Male Escorts

Yes and they will hook you up with any drug you want for the right price. Fore warned. These guys are crazier than you.

Make sure and get into the back of his van when he pulls up. He will want to immobilize you quick, then get you to his dungeon for the killing and dismemberment with a minimum of fuss.

A fully necessary part of gay life

Don't use anyone who doesn't have a good review here.

I did once just to cross it off my bucket list.

It was via an agency/male brothel type of place.

The guy was young and hot and accommodating and clean (showering together before and after was part of the service) but no hotter than guys I'd picked up off Grindr. He claimed to be a student at a very good liberal arts college who was doing it for the cash and the adventure and his vocabulary was at a level to make that believable.

No desire to do it again, at least not till I'm older and swearing I look ten years younger and am really just "fit-fat" but I was glad I'd tried it just for the experience.

It's an opportunity to fuck a porn star, if that is something that appeals to you.

I did it twice. First time was 20 years ago and the second tie was last year. They can be hot but when you realize they're just in it for the money, it's not a fun experience.

So, no luck on Grindr once the face pix get exchanged, huh?

An escort can be fun if you allow it to be. If you are older and formerly attractive or have never been attractive, it is a chance to be with another person who is at their physical prime. Enjoy touching them, tasting them and letting them do things to you that help you cum. Remember that they would not pay for your time or sexual services, so it is off balance, so do not think that there is anything romantic to the encounter, even if they are giving you the impression that they are having a good time too, even if they are able to cum. They are in it for cash and know how the game is played. If you find one guy in particular you like a lot, it is ok to see him again but always remember that this person would not pay for your time and learn to just enjoy the connection to the person's sensuality. People can become addicted to escorts, just like gambling or drugs.

R5 again-- in many ways it was a whole lot like a Grindr hook-up, only with cash exchanged at the beginning.

But otherwise-- you see photos, you meet, exchange, small talk for about 30 seconds, fuck, clean up and leave.

^^Oh, and neither one of you knows the other's real name

The escorts in Atlanta are wild!

I don't think the vast majority of them are good looking... do you? Look at the face... not the body or dick. Face.

I've only seen a few rare facially good looking ones on those sites. Better looking guys are on apps honestly.

Yeah.....and just an fyi, these guys are escorts because they're young, fit, and/or big dicked - not because they give awesome blowjobs or rim jobs --- they may, but the expectation is the customer wants to blow them, wants to feel their body, or wants to get fucked..

The ONE time I contacted one, he was *impossible* to make an actual appointment with. He changed the date 5 times and I was just done. Then he texted me again a month later if I was still interested... uh no.

Im just afraid of getting herpes.

[quote]Im just afraid of getting herpes.

You're probably just as likely to be exposed to herpes from a Grindr contact or some random guy you meet in a bar.

Wow, some are $300 to $500 or more. I had no idea.

PLEASE, don't forget to tip well. These escorts go above and beyond, and it can't be easy to get hard, feign attraction for old pudgy gay men with breasts and bad breath.

Wait... Im supposed to tip?!

Anyone ever hire Draven Torres? He seems like fun fuck.

Vito Golden in Atlanta Rentmen is wild

The only person I knew who did it was someone who would regularly get four hook ups a day with looks ranging from homely to hot. So many guys would hit on him. He thought the escort was good but he didn't rave about it. Some people really need a hobby that isn't sex.

Yes, tip $20 at least.

Why tip an independent contractor?

I've never been able to get past the idea of making someone have sex with me who wouldn't do it without being paid. I guess I empathize too much, because I couldn't deal with being in that situation myself.

R26, Yeah, I'm pretty much the same way. I think if I did it, I'd keep thinking "Is he counting the minutes 'till it's over? Does he wish I wouldn't kiss him?"

No fuss, No muss....love a good escort. Not a crack head street prostitute (although some are hot) but a legitimate escort who is professional and clean

OP - You've come to the right site to ask about whores, er, I mean 'escorts' for old men - they are so many pathetic, desperate men on here that only get touched when they pay someone to do so. So sad. . .

How dare you! What ever happened to romance and old-fashioned courting?

Like a mani-pedi only faster.

Rentmen have the best drugs. They will deliver also.

R30 lol what you did was not courting, La Spacey!

Draven Torres has retired.

Nice girls do not kiss on the first date. Get to know him first.

I love prostitutes. No fuss, no muss. Btw, whatever happened to Killian James? Is he still alive? Did he go to rehab?

R29, Tell us about your very active sex life. How were you able to find time to post on DL?

R29 lol. Karma is a bitch. You are old and don't even know it. Tomorrow will be here in 7 minutes.

I'm way past my prime and found two different college aged semi-twinks on the old CL. 200 bucks for an hour (!) and just oral and jerking. No kissing or anal but that's fine by me. One kid was this mellow blond surfer dude; gave decent head, was pleasant enough. Talked about sex, life, coming out (he hadn't yet), .The other was tall, boyish but a bit uptight. Nice body but had the most ridiculously thin pencil dick. He shot a nice big load from it nonetheless. Anyway, okay experiences but I never repeated with them or anyone else.. I mainly enjoyed the convenience., like ordering Dominos but instead of pizza, you get to fuck the pizza guy's mouth.

Don't know if this counts but I get masseurs to fuck me. Not sure which I like better the fuck or the massage but sure nice to get off at the end of an hour long massage

I've used escorts a few times. Don't recommend using the same one for too long or too often. They get ideas 'above their station' and take advantage--eg, asking for loans and the like.

R38 - Look, if no one wants your nasty old ass, just accept it, and move on. Find a nice hobby.

If you're lonely, find a friend.

But don't be just another creepy old man. . .

r42 Please go back to your nursery. The grownups are talking here.

Nice girls dream a lot about it. Nice girls they do it too.

A mechanical, empty experience. Save your money and watch free porn.

My friend got addicted to masseurs and would develop feelings for some and believed it was mutual. It was really sad to see as they took advantage of him. so I've never wanted to get one myself. Now he's ruined cuz he can only see himself with super hot guys and won't "settle" for anything else. So he's pretty much given up on dating.

Killian James was advertising recently.

Hell yes OP, but ironically I did it when money was more disposable and I was in my 20's and 30's! Now that I am in my fifties I would never dream of spending the money! By the way, it seems the price - $200-$300 has stayed the same!

I hooked up with a muscle stud from Providence RI a decade ago when I was in Boston on business. His driving to Boston was added to the price. It was worth every cent. He was built for days and his dick was hard before he was undressed (Viagra? I don't care.) If I lived in Boston it would have been a regular arrangement. I found him on that muscle service board that I can no longer access. I still get off thinking about his huge pecs and glutes.

I would consider it, but I'd be reluctant to do much more than being a voyeur.

If you pay for sex, you are paying for the shell of the person, nothing more. Enjoy the sensuality of the man, but don't get it mixed up with emotions. If you can't do that, then stay away.

I'd love to use a male whore hard. You can do stuff you can't do to your partner,

How dare you! This is disgusting, you are all animals. As a heterosexual and happily married man, I find this kind of behavior repulsive.

R36 - Killian James faked his own death apparently so he sounds pretty stable...

Male escorts are in trouble if the economy tanks. just saying.

Really? I thought there would be more escorts if the economy tanks.

Yes there will be more escorts, thus lowering the rates. Just like Uber did.!

If the economy starts to tank, it's Obama's fault, right Donald?

I've Hired two porn stars over the years. One was underwhelming thanks to his overacting. Now I know why his dialogue was minimal in those flicks. Also, his large cock wouldn't stay rock hard so his topping was mediocre too. The other more than delivered the goods. Fucked me hard in his sling then chatted me up afterwards.

names r59!!!

Yes you should tip escorts. It's a "service industry."

Tried twice and both were bad experiences.

They are self-employed, therefore no tipping is necessary.

It doesn't matter r63, be a decent person and tip at least $20.

I did "full body rundowns" back in my 20's and it was quite the life lesson. For the most part the guys are not attractive whatsoever, but you embrace their humanity. The majority were polite and kind, a lot of them were very nervous too. You realize that whatever their story, these guys were just looking to experience human contact/physical touch. One of my favorites was a very old guy who was a veteran from WW2. I'm thinking he was in his 70's or 80's. Very slim and short and had a huge dick. He also had super old faded blue anchor tattoos on both forearms. After getting his "rubdown" he'd give me an extra $100 to blow me. Even after getting jacked off he was still horny so I figured what the heck. He was very feisty and talkative and a widower. He talked about war and his wife who died whom he missed everyday. The rest of my customers were usually middle aged white men, very out of shape and seemingly lonely and/or not "getting it" at home. I had a few very nasty clients though, ones who remind me of what some of you dataloungers are like. This transaction is a two way street. If you're nasty and demanding, and cheap, it's usually not going to end well. Clock watchers and stinky fucks were shown the door. I had one guy who was nasty from the start, spouting very negative and hateful stuff. I told him he needed to be respectful or he'd get the boot. He didn't even get hard and couldn't. After 40 minutes I figured we were done. He starts screaming about how I'm not "into it" and asking why I'm doing this. He throws the money at me and says that I'm a hustler.

In short dataloungers, be nice and not a dick. and yes, I think most guys who need to pay for sex are kind of sad.

And what do you think of guys who need to make money by offering sex?

Kind of sad too. When I was doing it I was at a bad point in my life. Kind of desperate as I was getting "let go" at various jobs for refusing to be in the closet for other people's comfort. Some of these people who were uncomfortable were gay themselves. Typical self loathing bootlickers. Gave me a good look at life and how complicated things are. Just because someone is gay, does not mean they have your best interest in mind. It's when I came to the realization that there is no such thing as a "gay community". I wasn't hooked on drugs either and don't drink. I know some fellow "masseurs" who were complete messes and didn't last long.

R64. Let's hope you never have to walk in similar shoes as the guys you took money from who you thought "sad", even the ones who were polite, respectful and tipped you. Its too bad they did not know your true feelings about them so they could have paid for time with someone more empathetic and caring.

R67 - Are you for real? You want a prostitute to care about you? Aside from the fact, they're grossed out by you? Fuck, some of you old things are so delusional. Get a dog if you want someone to care for you. What is it about you that no one does care? Maybe your money is better spent on therapy, and not whores. There is obviously a big problem with you, if you're this sad and lonely. . .

I'm a jew....too hard to part with the money, I think it would in uncomfortable and the dreaded std's.

R68. Your reply mirrors yourself and your own internal struggles. Sad for you.

Remember that we are professionals and should be tipped accordingly!

{R68} a tad vicious,,,,

R68 is off her rocker and might benefit from cradling a soothing cup of hot cocoa.

I would advise against it and would suggest you work on your relationship instead

How is R68 off rocker?

Interesting chat board about escorts. Many of the topics covered in this thread explored more on the board. Be warned - this chat board can be a rabbit hole, and yes it seems that many of the posters are fairly deluded old queens. Enjoy!

WOW...what is with all the hate??

R68 is definitely not the hooker with the heart of gold.

R67, you may want to work on your comprehension skills. When I said sad, I didn't mean pathetic or anything else negative. Sometimes sad is just sad. Although these men were polite and intelligent, I thought it sad that we live in a world where people have to pay for companionship, even its just talking. I even stated I that i myself was sad too while participating. The ones who are pathetic are the ones who think the whore owes them something. Also the phony hustlers who can't see the johns humanity are pathetic too. And as a side note, I would never pay for sex, it can always be had if you look for it and aren't expecting fucking Jon Eric hexum or whatever the fuck his name is you all worship.

Well as an eldergay, I like to have sex with a good looking person who gets me rock hard occasionally. I’m not young and good looking anymore so the only way that will happen is by paying. I’m not looking for company. I’m looking for someone in good shape with a great dick who will turn me on. Yes, I could get another 55 year old guy for companionship and intimacy. But the biology of sex still drives me towards more attractive - and younger - men. Not sad - just biology. But it’s also fine if people need to pay for more emotional intimacy - that’s what therapists do. Ideally we would all have perfect mates to have sex with and who are great listeners and emotional support. Life doesn’t always turn out as hoped.

On UK websites I don't know about the USA many offer the boyfriend experience rather than just sex .

R79. Instead of telling someone to work on their comprehension skills, maybe you should review what you wrote and how it struck a nerve with people. Your continued insensitivity and attempts to justify yourself with your less than kind comments reveals so much about you. Just saying.

will they stick their toes in my asshole if i ask them to?

R80. Thank you for spelling it out. Spending time with an escort is as old as time. It is not for everyone; however, it should not be generalized as sad either. The escorts and johns are together not from desire, but for some other reason that we as outsiders do not fully understand. It amazes me how people are so quick to throw labels on the participants.

r83 only if you agree to clean their cuticles afterward.

I've rented guys four times, I think. It was a lot like being with a trick you didn't pay for—that random. Only one of the four is memorable in a positive way. I wish I'd simply called him all four times. The others included: (1) huge dick, but owner too drunk to get it up; I left without paying; (2) guy who posed so far away, all I could see was what a great body he had, including his cock. His face, well, let's just leave it at "deceptive." (3) someone I don't even remember.

As I said, I should have called the first guy all four times. At the time, though, I was afraid I'd fall in love with him. Or at least become very deeply addickted. I wonder if he survived the '90s. The name he gave me was Jason. This was in DC. He told me he was a writer, and that he'd grown up in Morristown, NJ. He looked something like James Franco, though no one had heard of James Franco yet.

As noted you pay psychological therapists to care about you. So what's wrong with an escort? You might be lucky and they genuinely like you though they would not spend time with you if they weren't being paid. But you both know this.

I do like the fact of non emotional attachments and sensual massages and would get one every week if I could afford it but I can't. But it's just as well because 99.9 percent of those listed on sites I do not find attractive. Many look old and crusty or smile like serial killers.

And I'm going to burst your cloyingly sentimental delusional bubble but often throughout history marriage was nothing more than a business transaction with a woman being a prostitute/housekeeper made legal in the eyes of the government.

At least be honest. There's nothing but rationalization and self delusion at every level of this transaction, by both parties to it. I need money, you've got it, and to get it, I've got to have sex with you no matter what you look like. Good times.

In this theme... what does this text suggest to you:

Are you in need of a big, strong pair of well trained, intuitive & healing hands? I'm one of the best! Over 20 years experience. Extremely skilled & Intuitive. I work on all body types, genders, professions. The session is a combination of Swedish, Deep Tissue, Esalen & Sports modalities, tailored to your body's needs and comfort levels.

R89. LOL.. Happy Ending is negotiable.

I don't use escorts only because they are way too pricey in NYC and it would be awful to pay for something ordinary. I am on the other side of 50, but remember when I was in my 20s and 30s and could attract an "escort type" of hunky guy, it was usually the case where the hotter guy usually was not that great at sex. My best sex has been with nerdy/regular types. Have never seen a nerdy type in the escort ads so far. That being said, if someone told me specifically about someone escorting who was truly amazing, I would probably try it out. I guess I need a little reassurance to get started. By some of the comments here, I see why people keep their use of escorts to themselves for the most part.

I just had a beautiful, blond, very nerdy escort in NYC yesterday. He's on [the most popular site], and you can tell he's geeky in his add. He also has a veeeery slight speech impediment, which was endearing. We cuddled and talked about anime after I busted. Granted...he still took my cock like a champ and used disgusting poppers...but he was def nerdy.

Pro-tip: Always hug your hooker like an old friend if you meet in a hotel lobby (if there's restricted elevator access, or you're being secure). It looks weird to shake someone's hand, and take them up to your room.

R92 Thanks.

Does anyone know anything about hiring a hustler in the Dominican Republic? The men there are so dreamy.

Aren't you worried some one is going to show up at your door and slaughter you?

Guys pay to advertise on [the most popular site] and [the most popular site for massages], so that's kind of reassuring. Kind of.

Back in the day, I got scammed out of the payment twice on BP. I was sooooo shook the first time haha, but my dumb ass wasn't going to call the police.

R96. How were you scammed? Teach n Preach so we can learn, thanks.

I worry about having an overnight with an escort. I'm not being flippant here but would I be best advised to hide my bank cards before I go to sleep for instance or hide my mobile similarly to be on the safe side?

i'm scared they'll rape and rob me.

Mid thirties here. I've requested services from escorts twice in my life. One charged me a discounted rate and the other didn't bother charging me at all.

Both satisfying experiences but I'm oddly grateful I don't desire to do it again.

Recommendations: be clear about who you are, what you want and why. "I need to get fucked passionately tonight because I'm lonely and depressed," would be a surprisingly refreshing and even stimulating admission any decent escort to hear. The best ones consider it a job they enjoy and are good at. Knowing what you want and need from them gives them a lot to working.

Of course, "I want to fuck just cause" works too if that's truly your only reason, lol.

I've thought about doing this but afraid it'll be some cop trying to arrest people for it.

"Does anyone know anything about hiring a hustler in the Dominican Republic? The men there are so dreamy."

I wouldn't do that if I were you

R97:

Scam #1: I met the guy at his apartment complex office. I parked and he got into my passenger seat. He requested the money up front and I gave it to him. I start backing up to pull out and-oh he dropped his phone. I should pull back in, so that he can search for it. He gets out, looks around and then tells me that he might have left it in his apartment. He walks back into his complex. After 10 mins, I text and never receive an answer lol. I understand after another 10 mins of unanswered texts and leave.

Scam #2: I meet some trashy (but hot trashy) skater punk at his “grandma’s house” or w/e. I park outside and knock. He answers and looks great, but tells me that we have to be really quiet in case his uncle comes home. I go in and he asks me to put the money on the coffee table. We head back to the bedroom....very quietly. We get in and make small talk. We undress...very quietly. He hesitantly gets naked. And then we hear something outside in the larger house. He panicks, pulls up his pants and runs out. I hear arguing. After 10 mins, I get a text that he called the police. WTF? I get dressed and as I walk out, the money is gone of course. I just leave and text back “good job, asshole”.

To make Scam #2 clearer, I stayed in the bedroom, while the guy went out to “confront” his family member.

Maybe don’t give the money up front? Maybe put it in a neutral place and don’t let them get it till it’s over?

And yes I would hide everything valuable just in case. Or do it in a hotel while traveling. Not sure about going to their place. Seems risky.

No money up front was definitely the moral of the story, R105. And yeah, when they come over, valuables are locked up.

Atlanta Rentmen is full of Drug Dealing Hustlers. If you go there you have entered into the Valley of Hell. Have fun but be careful.

You don’t pay for sex.

You pay them to leave.

I found a nice ATL masseur on [the site for massages]. Lived in a nice, clean Buckhead apt and I had a great time. No drugs that I could see.

That's really original, r108. Who writes your dialogue?

Anyone ever hired a male escort and then bumped into them unexpectedly years later socially eg a restaurant or party or even on the gay scene. How did you handle it? Did you acknowledge each other?

About 15 years ago, I contacted someone to meet up while I was on a business trip to San Fran. But then I got cold feet and called to cancel, telling him my trip was cancelled. His name was Braeden Casey, he was a porn actor who was a little goofy looking with a killer bod, but seemed like a nice guy. But I just couldn't go through with it.

[quote]Anyone ever hired a male escort and then bumped into them unexpectedly years later socially eg a restaurant or party or even on the gay scene. How did you handle it? Did you acknowledge each other?

Imagine all of Vairst Letty's former customers running into her at a State Dinner.

Ooh naughty!!! [R113]

i'm scared of them tried to hurt my flower.

all the good escorts are dead, alas...

On the contrary, all the good escorts are < 20 years old 😂

Is it rude to ask an escort to douche?

I moved to LA for a job and was in my third year. I was 33 and average looking. On a lark, I attended an GLB staff mixer, then a few weeks later, I was invited to a men's gathering one Sunday afternoon at some guy's estate in San Marino. I told my drinking buddy about it on a Friday night and he flipped out. He explained that this was the equivalent of the Super Bowl for LA's A-list gay mafia. Well, smell me! Then he asked who was going to be my date. My date? Was I supposed to take a date?

On Saturday, I called one of my coworkers, who was also invited, to ask what was up with this. He told me that it would be about 100 people and I should feel very flattered to have been invited. He could not go that weekend, but he said that I must not show up unaccompanied. Everybody else would bring their partners, and it would be awkward for me to show up single. So, I called an escort service.

The escort called me in the afternoon and I explained the situation. He'd never heard of this thing, nor of the host. I told him I needed a companion for 3-4 hours, and we would be done by 5PM. Outdoor thing on a lawn, with drinks and finger food. That's all I knew. I picked him up and we went to the party. On the way there, he asked me tons of questions about my past, my education, hobbies, passions, travel, etc.

Those host, and the guests, were assholes. I was not the youngest invitee, but I was close. My "date" was attentive, socially interactive, and dazzling. He never left my side, except to freshen up drinks. When another guest would start looking down his nose at me, or make a crack at my expense, my escort deftly shut them down and redirected the chat to something else.

We were among the first to leave; I took him back to his building, gave him his $400, and drove off. It was some of the best money I ever spent. By Monday, back at work, everybody knew about me and my date -- not that he was a paid companion, but that he impressed the bitchy crowd and was so loyal to me.

So, yeah, I have hired an escort and do not regret it at all. (He called me a few months later to ask me out, not as a client, but for real.)

R119, no one at that party recognized your date as a hired escort? Really?

Nope. Not that I'm aware of.

I ran into the escort at Mickey's a couple years later. We had a steady job and no longer worked as an escort. We became friends even . He now manages a large retail store in LA and is quite successful. Mind you, this was 20 years ago when he was 25 and I was 33.

"I had a few very nasty clients though, ones who remind me of what some of you dataloungers are like."

So tell more stories, please! These real-life experiences are fascinating!

R119. Sounds like a gay remake of Pretty Woman

You can find someone looking for "gen" on Grindr and give him $50, who why would someone pay $300 for someone on RentMen?

R124. For real???? Where do you live, Pakistan?

50 bucks on Grindr might get you some diseased gay-for-pay trash in a shady part of town. Most attractive Grindr twinks definitely won’t be impressed with that.

Most college twinks on Grindr consider themselves waaaay too good to sell ass...until you cross 300 bucks, perhaps less in rural areas. But even then, there’s never a guarantee. And they always want pictures or silly dirty talk, AS IF this is a normal hookup 🙄. And STILL, even after you make it clear that they’re getting paid, they want to wait for hours, because some guy hotter than you might come along. It can be infuriating, but it boils down to the fact that they aren’t taking you seriously, and prob don’t need the money.

On RM, you know what you’re signing up for. It’s always easier to initiate the conversation, because the guy is a pro. He’s not going to ask for pictures, because it doesn’t matter what you look like. Most guys want to keep the dirty talk to a minimum for obv legal reasons. The quality of the best escorts on RM will often be lower than the best college twinks on Grindr, but the ease of transaction often makes up for it, IMO.

I was fortunate when I lived in FL. I found a gorgeous blond thing on Grindr from a local university who was saving up for a car. I got to worship his creamy little hole loads of times.

Do not tell your boyfriend and don't put it on your credit card.

Looks, looks, looks, looks, looks...how does someone else's good looks get you to come? I really don't get it.

No r125 - sezy Puerto Rican and Dominican guys based in Dyker Heights and Sunset Park (who still live at home) all have hit me up for $25-$40 blow jobs. I have not taken advantage of them. Yet.

R128, as a lifelong fatty, I missed out on sleeping around in my youth. So I’ve reached a point in my life when I not only hate myself, but I also fetishize and worship youth and virility. I am extremely sexually attracted to the sexy twink that I never was. So the lust is there, but it originates from a deeper, much more fucked up place.

In the years before Grindr, my partner and I lived in Times Square. We always jokingly 'fantasied' about the hustlers standing around Port Authority. They were always hot, Puerto Rican types. Then one year, for my birthday, I came home and my partner had brought home a hustler from Port Authority.

Obviously, the prospect of it was frightening at first - but he was a really sweet kid. Hot as fuck, we had a great romp, the three of us. No diseases - and the whole thing cost like $60.

No regrets.

bump

[R113] or anyone else for that matter - Please I'd love to hear more about hustlers and hustling experiences etc in the pre Internet and pre grindr age.

Sorry meant [R131] ^^

Was so much easier when you could meet them on the street. The trans used to be a regular presence - and in a weird way, I felt safe with them on the street in the post-club hours. Occasionally would meet a hot cis Hispanic guy and would occasionally shift from a pickup to a negotiation. But it gave me confidence to try new things - and so began my love of Hispanic men. Though sizemeat was unpredictable, the experience was much more exciting and less transactional. As was everything back in the day I guess.

[R135] How does the interaction were sex is agreed take place? Is there a signal they give you that it's OK to approach wanting sex? Apparently there have been rentboys galore in pubs I have been in some times and they have paired off with horny customers but all this happened under my nose without me noticing at the time!

R29, you're not alone. We feel your pain.

The rule for most escorts is you have to pay up front. This way the client cant run away without paying after they cum

I know guys who are addicted to hiring rentguys.

One is a married bi-guy, who I've met a few times as a FB. He told me he has hired 2 or 3 at a time. The married guy is hot and in his 30s--I think he could get anyone he wanted, but he says he doesn't want to waste time on apps and wants specific types to fuck him.

I, on the other hand, need a guy to actually like me to have sex with him. I guess, as I get older, there will be fewer and fewer who will, but I tend to like older guys anyway.

I have a friend who was once an escort. He's handsome with a nice body so he had many clients. His stories are so interesting. He told me that the people who hired him ran the gamut--hot, fit men to out-of-shape guys; professionals to blue collar. It definitely wasn't just old ugly men at all.

The great looking clients knew what they wanted and liked the fact they didn't waste time to get sex. For repeat clients, he was a paid fuck buddy. A few of them fell in love with him--and he had to distance himself from them.

He's an interesting, educated guy, so I understand how people might mix up sex with feelings for him. He's a successful lawyer now.

"He's a successful lawyer now."

So he's still screwing people for money.

R136 - usually it was on the street, so a little easier to cruise and connect than in a bar with a lot of eyes watching I think it would be harder in a bar. And in NYC, I think it’s pretty rare to find hustlers in a bar. Though 20 years ago, there were a few hustler bars in Times Square - as with everything else fun, all closed now. I think you have to have some balls and be willing to take a no - or have a few drinks. A hustler will also likely be open and even make eye contact. Maybe you are too good looking or uptight looking. Also - hooking up requires risk. Put yourself out there. Be willing to take rejection without spinning into low self-esteem. Rejection is character and strength building.

For a brief time in the late 90s, I intersected with the porn world in LA by writing about gay charity events, the AVN awards, etc. I would interview performers, and the nicer, more reliable ones would agree to do promotional photo shoots for other projects. These were more higher level “stars”....and I remember thinking they were quite nice. For instance, when they took my pic with with Vince Rockland, he suddenly picked me up and carried me in his arms! Unexpected! And he insisted we take Ken Ryker’s pic, even though I didn’t recognize him. I remember Ryker seemed a little shy, almost. But it was so polite for the other actor to get him some publicity.

I was so naive, I didn’t realize these performers were also escorts, to a large degree. At one event, I was having a nice time with one early in the evening, and he was saying he had to leave to go on a date, then was coming back later. I wondered, “Why would you schedule a date in the middle of another event?” Another hooked me up with his friend who was a great amateur photoshop expert (he worked in computers) and I wondered why they were so close when they were so different and from such different worlds.

Ah, youth!

I think many of them were sex addicts - they’d have sex on film, go to sex parties, have sex with paying clients...sex was their life.

I ended up with some GREAT columns and photos, though. Interestingly, the sexiest and best looking guy I met at that time was a makeup artist.

I had a bad experience. I'm not attractive or young. I wasn't expecting fireworks. Didn't get 'em. He kept looking at the time. I could tell he didn't like touching me.

Aww we....sorry you had a sad experience, r144

Being a hooker is somewhat like being an actor. It’s their job to fake it! No customer in any industry should leave feeling WORSE about themselves.

That’s bad business practices.

R144, his loss. I'd report him to the Better Business Bureau. De-erection of duty.

r140 So you actually met Mike Branson?

Ignore-dar reveals all three of these posts are from the same poster:

[quote] OP - You've come to the right site to ask about whores, er, I mean 'escorts' for old men - they are so many pathetic, desperate men on here that only get touched when they pay someone to do so. So sad. . .

[quote] R38 - Look, if no one wants your nasty old ass, just accept it, and move on. Find a nice hobby. If you're lonely, find a friend. But don't be just another creepy old man. . .

[quote] R67 - Are you for real? You want a prostitute to care about you? Aside from the fact, they're grossed out by you? Fuck, some of you old things are so delusional. Get a dog if you want someone to care for you. What is it about you that no one does care? Maybe your money is better spent on therapy, and not whores. There is obviously a big problem with you, if you're this sad and lonely. . .

Someone has a wee bit of a fixation, it seems.

Someone has a wee bit, one suspects.

[quote] The ones who are pathetic are the ones who think the whore owes them something. Also the phony hustlers who can't see the johns humanity are pathetic too. And as a side note, I would never pay for sex, it can always be had if you look for it and aren't expecting fucking Jon Eric hexum or whatever the fuck his name is you all worship.

So let me get this clear: you worked as a prostitute, yet you're claiming you consider yourself above ever hiring someone else for sex?

Wow. You must really hate yourself.

I had a beautiful Brazilian boyfriend in the 90s who was a hustler in NYC. Beautiful caramel skin with a very large cock. I was able to deal with his way of making money although I was more jealous of all the sex he was having as to him having sex with others... A few of his clients were Falcon porn stars who would come to NY from time to time. Others were older rich men. It ran the gamut. One time a trick staying at the Waldorf got too rough and beat the shit out of him, I remember getting the call to come pick him up. Sad night. I worked hard everyday at normal job and after taxes made in two weeks what he would make in 2 hours. It was bizarre. Toward the end of his time in NY, he would turn down most of the jobs because he just couldn't do it any longer. He was illegal and could not get a legit job at the time. He eventually went back to Brazil because he just couldn't stand being a well paid prostitute. He was raised Catholic so he had a lot of guilt. We were together for almost two years and I saw him go from a casual drug user, to a full blown addict. There is a real price paid by these hustlers, they rarely come out ahead of the game.

Did he die?

Which celebs use male escorts?

Oh r150, what a sad little black and white world you must live in. How ever do you do it? I'm far from hating myself, and yes, I would never pay for sex. If you read what i wrote, you'd probably understand why. There is plenty of free sex out there to have. Sorry you're too stupid, ugly, or just plain miserable to find/get it. So sad

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I would feel sorry for escorts, but these guys are hot as hell. They attract friends and lovers in real life extremely easily. It’s gonna be tough to get sympathy from lifelong uggos like me lol

[quote]I would feel sorry for escorts, but these guys are hot as hell.

Not always.

Whores are whores on or off the clock and are best avoided.