Finding a Bate Buddy?
Okay, bracing myself for insults and whatnot but....I've been wanting to find a buddy with whom to share my bate. Not full-blown sex, just watching porn, relaxing and getting off.
Problem is I have no clue how to make it happen. I don't have a friend currently who I'd want to do this with. I find myself striking uo conversations with guys I'd be interested to do this with but it feels like trying to date and that's not what I'm going for. It seems weird to seek out a new friend expressly for these purposes, but I see ads on doublelist so I know I'm not the only one.
Anyone made this happen? Advice? I suspect this is the kind of thing that organically can happen during childhood but I missed the boat.
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 20, 2019 9:55 AM
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| by Anonymous | reply 1 | October 29, 2018 2:32 PM
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So you want to look at another guy's dick while you jerk off?
Why don't you just fuck?
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | October 29, 2018 2:49 PM
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start account at bateworld.com .
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 29, 2018 3:16 PM
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Have you considered a tasteful classified ad in the Saturday Evening Post?
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | October 29, 2018 7:47 PM
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I guess I'm not sure how to even navigate such a relationship, if I can find one.
Seems a lot of the guys looking are attached - don't want to mess with someone's relationship/marriage. But I do like that this kinda thing is more about bonding than getting into a dating relationship.
Has anyone here had a Bate Buddy? How long did it last and how did it evolve?
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 30, 2018 3:49 PM
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You need to go on Cam4, Skype, Chaturbate, etc.
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | October 30, 2018 7:00 PM
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I totally get it. I'd love to start a maturbation support group. A place where guys, gay, straight, bi, transmen can just get together and bond. Order pizza or Chinese food, watch movies or porn, get naked, have some beers and do what comes naturally. In in the Northeastern Pennsylvania/Northwestern New Jersey area. Let me know if you are close.
There is also: BuddyBate and Onania org in forums. Chaterbate and Bateworld are also great.
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 20, 2019 1:39 AM
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Man, this would be right up my alley as I don't do sex, kissing, or... well, touching of any kind, really. I've asked around on the apps but all of them want more than that. 😒
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | October 20, 2019 1:47 AM
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I knew I read too many DL posts tonight. I should have put the phone down after the one about celebs with massive wangs.
I need to go out and get a drink. OP, you are worse than Hitler!
| by Anonymous | reply 11 | October 20, 2019 1:48 AM
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OP, it's a fetish. You'll have to get into the other guys fetishy needs, or he will have to serve yours. I had a FB for 2 years about a decade ago. I had a number of FB at the same time. Many were fetishists. This one only wanted to jerk off but in wildly elaborate scenarios. The attraction for me was he was built like a brick shit house, was prematurely grey and in the military, and he had a hot body and big thick cock. Plus I was mildly entertained with the ways we invented to jerk off. The downside was it was time consuming and everyone else's fetish bores me after a few goes at it.
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | October 20, 2019 9:31 AM
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OP, check out this guy's modus operandi. More of his videos on the page.
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 20, 2019 9:54 AM
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“I'd love to start a maturbation support group”
The Master Baters
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 20, 2019 9:55 AM
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