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Stanford professor acquitted of ogling members of wrestling team in the shower

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by Anonymousreply 115December 20, 2018 11:19 PM

Oh stop. Who doesn't?

by Anonymousreply 1December 2, 2018 7:34 PM

JIM JORDAN !

by Anonymousreply 2December 2, 2018 7:36 PM

A former dean of humanities, a history professor, used to sit in the student-athletic facility's steamroom, on the top bench, and masturbate while licking his lips. He was in his 60's at the time, grotesquely obese, and overt in his actions. One time, I saw him repeatedly touching himself and talking to a guy, who finally left the steamroom and exited through the showers, where I was showering. He asked me if I had seen what he did, and I told him I had.

I went in and addressed the perv by his title and told him that he really spooked the youngster. He was not the least bit alarmed that I knew who he was.

As far as I know, he retired several years later, never having been taken to task for the inappropriate behavior. This was in the early 90's. Can you imagine what would happen today?

by Anonymousreply 3December 2, 2018 7:43 PM

A violation of the Ogle Act is a serious offence,

by Anonymousreply 4December 2, 2018 7:47 PM

Now: go get your cellphone get back to the steamroom, and when the perv refuses to cease and desist his public masturbation, broadcast it live on social media.

Then send the video to the faculty council or the Senate, or whatever academic body there is.

by Anonymousreply 5December 2, 2018 7:48 PM

He comes from a culture where men women and children all bathe together. He probably honestly didn't believe he was doing anything wrong.

by Anonymousreply 6December 2, 2018 7:49 PM

So silly. Everybody knows that if you’re old, you have to pay for prime twink ass. But you have to scope out the poor-ish ones, who will do anything for money. Then you leave the money on the bureau and tongue-fuck those tight little asses.

by Anonymousreply 7December 2, 2018 8:01 PM

Why do these things so often happen to wrestlers?

by Anonymousreply 8December 2, 2018 8:23 PM

Those spandex-clad bulges demand attention, R8.

by Anonymousreply 9December 2, 2018 8:37 PM

How close did he get?

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by Anonymousreply 10December 2, 2018 8:38 PM

Their default position is face down ass up R8, so it makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 11December 2, 2018 8:42 PM

Everyone knows wrestlers love showing off. They were probably flaunting their sweet asses in front of him. Shameless hussies.

by Anonymousreply 12December 2, 2018 8:45 PM

Me ogle you long time

by Anonymousreply 13December 2, 2018 8:51 PM

R3 Today he would be filming it on his cell and posting the video on PornHub as "These Steamroom Hotties Make the Dean's List".

by Anonymousreply 14December 2, 2018 8:52 PM

Most men look. The paranoia of today is ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 15December 2, 2018 9:29 PM

R10, what is that from?

by Anonymousreply 16December 2, 2018 9:32 PM

The wrestlers didn’t want to see that tiny asian dick.

by Anonymousreply 17December 2, 2018 9:33 PM

Acquitted of ogling but convicted of being fugly and old.

by Anonymousreply 18December 2, 2018 9:34 PM

What was this professor even doing near the shower?

by Anonymousreply 19December 2, 2018 9:34 PM

The university gyms is open to everyone at the school r19, which includes a professor who works there.

So he never did anything to these guys as they admit, but they just thought his "oogling" made them uncomfortable and tried to start a fucking lawsuit over it?!

That seems like a way overraction, fucking man up guys.

by Anonymousreply 20December 2, 2018 9:37 PM

As a student, I would have been a bit unnerved if my professor was watching me shower. R20 your interpretation gives a new perspective to the idea of man up.

by Anonymousreply 21December 2, 2018 9:41 PM

I’d only want the hot professors looking at me in the shower. Not this troll!

by Anonymousreply 22December 2, 2018 9:45 PM

As a rice queen, I would have purposely dropped the soap to give him a show.

by Anonymousreply 23December 2, 2018 9:49 PM

Considering nothing is going to be done about it, it seems my interpretation that they just have to man up is correct r21.

It also says a lot that they never said anything or confronted this guy, but instead went behind his back and tried to get him fired.

by Anonymousreply 24December 2, 2018 9:49 PM

This happened in 2010 or before? Eight years (or more) is a long time to hold on to those kinds of memories.

Perhaps therapy may be more appropriate for these wrestlers. This sounds very #metoo.

by Anonymousreply 25December 2, 2018 9:52 PM

This is why hotties like me are forced to towel dance!

FORCED

by Anonymousreply 26December 2, 2018 10:00 PM

I wonder if we can also punish those who masturbate thinking about you without your consent.

by Anonymousreply 27December 2, 2018 10:03 PM

I wonder if this professor was grading their papers while watching them shower?

by Anonymousreply 28December 2, 2018 10:05 PM

Team Ogler. Why else would wrestlers be allowed to shower if there weren’t going to be a public viewing?

by Anonymousreply 29December 2, 2018 10:09 PM

Since when is ogling the athletes not a perk of academia? I weep for our culture.

by Anonymousreply 30December 2, 2018 10:10 PM

When I was a student there I sometimes caught a professor of AA Studies looking at me in the pool locker room. He was pretty well known; died about 10 or 12 years ago; had a big belly and bald head with a stubbly beard. I was naive and wondered why, but I wasn't too naive to notice; a few years later when I came out I found out he was (technically) closeted.

I realize this story it completely banal. Of course people look at each other in the locker room, showers, etc.—that includes faculty, students, everybody.

by Anonymousreply 31December 2, 2018 10:10 PM

At my gym they not only towel dance (if they use the locker room at all), they work out in sweats. Smh.

by Anonymousreply 32December 2, 2018 10:11 PM

[quote]I wonder if we can also punish those who masturbate thinking about you without your consent.

Seriously. If you are going to freak out about someone checking you out, then you need to become a hermit who never leaves your house. Looking is not a crime.

by Anonymousreply 33December 2, 2018 10:12 PM

Looking is a thoughtcrime.

by Anonymousreply 34December 2, 2018 10:14 PM

Looking is a thoughtcompliment.

by Anonymousreply 35December 2, 2018 10:18 PM

When I was in college, I used the men's restrooms rather than in the buildings with the classrooms. I could look at a few naked men on my way to the toilet, then return to my next class. Now that I'm much older, when I'm in my gym's locker room, I get in and out quickly so I don't get pegged as an old perv. We have a few older men who seem to take their time changing and after they shower they don't mind showing us their wares. We know why they're hanging around.

by Anonymousreply 36December 2, 2018 10:19 PM

Was he wasn't licking his lips and saying, "YUM!"?

by Anonymousreply 37December 2, 2018 10:24 PM

Did people notice they were being checked out in the showers 30 years ago when gang showers were the norm? I don't recall ever hearing stories like this up until relatively recently. Can eldergays chime in?

by Anonymousreply 38December 2, 2018 10:26 PM

Here's the former Stanford wrestler who called him a "running joke," as per the NBC article.

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by Anonymousreply 39December 2, 2018 10:28 PM

R38, yes, everybody knew that everybody looked at everybody else in the shower. It was no big deal at all.

by Anonymousreply 40December 2, 2018 10:30 PM

To be fair r39, that guy Matt Gentry, didn't think it was a big deal though. He had a pretty normal reaction to it.

[quote]Matt Gentry, a two-time Canadian Olympian and 2004 NCAA champion for Stanford, called Le a “running joke” among teammates but said he never felt harassed or threatened.

by Anonymousreply 41December 2, 2018 10:31 PM

What was the crime again ogling? Didn't know i could've gone to prison for looking in high school gym class. If you can't control people eye balls then don't get nekkid.

by Anonymousreply 42December 2, 2018 10:32 PM

The article said, "They accused Le of showering in unnecessarily close proximity to them in an area open to the general school community." I wonder how close this dude was getting? Seems like a creeper to me and seems like more than looking going on.

by Anonymousreply 43December 2, 2018 10:34 PM

You have to realize there was less public consciousness around the idea of gay people r38. Now it is something people think about when it comes to other guys, 30 years ago your average straight guy wouldn't be thinking that there are probably gay guys around him. I think that knowledge leads to increased vigilance.

by Anonymousreply 44December 2, 2018 10:37 PM

r43 Creeper i can totally by, but were they touched. He was too close to me sounds like a waste of the courts time.

by Anonymousreply 45December 2, 2018 10:37 PM

Okay then, here's a picture of former Stanford wrestler Josh Brown, who more snowflakily told the Mercury News, "I felt pretty exposed and pretty unprotected by the folks who were supposed to be" looking out for them. “Any given day where that happened would be the worst day.” Don't ogle him, though!

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by Anonymousreply 46December 2, 2018 10:39 PM

r46 Was it because it was some old Asian guy? I suppose if some chick was starring at Josh Brown he would feel exposed. Seriously those gymnasts who had the doctor stick his finger up their vadge complained less.

by Anonymousreply 47December 2, 2018 10:45 PM

Both things can be true.

1) Yes, looking is not a crime so there is nothing here he did that can get him in real trouble.

2) Christ this guy is sad, for years through many wrestling teams he has been the running joke of the guy who comes and pervs on them in the locker room. You are a freaking Professor at Stanford man, don't be so pathetic. Have some dignity.

by Anonymousreply 48December 2, 2018 10:46 PM

Actually he's just a lecturer. Does that make him more or less pathetic?

by Anonymousreply 49December 2, 2018 10:49 PM

R49 That makes him waaaay more pathetic, since he likely doesn't have tenure.

by Anonymousreply 50December 2, 2018 10:50 PM

[quote] Christ this guy is sad, for years through many wrestling teams he has been the running joke of the guy who comes and pervs on them in the locker room. You are a freaking Professor at Stanford man, don't be so pathetic. Have some dignity.

It might be sad but at the same time you can't define someones life by it. At least he wasn't getting high or prostituting himself.

by Anonymousreply 51December 2, 2018 10:55 PM

He is just a lecturer?! Now I am surprised Stanford isn't firing him. I assumed he was a tenured professor so obviously Stanford can't do anything about this.

by Anonymousreply 52December 2, 2018 10:55 PM

He might be a tenured lecturer. Not as common but it does happen.

by Anonymousreply 53December 2, 2018 10:57 PM

Lecturers at such universities as Stanford commonly have some semi-permanent status whereby they're renewed every 3, 4, or 5 years. It's not tenure, but it's job security—often hard-won through or similar action. In this case, presumably, his allegedly ogling wrestlers in the showers hasn't been deemed just cause to terminate a competent math teacher.

by Anonymousreply 54December 2, 2018 11:01 PM

I'm sure this the talk of the campus at Stanford r54, his ability to be respected in a classroom is gone. Not that his behavior is out, his students will see him as a perv and a joke.

Hell, I'd expect some clever little jokes about it in the next round of student evaluations.

by Anonymousreply 55December 2, 2018 11:04 PM

The bottom line (no pun intended) here is you should probably provide private shower facilities for people. You can't literally have people being forced to be nude in public, and then prosecute some for enjoying it.

by Anonymousreply 56December 2, 2018 11:13 PM

[quote] 30 years ago your average straight guy wouldn't be thinking that there are probably gay guys around him.

Sure, no one knew there were any gay people in the 1980's.

by Anonymousreply 57December 2, 2018 11:15 PM

No doubt he's been seen as a perv for decades. Hell I'm a woman and as a grad student, I remember the professors making jokes about other pervy professors in the showers. And at least one governor.

by Anonymousreply 58December 2, 2018 11:17 PM

Sad thought--creeping in the showers was probably the highlight of his life and what he most enjoyed and looked forward to. Plus, it was free, and he was probably deluded enough to think no one noticed. That was probably all his sex life.

by Anonymousreply 59December 2, 2018 11:19 PM

R59 Yes, it's like that with gym memberships too. It ends up costing more if you don't go since you're paying for it anyway.

by Anonymousreply 60December 2, 2018 11:26 PM

He can still go to bathhouses but the closeted gays, the unmarried ones anyway, are not as hot.

by Anonymousreply 61December 2, 2018 11:30 PM

Were any of the lads wearing jockstraps?

by Anonymousreply 62December 2, 2018 11:39 PM

How terribly embarrassing. Looking is not a crime and if I were there, I’d probably do a swing through now and then. I didn’t read the story in depth but had the wrestlers made some snide or threatening remarks, he would have slinked away.

by Anonymousreply 63December 2, 2018 11:48 PM

Cornell in the 80's. Gym an ogler's paradise. Also action. Cavernous castle-like place. Perverted old troll professors would latch on, follow, ogle, too. One had to be very firm with them to piss off. Some were obstinate. You know how trolls are.

Payne Whitney at Yale even hotter. Hayes at West Point - very downlow but hot, too.

One never thought of complaining, however. Ah, how times have changed. This prof was obviously too sticky and trolly. He didn't read the signals. He knew it. The boys should have told him to piss right off. Such wussies nowadays.

There was one prof though. Mid 40s and very in shape. He had a huge pendulous dong. It was the kind of dong that starts huge and gets bigger but hardens down, so one couldn't really point and say NO HARD ON PLEASE SHAME! I tried a couple times to get it on with him but he was mostly an exhibitionist and in any case, not interesting my young lips and ass.

by Anonymousreply 64December 3, 2018 12:10 AM

The following is not a commentary on the OP professor.

Having said that, to be fair, older guys )perhaps 45 years and older) who work out, shower and change at the gym are more at ease being naked in the locker room because they grew up when this was perfectly acceptable and normal to actually be naked, change and shower at the gym. The paranoia today of being naked around other men is a relatively new phenomenon. perhaps in the past 25-30 years or so. And yes, it is paranoia.

by Anonymousreply 65December 3, 2018 12:10 AM

I knew the Men Showering Together Troll would show up

by Anonymousreply 66December 3, 2018 12:19 AM

True R65. When I was in a university dorm I found it odd how there were some men who would wait until nobody else was in the communal bathroom to shower, and they would wear a bathing suit in the shower and there were individual shower stalls with doors.

by Anonymousreply 67December 3, 2018 12:21 AM

R64 was he cut or uncut?

by Anonymousreply 68December 3, 2018 12:22 AM

R31 what is AA studies? Does he study alcoholics or addicts? Who was he?

by Anonymousreply 69December 3, 2018 12:28 AM

R68 Hmm this was decades ago but I'm going to say uncut. He was Mediterranean looking and usually tan all year.

by Anonymousreply 70December 3, 2018 12:34 AM

R69, he was a professor of African-American Studies. I remember that he wore a yellow speedo at the pool.

by Anonymousreply 71December 3, 2018 12:44 AM

My friend’s buff brother says he just lets out a huge fart if someone is ogling him at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 72December 3, 2018 12:57 AM

R72 . so he just keeps them on retainer to fart on demand?

by Anonymousreply 73December 3, 2018 1:05 AM

[quote] He didn't read the signals.

He's Asian, and for whatever reason, they do not get subtle singles.

by Anonymousreply 74December 3, 2018 1:10 AM

i can't judge him. I used to do that at the university gym where I attended in the sauna which faced the showers. Almost got caught once.

by Anonymousreply 75December 3, 2018 1:14 AM

I went to junior high school in Anaheim, CA in the mid-70s. The science teacher, Mr. Witt, was a big 'mo and it was an open secret. Everyone knew but no one said anything. His class room was adjacent to the gym and the boy's locker room. So he could hear when the bell rang and see the boys file into to take showers and change up. Shortly after that Mr.Witt would stroll in, always with the intent of fetching a stack of clan towels for his class to clean up a science experiment gone wrong. And of course he would head for the same canvas towel bin all the naked boys just out of the showers would get theirs from, ogling away at all of the tween and barely teen boy candy.

It was all a ruse, and it happened all the time.

by Anonymousreply 76December 3, 2018 1:51 AM

r76 Did you ever think 1 day you'd turn into Mr. Witt?

by Anonymousreply 77December 3, 2018 1:54 AM

R76 if it was anything like the locker room scene in Steel Magnolias, then Mr. Witt knew what was up. Yummy delicious teenage boy butts!

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by Anonymousreply 78December 3, 2018 1:57 AM

All of these guys have careers and wives now. It would be crazy if one of the accusers went on to have notoriety in business, entertainment or politics.

by Anonymousreply 79December 3, 2018 2:03 AM

That's fucked up and disturbing R76. You had a paedo as a teacher.

by Anonymousreply 80December 3, 2018 2:05 AM

Was Mr. Witt hot and/or hung?

by Anonymousreply 81December 3, 2018 2:16 AM

Well...we don't know if the wrestlers are hung, but the lecture is Hung.

by Anonymousreply 82December 3, 2018 2:32 AM

Had said math professor looked like this, the wrestling team would have offered to make a sex tape with him after they caught him staring.

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by Anonymousreply 83December 3, 2018 4:52 AM

Was he envious of their bodies and cocks?

by Anonymousreply 84December 3, 2018 3:21 PM

These are MY EYES and I'll point them wherever the fuck I want!

FUCK YOU

by Anonymousreply 85December 3, 2018 8:56 PM

None of these snowflakes had the decency to tell the coach, who could handle it mano y mano?

by Anonymousreply 86December 3, 2018 11:02 PM

If you read more, many of them say they did say something to the coaches

[quote]Most of the wrestlers acknowledge they never complained to coaches or university officials at the time of the encounters because they were embarrassed or just went along with teammates who joked about it. But some of the wrestlers said coaches were present when the topic of Le’s behavior came up at practices but told them to shower in groups and ignore Le. Martinez said then-head coach Steve Buddie and his assistant Jay Jackson both knew about Le’s behavior, but both said in interviews they were unaware of what the former athletes now describe.

by Anonymousreply 87December 3, 2018 11:08 PM

Is there a Mrs. Lee?

by Anonymousreply 88December 4, 2018 5:47 AM

This is so sad and pathetic on so many levels.

by Anonymousreply 89December 4, 2018 6:45 AM

Softly, softly, catchee cockey!

by Anonymousreply 90December 4, 2018 8:27 PM

The guys in that locker room scene from STEEL MAGNOLIAS are obviously considerably older than teenage, but thanks anyway.

by Anonymousreply 91December 4, 2018 8:37 PM

Yeah, and the guys at Stanford were presumably 18-22, nominally "teenage" at best.

by Anonymousreply 92December 4, 2018 8:44 PM

[quote] But some of the wrestlers said coaches were present when the topic of Le’s behavior came up at practices but told them to shower in groups and ignore Le.

Why does it matter if they were? He wasn't doing anything to them.

by Anonymousreply 93December 4, 2018 9:31 PM

Years later, I wonder how the former members of the team feel about the incident. Now that they've had time to grow and put things into perspective, do they still think the proffessor was a perv?

Was the professor able to pick up the shattered pieces of his life and move on?

by Anonymousreply 94December 7, 2018 12:57 PM

The ogling act has three degrees.

Ogling in the third degree is simple voyeurism or being a looky lou.

Ogling in the second degree involves verbalization while ogling such as "Yum, Yum, get me some." or "Va Va Va Voom"

Ogling in the third degree involves grabbing on to your own erect member and furiously masturbating while ogling.

None of these involve touching the victim. That's a different act altogether.

by Anonymousreply 95December 7, 2018 2:47 PM

R94 was the Asian lecturer ever able to quench his lust for white college men who are athletes? He could have just gone to a sex club, bath house, or hooked up online. But I suppose that would ruin the "thrill" if he was a vouyer.

by Anonymousreply 96December 7, 2018 3:37 PM

I look and every gay man I know also looks. With that said, gay Asians are beyond obvious when checking guys out. Even if the other person shows discomfort they keep looking without any hint that they’re making to way too obvious. You could throw up right then and there and they’ll still look at you: damn he’s sexy! So clueless.

by Anonymousreply 97December 7, 2018 3:49 PM

Lookie, lookie., peekie, peekie!

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by Anonymousreply 98December 7, 2018 8:57 PM

It’s a communal shower and if I’m allowed to stand next to them, I will. Unless these snowflakes were ashamed of their tiny dicks. Having said that, if any of these wrestlers made some kind of snide, threatening remark, you wouldn’t see my ass back again.

by Anonymousreply 99December 7, 2018 9:19 PM

The problem wasn't him doing this a couple times, it is that he continuously stalked them r99. He couldn't keep it to a normal level.

by Anonymousreply 100December 7, 2018 9:38 PM

R99, I like it when they make a remark...I confront them on it.

It turns me on.

by Anonymousreply 101December 7, 2018 10:44 PM

Ho Lee Fuk!

by Anonymousreply 102December 17, 2018 6:18 PM

I was just admiring the art, officer, really.

by Anonymousreply 103December 17, 2018 6:29 PM

Harvard in the late 80s. White haired professor who I never figured out who he was, but he was an ogling perv who just planted himself in the showers and was incredibly blatant. Weird thing about it, it didn't matter what gym you went to (there are a few on campus); he always seemed to be there. He was pretty well known for this, and I wasn't sure if he was all wrinkly from age or from being pruned out by the constant showers.

Everyone just joked about it, but he never really bothered anyone so we all let it slide. I guess it would be different if one felt threatened, but he was an old man and harmless.

by Anonymousreply 104December 17, 2018 6:33 PM

R86 Mano y mano is hand to hand when translated. Doesn't make any sense in your post, unless you're suggesting a fist fight?

by Anonymousreply 105December 17, 2018 6:38 PM

R28: "I wonder if this professor was grading their papers while watching them shower?"

I wonder if he had already graded their papers and it turns out they were better wrestlers than math students.

Could the suit have been revenge for bringing down their GPA's?

by Anonymousreply 106December 17, 2018 7:26 PM

Remember those famous videos of some wrestling team naked in the locker room in the 90s? Supposedly the cameraman got caught at some point (what a scene that must have been) but I never heard what happened. They were hot and I never could figure out who could get away with just sitting there with a camera in a duffle bag -- for twenty minutes at a time, all over the locker room.

by Anonymousreply 107December 17, 2018 7:44 PM

R107 on porn sites they have hidden camera videos of gym and military showers. They were filmed before all mobile phones had cameras and could capture videos.

by Anonymousreply 108December 17, 2018 8:45 PM

In college (1990s), I took a Phys Ed elective each semester as an excuse to use the gym locker rooms and meet hot guys. Once I walked into the showers with a horde of HOT wrestlers! I figured out the timing of wrestling team practices ending, signed up for courses at the right time, and ended up showering with those hotties for months. I also finally chatted up one of them, took him up on an invite to see him compete, and ended up secretly dating/fucking/sucking him all that year.

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by Anonymousreply 109December 17, 2018 9:07 PM

Damn, some of the allegations go back as far as 2002. Some of the former students interviewed say their perception of the situation was influenced by their immaturity at the time. The fact that the foreign press picked up this story, makes me think the professor is not American. I wonder if the misunderstanding was due in part to cultural differences.

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by Anonymousreply 110December 17, 2018 10:47 PM

[quote]I wonder if the misunderstanding was due in part to cultural differences.

Girl please, stalking a wrestling team to the showers year after year is not a "cultural difference". He just is a thirsty for that wrestler eye candy and and refused to behave himself.

by Anonymousreply 111December 17, 2018 10:57 PM

visiting wrestling and swim teams get stashed in our faculty/staff locker room during meets. unless they’re quiet i mostly want them to shut the fuck up and go away.

by Anonymousreply 112December 17, 2018 11:54 PM

Were any of them wearing jockstraps?

by Anonymousreply 113December 19, 2018 9:51 PM

Straight men are such snowflakes. When did society becomes so hostile to the existence of sexual tension between people? Yadda yadda.

by Anonymousreply 114December 19, 2018 9:56 PM

He's off the hook in time for the holidays. Must be such a relief. To celebrate, I bet he goes online and orders up 2 blonde, jock-strap wearing, escorts to tag team him. He won't come up for air until after New Year's.💘🚶🏃🏃💘

by Anonymousreply 115December 20, 2018 11:19 PM
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