Many years ago, while researching my family tree, had a series of strange events surrounding a great-great grandmother. I had looked previously for any information on her, finding only a one line funeral notice in the old newspaper (on film) 'Mrs. Smith's funeral will be at 10 a.m. Friday'. It made me furious, because she had a first name, was a person, deserved more than that.
Anyhow, months go by, and I was back at the library looking through old newspaper reels for another family member (totally different branch of family). I couldn't find anything on them. My notebook fell open to the page with the g-g grandmother. I noticed that the reel included dates up to her date of death. Not every newspaper was included, very 'broken' dates; this was more of a weekly, neighborhood type of paper. There were many blank screens or partial papers. I got to the date, and I found a complete obituary for her. It contained details of her parents, when she came to the US, all sorts of great information. It also listed that she died from Bright's disease. I'd made a note to look it up to see what that was exactly.
I went back to my parents' home (was visiting and using local library while there). I picked up the daily newspaper, browsing through it before we were to go out. In one of the 'ask Doctor Jones' columns was a question on Bright's disease. I was shaken, but then thought no, it's just coincidence. I had trouble getting to sleep that night, then had a dream where I just remember the feeling of someone saying, it's ok, I'm not trying to scare you.
Fast forward many months. I was in town visiting again, and my mother said, why don't we go out to the cemetery, when the office is open, so they can direct us to the graves of some of these people? They died in late 1800's/early 1900's, in a very old part of this large cemetery. The person in the office said family A is here, family B is almost directly one row back. The rows are one way lanes that are drivable. We found family A, and I can get spooked easily at cemeteries. I was definitely spooked, wouldn't get out of the car. Mom got out and walked around. Found a lot of deceased family members going back to 1870. I said well let me pull the car around to family B (g-g grandmother was part of this group). I am driving along slowly, Mom is a good 100 yards or more away diagonally staying at family A because the office manager said they were almost back to back. I suddenly felt the need to stop the car. I looked to the right, and there was a small obelisk shaped monument - my g-g-grandfather. He got the big monument. I stopped the car and waved to my Mom to walk on down. I tentatively got out to wave to her. Immediately, I got the feeling of, 'it's ok honey, come over here', almost like I was walking into my grandma's kitchen as she was baking. Very welcoming and kind. I could go over to her grave and feel secure. I was extremely tentative if I ventured away from her. Some of her children, her parents, her brother and SIL were also nearby, but I didn't get that grandmotherly feeling anywhere but right by her grave. Never experienced anything like that before or after.