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Are you a freak? Are you freaky? Do you freak?

When gay men ask you online if you’re a freak, are they talking about WHAT you do sexually? Or HOW MUCH sex you have? Or...?

I see a lot of online profiles from self-described freaks, but I never really understand what they mean - or what they want.

I have even asked a few such men to explain. Most gave no response. One said if I have to ask then obviously I’m not a freak. Some have amazing bodies and I’d love to have sex with them, but I feel like somehow it’s a set up for dashed expectations.

by Anonymousreply 25February 10, 2019 11:08 PM

Drugs, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 1February 9, 2019 11:27 PM

I’ve wondered that as well. Similarly, an old FB of mind always wanted to know when the last time I jacked off was. I couldn’t figure out the “right” answer that would get him hottest. Should I say it’s been a long time so I’m horny? Or that I’m such a horn dog that I do it every day? I could never read his reception of what I said.

by Anonymousreply 2February 9, 2019 11:27 PM

Fly it, baby.

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by Anonymousreply 3February 9, 2019 11:30 PM

R1, drugs? Was that a serious response or were you fulfilling your duty to be cunty? Because I thought if they wanted to suggest sex with drugs, they always mentioned partying. Or should I say parTying?

I swear, the older and more experienced I get, the dumber I feel sometimes.

by Anonymousreply 4February 9, 2019 11:37 PM

Honey you already got the answer - it's an attitude followed through in action. People like you need guide books - you ain't freaky. Freaky could mean - kinky - down to fuck - and for the 20 years I have heard it may or may not mean drugs and bareback. In any case INTO fucking - and openminded - not delicate. You are not a freak. You are probably too old anyway.

by Anonymousreply 5February 10, 2019 12:06 AM
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by Anonymousreply 6February 10, 2019 12:13 AM

You ask if I'm a freak? Darn tootin'!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 7February 10, 2019 12:16 AM

When someone asks if you're a freak they're asking if you're someone who is up for anything, no matter how perverse or deviant.

by Anonymousreply 8February 10, 2019 12:20 AM
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by Anonymousreply 9February 10, 2019 12:26 AM

I don't want to be a freak, but I can't help myself.

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by Anonymousreply 10February 10, 2019 12:43 AM

Obviously it means they want you to take a dump on their chest, OP

by Anonymousreply 11February 10, 2019 12:47 AM

They want you to provide drugs.

by Anonymousreply 12February 10, 2019 12:50 AM

[quote] When gay men ask you online if you’re a freak,

...then I tell them they are as FRESH as PAINT!

by Anonymousreply 13February 10, 2019 1:12 AM

r5 = has no idea what a freak is in this context, but that doesn't stop him from lengthy pontificating

by Anonymousreply 14February 10, 2019 1:17 AM

Freak is in the eye of the beholder. Just ask him.

by Anonymousreply 15February 10, 2019 1:27 AM

r15 Basically. Say "depending on how freaky you're trying to get." Shouldn't be that hard to understand. They're trying to parse whether or not you'd be into what they're into.

by Anonymousreply 16February 10, 2019 1:32 AM
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by Anonymousreply 17February 10, 2019 1:34 AM

No, I'm quite vanilla. Nothing freaky for me, thank you. I like kissing and affection.

by Anonymousreply 18February 10, 2019 1:38 AM

Kissing and Affection are slang for taking dumps on your chest, r18.

by Anonymousreply 19February 10, 2019 1:44 AM

If a guy refers to himself as a freak or even worse a pig run Op...RUN!

by Anonymousreply 20February 10, 2019 1:46 AM

What did George Michael's song Freeek mean?

by Anonymousreply 21February 10, 2019 2:06 AM

[quote] Obviously it means they want you to take a dump on their chest, OP

Sadly, I think is probably one of the correct answers.

by Anonymousreply 22February 10, 2019 3:04 AM

R19, No, you got the wrong girl. I've never even farted in from on my BF.

by Anonymousreply 23February 10, 2019 3:11 AM

Something to do with poo poo is my guess.

by Anonymousreply 24February 10, 2019 5:30 PM

Watch this and take notes.

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by Anonymousreply 25February 10, 2019 11:08 PM
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