I'm a phone sex operator. Ask me anything

Where are you from? 1998?

long before 1998. phone sex has been around since very early 80's and it's not going anywhere.

Do you make house calls?

the customer calls and is connected to me.

How's the pay?

are you M or F?

I am female. The pay is excellent. I decide my rate per minute. I charge $2.99 a minute and I get about $1.78 a minute of that. I also have lines where I charge more per minute, $2.99 a minute is the lowest I charge. I'm surprised I haven't been asked about the married men I talk to that want to suck cock!

How did you get into it?

Do you work part-time or full-time? Do most guys ask for weird/illegal scenarios? I had a female friend who was a PSO but had to quit because she couldn't take the guys asking to play out incest fantasies.

Do you pay taxes?

What are you wearing?

How can I get paid for that, OP?

I work full time, usually every day and I put in anywhere from 4-12 hours a day, it depends. In my early days as a PSO I had some nasty requests (incest, golden/brown showers etc). The site I work through doesn't allow incest or showers, blood, bestiality etc and that's the main reason I switched over to work for myself.

Taxes are a bitch because I am self employed.

How I got involved in the business, I was a young single mother and had to make a living without spending all the money I made on daycare costs. I saw an ad in the paper to work from home and I called and got the job. I've been doing it ever since.

I'm wearing a purple tank top and shorts.

all you need to do is to apply to a company or sign up to one of several platforms. you need a valid ID (must be 18!), a phone and an internet connecton.

OP, how many married men admit that they'd like to get fucked?

What's the most popular straight male fantasy?

Ever have a lesbo caller?

What's your favorite scary movie?

Think you could get an article or memoir out of this?

No. Just no.

My customer base are mostly married or so they say, I have no way of knowing for sure. The #1 fantasy of married straight men is to suck cock and get fucked up the ass with a big dick.

I spoke to a few women in the early 80's/. Women rarely call but there are always straight men that think they can be a PSO and get paid to talk to women. We laugh at those straight men!

Scream is 1 of my favorite movies!

Over the years I've kept journals of a lot of what I've talked about and started writing about it numerous times but I always stopped because I'm busy with the dirty talk! . Once I retire I will write a memoir.

Do you ever get turned on? Or is it just work?

Have you ever hooked up with one of your customers after the phone call?

What is your company’s (or your) policy on pictures/video? Unless there is a ban, I’d think many egg you on to text or email them a photo and with a particular pose so they know it was taken just for them.

I never get turned on by any of my calls. When I first started as a PSO I lost my sex drive for about a year so that should tell you what it's like.

A lot of my customers have asked to meet, telling me how great they are in bed and how they'll treat me so good blah blah yuck! I've never met any of them and have never been tempted. Their own wives don't want to fuck them and that tells me all I need to know :)

Is there a way to do it under the table? Can it be a mobile internet connection like with Verizon hot spot?

I don't use my own photos and I rarely get asked to prove anything to them. Having a unique voice and a certain attitude keeps the "prove it's you bitch" to a minimum. I also do sexting sessions and make audios.

I don't know of a way to get paid for this under the table but it's probably possible.

Is it mostly just older clientele that call? The young people today just seem to want to text.

Have you ever broken character and let someone know that they went too far?

I could handle incest fantasies, it's the beastiality that would bug me.

Do customers ask for strange role play?

the majority of my customers are 30 years old to about 70 years old. The younger ones do love to text, it's as if they are afraid to use their phone to talk.

I stay in character always however I will let a guy know if he has gone too far and trust they don't let it happen again!

when I first started none of the fantasies bothered me (other than turning my stomach at times) but as the years went on I didn't want to talk about incest or any of that anymore so I went out on my own.

Some of the strange things I've been asked to do is cook a guy in an oven, do elaborate roleplays where I'm a superhero, shrink them to the size of my thumb and crush them or carry them around in my purse. I used to talk to a guy that got turned on by hearing the word hello said repeatedly. 20-30 minutes of me saying hello.

did you get accepted to my 600 lb. life?

Some people believe psos are fat but not all are. Fat chicks make bank, there are men that like to do feeding calls and things like that.

the only time I have been fat is when I was pregnant and that was a very long time ago!

Is your name "Butter?"

are you a sex fiend?

I miss married with children.

my names not Darling Nikki :)

OP, I'm fascinated, and in a $$ crunch. I have some work exp in the sex field, do you think I could do this?

Since you mentioning “proving,,” do they already get to see what you look like beforehand? How do you turn down requests for more pics or live cam? Aside from the obvious weird things, someone continuing to want more is the number one thing that would turn me off to doing this. Of course, it probably helps that once you’re into the sex talk, they’re plenty distracted.

Have you ever given out your real number to anyone?

I’m with R37, I need a second job.

Same R38

OP, what do you tell people you really do for a living?

Do you approach it as an acting role, OP? If you don't ever get even a little turned on, how do you compartmentalize that?

Are there scenarios where you've had to disconnect a call? Anything really out there or just weird?

yes you can do it, you need a creative imagination, be open minded and have fun or at least make them believe you're having fun :)

I don't offer cam, they can see "my" pictures on my page. most guys take a quick look at the pic or hear my voice and call without ever reading what I offer. straight men are easily distracted by pretty girls :)

I've told different things over the years, customer service, social media manager, blog writer. stuff like that.

that's the perfect way to put it, it's acting! I've always been a good actress and I'v always been creative so this works :)

It's been years since I hung up on a customer because I'm paid a lot per minute so as long as they follow the rules of the site I don't care what they say. I've had guys pay $5 a minute to argue with me :) I make annoying guys pay more, either by the minute or with tributes.

I've never given my phone number to a customer. plenty have begged me to take theirs. I never do. I only want to talk to them if I'm being paid :)

How do I respond to each person with their post number?

Thanks for actually returning frequently to this thread and giving a lot of interesting info on this job!

do you make return calls?

How old are you, OP? Sounds like you've been doing this for a long time. How old do you tell them you are?

OP - put the capital letter R and then the number. No spaces.

To respond to a specific post number just type the letter r followed immediately by the post number. That's it! No brackets or underscores,nothing!

Is this you?

OP / /

Are you Ms. Swann?

R47 thank you :)

R23 your welcome :) it's an interesting job and I really do love it :)

R45 do you mean have I ever worked for a place that had me call the customer or do you mean do I have return customers? the answer to both, yes :)

R46 I'm in my late 50's although my voice sounds much younger. My customers believe I'm on my 20's :) Sometimes I forget I'm not really in my 20's since I "act" that age for several hours a day :)

R51 I'm a much better pso than Ms Swann :) I've been doing it since the early 80's.

Late 50s passing for 20s?

Oh honey, you have truly captured the very essence of the Datalounge!

How do you find work in your field? I'd love to do it part time.

R48 thank you :)

R49 I remember that! I don't do housework while talking, they'd hear it and it gives me an excuse to not do housework :)

How common are the text-only clients? I’d love to earn a few quick bucks on the side but not a fan of the phone. (Yes, I’m a horrible millennial.) I’d definitely do phone if that really brings it in though.

Have I reached the party to whom I’m speaking?

R57 that made me laugh, thank you :) my voice is young, my face looks early 50's without makeup. with makeup I can easily pass for 49 1/2 :)

R58 google phone sex jobs. I'd say where I'm at (men do it where I am and some do very well) but I'm not sure I should

R61 I do sexting sessions most every day. The last year or 2 that I've been doing sexting I make at least $500 extra bucks a month. usually more from tributes and upsells while texting :)

OMG! Do married guys really into sucking and get it up in the ass? Can you like tell us more stories on that please?

You really belong here, girl. :]

About the men wanting to suck cock, that is interesting obviously because you’re a female. I initially read it that they want you to suck them off, but that was not the famtasy to which you were referring, What do they want you to say then? What do you say? Just a general example of it happening because you’re a female voice talking back to them, so you’re presumably not part of the fantasy. Or maybe they want you to watch…?

You must have an active imagination to pull off all the scenarios and still enjoying this line of work several decades after you began.

R66 you have no idea how many straight guys want it!

they love to talk about going to glory holes and sucking off stranger's dicks. they want cum all over their faces, cum dripping out of their assholes for days! some even want to get caught or blackmailed with the information :)

Are there gay phone sex lines?

R67 thank you and everyone for making me feel welcum :)

I don't talk about sucking them off but I do teach them how to suck cock and talk about how big the guys balls are all full of cum, put them in the middle of a bunch of guys and have him suck and fuck them all and they cum all over his face and body. in the fantasies they love that I'm there watching or in some cases making them suck/fuck cocks. I have them stretch their holes with dildos or whatever they have to put in there! fun :)

Are you familar with chatoperatorjobs.com? It pays through paypal but right off wants a first name and last name.

Has it changed the way you view the general public?

R69 yes there are gay phone sex lines! is there any way to put an email (a throwaway as there are a few straight men on your site ) in here so I can give info to those that want it?

R71 paypal doesn't allow adult transactions, so NEVER work for a place that pays that way. paypal will freeze your account for 18 months and you may not get your money at the end of it all. you will also lose your paypal account forever!

The OP's tales sound like so much bullshit to me. A troll, more than likely. And as for phone sex...who the hell does THAT anymore? Here's an excerpt from a Jezebel article entitled" "Phone sex still exists? And people make money from it?":

"The Sun — the UK tabloid for those who enjoy activities such as hand-wringing and tongue-clucking — has published a bizarrely retro "exposé" on a phone sex operator. You may remember phone sex as a service hawked by foggy late night commercials with pastel-lingerie clad women putting things in their mouths and writhing while imploring the viewer to "pick up the phone!" There are some companies still around, but the whole thing is going the way of those $70 porn DVDs in giant plastic cases. It is a dinosaur, a sex work relic."

The article goes on to say that "most sex workers can no longer make a living doing an out-dated gig like this" and on a forum for people trying to make money doing it they complain that "they're getting no calls, or begging for help. Well, it is not as simple as talking dirty and collecting a check like many people think.It requires skills in marketing, design, writing, and basic HTML. Hard work and even luck are not enough." Yeah, with all the other options out there I don't think anyone with a craving for talking about "how to suck cock" would have to resort to something as quaint as phone sex to do it.

Thanks for the info, OP. You saved me from looking further into that site that uses paypal. I was womdering about just that. I’m not savvy with this sort of thing, but I’m distrusting in general.

R72 yes it has. It's taught me that there are a lot of sick thoughts running through some guys heads. a lot of these guys have zero social skills and don't understand how the female body works. I've had guys screaming at me in the first minute to cum! it makes me feel bad for whoever is fucking them, if anyone is that is :)

R75 you are free to believe I'm a troll. I am not a troll I am in fact a pso and if you google phone sex you may be surprised at how popular it still is :)

R75 The internet’s porn offerings have definitely changed the game, but there is still a market for it. I’d not count out the OP’s stories, especially if she’s been doing this since it was a booming industry.

R76 that is the best way to be! you have to research places because there have been companies that just close up and don't pay you or you got to chase them down for it. there are many legit companies/platforms though :)

R75 thank you and you're right :) I make a very good living doing this. not everyone does but it's all relative. some make $100 a week and some make $1,000s a week and even more and everything in between :) it's a lot of work I do my own promotions, audios, graphics etc. The more you put into it the more you make.

I need to get some sleep. I like to catch the guys before they go to work, quick money is my favorite :) I'll be back tomorrow with more answers and some stories of straight guys wanting cock :)

If you want to privately help a sister get started out (legit companies is all I’d want), I’ll give an email to reach me at. I don’t think this site offers DMing like you proposed in the upthread.

Thanks for all the info so far! I’ll ask more legit sex stories Qs tomorrow to keep others interested who come on here.

"I don't talk about sucking them off but I do teach them how to suck cock and talk about how big the guys balls are all full of cum, put them in the middle of a bunch of guys and have him suck and fuck them all and they cum all over his face and body. in the fantasies they love that I'm there watching or in some cases making them suck/fuck cocks. I have them stretch their holes with dildos or whatever they have to put in there! fun :)"

If this isn't the burblings of some poor troll I don't know what is. Really pitiful.

Do u need a landline or can you use mobile phone (cell) and internet?

OP, I think you are incredibly candid and I, as well as quite a few others, are supportive of you and would love to know more.

You Go KittyGirl!!

"I’d not count out the OP’s stories, especially if she’s been doing this since it was a booming industry."

I'd count them out. This troll is trying REALLY hard, what with all the exclamation points and all the smile emojis and stories about guys who just want to "cum." This "sex phone operator" seems more like a 14 year old playing a prank, or an adult trying to sound like a 14 year old playing a prank.

R83 I'd love to help you out anyway I can :)

R84 is it that hard to believe that men like to cum? is it that hard to believe men have trigger words that get them off? is it that hard to believe straight guys cheat on their wives with women as well as men? is it that hard to believe there are lonely men in this world? you don't like phone sex, good for you, millions of others do and I do my best to give them the experience they want and need. I talked mostly about the men that want to suck cock because this a site predominately for gay men and I can't imagine they would be interested in hearing about phone sex fantasies that involve women. I'll continue to be pitiful as I watch my earnings grow :)

I didn't come here to get customers, gay men aren't my demographic. I came for a bit of fun and explain what I do.

R85 most companies want you to have a landline although there are companies and platforms that don't care if you use a cell. I use a landline because the sound quality is much better and calls won't drop on my end. I always recommend a landline :)

R86/37 thank you very much! I appreciate that and I will share more stories :)

"The #1 fantasy of married straight men is to suck cock and get fucked up the ass with a big dick."

🤨

R87 I haven't been a teen for many decades, thank you for believing I'm even younger than I play on the phone :) how would this be a prank?

How much do you make per year?

R92 yes in my lengthy experience straight men are very interested in talking about sucking and getting fucked by cock. Other psos have different customers. some provide gfe or financial domination and so on. there's a kink for everything. again I've talked about the cocksucking because this is a gay site, do you want to hear about straight men licking pussy and fucking 2 women at once instead?

Totally believe it. I've been with straight married men who were complete bottoms, taking fantasy into reality. They want to be pinned down and owned by an alpha male (major turn on for me). And some of these guys are super hawt. All one has to do is go on Pornhub and look for femdom videos involving bisex and pegging. Thanks for coming on here and giving us a look at the, uh, ins and outs of the industry. Appreciate your candid disclosures OP.

R94 it varies year to year. In the beginning I was making about $500 a week. I've worked at places where I made a few hundred a week. The past 17 years since I now work for myself I make much more. Average for me is around $8,000 a month. I don't have a college education so for me this is good money and I wouldn't be able to make it doing anything else! There really isn't a limit on what you can make if you work it right and have experience :)

That is really good money. You make more than a lot of college educated people. Thank you for the answer!

R96 you are spot on! the men I speak to always want to be a bottom and yes some have taken it from fantasy to reality. Some of my customers feel guilty about their fantasy once they cum and others still want it after they cum so it really depends on the individual. next time you're fucking a straight married man fuck him extra hard for me :)

[quote]The #1 fantasy of married straight men is to suck cock and get fucked up the ass with a big dick.

That's understandable. The #1 fantasy of partnered gay men is to eat a nice shaved pussy and titty fuck women with DDs or bigger.

I believe the OP in as far as the male fantasy aspect. When I first moved to the States I knew a dominatrix, and she shared with me how many "clients" got off on forced bi scenarios. One time she even had a rabbi request "forced bi"... He not only sucked the other bloke off, but swallowed too. This and crapping on blokes seemed par for the course.

But these dudes aren’t straight, but bi/gay from the very beginning.

A female friend of mine told me many years ago it was her experience that the most common fantasy straight guys have involves a “Mommy Fixation” and that they get off “peeking” and catching glimpses of “Mom’s” breast or bush while she’s doing housework or is in the bathroom.

Has anyone ever asked you to do Mommy Roleplay?

R103 That’s some Oedipus complex going on.

R94 your welcome :) I have slow times too just like everyone but even when it's slow I make enough to cover everything :)

R101 yes forced bi is a popular fantasy. The majority of my customers are in the US but I do and have talked to men all over the world, I've learned a lot :)

If they want to talk about sucking cock, why don't they just call men then?

Also, was there a drop off since all the cam sites became mainstream? How do you do your marketing to compete with those?

R102 some are bi, some are bicurious some are straight but love to fantasize about servicing men. They may be gay and pretending to be straight but why would they call a woman for that, I dunno :)

Straight men are weird. I would just love to know why such high numbers of them secretly want dick and I can't think of any gay men that sneak out to get their fill of pussy.

R108 I think because of their pride.

R103 it's been many years but yes I used to do Mommy fantasies and you are right a lot of straight guys love that shit! I don't provide that type of service anymore but once in a while a guy will try that with me even though he knows it's against the rules.

R107 I think the reason they don't call men is because they need to hear a female voice talking about their fantasy.

Cam sites haven't really interfered because there are plenty of men that just want a voice and don't want or need to see anything. I promote myself on social media and on the site I work on :)

R109 it's all about taboo. A lot of men are raised to believe they have to be with women and so if they want men they need to be sneaky. Keep in mind a lot of my customers are older and were brought up during a time where being gay wasn't accepted the way it is today :)

Can I do this as a gay man for other gay men?

What if I have gay-voice? Will DLers still call me for phone sex? Can't we just talk about draining spaghetti and Joan Crawford? I won't even charge for that.

R14 yes you can, gay voice straight voice there is something for everyone. however never say you'll do it for free, you provide their fantasy so you should be compensated. I'll talk to you about Mommy Dearest and teach you about Italian cooking :)

R114 my previous response was to R114. I didn't hard the button hard enough I guess.

DL is $1.50 / moth. I am not sure any of this crowd is gonna pay $1.50 an hour for one-on-one bitching over out-of-stock Corelle patterns and how meaningless thread count is. If they are, call me!

R117 hi Jenny :) now I must listen to this song, it's been a while.

What are tributes and upsells?

This is a very interesting thread. Thanks OP!

R119 thank you, I'm happy you and others find this interesting :) tributes are like tips. customers will send a tribute in any amount they want or the amount they are ordered to depending on the type of guy and fantasy. some will tribute without being asked or told. upsells are done when I'm talking or sexting with customers and tell them about my audios and other content and get them to buy it :)

" I'll continue to be pitiful as I watch my earnings grow :)"

I've done some research on this phone sex stuff. And one thing I keep hearing is that it is NOT a lucrative way to make money. You're full of shit, troll. And your repetitive use of the word "cum" indicates you have the brains of a big fat rock.

Some common sense from a phone sex operator answering a question about how great a job it is:

"I have been a phone sex operator for over a decade, people don’t understand it isn’t some easy job where you make all this money. There are very slow times where you make hardly anything, and you have to put up with the gentlemen, there are some real sicko’s and some real manipulators, then you also have the guys that want to latch on to you, and they don’t give up, either. It does change you mentally and once you go there you will never be the same, I have heard it all, and you get burned out it gets so boring, and at times you really don’t care about the men and their stupid kinky fantasies. I am being totally honest the business isn’t glamerous at all."

Where do u get ur pics that aren’t u? How does one go about working for oneself? I found NiteFlirt and they only send info on earnings if ur over $ 20k a yr!

^to the government

So Miss OP, why are sex phone lines still a 'thing' in 2018? I would have thought the intnet would have killed that off long ago.

R121 you are correct it is a lot of hard work. I have approximately 3,000 audios not to mention the other content I create. The word "cum" is the second most important word in phone sex so there's that! PSOS are different, we have different talents and some make more than others. Why is it hard to believe?

R122 correct! it isn't easy. it's work. the more you put into it and the better you are at delivering what men want the more you'll make. It also depends on where you work. I make $1.78 per minute of the $2.99 a minute I charge (the site takes a percentage). there are companies that pay as low as 10 cents a minute, you'll make very little going that route. there are companies that pay $8-$10 per 30 minutes. again you won't make as much. I don't just talk on the phone. the majority of my money comes from passive income (audios, tributes etc) and that's how I want it. everyone is different :)

R123 some platforms send you and the govt that if you make over $20,000 but you need to report your income regardless. you don't need pictures of a face it can be a body part like a leg or foot. I can't put where or how you can get pictures on here because that's one of the secrets we psos keep quiet :)

So working on a platform is considered working for yourself ?

R125 I think it's because there are lonely men out there. a lot of guys don't talk to their wives or so's about their wants or fantasies because they are afraid of what they will say. and they are right to be afraid. would you want your so to know if you wanted to dress like a girl or suck a dick or fuck your mom (if you were a straight guy that is) phone sex has been around since I was a teen. I started at 18 and I'm OLD now :) everyone is different some guys like cam girls or porn and some guys love phone sex. some guys do all three. sex sells and I'm a pro :)

R129 yes it is. we run our own businesses and we are self employed. those that work on party lines or dispatch services are considered independent contractors and are issued 1099's. I've been self employed for 17 years.

OP, it seems most of your clients are men. What are the common fantasies of your female clients?

R132 women don't really call for phone sex. I'd say about 95% of callers are male. I've talked to maybe 2 or 3 women and that was in the 90's :) that's not to say women never call but if I had to survive on that I'd be hungry! I've made about $24 talking to women. I didn't like talking to them because they wanted to be dominated and I felt bad doing it lol I don't have a problem dominating men though :)

Ok, so I assume the primary objective is for the caller to reach orgasm and then the call ends. Is a lot of your job edging? Getting them close and then pulling back to prolong the time they stay on the line and increase your cash flow. When they say they are impotent, do you see dollar signs knowing it’s going to be long haul if they come at all? Do you think any guys fake an orgasm to get off the line? Do they many times run out of money before they cum, or do they have a credit card on file and just keep running up charges? Is the first thing they ask is what will show up on my billing statement? What percentage of your callers are repeat customers? Do they request accents? Are there three ways where you bring in another PSOS? Do you have any catch phrases you use?

Thanks in advance this is so much fun!

R134 Ok, so I assume the primary objective is for the caller to reach orgasm and then the call ends. Is a lot of your job edging? Getting them close and then pulling back to prolong the time they stay on the line and increase your cash flow. When they say they are impotent, do you see dollar signs knowing it’s going to be long haul if they come at all? Do you think any guys fake an orgasm to get off the line? Do they many times run out of money before they cum, or do they have a credit card on file and just keep running up charges? Is the first thing they ask is what will show up on my billing statement? What percentage of your callers are repeat customers? Do they request accents? Are there three ways where you bring in another PSOS? Do you have any catch phrases you use?

Thanks in advance this is so much fun!

there are a lot of men interested in tease and denial or edging calls. I provide it when asked :) the men don't need to fake an orgasm they are free to hang up whenever they want. most don't bother with saying goodbye, you just hear a click :) some of them get embarressed so they hang up when they cum. on the platforms I work they can add more money without disconnecting the call. their credit card numbers are on file (I never see them or their real names or anything like that) and they are asked if they want to add more time and the system walks them through the steps. I don't recall ever being asked by a customer how it will show up on their CC statements. they already have that info when they sign up it's all explained :) the majority of my callers are repeat customers. that's how you make money in phone sex, it's all about your regulars :) they come and go and most of them slut around with dozens of other psos, it's just part of the gig. as long as they buy my content and call and tribute me I'm happy :) some guys like accents. asian accents, valley girl accent, southern accent and so on. Unfortunately I can't do accents although I sound like a valley girl. dispatch companies allow 3 way calls. I used to do that back in the 80's and 90's and it was fun because you work off each other and the guys get hooked! do I have catch phrases? you betcha! you got to stand out in this business and I do everything I can to be different and unique. my customers enjoy me because I'm fun, somewhat intelligent (I dumb it down a lot since I play at being a bratty 20something) and very good at getting them off. I'm really enjoying answering all of you :)

What's the kinkiest thing a caller has said to you, or asked you to talk about to him? Please be explicit and detailed. I want to know for purely educational purposes, lol.

Great thread OP. Thank you for your candor. How many men have you phone fucked vs. fucked IRL? Are you as good in bed as you are on the phone?

How do i get this job? How much does it pay? No I didn’t read previous replies.

I used to have so much phone sex in the 90s with guys in AOL M4M chat rooms. Real sex was a let down with some of them compared to the phone. I can't imagine who'd pay. Maybe it's a straight thing? I see there's tons of gay phone sex lines advertised online but I wonder if anyone calls them.

R137 I honestly don't know how many men I've phone fucked over the years. hundreds of thousands if not more but that's just a guess :)

I've only fucked IRL about 20 men. I think I'm good in bed and my man seems to think so as well :) We've been together for many years. the great thing about a fantasy is that it doesn't really go wrong but IRL there can be repercussions and sometimes it doesn't play out the way you have it in your head. that's another reason I believe phone sex is still popular.

R136 the kinkiest thing? I've been doing this so long nothing seems kinky to me anymore :) since this is a gay site I'll relay a gay fantasy for you, cool?

I have many customers that want to be brought to a dangerous place and have their holes used and abused by many men (usually BBC). prisons, bad neighborhoods where they are fucked and used by every alpha male available. they want to be gagged with big cocks, they want to feel helpless and scared and excited! they like it if they aren't free to leave until all the alphas balls are drained. bukkake is a big turn on for these guys and they love it when I make them walk around with cum all over their face for everyone to see. everyone will know he's a fuckhole for big cock! Imagine R136 that you are in that position. you are surrounded by alpha males who want to take you and use you for their own perverted pleasure :) they'll share you with their friends and enemies :) anything can happen!

R138 there is a lot of info in this thread but here you go. google phone sex jobs. you must be 18 and have a valid ID for proof. you'll need a phone, landlines are best and some companies won't allow the use of a cell. NiteFlirt was brought up by a poster. I run my business there and a few other platforms. NiteFlirt has a section for men seeking men and some men do very well. women do better but there's no reason why a man can't do this job and make bank. creativity and hard work will bring in the money :)

R139 I used to try to get customers in AOL chatrooms back in the 90's. gay lines make money. if they didn't they would shut down. straight and bi men are probably making the majority of the calls but gay phone sex is a thing and money can be made doing it :)

It’s seems weird that gay men pay money for this.

You can go to sites to connect with like-minded pervs (I speak from experience) and then take that to Skype or WhatsApp if you want to go further.

OP posts exactly like a particular Bellagio hotel maid.

R144 some guys want to be and stay anonymous maybe because they're married or ugly or both :)

R145 I don't know what that means.

Hey OP, thanks for your answer to R134. Sucks that they can’t get a out a simple “thanks” before clicking off and hanging up. You sound fun, have a great day!

It means you’re a longtime troll on DL who tries various “I’m a ....ask me anything” threads to which she posts very wordy responses to every post that responds.

R148 I don't take it personally when they hang up, you get used to it fast. it makes me appreciate my customers that say goodbye and at times I'll send them extras for it :) good customer service is another must! you have a great day as well.

R149 have you read the thread? there are some that still think this is a lie? how do I know all of this if I haven't lived it all this time? better yet...why would I lie about this? gay men aren't my demographic. I don't make any money from gay men! Could I prove it all by outing my character names? sure but I'm not going to and you should understand why.

R149 this is the first time I have ever started a thread of any kind on here. maybe you're confusing me with someone else.

OP, it's a Datalounge tradition to chase away interesting posters. It's why we don't have good gossip here anymore - those with inside info got tired of being called trolls. Please ignore the critics.

Hey, cupcake, I’m just stating that you type in the exact same style and syntax of D-R with the exact “ask me”.

R153 thank you and I will ignore them from here on out :)

Do you pay taxes on this income?

With all the people showing everything on cam today I don't know why anyone would call a phone sex line? Has you business decreased with the uptick in cam sites?

Are there no-holds-barred PSOs who do indulge their clients’ more troubling fantasies? Do they command top dollar for playing little girls to pedophiles, screaming victims to rape fetishists, or whinnying horses to the beastiality set?

R156 yes

Ha ha, yes. You can just click the little guy with the slash through him and, presto, troll problem solved. BTW don't know if you know you can quote parts of responses by doing [quote] -- then paste in the response. Love this thread. DL should do more of the "Ask Me Anything," threads like on Reddit, though we probably wouldn't get people like they get. I even like reading the ones like "I'm a Restaurant Hostess." Ask Me Anything.

I agree with this:

[quote]OP, it's a Datalounge tradition to chase away interesting posters. It's why we don't have good gossip here anymore - those with inside info got tired of being called trolls. Please ignore the critics.

R157 my business hasn't suffered due to cam sites at least not that I've noticed. there are more than enough horny men in the world for all us psos and cam girls to make a living :) when I started some of my customers weren't even born yet. as long as boys are born and grow into men we'll be ok.

R158 Are there no-holds-barred PSOs who do indulge their clients’ more troubling fantasies? Do they command top dollar for playing little girls to pedophiles, screaming victims to rape fetishists, or whinnying horses to the beastiality set?

there are psos that do it all but they aren't making the money I am. some platforms don't allow bestiality, rape, incest, underage. do psos break the rules of sites? some do and it will bite them in the ass eventually. it's not worth it to lose your income to talk about forbidden subjects. there are companies that specialize in taboo, they don't pay well at all. you get anywhere from 10 cents a minute to a buck a minute. not enough money for me to talk about that stuff! I put in my time doing that for the first 17 or 18 years. I'm so much happier not talking about those subjects :) I used to make only $8 for 30 minutes of that nasty shit. now I make $1.78 a minute and I talk about what I want within the rules of the sites.

I never knew straight people have all these fantasies, and that so many straight male fantasies involved gay sex. My straight brother told me that every hot girl he's hooked with has had the "Are you even maybe just a little bit gay?" talk with him.

[quote]every hot girl he's hooked with

LOL. Hooked up with. He's a non-pro.

How do PSOs get busted for breaking the discourse etiquette?

You said a lot of straight men call you to talk about being fucked by other men. Are any of them interested in a more intermediary step of having you fuck them with a strap-on?

R160 I love reading AMAs on reddit. maybe more will show up here, that would be fun :)

That’s strange, you’d think the taboo sites would pay more.

R164 an old female friend of mine used to make out with gay men and try to get them to have sex with her. they loved making out with her but wouldn't take it further. ever since then I've wondered why would a gay man make out with a woman? were they just being nice? she always went on about how great they were at kissing.

R165 usually by the same guy that got them to break the rules in the first place. they get a hair across their ass about whatever and they turn on her and turn her in. it's a shitty thing to do but it happens.

R166 yes! I do a lot of strap on calls, strap on training. some of them only want strap ons or trannies because then it's not a real guy and then they don't have the guilt.

I had dinner once with a girl who was a mistress out in LA. She was a striking blonde. She introduced herself as "Disney." She said she ran a dungeon with a large, exclusive clientele. One of her clients, a straight guy, basically would just come in and lay around in panties and baby dolls. He turned out to be a big Hollywood producer and he left his wife for her. And then he decided to do the whole fantasy and underwent gender transformation. "Disney's" super rich these days. There can be big money in phone sex work. But I'd love to make $8K/mo. for just talking on the phone.

R168 you would think that but that's not the way it works. a lot of those taboo sites are charging the customer $3-$5 a minute and paying the psos peanuts!

R 172 I've seen her somewhere I just can't remember where. she's gorgeous! in my experience the more powerful and or rich the man is the kinkier he will be :)

I'm going to bed now. if there are more questions I'll answer them tomorrow. have a great night guys and dolls :)

Oh, Mister phone sex operator Sir or Madam, I am willing to do vocal training and get paid for it, thank you very much. I am training for my triumphant return to the legitimate television stage!

^ Sign your fucking name, TV’S SWEETHEART.

"have you read the thread? there are some that still think this is a lie? how do I know all of this if I haven't lived it all this time? better yet...why would I lie about this?"

I've read the thread. I'm sure there are some reasonable people who think it's a lie. You can "know this" from going on websites hearing what actual phone sex operators have to say about what they do. And you would lie because trolls don't need a reason to lie. They have little to do and they like to pull people's legs and chortle at the the suckers who fall for their tales. By the way, from they way you express yourself it's obvious that you're one of the trolliest trolls to ever troll. Sweetie, you are SO obvious.

The aliens forgot to remove the anal probe on R177 again and it pinches.

Thanks R177. I thought I was the only one who thought troll. If you google its headline a shit ton of stuff comes up sounding suspiciously like what it posted and it sounds, as I said, suspiciously like DR, our resident wannabe housemother who has posted similar shit in the past.

Fun thread. OP, do you have an friends in the business? Sounds like lonely work.

Go away R177. You're boring us.

[quote] I didn't like talking to them because they wanted to be dominated and I felt bad doing it lol I don't have a problem dominating men though :)

Why is that?

R180 it can be lonely work because you're home most of the time. when cell phones became popular it got easier for psos. now we can bring a cell and still get calls or do sexting sessions without being home. I don't like using a cell phone because the majority of my customers are using them so that combined with the many that whisper it's hard to hear them plus calls drop and that means less money. in the 90's we used to use call forwarding. anyone remember call forwarding? that was helpful if I wanted to go to someone else's house I'd just forward my calls to their phone :)

it's hard to stop working when you do this. I am constantly thinking of work, how to make more money, my marketing strategies, ideas for content and 500 other things and I need to have quiet to get this done so it can be isolating. luckily I enjoy being alone so it's not hard for me but when I was younger it was much harder and all I had to do back then was wait for the calls the company sent me. there was a lot of downtime back then and it was boring just waiting for calls. I'm much happier now that I work for myself since there is always more than enough to do. it's never boring :)

R180 sorry I didn't answer your other question. yes I have friends in the business. we met through the companies we worked at or from the platforms and social media. that's helpful because only psos know what this job is really like so we get each other and support each other :) we do collabs, we advertise for each other there's so much that goes into it.

R181 thank you! I find it difficult to be mean to women I don't dislike or hate. I didn't want to hurt their feelings when they asked for it. strange right? luckily I've only spoken to 3 of them but I felt so uncomfortable ordering them around and humiliating them. the women didn't like the calls because they never called me again :) now men, it's easy for me to humiliate them and make them cry like bitches! I don't feel bad at all.

[quote] it's easy for me to humiliate them and make them cry like bitches! I don't feel bad at all.

OP were you abused when you were younger?

R185 no, no abuse. the women in my family are dominant and can be quite mean to men so I grew up around that. it's not hard for me to be mean to men that want it. I only do that on the phone, I don't treat the men in my life that way :)

Thanks 😊

your welcome :)

Do PSOs collaborate on a single call to fulfill a wmw three-way fantasy? That is a common straight porn scenario.

Do you do cuckold fantasies? I see that a lot in porn for straight white men. Do you just describe the other guy?

How do you time your fake orgasms? Are there signals the guy gives that he wants to hear you cum? I guess you want to keep him on as long as you can.

But do you have a strategy for ending a call early? If the guy is annoying or irksome?

Do you ever envision the guy on the other end? They are definitely using the image you’ve provided.

Is there a market for other languages besides English? Are some PSOs putting bilingual skills to use?

Can you imagine a future where AI takes over phone sex work, or do you think the contact with another human is the real draw?

Do men ever slip out of the sex scenario and talk about their lives or problems? Do you encounter loneliness on the other end of the line?

How do you see yourself in relation to sex workers who have physical sexual contact with their clients?

Thanks for making a great, illuminating thread.

And can you multitask while on a call?

Can you convincingly whimper and moan while perusing a contentious Liza Minnelli thread on Datalounge?

OP, you are a scream, I hereby decree you an honorary gay man!

Go away, R180. You're a retard who'll believe anything.

R189 love these questions! this is going to be in 2 responses because the site told me I went over the character limit.

Do PSOs collaborate on a single call to fulfill a wmw three-way fantasy? That is a common straight porn scenario. there are psos on the platform I work that have what's called a couples listing. it can be a woman and a man or 2 women that the customer will talk to. the 2 women 1 man is a popular fantasy where I work :)

Do you do cuckold fantasies? I see that a lot in porn for straight white men. Do you just describe the other guy? yes! I do cuck fantasies. I specialize in that fetish and several others. I tell the customer what the alpha male looks like and then describe how the alpha will fuck the cucks wife as he watches helplessly. a lot of cucks I talk to want the alpha male to be black. BBC is insanely popular now :) How do you time your fake orgasms? Are there signals the guy gives that he wants to hear you cum? I guess you want to keep him on as long as you can. I don't fake orgasms. I don't do traditional phone sex. I'm more fetish oriented. back in the 80's and 90's I would fake orgasms because most of the calls back then were for straight sex (meaning blowjobs, guy fucking me) . a lot of the customers seem to think women can cum on command and that's just not the way it works. they will literally scream within a minute or 2 to for me to cum for them. it was always so funny to me but back then I couldn't laugh at them :) so I'd just fake the big O. I'm a very good faker or I used to be. it's been years since I've had to do that. I do want him to stay on as long as possible and that's much easier with fetish calls. suck and fuck calls are generally quick.

But do you have a strategy for ending a call early? If the guy is annoying or irksome? I've adapted several exit strategies over the years. it depends on the customer and the situation but I'll either pretend I can't hear him so he'll hang up or I'll come right out and tell him he's an annoying beta (or whatever it is that he is) and I don't want to talk to him unless he tributes or buys x amount of dollars of my content. I rarely hang up on a customer but if they refuse to follow rules or respect my boundaries I've been known to hang up and block him so he cannot contact me again.

Do you ever envision the guy on the other end? They are definitely using the image you’ve provided.Is there a market for other languages besides English? Are some PSOs putting bilingual skills to use? my customers like sending me their pictures and I don't mind because I get a tribute (tip) with it. so I've seen a lot of them and they are usually not attractive to me but I have a specific type of man and they are never it :) there are psos that speak spanish or chinese, italian. french I've seen a lot of different languages in addition to english being offered.

R189 Can you imagine a future where AI takes over phone sex work, or do you think the contact with another human is the real draw? when cam sites started in the late 90's the companies I worked for were very worried it would take over and they would lose business but that didn't happen. real dolls have been around since the 90's and that hasn't interfered so I don't think AI will but we'll have to wait and see :) I think most men want some type of connection with the girl they're speaking with.

Do men ever slip out of the sex scenario and talk about their lives or problems? Do you encounter loneliness on the other end of the line? all the time! I'm part therapist part sex queen :) a lot of my customers talk about their problems with their wives, problems at work or with elderly parents they're caring for. I listen and try to give good advice or just be as supportive as possible :) so many of my customers are lonely. holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas are BUSY BUSY BUSY. I always work holidays and make bank!

How do you see yourself in relation to sex workers who have physical sexual contact with their clients? we're in the same industry but our experiences are very different. I support all sex workers and promote not just other psos but sugar babies, cam girls, strippers, escorts, porn stars. there are more than enough men to go around and cross promotion works well :) I wouldn't be able to have physical contact with these guys but for those that can I say go for it :)

how do you operate phone sex? Does it have a tumor? Do you have to cut the phone sex open? What tools do you need to operate a phone sex?

R190 I can and do multi task . I've been doing this so long it all just comes naturally so I may do some promotion or coding. I'm careful not to make any noise so they don't know :) I will admit right here that I at times am reading threads here on DL while making a man cry :)

R191 OP, you are a scream, I hereby decree you an honorary gay man!

—Didi von Cuntington

your comment made my day! thank you thank you thank you :)

Do you have regulars/repeat callers? Do you try to remember details from session to session, and is that just from memory or do some use some sort of crm software?

R198 the majority of my customers are regulars. I have a 97% (last I checked) customer retention rate :) we can keep notes but I don't really need them. I remember voices and it just clicks in as to who they are and what they like.

I remember the movie Short Cuts I think is the name. The story with Jennifer Jason Leigh is tough to forget. She was a young married mother with a bit of a loser husband, played by Chris Penn. She worked as PSO and there was a scene where she is taking care of her baby mid sex call, talking filthy. Like it was nothing. OP, you mentioned taking calls at friends house or out. Is that right? Are your calls planned or scheduled? do you have r gulag working hours, a beginning and end to a day, or do you always feel on call, or pressured to not let call go so you maintain clients and income? do you ever work in front of other people in your life? I’d love to know how that works. Thanks!

Dear OP. Interesting thread! I'm not surprised at all about the straight male fantasies of gay sex. I also believe many straight women have lesbian fantasies and multiple partners all at once fantasies, too. The human brain is a wondrous thing, it allows you to create all sorts of scenarios of which granny would not approve.

You're doing a job not many people could handle but it sounds like you're very resourceful and doing it well. You said you started as a single mom. Your kids must be grown now, are they aware of the work you do? How do they feel about it?

Thanks again for a unique thread.

R200 I've never seen that movie, I'll have to check it out. When I go out on errands or over to a friend's I make sure to be far away from anyone if I get a phone call. it's not cool to let unsuspecting people hear dirty sex talk. my husband hears it, it's no big deal but I don't let anyone else hear me :) at the moment I do have a schedule for myself but one of the best parts of doing this is that I can decide when I'm available and change it up when necessary. doctor appointments, errands, vacations and so on I decide and I don't have anyone to answer to, like a boss because I'm the BOSS :) there are times when I will stay on longer, usually when it's been slow, other than that I usually am available for phone calls 4-12 hours a day. my main focus is on passive income so I create a lot of content. create it once sell it forever all over the net!

R201 my kids are grown. they know what I do now but when they were young they thought I was a customer service rep and that's kind of true :) they were teenagers when I told them the truth about how Mom managed to keep a roof over our heads. they didn't ask too many questions, you know how teens are, all about hanging with their friends, going to parties and all that. now that they're adults they think it's funny that men pay money to talk to their mother. I had a fool proof way to get rid of men my daughter was dating (if I didn't like the guy). I'd tell her his voice and way of speaking was so familiar, where have I heard it before? planting my own seed so he wouldn't be able to plant his own. she would dump them immediately when I would say this. someday I may tell her why I did what I did, I doubt she'd care now but I'm holding out until she's married in case I still need to resort to my trickery :)

From your posts, I gather that while you specialize in fetish work, you don’t share the sexual charge associated with the fetish(es).

How did you learn the dynamics and lingo in order to specialize? Are there PSO mentors? Just on-the -job learning? Porn? Or other?

OP, how does a person get started being a PSO? I cant go into my situation right this minute, but this might just help me. I am in a bad way right now. I am a gay male. FWIW, I hope you are still posting here. Thank you so much for this thread!

I wouldn't pay anyone to jerk off on the phone with me.

I WOULD pay them to listen to me bitch about all of my problems that my friends will no longer put up with.

There's got to be a market for that.

^ If you read all her answers upthread, you’ll find that is also part of her job.

Oh i didn't get that far.... interesting.

What is your number?

How do you conceal your location? Isnt a land line traceable in this day and age? If I put a telephone number in to a search engine services are available to track the owner and location of the number.

Bump

Op are you still with us?

"Op are you still with us?"

Maybe he's tired of dicking with all of you suckers who believes everything he says.

R213, if you are so bothered by the OP, why don't you create an exually interesting thread, instead of whining about this one?

Very interesting line of work, OP! One bit of info I like to add, there are straight men who sell phone sex to women. Not many, but most of them are well-known ASMR or late night DJ types who have become sex symbols for ladies, so they can command high prices for 1-on-1 chat. The more you know!:)

Do you have a script with questions and phrases for when there is dead air?

How the hell did you find DL?

Do you require caller ID and not accept blocked numbers?

If so, do you see their real names?

Also, a few times you wrote "your" when you should have written "you're." This is DL, Grammar Hell.

R204 I learned the lingo and the ins and outs of different fetishes from the customers themselves, porn and dirty magazines (pre internet). It's much easier since mid 90's or so for psos to learn about fetishes without spending money on mags. it's all right there for research :) I'm happy to have started the way I did. it made me work 4 times as hard!

R205 you can sign up on NiteFlirt, they have a gay part of the site. you need a valid picture ID to prove you are at least 18. Are you in the US, Canada, somewhere else?

R210 my number is never shown to the customer and their number is never shown to me. I don't have access to any of their info except their user name. it's all run through a computer system.

a long time ago while working for a dispatch companies we would get the customers full name and phone number and call them directly. I did have a somewhat scary thing happen back then. Somehow my phone number unblocked and it showed on his caller ID. he called me for a few days trying to scare me into getting him off for free. the dumbass somehow forgot I had his real full name and phone number! he had my phone number, at that time my phone numbers were under fake names so he didn't have shit. I changed my number, the phone co. didn't charge me a dime once I explained what happened. the company I was working for where this happened told me it wasn't a big deal and I shouldn't be upset. I had 2 young kids and it was a breach of my privacy. the company didn't care so I quit! that company ended up going out of business but to be fair most of the old companies are long gone for many different reasons.

R215 asmr is huge. I do it too :P

R216 no, I've never used scripts unless it's for an audio. dead air doesn't happen much, I'm a good talker and can keep a conversation going and going well for hours and hours. I found DL years ago, I think it was during the Hayden P. threads that were going on. another site talking about it led me here. the customers don't have my number. they call into the system and the system connects us both. it's very safe and secure for the pso as well as the customer :)

sorry for spelling and grammar mistakes and so on. I type fast and honestly unless it's something for work I rarely fix it :)

R204 sorry I didn't answer your other questions. yes there are psos who mentor. I've done that for many over the years. the psos of today have it a lot easier than us pso dinosaurs. everything is on the internet so anything they need to learn about they can. we had to do it the hard way! a lot of it was on the job training, the customers trained us in their fetishes or kinks. also porn and dirty mags.

It is INCREDIBLY EASY to verify if OP is authentic.

Ask for the phone number and have her confirm.

Boom.

R205 here. Thank you for answering my questions. I am located in the USA. Imight just give this a try.

And it is good to kmow thae phone would not be traceable.

OP-

Give us your number. Anyone willing to pay a buck to verify you can do so.

R226 right, let me out myself to prove to strangers I'm telling the truth. no. I'm not dumb. you can choose to believe me or not.

OP-

How is that outing yourself?? It is your JOB..as you have "proven" here. So, what is the big deal?

By refusing you are admitting that you are a TROLL, lol. I mean, you would MAKE MONEY! So, um........

Hysterical! A phone sex operator refusing to "out" herself on a post where....she outs herself. She admits, naturally her job is anon. Yet, wont give her phone sex number despite working to advertise herself and make money. Yeah, that is logical.

Anyone that believes OP at this point is not thinking it out.

What is the website? Send us to it. Who do we ask for? lol.

OP, ignore the assholes. They flock to any AMA-type thread. I usually block them to discover it’s one or two posters. Maybe festooning threads with inane accusations is THEIR fetish.

I would rather make my phone number known to random hotline perverts than to Datalounge, though I think in many cases there is a wide demographic overlap.

Lots of missing posts. D-R is on a roll this morning.

R232, it is a simple method to prove authenticity. She simply puts the website link here (this does NOT expose her) and direct us in terms of how to reach her. It is so simple. PLUS..she will make money. I am willing to go to the site, pay her ten bucks to have her confirm. I will have no clue who she is---you know, like all of her other clients. Dude, this is not trolling her. She is trolling us until she simply directs us to the site. I mean c'mon...the site is WHERE she is making money.

NOT TO MENTION: R232 IS OP!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!! Holy shit. I can't.

OP has pretended to be MANY POSTERS here. Psycho. Gross.

Using different ISP addresses....

I'll go along with the fantasy OP. Do you ever feel guilty that people may be spending too much money on your services, a part of which is based on deception? The reason I ask is because I used to play on a trivia team and one of our group was sort of a sad case. Late 50s, short, fat, not at all attractive and VERY lonely. He lived with his parents, both of whom died within a year of one and other leaving him the house, a bit of money etc. Which he then went and spent most of on a phone sex line, always talking to the same woman who kept telling him she would come to our town one day to meet him etc. He told us all this as he was that type and he also believed her. We tried to tell him he was being ripped off, and one of the women on our team said to him 'Well get her private number, not this $6 a minute thing - if she's genuine she will give it to you'.

Of course we all knew that wouldn't happen but we were trying to wean him off spending all his money. All to no avail - he ended up with such big bills that he had to sell the family home and now boards in a hotel (this happened in Australia). So I must admit that your chortling over being mean to men strikes me as somewhat obnoxious knowing this guy's story. Yes, he brought it on himself, and yes, he should have stopped, but this woman on the other end must have gotten some idea of what he was like and how he was just a sad and lonely person looking for friendship. So by the end of it, I actually disliked this anonymous woman and wished her ill since she had obviously had no qualms about what she was doing. Married men, yeah who cares, but lonely people is a different scenario and it's hard to respect anyone happy to make a dollar off of that situation.

R237 You know that people can put on ignore your posts and see that you’re talking to yourself?

I sure do, R239. I am posting multiple posts on purpose.

By the way, R239, I also know that I can post multiple posts under a different identity.

R240 If you think she’s lying, it’s fine, but let people enjoy this thread regardless. Your onlys posts are about outing the OP. Why? Did you think that maybe you’re not the only one questioning her identity? But most of us just go with the flow. I personally think this thread is funny and I’ll take this instead of the billion ones about IG whores.

R242, why is because it is weird and not cool to troll. Your question serves as a microcosm in regard to our society at large. It is like asking "Why does it matter that Trump lies? He is doing a great job". Well, it matters. And the first sentence and the second are very much akin to your psychology. Why does it matter that someone is a fucking weirdo and a liar, and fooling people? It matters. It just does.

Block the broken record attic auntie at r240 and the thread is instantly decluttered.

R243 Putting her on the same level as Trump is a bit rich. This is an anonymous board, anyone can say anything, hell I can say I’m a CEO of a well known firm and do an AMA here. Would you believe me? You have a brain as well and you can give your own judgement about this. She’s not running a country, she’s just having fun ( IF she lies) with this thread, in other words she’s harmless. All her answers can be taken from reddit as well so again you have the option to choose which narrative to believe. Trolling has always been present on DL so if your mission is to get rid off the trolls or the sociopaths in here I find it hard to accomplish this deed.

Ah, ok. All in good fun. Gotcha.

Place on Ignore and stop feeding the troll.

Please do ignore me, R247. Yes, I am a troll because I am annoyed by some woman on here pretending to be a PHONE sex operator in 2018. Ok.

OP you have to see SHORT CUTS! Not to be confused with SHORTBUS, another good movie... Every time I hear of PSOs it's precisely Jennifer Jason Leigh's character I think of. Every single time. Plus it's a great movie. A bit long. There's not a lot in the way of plot. It's still very good. The carpet cleaning scene! Seriously.

OP thank you for making this thread.

What is the content you create? Is that like a blog?

Thank you for all your insight, very much appreciated :)

Agreed on Short Cuts. It’s one of my favorite Robert Altman films. The JJL PSO is a memorable character.

R232 yes I'm adding more to the block! thanks to you and the others who have had my back here :)

R232 [R232], it is a simple method to prove authenticity. She simply puts the website link here (this does NOT expose her) and direct us in terms of how to reach her. It is so simple. PLUS..she will make money. I am willing to go to the site, pay her ten bucks to have her confirm. I will have no clue who she is---you know, like all of her other clients. Dude, this is not trolling her. She is trolling us until she simply directs us to the site. I mean c'mon...the site is WHERE she is making money.

I have said on this thread I'm in my late 50's. my character is a 20something. giving you a link or my direct extension will give you my username. that is what I mean by outed. I don't want my customers to know I'm decades older than I portray. I would lose my customers. the best part is you want to pay me a whole $10 ( my cut is $7) for me to ruin my business. seriously? I explained this not for you R232 but others that may not understand what's going on here. I'm not dumb, I know what you're trying to do. you learn a lot about people in this business and I know every tactic there is. I'm not in my 20's I pretend to be in my 20's. get the difference?

OP, based on your experience what percentage of men would you say are bi/bicurious? (To keep it simple)

R254 I'd say about half of the customers I've talked to have expressed some interest in being with another man. sometimes they'll just ask about different cocks I've had but it's the way they're asking that tells me what the true interest is :)

I had regular Skype sessions with a straight guy who wanted to hear only about his own dick - how beautiful and huge it was in comparison with every other dick I’d seen in my life. (He had a great dick, but it wasn’t as beautiful or big as I would repeatedly insist, since I wanted to get him off.)

Do you have men asking you to comment on their dicks or bodies? Flattery or derision?

R256 straight men are obsessed with cocks. their own, yours, that other dudes, it's bizarre.

my customers ask to me tell me what I think of their pictures. some want the truth, some want lies. I give them the answer they want to hear :)

R250 my content is mostly audios, over 3,000 at this point. I also create games, tasks, writing assignments, homework assignments and audio collabs with other psos :)

OP, thanks for the best thread in a very long time.

How long does a typical conversation last? (I don't recall you discussing that earlier.)

R259 I'm glad you like the thread :) the shortest call I've had is 1 minute. those are usually because I won't talk about topics that are no nos and they hang up. typically my calls go anywhere from 15 minutes to hours. the longest call I ever did was almost 15 hours. my rate was $1.99 at the time and my take was $1.25 a minute, that was a very good day!

The OP obviously has a LOT of time on his/her hands. You'd think he/she would be too busy making tons of money on phone sex calls to post over and over and over and over and over on Datalounge.

R261 clearly has a lot of time on his hands as well.

He’s posted NINE times in a thread he considers fake.

Please, put down the Doritos, grab your cane, and go outside.

Don’t let unemployment and obesity define you.

R238 That is a business person, and many will be predatory and take advantage of weak people. Capitalism.

Yes R263, that's why I wondered if 'our' PSO ever had any qualms if she realised she was talking to some sad lonely person. The one my teammate got involved with told him she looked like an actress from a well-known TV series here 'but with slightly larger breasts'! My hunch is that she more likely looked like an extra from Prisoner Cell Block H. Guess I'll never know if this PSO has anything resembling a conscience since mine is about the only question she's chosen not to respond to.

I used to do psychic readings over a 900 line. Part-time for many years. From home. I had a great shark loopy boss who believed in her business as well as in all of her readers abilities. I had to audition several times. She told us if we felt that a caller was in deep mental distress or otherwise out of control that we should direct them elsewhere. The regulations only allowed any caller to charge up to $150 a day. That's a lot when a caller gets attached to you as a psychic guide and wise friend.

I AM psychic, with a great voice and imagination. I tried my best to be ethical and kind and honest. Sometimes we can't get a read. Sometimes we see painful or catastrophic events that have yet to happen. It was very important to me to both read the vibe and assess the stability of the caller. I guess that doesn't matter much on a sex line because they pretty much tell you what they want and then you use your repertoire of well rehearsed tricks. But I am VERY good sex too. We only made 1$ a minute off a $3.99 per minute call. My question is - was I in the wrong line? Should I have been having the creative sex with the pigs? P.S. I am a dude.

What is your prediction?

"Please, put down the Doritos, grab your cane, and go outside. Don’t let unemployment and obesity define you."

Honey, I'm not the one getting my jollies from the babblings of a transparent troll. The stupidity of losers like you never ceases to amaze me. You must lead a very lonely, barren life. I'm sorry for you, even though you are a very unpleasant mental defective.

My intuitive sense and numerology time calibrations suggest that R266 is neither young or happy. No one under 60 would use words such as "jollies" and "babblings" or "Honey" in one sentence. I wouldn't be surprised if you're a Gemini or Sagittarius gay man. I'm sorry. Does the initial "C" mean anything to you?

"My intuitive sense and numerology time calibrations suggest that [R266] is neither young or happy."

Your"numerology time calibrations?" You sound like quite the airhead freak. And by the way, words indicate the extent of one's vocabulary, not age. You're not very bright, are you? I think that's sad.

Some of you bitches really know how to take the fun out of a thread. Stop with the troll shit.

I'm sorry R268 but our time is up. I know all of your secrets here on DataLounge and will delve into the rest of your life in my dreamscape. Your vocabulary and the vibrations of your typing betray and deliver you. Don't be ashamed of your advanced age. The truth is not always surprising, but it can always be illustrative. I can help you. I MUST expose the truth of your life. Your obsessions with supermodels and U know who, your need for multiple identities and your very understandable hurt about being born a Gemini gay male. What happened in 1961? Please call back tomorrow.

R270 is, as they say, TRIGGERED! Also not in touch with reality. It is too sad. His has my pity.

OP, are you an aspiring actress, tired of being typecast, frustrated with your acting coach, and working hard for the money in NYC?

I’m currently trying to become a pso but I need help finding a legitimate place to start I’m a single mother just trying to make ends meet

Do you Skype?

Tell us about the sexiest call you ever received?