Why is sex with men so meaningless, soul less, and pointless

Never been in love then? This is what I felt between partners. There was a looooong gap between my last long term boyfriend and this one - about 13 years. But then I found someone who made me feel like a teenager again. Hoping and trying to make it last.

Sex is better when you care about someone. It just is.

Learn to write in complete sentences/thoughts. It would make this pointless, soul less drivel more sensible.

If your point is that many men just fuck for the orgasm, yes, I agree. I am one of those.

Depends on the person a man is fucking. Sometimes it's sport fucking, sometimes it's more than that.

Just because a man isn't loving you doesn't mean that men are all soulless cum machines. Believing that men are sex crazed scum who have no emotional lives is a repulsive, bigoted, ignorant view of humanity that is crying out for long-term psychiatric treatment, OP. Good luck finding the right shrink for yourself and the work you need to do.

Lol. Agreed.

To think sex with strangers should be thought of like scratching an itch is a product of hedonism.

You're such a Pollyanna, OP.

It's the sex drive.

OP You’re doing it wrong. What, do you just lay there like a blow up doll? No emotional engagement? No conversation about what you want to try, your fantasies?

Look, when I have sex with my buddies we have a lot of ideas about what we want to try with each other. The build up is half the fun. Sure, we know what each other likes. But damn, it’s not like that’s the sum total of sexual experience. I have a whole bin of toys, lubes, and a very dirty mind.

Taking a man to a place he never imagined but where his orgasms are repeat, sustained: you have to put some effort into sex.

If you’re complaining sex is boring, maybe its you?

Is this a stealth ex-gay thread?

bad breakup, honey?

Op, you sound like the average straight woman.

Just so. ^^

OP=unloved frau surrounded by sixteen mangy cats.

Honey, hookups are usually meaningless, soul less, and pointless. That's the nature of hookups.

But yeah, if that's how the sex is in your relationship, find someone else.

You’re insane Op.

Dogs fuck too. I’m not a dog nor are my sexual habits like a dog

OP is doing it wrong.

Sex with love is a wonderful thing - sex without love can be pretty damn good too.

Sex on the brain.

Because you're doing it wrong OP.

Is this gay men you're talking about OP?

You DO realize you’re not obligated to participate, right OP?? Be a cold fish, if that’s what does it for you, but bish.....

R21 Gay men are not real men, so probably not.

If you can’t feed your baby(yeah yeah) then don’t have a baby.

And yet, so irresistible!

You’re doing it wrong.

Sex between strangers is just play. It’s not supposed to provide meaning to your life.

When men fuck fat women in order to win a contest, it is indeed meaningless, especially if the hefty lady is required to keep the bag on their head. Man on man sex is like blazing fireworks and a piercing of the veil to reveal of the wonders of the universe.

Most people are selfish in bed and just want to get theirs until they catch feelings, OP.

My Gosh! I'm so on the other page! Having (unfortunately spent nearly 2/3 of my sexual life with women), I find men FAR more fun to make love with than women! In the first place, they have more bits & pieces than women, and secondly they (Men ) will always surprise you with something that's growing larger by the minute, thirdly they (men again) can rarely if ever fake it...the climax is always there front and center . Of course this is all tongue & Cheek.. It really depends on your partner and how you feel about them !

Fuck as many as you can. Some are worth repeats and marrying.

Nice.