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I can’t masturbate without porn

Is there something wrong with me or is that normal ?

by Anonymousreply 30October 15, 2018 2:17 PM

I was watching a porn on my desktop computer once and the electric went off. Without the visuals I couldn't 'finish'. I tried to remember what I was watching but it wasn't the same.

I have to say I've only been with a couple guys in my life who I'd consider masturbatory material. I often have to think of someone else to cum with a guy. And I'm not talking a bout a porno stud; just someone else.

by Anonymousreply 1October 12, 2018 2:18 AM

Porn makes it easier. If it was gone from your life you would recover and begin to have orgasms with just your thoughts. No worries lad.

by Anonymousreply 2October 12, 2018 2:20 AM

Sometimes it’s the timing. If the video goes for too long you don’t want to cum too soon until you get to the best bit which is usually towards the end.

by Anonymousreply 3October 12, 2018 2:21 AM

Once I discovered free porn, I don't jerk off without it. Yes, it's become an addiction

by Anonymousreply 4October 12, 2018 2:56 AM

I can't remember the last time I jacked off without porn.

by Anonymousreply 5October 12, 2018 2:59 AM

There are worse things. As long as you have no moral opposition to porn and it’s not overtaking your life, just enjoy it.

by Anonymousreply 6October 12, 2018 3:03 AM

OP It's the new normal.

by Anonymousreply 7October 12, 2018 3:12 AM

I have a very vivid imagination and many rape fantasies in mind that can’t be paralleled by even the most extreme porn, so it’s not an issue to conjure the necessary imagery for autoerotic release.

by Anonymousreply 8October 12, 2018 3:12 AM

I like foreigners so I watch different nationalities amateur pron.

by Anonymousreply 9October 12, 2018 3:47 AM

I (27 year old male) am the same way, OP. Check out Your Brain on Porn and NoFap.

by Anonymousreply 10October 12, 2018 3:49 AM

That's interesting. I have heard of young men (gay and straight) playing porn in the background while they're having sex. Just because it's becoming common doesn't mean it's right. I think you need to find out what stimulates you and explore, discover your needs. Can you not think of what you like? Also, it might be because you don't like the skin your in so you need an distraction. Sleep naked and walk around your place naked, sounds dumb but try it.

by Anonymousreply 11October 12, 2018 3:57 AM

What's being right got to do with it r11? You yourself say you have to find what stimulates you. By the next generation it won't be just video images while having sex. There's gonna be AI robots and VR sex.

by Anonymousreply 12October 12, 2018 4:07 AM

Welcome to the new world. I agree that VR will kill what little sex people are still having. Now fraus need to accept the reality that porn is an inescapable component of men’s sex lives. It’s so ingrained that the real thing is often less satisfying / natural / stimulating.

by Anonymousreply 13October 12, 2018 4:14 AM

I miss fantasy masterbation, but ever since the iPad/iPhone, I have to watch porn as well climax. Before, I could Master bate thinking about a hot guy I saw on the bus earlier that day

by Anonymousreply 14October 12, 2018 4:15 AM

Since men spend most of the time thinking about sex, the withering away of that part of our brain that fantasizes will result in a less imaginative and creative species.

by Anonymousreply 15October 12, 2018 4:33 AM

Get a blog, gurl.

by Anonymousreply 16October 12, 2018 4:35 AM

R11 I have a problem similar to yours. I can't masturbate without Golden Girls on in the background.

by Anonymousreply 17October 12, 2018 5:26 AM

I’ll be in trouble if there’s no porn

by Anonymousreply 18October 12, 2018 9:57 AM

^ like what, your prostate will explode and cover the town in an inch of nacreous permacum?

by Anonymousreply 19October 12, 2018 10:37 AM

I can only masturbate on the bus - I need an unwitting audience and the stench of the homeless Is that weird?

by Anonymousreply 20October 12, 2018 10:51 AM

R20 no dear, you just be you.

by Anonymousreply 21October 12, 2018 11:18 AM

Always quicker and easier with porn here too. But I admit it’s probably a thing I do because my imagination is a little lazy. I did it since high-school. For everyday, porn is simple and cool with the perfect tag now. Tag changed everything in porn . Ah and... I’m a bi-girl mostly in men those years. In a couple. And in love with a bi guy. (Life is complicated) I confess really enjoying gay-porn too.

by Anonymousreply 22October 12, 2018 11:26 AM

With smartphones, it’s impossible to even be without porn. You’re walking around with easy access to it right there in your pocket.

by Anonymousreply 23October 14, 2018 1:20 AM

OP: It just means you're dead inside.

by Anonymousreply 24October 14, 2018 1:25 AM

This thread is useless without porn links to 🤛 + 🖕🏻+ 😈

by Anonymousreply 25October 14, 2018 1:40 AM

Use your imagination, R25.

by Anonymousreply 26October 14, 2018 1:44 AM

It gets worse OP. Wait until you can't masturbate TO porn or anything else for that matter. Say hello to your senior self.

by Anonymousreply 27October 14, 2018 1:58 AM

Heathens! You're all heathens!

by Anonymousreply 28October 14, 2018 2:03 AM

French Postcards anyone?

by Anonymousreply 29October 15, 2018 1:40 PM

[quote] I have heard of young men (gay and straight) playing porn in the background while they're having sex.

My ex was like that, and he was well into his 50s. That was just one of the reasons we broke up.

To answer the OP, if I wake up with an erection I can jerk off without porn, but if I'm going to have to go from zero to 60 by myself, I need a little visual stimulation.

by Anonymousreply 30October 15, 2018 2:17 PM
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