nutrition counseling and personal training.

I’m not in New York. He mentioned that he’s had problems with his masseurfinder account and that there’s no one to contact about it.

Also, I’m not necessarily looking for sexy times. I just want to be touched by masculine hands.

If you're just looking to be touched, ask him if he's OK with adapting the massage to fit your needs (light, medium, or firm touch). Also, as is the case with most guys online (like the apps), he probably won't look like his picture, and will also probably be smaller in person (most of the massage guys have BMIs on the low side).

Oh my god, you guys. He was both a masseur and a “masseur.” Clothes were dispensed with immediately and he had a really nice body. Dark circles under his eyes, which gave him a slightly “methy” appearance and he had gross toenails, but he seemed nice. Posh little apartment.

The masssage was great. He would massage my butt and then reach between my legs and fondle my balls a little. When he turned me over, he almost immediately started stroking my cock. He let me play with his dick while he did it.

Also, I noticed a ring he’d taken off and put on the desk. When we were done, he put it back on. A wedding ring? I wondered if maybe it was just for show.

Anyway, I’ll probably book him again. I really could use some body work on a semi-regular basis and he seems to know what he’s doing.

If they go for the dick anywhere before the 45 minute mark, they want to get you off and out the door. I like the ones who actually know how to give a massage and do it well. They are also on there.

R7, I’d say he went for the dick right around the 45 minute mark.

Also, I just looked him up on Facebook. He’s married to a woman and it says he’s “interested in women.” That makes him far less appealing. I touched a penis that has been inside a vagina. I don’t think that’s ever happened before. Am I even still a gold star gay?

Don't be ridiculous. Of course it's happened before.

No, I’m pretty sure I’ve touched other gold star penises.

Only touched other gold star penises.

[quote] Dark circles under his eyes, which gave him a slightly “methy” appearance and he had gross toenails, but he seemed nice. Posh little apartment.

Funny description.

No experience with hiring a masseur online. A few questions...

1) Do you pay upfront or after?

2) Are you supposed to tip them? How much?

3) What if you go to their place and they look nothing like their pics? Or their place is dirty or smells? Can you say No, thanks and leave?

I paid after. There’s no tipping because he gets all the money anyway. If you went to some kind of spa or something where he was employed, then you might tip, I guess.

[quote] There’s no tipping because he gets all the money anyway.

Uh, I think they would beg to differ. The tip is for the "extra" services they give.

I confirmed the price after the massage, before I paid him. If he wanted more, he should’ve said so. I’m not a mind reader.

I still feel defiled.

[quote]1) Do you pay upfront or after

Pay up front, especially the first time. That way he knows you’re not gonna rip him off.

Never pay up front. Make sure you receive the services requested. (If you are promised an hour massage, and as noted, if they grab for your dick 15 min in, you might get off, but you didn’t receive the full massage as agreed upon. It’s much better to spell out what you’re looking for- this goes for escorts too- than be vague and become disappointed.)

Defiled! Mary!

God, R18, what kind of whores do YOU rent???

R18 is correct. Never pay up front. And any masseur or escort who demands payment up front is highly suspect.

Never paying upfront is hiring-an-escort 101.

Every time I fly by this thread I see massmurderers and gasp.

No, paying upfront is expected and sets the provider's mind at ease. There are a lot of clients that are scam artists and refuse to pay after, or try to negotiate. Tips are appreciated and will ascertain your ease of scheduling appointments. Sets you apart from the pack!

I looked up my area, and the choices were BLEAK.

Do all of them provide masterbatory endings?