Travelling for Sex (I'm nervous)

Amsterdam.

Brazil was good, but I’ve heard Rio has become a bit dangerous. You should be safe inside a brothel though, I would think. You can find every flavor and variety in Rio. I had a delicious little thing named Bruno in a bathhouse back in 2014.

Amsterdam is good if you’re into skinny Eastern Euro trash boys.

Honestly, if you’re not an idiot and send explicit text messages (like a cop), you can easily fuck hot twink ass right off of RM, in the good old U. S. of A. NYC, LA, Miami, and a few smaller cities will have plenty of options. I would try to contact a few providers one day before to check responsiveness and schedules.

Also use a burner phone number, never your own.

This is precisely what bathhouses are for in Brazil, as R2 points out. Infinitely safer than bringing somebody back to your hotel. The guys are stunning and dirt cheap - R$100 for a fuck (USD$25), R$200 if he comes. (prostitution is for all practical purposes legal) Just remember to bring XXL condoms with you, because they're hung like mules. Learn some basic portuguese, because not many fluent English speakers around.

Rio is generally not safe these days, but is negotiable if you take common-sense precautions.

I, too, have done this, traveling to San Diego to meet a hook-up.

While traveling to SD, the reality of my effed up decision to board that plane didn't hit me until I looked out the plane's window upon approaching the runway, only to see my effed up reality rushing up to meet me, at lightening speed.

Close your legs to married men, Trash Box !

Yup, R5. A lot of hotels in Brazil do not allow outside guests because it’s that dangerous. Side note: I think a bell hop in my hotel was trying to get me to invite him back to my room, but I totally missed the cues at the time. ALWAYS FUCK THE SEXY SERVICE PERSONNEL! And tip! Don’t be an idiot like me.

Thailand is known for this.

Things could get uncomfortable if it’s found out that you visited Thailand as a single “tourist”.

NY, LA, or Miami. Just get one from RM or Daddy’s Reviews. Pick the city farthest from your home, and voila. It’s pretty easy.

Thailand is known for underage prostitutes, R9. As are many other developing countries, sadly.

Don't know how they enforce this in Thailand, but if you're pursuing underage boys in Brazil and the police find out, God help you.

OP, got to Montreal. You can sample the guys in the strip clubs and decide which one you want to take back to your hotel. It's cheaper there than the U.S., especially with the Canadian dollar so low right now, and hiring is legal.

R12. Nobody, and I truly hope you made an honest mistake here. NOBODY is talking about UNDERAGE guys. What the FUCK! Talking about guys over the age of consent. Don't be an ass.

I haven't been to Key West in years but lots of boys there . . .

Rentmen is so expensive. But I guess cheaper than flying to Brazil- and safer. Amserdwm may be legal - but ugly ass guys (not pretty Dutch men). I miss the hot trade on the streets o NY and the hustler bars of Times Square. Hypercapitalism everywhere - ugh.

Not accusing anybody here of anything, R14. Just pointing out the reason that single guys who go to developing countries for sex get stopped by the authorities.

Prostitution is illegal on the books in Brazil precisely so the cops can go after trafficking and child prostitution. But prostitution between consenting adults is completely ignored.

300 per hour for a decent twink in NYC is expensive??

This shit is becoming shady, even by DL standards.

What about Budapest or Prague? or some other emerging Eastern European region???

If you have money, go to St. Barts. Beautiful everything! Get yourself down to the beach bars, Eden Rock comes to mind, and ask the bartenders. Money attracts rent boys.

You're making it so complicated ...just for a piece of ass?

The men working in the bars in Thailand are all at least 20. Thailand cracked down on underage sex at least 25 years ago. But now it would hardly be considered a bargain.

Sounds yummy, R22. R21, I would also be interested in information these types of areas. The exchange is so fundamental and rewarding. The provider gets money, but I like to think that the universe rejoices with the client when they experience the beauty and the hot sex of the provider. I’m not a religious gay, but there is something spiritual about worshipping the perfect male form.

R23, I think the OP is looking for male perfection, not gross eldergays in the sauna down the street. It can’t be challenging to locate worthy male ass for sale outside of big cities.

Dom Republic?

I bet it’s cheaper in Dominican Republic. And safer than Brazil.

Everything I read about Brazil now implies you’re almost sure to be robbed if not worse. Should have gone a few years ago before it got crazy dangerous. No way am I trying to figure out how to find and get to a brothel/bathhouse and negotiate all the transactions in a language I don’t know in a crime-ridden city. Plus not being able to take my IPhone out of the hotel to help in the process for fear it will be stolen. Shame because I love Brazilian men,

^^you can find lots of Brazilian men in New York and Miami (amongst other English speaking cities).

OP, nature is trying to tell you that you're past sex by making you 51 and obese.

You can also try for the holy grail: strapping, young college ass on Grindr. You have to be persistent though, without getting banned from the app. Most college twinks aren’t poor enough to entertain a proposition. But once in a while you get some pathetic, but beautiful, little blond fucker who’s saving up for a car. And he’ll let you munch on his taint till the cows cum home.

R30 Did you just shoot your wad?

[quote]Everything I read about Brazil now implies you’re almost sure to be robbed if not worse.

The vast majority of crime happens, like most places in the world, in the poorest neighborhoods, which you won't be traveling to anyways. If you're visiting for a week and you're careful, your chances of getting robbed go down quite a bit.

[quote]No way am I trying to figure out how to find and get to a brothel/bathhouse and negotiate all the transactions in a language I don’t know in a crime-ridden city.

They're called taxicabs. Take a taxi from your hotel straight to the place you're going, take a taxi back. Quick, easy, safe. Learn some basic phrases and you'll get around okay.

Don't loiter down the sidewalk completely distracted browsing on your iphone X and it won't get stolen. Don't display expensive shit in public and it won't get lifted. Just carry your cash for the day, and a copy of your passport. Rio is not safe, but with some precautions doing Rio safely is quite doable.

"R$100 for a fuck (USD$25), R$200 if he comes."

Why do you pay more if he comes, not less?

I'd go to Amsterdam, exotic countries seem like a quick way to catch some STDs

Listen to your inner voice. Don't end up in jail.

Thailand's rep for underaged prostitutes is an exaggeration---the queens here know nothing of Thailand. Rio has alsways been a little dangerous---you'll be fine if you stay in reputable hotel and pay attention as one usually does in a big city. There is lots of info about the saunas in Rio online. There is a large community of part-year expats there--if you get to their hangouts and connect with them , you'll do particularly well there. The guys are no more or less hung than here.

[quote]Why do you pay more if he comes, not less?

Because's he's out of commission for fucking for a while, silly.

R30 If I'm the one paying him hell I'm expecting him to pleasure me not the other way around.

R36 That's if he is a top.

I mean R36 he can rim me and suck my dick and bottom for me even if his own is as soft as warm icecream.

[quote][R36] That's if he is a top.

É verdade.

If you're paying you don't have to use a condom. Consider it "dealer's choice"

Consider it Russian Roulette.

^^ Us tops don't have to worry

Some tops are so fucking stupid they think they can't get STDs.

R43 top candidate for the Darwin Award.

R44 is taunting me with that hole...

Bottom (or, if you prefer, top) line, use protection.

Don’t fuck escorts raw, please. And bottoms, definitely don’t let them coat your guts.

Or goat your cuts.

R44 and R46 may i video your encounter when you two finally get over with and fuck?

Or clench your glutes.

Although it should be fine if you felch out the hooker’s load.

R46: oh honey, you really think that STD-riddled dick is getting within 50 feet of my pleasure palace?

You're hysterical.

R44:

Your lips tell me no, no

But there's yes, yes in your eyes

I mean seriously. Does "I'm a walking STD and I'm gonna fuck you RAW" really work on the boys?

I mean other than psychos who are trying to get infected.

R55 Well I'd be a bit careful about bottoming for a stranger anyway, even with a condom. (I'm vers). I'm skinny and on the short side, and I hate rough anal sex, so if a top decided to fuck me more harshly than I want him to, there could be an awkward situation. I prefer being in control.

Well look at Mr.Sex-negative!

How about Puerto Vallarta? Or Cuba?

Puerto Vallarta is amazing for this, but you WILL run into someone you know on the street. Mexico City or Guadalajara would have less of a chance for this, even if PV is probably your best, closest, least expensive option.

Check out the forums on boytoy.com - those horny eldergays know every single place to get laid and have long discussions on how to haggle down prices. It's a fun place to read once in a while. And no, I am not a poster there, just a lurker for the laughs.

R59 Is it really so bad if you’re a poster there? Hahahaha.

Be aware that many (if not most) escorts are control freaks. Just because you pay them doesn't mean you'll get exactly what you mean; you'll just get what they're willing to give you. And if you try to put up a fight and say you want what you're paying for, it just ruins the mood, and will probably end with the escort deciding to leave.

I meant, just because you pay them doesn't mean you'll get exactly what you want*

r61 So then you just post a negative review.

You should go to one of the review sites for escorts (there are many), as well as the m4m message board for escorts and read what people have to say about specific escorts. Reviews cover a lot of countries although it's weighted heavily toward escorts working in the US.

There are, in fact, "reputable" ones and others known as scam artists - in all countries.

My prediction for 2019 is that OP will end up being the next "getting murdered or otherwise harmed by rough foreign trade" headline we discuss on DL.

Never done or thought about doing something like this ... . But first time out, I don't think I'd want the added anxiety of being alone in a foreign country, and especially not some almost third world country I'd never been to before.

Also, it might depend on what kind of guys you're attracted to.

I'd probably opt for some place in the U.S. in another city - state.

But if I had to choose outside the U.S. I might look into New Zealand, where it's apparently legal. Plus, at least NZ is someplace I'd like to go just for the travel experience, so it wouldn't be a wasted trip if the sex didn't live up to expectations.

Have you met the motel cumdump from the other thread? For $50 and a pack of tic-tacs, it sounds like he'd come to you.

R67 Pics of the motel cumdump?

Good luck with stds. A whore is bound to have plenty

[quote]Good luck with stds. A whore is bound to have plenty

Probably true, but ironically from sleeping with non-whores.

Elderbitches, shouldn't you be fuckin' with your 401K's instead of Herpasyphillitic "Bois"?

Some of us are quite capable of managing both, R71.

Colombia! No, I'm not kidding. Hot guys, super polite, and yes, safe! Very gay friendly. I hooked up with lots of guys there this summer. I didn't pay for any rentguys, but that is there and common.

[QUOTE]But if I had to choose outside the U.S. I might look into New Zealand,

Travel half way around the globe just to suck dick?

No, thanks!

R73. Colombia has some very hot men, I agree with you. They are also very humble and down to earth, even the super hot ones. I don't know for how much longer because they are getting a lot of attention these days

R75, Colombian men are sexy and so nice. The whole country (that I've seen) is a dream. I'm returning next year to Medellin and the coffee region, where I hear the men are possibly the hottest. Bogota had very hot men though. So many hot gay men.

I always see Colombian guys on Chaturbate. They're hot and eager.

Colombia

Can’t you get it for free?

Going rate for an hour of 'massage' is 2000 baht or $60. Throw in a 500 baht tip ($15) and he'll fuck you

Barcelona all year, Sitges in the summer. It's not dangerous like Brazil. Whore central, competition keeps prices down. You could travel the entirety of the European Mediterranean coast and use online services where you can read reviews and see pictures. From Seville to Thessalonique. You could do the Black Sea as well but I haven't done it so can't vouch for safety. If a guy has verified reviews its likely safe.

R81. Thank you. I am now going to googleThessalonique!

you can join planet romeo the cruise ap all the hos advertise there. if they have a lot of reviews attached to genuine guys, you can tell what you'll be getting and that the guy is a professional ho who is worth the money and won't kill you