Gay men and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Boring. Done before. Not even worth rating.

Your "theory" is wrong. While you may be a narcissist, you can't blame being gay on that.

People of the 21st Century are more narcissistic in general. Gay, straight, or whatever.

Doctors provide a diagnosis. Idiots provide theories.

Let me preface this first by saying you’re a total fuckwit. That being said, you’re a fuckwit who is completely wrong. Now please go away with your erroneous assumptions and conclusions based on nothing.

r2 called it: someone’s projecting!

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I'll just step right in here and tell OP that I am gay and the only non-narcissist in a family of diagnosed narcissists.

I wanted to get girls so I became gay and now I get even fewer girls.

L-logic.

Huh?

F&F.

OP, how do you explain me?

There's an interesting discussion that could be had about this topic, but OP confused the fuck out of me.

I think most gay men actually suffer more from Peter Pan syndrome. Since most of our early lives were spent hiding who we really were, we have those big milestones late in life (first kiss, first fuck, first time falling in love, etc.) It does stunt us a bit emotionally. Narcissism can go hand in hand with Peter Pan syndrome, but not always. I know a lot of guys who never seem to want to grow up, but a simple slap into reality might persuade them to. I feel like, with a true narcissist, no slap into reality will work on them. They're not immature and in need of growing up, they're just emotional voids. They'll never be happy no matter what.

This is the tragedy of narcissism (and yes, I DO feel bad for them as monstrous as they might be). Unlike, say, bipolar disorder, there's nothing you can take to keep the symptoms at bay or even you out a bit. Talk therapy is probably the best option, but most narcissists never seem to think they have an issue. People keep disappearing from their lives and they never catch on that it's because of them and, if they do, it's too late. It's just a very, very sad disease.

My besties bf has bpd, I’m pretty certain. It’s main symptom is fear of abandonment. He follows my friend whenever he goes to another room in their house. Would drive me crazy.

Op, do you still have sexual relations with men? Have you ever been with a woman?

I became bi because bis and gays were the most glamorous boys on campus and I had no identity, no soul, and a pretty face and huge cock so it was easy. Then I became Zoarastian, and then I was a intergalactic spirit traveller and shop bottom, and then I was a private banker and an elegant vegetarian summer aspic.

R16, I’ve never had sex with a girl. I’ve hooked up with several guys, I prefer the smooth young twinks, but I’ve still never had anal. I can’t find a gay that’s good relationship material for me. I’ve never orgasmed with a guy. I’d like to try having sex with a girl. But I’m too picky and just don’t have much of a personality that girls like. It’s not for lack of physical attraction, I’m in great shape, I work out, and I look like the love child of River and Keanu.

I see myself as a building. My mind is the office where the work gets done. There's a nightclub in the basement when I need some fun. And in the penthouse later that's where the magic happens!

There's a real purity to my work. A childish innocence. But I'm also smart and sophisticated. I mean I grew up on the street. Sometimes I think I'm a simple folksinger. Other times a scary witch diva, What can I tell you? I'm an artist.

OP, I think you're just trolling or genuinely ignorant. Even the way the heading is posted, tries to insinuate that a serious mental health condition is an inherent part of being gay/lesbian.

You're filth.

Who the fuck keeps starting these homophobic threads??

Hey, L!pst!ck All3y troll!

OP, you have to remember that bottoms have the same desire to court male sexual attention as women, but combined with male socialization.

Wow - Trump is getting more desperate with his projecting. Who knew he came to DL?

This thread opener is a synergy between amateur psychology and homophobic trolling.Shame on you OP.

That’s not a theory: it’s an opinion.