Married gay couple added a girlfriend to their relationship

Chris explained: “Matthew had never had any experience with women before he’d met me. And before I met Matthew I had dated quite a few girls and quite a few guys.

“I suggested to Chris, ‘How would you feel about involving a woman in some fashion?’

“At first he was completely opposed to the idea but after a while we talked about it and he warmed up to the idea.” -------

This will end well. Bisexuals are such lovely people.

Bisexuals: ask us again why we don't want to date you.

They're pretty hot. Lucky her.

R2 The gay one deserves all the unwanted hetero sex and neglect he's going to get for sticking around. The bisexual openly admits to pressuring him into this 'thruple.' Abusive narcissist. Probably threatened to leave if he didn't get his way.

A gay man who allows his shitty, lying bi narcissist of a husband to bring stankfish into the matrimonial bed?!

Honey, it MUST be love.

And the saddest part is:

once that kid gets fucked into existence it's"bi-bi baby" for the henpecked homosexual hubby.

[quote]They're pretty hot. Lucky her.

Hot?

Oh baby, they're cute---but let's not take it TOO far.

I remember this story from last year, and had the same reaction as the rest of you. I wish they'd do a follow-up so we can learn how nasty the divorce went.

This story is at least a year old, are they still out looking for attention?

Matt’s grandpa sure is excited for Cait to get pregnant. He must want to watch. Family of pervs.

Just wait until the gay one smells pussy for the first time. He’ll get out of there fast

I stopped reading when I scrolled down and saw they were all 5's

The frauen and bi apologists have fallen oddly silent in this thread.

They angling for a movie deal. Amy Schumer, Andrew Rannellls, and Colton Haynes will star.

So fugly bi guy is cucking the hubby and the "girlfriend" right? She's not a showstopper in a good way, but hubby is cute. Something seems off, as it sounds as though there's not really anything between gay hubby and fug frau, except fugly bi guy. Add in the guys were married AFTER this throuple stuff and she sticks around as "girlfriend"....

Someone is going to end up screwed in all of this and it won't be the Bi guy.

Two scenarios spring to mind if they have a baby, either the woman is dumped, realises she's been used as an unpaid surrogate and finds herself in a protracted custody battle or the gay guy is dumped and the other two live a hetero domestic life.

No way they live happily ever after as a throuple family.

We are here to service your lady hole!

So older bi has affair, and then badgers his younger gay lover to not only accept the affair, but to accept the mistress into the relationship - something both he and the mistress admit they were uncomfortable with.

That's not polyamory, it's polygamy.

Is the gay one fucking her too? This doesn’t seem like it’s going to end well for them.

Feel bad for the gay. He's gonna get bulldozed and gas lit b4 he realizes what happened. The chick and the "bi" are into each other. Well, the body language in that one pic. suggests that

She's just there to make them sandwiches.

So apparently the gay one identifies as homoflexible.

“I’m homoflexible so I like guys, and I’m open, flexible to women – I prefer men.”

“I guess I had an awakening after I had a sexual experience with a woman. It is just another body, another soul, a connection that I can have.”

This isn’t going to turn out well. It seems he’s bending himself to make his bf happy.

Forgot the link

Do the gay and girl have one on one or is everything centered around the bi guy?

I see the only good outcome being that the gay one and the woman have a baby together (turkey baster method) and ditch the bi guy. They then buy a duplex and date/marry separate men and voila, the kid has 4 loving parents, all in stable relationships.

I do sympathize with bi ppl but they have to realize you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either be fully monogamous or slut around and refuse to commit. Throuples are inherently unstable.

You mean the wannabe parents just added a uterus to their relationship.

It's a fag hag dream come true

Closet Mormon-stone him!

Isn’t the gay even sexually attracted to her?

Could they not find a better looking hag? She has horse gums.

R31 yeah she’s not that attractive

Ok - so the older guy makes a lot more money and the younger gay can't afford to move out and live in NYC on his own. That's my final answer.

What do I win?

Gross.

If one guy is bi and the other one is gay, how are they a gay couple? That's not even discussing their present arrangement which seems to be a three-way sexual one.

R13 There are hundreds of threads on DL featuring cheating, having sex with other men's partners, and having open relationships, all of them between exclusively gay guys. Why would anyone need to justify anything?

They basically just hired a maid.

The bisexual is the problem, people. Wake up. It's not the frau- who we know is a cunt but probably mentally deranged and so simple she doesn't know what's going on- so she's blameless. The bisexual demanded an "open relationship" from the gay one where he could surf Tinder, found this woman-- engaged with her solo -- ADMITS he coerced the gay one against his will into letting her into the relationship.

In straight world, the addition of this woman is an improvement to these homo's situation. In gay world, the intruding frau is the enemy. The reality? The megalomaniacal bisexual is draining both of them.

Because all gay relationships are inherently faithful and monogamous.

If a gay guy wants to enter into a relationship with a bi guy and put up with this sort of thing, have at it. It's not for me, I have zero interest in dating bisexual guys, it's two completely different orientations and I don't relate to bisexuality on a visceral level.

Today's false equivalence brought to you by bisexual dirtbag R39

I remember the DL thread about them last year Are they still together?

It part of the media trend writing about "gay" /"queer" relationships which are not really gay...

But why do they feel the need to share this with the world? This is private, personal matter (whatever works for you, boo), but what do they gain by being so open about it?

Christ, I can't wait for the next cataclysm so that this fucking age of narcism can be over.

So is the gay one attracted to her?

This will end in tears.

She's way too femme for me.

He has a maid, mother for his child, plus a live in best bud (help with the bills) who will suck his cock whenever. He will fall in love with the woman.

The younger guy's instagram.

Ugh.

Just ugh.

The extremely rare sight of a bottom who takes his clothes off at every given opportunity.

The woman went through cancer and they stood by her side. The three of them are still together.

r51, glad to hear they supported her in a time of need.

I don’t think either of them are porking her, she’s there to cook and clean.

R53 Because women aren't into sex, they just want to cook and clean and have a man in the house.

This will end in murder/suicide.

R55 LMAO

The gay one seems to rarely post about the girl, while the bi one mostly post about her.

The gay one is apparently trying to be an actor.

It does sometimes work out.

This will end badly for the gay guy.

Or the girl considering she has cancer

Lets be real the only reason the gay bottom is sticking around is $$ the hag is well off or the bi guy is!

R38 pretty much nails it.

[quote]The gay one seems to rarely post about the girl, while the bi one mostly post about her.

Well, the bi one is the one who's truly into her, so...

The gay one is in it for the money. He has an ok face, a pretty good body, and is a slut. I’m sure he’s getting all the love and sex he needs outside of their twisted relationship.

Someone in that throuple will get fucked, but not in a good way.

Even in the OP's picture, there is a couple, and then a gay guy hanging on to the left. The body language is really telling.

Indeed r66. Indeed.

This is disgusting, BARF!!! They are just like everyone else.

The girl has a lot of GUMption in her smile.

Yes, this story's ugly. Yes, it makes me dislike bisexuals. But I dislike bile for bile's sake. This is an old story which was discussed aplenty earlier this year and I see no need to revisit it. Life is too bitter as it is already.

If it were an isolated case then it wouldn't need to be rehashed .

But it's not, Blanche. It's not an isolated case.

I'll be bitter until bisexuals realize what vile pigs they are for doing things like this. They have no conception. They think everyone else is just narrow minded and it's OK to coerce a romantic partner into an unwanted three way or 'throuple' relationship. It's all about their needs, which aren't even needs, but megalomania.

The same mentality is exhibited in MORMONISM with the sister wives bullshit. Have you ever read an escapee's testimony? It's hell.

God, she's a sow.

He loves showing off his body.

All bottoms do, R74. Same as women.

If I were the younger gayling, I would be out getting as much dick on the side that I possibly could while I was still young and pretty. His unfaithful husband is fugly and looks like he belongs in the burbs with a wife and a house full of kids.

R74 he’s not that attractive honestly. I still find it weird how when going through his feed I only saw one pic of his husband and non of the girl. I found it weird because the girl said they both were her boyfriends. I wonder how much they interact with and like eachother.

R76 agreed, I feel like he’s going to regret this. It seemed like he was pressured into the 3 way relationship, I wonder if he feels any resentment.

Does anyone know them personally?

Wow you really are a bunch of bitter cunts aren't you? They seem perfectly happy years later so maybe you should shut your judgemental asses. Whatever weird arrangement they have is obviously working for them. We know nothing about their sex life, personalities or lifestyle.

Or their dicks. Bi hubby could have the dick of death and is able to keep both of them in thrall. A lot of i guys I've hooked up with have had big, thick meat.

R80 no need to call it weird

Yeah I have to agree with R81. Never underestimate how much bullshit people will put up with when their man has a huge penis.

R83 it has to be more than that. The guys have been together for like 10 years now and with the girl for like 3.

I know this will come as a shock to a lot of you but sometimes people can love two people at once. And not all gays hate women.

R85 who says gays need to hate women to not want to be in a sexual relationship with them?

Turn in your gay cards please gents.

Couldn’t they find a better looking hag?

Look if the guy is open to having a sexual relationship with the woman he's bi not gay. End of.

We’re all supposed to be sexually fluid now, so you fags better stop being problematic and learn to chow down on that front hole.

My pussy stinks!

The bottom has the marriage certificate, right? It’s the only thing really keeping him in the picture (he looks insufferable BTW). If there is one thing for marriage, it’s that it gives you some legal and financial recourse to the partner, something jilted gays have not had until now.

Thread was fun until the bisexual came in to defend his psychopathic ilk.

R90 I hate pussy so much my Mom had to have a cesarean. No fucking way was I exiting her pussy.

It seems like most of the relationship revolves around the bi guy

“With having a very strong connection with Chris and sometimes feeling frustrated that I would have to split time with Matt.

Freaks.

I wonder how the sex works. Is it usually threesomes or does the bi guy splits up sex with both partners? And do the the gay and the girl ever hook up on their own without the bi guy?

The gay guy (on the left) is way hotter than the bi guy. And the girl? Bleh. The bi-guy should be in the middle … the fact that he isn't says a lot, imho. Poor gay guy.

Which one is the woman?

[Quote]and is able to keep both of them [bold]in thrall[/bold]

Enslaved to a big ole juicy slab of penis. I love your choice of words, r81!

I think the bi-guy is only into the gay guy's ASS!

Yeah let’s tone down the biphobia

Just gross.

R103 No such thing exists.

Disgusting bisexual freaks. From the instagram pictures it is clear that the gay guy is way hotter than that sick bisexual pig and his nasty cow

Could I have the bottom, please? I'll take really good care of him and make sure he gets plenty of bottom exercise.

The blond girl also gives off a lesbian vibe

Clearly the bi guy is having his needs met, do the others get to have sex/relationships outside the throuple?

They made it seem like it's not an open relationship beyond the three

There was s thread on this when it first came out. Many people thought they wanted a reality show. Seems like the woman has gotten cancer since then.

R111 I think she’s in recovery now

So how was the gay dude able to have sex with the girl.

R113 he's either bi or they don't.

r113, he says he's homofleible now. So he's open to the idea of having sex with women. My guess is only the bi guy and the woman have sex.

For the gay guys who are into dating bisexuals: is this arrangement something you would be ok with?

What R111 said. It was ballon boy stunt for attention, fame and money

Are NY gays now flakier than LA gays? It seems so.

R116 Fuck off.

So tired of Frankie Grande stories

I call BS on this story. Three adults living in a one bed flat? No likely and BTW the female looks like a lesbian. They're up to some fame whoring biz.

R116 Sure, so long as you're keeping it loose and not getting your man panties in a twist.

In tears it will end.

Everyone is shitting on the bi guy, but to me what stick out is the woman. Why would you move on into a a long term relationship with two men, espically if one of them is just gay. Two bi guys, ok, but otherwise thats just shitty. I find a lot of these women tend to fetishize male same sex relationships and want to insert themselves in it. Its weird. We all laugh about needy fag hags, but she is essentially one, who got what she wanted and cuked the gay dude. Oh, and its clear the gay bottom is desperate for some reality show or something, so maybe they are 'playing' up the extent of the womans involvement in their marriage. But either way its fucking gross, sorry.

Oh, and she got real fat and butch. I mean doesnt the bi guy have better taste? This is what makes me think its more about 'playing' at a 'queer' relationship and she is more of an 'outsider' to their main marriage. I mean, back when when I thought I was bi I was still able to fuck hotter chicks than this guy.......

I feel sorry for the gay guy.

r125, did you get an erection for both men and women in the past? Did that change to just men at some point? I am curious because I've never had any attraction other than to men so I never had to figure anything out. I am interested in hearing the different experiences of other gay (I guess technically bi) men.

its hard to see how this ends well for any of them

[quote] They're pretty hot. Lucky her.

This comment left me speechless. Sometimes, comments like that tell you who's REALLY on Datalounge...

R127 I think a way for him to be gay but still have sex with women was to fantasize about men while doing that. That or jerking off.

R124 It makes sense to blame him because he was the one who orchestrated the whole thing. I agree we shouldn’t attack him because he is bi. He was the one who brought the women into an already established relationship and also the one who pushed the idea on his supposedly gay bf. He basically made it so those two who are like a decade younger than he is center around him and had them have to accommodate eachother to please him. I don’t know if the gay and the girl share an attraction to eachother but if they don’t that just makes it more wrong. If you’re going to be in a polyamorous relationship then the best thing to do is make sure everyone involved actually want to be in one with eachother. At least have them be attracted to eachother if you’re going to do threesomes. There shouldn’t be no coercion or talking into something like this because if somebody is not all for it or it wasn’t planned out and there’s lack of communication it’s going to lead to resentment. Both the girl and the gay have mentioned being jealous in the past by having to split up time with the bi guy I wonder if they’re actually over it.

Clearly the guy in the middle is getting the best deal out of this, he's banging both the guy and the girl. The other two are waiting for scraps.

OTOH, in a lot of cultures, men have multiple wives and everyone seems cool with it, so maybe it works for them.

It will fall apart the moment she becomes pregnant. Her hormones will be all over the place and the two gay guys will tire of strife, her outbursts, her crying and her moodiness. They’ll become closer, she’ll feel left out because of her vulnerable state. Furthermore, with a child, she’ll want a husband and a straight one who’ll be committed to her only. A baby changes everything.

It will be a mess and they’ll turn on each other. There will be a nasty custody battle and she, being the mother, will have the upper hand. When it reaches the court, she’ll use heterosexual privilege for sole custody. And she’ll win. The gay couple might never see the baby again but she’ll happily collect child support payments for the next 18 years.

Sum total, this will end in tears.

[quote]It will fall apart the moment she becomes pregnant. Her hormones will be all over the place and the two gay guys will tire of strife, her outbursts, her crying and her moodiness.

r133, neither one of these guys is gay. One guy is bisexual and is responsible for bringing the woman into the relationship and the other one now says he's homoflexible, which is just another fancy word for bisexual.

R134 is right, if the “gay” one is really homoflexible then he’s bi too

[quote]in a lot of cultures, men have multiple wives and everyone seems cool with it

Often the women are NOT cool with it but don't have much say in the matter. The multiple wives thing favors men, not women.

In the case of this throuple, the gay guy, who is younger and hotter than the other two, is going to get sick of being the third wheel, especially if a baby comes along - and will bail for the greener pastures that are available to him. If it had been a truly mutual thing of both guys wanting a woman, that would have been different. It's clear the bi guy coerced and pressured the gay one into accepting this arrangement, it's not something he would have chosen on his own.

maybe they were hoping for a reality show out of this arrangement. reality shows have been built on far less

It's disgusting because it's selling the "sexual fluidity" love-has-no-gender bullshit that it really just homophobia in wrapping paper. Spoiler Alert!: some people are gay! those people are gay because they cannot, not choose not to, engage sexually or romantically with the opposite sex. That's what being a homosexual is all about!

R138 louder for the people in the back

The bisexual admits he coerced the gay one into the relationship despite not wanting to be in it.

His sexual orientation hasn't changed. He's not having sex with the woman, he's drinking wine downstairs while the two have it off. Don't date bisexuals.

But to be fair Id say the bottom actually likes the fact his husband is bi. Lots of gays are attracted to men who fuck women for some reason.......Maybe th bottom get off on the fact that his top fucks pussy as well as his ass? Who knows and who cares. They are gross people all round, all of them.

The manwhore who orchestrated this is fucking far more people than those two tragic saps. Both the gay guy and the woman should get tested for all kinds of STDs and then dump his sorry ass.

If you’re a gay guy who likes straight porn (as many do) this would be like having you’re own private show each night. What’s not to love?

Your*

Found the bisexual...

R143 why do you like straight porn?

146 maybe he idolizes straight men, that or he’s bisexual.

I'll watch a minute or two of breeder porn if there's an incredibly hot guy, but the woman just totally fades from my view. It actually repulses me. Gay men don't get off watching straight porn for the woman.

Obviously there's an interloper here.

And it's really not our fault that 90% of the men in gay porn look the same.

Does anyone else think she looks like a fat Debbie Harry?

Perhaps the gay spouse eats out the girl's pussy while his husband fucks him up the ass. Maybe she fucks him with a strap-on dildo while he sucks off his husband. There's many possible scenarios to this if you let your mind wander.

[quote]It's disgusting because it's selling the "sexual fluidity" love-has-no-gender bullshit that it really just homophobia in wrapping paper. Spoiler Alert!: some people are gay! those people are gay because they cannot, not choose not to, engage sexually or romantically with the opposite sex. That's what being a homosexual is all about!

r138, thank you, I can't stand all these assholes trying to tell gay people they are 'limited' or 'close-minded' because they are not sexually interested in the opposite sex. It's homophobic.

I also cannot abide the bi/pan/fluid people who 'identify as gay' but then mention in the same breath they are sexually into the opposite sex. And if anyone points out the obvious, namely that a person that is sexually attracted to both both sexes is not gay, then all of a sudden you are being an exclusionary nazi. Listen, if you are uncomfortable with the current labels for your bisexuality then that is your problem, it has nothing to do with homosexuals. You don't get to co-opt the word 'gay' for your own purposes and then tell actual homosexuals that they are being 'close-minded' for objecting.

Yeah those people are so stupid. Why would you call yourself gay if you’re not exclusively attracted to the same sex

I watch str8 porn because I don’t like anal sex or seeing men penetrated but I still like to see men penetrate

R154 Congrats on coming out as heterosexual or bi

R143, have you SEEN the chick and the bi guy? It would be a horror show.

Straight women of DL, is this your dream scenario?

R154 so you only focus on the guy?

R155 Dont be stupid. You clearly dont know much. Lots of gay men are turned on by men fucking women. Often the REALLY gay guys ironically.

R159 Het begone

Purely gay is a bore

Straight porn is hotter than gay porn to me too, and I say this as a gay man. If the guy in the straight porno is hot, fageddaboudit.

The bi/hets have arrived

Secretly I yearn for a penis to penetrate me and am aroused by heterosexual sex

Oh and you know the little bottom is posting in this thread. He is thirst for any amout of 'fame' and probably has google alerts!! hehehe

R164 except that you are missing the point about it. The gay guys getting off to st8 porn arent inserting as the guy fucking the chick, but rather as the girl getting fucked. Thats not actually ridiculous or a bisexual thought.

R166 No, you're thinking of autogynephiles which are not gay men. As stated above, the 'chick' disappears completely from view. I'm not imaging being her, I don't see her at all.

And when I DO see her, I'm disgusted. It's called being gay. It's real.

And THAT's why breeder porn is so disgusting. No matter how hot the guy is, your eye starts drifting towards the woman's body and it's unappealing. Your thesis is as stupid as saying completely heterosexual men watch gay porn to imagine themselves fucking women. Doesn't happen. Completely heterosexual men don't watch gay porn.

Most of the het porn don’t highlight the males

R170 Hetero females watch gay porn

Bisexuals like to imagine everyone is bisexual and turned on by/thinks the same things they do-- just like heterosexuals.

Trust me, your gay boyfriend doesn't want to see you fuck a woman, you're just an abusive, narcissistic sociopath.

R170 Wow, you really are dim arent you......there arent women in gay porn dumbfuck. There are men in het porn, and wether right or wrong, very 'masculine' men in it by virtue of them being 'straight'. The points really go over you head. R167 No, im not reffering to that. They are imagining them being fucked by the hot str8 man (ie being in the place of the chick), not being turned on by BEING a woman particualry.

R174 No, we aren't. I do not imagine myself being fucked by the man in straight porn. It hardly arouses me at all. If I'm consciously aware of the woman, it's a turn off.

Should not be controversial to say this, but of course it's DL overrun by bisexuals and het women.

R173 While I dont agree with this set up in the thread, you really dont know alot about peoples sexual psyche. Next you will tell me that no straight men like to see their wives get pounded by other men? Lol, 'cuck' porn and lifestyle is a pretty strong subset of straight sexual desire.

R174 Congrats, not talking about you. Ever think some people have a different take on sexual desire? It would be like me saying 'no, gay men dont like bottoming - im a total top and completely gay, so therefore other gay men can only be tops as well'. Its fucking stupid.

I like to see MEN FUCKING MEN. Sometimes the men in gay porn all start to look the same so I try to find an exotic straight male fucking an androgynous or non-visible woman. It always ends in disappoint, though. Breeders are just gross.

R176 A man that wants to see another man fuck his wife is not the same as a GAY MAN seeing his man fuck a woman. You're an idiot.

No one is disputing the fact most gay men are truned off by it, just pointing out a substantial subgroup ARENT. And that it isnt for 'bisexual' reasons as the hysterics in this thread think. Thats all.

Bisexuality is rape culture.

Great, not the crazy lez's from L chat have turned up. Hi sweets!

Bisexuals have no respect for exclusively same or opposite sex attracted peoples. It's a fact. They're always looking for loopholes, exceptions to the rule, or insist everyone is like them.

The bisexual male in this 'throuple' is an example. Publicly admits to coercing his husband into hetero sex, then the bisexuals in this thread defend him and say the gay one wanted it all along. Disgusting creatures.

So how did the threesome story in this thread end up? One of the three, at least, must have a broken heart by now.

R183 The gay one is still drinking wine and taking klonopin downstairs watching Golden Girls reruns and working on his web design business while the two lovebirds are trying to conceive.

"What a happy relationship!" all the bisexuals say.

Gay men don't desire women; straight men don't desire men.

Gay women don't desire men; straight women don't desire women.

They really don't. Everyone else falls somewhere on the bi scale.

Fuck bi people for fun but don't expect honesty, stability or truth from them. By and large they are not wired that way.

The body language of the opening shot tells me a lot. The coercion factor is rampant narcissism.

I’m pretty sure she’s being treated like a housewife, without the sex.

R187 If by "she" you mean the gay husband, then yes, she is.

R159 why would a gay man be into a man fucking a woman? Is it because he idolize straight men? Wouldn’t seeing the woman ruin it if you’re not attracted to her?

R162 why is it hotter to you? If you’re not attracted to women wouldn’t seeing one turn you off?

[quote]All other things equal, straight guys > bi guys > gays in terms of hotness

Oh, one of *those*.....

R167 then why don’t you just watch solos if you’re only into the guy but not the girl?

Exactly, R189 R189 R191

R192 Not every straight guy does solo porn, and like I said, if her face/body isn't visible and it mostly centered on the guy it's slightly tolerable. I don't like it all and watch gay porn 97% of the time. Most of them are so blah and shaved, though.

Whatever. I don't feel bad for any of them.

R174 so basically you watch straight porn because you fetishize straight men and either see yourself in place of the woman or just ignore her? If so then why not just watch solos

^^But somehow, this gets mistaken by bisexuals as "I imagine myself being the girl/fucked by the dude while enjoying the sight of the woman." The bisexual psyche is so warped. Some straight guys are just more attractive but I don't expect them to do gay porn.

As upsetting as this may be to the fraus and bisexuals, I'd rather watch them fuck one of those silicone doll asses/pussies than a female. What can I say? I like straight dick

Thinking about this further... most porn that I watch is (sadly) gay for pay. Gay men's idea of masculinity is of a particular kind that I don't find generally appealing. This is all to do with socialization and compensation.

Anyway. Bisexuals are scum and I will never date one again because this article sums up pretty much every experience I've had with one, though it's never gotten this far. They really are this insensitive and will perform amazing feats of mental gymnastics to convince you you're the one with the problem.

[quote][R162]why is it hotter to you? If you’re not attracted to women wouldn’t seeing one turn you off?

Something about the domination and the non-familiarity. Being gay all my life, I know the ins and outs of that dynamic in every way, so there’s nothing new when I’m watching gay porn (not that I dont find some gay porn hot, because I do), but seeing a guy (especially a hot one) dominate a woman and make her lose her mind is just fucking sexy to me.

Take this scene with straight porn stud Marc Davis fucking the living shit out of porn slut Ruby Jewel for instance. The way she’s screaming and moaning just heightens my attraction to him (go to the 11:25 mark)...

I can just imagine what the financial entanglement is, being that there is a marriage and a single person. When this ends, and it will badly, it's going to be ugly and messy and bitter.

R200 Gross

R200 so you get off on the women getting pleasured? How is this not you being attracted to the woman? Do you put yourself in the woman’s place or do you have to see her? Because if you need to see the girl then I’m pretty sure you’re bisexual,

R200 why is a man dominating a woman sexy to you if you’re not attracted to her?

R200 do you find women sexually attractive?

R202 grow up

R203 no, it’s not, sometimes and I’m not

R204 his brute strength, and why ask why?

R205, no

R203 you are clearly a frau and have no idea of what makes a man gay or bisexual. Jesus.

R206 so you’re attracted to agressive straight men being aggressively straight?

^The sexuality if it

R207 I’m just pointing out if you’re into women getting off then you’re not gay.

OF it

R120 Agreed.

Sorry. R210 Agreed.

R209 complete sentences please

R210, I have no sexual desire to be with a woman. I don’t know what else to tell you.

I explained the gay perspective very clearly when watching breeder porn. A breeder (bisexual) showed up to say he loved seeing women get off and put a (presumptive) gay spin on it and told me to 'Grow Up' when I said the female aspect of it is off putting. Bisexuals in a nutshell.

R215 You obviously do. That was nasty.

R215 so R208 is correct?

R217 yeah that was kinda off putting idg how that was sexy

(Male) Homosexuals are not aroused by the female form in any way. I do not want to see a woman be pleasured. The 3% of time I'm watching breeder porn and wishing I wasn't, I'm completely focused on the male. R200 talking about "her screaming heightening his pleasure" confirms he's bisexual posing as a gay man.

[quote][R215] You obviously do. That was nasty.

Whatever. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. Never popped a boner for a woman and not attracted to them sexually in the slightest. I can appreaciate a woman for her beauty, but do I want to fuck her? No. If that’s not good enough for you then...shrugs.

Back to the topic at hand, I do predict that things will end for this thruple.

R221 You said her moaning turned you on and described the porn clip in very vulgar detail. I think you're not being honest with yourself.

R221 Again are you attracted to aggressive straight men being aggressively straight? Because that’s like the only way you could like that and still be gay.

R222, I said her moaning heightens my attraction to HIM. Seeing HIM do that to her. You’re reading into it what you want to and I can see that it’s frustraing you, but it is what it is. I can only imagine what it would be like if I was ever with Mark Davis.

Yes, his aggressiveness is a total turn on. I’m not attracted to effeminate men, so there’s that.

When I hear a woman moaning, I think pain, agony, disgust. It doesn't sexually arouse me. It ruins the entire scene. This is a pretty normal reaction for exclusive homosexuals. When heterosexual men hear men moaning, they think the same.

Sexuality is not black and white. There is no written book full of sexuality laws and rules that says 1+1 will always equal 2.

That's why that last gay big brother contestant (Tomasz ) had such a hard time. He was grossing the straight players out with his constant sex noises.

R227 Clearly bisexual. "Not black and white" we know the routine baby. You're all shades of gray. That's bisexual.

R226 I think what he’s trying to say is he’s attracted to masculine men and associates straight men being agressive in bed as being that. He fetishizes straight men so that’s why he prefers straight porn. What’s more are straight than a man aggressively giving pleasure to a woman. Correct me if I’m wrong though.

Sexuality is literally black and white. If you'd like-- black is homosexuality, white is heterosexuality. Or flip them, it doesn't matter. Bisexuality is in between.

Respect others on each far side of the spectrum, which is most people, gay and straight.

R229, you’re on the right track. The others, not so much.

R229. Look. I watch straight porn as most people do, sometimes. I just have a different reaction to it. I'd rather the female not be there at all. I'm interested in that straight dick for the man's physique, grooming or lack of, how he carries himself, never the woman. Someone going into how the female's moans arouses them, I can't tell you. It's just not gay.

Like I said, I watch gay for pay mostly. If some of the hottest straight porn stars did gay porn I'd never have to watch another vagina be penetrated again. It doesn't arouse me.

R231 anything I missed?

R232 Dude, give it up. I’ve explained myself. Not good enough for you? Oh well. I’m not straight or bi. Never have been. I’ve been around women all my life, even had a lap dance from one for fun (at a party) and stayed flaccid the entire time. Not attracted to them at all. Nada.

R234 you have the gist of it.

Me, a Kinsey 6, watching breeder porn for the guy but feeling disgusted the whole time.

R237 😂 stahp

R235 I'm not "giving it up," you're just not as gay as you think you are.

Bisexuals use the same gaslighting maneuvers, but tenfold. Your experience is not mine.

Lol R237.

[quote][R235] I'm not "giving it up," you're just not as gay as you think you are

Thanks for the diagnosis, Sigmund. And we’re having this back and forth dialogue because...?

R241 I posted the AHS meme you laughed at. That's what it's like. Bisexuals tell me I need to "grow up" and get over it too-- I.E conversion therapy. They try to talk you into threeways and polyamorous relationships like the one in the article all the time. They think there's no difference between men and women because they process few differences.

Sorry if I'm coming off as defensive, but come on. I'm not straight or bi. I am exclusively homosexual. If you get off seeing women pleasured BY A MAN in some way, fine. But don't tell me it's a universal experience for gay men because it's not. If you want to say sexuality is not black and white, you're way further down the spectrum than me.

Or towards the middle, is what I meant to say.

And I do NOT want to be with anyone towards the middle or right in the center. Anything after dead center is straight as far I'm concerned. Am I bad person for that? Probably.

[quote]But don't tell me it's a universal experience for gay men because it's not

Who said my experiences were universal? I certainly never did. What I’ve said thus far is about me and only me. And, as for me, I am not sexually attracted to women—at all. Point plank period end of sentence. You not being able to wrap your head around what I find sexy or hot from a porn standpoint is not my problem.

And how did you know I was the one who LOL’d upthread? Doing a little detective research?

R245 how old are you?

R245 Do I have to learn how to use quotes here to emphasize where you said you looooooved the dude giving it to her good and how her moaning heightened your sexual experience? That's more bisexual-leaning-than anything.

He’s not attracted to the girl he’s attracted to the guy because he is straight and seeing him pleasuring a girl solidifies that’s the guy is straight in his mind. He also sees himself in the girls place too.

R6 agree. As if it is a mystery which of the guys is going to end up impregnating the girlfriend.

R181: “Great, not the crazy lez's from L chat have turned up. Hi sweets!”

Probably not, because no mention of “Bislut”. LOL. Great word. Let’s bring “bislut” to DL

He's like a Kinsey 5. Whereas I'm (we're?) 6's and revolted by the whole thing. Whatever.

Anyway the real issue here is bisexuals and their denial of homosexuality existing in the first place. His "sexuality is not black and white" thing made me question. I'm so tired of hearing that from bisexuals

R248, can you explain it once more with feeling to R247 so that he can understand it a little better? Boyfriend is LOST.

.. No relationship there after photos. just a gay talking, showing a photo. Strongly doubt the "relationship."

R252 YOU'RE lost if you think imagining yourself as a woman or seeing a woman receive pleasure/her moaning as arousing makes you exclusively gay.

I've given you a Kinsey 6 perspective. It's disgusting to me. I'd rather see the type of guy involved in straight porn fuck an inanimate object before a female. It is what it is.

R254 he sees himself as a male in her place getting fucked by him a straight male. That’s the reason he watches straight porn to idolize the straight male. He’s not paying attention to the woman he wants to be her as a male.

Hardcore lesbians know what I'm talking about. They won't even look at a woman if they know she's been fucked by a man or gets arousal from it.

R256 Some sort of autogynephile related condition, I'm sure. I just block the woman out completely or retch.

I love women, just not for sexual purposes in ANY context.

There’s nothing wrong with fetishising str8 men and seeing them perform in their natural environment..and it doesn’t mean you’re a self-hater who’d prefer to be them or that you can’t also appreciate strictly gay males

R260 Nothing wrong with any sexual predilection (excluding the obvious), or being a Kinsey 5 or 4 (since it was brought up)

Somebody’s mad because somebody else said he finds straight porn to be hotter than gay porn. Lol. And the world will still turn.

GodDAMN, this thread became one derailed clusterfuck by some Aspie obsessives.

No one's mad that heteros/bi people exist, R262

Bisexuals should be proud to be bi. They shouldn't keep pretending to be gay and pushing heterosexuality/straight porn/whatever on to us like we don't know what they're doing. They write that they're "gay" online, but clearly have an agenda trying to convince gay men pussy is so awesome or that gay people enjoy opposite sex relationships for some reason. It's weird. Just be proud of who of you are.

I'm gay and love pussy or seeing a pussy get fucked real good-- DL bisexual

[quote][R38] pretty much nails it.

Yeah, pretty much. Except for that "coerced against his will" bullshit.

The gay one IS a grown man, he DOES have agency and could have walked. I would have.

[quote]No one's mad that heteros/bi people exist, [R262]

Yes, well I’m not hetero or bi, so...there’s that.

267 The gay one was coerced against his will. The bisexual explicitly states this-brags about it- in the interview. Telling us what you would have done does nothing for the ones who have or will have this happen to them.

R268 That's a lie.

[quote][R268] That's a lie.

No.

Ehhhh they’re a bunch of attention whores. I don’t care what people do in their bedrooms, as long as everyone is a consenting adult.

But they need to tell us all about it.

I'm not about to get into some bullshit debate on DL over this subject R269. But the homosexual in this relationship is not a VICTIM. He's a grown ass man who is capable of making grown up ass decisions. He may have been INFLUENCED by his creepy husband and he may not have enough force of will or backbone to say HELL NO and set some damn boundaries no matter the cost--but ultimately, nobody was holding a gun to his head.

In the equation to stay or leave ,whether for love or money, he apparently felt it was of more benefit for him to stay.

Haven’t the gay and the bisexual been together for like 10 years now and the gay only like 28?

Hey DL'ers. "The gay one" you keep referring to, here! I just wanted to let you all know that I am not nor have I ever been gay. Being gay is a decision one makes when they want to limit themselves and not seize all the world has to offer-- my wonderful and devoted husband was able to show me this. I only wish it didn't take daily reeducation and threats to leave (all for my own good) for me to realize this. Contrary to what's been said here, I am NOT drinking wine downstairs alone watching Golden Girls reruns abusing prescription medication while my husband bangs OUR girlfriend, I'm right there with them giving it to her good. Yes, she's required to wear a potato sack mask over her face most times and vomit breaks are a given-like in every normal sexual relationship, but that has nothing to do with me "being gay."

I'll thank you to keep your baseless accusations to yourselves! I'm perfectly happy. Thread closed.

Funny how the people in the Aaron Hernandez thread all seem to clearly think that Hernandez and his former lover Ryan are “two GAY men caught up in a tragic, Brokeback-ian like affair” when both had/have female spouses and kids, yet in here, if a gay man has even dared to look at a woman, he’s NOT gay nowwaynosir!

R276 No one has said late in life homosexuality isn't real. The dynamic doesn't work in reverse because there is no pressure in society to be gay. Men that enjoy sex with women are not homosexuals. Grow up.

Hard pass on the Le Poissant

The only Pussy I'll ever love

[quote]The extremely rare sight of a bottom who takes his clothes off at every given opportunity.

Some of you on here are so archaic it's unbelievable. I feel like an anthropologist reading DL sometimes.

I agree that it's all about $$$$. The bi guy has the money, and the gay guy doesn't. The gay one likes living in a nice apt. on the UWS and the Manhattan lifestyle. If he were left to his own devices, he'd be living in a hovel in Queens with two roommates. I would bet anything that if the gay one found another guy with money who could support a Manhattan lifestyle, he'd be out of there in two minutes.

“When it came to Pornhub Gay categories, more people visited the Straight Guys tab than any other, followed by Black, Daddy and Bareback.”

👀

A certain omebody in this thread is not gonna be happy

"Sexuality is not black and white" is a KLAXON CALL to homosexuals that a bisexual has entered the conversation. And "getting off to her moaning" has been said by exactly ZERO gay men in the history of time. Not even dolphins. Smh so ridiculous.

[quote]A certain omebody in this thread is not gonna be happy

😂 You can say that again

R283, another dumb ass who refuses to read and/or hasn’t mastered the art of comprehension.

R283 Correct.

R285 His comprehension is fine. Bisexuals are the only ones who think what they say about this kind of stuff makes any sense, so of course everyone else must have the problem. Dunning-Kruger is so common about the bi's.

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Biological sex is essentially “black and white” because sexual dimorphism is the formula for species perpetuation.

Human sexuality is endlessly complex.

The second half of this thread might as well be twitter for all the strutting stupidity and disinterest in actual exchange of ideas. Did any of you fools go to college? WTF has happened to the DL?

What floors me is that the gay guy even took the last name of the other one when they got married. A true doormat...

polyamory can work but not like this, it's sick they forced the gay one into the arrangement

If only it was an Asian chick they’d be no complaints

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R289 Human sexuality isn't "endlessly complex." Pretentious bisexuals have pushed this myth for too long. You are either attracted to the same sex, the opposite sex, or both. It's that simple. The gay one was psychologically manipulated by his boyfriend to give polyamory a try, because it's what he wanted.

Did YOU go to college?

Stop infantilising the “gay” one, clearly he’s into this and probably always was at some level i.e crypto bi

No one's infantilizing him. You sociopathic bisexuals need to stick to dating each other instead of getting into relationships with homosexuals and springing this shit on us.

"Clearly he's into it."

You sound like a rapist.

Calm down dear your unhinged is showing

So is your rapist, bisexual mentality.

[quote]You are either attracted to the same sex, the opposite sex, or both. It's that simple.

Yes, yes and yes. The "gay is the new bi" theme is loony.

The gay one in this group looks really fem.

I was curios a couple of times, and I went on Silver Daddies. So many gay couples who got married were advertising themselves asking for a third guy to into their relationship? As a general rule,straight people considered that kinky and unacceptable behavior especially when they get married. There is a very small minority with in the straight world who are swingers ,but they are generally considered freaks. On there other hand, gays consider this to be acceptable and normal. Why get married if many gay men get are so horny? I'm not trying to tick anyone off here, its just a question.

R135 For some people bisexuality is like 95/5, I don't think they are comfortable identifying as bi. The sexual attraction for the 5% is genuine but it's so rare.

R300 I think for a lot of people heart-love and sex-love don't always coexist on the same scale. So perfect love would be when your heart and your dick is in it 10/10. But in reality it often happens that you meet someone and want to share your life with them, but while your heart is say 8/10 in it, your dick is only 5/10. That's why people often say sex cools off in a long term relationship. Because the erotic love was kind of smaller to begin with, so it fades first.

And when sex-love is high but heart-love is low, you get those fuck-my-brains-out relationships that don't really work closely for the personalities. But the sex can be amazing for years.

R174 But they aren't necessarily straight. A man fucking a woman for pay (in porn) can be everything including gay, just like there are gay for pay porn actors. Same way the woman can be straight, bi or even lesbian though the last one is less likely.

R242 Being bisexual I agree that we tend to see fewer differences between men and women than gays or straights (and often wonder why others are so hang up on genitals) but not all bisexuals are polyamorous. I'd never agree to be in an open relationship, it's 100% not my thing, I dont care if men or women or whoever is involved, just no.

Donlt like straight porn btw. It usually features hyperfeminine women and hypermasc men and neither is my thing, I like my men with a touch of femme and my women very tomboyish.

R242 Being bisexual I agree that we tend to see fewer differences between men and women than gays or straights (and often wonder why others are so hang up on genitals) but not all bisexuals are polyamorous. I'd never agree to be in an open relationship, it's 100% not my thing, I dont care if men or women or whoever is involved, just no.

Donlt like straight porn btw. It usually features hyperfeminine women and hypermasc men and neither is my thing, I like my men with a touch of femme and my women very tomboyish.

R266 LOL but kinda true, when a man says he's gay and then he's like, hey Charlize Theron is so hot I'd love to get her off with my fingers. Nope dude if you get hard thinking of sticking your fingers into someone's cunt you are not gay.

R277 There is pressure in gay community to be gay. A young guy who is very much into men and wants to be accepted might suppress his bisexuality because a lot of gay men will openly despite it.

despise it*

“Being bisexual I agree that we tend to see fewer differences between men and women than gays or straights (and often wonder why others are so hang up on genitals) “

Nice try. But you lie. Most bisexuals, such as myself, care very much about genitals and their appropriate and expected BILOGICAL settings (and, no, bigot it’s not gEnitAL feTiShisM“. Your tranny-queer agenda is transparent. Stop trying to “queer” homosexuality and bisexuality, terms that actually have fixed meanings based on REAL phenomena not genderfeelz and wishful thinking. So fuck off back to Pink News

Biological*

R307 Oh piss off. In my experience any guy with a millimeter of 'bi' feelings lets it be known. Thats a fucking meme that they 'repress' their feelings for woman.

R309 Has nothing to do with trans. But bi men who are dick fetishists are obvs gay

R311 Then how do you explain the second coming out? When a gay or a lesbian later comes out as bi?

R312 Is either naive or a dissembling mendacious troll in refusing to recognise the Queer/Transactivist’s —alarmingly partially successful—attempt to coopt “Gay & Lesbian” (see also AGP faux-bisexuality) by redefining out-of-existence the dictionary and common sense definition of “Homosexuality” —one based purely in biological dimorphic SEX differences.. not on capricious whims, identity politics, genderfeelz and wishful thinking.

I’m a bi man and I think it’s time the iL&G got back their own movement by dropping the the B and especially the T; inasmuch as it’s relevant (and in the case of AGP transbians: not art all) we are already covered by G&L — because our homosexual behaviour is really the only part of our lives that is stigmatised.

Queer is often just another word for bi. I know more than bisexual who uses it s a catch-all term.

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R23 don't know if I buy that he's really attracted to girls. It sounds like he had to accodomate for her and is not actually into her.

R317 I feel like that's what happens in many open relationships. He could be bisexual and still not want to let a third wheel in.

R313 is this a common thing?

R319 Not as common as the usual deal but yeah it happens. I think a lot of the times the heteronormativity feels so oppressive that a young person sort of pushes it away completely. Fuck you I'm gay, I don't want to have anything in common with you. There is also the issue of social gender roles. Sometimes they are attracted to both sexes initially but really dislike the gender role associated with the opposite one in the straight culture. Like some gay-leaning bi guys are attracted to dudettes, 'non-feminine' women, but the female idols of straight men seem unsexy to them. Women identifying as lesbians are sometimes bi women fed up with sexism and other such things, so they swear off men and announce themselves lesbian.

But once a person settles into themselves, becomes confident about sexuality, maybe moves to a big city or travels, meets different people, sometimes perception shifts. Of course, it's not like they were gay or lesbian and suddenly became bisexual. They just were the gay-leaning kind of bisexual. So this is a thing, yeah. Some gays are trying really hard to find a shred of bisexuality inside themselves, trying to find a girlfriend, hoping to get the spark with her. This is the opposite process, the rejection of it. Sometimes it's just that the attraction to the opposite sex is very rare. I've met a few mature guys who said they were gay but once or twice in their lives they fell for a woman including the sexual pull. But it was like 1 woman vs 99 men and it usually didn't work out because if you've lived as gay for many years it's super awkward and women are biphobic often and so on. Or they dated for a while and then broke up and the guy went back to living as a gay man. The one who had a girlfriend long after coming out as gay, oops. Or sometimes it's like for late in life bisexuals-former-straights, you just meet a very special person and you fall in love and they happen to be not what you usually feel attracted to. A lawyer working with one of my friends came out as bi in his forties. He wasn't married with kids, he was known as a player, an attractive and successful guy who enjoyed lots of casual sex with women. Definitely not the image of a closeted gay. He came out to have a long term relationship with an openly gay man he's recently met. Love struck.

It's a very uncomfortable topic for the whole non-hetero community because it's dangerous. "You are not gay, you can still meet the right woman" rhetorics incoming.

R320 it's incredible how slow some people are to realize they are not gay. This is why we need propee sex ed with focuses on sexuality.

[quote]I've met a few mature guys who said they were gay but once or twice in their lives they fell for a woman including the sexual pull. But it was like 1 woman vs 99 men and it usually didn't work out because if you've lived as gay for many years it's super awkward and women are biphobic often and so on. Or they dated for a while and then broke up and the guy went back to living as a gay man.

r320, I think the only issue regarding people like this is that they be honest and identify as bisexual. I mean, what do the odds matter, if you're sexually attracted to the opposite sex then you are bisexual. What if they meet a woman that ticks all the boxes and they get married? Are they still going to identify as gay then? This is why the notion that homosexuals can somehow change persists. All of this could be avoided if they were honest about their bisexuality.

I’ve always said that Englishmen have strange tastes.

R322 They might be thinking along the lines of 'exceptions happen" I guess. But I agree it does support the idea that homosexuality can morph into bisexuality and back and forth. A friend of mine has a female cousin who used to say "I'm a lesbian, the only man I fancy is Armie Hammer", which is a paradox in itself (tonight it's a party for me, my hand, my dick and Emma Watson on the screen of my TV, by the way, I'm gay?) but then she met a guy she was really into, and no, he wasn't an Armie lookalike seeing as he is half Japanese, and they decided to get engaged and now all their relatives and their friends think she is a reformed lesbian. She just says "you love who you love it's not about gender". Which is, hey, the classic bisexual line. But noooo.

r324, it's completely ridiculous. And these same people will act pissy if you point out the obvious: that they are bi. They are also completely oblivious to the harm it does to actual gay people by perpetuating the idea that homosexuals can change. If you are bi, cool, own it, don't make a mockery of what it means to be gay.

New York City Mayor de Blasio is married to a woman who used to be a lesbian activist and then decided not to be a lesbian anymore because apparently it IS just a choice after all.

You're all right, but don't forget that apart from incorrectly identifying and appropriating the label "gay" only to then move on to heterosexual relationships, many bisexuals also harangue the homosexuals for "bisexual erasure," a phrase that they actually say unironically!

why cant this thread just die already? They are a bunch of attention whores. I dont care for them.

I don't either, r328, but here I am. I guess I am mildly interested. but still, it just seems stupid and attention whoring. but if that is who they are, so be it. Fuck, don't fuck, just don't make a big production about it. As I get older, that is what I think, more and more.

Did they divorce yet?

Such a progressive relationship. It's very 'woke' for gay men to get over their sexual hang-ups and embrace being with females. What we used to call homophobia, we now recognize as "bi-phobia" and "harmful genital preferences." This couple is the face of the TBGL Community!

You mean "thruple," R331.

When you meet a three-way relationship, it's not hard at all to determine who is at the top of the pyramid. Usually, one alpha male has domination over the other two. The "two-looking-for-a-third" is really the alpha looking for the "next." Eventually,someone becomes the third wheel.

I tried to do a threesome with a woman, but her business looked like the facehugger phase of the Xenomorph.

r334 Modern, "woke" progressives would call you a bigot.

[quote]I tried to do a threesome with a woman, but her business looked like the facehugger phase of the Xenomorph.

Stay classy, you.

Pussies are disgusting. I could never fuck one or eat one out.

More for us, buddy.

Have all you want, r338. Being face-down in some chick's twat would make me vomit.

Unless the "girlfriend" is MTF the couple is NOT gay.

Did they survive Covid?

Some things are just TOO weird.

R340, I think they're just gay but trying to be edgy

If they were truly into women they'd want a hot chick, not some frau

Weird, but I suppose whatever works. I don't like to judge, but think it's not fair to describe them as a gay couple. More like same-sex married bisexual couple.... Thruples are too kinky for my blood, but again don't see any problem if that's what they want.... just don't call them gay please.

Tonight on a Very Special Episode of "Sister Wives"

Cait has the broad flat-peasant face and asymmetrical hair style of a Karen who will passive-aggressively push out all the enjoyable parts of their relationship while she redecorates their Brownstone with items from the Target Home Collection

Matt appears to be the submissive pleaser-type gay who will silently endure this literal clusterfuck while it eats away his self-esteem

Because someone bumped this ancient thread

I can only hope Matt came to his senses and hired a good divorce attorney to relieve himself the Sociopathic Chris

And that Matt pulled out a big clump of Cait's ugly hair on his way out the door

This Will End In Tears