Ever get some from that straight friend you'd desperately crushed on?

No.

Dream on op.

Yes! I thought it would never happen, but he actually made the first move. But we never kissed. He said that was too gay. You mean me fucking you wasn't? I never figured that one out, but enjoyed the time we had together.

I’ve loved 3 straight men and had nothing but humiliation and heartbreak

Memories.....

Yes - he was a football player in my career llegué class. But he was also in the musical theater group and a surprisingly decent dancer.

We became close friends, got drun one night and he had his experimental experience with me. He said it was an honor and I thought so too. But when I went for a repeat, he said, no- only once- otherwise he would be reading it as something beyond experimentation.

His girlfriend was also a good friend to f mine (an actual dancer!) and I was invited to their wedding.

Career llegué >> college

NO, hit on them and ended friendship!

Ah, the career llegué years!

r9 When did your career llegar, Arturo?

Yes, at 13. I had a crush on him for 6 months before we became friends. He was a football/basketball player. It was instant electricity together. Even his mom, in hindsight, said there was something between us more than friendship. She said we had a spark about us around each other. He was straight but we would lay on each other, starting kissing each others necks. Gave each other a few hickeys. He grabbed my bare ass. We kiss once on the lips, a lot on the face and ears and neck. But the words "We are boyfriends" was never uttered. We cuddled hardcore. No sex. This went on for 3 months, we had a fight and he just ended it. Would not go back to friends "that way" and eventually moved. I found him later in life. He said he felt something "dark" was pulling him into that lifestyle and he didn't want that. He ended up in a cult and still is.

When I read R6's post, R10.

Yes but it turned out he was a closet case so I guess the answer is really no.

That sounds very romantic R11, but alas with such a sad ending. So sorry your friend fell prey to a cult.

r14 Broke my heart like I'd never thought possible. He is so deeply closeted that is why he fell prey to a cult.

I was desperately and heartbreakingly in love with two straight guys in my lifetime. Of course nothing came of it. Of course it ended in tears. Mine. If you get a piece from someone they are not straight.

Yes, in college, we both dated at the Chi O house, had to have the girls in by 11pm. It began by more and more walking up to Belmar Avenue together. It was my first/sophomore year in the house, he was a junior. We did spend a lot of time together. I'd run into him at 2-3am going to the head. Times I didn't have a roommate nor did he we'd visit in one room or another, give one another "massages" which were mostly just rubbing backs and stomachs, lower and lower our hands would go deeper than a pajama line. He'd get hard, so would I, we'd "accidentally" brush dick and neither said a word. When boozed up and often not we'd sleep together, we always fondled. We always kept telling each other how "important" to each our friendship was. Lots o hugging when hugging seemed natural, and yet there was deep kissing and we never talked about it. Orgasm was "the Princeton rub". I never thought anyone in the house knew. It went on two years. His senior year, my junior, we roomed together. I think he was jealous of my little brother in the house, who was a hot guy I had no sexual interest in, but he was a "get" for the house, so little was said of this. He was ROTC and at graduation went into the Air Force straight away. He looked terrific in blue! He got to come to my graduation. He stayed with me, the guys at the house were glad to see him back. I'm sure I was crushed back on, we had three good days. His orders took him to Alaska, by then I was in the Army and on Okinawa. Maybe it took 14 months but the letters became fewer and fewer. Life does happen. By the time I got to New York he had married his Chi O and I was in an apartment Gay Gayerson lived upstairs and his brother Gayer Gayerson lived downstairs and across from me lived Gayest Danceboy, so it was very easy for me to join the parade. In the occasional letter to my friend I never mentioned the homo sex, I saw no need to label for him what I was telling of my NYC activity, but I hid nothing. And did not always tell. Life does happen, yes. I love his family, have a godchild, sometimes on the few occasions we can see each other we sit into the night drinking and talking, sometimes of "school," but there is no physicality, just the comfort of old love.

R17, wow, great story, though, were you ever desperate? Sounds like you were quite mutual (even if nothing was spoken) from the start...

Todd was someone I worked with and was gorgeous and 22. I was 30 at the time. We became quite friendly and he introduced me to his girlfriend, with whom he lived. We spent a lot of time together. It was probably apparent that I had a crush on him although I never acted on it or said anything overt.

His girlfriend went out of town for work for a weekend and Todd and I went out for drinks and ended up back at my place. We were horsing around and he confided that his girlfriend was unable to give good oral sex because he was too large. I joked that I never had the problem, "...because I seem to lack any gag reflex...." He looked at me and said, "prove it!". I did and from his moans and remarks, he had a great time.

It didn't affect our friendship although it didn't happen again. In fact he would often remark in the years after, that it was the best blowjob he'd ever had and wonder what else I might do with the same expertise.

r19 how big was it?

Yes I did/ Drunk in the frat house. We ere wrestling and both popped boners. He pinned me, I pulled his shorts down, the big cock ended up in my mouth (several times), Fun but a one-time thing,

Yes, several times. It was called "College."

No, r22, it was called “career llegué.”

Not exactly, OP, but when I was stationed at Twentynine Palms, there were a couple of times hitting the "town" with one of my straight buddies ended in us jerking each other off or one blowing the other.

(R20) Somewhere between 8 and 8.5 and very thick with a huge head!

[quote]career llegué

R6's autocorrect habla Espanol.

my best friend in high school. i can hear him now: “i’m never gonna have blue balls, ‘cause i got a girlfriend, and a GAY friend”

he was a skater boy, wasn’t that big and would only pull it out of his fly, keeping his boxers on, but he liked getting blown and i was happy to oblige.

Awwww, r17. So sweet.

No. I’ve been with “straight” guys but I didn’t actually know any of them beforehand.

Career llegué should become a DL classic, like Jackie On Assistance.

That autocorrect, unintentionally funny sometimes. . .

this site is so obsessed with straight friends. get over it

We did the bro thing together but there was so much between us. Horsing around one night, he broke his leg. Ha! Of course, went back to his frustrated wife, Maggie the Cat.

Agreed, R30.

Yes. And it was worth the wait.

My ex-best girlfriend’s boyfriend. 20 years ago. He’s married with kids now. I let him crash at my place for a couple of weeks. We always “fake” flirted with each other and my ex-best girlfriend always joked we should just fuck and get it over with.

We were about to go to sleep and he asked me if he could jerk off. I jokingly said “only if I can watch” and then he got up and put his dick in my face and asked me if it was close enough. I ended up blowing him and then he laid back and put his legs up in the air. That was a turn off for me but I fucked him so he wouldn’t be embarrassed.

Never happened again.

"Get some" -- Hoorah! Fellow Marine...

R35 Ugghh the "fake" flirts. I had two serial fake flirters when I was younger. I had soooo much fun flirting and I'm sure I made a total ass of myself. In retrospect, I never played it right. Oh well.

I took advantage of a situation with an intoxicated straight friend thirty years ago. I sucked him off. I have no regret. His dick was huge. I’m friends with him on Facebook, and he posts a lot about his college age kids. It’s amusing to think they have no idea that one night a guy had a mouthful of their daddy’s love juice.

That's hot, R38!

Yes, twice. One was a very good straight friend who ended up being my assistant for a while. We got very very drunk one night, and he stayed at my place instead of going home. I lived in a small NYC apartment, and we thought nothing of sleeping in the same beds, so we did. Somehow, during the night, I started finding with his dick. He let it go fo ra while, and we fooled around, and the he said, hey , stop fiddling, and we did. We made a joke of it the next morning, and we even slept in the same bed a few more times, but his completely comfortable approach about it let me to believe that he wasn't interested, nor was he particularly freaked out about it. He is a great guy with whom I have lost touch. He lives in Dallas -- where his ex wife is from -- and I am in Nashville. I think of him often, and wish he were on social media, so we could stay connected in some way. The other guy was a totally hot frat boy who worked for the company I worked for. He knew I had the hots for him. One night we were all at an off site conference. I heard a knock on my door, and he came in, drunk out of his mind. I was probably loose but not wasted. He got naked, got me on the bed, and I was so stunned that I couldn't even tell you what we did. He was beyond an alpha frat straight hot guy, and I never in a million years thought he would be up for anything I was just stunned the whole time. We didnt discuss or joke about it after that, and he left the company shortly afterwards.

Yes, twice. One was a very good straight friend who ended up being my assistant for a while. We got very very drunk one night, and he stayed at my place instead of going home. I lived in a small NYC apartment, and we thought nothing of sleeping in the same beds, so we did. Somehow, during the night, I started finding with his dick. He let it go fo ra while, and we fooled around, and the he said, hey , stop fiddling, and we did. We made a joke of it the next morning, and we even slept in the same bed a few more times, but his completely comfortable approach about it let me to believe that he wasn't interested, nor was he particularly freaked out about it. He is a great guy with whom I have lost touch. He lives in Dallas -- where his ex wife is from -- and I am in Nashville. I think of him often, and wish he were on social media, so we could stay connected in some way. The other guy was a totally hot frat boy who worked for the company I worked for. He knew I had the hots for him. One night we were all at an off site conference. I heard a knock on my door, and he came in, drunk out of his mind. I was probably loose but not wasted. He got naked, got me on the bed, and I was so stunned that I couldn't even tell you what we did. He was beyond an alpha frat straight hot guy, and I never in a million years thought he would be up for anything I was just stunned the whole time. We didnt discuss or joke about it after that, and he left the company shortly afterwards.

Yup..

I had a similar situation like R19. When I first moved to California I didn't know anyone so I drank outside my apartment a lot. After like 8 months this super gorgeous stud who wanted to be actor moved into the apartment right across from me. We started to drink together every night after a few months and he learned I was gay and was totally cool with it. This guy was beautiful. About a year after we became friends his girlfriend of six years moved here with her friend and they lived together in Hollywood. They were high school sweethearts and had lost their virginity to each other. She had never been with another guy and he had only been with girls he cheated with in college. She refused to suck dick and didn't like sex much. They had very vanilla sex and he would complain and tell me about it almost every time we hung out and talked. He also said she would ask him what he was doing when he would try to go harder on her. She just wanted sex one way. And used it to punish him or get back at him when she was upset. She would withhold on him to get Back at him. After a while he would start to tell me more and more and mentioned he hadn't gotten a blowjob since college cause she thought it was gross and I jokingly said she didn't know what she was missing. His eyes seriously lit up. We'd been drinking and taking bong hits and he said man I'd love to have my dick sucked. I joked just say the word. And he said the word. I laughed and said lets go inside. We did and I sucked that boy like he'd never been sucked before. Man the way he moaned and held my head was some of the hottest stuff I'd ever experienced. It went on for a few months before they got engaged and moved out and I never saw him again but we had some great times. I started sucking him like 4-5 times a week. I got a huge crush on him and tried to kiss him once but he turned away when our lips touched. I still jack off to the memories because the way he moaned was the hottest ever. And the way he held my head hard when he wanted to come made me blow my shorts many times. Alas after he moved he never called me again.

Basically the moral of the story is you have to get them drunk. And alone. Which I truly believe. They are a bunch of scared pussies otherwise. I've had two different curious straight guys who liked me a lot and would refuse to drink with just me. I knew why then. On the rare occasions they did, they would get very touchy but we never ended up alone.

Ah r43 you were used and abused you harlot.

R43 love your story!!!

r31 when most of us were growing up we couldn’t openly date or easily experiment boys, like our straight counterparts were able to do with girls. So our best friends often filled a piece of that void. Especially by high school and college when your hormones are raging. Blame society for forcing these unnatural delays in our emotional and physical needs.

R43 what a shame that they got engaged. Relationships aren’t all about sex, but if your partner doesn’t fulfill you while your young and hot then it will only get worse from from there.

Hot straight men have so many options. I don’t know why they often waste time on basic bitches.