Is it okay to tell people they aren’t welcome in your party because you aren’t “fit” or hot enough?

Stupid posting, but I'll say (as someone neither fit nor 18-30) that if it's a private party, they should have the right to admit who they want. And you have the right to think and say they are shallow and limited.

[quote] Every year they have these crazy DL parties

If by DL you mean "down low," they aren't, and they take place more frequently than once a year.

[quote] I didn’t know Frat houses threw gay sex parties.

They don't. And GBU is not a frat(ernity).

[quote] I remember my friend telling me there were two 15 year olds in the bathroom doing coke and getting railed by college guys a few years ago at their naked party.

Your friend learned this by checking their fake id? Thanks for playing, frau.

There are frat houses in NYC?

There are plenty of these type of private parties that don't admit black guys OP. I remember there was one in DC that got caught and went viral.

R5 and that’s terrible. I can’t imagine discriminating against anyone cause of their weight or skin color. Wtf.

R2 they won’t be too often when my dad is done investigating what’s been going on at these parties.

No, fitness isn't like being black or gay because you have to choose fitness vs. fatness.

I love how this is the actual dilemma. ie: “Is it rude to molest a 15 year old while texting?”

They are basically sex parties and there is a contingent of gay men who are only interested in fit white men r6, maybe some whitish looking latinos.

Not saying it is right, but anyone who wasn't born yesterday knows it is a thing.

It’s a thing that shouldn’t be seen as ok. It’s not ok to discriminate race.

So tell me OP, are you an amazingly fit and muscled 20-something who feels that you and your peers should be happy to fuck with chubby or even obese and much older guys, whenever the chubs want it? Or are you more likely to be turned away as 'not fit enough'?

Seriously, I can't waste my time on any private party I'm not invited to, or any man who doesn't want my cock in him. Plenty of other pkaces/men. Move on.

My point is that it’s wrong to say they can’t come. I don’t need to fuck them but someone may be into one of them. Not everyone is disgusting shallow shit.

[quote] My point is that it’s wrong to say they can’t come.

According to whom? Jebus? Did Jebus say, "Thou Shalt Not Ban the Fatties from Thy Party?" Did he, R13? Will Jebus hold you and your tiny cocklet in his arms when the night is dark and full of terrors?

I agree with r1.

I wonder if the discrimination against black men is more borne out of fear of HIV than because of their skin color? Black communities are so homophobic. Black gays are often closeted and have disproportionately high rates of HIV/AIDS infection. IIRC 50% of black folks who are HIV positive don’t even know it yet.

I can’t with these fake ass statistics and racism. Seriously.

I was wrong about the 50% stat guess at r15, but it is true that black men are the most at-risk group for HIV and other STDs in the country.

White people are the just as at risk if not safe. AIDS doesn’t discriminate. Stupid fuck.

[quote]White people are the just as at risk if not safe. AIDS doesn’t discriminate. Stupid fuck.

Black men have higher rates of HIV infection and STDs than whites. That’s an epidemiological fact.

Pretending it’s not true, and saying politically-correct but uninformed statements like “AIDS doesn’t discriminate” is just stupid.

And white men have a higher rate of raping children....

I got invited to a private pool party in Thousand Oaks once by a cosmetic exec. He told me I could bring a friend, knowing full well it was a sex party. I brought someone I thought would be perfect and when I got there, the host sort of looked my friend over and pulled me aside and said: "I don't mean to be rude but your friend..." I told him don't worry, He will be fine." He gave me side eye but let us in. Cut to a half hour later and the men lining up to get their hands, ass, mouth whatever on my buddy's donkey sized cock. He is kinda fug, okay body, horse dick and probably the best fuck I have never had so I knew the weho muscle lol verse boys would die for it. My buddy got a perma invite after that.

Of course it's okay!

R21 was the issue your friends looks or his skin color?

White gays on PrEP, barebacking all over the place, can't really use the "black men have HIV" excuse any longer.

r23 No, no race issues. He is just not conventionally handsome.

I think spitting on the unbuff should be optional, otherwise, the group will look bad.

OP Get over yourself. Private party, private party rules. Don’t like it? Have your own party.

Just understand the basics of a sex party.: Too many undesirable bottoms and all the tops leave.

Thanks for making me google on GBU NYC. [html removed] Never mind.

Just don't try to bring in Murray Guttmann!

What's GBU?