Do you know anyone who became an escort?

I knew an escort in Glasgow about 10 years ago and I am pretty sure going by what is on pornhub that he is now a porn star called Felix Chase.

Bump as I think this thread has the potential to be very interesting!

How many threads do we still need about escorts? Bloody Mary!

Op, what are you looking for exactly? All escorts meet the same fate with some exceptions if they have some brains.

Pmub.

My best friend was an escort. It has not ended well for him. He has trouble coming to terms with his age, and gets insecure when we see younger hot guys. From what I could see a person needs to be out of it to function doing that line of work.

I briefly dated a guy in college and when I googled him many years later, just out of curiosity, I found he'd become an escort. He was over 40 at that point but still selling his ass. Last time I googled him (in the last 6 months I think) he seemed to have settled down with a bf and there were no ads for his services to be found. The ads he'd used emphasized his cultivation and witty conversation, and there was even a picture of him in front of the Stanford quad.

I’d like to be one, but sadly I don’t have the looks or the personality for it.

I started escorting about 10 years ago, when I was between jobs. As someone who was never into the party scene, rarely drank, and avoided drugs like the plague, I found I was definitely an anomaly in the male escort world. I’ve always maintained a well paying job, but have just done escorting on the side to make extra money. I remember thinking, “as soon as escorting becomes my primary source of income, I’ll give it up”. This happened a couple times over the last 10 years, but it was just too easy and comfortable to quit. I met some really great guys doing what I did, and still occasionally keep in contact with a few. Young/old, attractive/not so much, married/single... I met them all.

I knew an escort who specialized in foot fetishes.

(No, I wasn't a customer.)

One, while he was in law school. He did it for money to buy crack. Dead now.

Sold crack to buy crack, by cracky.

[QUOTE]The other is an acquaintance who became one for a short time and then went to law school. He's a bottom. He's a cute, muscled, twink.

Do you have his number?

Back in the 90's I streetwalked lol. I remember being under 18 years. It was weird but i did pick up someone, went to a danky motel. Gave him a blowjob for $40. I just couldn't do it again because of how gross I felt afterwards.

r13 = Melania Trump

I once became friends with a tall, hunky guy who moved to NYC from Chicago. He worked as a producer on a talk show. He was a real sex pig, frequenting sex parties and bath houses. He also did meth for a bit.

When the talk show was cancelled and he lost his job, he tried escorting.

He and a sugar daddy who hired him fell in love and they both now live in Florida.

Under it all, he was a very sweet guy. I’m glad he found love

"How many threads do we still need about escorts? Bloody Mary!"

I'd be afraid to close my eyes, even in ecstasy, with an escort named Bloody Mary.

R16 At least I didn’t say Elizabeth Bathory.

Yes. I met guys on IG and Tumblr who get a following and they post pics/videos and a "travel schedule" or post about "massage", and they are all hookers.

Back home in my village, I once knew a girl later aspiring to be an architect and a model.

r8 do you have any interesting tales to share please about what your clients were like? For instance were they less sleazy than you'd imagined they would be?

A hustler is like a car: great when new, but with mileage it goes down in value, very fast. This "profession" is for someone who doesn't mind sharing his body (can separate sex from love) and has empathy for others (why they need a hustler, as there are many different reasons). You need to go in with a plan and stick with it. Very few can handle it

I've got a friend who has a phd in something related to the oil industry, who started escorting. He's tall and originally from Costa Rica, and is basically a bodybuilder. The sweetest guy. He's doing a little porn here and there now too. So far as I can tell it hasn't really changed him.

R20 Yeah, I did meet a lot of really nice guys. The vast majority of the guys I met were generally older (40-50’s) who were either married and/or closeted, or who just couldn’t be bothered with online games. Also, a lot of the guys just didn’t want to put in the time to cruise online, with the hope of only possibly getting together with someone. I always offered a “semi-professional” (I know, lol) relaxation massage prior to getting down to the dirty stuff. It was my way of putting the guys at ease, under the guise that it was a legitimate service being provided (which, I believe escorting definitely is), and we were just deviating from what was being paid for.

Rarely did I ever feel unsafe, or was I put in a situation that I felt uncomfortable, or was being pressured to do something I wasn’t ok with. This may have been a result of my vetting process, as I was quite diligent about the rules, and I made sure we were both aware of what was allowed, prior to booking an appointment.

Anything else you would like to know?

R8 what's the weirdest or craziest thing a client wanted you to do sexually for money?

r24 Don't ask

Thanks for replying r23

A few more questions if you don't mind please?

How common were requests for duos or meet ups in saunas/bathhouses?

What was your preferred or most used method of payment ?Cash?Bankcard? Paypal? A deposit and the rest in cash?

How often did you do overnights in 5 star hotels? What are the basic security measures both escorts and clients should take? One of my worries about being a potential client for an overnight is I know this sounds paranoid but an escort stealing cash or bankcard whilst I am asleep ? I know it sounds cynical but I am an anxious type. How can trust be build and what precautions taken can help build trust?

r23 -- did you find most of your customers were more focused on the orgasm or the company?

I worked at a bank in the 90’s. There was a beautiful young woman who worked there and was rumored to be an escort. I was told she only had the teller job for the benefits. I didn’t believe it until she started coming to work in the mornings practically wearing ball gowns. Talk about a walk of shame.....

My now ex-boyfriend. Jokingly referred to him as the "best rent man in the City". Met him through CL and a few months into our relationship, he suggested I put him on a monthly allowance, which I agreed to. He was basically straight and would look for rich older women too through a cougar site. Will never the know the extend of his hustling/escorting with women, men and trannies. Nice handsome guy too. Worked at a menial job. Always had the best pot and was probably snorting coke in the bathroom when he would visit me.

I fell in love with an escort. He didn't want anything to do with me. Love is a very deep hole.

He sounds like a deep hole.

The ones I knew were basically sweet guys. I always wondered about that. Seems like you'd have to be hard-boiled to be an escort. This was the 80s, so many of them are gone. I had a hot roommate at the time and he was always dragging home these guys who were escorts but did him for free. I remember this one guy who was in a porn flick I loved. (He got roughly fucked on a bench in a locker room.) My RM met him at Blow Buddies and took him back to our place and fucked him. When I came home with another guy, the two of them were sitting up in bed and we all ending up hanging out together (no sex). I just remember him being super nice. Another guy was someone I dated. One night he invited me to a birthday party and when it was time to go, he took me aside and said he couldn't leave because he was "the gift." I remember walking to my car while he waved winsomely at me while the "john" held him around the shoulders. I think this was his way of letting me know what he did. He eventually moved back to Maine and used to write me long letters. Another sweet guy.

I used to have a girlfriend known as Elsie...

R32 hookers and porn guys that ho on the side turn on the charm, and if they are mean or crazy they don't attract clients. I know older guys who were FWB (friends with benefits) with porn guys from Colt in the late 80s and early 90s, the guys who did porn are no longer around sadly but my friends are like your roommate in that the porn guys were escorting but my friends did not have to pay.

[quote] I met guys on IG and Tumblr who get a following and they post pics/videos and a "travel schedule" or post about "massage", and they are all hookers.

I had no idea that "travel schedule" meant hooker

I have a friend who escorted during his meth years. He said it worked because he got paid AND got free drugs.

He's a 5th grade teacher now.

R36 do his students and their parents know about his past?

R24 This may seem surprising, but there really wasn’t a lot of crazy/bizarre things requested. The guys I met, for the most part, weren’t crazed sex monsters... they were almost always guys looking for an outlet for guaranteed discreet sex (usually on the side).

Although, prior to meeting up, I did have one guy ask if I would take a crap on his chest and/or freeze my poop for him to use at a later date. I politely suggested he find someone else. Lol

I trainer from my gym in Kansas moved to Vegas and became an escort. He is back in town now for Christmas and yes, according to his rent men ad, he is hustling while back in town.

R26 No worries at all.

I did get quite a few inquiries about working with couples (both mm and mf), but as my rate for couples was 1.5x my rate for singles, I think it disuaded many potential couples. Of the couples that I did meet, it was almost always at their house (or hotel). It may seem unusual, but I’ve not once met a client at at bathhouse or sauna. In fact, I’ve only ever been to 2 bathhouses, and it was just for fun, not a professional arrangement.

As for my method of payment, it was always cash.

Lastly, when it comes to overnights, I rarely was asked for that. I think on the few occasions that I did provide an overnight stay, it was with regular clients. Addressing your concern regarding security, I would strongly suggest that you are familiar with your escort, and have been with him at least a few times prior to arranging an overnight stay. I can only speak for my own personal experience, but I’ve heard stories of clients being robbed by their escorts. At the very least, I would recommend hosting your escort at a hotel, and not having anything of value laying around. Maybe but valuables (wallet, keys, laptop etc in the room safe, just as a precaution).

I hope this helps.

R27 It seemed to be a mixture of both. Initially, it was definitely all about the orgasm. However, once that was out of the way, and especially with my regulars, we would lay in bed, chat about life, current events, and even laugh about the unique arrangement we found ourselves in. I often felt like I was an outlet, not only for a sexual experience they may not get otherwise, but just a someone they could talk openly about things to. I’ve had many deep insightful conversations with clients.

Have any of you NY'ers ever encountered a rent man with the initials B.L.? Just curious.

Thanks for your detailed thoughtful reply r40

Don't go there, R42

r40 Sorry just thought of another question or two if you would please be kind enough to oblige me!

On average how long would you say an escort has a career for in that field , I mean particularly male escorts .

do you have any thoughts on escorts being self employed free lancers versus working for an agency and the benefits drawbacks of both.

There used to be a brilliant escort agency in Scotland Scotsguys that sadly closed.

I knew a straight, handsome French Canadian male from Quebec who would always go down to Florida for the winter - and let it be known in a discreet way that he was available. Some old, wealthy lady would pick him out as her escort (in more ways than one) and let him live with her for the winter and supply all of his needs and spending money. He went through a number of older women through the winters/years. Then when he was in his 40's and he was growing older he felt the game was coming to an end and retired to a 'normal' job. But he had a lot of perks for quite some time.

Yes, they were bipolar and not on meds, addicted to opiates including heroin and would take any pharmaceutical opiate they could buy from a dealer, sleep with a dealer for, get prescribed, or steal. They did wind up infected HIV+, and I would not be surprised if he has Hep C as this guy was into IV'ing drugs, but he was arrested for forging prescriptions, arrested, and tested while in prison and went on meds for HIV, being bipolar, and he stopped using hard drugs-he smokes weed at times, stopped escorting, and his doing well working a legit job.

Another woman I know was a stripper/escort when she ran away from home as a teen or very young adult, and was a polydrug addict, but going to prison helped shake her up so she got help for being bipolar and her addictions to opiates and hard drugs. She told me how the idea that IV drug addicts will when faced with either having to share a needle, or waiting to get high and going out to buy new needles, go to a safe injection site or needle exchange place, will always pick sharing a needle to get high over their health or other people's health. She has no idea how despite sharing needles, being bisexual and having unprotected sex with men and women who were IV drug users, and doing sex for pay she did not get infected with HIV, Hep C, or any other diseases.

Another guy I know is bisexual and he was kicked out of home as a teenager in the 1980s, and turned to street hustling to survive, and wound up addicted to heroin, coke, and later crack, had lots of male and female partners as a top using condoms, or giving oral sex to men, was raped by a man he had picked up, and then met his ex wife who helped get him off drugs and get a legit job. He is HIV neg, does not have Hep C, or any other diseases. He told me how the 1980s in and around NYC were scary because of everyone around him becoming HIV+.

A couple of years ago, I had a really hot trainer at the gym who also did modelling and participated in bodybuilding contests. I had a crush on him not just because he was stunning looking, but he had such a sweet personality. He was nearly deaf having lost most of his hearing when he was a child due to a medical condition and it also caused him to have a slight speech impediment that made him talk with a bit of a lisp at times. After a few months of training with him, he ended up moving across country to another city. A few months ago I was visiting the city he moved to with a group of friends and as a joke one of my friends wanted to order a escort to do a strip show for us. He logged into an escort website and as we're scrolling there was my former trainer. There was a part of me that was tempted to hire him for a private session.

In the early 80s I dated a hot to death psycho hustler for almost 2 years. He was 32,and had been at it since he was a teen. he had black hair,bluer than blue eyes,and a southern accent you could cut with a knife. He also had 9 fat uncut inches that he worked like a magic wand. When I first met him I had no idea what he did for a living,but noticed he had a ton of older "friends" . I was dating someone else when we met,but about 6 months later that was over and we ran across each other again and hooked up. That very 1st time we fucked I was as addicted like he was a piece of crack. It was THAT good.I was well into being with him before someone told me he was a hustler,but by that point I was craven with desire. Our time together was a cluster fuck of sex,drama,drugs,drinking and fighting. But it was very exciting nonetheless,until I just couldnt take any more of his shit and kicked him to the curb. 4 years after we parted,he showed up in my hometown,on thanksgiving,at my families house! He had visited with me there before so he knew where it was. I hurriedly wrapped up the day,hustled him off to a motel nearby,and we spent the next 3 days fucking so,much we both were raw.Im sure hes long dead now,but to this day he was the best fuck I ever had,bar none.

[quote]I was well into being with him before someone told me he was a hustler,but by that point I was craven with desire.

MARY !!!!!

R50 Baby,you had to have experienced it. You'd un-Mary! me in a second had you had a sample! He had perfected this version of what I called "tantric fucking" where he would slowly inch that big ole dick in ,I mean excruciatingly slow ,so by the time it was all the way in youd be BEGGING him to fuck you. Then he would let it just rest in there,while your throbbing hole was writhing around it and youd be trying to move your ass (he wouldnt let you) after about 10-15 minutes of that he'd out of the blue start pounding you,and just when youd be flailing and screaming and yelping he'd go back to the slow thing! It was maddening,and oh so very effective! I was a waiter then and one morning I mouthed off to him about how if he didnt satisfy me someone else would and he slapped me onto the bed,then proceeded to fuck me five times in a row. I was anhour late to work,and walking was a nightmare! Is it any wonder it took me 2 years to get over that ???

Hot R49/R51!

Does masseur count?

Awe still no update from the Scottish guy knowledgeable of the Scotsguys agency .

Would be great if the Scottish guy who had the dish/some knowledge on the inside track of Scotlands only now defunct gay escort agency Scotsguys would return to post on the thread.

"There was a part of me that was tempted to hire him..."

And which part would that be?

David Eigenberg was an escort when he was at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts.

His loins I would imagine! r56