Can you expirment and go back to being straight?

Once you go cock,

You never go bock!

R1 very poetic

[quote]Can you expirment and go back to being straight?

Can OP spell e x p E r i m e n t correctly and stop being an illiterate moron?

R3 Answer the question instead of spending your Saturday morning being triggered over a word being spelled incorrectly?

Yes, Rose, a guy can go bi and go back to being hetero. Empires were built upon this.

1 question a day, Rose.

I can't find a boyfriend. I miss women.

R5 How does one just go back straight? I can’t imagine having an erection for a guy and then never having one again unless the whole “turning a straight guy” out thing is real (which I don’t believe)

Make your move anyway, and report back.

Yes, he can go back if he dislikes sleeping with men. I have openly gay friends who sleep with women just out of curiosity.

What an amuuuusing question.

But of course.

How’re ya gonna keep ‘em down on the farm after they’ve seen Pa-ree!

R7 Straight includes slightly bi. It's a continuum, Rose. Straight boys have homo experiments. Why couldn't a straight young man or grown man? Sheesh. Also depending on the zeitgeist of the time, and the milieu, experimentation with same sex was/is de rigueur. Not to men throughout history, same sex schools and universities, boats at sea, military, prison, and cultures where boys or men screw each other, have affection for each other, and yet are basically defined as hetero. Why are you so limited in your tiny little mind and historical reference?

not to menTION

Google the Kinsey scale, OP.

Enough with the done-to-death "comma Rose" cutesiness, Dorothy at R12.

Whatever you say, Doll.

It sounds like he tried it, isn't embarrassed (since he's open about it), but decided it isn't for him.

But you could always ask him what you asked us. It sounds like he'd level with you.

I’ve been thinking about strictly hooking up with girls again. The anal fissures I’ve received from getting fucked by big dicks haven’t really been worth it.

Jesus, unless you're 16....this is such a dumb question. Of course, you can. Many people experiment to find out what they actually like.

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It is weird when a guy you’ve been with goes to the other side. When I first started hooking up with guy, when I was close to 30, I met a guy that was 19. We had a torrid affair for a few months and then a few times into the next two years. He was more experienced than me and at that time, so amazingly naughty. He’d get on all fours for me to bang him, he’d blow me and seem really into it, he let me cum on his face, we’d spend weekends together just eating pizza, watching movies, and fucking. It was a good time. I’ve now been happily partnered for nearly 15 years...but I was shocked to see this guys wedding photos on Facebook and to see he was expecting a baby with his new wife. This guy seemed to really love gay sex and was very horny when we were together. I looked at pics of his bride and was wondering if she knew about his cocklovimg past...was it just a phase for him...I know his parents were very born again Christian religious...so maybe he prayed it away;) It was a mind blower for me to see his new life.

R21 He’s bi not straight. Usually bi guys always settle down with a woman.

Lot of men just flat out enjoy sex and it has nothing to do with labels. If they like the person, they like sex. Forget “gay” or “bi”. He enjoyed a sexual experience or perhaps even multiple sexual experiences with men. When it came to an actual relationship with commitment - he committed to a woman.

I knew a lot of men like that in the military. I know men like that now. Usually women think there’s some deeper meaning about men having sex with other men. There isn’t. This is what it amounts to: men find sex a lot of fun. It’s recreational. Guys have sex with zero emotional attachment, and a lot of time it’s way more fun to have sex with absolutely no romnatic involvement. Just down and out dirty fucking. It’s meaningless.

That’s how guys look at it, especially straight guys. Guys I’ve fucked will laugh decades later about the experience with the same level of attachment as a putt putt golf. But, when they talk about a girl - there’s emotional attachment, a sincere wistfulness.

R23 So...these guys are aroused by other guys without having any actual sexual interest in the other party? I can’t get hard for a woman.

R24. Life isn’t fair, is it? Let’s separate romantic interest from sexual interest.

The straight guys I fucked enjoyed the physical experience. They had no interest in me other than riding my cock. In almost every case, they got erect after I got inside them and they came. That was a surprise. I don’t have as much knowledge then as I do now.

These days, I focus on prostate pleasure so the straight man experiences two kinds of orgasm and that is an intense experience. It’s still purely physical with no emotional attachment. Most men ask me after - sometimes months later about toys they can use for prostate stimulation or pegging toys they can use with women.

Straight men are surprisingly open minded about sex.

R25 no straight man is riding your dick

R26 You’re just a jealous frau aren’t you? You possess a narrow view of sexuality which you project onto everyone else? Sorry for your tragic life. Fortunately for me, not my problem.

I can't believe you all don't know the answer to this.

In America in 2019, the rule still is "suck one cock and you're gay forever. No backsies."

There are countless threads on Datalounge devoted to proving this theory, especially if the person in question is a handsome actor or athlete.

There is no such thing as "situational", no such thing as "young guys experimenting"

If you allow another man to touch you in a sexual manner and don't beat him to a bloody pulp in response, than the overwhelming majority of Dataloungers will affirm that you are a card-carrying homosexual and that any relationship you have with a woman is just bearding.

R28 because being bisexual still triggers them.

YES YOU CAN!

Sexuality is fluid. Its only western society that labels people. Sex should be fun with whoever you are doing it with. Just chill and enjoy it.

Not everyone is bi

r31 homophobe confirmed

(R33} Are you able to read and understand English?

R26, no, you’re wrong. Straight guys who want a walk on the wild side may find a hot guy who they want to fuck. But fucking a guy is too same-the-same with what they do with women. Most often they want to try the naughty and novel thing—getting fucked. And who are the experts at doing male butt sex? Gays, of course. We know the tips and tricks to making it pleasurable for the bottom.

I think most straights don’t know that the anus contracts rhythmically with their orgasm, and that something in their ass to contract against (whether it’s a dick, a dildo, or two fingers) can actually intensify their orgasm. I’ve heard that younger straight guys are more amenable nowadays to playing with butt toys and I find that encouraging.

OP: You were never straight. How can you go back to something you never were?

Homosexuality is a choice.

So what fantasy are these guys living in where men just fuck other men because “sex is sex”. Wouldn’t a straight man look for women (which there are twice as much more than men) than a man? Something doesn’t add up. You can’t purposely choose a man when there’s plenty of women around...that’s gay. It’s one thing to expirement (my intial question) but you all are making it seem like straight men actively seek out gay sex which is an oxymoron.

R38. Guys like to get off and don’t need to complicate it - unless you make it compllicated. You’re overthinking it.

R39 Exactly, and I can't understand people, especially other men, who think a man can't get an erection without attraction. Since puberty, I have not needed anything in particular to get an erection. I don't even need to be in a sexual moment, smoking pot gives me an erection, working out (alone not in a gym) gives me an erection, eating something particularly tasty gives me an erection, listening to music gives me an erection, etc... I'm now in my mid 30's and it continues.

I identify as bi, since I am capable of having an erection and enjoying myself regardless of the equipment of the other person and I do not want to limit the possibilities.

Most straight men would NEVER have sex with another man, unless they were deprived of feminine company for a very long time. A lot of men are still deeply homophobic and it's pretty common to hear them say things like "I can't even tell if a guy is good-looking or not". Very few of them will experiment just out of curiosity, or while being drunk (and I'm sure they usually don't brag about it to their bros). Those who keep having sex with men on a regular basis are most likely bi. But it's delusional to think that most straight men are sleeping with other men. Maybe they would be more inclined to try it, if there wasn't so much homohysteria these days.

Yikes

r38, r39 is right, you're tOtAlLy overcomplicating it! In my college fraternity days, everybody was sucking everybody else's dick, and bros would REGULARLY skip out on their girlfriends to go fuck other guys. It was super common, and the thing is, they were ALL straight! Straight guys usually go for other guys, even when there are tons of beautiful, big breasted and easy women around. That's why homosexual acts between men is COMPLETELY destigmatized and homophobia isn't real!

[quote]There is no such thing as "situational", no such thing as "young guys experimenting"

R28 I was with you until this part...at least, I’ll give you the situational but OF COURSE, young guys experiment. However, we need to clarify “Experiment.”

I’m not talking replicating scenes from SC video. I'm talking about working through feelings. I’ve had a couple of younger guys--when they found out I was gay and after we developed a friendship--get INQUISITIVE. There was usually alcohol involved. Light petting etc BUT there was no couch or six-pack abs or barebacking or swallowing loads. It was just...natural. At the very least, I think they liked me as a person--and knowing that I’m gay --made them question if they were. THAT'S what I mean by "Experimenting." Nothing like a porn video.

I'm kinda reticent about posting this because these kinds of post ALWAYS sound so...predatory and boastful to me (the ones I believe anyway). LIke that person's ONLY goal in life is to seduce a straight guy.

Straight guys do not fuck other men. Bi do this. And I know "strictly gay" guys who experiment with women and love it too. They are bi also.

[quote]There is no such thing as "situational", no such thing as "young guys experimenting"

I agree.

R46, you need to get your reading glasses prescription checked. There's a "sarcasm" tag in R28's signature.

R47? Enough. There is no such thing.

R44 also missed the "sarcasm" tag.

Ma’am? ^

OP : Can you experiment and change the colour of your skin ?

This thread is a waste of time. Just fuck who you want to fuck. That's it that's all. And yes, you can change the color of your skin.

Sexual orientation is decided at the embryonic stade, so you can put an incredible energy trying to be straight but you (deep in yourself) will always be gay.

"Go back" to being straight? Gay people were never straight, numskull. A lot us assumed we were before puberty, but I found out I was gay immediately after puberty hit when I discovered masturbation.

Very important point, R54. Not sure why I didn't catch on to that - probably because I'm not taking the OP seriously enough to pay attention.

R41 HAhahahahahhahahahaha

Whew. I really needed a good laugh. Thanks!

Thread of fantasy

“Go back to being normal”.

"Go back to being straight" ????!!!!!! = but some people have never been straight...... Is it a thread from Germany of 1933 ?

We’re just doing a few controlled experiments. All on the up-and-up. You know, scientific curiosity and all.

He doesn't want to fuck you, OP.

Sex is 90% Imagination and 10% Friction!

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R40 I knew the cock smelling breath of the ‘bi’ troll was all over this thread. Fuck off bitrash

R40 surely your first point negates the second? So men can get hard and fuck anything without real sexual desire? So that kind of works against the notion of genuine bisexuality, no?

Soooo straight men have sex with men because “sex” is “sex” (even though there are way more women than men) and just frequently choose men even when the option of women is there?

DL believes bisexual men don’t exist. It ruins the “I had sex with a straight man” fetish. Internalized homophobia.

R66 - you are misinterpreting - for men sex is often “just sex” and more straight guys than you might think - though certainly not alll - will get off with another guy from time to time because it is still exponentially easier to get a man into bed than a woman. Sometimes you just want to get off.

The whole issue of “Straight or Gay nothing else” is ridiculous. Do you understand the Kinsey scale - most people are somewhere in the middle not on the ends - for lots of societal reasons people “round up or down” for their public identity but not necessarily 100% of the time in private.

I prefer men, both physically and emotionally, and consider myself gay, but I’m still attracted to certain types of women & have had sex with them. I don’t think that makes me “bi” just a Kinsey 5.

R68 agree with some points but come to a different conclusion; most men are just gay or straight. But Able to have sex out of their baseline sexual orientation. To me that’s not genuine bisexuality or a Kinsey 1 or 5. Semantics, but that’s just what my experience tells me.

R69 - Thats a fine way to put it, without the scientist's need for a scale. Most men are baseline either gay or straight; a small number of men are completely bisexual; and many, but not all, men can have sex out of their baseline orientation if they want to. -- R68

(R68) Just by curiosity, can you describe us your type of women ? what actress would you choose to describe them ?

Leave it to DL to believe bisexual men barely exist but straight men who causally has sex with men do

Yes but these DL armchair Anna Freuds all have online Master's from the Sheboygan Institute of sexual development.

It’s the label “straight” R72. Gay men are obsessed with it.

R72 I don’t think genuine male bisexuality is remotely as common as the current media obsession claims, but I also know think straight men go around bonking guys simply because they are ‘horny’ either.

My point being r69 is that people can find themselves in situations sexually and be able to perform with something that they may not truly desire. It’s even more likely with homosexual men and sex with women as there is no loss of masculinity (in fact or enhances it rightly or wrongly) while there is a ‘loss’ for men who fuck men

R75 is a walking contradiction

R76? How? Sexual orientation is about consistent genuine desire. The fact that I could fuck a woman when I was 19 despite not having any real desire to doesn’t make me bi.

R77 man...

R78 not providing any actual rebuttals are you?

R79 You’re using straw men arguments. You cannot be gay and legitimately get it up for a woman and have sex with her unless you’re thinking about guys. That’s bisexual. Homosexual is strictly choosing men over women ALWAYS sexually and romantically and vice versa for heterosexual. There’s not straight guy alive who will voluntarily choose men over women for sex, sorry to break it to you and if they do they’re bisexual at most. Nobody can’t get sexually turned on for people they aren’t sexually attracted to.

R80. That’s just you absurdly defining a label then insisting what is a scale be absolute. You don’t know what you’re talking about. Go sit down and be quiet.

R81 Okay well keep fantasizing that “straight” want you, tata

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OP : of course it's possible.....[bold]Just see all these Closeted Guys...

Look at brokeback mountain

Almost every woman I know who experimented with other women in high school or college, are married to men, or are now divorced with kids, and on to their second husband. Some date both men, and women.

I’ve known men who did the same thing, had sex with other men, and ended up married to women and having kids. And these aren’t situations where they married women because they came from oppressive, religious backgrounds. These are situations where they enjoyed having sex with both men and women, met some girl, fell madly in love, got married, and had kids. And it’s worth noting that these guys weren’t ashamed, or regretful about having had sex or relationships with other men. Much like OP’s friend, these guys were pretty transparent regarding their same sex interests.

I came of age in NYC, and all of this was pretty common and I found it to be just as common in LA.

I’m not sure where all of this rigidity came from, but plenty of people are genuinely bi, just like plenty of people are genuinely straight. I’m assuming that this became a huge issue when HIV came on to the scene. Lines were drawn in the sand, and every one decided that people couldn’t possibly be bi, lest one is stricken down with a death sentence back then, for daring to pursue their curiosity.