"Gay" Men Who Have Sex With Women, What Are You Hoping To Achieve ?

A career.

Because I like chicks too

So you're bisexual R2, do you openly identify as bi or do you tell people you are gay?

If he’s attravted to women enough to fuck them then he’s bi. Not gay.

To me, if you're attracted sexually to males and females, you're probably attracted to livestock, children and melons. In other words, a hole is a hole.

Well I understand bi and pan sexual men will want to have sex with women, but I wonder why men who identify as gay decide to have sex with a women, if you're not sexually attracted to someone, why have sex with them?

I'm into dudes but a chick is nice sometimes because it avoids all the lisping and gay voice.

I was going to ask if you have been there and done that, OP. The shittiest thing a gay man can do is dupe a straight woman into thinking that he is too. No. Marrying and having children with them is worse. Because everyone of those closet cases will leave the wife for a man one day. In the meantime he will have too numerous to count sexual encounters with other men behind her back. Putting both her mental and physical health at risk. Bisexual men are much more open about their attraction to both sexes. At least that has been my experience.

Where is this coming from? Is this a new trend or something?

I’m homoflexible

My gay friend had sex with a woman a couple times, and I'm pretty sure he would drop everything if given the opportunity to do it again. I asked him politely if perhaps he was bisexual, and he said no -- he physically enjoys sex with women, but he doesn't feel a connection.

Yeah, a straight guy would keep it a secret and ID as gay because of all the tremendous, social benefits that come with it.

I can’t imagine why anybody doesn’t ID as gay — gays have it so easy!

I take it homoflexible means you are actually bisexual, but you id as gay because it just easier to mislead people.

He is still bisexual R11 and also a moron. Bisexual means a sexual and or emotional attraction to both genders. You don't have to have both sexual and emotional attractions to be bisexual. Next time you talk to him tell him this, he might understand; he might not, is he very stupid?

I don't think "gay" men have sex with women, maybe they are bisexual.

R11 you’re friend sounds dumb. Tell him bisexuality is being attracted to both genders to varying degrees. One could only be physically attracted to one and be both emotionally and physically attracted to the other.

To give credence to my claim of being MASC.

Is this a new trend or something.

I had a gay friend who said every once in awhile he just wanted pussy. He got a thrill out of fucking a girl. He loved eating her out and making her scream his name as he "fucked that pussy hard." It was rare and he was a huge slut with men.

Seemingly so r17, you're just not woke or progressive if you're an outdated up-tight fag who won't have sex with a women or trans. You're also misogynistic, transphobic and exclusionary piece of shit.

Well, that's what all the woke kids say.

I would also consider myself homoflexible.

I would never date girls or try to have sex with one, but I have been in threesome/orgy situations with a girl present and in the moment I can have some fun with it.

r19 Being "woke" is not wanting to fuck everything just because. It is accepting someone who wants to fuck who they want to fuck. I have not met too many self identifying gay men who fuck women, even occasionally. Good news for us gay guys is so many "straight-ish" guys are now open to have sex with another guy.

R19 I honestly haven’t heard anything about this. Where are you hearing this? These people sound stupid. This is why we need to teach proper sex Ed in schools.

R18 he wasn’t gay

R13 and R15, he is not dumb, but he is pretty nutty. I suspect he's not going to change his mind, but I do agree that he is "gay" and not really 100% gay.

If he cannot grasp the concept of something as simple as bisexuality then his is either a moron or intentionally trying to be a special snowflake.

I mean the concept of bisexuality isn't that hard to understand, and there is no difference between being "gay" and 100% gay, you're either gay or you're not gay.

R24 no he’s dumb. You can’t be gay if you’re attracted to women that’s the whole point of identifying as gay. There’s no 50% gay you’re either only attracted to the same sex or not. That’s why we have other words to identify as. How old is your friend?

What about those on the kinsey scale who are 5's or 1's? I wouldn't call that bisexual.

R27 then what are they if not bisexual? Bisexuality encompasses varying degrees of attraction to 2 or more genders. One could literally be 95% attracted to men and 5% attracted to women and still be bisexual. There’s even bisexuals who go through something called a bi-cycle where they are only attracted to one gender at a time. Bisexuality is the fluid sexuality. The only requirement is to be able to be attracted to 2 or more genders that’s it.

Are there more than 2 genders?????? Even trans is still just one gender transitioning from the other.

R29 some people don’t prescribe to one gender label and see their gender as fluid and there’s people to identify as other

r30 Well there are only 2 genders. People who claim they are other are fucking morons from hell and need to be shunned.

What if your confused about what you like? You like women. But you really looooooove men.

What about those people?

There are a lot of people who are 90-99% one thing but under the right circumstances would have sex with the thing they like 1-10%. I have almost never seen it with gay men who id as gay men. I've seen it more with straight men who say they are 1% gay.

I like to occasionally get a handjob from hookers before going home to my husband. It's kinky.

R32 bisexual as long as you can be attracted to women or men you are bisexual.

Well technically that is fair r35, I think bisexual is a misleading term for other people if you are like 95/5 to one gender.

Thus terms like heteroflexible or homoflexible.

R33 as long as they’re not exclusively attracted to men or women then they are bi. Bisexuality encompasses varying degrees of attraction to both men and women and sometimes not even at the same time. It is the flexible/fluid sexuality.

We are sexual beings so I think if you are 95/5 and rarely and I mean rarely (maybe a few times in your life) fuck the other and under the perfect circumstances, I don't think that makes you bisexual.

OP is a bunny boiler.

R36 those terms do describe what kind of bisexual you are but they still do fall under the bisexual umbrella. I also feel like people don’t identify as bi because of the stigma and ignorance on the word that bisexuality carries.

R38 it does make you bi. If you’re able to be attracted to both genders even at varying amounts and at different times that still makes you bi. Bisexuality is not 50/50. What would you call those people? Because they don’t conform to the definition of being straight or gay.

Goldstar gay.

I'm surprised that this thread hasn't flown completely off the rails.

I want some drama - get at it, boys!!!

[quote] I asked him politely if perhaps he was bisexual, and he said no -- he physically enjoys sex with women, but he doesn't feel a connection.

I bet 9 out of 10 straight guys don't feel a 'connection' when fucking a woman.