Do you have sex with unattractive people?

I always wanted to be the pretty one...I only care what my partner can do for me. It's sex, a performance is involved and it does not involve a beauty contest.

No but I marry him. Sometime, architect do things for moneys, not just make buildings.

I think that possibly happens. I live in a rural area and I've fucked around with a lot of guys because they had great arm and/or chest hair even if the face wasn't great. That said average or mildy unattractive guys tend to be better at sex. I've had sex with guys who were either smoking hot or at least thought that they were hot who'd developed no skill, seemingly assuming that their face and body were enough to make the encounter enjoyable.

Are you asking this question because you have a poor self image and think you've been used by someone who you think is slumming it? If not please provide a photo of yourself so we can judge you on your appearance.

R1, that's a really interesting answer when you think about it. Thank you.

I try not to ....but someone told me ugly people try harder.

R4, no. I don't think there are that many good looking guys in my neighborhood.

I've known people like this; where it's quantity over quality.

I take it you're quite young? If you aren't, there's no hope for you. Shallowness and superficiality aren't attractive traits in anyone. Neither is being a whore. When you grow up you might find that out. Now I can sit back and wait for the moronic replies from the airheads calling me a bit ugly old Frau. Ha,

Why have sex with an ugly person? That just degrades yourself. Just watch porn until someone good comes along.

I did and we had amazing chemistry. The sex ended up being shockingly great.

Yes I have always done so, OP. And I was a "9" for 30 years.

I try to give everyone a chance. I remember when I was in my mid-20's, I had just lost a little weight and was feeling good, so I was able to score a lot of really hot guys. Some looked like legit models. Some were mediocre and some were downright awful at sex (and of course, there were a few who happened to be unbearably gorgeous AND brilliant in bed).

I'll always remember this one guy who was a med student. He wasn't totally hideous, but not really my type (kinda odd looking in some ways and super pale to the point of almost being albino). I decided to go to his place anyway and it turned out he gave me the single best rim job of my life. I'd always loved eating guys' asses, but whenever someone did it to me, I could never really feel anything. I don't know what he did, but I thought I was going to cum from him eating my ass alone. It was amazing!

I'm glad I gave him a shot. I've started realizing that not everyone has to be great at every sex act or have the perfect body and face. Just about everyone has something sexy about them. Some might be great at fucking your ass, but embarrassingly bad at blow jobs. Some might have a slightly skeezy looking face, but can suck your cock until you beg for mercy. Some guys might be bad at penetration and oral sex, but can give the best hand job of your life. It's worth it to try and experiment.

I've never had sex with someone I thought was totally unattractive, but I HAVE let a few guys blow me that I would never date or kiss/fuck.

Ugly people need love too.

Would you suck James Woods? Have sex with that guy who played Spock? Wouldn't you feel gross afterwards?

The unattractive people usually became quite attractive if the fucks were good! Plus I have a thing for homely skinny guys with huge cocks. I also respond to sweetness and innocence and you can be pretty plain but sweet and innocent.

When all is said and done beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm not draw to typically beautiful/ hot guys, I prefer a face with character and an engaging mind. It's all in the eyes!

Which Spock?

Of course I would fuck James Woods - a younger one at least. He had monster cock and wasn't ugly. He had scarred skin. His personality is ugly. Quinto I would fuck of course. Not my type but he's far from unattractive.

His face looks like a penis. And imagine him standing there with his long rubbery schlong and skinny body. Very dicky.

No I can only have sex with men I find physically attractive. I have loved and had deep affection for people who I had no desire to have sex with and vice versa. However, I often find people sexy and physically attractive even if they are not the perfectly sculpted Instagram types. The hottest man I’ve had sex with was tall, broad shouldered with massive hands, thick hair, sad brown eyes, chest hair and a ‘stache and a perfect 7x5 cock. I was addicted to that man. However, he wasn’t gym toned, despite being normal weight he had an inhereted saggy neck and jawline and he had deep wrinkles in his forehead and around his eyes for years spent doing farm work growing up. With time those “flaws” became attractive to me too. In a crowd I would see that one deep vertical line in his forehead and feel tingles inside.

Does masturbation count?

I'd rather have an excellent blow job from someone who weighs 300 pounds than a hot guy who's ALL TEETH.

R23 Ha. Talking of blow jobs, seriously, you haven't experienced good blow until you've been given head by a guy with no teeth. The pretty boys are more concerned about their hair getting messed up to be good at giving good sex.

I can never think of that and not be reminded of the Golden Girls Adult Swim parody. “No denture adventure”.

Well, just one. But she's very rich, and I really feel sorry for her.

all guys are dogs, so you might as well get a young hot one.

Both Marla and I did. And we regret it every day.

Ugly people have cocks too....sometimes you find a diamond in the rough.

I've had sex with a somewhat unattractive person because I didn't want to hurt their feelings.

Yes, as long as they have a decent body and a big dick. I just couldn’t with a fatty or a Princess Tinymeat

I've been amazed at how indiscriminate I could be when drunk and horny enough.

Hahahaha! Most of you are going to give up on sex while you are still young. It is so weird to see how shallow and small minded many of you are. You miss a lot of fun in my opinion.

Most of the time..

If you pay them enough, they will.

I had a FB that had a great big cock and for NSA sex (it was oral only) it was great. My friend said "think of him as a human dildo" and that was true (though we dindt fuck). but he was great to suck off eat his load.

R11, I totally agree. The best sex I've ever had was with someone who was not my "type" at all. But I was drawn to him and never had the chemistry with anyone else like I had with him. I tried to fight it because he wasn't handsome, but it was overwhelming. I'm glad I lost that fight.

If I find someone unattractive why would I want to have sex with him? Sounds pointless to me and I'd rather jack off to porn where I find the guys attractive.

Now as someone said beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I've been very sexually attracted to guys who some might consider trolls.

I've had sex with a wide spectrum of attractiveness. I've had very attractive to what others would consider unattractive. I think it's true that one person's trash is another person's treasure. I have about three types--medium build, muscular to beefy, and chubbier guys but not grossly overweight. All seem better with body hair to me. With chubbier guys, it depends on how they carry it. If it's an overall husky/beefy chunk with a bit of a gut, that's one thing. Problem areas with huge overspilling ring of fat are not my thing, but I know other guys who are into it. But for me, it all depends on how the guy carries the chunk. At least for me, it's more about a connection and a chemistry with a specific person. I've been out with great looking guys with whom I had no connection and just didn't feel any attraction. I can usually tell after one date if that chemistry is there, or it there's a chance.

Anyway, I kind of like rugged looking guys, too, who aren't conventionally attractive. I was with a chunkier, beefy guy, rugged face that most wouldn't find attractive, hairy chest and stomach, and nice 7 1/2 inch thick dick that he knew how to use. He thought he was no great thing and really went out of his way to be a great lover. I know aesthetically and objectively he was not attractive, but on our first date after talking for over three hours, I felt a powerful attraction and knew we would sleep together (that was the 2nd date!). We dated for nearly a year and it was some of the best sex I ever had. Nice guy, too. My friends couldn't understand why I dated him so long. It was because there was a whole package there, a chemistry that I couldn't explain. It was too bad because his insecurities ruined us. He was convinced he wasn't good enough, he was constantly convinced I must be hooking up with better looking guys (I wasn't), and I got tired of that spiel. But I did like him a lot. It might've even gone somewhere. Last I heard he was alone. A self-fulfilling prophecy no doubt.

well of course if you only have sex with *attractive* people, then you’re a bigot. Aren’t you woke? You should say yes to everyone - especially everyone you don’t want ot have sex with. You don’t have agency to turn down anyone you aren’t attracted to. You can’t say no anymore. Rape doesn’t exist because according to the SJWs, if you decline the interest of people you aren’t interested in, you’re a racist.

So it’s either get raped or be a bigot.

No. I have this outlandish requirement that if I have sex with someone, I have to find them attractive.

It entirely depends on dick size whether or not they're actually attractive once their clothes come off.

I had a huge crush on a really good looking guy and then I met his hook up who was not good looking at all. That ended my attraction to the crush.

[quote] No I can only have sex with men I find physically attractive

I was a typical awkward kid in school. Terrible at sports, teased for being gay even before I knew what 'being gay' was, slammed into more than a few lockers by guys I was strangely attracted to, etc.

So when I came out at 19 and started getting hit on, ANYBODY who found me attractive enough to ask me home got an immediate 'yes'. I didn't care what they looked like, I was so flattered by the attention, I became the girl who cain't say no.

Now that I'm old and bent, I realize that I was attractive to many of those men for no other reason than I was young and thin, but I sure enjoyed, for one brief shining moment, being desirable.

Everyone looks good when I’m drunk

In my whole life, I’ve only rejected one person for his looks, but it was also because he had a terrible personality.

I usually find something attractive about most people— it might be a facial or other physical feature. Sometimes it’s a warm personality. Everyone has something.

I may have sex with someone whom I am not attracted to but never with someone I find UNATTRACTIVE. And yes, the one's who aren't lookers are usually SKILLED!

God no, are you insane OP???

I like you, R46. You seem like a good person.

I agree. R46 wins the thread.

Would you have sex with ME, r46?!